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I've seen a lot of people posting things like this over the past few weeks. I disagree. And let me explain why. This girl would have cheated regardless of OP or not. She probably already has. This type of thing has been going on forever. It is nothing new. Why do you think cultures in the middle east are so protective of their women? They know better than to trust them. In our culture in the west we have a different take on it. Empower women and let them do whatever they want and they will be pr…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 08:35 PM
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it means you should up your standards
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 08:23 PM
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They are exaggerating. If he goes every day I'm sure it's for a little jog, or yoga.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 07:43 PM
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Definitely. Dragged me to the dance floor and took turns grabbing my cock and ass "...while I just stood there and let them because secretly, I liked that they were giving me validation" Next time a girl you don't like tries something like that, you reject her. Do it politely if possible but if they persist be harsh with them and let other people see it. Walking away while they are in mid sentence is one of my favorite ways to do it. Another is grabbing their wrist and moving it away while shaki…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 06:18 AM
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Every marvel movie I've seen has been pretty pathetic. 100% BP.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 05:30 AM
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It would just skew higher, the higher percentage you were. Ex: top 10% = 3 top 5%=4 etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 05:00 AM
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Singles from 22-35 as stated above.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 04:57 AM
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This was one of the biggest epiphanies TRP helped me realize.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 04:53 AM
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This is exactly what meditation is. Training yourself to be aware of and understand the feelings, without acting on them. Among other things.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 05:10 AM
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Lifting will do a lot even if you you drink every night and eat garbage. You'll just never get a low body fat % and your gains won't be as efficient.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 12:30 AM
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I've heard references to foam rollers a few times. What are they and what are they used for?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 11:54 PM
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I'm going through this for the first time in my life. I was ready to soft next this girl because she had been distant and I hadn't seen her in awhile. Thought hard about it, and I'm sure most people would of agreed with me to soft next her, but I decided to try some comfort and right now she is sleeping beside me after 3 amazing rounds of adventurous sex. It's amazing, these are the transformations TRP brings. I would have always been too comforting and the lower SMV in the past. Now I'm the hig…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 06:55 AM
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I'm having trouble getting enough protein in my diet without eating way to many calories. Right now I'm eating so much whey it's disgusting. Any advice on that?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 05:22 PM
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Make strong eye contact with women that you pass by in day to day life. If they hold your gaze say hi. Simple.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 04:15 AM
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Didn't go too well for Ms. Manning
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 09:42 AM
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I'm literally going through this right now. My plate and I made plans to maybe meet on Wednesday, she couldn't but offered Thursday instead. Ok no problem. Thursday she texts me at 2:45 that she has a meeting at 3:30 and can't meet me tonight but that she can on Friday. I take offence to this because one, she didn't know about this meeting earlier and couldn't let me know so I could make other plans? And two because this meeting is going to last all night? I wanted to grill her on what this meet…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 01:57 AM
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In the long run it helps with calibration. I used to be the typical nice guy. Too polite, too willing to give compliments etc. I went to the other end of the spectrum and was just an asshole for awhile. But it taught me where the middle ground is and when to be nice and when to be a dick. I have done this a lot with my personality in order to find myself.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 02:00 AM
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The point wasn't to compare which ones are better or worse. It was to show that watching and following sports without being involved somehow is a time sink, that provides little to no benefit other than a form of entertainment. You could compare sports fanaticism to celebrity worship. Living vicariously through an alpha. Even somewhat of a cult, I've seen hooligans do terrible things in the names of their teams. I enjoy watching the odd Leafs game, especially now that playoffs are starting. But …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 10:09 PM
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I jerk off to midget porn because I enjoy it I take drugs like a fucking champion because I enjoy it I play video games every night because I enjoy it I watch everyone of my team's games because I enjoy it It's all the same shit. Wasting time. If you want to watch a game go ahead, but let's not fool ourselves into thinking it's any different because it's a sport. The people in this thread defending being a sports fanatic but then shitting on gaming and other time wasting activities is pure menta…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 07:42 PM
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A woman of quality wouldn't get into your bed on the first date to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 12:52 AM
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Reread the statement you are replying to and resumbit.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 07:26 PM
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That's your opinion. Personally I go with the idea of Chad as the top <5% of men who have their shit together on all levels. Not just a guy who gets girls. If you're past the beginner stage of TRP you'll realize getting girls is relatively easy.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 07:07 AM
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Don't have a wife and kids in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 01:42 PM
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I was thinking the same, but I myself used to be a bit a of a nerdy bitch and now am dominant in bed, just like OP. Reformed 40 year old virgin maybe. Exactly what this sub is for. I just assume 90% of the people on this sub aren't reformed and are just envious. Using nerdy language but the key points are valid. To me it seems like this is the first time OP has had an experience like this and was chomping at the bit to post it. Regardless of if it's fake or not, the point is to learn from it.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 01:23 PM
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I was actually thinking about this the other day. I've been doing pretty well with girls the past couple years and I was thinking about how I would always be anxious and say the wrong things with girls and now it seems like it doesn't really occur to me what to say, I just speak my mind and go with it, and it is working well. What I concluded the difference was, is that now I am coming from a place of confidence and abundance, where as before I was in a place of anxiousness and scarcity. You rea…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 04:32 AM
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Depends on the girl, I have no problem smashing on a period, but with some girls it's been an absolute bloodbath.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 11:19 PM
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As a fellow Torontonian, this is just in your head. Drink a straight club soda and nobody will even notice. Just make sure you have high energy and fun playful attitude. I like to have 1-3 drinks on the night to loosen up but you could easily do it sober.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 05:59 AM
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You're right not to listen to this guy, he's an idiot. You don't have to break it off with her, but next time she does this she gets downgraded to plate.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 10:44 PM
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I spent about 3 months there last year. I went Cartagena > Medellin > Bogota > Cali. I didn't get to spend much time in Antioquia, so this time I'm planning to go around Medellin and Manizales and then make my way up the north coast to Baranquilla, Santa Marta, Palomino etc. When I find a place I like I'm planning to rent a place for a month or two, to take Spanish classes. Could you recommend some cool places that you enjoyed and would be cool to check out?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 08:45 PM
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He's probably thinking of American born latinas
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 06:07 AM
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Headed back to Colombia in a week, hell yeah!
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 06:06 AM
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Just the way I like it.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 02:09 AM
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If you're going for a gay bottom look, MFA is your spot.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:42 AM
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I like to be rough and dominant with girls, but I find that if I show it too soon without building trust it can backfire, I'm not rich or famous so it just means I scare them away. My strategy has been to start relatively vanilla for the the first encounter or two and then slowly introduce it into sex. Sticking your fingers down a girls throat on the first date can be scary for some girls. I tend to attract girls who like it rough, just because of my look. Beard, strong face/demeanour etc. But s…
/r/askTRP15/01/18 09:57 PM
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I'd say yoga or another type of physical activity class you can take on your Sunday rest day. Also a sport like hockey, soccer, volleyball or baseball, bonus points for joining a co-ed league. One thing that I want to get into in the near future is flying drones. It can turn into a business, drone photography/inspections and I have a feeling drone racing will get more popular in the future.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 01:25 AM
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While I agree completely that learning how to cook is a great skill, it doesn't fit the bill of getting out of the house and socialising.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 01:20 AM
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What about hardness, still like a rock?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 10:02 PM
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Ain't that the truth! But I'm never gonna have the SMV of Drake. But I know what you mean. Raise SMV at all costs. Whether in NA, EUR or SA.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 04:26 AM
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I hear you, and you have a point. I've been travelling all over Europe and South America, and I'm currently home in Toronto. There are beautiful women everywhere and game works everywhere. But finding women who treat you right, appreciate you and bring something else to the table other than pussy is much harder to do in the West. Here, when I pick up I have to work fucking hard and most of the time they aren't worth the effort I have to put in, sometimes I have to settle for 6s. But for example …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 03:26 AM
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To be honest people who watch the news are somewhat fucked anyways. Talking heads spewing party propaganda.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 03:20 AM
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Dudeeeee, re-read what you just wrote. You're projecting so much. I wasn't belittling you or anything like that, I was giving you my opinion on your situation, and you took offence to it. You told her you were sexually frustrated and wanted to meet her. You picked her up and when she shit tested you, you immediately assumed that she wasn't down to fuck, you took offence to it and dropped her off. Because you were angry, you couldn't even play it cool for 10 minutes, you didn't even try to get wi…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 01:26 AM
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That was a shit test, and you failed. She's not stupid and knew what you were thinking. You just came off as really thirsty and cockblocked yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 01:01 AM
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Yes there is a problem in Western culture, we all know that. What women wear isn't the problem, the war on the masculine identity is. Your solutions to this problem, which use examples from the two shittiest cultures and places to live on Earth, Africa and the Middle East, are fucked up. You have no idea what you are talking about. You appear to be brainwashed and out of touch. I don't want to live in a world where a woman person can't dress however the fuck they want. I don't want people in my …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 07:33 AM
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Not this Halloween but the one before, I was at a club. I was outside in the smoking area just chilling having a cig, waiting for a friend. I had a pretty good costume and lots of people were coming up and talking to me. Anyways, a group of 4 or 5 people (2 girls and a few guys) came by and one of the girls starts talking to me about my costume. The whole group stops with her. We're getting along well and I could tell this girl was getting really into me. The guys kept trying to butt into the co…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 05:21 AM
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Blah, blah, blah dumb story with dumb people. But for real how is Uber Pool, never used it but maybe it's alright on the weekend going to and from the bar? Anyone use it a lot?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 03:45 AM
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I usually make 1st time date sometime in the week, Mon-Thurs, because the weekends usually have something good going on. I would suggest switching it to one of those days if you're free.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 06:34 AM
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I had an epiphany about this a couple years ago when I was travelling in Europe because it kept happening to me. I would be totally hitting it off with a girl, we'd have hands all over each other, good conversation, laughing and would usually make out. And at one point they would go to the washroom or with their friends or something and basically act like I didn't exist. At first I would always go up to them and try to keep it going and would usually get shut down one way or another. THIS KEPT F…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 10:44 PM
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You're going to hate CRISPR
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 09:42 PM
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Evolutionary, lying, seems absolutely required.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 03:14 AM
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When the fuck did 7's become super model tier? 5 is fuckable, the bare minimum, 7 is attractive, 8 is hot, 9's are super model tier, I don't give 10's because no bitch is perfect, but 9.5's are reserved for the hand full of women I've seen in my life that I just can't stop looking at.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 02:53 AM
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Yeah, go to a different forum.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 02:25 AM
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A lot of the RSD stuff is good, but the guys just throw out word vomit that confuses people more than it helps, and I think it is somewhat intentional as well. That being said they have some amazing videos on youtube where you can feel the passion flowing through them and the infield stuff is gold. Watch what they do, not so much what they say. That being said Luke is the guy who brought the idea of social circle game to RSD. He is all about creating a friend group with lots of high status men a…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 01:52 AM
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We just need a good war too kill off half the male population and bring balance to the force again.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 10:50 PM
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I went out solo on Saturday, I got a little too drunk so my game was slipping but I was talking with these two girls, the one was cute but the other was a big girl, not disgusting but too big for me. Well ofc the big girl takes a liking to me, her friend says she's leaving but the big girl was cool so w/e I danced a bit with her but was keeping my distance (something a younger, weaker, more desperate me would have never done at that level of intoxication). Because I was keeping my distance like …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 10:13 PM
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Don't listen to these kids talking shit, they seem like internet losers that have no experience. That being said you know what you have to do. If you're getting the gut instinct that she's going to do something stupid, trust your gut and bail. There will be other girls. The pull out method is pretty damn effective, but its also the least effective form of birth control. If you like fucking this girl raw, and you don't see a reason to break it off with her, track her menstrual cycle and take note…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 02:19 PM
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From this response, there is definitely more to the story. I think you're just upset because you thought you were too good (maybe just good enough) for him, but then he dropped your ass, and you can't figure out why. It's driving you crazy now, so much so that you're getting other girls to get information about him for you.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:42 PM
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Meh, the first time you fuck a girl is important. You need to give them some pleasure and make them enjoy it. Otherwise you're just another regret along with many other guys on her list. After you've proven that you can fuck her right, then you can do those kind of things, like short quickies where you just rip her pants down and give it to her hard until you come and then just walk away.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 05:08 PM
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I get this a lot too the first time I fuck a hottie. 3 pumps in and you're like "fuckkkkkkk really?" So I pull out, go slow, use my hands and mouth more, basically do what I can to prolong it without letting her realise. Sometimes they know whats up in which case I say something like "your pussy is goooood". But yeah just own it, and as soon as I'm ready for round two, she'll be screaming my name.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 05:00 PM
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Your developing one-itis, you know it. Be careful because these young girls always find a new guy eventually, and if you lose your shit when she does, you're done with her. Play your cards right, continue fucking other girls but maybe aim a little higher, and when she inevitably calls a break be cool and let her go but tell her that she can always come back. And when she finds out 24 year old wanna be chad isn't what she thought he was, she'll come back to you.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 07:50 PM
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I get this sort of thing a lot as I'm the same age as you. It is because you are older so she expects you to lead the interactions, which it seems like you are. Honestly, she seems almost perfect in the sense that she isn't giving you drama, comes when you call her, tries to please you and is taking it slow because she probably knows you're not interested in a relationship. Just be careful that this isn't just an act, to lure you in. That being said you ARE more invested it seems like. For someo…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:02 AM
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When I was in college I befriended a guy from one of my classes who was balding, had to keep his head basically shaved. Kid fucked more girls in 1 semester than I did in 4 years. It only matters if it matters to you, just like most things in game.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 02:46 AM
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I want to emphasise that you need to practice what you read. All this shit is basically useless if you just read it all the time but don't put it into practice. The biggest success you will have is when you stop seeing yourself as a 'beta' and more as an 'alpha'. You can start that right now by catching yourself thinking things like "she wouldn't want me, I'm too ..." or "shes looking at me hard, I'll go talk to her after..." and telling yourself they are lies your brain makes up to give you exc…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:19 AM
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In my experience, the only jobs a wingman has, is someone you can rally too for a few minutes of chit chat because you don't want to seem clingy, someone that can take care of the other girl while you chat her friend up, and someone to watch your back incase you get slack from a boyfriend or your too drunk and have beer goggles. If you want to introduce your friend any thing more then "Hey, this my buddy Sam" is overkill. It can be done but if it's not smooth and natural, it lowers SMV.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 08:58 PM
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Why would you ever next? Sugar mama is the pinnacle of game.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 08:24 AM
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I was talking with a friend about this the other day. And while it is sickening to us, there are men out there that WANT to be dominated by their wives. They don't want to make decisions, they don't want to be in charge, they just want to be told what to do and how to do it. Sure they are weak, and their wives don't respect them but they have what they want.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 04:52 AM
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Take it as a compliment and that you are on the right path. They are shit testing you to see if this is just an act or if you really are becoming a man. Keep it up and use it as motivation. Don't be angry with them, AWALT, even your own family. Use it as just another example of the veil being lifted and how far you've come that you can recognise it for what it is.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 03:45 AM
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Maybe it's the same as "I have a boyfriend" and some of those guys were actually gay? Haha I hear you though man, I have a few gay friends and they get annoyed at that as well. There was one gay club I went to that had a men only room and that worked well for them. I enjoy going to gay bars (depends on the bar) because there are usually lots of straight girls so the ratio is good.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 03:16 AM
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Just a thought, I know it's the program people are buying but putting an American flag on the T-shirt will discourage some potential subscribers.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 11:02 PM
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How do you measure girth?
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:28 PM
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While this advice isn't for everybody, it works for me. I was in a lull and last weekend I took four grams and went to a concert. I felt more confident and bold the next day, like a weight had been lifted of my shoulders. They do work for this purpose
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 08:38 PM
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I wonder what is so important in your life that when sitting in a Barnes & Noble with your laptop you can't take 5 minutes to number close? I wouldn't be surprised if this guy just panicked because a girl was showing interest and made up an excuse that he was too busy? Or maybe she was fugly?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 12:54 AM
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Yea the reason the macros are like that is because I choose a low carb option. I don't really need to have low carb as long as I am eating clean. I will adjust them today. And I've done keto diets before, they work really well but with the amount of exercise I am doing that would be pure torture, I am not strong enough for that!
/r/askTRP17/10/17 03:33 PM
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Yeah I noticed that too, it seemed way too high. Thanks!
/r/askTRP17/10/17 05:20 AM
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Now if only we could save us from ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 06:23 PM
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Maybe it would have given you some social proof but probably not much. If anything it means that these women perceived you as having just a little more value than them, in the sense that they thought they had a chance with you. If anything, the hot girls would see you talking with these girls and put you in the mental box of having low status. On the other hand if the hot girls saw you ignoring/rejecting the fat girls advances, like you had a higher worth, it would work more in your favour.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 08:59 PM
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You, are, the, free, spirit. Forget blaming who you spend time with. Yea I guess you're right! stop the conservative BS. It is an excuse to sit still and "ponder" possibilities. What do you mean by conservative BS? You are right in the sense that I need to do something while I search for my purpose. I don't necessarily agree that travelling is 'sitting still', It has done more for my personal growth that anything else I've ever done. Both your listed actions and words are giving off a "depressed…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 06:49 PM
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Am I the only one who understood what UrsusG is saying? The other guys just rambling on about things having nothing to do with this comment.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 06:32 PM
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Thanks for the concern, I've never had someone tell me I sound like a pot head before! I smoke here and there if someone offers me some, but I don't go out of my way to get it. I'm not exactly doing bad with my life, I just haven't found my purpose and believe me, I've been trying. I quit my decent paying job in the oil industry almost 2 years ago to travel. I spent 5.5 months in Europe and 7 months in South America. I came back home 2 months ago but I'm planning to go back to South America in J…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 04:30 PM
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I have had this same realisation over the past year. I know the reason I get one-itis is because I don't really have anything important going on with my life. I have been soul searching for a while now on what my purpose in life is and what I want to throw myself %100 into but all I'm getting are blanks. I need a post about that.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 11:19 PM
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Ughh, this is one of the remaining lessons I've yet to learn, currently going through this right now. I know I should do it but the underlying foundation isn't there. Had a great relationship with this girl, treated her with respect, didn't play games. Now out of nowhere I get the "I'm confused, I just want to be friends". It hurt because I really liked this girl. I know I over-committed with her, kind of got one-itis. Not because I couldn't get other girls, but nothing that was better. She's pr…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 12:03 AM
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Look at the statistics of physical violence and death between the two countries. If everyone has a gun people are afraid of each other, when people are afraid they do crazy things. People get shot and die here, it happens, but it is relatively rare. Also guns aren't really that reliable, it is more of a deterrent than anything. If I come up behind you and smash you in the head with a baseball bat, good luck getting your gun out and shooting me down.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 11:28 PM
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And yet you tried to make out with every girl you met. Come on bro, don't be delusional.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 06:40 PM
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I'd stay away from self-depreciating humour. I used to always cut my self up for some laughs, but it's true that there is some truth in all humour. It shows low self-esteem and points out your flaws even if people haven't noticed them already. It's not worth a few laughs.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 10:34 PM
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It's been my experience that some of the relationships you make while travelling can be more fulfilling exactly because they are temporary. Also the life experience you gain in invaluable. I've just returned home from backpacking for the last two years.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 11:45 PM
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Dude, I've been to Iceland. And yeah the genetics there are pretty amazing. Damn, the girls there are stunning. Icelandic people are some of the tallest in the world. But you have to remember it's a country of what 3-400,000 people? You're 23 which is when you are starting to mature a bit. I'm 32 and these last 2 years have been the best of my life. I've had more sex and done more amazing things than the last 10 years combined. When I look back about when I was 18-22 in college, I was immature a…
/r/askTRP11/09/17 11:21 PM
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You can make a girl squirt with one finger. Next time you're masturbating put your index finger on top of your dick and notice the size difference. It's all in your head. Yeah there are some girls that want really big dicks, but usually those aren't the types of girls you want to have a relationship with. They are usually slutty and fuck a lot of guys. Most girls don't watch porn, and most girls haven't fucked 100's of guys. So for you to compare yourself to a porn star is not based in reality. …
/r/askTRP11/09/17 11:04 PM
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I don't think they're very good with women either.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 12:25 AM
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How did he publicly apologize and why?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 02:47 AM
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It's ok you're in the anger phase. Read the side bar, lift and things will get better.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 01:35 AM
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You stfu and delete this post right now! Ever seen the movie The Beach? You just gave everybody the map. Source: Been backpacking South America for seven months.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 12:11 AM
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She still doesn't look great, but it is a big improvement. Most women can raise themselves a point or two with make-up. When I see a woman with that much make-up on I always wonder why, it's a turn off for me.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 01:01 AM
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Ok good. So it sounds like you need to start applying game theory. As a start, from what I've read in the comments try cutting out the friends that you have feelings for. Not completely but the next time they invite you out politely decline, and don't invite them out with you. Try this for a couple weeks and see if anything changes. And read the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 12:15 AM
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That is not what I'm saying at all. If you lift, you gain strength, which increases confidence and lowers anxiety. Your brain chemistry becomes more attuned to that of an 'alpha' male. Instead of trying to argue against the most common advice given in this sub, from an admittedly bluepill mindset, why don't you try it for a couple weeks and see what happens?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 10:35 PM
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"I keep wrapping 'jerk' in inverted commas because what it actually represents is the concept of a man with an alpha mindset, whether learned or ingrained since puberty, whose masculine traits are optimised. He's confident in himself, he's aloof, he doesn't placate to others, he doesn't need a woman's validation, or indeed any validation. He's confident in his life mission, and he passes shit tests through having multiple genuine sexual options." These are masculine traits, which come naturally …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 09:34 PM
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I've been following the SL 5x5 program for 6 weeks. I'm a total beginner, having never lifted weights before (only body weight and cardio exercise). I did ramp up the progression because I felt that it was a little slow for me, now I'm basically at max for most of the exercises. I feel way stronger than before and my mood is always calm and relaxed. That being said reading these replys has me doubtful I am being the most efficient I can be. I am progressing well on everything except OHP with whi…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 06:48 PM
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It's a test. Punish her for not obeying you. It's what she wants. Spank her, make her deepthroat you or something else fun for you. You think you deserve bdsm level commitment after one lay?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 07:46 PM
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Source? I've heard conflicting theories on multivitamins, would like to know the truth. Same goes for all vitamins too I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 04:32 AM
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Fear is the mind killer...
/r/seduction17/12/16 02:46 AM
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Haha I know. One of the things I thought about a lot, while I was away, was that I never do the things I was doing in Europe in my home city. You can start checking out things that are local to you. I bet that would be a good conversation starter for you as well. One of the things I did a lot was free walking tours. It was a good way to see a new city and to meet other travellers. Do a google search and see if there are any nearby. Also check wikitravel and tripadvisor for your area to find if t…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:49 AM
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I'm in my early thirties. I worked my ass off making good bank for years. I decided to quit my job and go travelling. I cancelled my lease (had to find someone to take it over), sold most of my shit (I live a pretty minimalist lifestyle), and moved the rest of my stuff, which isn't much, into storage. I planned about the first two weeks and then the rest of the time I planned about 2 or 3 days in advance. I saved money where I could on transportation and accommodation, but I spent money on thing…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 03:46 AM
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Get good grades, fuck hot bitches and lift?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 03:31 AM
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Information is currency for women This has been an issue with me lately, multiple women in my life have somewhat fucked me over because I'm so open about myself, my ideas, and my train of thought. I don't want to lie but I need to get better at avoiding answering questions.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 01:09 AM
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I agree with this 100% I got back from a 4.5 month solo trip of Europe in October and I leave for South America indefinitely just after new years. I learned so much about myself it was unreal. It was overwhelming at times the realisations I came to. But there was a lot of time to really soul search without distractions and process these things. I learned about my strengths, but more importantly I learned about my weaknesses and shortcomings. I learned to read people very well. Body language, mot…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 06:48 AM
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Fuck you for doing what I could of but didn't at your age.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 10:58 PM
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read the first nine words and instantly knew what this was. RIP
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:59 PM
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Fair enough, if a girl I'm fucking says "I want you to come meet my ex boyfriend/fuckbuddy because...", I'll say no. But that has never happened. I imagine a girl having the gull to ask that is giving a major shit test to a suspected "beta". It's always a guy in her group of friends, that you don't know about, but can tell they've fucked. Also we are not talking about a LTR here, we are talking about a plate and from the OP he is talking about first dates etc.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 07:07 PM
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This is what I've always done in this situation. Most of the time they're not that "alpha", they're just normal dudes. We talk a lot about alpha/beta but its more or less who is comfortable with themselves and have boundaries. Anyways, it's just another shit test. Agree and amplify. Become best buds with the guy in less than five minutes in front of her eyes, and watch how quickly she will try to get you away from him. Then you put in some neg about how she's always impatient/entitled or immatur…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 06:29 PM
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Daniel Craig is a great Bond. Casino Royal is one of my favourites and I've seen them all multiple times. I think the difference is that now the Bond movies are being written with stronger female leads than they used to. Watch the older ones and all but a few of the women are feminine and submissive even though they are manipulative and cunning.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 06:26 PM
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Watch rsd in game videos on YouTube. They pull tons of shit like this.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 04:13 PM
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You're are fucking asshole. You know why? Because you don't have the guts to be what you want to be. Tony Montana
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 03:12 PM
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Haha love this movie. If I'm out somewhere and a girl is being rude or a bitch I'll just yell out in a surprised tone, "You've sucked 37 dicks!". The look on their faces.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 02:20 PM
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You're generalizing but yes. Be totally honest. With yourself. But you have to be aware of your surroundings. You have to understand how a girl's mind works. And that's the game.
/r/seduction08/07/15 05:42 PM
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Something similar happened to a friend one time. We were hanging out with some other friends when this group of much bigger and older guys (we were like 15) came up and started harassing my friend. It was the middle of winter and they took his shoes and threw them into the snow and made him stand there. I went to get them for him and but they told me if I did they'd kick my ass. The other people we were there with, 1 guy 2 girls, were laughing and joking around with the guys and thought it was f…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 02:36 PM
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Close your eyes and focus on the sensations and let it progress naturally. DO NOT overthink it, in fact try not to "think" at all. You almost want to get into a trance.
/r/seduction03/07/15 05:18 PM
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DO NOT LISTEN TO YOUR FRIENDS BEFORE YOURSELF. Get that number. There was no reason not to. I say this from experience. You want to be the alpha and do what you think is right and learn from it. Your friend telling you not to bother is like your mom telling you, you can't stay out late. If you wanted to do it then do it. A good friend/wingman isn't there to hook you up, he's there to assist you. He went for the one girl, you go for her friend. Your talking to a girl and a guy tries to AMOG you, …
/r/seduction03/07/15 05:07 PM
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Outcome Independence. You need to go with the mindset of "I am going to have fun tonight.", "I am going to work on X tonight.", "I am going to talk to everyone I find attractive.". If you go out thinking "I am going to pick up a hot girl, within an hour bring her back to my place, fuck her like a stud, make her want me forever, and then kick her out." , you're going to have shitty nights. You want to be pleasantly surprised every once in awhile, not frequently disappointed. I know you say that's…
/r/seduction03/07/15 12:20 PM
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You could have asked her at any point in the conversation. On the plane, while getting off, when you said good bye, when you walked by her again. That's four missed opportunities in one go. Nice one. JUST FUCKING ASK FOR IT! You're letting your fear overpower you. Worst she says is "uhh no." and you say "ok then" and walk.
/r/seduction03/07/15 12:13 PM
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If she looks away, and then she looks back, twice, and you're still doing it, you're staring. You should be approaching as soon as she drops eye contact. That being said if you're looking into their eyes it can't really be staring. If you're looking at her tits then it is.
/r/seduction03/07/15 12:02 PM
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There is a lot of contradictory advice. The trick is to picture what type of person you want to be and then going in that direction. Like everything in life you can't just read the material posted here and accept it as cannon. You have to decide whether is suits your style and then THINK about it. What is the big picture?, what can we learn from their experiences?, what is being accomplished by doing these things? And then you have to put them into practice. But if we never had access to this ma…
/r/seduction03/07/15 11:44 AM
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Thanks! It's a normal bar, not on the beach and everyone stays inside unless you're smoking. So sometimes I'll pick a spot in a high traffic area and chill against the wall and people watch. Usually I'll just find any random person and talk to them but the other night I was in a somber mood and wasn't feeling like it. I always feel like other people think its weird to be by yourself but I think it takes confidence. I guess I just shouldn't give a fuck and do what I want.
/r/seduction03/07/15 11:30 AM
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Thanks! Awesome advice, do you have any tips on getting in a 'not giving a fuck' mindset/action? I don't care that much what other people think, but at the same time I want to portray an attractive image. Kind of a contradiction. Shit tests are one area I've always been good at spotting, although usually my defenses are either ignoring or calling them on it. I'm working on agreeing and amplifying because in the few times I've tried, it has worked well. About letting Tammy go, you are spot on. Th…
/r/seduction03/07/15 11:23 AM
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Thanks man, good advice. About Tasha, I didn't mention her because I haven't really talked to her. The other night I was walking by and she was talking to some guy who was pulling all this, "you're beautiful, lets hang out" stuff with her and I stopped near by and was going to talk to her but after listening to that conversation for a few seconds I decided not to bother. Then the other night she was working and when I said "Hi" she turned around like she didn't hear me and was busy. I figure I l…
/r/seduction02/07/15 05:34 PM
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Thanks! I was actually searching for this last night but couldn't remember the name. I think it should be sidebar'd.
/r/seduction26/06/15 02:08 PM
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I couldn't agree with you more! When I'm talking about assuming attraction and escalating I'm also talking about kino. The problem is most of these interactions arnt lasting very long. I'm being way too passive so I'm not getting a lot of interest and responses. Thinking back to all the girls I've been with over the years, almost all of them initiated it in one way or another. So this is the part of my game that needs the most work. I'm reading up on it and will put it in to practice tomorrow ni…
/r/seduction26/06/15 12:04 AM
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Thanks! I'm in Ontario, Canada.
/r/seduction25/06/15 11:57 PM
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Thanks for the tips! 1) I will definitely keep doing them until the end of the summer. 2) Haha yea that's what I figured, everyone knows everyone in some capacity and I've already heard rumors and gossip about other people. 3) I know I do. That shit is cancer, I'm going to keep it in mind to show my attraction and be more vulnerable. It used to work somewhat in the past and I think I've internalized it has habit. Willpower to change is the best course of action I believe. 4) I absolutely will pr…
/r/seduction17/06/15 11:24 AM
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"I was doing the "say whatever comes on your mind" trick that SimplePickup recommended, so I just thought of the most ridiculous response..." Usually on dates, when I say "on the moon", the girl finds it funny and builds upon that, and it becomes an inside joke. I've had girls say "let's go on a picnic on the moon!" or "I'd love to visit, where's the spaceship?", etc. Ughh.. You're annoying me and I've only read a few of your comments. I think you should read Models again and go over the honesty…
/r/seduction15/06/15 07:11 PM
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Haha yea I'll just give them fake names to make it easier. Thanks!
/r/seduction13/06/15 07:41 PM
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Life is what happens while you're making plans. Focus on the future with your planning and keep your ship tight, but keep an open mind and look for opportunities. Not many people know what they want to do with their lives, but if you live each day in the moment (or try to at least) you'll find things that interest you, and people to share those interests with. You say you'd like to travel and in my opinion that is one of the best things anyone can do. So, while paying attention to your finances …
/r/seduction12/06/15 12:59 PM
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Your English is good, your grammar is bad. Much better than my Iraqi I'm sure. We can understand, so it's good. Good post, like your analogies.
/r/seduction12/06/15 12:40 PM
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You mentioned you walked quickly to catch up to the first one, approaching from behind is usually a bad idea. She doesn't have time to size you up, so you could be dangerous to her, which will usually get a negative response. Try to find an opening where she stops at a store or some way that you can approach from the front. You want her to see you coming. Great job on opening though, keep it up. It gets way easier and you will see exponential improvement quickly. Pay attention to your tone and b…
/r/seduction12/06/15 11:57 AM
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return of the mack
/r/seduction11/06/15 07:07 PM
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Amen
/r/seduction11/06/15 06:58 PM
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Like he mentions in his post, it's not so much what you say but how you say it.
/r/seduction11/06/15 06:50 PM
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Sometimes, but he asked how to be more approachable.
/r/seduction11/06/15 01:21 PM
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I love it when I get asked this question! It happens regularly because I'm not your typical macho man wannabe. Usually, and you can tell by their tone when asking, they ask because they are interested in you. Just be cool, unaffected and even let out a knowing chuckle, like you've been asked this question before, when they ask. My response is usually a simple smile with a "no, are you?". Seems to work well for me. And just to put this out there some of the guys I know who sleep with the most wom…
/r/seduction09/04/15 05:05 PM
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A lot of people on this site tend to use text just for logistics. I tend to agree but like all advice here it is subjective and you need to decide what is appropriate. Text her in a week or so with the plans dates and times. I do agree that during this time you should be opening other girls so you don't rely on this date and get affected when she quite possibly flakes.
/r/seduction09/04/15 04:59 PM
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Don't drink too much!! 2. Be there to have fun and make friends. Talk to everyone not just girls. 3. Make and hold eye contact. 4. If you "make" eyes with a girl you find attractive go talk to her. 5. Don't linger. If it's not going well with someone walk away. 6. If you meet someone you like try to close starting with leaving with them down to getting a number depending on how well you think it's going. 7. Don't be outcome dependant.
/r/seduction08/04/15 11:47 PM
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I disagree. I think his response was perfect. Sounds like she's just trying not to seem easy. And him saying he's fine with not having sex will put her at ease.
/r/seduction08/04/15 11:23 PM
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I mean it's funny but maybe a bit much. Personally, and I've been asked a few times same as you, I would just chuckle and say no. It's confident, understanding and gives a direct answer.
/r/seduction05/03/15 02:03 PM
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the more of Russell Brand I see the more I respect him. Messiah Complex was amazing.
/r/seduction27/02/15 01:25 PM
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The feminine thing is HUGE. I've been bamboozled a few times by bigger girls that I normally wouldn't touch just because of how feminine they were.
/r/seduction01/02/15 12:16 AM
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You are not trying hard enough!
/r/seduction01/02/15 12:13 AM
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Is it weird that this kinda turned me on LOL. I did just work out though...
/r/seduction01/02/15 12:11 AM
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Totally going to use the hand holding tomorrow night. Awesome!
/r/seduction31/01/15 08:04 AM
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"Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I will bed the Queen of France." - Voltaire Dude. Shit sucks. But unless you're gonna go all face off and surgically fix it, you are stuck with it. So then what? Accept it. YOU ARE UGLY. Then fix the things you can. Find situations where you can talk to people for prolonged periods of time. And you sure as hell better make sure you can talk. You gotta be the smoothest mother fucker in the country. You gotta be in great shape. Not just good, GREA…
/r/seduction31/01/15 07:45 AM
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Don't know why you got some down votes. He specifically states in the book; Take it step by step. If your having trouble approaching just focus on that. Then if your having trouble making good conversation work on that. Then work on escalating/flirting. etc. Focus on the part that is giving you the most trouble at the time. Also in the beginning he talks about the mindset which is the most important part. Invest more in yourself than the opinions of others. And everything else will fall into pla…
/r/seduction31/01/15 07:31 AM
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As soon as you walk on the train car look to see who is macking on the hottest girls, when you walk by them drop the biggest but most silent fart you can. Proceed to mack on hottest girls when they move away. EZ.
/r/seduction01/11/13 05:44 AM
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