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What a strong woman to be able to come forward and speak her truth!! /s
/r/MensRights13/12/24 03:16 PM
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Brother. You are being played. This ain’t how this shit works.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/24 02:46 PM
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This. You got played. Most of us did. Get an attorney and shut the hell up unless it’s you talking to said attorney or following the advice of said attorney. Seriously. She is going to use everything she can against you. She’s already a few steps ahead of you. Full stop on it all.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/24 02:45 PM
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Sounds to me like you are still putting too much emphasis on impressing or not impressing women. It’s your body. Your mind. Your life. Working out isn’t for just looking good. It WILL make you FEEL good. Do it for yourself. If you do it for anyone or anything else, you won’t stick to it anyways.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/24 06:48 PM
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Look at me. Look at my eyes. She is now outside your circle of influence. Nothing you feel, say, or do is going to change that. You’ve got to make yourself aware of that. You do that by not obsessing about it. You stop obsessing about through obsessing about yourself and your kids. You very nonchalantly mentioned you’re now a single dad. MY MAN, that is not a small feat. That is not something EVERY MAN can or will even try to do. You are more of a badass then you realize. 2 years from now you wi…
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/23 03:46 PM
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Of course. 2 years ago I was in the same exact spot and made a mistake that almost ended up costing me my entire livelihood. That mistake was allowing my ex-wife to trespass, assault me on my own porch, and scream to my entire neighborhood that I was a piece of shit, all in front of my kid. Trying to be the "nice" guy, when police arrived, I didn't want to put my kids mom in jail, so I told them I wouldn't press charges. The next day she filed a DVPO against me and the sheriff showed up at 9PM a…
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/22 08:27 PM
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Listen to these people man. Do not move out and get an attorney ASAP. What you are describing is almost THE cliché setup.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/22 07:13 PM
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I don't think you understand just how bad this can, and sounds like most likely will, get. You need to get an attorney ASAP. Advice from someone who went through this exact scenario? Get an attorney ASAP - Stop speaking to her OR her attorney about anything divorce related - this is now your attorneys job. Start documenting everything - create a google drive and a running google docs sheet as a daily 'journal' Start recording any interactions you have to have with the other party I think a lot o…
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/22 07:12 PM
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Yea, boss. She is not "calm" she is most likely setting you up. There's a reason that TRO's are almost cliche in divorces now days. I'd find an attorney ASAP and prepare yourself for the worst.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/22 02:50 PM
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What you need to quickly come to terms with is that that woman is no longer the woman you married. You need to start thinking as such. Get an attorney ASAP. If your situation is as you explain, you will be entitled to literally half of everything and most likely alimony. No, she can't just kick you out and tell you to live on the street. She will also most likely be responsible for child support. Hell, she may even be responsible for YOUR attorney fee's. ​ With all that being said, do whatever y…
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 11:44 PM
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Holy shit. Sounds almost exactly like my current scenario. Motion filed. I’m just waiting for the court date now.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 08:12 PM
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Ehhhh personally, I would never want something like this. Kids should be able to talk when and how they want, within reason. This may be a bit difficult for the three year old though. My .02? There's a lot better hills to die on. Maybe you have to wake up 10-15 minutes earlier in the morning?
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/22 09:39 PM
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Basically what everyone else has said. The number one thing you need to realize now is that she is not the woman you married. She is also not your friend. What you're seeing right now is literally just the tip of the iceberg and honestly almost cliche. Document EVERYTHING. Take her to court and get what is due to you. You deserve half of everything, period. She would do it to you in a heartbeat.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/22 02:16 PM
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