Gwandaru Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	It took Kamala Harris loosing for women to gain some Standards I worry less about corporations. Corporations shrink or die all the time. I worry more about governments. It will take population decline and the discomfort it brings for this stalemate to be resolved. For now, let's all go our own ways. Edit: I encourage men to find other purposes in life apart from women: sciences, arts, whatever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/24 11:27 PM
4	It took Kamala Harris loosing for women to gain some Standards I ask, what is the obsession with an ever increasing population? Signs of an economic ponzi scheme?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/24 09:37 PM
–	Women are allowed to blame their looks over bad dates or lack of them and its valid, but with men, it's always invalidated. There's that also. It's more than just weight. And I agree 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 12:52 PM
1	Women are allowed to blame their looks over bad dates or lack of them and its valid, but with men, it's always invalidated. Who left who and why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 12:09 PM
1	Women are allowed to blame their looks over bad dates or lack of them and its valid, but with men, it's always invalidated. And the not so good looking man is stuck in the friendzone or a sexless relationship while she is getting her physical attraction fix elsewhere, including online. Looks matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 11:50 AM
–	Women are allowed to blame their looks over bad dates or lack of them and its valid, but with men, it's always invalidated. Women's initial drive is not sex. If it were, we would have more of them fucking 20 year olds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 11:40 AM
–	Women are allowed to blame their looks over bad dates or lack of them and its valid, but with men, it's always invalidated. Very few men have getting into a relationship as their primary goal when pursuing women. If they did, they would be the ones delaying sex. They also confuse their craving for sex for wanting to start a relationship because this what was the societal norm in the past - that you could only have sex when in a relationship. This confusion usually clears after 3 to 6 months with the same woman, hence why the "relationship" struggles after that period. Most men get into long term relationships by acci…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 11:35 AM
–	Women are allowed to blame their looks over bad dates or lack of them and its valid, but with men, it's always invalidated. They matter equally for both genders. If you are a lady and you have two men in front of you one ugly and one handsome and you are told to pick one for sex without saying a word or knowing anything about them, are you telling me you'll go for the ugly one? Given that men's initial drive is for sex, I can see how you are getting confused. A man will get sexually attracted to a woman in her 40's if she looks good and has some how found a way to keep her age from showing. More considerations will t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 11:13 AM
–	Women are allowed to blame their looks over bad dates or lack of them and its valid, but with men, it's always invalidated. There are men to do get into relationships with 250 pound women. I use kgs, where I'm from and 125 kgs is not that big. Some black and African men tend to even prefer bigger women. To get to my main point, looks matter for all. Telling men that their looks don't matter is wrong. Looks are important, but they are not everything for a relationship. Looks are what wheels are to a car. You expect a car to have wheels, but you don't only look at the wheels when buying a car.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 10:49 AM
–	Women are allowed to blame their looks over bad dates or lack of them and its valid, but with men, it's always invalidated. You are mistaken by saying that only looks matter for men when considering a relationship. For sex, yes. When considering a relationship, men consider personality many other things. The list of considerations grows larger with a man's age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 10:28 AM
1	Men should have a go bag or escape fund for emotional abuse I agree to "women all big scary ham beasts who are just as much a physical threat to men as men are to women"	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 05:28 AM
–	Men should have a go bag or escape fund for emotional abuse I agree 100%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 05:28 AM
3	Most men are what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'. I never said it was women's fault. On the contrary, I am saying that it is men's fault for undermining women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 07:25 PM
–	Red pill core thesis is incoherent Hear me out, what about men working on themselves for themselves and not having attracting women as the reason for self improvement? "If anything, the wall exists for men, from the moment they enter the dating market." This is true. "Its high time that these ideas of "grinding" and foregoing dating while young to "gain value" go away" I do not agree with this. By foregoing dating while young, men can build value for themselves for their own sake and not really for women. The time, money and ment…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 10:06 PM
21	Most men are what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'. This is true. It is only when men start seeing women as their complete equal that they break free. Women are not weak. They may not have physical strength, but they have other strengths. I don't hate women. I don't fear women. I just respect women the same way I would respect any other market player. As you would appreciate how chess pieces have different moves, once you learn the moves women can make and their motivations, you can now play the game. For men, the question on your mind should alw…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 02:32 PM
2	More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series] They already did and have their own movement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 09:11 AM
1	More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series] They already did. I feel you misunderstood the comment. It asks feminists to help men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 08:53 AM
2	More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series] They need help from everyone. Even your enemy helps you point out your weaknesses. I'm not saying that men accept all their methods and advice, but to listen and figure out what works. As a man, I didn't used to take my physical attractiveness as a priority until I linked it to my health and longevity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 07:43 AM
–	More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series] The reality is, men need the help. Let's not let pride get in the way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 08:17 PM
1	More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series] I've seen videos on social media where going to a trade school (I think that's what you call it) is promoted as not incurring student debt (at least not as much as college), and earning more than a person that went to college. The videos and memes also show that the person who went to college took an arts related degree such as film, literature, egyptian studies. I think that this social media content is influencing them. The content has half truths. It does not show how the choice of degree to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 08:08 PM
4	There is more to personality than being nice Additionally, you (male or female) need to have a spine. Don't be a manipulated push over. This does not mean that you have to be a hardliner, but dig more into the requests made to you. Think about how they affect your plans, goals and priorities. Decide whether this is something you can easily forget or will it be something of great sacrifice that will leave you bitter and expecting reciprocation. Does the person have the self awareness to reciprocate? Negotiate if you need to. Google 'Effecti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 11:41 AM
1	CMV: Males should continue to make the first move "Would you like some water to drink? Here, have some muddy water"	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 11:44 PM
1	CMV: Males should continue to make the first move Net benefit to society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 07:34 PM
1	CMV: Males should continue to make the first move And so do women when approached by ugly or deemed low status men. Do men die? Some do commit suicide, but the majority live. A subset cultivate value in themselves in some way. Men are learning to identify and overcome shaming tactics, I'd suggest women do the same. This has made them see the feedback enclosed in the shaming. When they are called brokies, of course, they know they are broke or have better uses for their money, but they know that it can be a temporary state if worked on. They als…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 07:06 PM
1	CMV: Males should continue to make the first move Both are cool. More incentive for fat single mom to work on herself. Not only in looks, but also personality and finances. Stacy already worked on herself. Isn't it all about incentives?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 05:57 PM
3	CMV: Males should continue to make the first move Courage is not being a boss anything. Assertiveness is not being about a boss anything. Boldness is not being about being a boss anything. Courage - being able to face your fears. Assertiveness - the ability to stand your ground. Boldness - the ability to take on risks. Firefighters, the police, doctors, have these too. Everyone can have these traits. Search for "negotiation tactics". There are some great videos on Youtube. And yes, I like people that can identify what they want, communicate wha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 02:59 PM
2	CMV: Males should continue to make the first move I thought the thread was not on entrepreneurship? That being said, I do not care about what people do to make a living, just don't be unpleasant to be around or with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 02:44 PM
5	CMV: Males should continue to make the first move Courageous, assertive, bold do not mean obnoxious. You can be courageous, assertive and bold and not be obnoxious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 02:37 PM
9	CMV: Males should continue to make the first move "Women should not have to carry this burden." Cowards. Approach someone if you like someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 02:28 PM
1	CMV: Males should stop walking away from marriage Population decline with fast cars and bros maximizing their creativity sounds much better than authoritarianism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 03:58 AM
1	CMV: Males should stop walking away from marriage I do not think that a world without women would be dystopia for men. Population decline, but not dystopia. Men are really good at cooperating and coming up with ways to maximize opportunities. The invention of the limited liability company is an example. Men also embrace capitalism, free markets, and individualism more than women. Women tend towards hive think and protectionist policies, which lead to authoritarianism in the long run. Perhaps the lack of women would make men even less aggressive…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 09:46 PM
1	CMV: Males should stop walking away from marriage From this, I am getting that without men, society would drift to political and economic dystopia. I'm I correct? If so, then it says a lot about women. If not, then why are you persuading men to stay? Shouldn't women take men checking out as a vote of confidence in their ability to keep the world ticking?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 07:40 PM
1	Women are poor communicators Anything after "Please take out the trash" is hypothetical in the context of this discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 12:02 PM
1	Women are poor communicators Or requests that begin with "Do you want to ...", Him/her: "Do you want to come over and have a chat?" Me: "Not really." Him/her proceeds to get angry or punish me if they are in a position of authority. Once got reprimanded by a manager for this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 11:10 AM
1	Women are poor communicators Lol. My biggest fight with everyone is the use of 'can'. "Can you hand me the knife?". I interpret this as a question of my ability and not an instruction to hand over the knife. To which I say "yes" and do nothing. It sounds crazier in Swahili.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 11:04 AM
1	Women are poor communicators Why not just say, "Please take out the trash" on the first take?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 10:52 AM
1	High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating them Best answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 06:30 PM
–	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? Someone who continues pestering is looking for an excuse to leave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 04:08 PM
1	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? I think we should get comfortable of accusations. Whether its going through the phone, emails, social media, DNA tests, I think if it is something that can be easily proven or disproven, go ahead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 11:21 AM