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LMAO They probably have a fetish for jerks or the untamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/23 12:39 AM
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Also it is funnier with dumb comments from actors/actresses and the witty comebacks and stupid crap like Big Ed with mayo in his hair. Rose looking disgust and standing him for herself in the end. Brilliant! I like the bachelor/bachelorette franchise because it is like football fantasy for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:01 PM
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Definitely agree! Reality shows taught me a lot about red flags. Got my education from 90 Days Fiancee Real World, Mob Wives, and Bachelor(ette) franchise. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:36 AM
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I bet this is the guy who will say she was born with a silver spoon and compare her hardship to his and start playing who suffered more in life game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:40 AM
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Ladies, do not have your headphones on. Dang, my poor ears. Must be getting old. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:26 AM
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Hell yeah, Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:28 AM
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😂 that's why I wear headphones with no sound, have a resting bitch face, wear a fancy ring, have 2 phones both on speed dial to bail myself out, and act like they don't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:27 AM
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Does anyone have more of the backstory on this? I'm wondering if she stayed with her family instead of going back to him or he apologize and they got back together. People with high emotions and cant balance logic with this should not be in this profession at all aka ego problems. Ladies, if a man ever try to harm you even with a single slap or throw shit at you, freaking leave because if that was a kid, family, or friend that had someone that cause physical harm, you wouldn't want them to stay.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:43 PM
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Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:56 PM
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Thank you for updating! Was scrolling to see if anyone knew what happened to her after she posted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:29 PM
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Yes, Queen!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:08 PM
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Lol I would make something up on what they like to hear like, "i cook delicious meals, and clean, love sex, and make my own money" and excuse myself to the bathroom, then I pay the server and ask if I could exit out the back because the guy is a creep and drive home. 😁 this is why you take your own car and not drive together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:58 PM
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😂I'm definitely going to keep this in mind. Not going to feel bad how I treat him and my preferences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:53 PM
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Hahaha you got it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:46 PM
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In that case I'm going to fill my bag with random stuff that they have to go digging for a while. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:39 PM
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LOL I can't believe he did that. That's why I don't trust guys who can't make boundaries on girls who came onto him aka kiss him/irresponsible with his alcohol that he blacks out or needs to stay behind when he knows he should sober up for a few hours before driving back home or cancels last minute. When a guy does something like that, I'm just like "Ok." My mind and heart goes to the next guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:16 PM
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It appears the OP is from SEA (South East Asia)? Based on her previous posts. She doesn't specify which county.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:49 PM
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Me too!!! I stopped at 30 because a lot of them were rebounding, hatred for women, insecure as hell, and acting like theyre in their 20s frat boys.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:29 PM
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I just do it because I figured the divorce (I'm not being legally married) or cheating is going to happen sooner or later, so I rather make things easier for myself when I have to take care of the kids or have to deal with custody battles. I also will make sure he signs an agreement that the kids wouldn't be alone with his girlfriend etc when he is not around. I don't care if she's a good person. I don't want my kids to be traumatized if the abuse about to happen from a woman or I lose them by d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:09 AM
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When I was 25, I had a 50 year old Regional Director of a Fortune 500 Company followed me around the grocery shop. We chatted because I was focus on not making a scene because I do not know if he had something on him that would take my life away. He asked me for out on a date. I declined and said I had a boyfriend. I started to giggle to show my ring. I was so lucky that day that I had a ring on. Saved my life. Now with technology and social medias, it's going to be tougher to let children know …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:23 AM
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Where's: 1.) EQUAL RIGHTS. 2.) You're overreacting. 3.) Women should stay at home, men wouldn't be in this shit. 4.) Fake compliments to make you feel good about yourself. 5.) Comments women appearance who are ugly/sexy about their body parts. 6.) INSECURE as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:12 AM
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Ha, this is why I keep my own last name, and my kids will have last name. Never stop working and earning higher, and making new friends especially guy friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:09 AM
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This is why I keeping my last name and having my kids take my last name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:15 PM
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I dont know if this was post to me. A lot of guys I came across are great actors. So my red flags alert are very high and I wait it out for more than a year to see who they really are. In the mean time continue to make friends especially guy friends. Maybe. As much family is important, i think its more important to see aka witness how they deal certain situations and make decisions before everything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:09 PM
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I have no idea that they could do that. It freaks me out if anyone has access of my keys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:43 AM
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Yea girl! I'm jealous! :D I have a townhouse and would love a single house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:42 AM
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You know they broke when they say "I'm having a bad day, sorry I take it out on you" often. LOL And they claim "You're an angel. Usually women would be using me. I hate gold diggers." just to see if they can make you feel good about yourself so you depend on them for compliments. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:41 AM
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Majority of guys do, and have huge problem if you earn higher than they do and get jealous. Once I sense a guy with major insecure problems with people doing better than him, I peace out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:39 AM
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Nothing is worst when they say they go for a certain race because of this is part of their culture. Pisses me off. I'm like "Okay, Big Ed." LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:38 AM
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Wow, that's crazy. This makes me never want to commit because I don't know his intention/plans and continue to date other guys/make more guy friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:37 AM
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LOL Exactly. That's why I'm addicted to Taylor Swift's song if I was a man. That's why when a guy ask me if I'm a single and what man I'm into, I say "Bitches and Models."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:36 AM
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They call women gold diggers that they are not attractive to and who want to be respected aka got her own money but yet the women they are attracted to, they treat like a Queen/Dream Girl and use his money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:33 AM
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The lyrics got me LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:32 AM
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LOL They can't stand the independent and strong woman who questions their bullshit. Had exes try to reach out to me by texts/calls every few months or every year,or stalk. They're not used to the silent treatment from a chick who don't go back to exes after a breakup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:29 AM
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Yes! :D So true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:26 AM
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HA! "If she gives it up easy for me, then she is a (negative adjective)." --> Meets a girl who doesn't give it up easy. "She's such a prude. I've decided if a chick doesn't give it up on a 3rd date, I'm done." "Oh I got that. I'm a man." ---> "Meets a girl who lets him pay for everything because he kept on saying he is the man and will take care of it. "She's a golddiger" :D Ladies, develop your red flag alert, it will help you to peace out a lot easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:25 AM
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Hahaha very true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:47 PM
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There needs to be a registry on these men like hall of shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:18 PM
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Thank you! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:03 AM
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OMG, where did you et that crown? :D Now I want one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:02 AM
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OOoohhh I'm telling on his momma, that her 42-year-old son thinks he's king and entitled to not cooking and cleaning. ​ That's why when I have conversation with men on a date, and they ask me this question. I know exactly who they are. :) My response would be to excuse myself. Find the server to pay my own share of the check with cash, and write "I don't cook, I don't clean. I buy my own diamond rings, Misogynist. Peace out, Feminist." That's why you have a flip phone for temporary men on dates/…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:57 PM
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Please dont tell me this was on RedPillWoman. Hahaha if anyone request that I venmo $1.50 I would left that on read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:48 PM
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Holy shit! This makes me want to never share my personal phone and have no social media at all. Thank God for flip phones. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:34 PM
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Yeah, I just hope she is staying away from the guy who is forcing her to be things that she doesnt want to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:06 PM
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Yall we are famoussss now 😉 In all seriousness, sounds like he is extremely lazy to find someone else to be all those things that she doesnt want to be. Sheesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:04 PM
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LOL
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 03:16 PM
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Theres a difference between talking about your past how you got to where you are vs how many people you have banged.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 02:45 PM
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Sheesh, why not just fold the laundry without asking? Talk about attention seeker. SMH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:00 AM
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I'm going have to see android aa this capability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:55 PM
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Hell yeah! Me too except for the sex offender registry. I'm going to do that moving forward to see if theres any juvi/criminal activities just to protect my extended family and friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:54 PM
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Thats definitely great idea!!! :( So jealous of states that allow people to use stun gun/teasers outside their home. Its not only in my home state. SMH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:50 PM
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The reason I think for poly is due to having different partners meet different needs that one person cant provide at all regardless how much communication and accepting people as they are. Its a less of guilt of ending things/dealing with confrontation etc A lot of people who backup their statements by science and stats instead of through their own social experience are the ones pushing more people to be like them like "We arent meant to be with just one person, I got need, I need a break, other…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:47 PM
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😉 I buy flowers for myself at work. Its such a great deterrent. Also diamond rings. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:39 PM
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Even if men go for what they want, make sure they are not being hypocrites aka I want you and other women but you cant have no one else but me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:37 PM
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😭 Sounds like the TA needs to return her high school diploma if she thinks difference doesnt exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:56 PM
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I avoided OLD like a plague after my last dating experience at age 30. Now that I have a better red flag detector, l know whether to date the person or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:51 PM
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Thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:03 PM
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Please tell me whats sub is it. 🤣 Ill spy for you guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:34 AM
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Oh my lungs! 😂 Thats why I stop giving advice in person. Because the last thing I want is, "You dont know haaaammm like I do. No wonder no man wants you." That would be my move to peace out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:30 AM
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What subreddit is this under? I want to see what the OLD dudes are expecting. 🤣 Been out of OLD for 3 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:24 AM
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😉 You lack evidence what I did was judgmental.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/21 04:04 AM
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Why should your past matter? If someone is questioning your past to determine if youre a hoe needs to get a reality check and the door out of your life. Someone who has a problem with it is 100% insecure and is judgemental. 🤣 Probably horrible in bed and ugly person inside and out.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/21 01:17 AM
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49 more states to go!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:33 PM
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🤣 I let a guy load his emotional bs on to me and to see if he continues to repeat it day after days week after week wuthout a solution so I can decide if I want to stay or go. Requesting that he doesnt when this is his habit is going to suck when you didnt know this is a red flag in the first place and how incompetent he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:50 PM
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Ugggghhh Thanks! LOL thought it was OP who took the screenshot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:53 PM
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If Im carrying grocery bags and still have more in the car, and he ask "Do you need help?" While still watching TV, I know where I am heading. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:15 AM
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🤣 Continue to fund my Lawyer Savings and edit my prenuptial rough draft until a confident and secured guy agrees to my conditions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:44 PM
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Thank you so much! I really appreciate you for responding! This helps knowing what im going to do with my future!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:05 PM
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😂😂😂 Oh my lungs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:15 PM
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I hope you dont mind me asking.... Did he win the case to not pay for child support? Did the kids have her last name?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:13 PM
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Please tell me Charlotte did not write this. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:09 PM
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If people come from other countries with no knowledge how to speak the language, no education, no job opportunities, no vacation, no fun, and less than $20 are able to make it, then these men should be able to learn certain skills as well. Heck there is a video of a 5 year old poor Asian kid who knows how to make fried rice for him and his brother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:00 PM
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LOL 🤔 What were you doing on Craigslist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:52 PM
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This is why I refused to take the last name and give the future minions his last name. 🤣 Also I will commit but not get married. 🤣 This is why I love being single so I can do what I want until the guy actually agrees with my prenuptial and actually as a lawyer look over the paperwork so he doesnt say he was forced or couldnt afford a lawyer at thentime. 😉 This is why you should never stop making friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:50 PM
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🤣 hmmmmm If I said yes to a date to a guy Im attracted to and who really knows me, and then at the end of the date wants to go 50/50. 🤣 I say "Sure, be right back." I go seek the server, and ask for a separate check. Pay in cash because I like to remain anonymous. Walk out so he doesnt see me and drive my car to home or catch up with the girls. :) This is why I dont tell people where I live and drive my own car on dates. I refuse to go on dinner dates and weekday dates. Also I dont date people w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:39 PM
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I would of ran into the wall at that speed. Holy cow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:11 PM
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If anyone has to justify who they are or try to create put in themselves or gender, run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:34 PM
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Talk about exhanging currencies and not getting robbed or killed by wild animals along the way. 😐 This guy is my hero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:19 PM
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Screenshotting this! This is why when I end things, I end things over a text for safety reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:43 AM
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Omggg thats horrible! 🤣 Thats why I cant do online dating due to being deceived either by personality or looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:11 AM
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They love to voice their opinions how a woman should be which you have never brought it up in the first place. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:09 AM
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Aint that the truth 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:08 AM
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Those men are just lame. 🤣 My parents make a good looking couple.So do most celebrities. I will not be ashame for choosing attractive guy. If I'm attractive girl with great personality and goals, there has to be an attractive guy with great personality and goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:08 AM
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Holy cow! Please be safe, Queen! This is why I refused to do OLD. My OLD was when I was 30. This is why I take my time to know someone and avoid anyone whether a potential friend/lover have an issue with me not talking to them all day everyday and prefer to spend time behind a device than in person, and how their personality behind the device is different than in person. If I choose to not respond, I dont justify myself especially I get a vibe they are clingy psycho or very bad person to be a cr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:33 PM
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a bug hug for you, Queen :) Hi Queen! I am sensing you know the answer to your questions. Youre putting more effort in this time for the person. He sounds very indecisive and very child-like when it comes to communication. After 10 months, it sounds like he is not giving you the focus aka creating memories with you aka lovely things that make life feels great for you. If you have been the one who does 90% to create memories with him and all he is done is going along for the ride. Its up to you, …
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/21 02:53 AM
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Hell yeah! ;) Do it my single ladies! No shame!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:51 PM
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Haha so true! I really think it all comes down to individualism and chance in the end.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 11:51 PM
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Ah got cha! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 10:10 PM
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Whats the psychological pressure to continue with the career? Im trying to understand.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 09:11 PM
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Lol I dont think bitter woman is at age 30. Its any age. Feminism is great but to a certain extent. There has to be a limit.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 09:06 PM
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Mountains of debt is not a bad thing as long youre willing to pay back and be responsible. At least she has a skill set to make money.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 09:00 PM
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I cant imagine what people think of women in their 40s in this thread. 🤣to all the ladies who are past 30s, 40s and beyond please dont think youre doomed for not having someone/kids. Science/stats can be false because the info is by group instead of individuals.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 08:55 PM
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so true, especially the ones with children who are actually being abused.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 08:06 PM
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Are you the old me? Trust me dating can be expensive especially when there is income gap especially if one wants to travel all the freaking time. :) you'll be ok youre not alone! I made great friends in my late 20s and early 30s through my career. I dont hang out friends very often in a weekly basis. :) might want to invest knowing yourself, hobbies, educate yourself investment. Lol coloring books are great. 😂 volunteer at animal shelters because they are great listeners
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 06:30 PM
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Exactly. Nothing is a guarantee unless you do it yourself like financial stability on your own.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 06:21 PM
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Looks like im kicked out of the club for being past 30. I think OP needs to open her mind out more about women in their 20s vs 30s and what kind of circumstance they faced when they do not have career and income save with kids or no kids. Also that culture and trauma plays a major impact why some people like myself choose no to marry at 20-29.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 06:19 PM
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Ah ok i didn't see in the original post. Aaahh planning. Time will tell. 😂
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 06:15 PM
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I dont know what your income is or what type of debt youre in and if you live in the city. I think you should focus on your career as in getting the salary youre going to be ok with if you have to live alone after a breakup. Boyfriend is great and all but if your career is not helping you pay the bills, retirement, and savings, you need to get that taken care of. What im saying if youre not in position to take care of yourself at 100% with or without kids, you shouldn't be dating right now. Thin…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 06:05 PM
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Im currently 186 lbs 5'4. What I did: 1) Got fitbit 2) a digital scale that will update to the app on my phone 3) stop counting and measuring. I just hate it. 4) visual board on healthy foods and exercises 5) slowly decrease my portions 6) put my food on a white plate and make it looks like an upscale restaurant so I could enjoy eating my healthy foods 7) drink more water Now I just need fitbit buddies to keep up with the steps. Who actually works and dont have time like me. 😂
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 05:54 PM
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😂 like Princess Diaries
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 05:46 PM
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Definitely agree! If he notices this stuff, he could have decline or tell them to stop or say no especially a motorcycle ride. Why does he need to bring it up? I feel like he's trying to make OP insecure because she's not a control freak like his exes. Also hes testing how far he can get away with OP,'s boundaries. Just speaking from experience with guys who are super insecure around a calm chick. 😂
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 05:37 PM
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Lol sounds like he's trying to make you insecure because he's insecure with you what he did with those women. He sounds egotistical. I watch out this guy and making sure Im not losing my social life and time on him.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 05:33 PM
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