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Nothing wrong with feminists. I’m one too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:47 AM
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No, it’s not,because we don’t make the other person pay up before we give. It’s given freely.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/22 05:12 PM
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Yeah, but it shouldn’t be. It was never transactional between my wife and I. We give each other what we want and we are happy. No one keeps score or anything
/r/TheRedPill06/03/22 04:43 AM
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Of course they're never ok. But you can't prove they're widespread. I'm not just going to take your word for it. It's a problem, but it's not a systemic one, and only those who have something to feel guilty about will fear this. I could get struck by lightning randomly, but I'm not worried because the chances are so low. And guess what? By not being a creep, my chances are lowered even more!
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/22 05:46 AM
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Prove it. Show me the studies and the stats.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/22 05:33 AM
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I think this is great. It shows how little of a problem this is. 109 accused (not convicted. Accused. Remember, we are against rushing to judgement) over 5 entire years means this is a tiny problem.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/22 07:25 AM
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Reddit is a private company. You don’t have a right to use their platform. There are plenty of free forum services too can use to host your own discussions.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 06:23 AM
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FDS thinks all men are trashy people from MGTOW. That’s their problem. If they only hated the trashy men instead of generalizing to most men, I wouldn’t have a problem with them. FDS really is disgusting. They are the caricature of feminists that Mgtow point to in order to say all feminists suck. And FDS points to MGTOW to say all men suck. Both side are stupid. There are plenty of good men and women in the world.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 06:21 AM
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If you see them advocating violence, please report them. That’s the best way to get FDS banned.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 06:17 AM
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You do that by talking to them. See what they’re like. They’re people, and each person is different.
/r/askTRP09/07/21 02:02 AM
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How about you talk to them and find out?
/r/askTRP08/07/21 11:30 PM
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You said girls don’t like people that are nice. You are wrong. If you don’t wanna hear it, be a snowflake and block me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:54 AM
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My wife’s ex had some very entitled attitudes about what women are expected to do. Things like the women must do all the housework even after coming home from a day of work. She said many men from her culture had cores like that, and she hated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:51 AM
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My wife’s ex had some very entitled attitudes about what women are expected to do. Things like the women must do all the housework even after coming home from a day of work. She said many men from her culture had cores like that, and she hated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:51 AM
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My wife’s ex had some very entitled attitudes about what women are expected to do. Things like the women must do all the housework even after coming home from a day of work. She said many men from her culture had cores like that, and she hated it. Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:50 AM
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I am very nice, as well as being assertive. My wife finds me very attractive. She wouldn’t want any gang member at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:46 AM
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You have no clue what you’re talking about. Me not being like the entitled men she usually meets is why my wife married me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:22 AM
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I hate those people too. Luckily , rad fems are only a small part of the feminism movement (the kinds of feminists I identify with really dislike rad fems too).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 10:39 PM
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True. TRP and MGTOW are violent, which is why I *do* want to see them disappear. I don't want FDS to disappear. I like the goals of valuing yourself, having confidence, and don't let men mistreat you. I just fele that encouraging a mindset of "all or almost all men are like this and are out to get you" fosters an mindset that's going to be unhealthy in the long run. For example, if a woman believes that all men are evil, then every time she is near a man or interacting with one, she's going to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:22 PM
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Go ahead and vent. Venting can be a good release! But it shouldn't be too hard to add a few lines of nuance? Look, I know I'm not the target audience, but having read through FDS sub, it just feels like a pool of toxicity someties. It's like those radical feminists subs that hate all men (which is why I'm part of a feminist community that is happy to have men be part of the solution instead of the problem). I know it doesn't represent all women or all feminists, but it still doesn't feel good. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:16 PM
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That..has nothing to do with valuing men as people, instead of an ATM machine. Like, do you have any male friends? If so, you can see how they can provide support and fun without necessarily paying for stuff or giving you money. Your vagina doesn't have to enter into the equation at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:10 PM
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And you don't deserve to get played. I'm just saying it kinda looks bad and gives some people (those who aren't discussing things in good faith like I am) fodder to paint ALL women has gold-digging whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:07 PM
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That's true. Men should do more child-rearing. And money is one of the considerations I have in not deciding to start a family *yet*. My wife and I will save up for a few years first, and there's nothing wrong with that. But, let's say the wife is the primary bread-winner of the family, then I see nothing wrong with the man being the primary homemaker and child-rearer. Yeah, some conservatives in society may make fun of the man, but I say if the man is willing to try his best and do a good job, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:02 PM
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I said poor is fine, no necessarily broke for long periods of time. I can still provide a stable income for the family, but I'll never be rich. Sometime people need to be poor temporarily to get ahead in life too. Like, taking out a loan to go to school in order to have a career. And I call bullshit. If you don't get emotional support, intellectual stimulation, and you know...that loving feeling (to quote a song), then your partner is doing it wrong. I provide all of those to my wife. I bring mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:49 PM
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So your solution is to say “instead of vetting their character, I’m going to only go after rich men so they won’t feel the need to trade up”? In other words, you just want to BE the trophy wife? By the way, I consider people who want a trophy spouse to be disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:38 PM
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That’s great! But fds doesn’t come out explicitly say that. Many of the posts I’ve read only talks about how men are the worthless type of they can’t pay. Fds will be friendlier and more inclusive if they include language about effort. Basically, don’t accidentally come off as shallow. Don’t give anyone an excuse to use you or fds as a data point on how hypergamy is the nature of women (it’s not true for most women, I feel).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:35 PM
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What the hell does your vagina have to do with valuing other people as a person? What is WRONG wIth you? You and your vagina is not a commodity to be traded (unless you’re in the sex trade). Stop treating yourself like it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:31 PM
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That’s why you have a few dates with them and find out about their character. Are they courteous to the wait staff? Do they do what they say they’re going to do? Do they pay attention to what is important to you? You’re accusing men of the same kinda shit MGTOW accuses women of. They say all women are hypergamous. You say all men will dump you when they can afford a prettier girlfriend. You guys deserve each other. If you can’t trust ANY man that doesn’t shower you with money, I suggest you don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:29 PM
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That is an acceptable alternative to the initial coffee meetup. But the main point is, someone can pay attention and do something good for you without needing to spend lots of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:25 PM
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When you only value men for money, you don’t get to complain if men value you only on the basis of your looks and sexual availability. This is why fds is as stupid as manosphere. You don’t see the other side as people. They are subhuman only good for one thing. For the red pill types, women are only good for sex. For fds, men are only valuable if they have money. Two sides of the same coin. You don’t value people as a whole, and that’s a problem! And if you’re worried about your kids starving, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:23 PM
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I think first dates shouldn't need to be very elaborate. It's really more of a "I don't know you too well yet but I'd like to in a low-pressure situation before I double down." This can be lunch or dinner. Or even a "pre-date" that's just coffee. The point is for two people to see if there's further interest. Then, the person wanting to impress his (or her) date can use the knowledge gained from the first date to do something of interest to the date. For example, if the woman has expressed in ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:10 PM
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Sure, you know that you're generous. But how would the man know? Going by your own logic, you should have to prove it by paying for a date right? And I get why you don't want someone lukewarm, but there should be ways other than spending large amounts of money to show solid interest. How would you show a man that you're not a lukewarm looky yourself? Hold the man to the same standard. It's only fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:52 PM
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That’s what the first few dates are for! You get to know each other and see if the man is interested in taking things to the next level. And how would a man know if you’re serious and looking for a relationship? Shouldn’t you have to use your money to prove that to the man as well? What’s good for the goose is good for the gander.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:45 PM
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Why is the woman too poor to pay for some of the date herself? After all, men arent the only breadwinners anymore. Also, the economy has sucked in recent years. Unemployment is low, but it’s filled with crappy minimum wage and part time jobs, or with jobs from the gig economy. Being poor is not a MORAL statement. It’s just a lack of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:40 PM
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I make my wife happy despite being poor. Effort is effort. Money could be gained without effort (like by parents giving you lots of money. See: trump). And, money has nothing to do with whether a man is nice to a women. Finally, why shouldn’t a women demonstrate effort with her money? Why is it only the man that needs to demonstrate financial effort? For my wife’s bday, I baked her a cake myself instead of going to buy a store bought one. That made her happy despite the entire thing being less e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:29 PM
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Agreed. FDS is pretty evil. They would never value a poor man who can't afford to take them on expensive dates, from some of the posts I've read there. They're only slightly less evil than MGTOW, because they don't advocate violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:42 PM
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I disagree. I think too much of their standards come from getting a man who is rich and willing to spend lots of money on them. They will never ever consider splitting the bill (or they will and then forever dump you). They have entire strategies on making sure the man pays. It's like they only value us for our money. I consider FDS the caricatures that MGTOWs claim are *all women*. But, luckily they are only a small population of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:35 PM
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I agree with the title. Using the air quotes around "Leftist" is absolutely correct. A real progressive wouldn't dismiss someone out of hand like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:31 PM
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It really shouldn't be. The people that want to make men and women enemies are pathetic. This applies both to the mgtows and the radfems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:27 PM
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You're pretty delusional. Go get help. Stewing in this much hate isn't healthy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:01 PM
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Sure you do man, sure you do. I'm sure you have a new woman every week, in your mind. I've already secured my soul-mate. Don't forget to treat your hand to something nice once in a while. It's hard being your date so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:49 PM
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No matter how good you look, your personality make you no higher than a 4 overall, and that's being generous. Have fun calling yourself whatever you want, though, if it makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:39 PM
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And this is why your toxic attitude marks you as the bottom 20%. the fact that you don't care half the population believes is staggeringly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:18 PM
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Hmm, have you seen how the red pill men and the miggies talk about women? They’re always worried that women are hypergamous and only care about success and the man’s resources, and how women will take advantage of them and eventually divorce them for half their stuff. I think there’s plenty of men who do care about a woman being seemingly lazy and unable to support herself.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 07:52 AM
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