Guzzy9 Archive

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2	BPD or normal female craziness? I read first two paragraphs and I felt it was enough, because I know what you should read. Read The Way of Superior Man. And to be more specific, read chapters Always Hold to your deepest realization Never Change Your Mind Just To Please a Woman Stop hoping for your woman to get easier women are not liars tolerating her leads to resenting her dont analyze your woman dont suggest that a woman fix her own emotional problem stay with her intensity - to a point dont force the feminine to make decisi…	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/22 07:52 AM
-1	Why Mate Guarding is a subconscious turn off Women need sex more than men. We can be completely fine without sex for a very long time. And be healthy. You also don't want your balls empty all the time, it fucks up with your energy for real shit in life	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/22 10:21 PM
11	A Skewed perspective on Women and Cars I know women aren't cars. wait, so I have been thinking about cars in a wrong way ? my whole life was a lie	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/22 10:03 AM
1	Gf brings up her casual encounters nonchalantly, which makes me question things. At the same time, she has been serious and been loyal even in the talking phase while I wasn't. Indeed, I agree 100%. I am just taken aback, how quickly some actively encourage such actions without asking, or trying to understand, what's behind; in any case, posters often times present also biased information, which would take some discussion to actually get to the bottom of the problem. Sometimes also, people just need some confirmation or encouragement for sure.. but I am concerned that comments like these above, can do more harm than not. she knows exactly whats she is doing telling y…	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/21 12:08 AM
-26	Gf brings up her casual encounters nonchalantly, which makes me question things. At the same time, she has been serious and been loyal even in the talking phase while I wasn't. Lol Come on, not every freaking sign is a sign to run away from, in every post there is at least one dude saying this :D there are many things that can be solved with various means and running away is not one of them	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/21 09:12 AM
2	Is it really better to be red pilled? Hmm cool point. Then if I stay in the lane of OP (for a dude with such goals and wanting to be best person they can be), I will stick with my assertion, but, in some cases, as you mentioned, it makes sense and illusions help us to cope or delude reality to make us feel better and more secure. Also if we look at "fake it til you make it", you make yourself believe you are on top of whatever, for your brain to orient itself towards that goal and your body to help you reach it. But then in my mind …	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/21 04:46 PM
2	Is it really better to be red pilled? You bring up good point. However, I believe if one is able to manage their emotions well and knows themselves they have no need to ne deluded. They can handle truths by learning to accept them other things. Of course on the other hand many people haven't learned to handle their emotions	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/21 06:26 AM
7	The Number 1 Mistake That Majority of Men Make. 7 Habits of Highly Effective people is a great book that will very likely answer your question.	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/21 09:18 PM
3	Is it really better to be red pilled? I am not sure if that is issue with you adopting TRP mindset. TRP should at last help you have a genuine, authentic, long term relationship. Perhaps you are not understanding its purpose entirely or misunderstanding some of its parts? Not placing any assumptions, but maybe you have some assumptions about TRP that aren't true. I am coming from what I learned from Rollo's book. You write: If you're not the man she really wants, your relationship will be- to some extent- transactional. To some exte…	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/21 09:15 PM
28	Is it really better to be red pilled? I think it is always better to live in truth and see the world for what it is than living in delusions and being naive	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/21 08:55 PM
4	Invisible Wars Pt.9 - Respecting the Jab: How to Draw and Enforce Boundaries. Amazing article. I am wondering something. I have a question: how would you in these terms describe dynamics of boundaries as relationships build over time? From first impression, to deep connection with someone? Why I am asking this is because sometimes I feel like we keep our boundaries either too strict and far, and not let people in, and sometimes we let them loose too much. But as relationships develop, these things keep getting rearranged, especially because we care more and more about the…	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/21 02:47 PM
2	How to be fun without being a jester/comedian? This. As soon as you out efforts into making someone laugh, i.e. your goal is to get a laugh from someone, you're on to becoming a jester. Not bad in itself per say, but it can get too far too quickly. I joke really a lot, but as long as its self amusement and I balance it out its very genuine.	/r/askTRP	16/04/21 08:29 AM
2	Maintain dread in a LTR?? Have your own life at the side. Do cool things that don't include her. Best I can give is: most threatening is a man with options. That is also the most attractive. Have options, but don't act on them. Secondly, don't have the goal itself be inducing dread. That's beta shit. Show you are a man through actions and way of life. Dread is side product. Thirdly, remind yourself of the principle that says that the one with most power in relationship is the one that needs the other the most.	/r/askTRP	11/04/21 11:44 AM
1	How do you think the advent of artificial wombs will affect relations between the sexes? Just for the match, and thats for start, after its your frame I'm not sure if I'd call someone being on market if they just use dating apps, RL for the win	/r/askTRP	02/04/21 01:02 PM
1	How do you think the advent of artificial wombs will affect relations between the sexes? When you state that you are kept out of dating market because you are not looking good enough, you are excusing yourself to external reasons for why you aren't getting dates. You are putting responsibility to your looks, instead of your mindset and behaviour, which is far more important. You can always take responsibility, get better, improve, and have a vision that once, you'll make it. Feeling sorry for yourself and blame other things will never help, if you ask me. In other words, I am not be…	/r/askTRP	02/04/21 07:32 AM
2	How do you think the advent of artificial wombs will affect relations between the sexes? I hope it does not serve people like yourself, because then, more men will not strive to become best versions of themselves. There will just be more Forever Aloner men that will stagnate for their entire life.	/r/askTRP	01/04/21 09:46 AM
1	How can I be more assertive and dominant at work as a regular employee? I would say it is not about being dominant... but it is about being assertive. You don't have to be the dominant person, but you can be respected, you can be someone who others trust and listen to, and go for advice. In companies, culture is usually different than your personal life experience ... so you have to meld in with their culture to degree that you fit in. If you don't resonate with their culture, then you just won't have a good time. To be less abstract, as an example, look at team lea…	/r/askTRP	28/03/21 12:51 PM
-1	How would you react in this situation? Keep frame and play along, without giving the vibe that you are boasting, or, accepting what they say too much - best approach is situational, spontaneous, humour. It can be slightly self deprecating, not too much again. Random example: "Look how handsome he is!" You: "ye, I got 2 beautifully grown and groomed hands" *and you do the Jazz hands Now above example can be either totally cringe, or totally hilarious - that's up to your frame :)	/r/askTRP	13/03/21 08:31 AM
10	Remember The First Rule of Fight Club I think that one thing to take into consideration, is the capacity of a human to make assumptions about you. If you just mention it, and they check it out, and misunderstand it - you can easily adjust their perception of you for the worse. That's where the need to callibrate comes from I would say. I envision myself slowly, in drips, laying out different thoughts from the TRP world without mentioning TRP at all, until I feel they'd be ready and interested for sth like that.	/r/TheRedPill	12/03/21 08:28 AM
3	Are we supposed to just be okay with the idea of being cucked? What helps me is the belief of "If I am non-exclusive, then I do not expect exclusivity with others". It brings relief. If I spin multiple plates, I won't expect others not to, especially as girls are natural plate spinners anyways. Another outlook is something I just read in The Rational Male. Are you being their acquantance or a date, or one of their Girlfriends when you take them out? Men will never be able to be friends with girls to the extent that men can be friends with men. You can l…	/r/askTRP	10/03/21 08:35 AM