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By literally, give less of a fuck. Gasslighting and manipulation. But thats not the route you want to take. Believe me.
/r/seduction13/03/24 09:10 AM
2

Go bald. Bald is a choice, balding is not.
/r/seduction13/03/24 05:38 AM
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GG
/r/seduction11/03/24 09:48 PM
14

So, what activities do you do?
/r/seduction11/03/24 05:34 AM
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Lead. Set up a date between the 2 of you, and take it from there. Dont overthink it. And dont "should i gost her" it i need to think about a strategy when to text/call, its a "fuck no" already.
/r/seduction31/01/24 07:10 AM
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Escalate. Its rare that they ask you out, there is deffo some spark from her side. Do the escalation or find yourself in the friendzone pretty quickly.
/r/seduction30/01/24 07:43 AM
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I grew up learning about the game / mystery and style, i practised this for years. I learned how to put on different masks, suiting the situation. It made me able to pull girls, yes. But there is a big flip side of that coin. You never learn to be yourself. And relationships will be hard as fuck to maintain since deep down, you just arnt that guy. Julian, Tyler and Max did it better imo and learned guys to be a better version of themselves while at the same time learn them game. I'm just saying,…
/r/seduction26/01/24 09:05 PM
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If it only would be that easy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/22 08:09 PM
4

Oh boy.. run. Run for the hills asap.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/22 04:15 AM
2

Yep, for me personal this whole story is a big no no, and make sure you dont get a “wupsie! We’re pregnant so pay up buttercup, and ohyeah my mom is flying over to help me out with the kid you know, like we “agreed”, she’ll live with us and ah yeah, she’s bringing my dad aswell, they both dont speak a word english but hey, we’ll be one happy family right…RIGHT!?”
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/22 04:13 AM
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No, just no. You’ll be stuck with TREE people you dont know. Now get real. You didnt live with her but are planning to get her parents over to … live all together? What? That cant go right, and that cant be your idea. Think with your big head instead of your small one. You will have to take the falling knife for EVERYTHING since you’re the native GUY in there. No thanks, i would run like yesterday. Seems like someone is fishing for greencards in your area.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/22 04:08 AM
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Btw, you state ‘future home’ as in, is it not bought/buiĺd? If this is a deal breaker for her you might want to bring it to her before you make the move on buying/building and maybe save you a few 10-100k’s in the process. Also, its a BIG cultural difference.. if you can, buy that place on your own, 100% ownership, or you might get rekt by her legaĺly later on. (Remember: do not get married, do not cohabitate, dont have kids you cant afford and get a vasectomy)
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 08:53 PM
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Learn game, if you really want to.. you have the body so now the mind needs to change. I saw fat dudes with a killer social circle game, pull hot 10’s, i went balls deep in the PUA world years ago. However its a clownworld show out there filled with attentionwhores and proper garden tools. The real question is, is it really worth it? Isnt your time better spend elsewhere? Read ‘The Menu’ by Aaron Cleary I went my own way some time ago already and if i look around, i wouldnt want to trade places …
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 08:48 PM
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It will be 3vs1 if you let them in, and you can guarantee you wont get rid of them before they leave the house in a wooden box.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 08:39 PM
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OP is a nice guy that will kick himself in the nuts a few years down the line.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 06:27 PM
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You want to visit your father and you get a “If you want a divorce than go ahead” Well, that would be the exact thing i was going to do. Who the fuck does she think she is, the captain of the ship? Well, she could row that boat on her own cuz i wouldnt think twice and would get the fuck outta there.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 03:41 PM
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i feel like a lawyer would be a waste of money Wait untill the system takes you to the cleaners.. i would really advice you to talk to one.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 03:03 PM
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Which part of the army she wants to join? Is there a chance she might do a header with a full metal jacket round? Just kidding. jokes aside, I would give less of a fuck about what she wants to do, as far as i would see it, you’re single again and her problems about what she wants and wanted are no longer any of your concerns. Actions have concequenses and its time these women start to think before they act up on something. She made a shitty decision here, and it costs her a job. Make a shitty de…
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 02:55 PM
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No, thats YOUR consern.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/22 12:24 PM
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A japanese economy shitbox. The last thing you need is a fancy car that loses a fuckton of value
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/22 03:56 PM
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“Good things take time” 😉
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/22 12:35 PM
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Fight for our marriage bla bla Are you still… married?
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/22 05:23 AM
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drove me to the hospital and left Nice… visited me for 15minutes a day Who! Talking about sacrifices being made here.. set aside 3k for counseling, she doesnt want to go because its too expensive. Hate to say it, but shes right. i talk to her as much as possible. No dude, you’re doing the pick me pick me dance. i keep talking to her and letting her know i love her You’re acting logical, women act on feelings, she doesnt “feel it anymore” You know what also bases their actions on feeling? Little …
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/22 06:00 AM
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Thats because you don’t have other options. If you had 5 others lined up that story would be different. Now, finding a good girl these days is a hard as catching a Pixie from Harry potter. So you better focus on yourself, make bank, do whatever you want and be comfortable with being alone. Read ‘The Menu, life without the opposite sex’ that will provide you some insight in how slim the chances are. Believe me, it will get better. 5y from now you’ll slap yourself in the face and laugh about this …
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/22 07:24 AM
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Stopped reading after: >'' she was going to piss in my plastic storage container of clothes and shit in my pillow.'' ​ is her name fucking Amber? if this is real, get out, or if you already are, you fucking dodged a bullet.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/22 06:09 AM
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There are clue’s in your topic here, that you should pay attention to. Let me mansplain it to you. Your guy tells you he’s attracted to you, but still wont have bedroom fun with you. So thats a fucking lie. He’s not attracted to you, a guy will pretty much bone a girl he’s attracted to 24/7 when he gets the chance and time. Get his Testosterone checked. Now dont go full retard on him “ I WANT YOU TO GET IT CHECKED!!!?!!!11” just throw it out there that maybe he could get it checked, it might hel…
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/22 05:57 AM
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Proper garden tool.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/22 08:16 PM
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Ask yourself WHY he didn’t tell you, and you might want to take a hard look in the mirror. Maybe he wanted to surprise you, and make you proud that he got it, instead, you kicked him out. Nice. It’s on YOU that he didnt know what YOUR requirements are. Did you ask him why he didn’t keep you in the loop, or you just went full retard New Yorker on him and before he could say two words you told him to fuck off? Most kids these days are lazy, yes they fucking are. Because a lot of parents don’t pare…
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/22 05:35 AM
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By the time you found someone thats perfect, i might as well have found that Pixie from Harry Potter 😉
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/22 09:16 PM
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You do you, but i wouldn’t wait a second. The clock is ticking and if she can get more money out of you, chances are, she’ll take it. Remember, the cards are stacked against us. You sound like a solid guy, the world is at your feet, literally, you could do whatever you want. I know it sucks, but i wouldn’t waste my time on a mom of 2 that didn’t even respected what i did for her and the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/22 09:07 PM
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Ah a classic, one for the books. I’m sorry man, but what where you thinking..? Mom of 2, you pay way more than her, raising her and that other guys kids, still its not enough, and by a way of thanking you she’s throwing hissy fits at you.. nice, can you do the dishes next? Never burning myself on mom’s, wont even touch them with a 10ft stick. The Possibility you find one without bringing a shitload of drama and baggage in your life, is zero to none. A pixy from Harry Potter is easier to catch. A…
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/22 08:54 PM
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Chris Whalen CPA, sponsor of Sandman Vids he should be able to help you going forward. “First consultation always free, just like men going their own way”
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/22 03:25 PM
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Cool, happy for you, but there are some things in your text that made me think, i dont even know if it will turn into a relationship. Does it need to? Lets take a 2 year period, just to see where things go. Guys will spends months reviewing cars before they buy one, but when a girl rubs the knob, they are sold without hesitation. Be carefull and think with your big head. Do not cohabitate, dont buy shit together and whatever you do, dont sign that contract again. i just needed to feel valuable a…
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/22 04:40 AM
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Cant even imagine You assume, and assumption is the mother of all fuckups. Stay yourself safe and keep it in the pants.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/22 09:22 AM
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It sucks. Yes. But you need to start thinking logically going forward. Doing the “pick me,pick me dance” and blowing up her phone will only get you a harassment claim at best. We know it sucks, but lawyer up, and get it done. A mom that leaves her kid behind.. bet she “nEeDS sOmE sPaCe” … need any bigger red flag? Record everything is the state allowes that. And when she comes back from where she came from. Make sure you cant get the “whupsie, i’m pregnant” talk. Do not sleep with her going forw…
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/22 03:40 AM
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Yep, exactly my thought aswell. Anyway, back to the “my girlfriend goes out to work 7/7 and when she has a moment, goes to sleep at the hotel” clownworld show. OP, lawyer up and get it done, counsel doesnt work and is a brilliant way to flush cash down the toilet so to speak. Some say Nawalt i say Ewalt, never ever get married again and bro tip: make sure you dont get her “magically” preggo now or you’ll be on the hook for life.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/22 05:00 AM
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26, single mom of two, and the obsessive overly attached GF bertstare. Looking to bare one more child so you can fulfill the fatherly role for all of them and pay your whole goddamn life.. Yeah, No thanks. I rather go watch my gras grow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/22 04:04 AM
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The STATE is taking sides my man..
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/22 04:00 AM
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You dodged a bullet with her to be honest man. It sucks that you came back to this, i have unfortunately more friends that served and found themselves in these situations, call it a veteran tax of sorts. Chris brown nailed it with his song Loyal. Anyway, you dont need to “trust again” you need to understand female behaviour, this unfortunately will mean that you will (most likely) never trust or love them the way you did before and thats fine. Keep the discipline up man, you have in you what it …
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/22 05:23 AM
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Can you pay the mortgage at 6% if needed? Could you get it in your name, pay 6% , and sell it AFTER you divorced? you need to calculate the best ROI for youself.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/22 05:33 AM
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Dont do this since OP is trying to get full custody. Dont give them anything negative to throw at you, like breaking whats hers. you just give them enough rope to hang themselves.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/22 04:03 AM
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Good man, invite some dudes over to have some beer tastings, hang out drink a few and you'll have some guys to talk to. Seems like you're pretty active which is awesome.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/22 07:49 PM
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What are your hobbies?
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/22 06:54 PM
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Russian woman Watch out with East European women. They will eat you alive and spit you out before you see it coming. We had several multi-hour phone conversations. No, just no. Who has time for that? stop being Mr. nice guy. she was a little “curvier” than I anticipated, You're being too nice, she was fat. just say it like it is. if it walks like a duck and talks like a duck, it prolly is a duck. You're on the wrong sub mate, this is more for PUA' stuff but watch yourself, you might get burned, …
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/22 01:13 PM
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What, in the actual fuck. Passions; picknicking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/22 01:49 PM
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She wants a separation. Keeps saying she doesn’t want a divorce Read as: she wants you still liable for her and the kid, while Chad and Tyrone bone miles of dick through her when she leaves the house, but they will send her back where she belongs after they are done. The streets. Has been in recovery mode. I don’t know a single one that “recovered”, what does that even mean, she crossed the line, cant recover from whats done, or is she a known serial cheater? given another chance is a chance to …
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/22 05:55 AM
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Nurses, hairdressers and beauty salon queens.. seem like fishes in water
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/22 05:35 AM
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He won, but he still lost.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/22 07:41 PM
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Every date I've been on, the man paid. I go on date twice a week with different men for fun, it's my activity now Ladies, never put all your eggs in one basket , keep rotating men. She’s a proper garden tool, giving bad advice and pretty much guaranteed she will find herself post-wall, alone in a big empty bed or with some cats to amuse her, angry at the world for not being able to lock down a quality guy. I just have no sympathy for these Karens, i can only imagine the miles of dick they had ra…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/22 01:42 PM
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Tldr: rushing into a new relationship isnt the way to go. Most people do this to run away from their feelings, and that doesnt work. OP should take his time, take it slow and he will most likely find out that the juice isnt worth the squeeze in most cases.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/22 08:33 PM
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I cosign this, Man, i did it all. Banged 10 to forget one, went hardcore PUA, did bootcamps and ran some PUA groups. After a while, it gets boring A.F. , if you can give them the emotional rollarcoaster and know push-pull’s , dodge a shittest or 2 and its a done deal. If she has a boyfriend and they are having a bad day, well, to bad for the poor soul cuz its a done deal. Chris brown nailed it with the song “Loyal” Been there,done that. The juice isnt worth the squeeze, focus on yourself and be …
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/22 08:06 PM
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How old are the kids? Like 5y ago i was living with a dude that got his kid every other week but that kid was like 10y.o it was cool, layed back and nice so no issues with that. Just make sure any house mate is OK with that 😉
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/22 06:35 PM
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Do not cohabitate, do not commit, dont make her preggo, get a vasectomy.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/22 06:33 PM
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The dog was obviously aggressive. I dare to disagree with this - if someone that I don't know, came running towards me, invades my personal space, and tries to give me a hug I'll punch him in the mouth as well. Aggressive dogs bite hard as fuck, you can actually feel the difference in a biting suit. You won't be running towards them to give them a hug, or greet them nicely because they will tell you to piss off pretty clearly. from OP's story, it seems like the kiddo just invaded the space and t…
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/22 01:22 PM
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I know your feeling man - I as well hate these people to the core that believe in this nonsense of '' I have a dog, he has a dog! they have to be ''friends'' '
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/22 12:37 PM
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Maybe you can bring this to court and get full custody. Hope your kiddo recovers fine, and i do hope the dog is not put down. Dogs rarely bite out of the blue (there are exceptions) Rather take the owner down, but thats just my 2 cents.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/22 05:42 AM
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If you dont watch out, the judge will squeeze you a second time around aswell. Think with your big head instead of your small one 🤙 All the best.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/22 05:39 AM
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We could give you all the tips in the world, but at the end of the day the juice just isnt worth the squeeze anymore man. Sex is for sale, it’s something women are forgetting. Surrogacy is even becoming populair and i can already hear women cry. The phrase “i dont need no man” will soon find its reverse Uno card. Maybe they will go back to being real women again in 30 years i dont know, guys dont want to be around masculine negging 200pound landwhales, i’d rather fuck a hot toaster. At this poin…
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/22 05:32 AM
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I know a few dudes who do that while working remotely, pretty neat. Get your divorce settled first, dont let her run over you.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/22 03:13 PM
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Till we’re both in a good place to move on Yeah. Thats not how it works. My guess? She doesn’t want to downsize and cant afford a nice place on her own..? A guy basically is good when he lives in a basement with internet, so my guess would be that this is not your decision. Remember the last time you stayed with your Ex and your life all of a sudden was WAY better? Exactly, me neither. Would rather live in a shitty van, with my two dogs than with my ex Gf after we broke up.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/22 02:20 PM
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agreed, also BJJ is awesome. the brotherhood that comes with BJJ is a big positive aswell. takes some time to ''get it''
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/22 06:57 PM
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You just dont seem to get it. i dont have kids. So bring 2 mirrors if you like.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/22 04:46 AM
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Well you can, but you’ll take an arrow in the knee 😂
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 09:03 PM
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Proper garden tool. Leave her were she belongs for your own mental health. The streets that is. Raising kids in a half-broken family were the two have no respect for each other is even worse than were the two split up and show the kid(s) healthy feminine and masculine energy All the best! Stay strong, guys age like fine wine if they work on themselves
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 09:02 PM
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If children see that soon enough, than explain to me were the storm of “strong independent women” with red, blue and green hair, that come from single parent households and are man hating to the core of their beliefs, being and doings, are coming from. I believe you’re living in a fairytale. Time to wake up.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 08:57 PM
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I do agree with you, however, i can perfectly imagine the kiddo telling you kindly to get lost cuz you’re hurting mommy.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 06:09 PM
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Guess sometimes guys are brought to the edge and for their own mental health. They ‘need’ to walk away.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 05:35 PM
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Well, not always. Can you imagine how it is when your ex has full custody and is imprinting on your kids 24/7 that you’re the “fuckup bad dad that hurts mommy!” When thats actually the other way around? I think this happens more that you think. Easy to say “step up” when you just aren’t allowed to do so.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 05:16 PM
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In my country (EU), the kid need to be ABLE to have the same standars of living as before the divorce. However, If you’re a high income earner and your wife makes jack shit. The kids still need to be able to have the same standard of living. Now, the joke to all of this? No one checks where the money goes. So if Ms.GimmeYaMoney feeds him rice and oats she doesn’t have to do fuck all for the rest of her life besides opening her hand and your money will land into it. This till the kid is done with…
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 04:35 AM
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“ I dONt neEd No mAN! “ CaRs UsE OiL ?
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 04:31 AM
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Than you owe her whatever the value of that house is devided by the two of you. You cant sell it for a dollar to your company and * poef * it will be “free” of liability towards her. Otherwise i would marry some oligarchs daughter and sell all of the families assets to my company for a buck and divorce her ass lol. “I’m the oligarch now”
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/22 08:52 PM
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Thats because, the tingles in the coochie coochie will be stroked by a chad or tyrone without any issue, they have them at their fingertips by tinder, insta, fb and you name it… and if not by them, a blue pilled simp or daddy government will take the falling knife without problem. The cards are stacked against us, stay safe gents.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/22 08:48 PM
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After a while, your old friends will be gone. They say they will visit you but almost no one does. They have their own life and you have yours. Some of your really close family you will keep in contact with, but with most, you don’t after a while. I guess you will stay within the US if doing so, if not - please first learn the local language, you cant imagine how hard it is for foreigners in Europe that don’t speak the native language, i had to adjust in eastern Europe and found myself lucky i a…
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/22 08:28 PM
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There is just no burning desire between them, a girl will drive 200 miles on a Wednesday evening after a 10 hour shift on her period just to bang you, and hook you if she has burning desire, while she needs to go to work the next morning.. I literally know zero women/guys who can have 2/3x sex a year and be happy together… OP, run just run. No bullshit counseling, couple therapy or lets have a kid to grow back together nonsense. Get out of there wile you can
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/22 09:15 AM
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she wants to get married And i want a golden unicorn or a pixie from the Harry Potter movies. Until i get them, I won't get married. I urge you to do the same or you'll find yourself hitting your head against a solid concrete wall financially and legally. There is NOTHING you gain from marriage. Have sex only 2-3 times a year. Get out, get out now. you basically have a roommate. Brotip; dont stick your willy inside her from now on to prevent ''Wupsie! we're preggo and need to stick together from…
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/22 09:08 AM
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She should stop using them on that wrist…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 04:31 AM
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Correct me if i’m wrong, but thats an expensive word for becoming someone that works in a hair or nail salon? If so, thats actually good cuz she wont be in debt i assume (or hope..) so it would be easy for OP to pull the plug, which he wont i guess. This story is unfortunately a classic “Alpha fucks, beta buck$” one.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/22 08:40 PM
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You’re lucky the judge didn’t wipe his ass with it. A prenup does NOT protect you, and should not be given as advice.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/22 05:01 PM
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That dude is beyond saving. Cant’ learn the blind how to see, and the cuckt to become uncucked. They need to find and swallow that bittersweet R3dPill on their own. She had bedroom fun with “a friend” and he’s going over there with her..? I guess because the queen herself demanded so. Btw, is that kid his..? we have little info regarding that “small part thats besides the matter” lol. He cleans and cooks, while she complains? Lol. I’m just wondering what skill she’s learning, if he’s good at his…
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/22 11:36 AM
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Guess in the US they would need 5 to 12 years, to process all the divorces filed at godspeed before such new ruling went into effect lol… Stay safe gentlemen, don’t get married (again) and preach.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/22 05:36 PM
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So grey rock method it is. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/grey-rock
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/22 03:50 PM
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Do you have a lawyer? Let all communication go through the lawyer, hope you get out of this well. Never stick your dick in crazy, visible tattoo’s, daddy issues, piercings, attention 304’a , unhappy and unlucky, pink blue and green hair stay clear fella’s. Read the 20 res flags by Rich Cooper
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/22 03:44 PM
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Some dudes are on the hook for child support for if they fulfill “the fatherly role” so yes, a BIG chance this would/could happen. Remember that single mom that asked Reddit if she could claim child support cuz a neighbour did her a favor of babysitting a few times and thus fulfilled the fatherly role.. ? @OP get a DNA test first before you sign fuck all. get your swimmers tester before the kiddo arrives that will also provide you a clue if this is plausibly your kid or not, and if the issue was…
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/22 05:56 AM
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>my spouse has infertility issues. Appearently not. Whatever you do, get a DNA test. Assumption is the mother of all fuckups.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/22 07:39 PM
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The nonexisting logic these gals bring to soy-ciety is mind boggling from time to time.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/22 07:35 PM
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Get some remote IT job, preferably with a manager in a different timezone. i didnt see a office for 3 years now and can work from wherever i want basically. Now, that sounds all fun&glitters but the work is highly unsatisfying most of the times you’re number crushing, however if i put in 3-4h of focus a day, i’m done.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/22 06:20 PM
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Which field do you have experience?
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/22 05:09 PM
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In The Netherlands alimony went from 12y to 5y in 2020. With a MASSIVE spike in divorces december 2019, wonder how thats possible 🥸
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/22 04:20 AM
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So, officially she's living 100% off your money for 6 years already? Jeez fuck man, how this is possible is just beyond me but I cant say i'm shocked, anyway, cuckistan california hits again. not that marriage is worth it in any other state nor country. hope some fella's here can help you with some solid advice. all the best!!
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/22 08:08 PM
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Cheers to this
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/22 06:09 AM
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Her moving out for a month. Yeah, dont do that. The “i need space” bullshit she’s playing is only for one reason. To get the cuck from Chuck. While keeping you on the back burner as a doormat so she can just walk in again when Chuck sends her back to the streets. Dont be that guy. The house is on your name, did you buy it before you signed the marriage contract? if you can prove you were the only one contributing to it financially (also think about repairs) this ‘should’ go smooth for you. If no…
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/22 06:04 AM
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Record it , all of it (check your state laws if you can). lawyer the fuck up and get it over with man. you're living in a jail now anyway... >''If history can predict the future, she is going to physically assault me in some way when I tell her. That I can live through, what I am afraid of is she is 100% going to nuke my job and reputation. '' if she assaults you, that's partly because you let her, she knows you will put up with that shit. I'm not assaulting a gorilla, you want to know why? beca…
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/22 08:09 PM
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Fathering a secret baby with a woman i’m currently dating. Run. Just run. Why wouldnt you disclose its NOT yours? You ‘might’ want to have that written down that its NOT yours in case miss#2 comes after you for this alleged child of yours? In The United States of Cuckistan everything is possible. Again, run for the hills with your boy. Dont date single moms, they are a headache, focus on yourself and your kid.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/22 05:34 AM
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Yeah, but she will get the home according to OP. So she’s buying him out hence the do it fast.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/22 06:30 PM
1

Awesome. Dont sign a single thing 😉
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/22 04:14 PM
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Before anything is settled in court you sign fuck all. Dont sign anything, since it will be yours as well on paper. Everything you’ll give her before the court ruling will be a gift. As in, you wont be able to deduct it from the court ruling. (I believe the threshold for the money gifts is 10k up untill that point its even tax free lol!, but not sure in your state?) so dont, dont get burned, and save your money.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/22 05:33 AM
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It sucks now bro, but you’ll get through this. Give it all you got, give em hell cuz she deffo did the same by selling your lifestock and dogs wtf. No quarter 🏴‍☠️🏴‍☠️
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/22 05:16 AM
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There are so many variables, some dont, and rely on the fact that you will have to pay. Some have rich parents, sugerdaddies, (multiple) simps cashing in for them. Your old “joint bank account” you name it.. Edit; oh yeah, and “daddy government” will pay for them somehow when there are kids involved i guess. “I dOnT nEeD nO mAN!”
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/22 05:06 AM
2

“The most expensive sex worker, is the one on your couch” kinda thing.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/22 08:54 PM
2

Being generous in this regard, always bites you in the ass.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/22 08:52 PM
2

i’m willing to give you xxxx Never works. Give them a finger and they want an arm, and if they can, they will chop that arm off just under your head. Get a lawyer like YESTERDAY, fuck dude, i get you want to get it over with but hell, if you have 500k to spare, better make it a fucking good lawyer. Stop all contact, everything goes through the lawyer, You’ll thank yourself later.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/22 08:50 PM
5

Who’s house is it? If thats partially yours, YOU DONT LEAVE
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/22 05:45 AM
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And get it over with FAST
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/22 05:39 AM
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Being introvert is actually a really usefull thing buddy, however i do believe you’re not really an introvert since you “wouldn’t mind getting hit by a bus” Try to go to the gym and after a while you’ll get to know some dudes there. Shooting clubs are fun, or BJJ dojo’s have a really cool “brotherhood” , it takes some time to build up but its worth it. Now seriously, try to not get hit by a bus.. hit me up if you want to talk man 🤙
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 07:14 PM
4

Jeez fuck, sup dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/22 01:17 PM
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40yo garden tool demands balls and is FiNaLlY rEaDY tO sEtTlE dOWN lol. but let me guess, she cant find a “Good guy, cuz were are all the good men gone?!” Delusional as always, but whatever makes you sleep in that big, empty bed at night sweetie.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/22 01:13 PM
1

Good. Never get married its a trap. Use protection or get the snips. Focus on yourself 👍👍
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 09:09 PM
1

Damn
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 09:08 PM
1

a lot of wisdom in this for a 23y.o , young lads are finalyl waking up. seems like you dodged a bullet here aswell my friend. I said “cya and while you’re at it, please take your bags home too.” savage fuck haha.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 11:47 AM
5

I believe, lies come with consequences. Time to pull the reverse uno card. your body, your choice, your DNA your choice.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 06:21 AM
2

This. Assumption is the mother of all fuckups
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/22 07:42 PM
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I hate to bring it to you, but this will not work. People that “StAY tOgEThEr” for the kids are delusional, (in case the desire is gone between the partners, it’s over) And that is, because the whole feeling and setting within the household will be stone cold, and that is probably even worse, than when you were separated. What are you (as in the two of you) going to teach your kid, that you “dont love mommy, and cant touch her, nor be masculine around her, and she doesnt love you and will not be…
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/22 05:50 AM
1

Agreed on not spending that money for sure. Well, if you want it would get that over with asap myself.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 05:58 AM
1

I know, bruh. However, depending on what OP wants, there could be financial benefits to a lawyer as well, let alone.. his kids. The cost of doing nothing is more often than not, expensive.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 05:57 AM
1

Whats the difference in care between a 6 month old and a one year old.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 08:33 PM
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Why are you giving up on your house and the kids. You have a lawyer you need to pay anyway; might as well make it worth it.. if she pays for the equity in the house and you’re OK with that. And she wants/needs to pay fair price get it over with asap. These retarded house prices arn’t going to stick for long anymore (call me crazy, wait for it).
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 07:29 PM
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I win this game every time, because i dont play it. The only way to win this game, is not to participate in the first place.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 06:31 AM
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People with these kinds of stories should make youtube video’s , blogs , vlogs you name it just to educate young lads out there to net get caught up in this spiderweb
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 05:32 AM
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Mom of 6 , ravenclaw , house stark, burned by fuckboys, tattoos and beards are bonuses. Guess she was the karaoke in the back of the car
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/22 03:47 PM
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Cool story. So now, What about finances, marriage and kids OP? In which state do you live? Some redditors might have some good lawyer for you based on the state, cuz do get a lawyer. Does your wife work, does she has a 401k / pension fund? How about you? Do you have a prenup (although prenups are worth as much as toilet paper once the judge throws them out) Kids? You’re Mid 50’s so i would guess they are out of the house or close to that if any..?
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/22 02:23 PM
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Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. See you in a few years OP.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/22 07:19 AM
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Seems like you didnt really read the book ey
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/22 05:03 AM
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So what you’re saying is that you got your wife, who is getting the pipe of a “meth teethed alcoholic loser” flowers, a nice card and breakfast in bed? What are you showing her here? “ do whatever you want girl and i’ll still be here! “ Ofcourse she snaps at you, she has less respect for you, than the doorknob because you dont set boundries. You do not need to show your kids a healthy and caring relationship. Because kids are not stupid and feel/see whats going on in the relationship. They need …
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/22 04:57 AM
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Just the balls she has to tell you to fuck off from your own place, oh boy 😂 Edit; anways, lawyer up and i would get out asap. The clock is ticking, and dont break for her sudden positive “i want us to try again, let me clean your pipe” mood changes that pop up with some gals when they see the writing on the wall.. Think with your big head. All the best!
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 11:50 AM
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How about you stop replying to everything except for shit actually about your kids. Its not your fucking concern her dad is fixing her dishwasher. She has the kids, and on “her time” they want/need to go somewhere? SHE decides, they want to go somewhere on “your time” YOU decide. Also, tell your new GF it’s about your kids and she should give you some rope here. But i do agree (kinda..) with her, you tell your ex to shut up if its not about your kids and move the fuck on.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 05:15 AM
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A LOT of the women these days have some ADHD, BP, BPD BPdWhateverism. Why even bother with getting it tested. Get the fuck out of there asap. Would you stick around if some doktor tell you she’s “positive for whatever like 97% of them these days” ? It just doesnt justify any bad behaviour. GET OUT, guys sticking up with this shit are retards, and fucking it up for everyone.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 04:53 AM
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wife 30 and me 28. Oh oh… there we go. I feel baby rabies coming up! I asked her to find a place She wants you to take control, but instead you let her do the leading. she told me to pack my bags. Haha, lol.. Is the house 100% hers? If not, she could fuck off as far as i’m conserned, let me mansplain it to you. Healthy feminin Wumen like it when a guy leads and isnt a doormat, sets boundries and dont let her cross these boundries. She will however shit test just to make sure you’re “that guy”. H…
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 04:46 AM
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Doesnt surprise me a single bit. Also the reason why young fella’s are waking up and checking out. They just dont play this game, and its the only way to win. Feminist did fuck it up themselves with the “i dont need no men” speech and the “ strong independend wymin get all law systems”. They dont give young lads any goal to work for. Go out and start a company, or climb the corporate ladder or get into trades, work your ass off and make bank for what..? A negging 200+ pound landwale on the couch…
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/22 07:14 AM
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bad bot
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/22 08:15 AM
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>Guys like that are fucking morons. They are.They're also, the reason why women can do what they do now, there will always be some simp there, catching the falling knife. power of the pussy. >date a woman with BPD AND has kids. Never stick your dick in crazy, test every women you want to have bedroom fun with before you stick your willy in it, even with a rubber. never stick your dick in crazy, it will backfire. And never raise another mans kids. cuckoldry at its finest. Most guys are just so fu…
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/22 06:57 AM
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I’m in the same boat, had the sales pitch a few times but never signed a contract that can be used against me, without any upside in it. We can only preach all together so more and more men, read the experiences we all combined experienced. Guess we did, what a lot of others unfortunately didnt. We looked.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/22 10:26 PM
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A 72% chance, damn you’re accurate 😂
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/22 01:25 PM
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he said no, he comes from a broken family and this is normal for him. Guys like to complicate their live and justify why.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/22 11:26 AM
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😂😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/22 08:22 PM
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Minimalism guys, minimalism. The less stuff you need to clean, the more time you have. You’ll have more “head space” You’ll have more money, cuz you stop buying shit you dont need, to impress people you dont even like.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/22 08:20 PM
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More and more men are walking away, they will find us anyway. They can ban and sensor the MGTOW communities as much as they want, but this ‘ pro feminine law and order’ world creates MGTOW’s on mass. Too bad you need to experience pain and fuckery yourself ( as far as i know) to rly understand the way of life. The only way we can teach, is to preach. You can bring a horse to the pond, but it needs to drink by itself.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/22 08:13 PM
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You sounds more than sober on this. Goodgame to you. Now, just think; how can you make this case the strongest and water-tight as possible. Lawyer, get evidence of the affair, even if it doesnt change a thing, still get the evidence. You’re proĺy right About the house pricing, wallstreet is buying up everything with free money they get from uncle Jerome and is (hopefully) likely to stop pretty soon, 08’ all over again. Call me crazy. If you can, i would get that house sold asap but thats just me…
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/22 05:14 PM
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Jeez..
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/22 12:57 PM
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Delete all fucking social media and dating apps (although, SM is a dating app in itself…) You’ĺl be free again. Watch the social dilemma.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/22 04:19 AM
7

When? Like yesterday or the day before. “EVERYThInG sHoULd Be FaIR” said the scorpion to the frog…
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/22 04:06 AM
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I know its hard, but it seems like you’re doing the right thing and are taking it the correct way. Grey rock is a rly good method not to poke a bear imo. GG
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/22 01:05 PM
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Yeah most deffo wrong - it has to be autocorrect 🥸
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/22 08:43 PM
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>My attorney thinks status quo will outweigh forensic's reporting anyway. WTF. Anyway, leave no stone unturned. this ain't no joke damn. i feel for you and your kids. all the best. keep us updated.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/22 05:58 PM
1

I think you already have the answer, and you're only looking for us to tell you to go ahead with it and file the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/22 05:55 PM
1

wumeng, wymyn, wimin. well, if it walks like a duck, and talks like a duck, it probably is a duck ;)
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/22 05:52 PM
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True that. “Some years ago” they would be done. Now they are “StONg EmPoWeRED wIMyN”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 04:44 PM
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“Should probably mention that” Nah luv, we already assume that anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 04:43 PM
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Its depends on what you call upsides i guess..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 01:37 PM
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Counseling is overrated, girls will drive 200 miles when having their period, at 3AM after working 10 hours just to fuck you and hook you, if thats what it takes and if they have the burning desire for you.. If she doesnt have burning desire for you its over, a done deal, case closed. 5 years, fuck dude.. i have no clue the amount of money and time you put into this (i hope its split 50/50 $..?) i would call it quits and go on with my life. Probably a long time ago already.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/22 01:34 PM
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Yes, not getting married was the best investment that i’ve ever made, same as not going to college for a worthless degree and being 200k in debt. Maybe this will help; https://youtu.be/qXxkrFwmWSc
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/22 05:28 AM
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🤝
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/22 08:28 PM
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Ofc. Never her fault sHE fElT LiKe THiS
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 05:42 PM
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Thats also why most of anti depressant users are young wumeng these days. Also the reason why most of the wumeng actually have these red flags and everything and everyone is the problem, but themselves.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/22 04:45 AM
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hospitality industry, as in , hoe-spitality industry.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 04:50 PM
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No hobbies. No intrests in life, besides sitting in front of a fucking phone. Always being the unhappy and unlucky. No financial intelligence. Male friends. Cant keep her room clean. Cant do basic math without calculator. Overweight. And last but not least - a single mom
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 04:45 PM
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I thought i hit the jackpot when i met her! Right there, you have your problem.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 01:59 PM
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I know it doesn’t help, but dude, why don’t we stop with making kids with crazy wumeng.. for fuck sake i see more and more of these posts flying up here lately, seems like a fucking trend to fill up some crazy girl. Anyways, why does it cause you to back off? Actions have reactions on both sides. So she preventing YOU to have YOUR parents see them (the kids) can only be met with a counter reaction and backing off doesnt do it i guess. So now, what are your options? Do you have alone time with th…
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 06:30 AM
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You 30 and she 43.. fuck dude. The wall salutes them. Now start to think with your big head instead of your small head. Go out and better yourself, be the best version of yourself. And if you want, than hang out with 23-27 year olds, yeah you probably will have nothing in common, but also with a 43yo you have jack shit in common.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 12:46 PM
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I’m at the point that, when a girl has any social media - she’s out. I dont care if its “jUsT To TaLk tO FriEnDs” i’m not going to fotoshoots and stand half naked on pictures for ‘my friends’ .. i meet up with them or call them. I dont need the drama in my life anymore and when people pose for a picture with one leg up and exposing 50% of their ass, i just smile, cringe, and get the fuck out of the venue. Focus on yourself, read The Menu https://www.amazon.com/Menu-Life-Without-Opposite-Sex/dp/B…
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 11:01 AM
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She is getting something out of you, be it comfort , an emotional tampon or money. Sometimes more things combined. She isn’t with you ‘just for you’.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 05:58 AM
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She doesnt want a divorce Correct. Let me mansplain it to you; she wants a doormat, one she can walk over and get money and stability from. Whats her age? I expect post-wall digits. She will resent you anyway. She will resent you if you stay, and pull the blame game on you if you divorce. After all it “iSNT hEr MisTaKe sHe FeLt lIKe iT” young kids also do things based on feelings, young kids also shit on the carpet.. just saying. Anyway, This all, while getting the eggplant from chad, who will, …
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/22 08:50 PM
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There is only one reason she wants you to do the paperwork instead of a lawyer. She wants to benefit, a lawyer knows the law and what’s possible, you dont. You have your answer right there.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/22 05:14 PM
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Can totally see you put effort in it, and googled it. Here ya go, https://entrepreneursincars.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/The-Unplugged-Alpha-Chapter-4-20-Red-Flags-1.pdf
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/22 03:40 PM
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The wall salutes them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 03:04 PM
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If you find ‘a healthy one’ in the wild, you found a unicorn, or a pixie. I’m not saying it cant be done, but you need to sift through a lot of shit to find one, and even if so, are you rly going to put up with the negging, shit tests and going to over her boring friends birthday party cuz soyboy soyciety tells you to? i’m not willing to do so since my time is to valuable for me personally.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 05:14 AM
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“Proper garden tool” 20 guys in 24 months, followed by the blame game is a classic, like a small kid, however small kids shit on the carpet, and in their pants, not on grown up men. Not sure why someone would stick around for her. Actions have consequence sweetie..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 12:54 AM
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i’ve had well over 100 Took you a long time to learn then.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 07:57 AM
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Doing his ex wife a pleasure of splitting it fair, doesn’t seem she had a legal right for it in the first place or the court ‘probably’ had given it to her. So basically, giving free shit to someone you want to get rid of, and sooner or later, that will sting. The falling knife, i mean his wife, after he would have split it even more in OP’s favour. Dont take everything to the letter whats written (but your username checks out lol 😅)
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 06:10 AM
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i co-sign this statement, GG
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 08:14 PM
1

she only needs one, and a chad can help her to ''Go On HoLiDaY'' to Venuzuela, than to fuck off to Trinidad and bye bye
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 08:14 PM
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not sure about the US - but in most of Europe if they only FILE that you touched her in an agressive way (if you know what i mean.) - the police needs to open an investigation and you automatically 'lose' your license for that time of the investigation and thus, need to deliver everything (guns, ammo, papers) to a gunshop or the police to get it ''stored for the time being''
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 08:13 PM
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but I left some meat on the bone for her. you'll regret this, mark my words. no more Mr.Nice Guy, that chad she was boning could take the falling knife as far as I'm concerned
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 08:10 PM
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GG, now enjoy your life and never ever sign that contract again - or cohabitate. Anyways, did you sell the house? will you keep it and buy her 40%, or whats the plan here?
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 08:09 PM
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Believe me, people that stay together for the kids but are always fighting arnt any better than a divorced couple. Probably even worse. Anyway. To give some value to you. Lawyer the fuck up. These text can actually be used FOR you… save all the evidence you can get and try your best to get full custody of your kid.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 05:36 PM
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You are a dumbass. For paying everything for her. It’s like giving an addict alcohol just in the hope it wont rob the gas station for booz, it doesnt solve jack shit. Are you set for life? Or are you throwing away money you will need pretty soon yourself (considering your age) Do you know the boy is yours? Did you get it DNA tested? Assumption is the mother of all fuckups. Anyway, If you would have spend that money to prove a judge the kid(s) are becoming worthless contributors of soy-ciety you …
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 11:11 AM
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True. Cant convince someone to join the RP. They find us and we can only accept and preach.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 08:27 AM
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Atleast OP wrote a Tldr, the only good thing about this whole bible.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 08:26 AM
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“ Ding ding ding! We have a winner johnny! “ Mother of 4 No work but income On dialysis And for this goldie, you only need A car Dont rent but own steady income Geez, wonder why she’s single!.. Tldr; Entitled garden tool thinks she’s 21 again without kids and baggage. These wymin need to self reflect, in a lot of places sex is for sale, and besides sex, this one is only bringing in drama and medical bills. No thanks Jeff.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 07:04 AM
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Totally normal, since you dont fit the good ol’ “House, 2,5kids, 30k wedding and a dog” picture anymore. A lot of guys don’t want to see, and wymin guard this ‘beautiful’ illusion with their lives, like a Cuckoo just push the others out of the nest. Anyways, I found a new hobby lately, i try to see the fire of burning desire in people’s eyes when they are together. Try to pay attention to other people on the street and you cant help yourself but to shit and giggle since you’ll start to notice a …
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 06:43 AM
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“He didnt take it well at all” No shit 😂😂 jeez fuck, i hope this is a joke
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 05:24 PM
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At an eggplant farm.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 05:04 AM
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A professional… what exactly?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 04:51 AM
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We all find it through some shit, or trauma we experienced right, Teaching men to become aware/r3d pill doesnt work. They need to find it themselves, and we can only open-arm welcome them to learn. There is no need to feel stuck, you just start your new journey, give it time and reflect on how YOU want your life to be. The world is yours! I never got married. Had the sales pitch a few times but never saw the benefit of it, i however gave up on dating, co habitation and marriage as a whole aswell…
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/22 08:48 PM
2

Take my upvote for mentioning Rich, he fucks. Also watch Better Bachelor, and Men zone for shit an giggles.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/22 05:13 PM
2

Read the 20 red flags by rich cooper.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/22 06:01 AM
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You spend 5k and your lawyer sends his intern. Nice. Lawyers gonna lawyer. Now call that cunt and tell em you want him in there wtf.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/22 06:07 PM
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Fuckton of veggies and meat. Close to no carbs. Only around workouts.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/22 02:24 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dasNyOeRJGA ​ i did reply also on your other thread in that sub. thats now closed and seems that your OP is deleted lol. came across this YT vid, maybe it does come in handy.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/22 11:42 AM
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Dont want to hijack OP’s topic, but after knowing all of this, and as a female ”not a dude, bruh” why on earth did your son get married..?
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/22 05:47 AM
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Whoever flies, pays for it themselves. Never set your kids on a plane, they just “might not want to come back wink wink”
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/22 09:25 AM
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Anyone else feel kind of emotionless Yes. The more shit you deal with, the more of a rock you become. More like a ‘oh well..’ kinda state of mind
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 05:38 AM
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>that she was a whore and had a nasty pussy. - Didn't you know that before you stuck your willy in her without a raincoat? - How long you guys were together before you started to have kids? - did you get a DNA test? Yes i'm serious. Assumption is the mother of all fuckups. >she was asking her coworkers about her boss she used to sleep with and wanted him to come to us. That's only because you let her, i wouldn't stick up with that bullshit. wouldn't go to that place to eat in the first place. bu…
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/22 02:12 PM
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You could call it that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 12:27 PM
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28 and 4 kids. Well, she was consistent at something atleast… No thanks, i have work to do, and a life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 06:08 AM
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she took our 3 kids and our main vehicle. Right there.. if you did this as a guy, you would be in jail. Straight to jail. she also took money out our account and told me she left $60 Wat. $60 whole dollars, how generouse. i guess next options. Yeah, maybe the ‘news’ didnt get to you yet, but you need to leave Cuckistan’s mindset and wake up. Idk why you would let someone walk over you like that. Taking the kids, the car and money and you dont know what your next options are..? Its pretty simple …
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/22 05:37 AM
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Anyway, if you go back you give her a free pass of doing whatever the fuck she wants and still, you”ll take her back. If you take her back, she will resent you anyway, cuz you’re not the strong masculine power that does whatever he wants in HIS life. Plus, sorrow comes after the fact. My dogs wait for me at home untill i return, dont be her dog.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/22 11:03 PM
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Also, set boundries for social interactions / dating according to your own values. Social media is one of the biggest distractions of people. Living for the dopamine of a like, A real diary for always having a backup guy/girl on there. If a girl has social media, she wont make the cut for me personally. Call me crazy, but i dont need drama in my life or one of these wymen scrolling on the couch crying that Sally is getting married, chris is having a kid and Chad is on holiday, and her life is a …
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/22 10:58 PM
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Keep us up to date.. this is one of the rare cases a guy actually can split without getting roasted.. i say CAN.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/22 05:33 PM
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If she doesnt have burning desire for you, or if trust is broken on one side, its a done deal. Tldr; never get married.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/22 03:01 PM
6

I woud like to fall in love, and you? GrumpyCat.meme
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 10:34 AM
10

I’m not going to sugarcoat it for you, yet another shittest / drama attempt, cut someone out of your life that you bearly see and lives 3 hours away? And a “small” detail… it’s your mom.. Get real. Time for the reverse uno card: I would cut out the suicidal, drinking woman out of my life. When people ask you to cut out friends/fam out of your life its a BIG red flag.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/22 08:05 AM
0

the wall awaits them. Wymen age like milk, guys like wine. lets see when they are 40 and chad decides to wife up a 20yo.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/22 11:07 AM
5

She cried because she got caught, not because it made you feel like Shit. Anyway, if you continue to be together with her and want to take on that clownworld show, it’s all yours. However do set boundaries she cant cross or its history. You failing to set and maintain these boundaries will result in her losing all the respect for you thats left (is any), and walking over you straight to Chad and Tyrone. Maybe you can forgive, but cant forget.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 06:23 AM
9

So basically arouns 1/4th of what you make is going to her, i’m not sure if that’s considered normal to be honest, but to me it sounds a lot.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 08:53 PM
2

Sorry to hear bro. Hope all is well and stay strong over there!
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 07:00 PM
2

im not sure about the US - but in the EU you will be royally fucked if you 'decline' someone access to 'their' residential place. that is if you're a guy. as a wymeng you tell the courts you had to do it for your safety and you’re good to go.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 06:16 PM
6

Wouldn't wait a second, lawyer the fuck up and file that shit. also, don't make her preggo (aka, don't stick it in, not even with a raincoat on your willy), and if she ''magically'' ends up preggo do a DNA test. without kids, and a short(?) marriage - you might pull this one off kinda alright even in Cuckistan California. All the best.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 06:14 PM
5

And a “nice woman”
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 09:04 PM
2

Like cockroaches, never just one.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 09:03 PM
8

Sorry man, i stopped at; i cant rule out getting married again Seems like you weren’t hurt bad enough. I dont mean that the bad way, that i would wish worse on you, i mean that in a sense that you got off lucky and shouldn’t want to dodge a bullet again. Learn from your mistakes but most of all, the mistakes from other.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 05:06 PM
2

How about we make the laws so we wouldn’t need a legal army in 99% of the cases.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 05:47 AM
1

Courts dont give a flying fuck about men, we’re disposable or so they believe. 40y.o and 4 kids from 3 different dudes? No worry hunny there will be some plugged in beta male, ready to take care of you. Anyways, back to the clownworld show; I think here we need to take into consideration WHY the two are braking up. Who crossed the line so to speak. If one cheats and still get half of the shit and alimony, its the same as when i’m speeding but get a cash check from the cops and their uniform as a…
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 05:43 AM
0

A Prenup, is worth as much as toiletpaper the judges uses in the morning. The counterpart only need to claim that ‘they needed to sign it and were under pressure to do so’ for it to be invalid. Ask Dr.Dre how thats turning out for him.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 05:24 AM
10

No you wont, unless you have it recorded and only if thats allowed were you live (to record). My cousin got a text from his X that “she bought a new car with his money” how lovely. The only way to win, is to not play the game. Stay out of the casino Gents. It never was 50/50.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 05:19 AM
2

Good the table turned for once. Maybe courts and judges are starting to realise that men are not signing up for this shit anymore since everything is in favor of the wumeng. If this would be a business contract, you would basically tell the male part in the contract to stfu while you punch him in the face, and if he complains, you fire him and take half his shit.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 05:16 AM
113

What in the actual fuck did i just read. What has been seen, cannot be unseen. Another lowpoint in soy-siety
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 08:38 AM
8

“They took over the fatherly role” Seriously, dudes are getting so fucked by the law. You’re basically getting pushed into becoming a Ghost Mgt0w by law and order just to be somewhat safe. Cuckistan Florida takes it to a whole new dimention; https://www.myfloridalaw.com/child-support-law/paying-child-support-not-the-father/ Was cohabiting with the mother at the likely time of conception; Was married to the mother at the likely time of conception; Was named by the mother on the child’s birth cert…
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/22 05:21 AM
2

That would depend on the co habitation laws in your state. Some states see couples living together as married after a period of time (mostly its 2y’s). Ask a lawyer if that makes you sleep at night. And get your kid back.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/22 05:16 AM
2

Limiting belief.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/22 05:10 AM
7

A prenup is worth as much as toiletpaper when the judge whipes his ass with it. There is only one way to win the game Dont play.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 05:50 AM
26

Wait a few more years. Men are so tired of this shit. People in their 20’s are happier building lego, a car, paint or do productive stuff and going to the gym than actively seaking for wymyn. They just dont want to deal with the drama anymore, and i’m one of them. This will create a whole other game were wymyn will become despirste to find the cuck if Chuck, since everyone is walking away. this in itself will create a whole new clowworld show. The Gov will probably will step in too at some time …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 05:57 AM
1

No we cant. Even is she was a Stay at home mom. There is no way why you would need give her 4K to literally do fuck all after you guys broke up and leech of the ex-partner. Remember jmsquared has full custody. So with the 4k a month for the comming 5 yeary, she’s doing what exactly? The BS of ‘i need the same or above standard living average’ like i had before the divorce - is a joke. This is why so many divorces are filed, divorce is in most cases, financial rape. and you know who profits 98% o…
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 05:50 AM
2

“The most expensive pr0st!tute, is the one next to you on the couch at home” kinda thing.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 05:41 AM
6

To the point where she doesn’t even have to work 99% of the wymen are only looking for that. Some say Nawalt, i say Ewalt. A kid is just to strongarm the judge/court with crocodile tears and fake allegations while going after the walking ATM ; as in, you. Mother says she cant work due to medical issues Lawyer the fuck up, almost no kid costs 4k a month in expenses. Time to pull the reverse uno card. If she cant physically work, than she cant take care of the kid.I would go full blast on her, law…
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/22 06:01 AM
1

Not always. Some states look at this exactly the opposite.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/22 08:56 PM
3

Dont be Mr.Nice guy or captain save a 304 “I dont want to screw her over” dude.. What do you do when someone swings at you? Exactly, you dont eat that fist, you block, counter, and continue to make sure the opponent knows they fucked with the wrong dude. Now, from your story, she was the one to swing at you, the ball is in your camp now. (Legally, that is) Dont be a pushover and fight for everything you’ve earned. Why are you holding back? There has to be something.. Are you thinking of getting …
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/22 08:54 PM
5

she wishes it was just us That would be enough for me, to walk away. She knew the deal before signing up. Buyers remorse is a bitch and doesnt fly very well with me when kids are involved, especially your kids. Place your kids first. Do you think you’re the only one stuggeling with this? Your kids feel that she doesnt like em. The reason you married with drama2.0 is still unclear to me. Sorry to bring it to you but her ‘view’ of the kids that arnt hers are NEVER going to change. She doesnt have …
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/22 05:46 AM
1

This might just be a trap, she will walk straight into. But @OP talk to a lawyer asap.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/22 05:53 AM
1

Bad bot
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/22 05:51 AM
2

Dont sign, dont talk to her, nor her attorneys. Talk to yours. No need to fight but no need to get fucked over. All the best, and pls update how this develops. (tag me, cuz i will lose sight of this reddit post)
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/22 05:51 AM
5

Lol’d
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 05:47 AM
3

I noticed the more fame and moneyz a guy shows. The trasier the wymyn. Leeches look for good blood, to suck it out and leave once the animal is dead and drained.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/22 05:37 AM
3

No, cuz he even slaps like a bitch. To be honest: No, the dude has no self respect and is a proper gardentool for that wymyn of his (well, not only his.. lol) if he would have had done the right thing he, would have kicked her out the second after he found out. And would laugh like a total badass at a joke. He’s Will Smith.. he could have another 27 year old 2 seconds before he dumped that cheating serpent out of his life if he wanted. But instead he plays victim and capitain save-a-hoe He was s…
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/22 05:30 AM
10

The profile pic had me like “ah, yeah..”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 11:18 PM
5

She thrown this word around for a while now. Thats only because you let her. she wants me to sell it, she will not move on until the car is sold. Move on? Move on from doing what? Bringing up a new hissyfit to make your life a drama? Man up, grow a pair of balls, and tell her to fuck off before the car goes. I’m 109% sure its a shit test and your pride and joy isn’t going, done deal, end of story. the issue was because i spend too much time working on the car No surprise here, she doesnt control…
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/22 12:03 PM
6

Marriage is great when she is your partner Thats highly debatable.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/22 06:00 AM
5

I feel for you bro, all the best!
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/22 05:25 PM
20

Mate, you dodged a burning hot bullet. If she doesnt have burning desire to be with you its over. She claiming she’s bored just means she wants to have drama in her life again. She needing space is her trying to create a bubble to get the cuck from chuck in the gym and keeping you as a plan B. Now i myself hate drama and plan B’s. its also the reason why i never got married, never will get married and after being fucked over before in relationships, never commit long term. Sex is for sale and wy…
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/22 05:02 PM
1

Hunting. But it can be hard to start doing that correctly. You will need to have some guidance from mainly older people to do it correctly (ethically).
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/22 06:34 AM
8

@OP Just tell her, you gave her time, plenty of it back when you were together. She crossed the line by getting the cuck from chuck. You want to move on with your life, so now she can fuck off, and get her ass out asap. She apparently has a place to go, and even if she didn’t i wouldn’t care. Didn’t realise how hard it would be on her own Seems like the other chad kindly told her to fuck off, nice. Well who’s the independent strong wymen now.. When someone makes bad choices, its their mess to cl…
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/22 06:00 AM
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“AnD iM iN tHaT sTAGe oF lIfE tHaT i wAnT a PaRtnEr” Another one bites the dust, nice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/22 09:23 PM
5

I just started laughing… fuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 04:56 PM
11

Yeah. No thanks. And brotip: get rid of social media.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/22 05:43 AM
1

Without a job ….. OR BENEFIT 🤡 🤡 🤡 Tldr: wall-grl looking for walking ATM machine, to have kids with so she can have his resources
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/22 08:23 PM
2

Wife loses attention after we sign prison documents. Yeah, thats what happens man. She got you by the balls, and the law works in her favour. Now, i’m not sure were you are living, but get a lawyer asap. Short marriage + no kids might work in your benefit we dont have a child Good. Now make sure that doesnt happen. When she rubs your knob 3 times we both know its going in. No kids make it easier, and most likely cheaper to get rid of her. i’m working like a horse and take care of all the expense…
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/22 05:35 AM
3

Doesnt need to be in a softer fashion. These are the facts. No need to sugercoat them. OP shouldve learned something after the first time imo.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/22 05:25 AM
6

I think you have the wrong understanding of the word.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/22 04:10 PM
3

Bright future ahead. “ DoNt waSte My TiMe “ fuck me, these wumeng rly think men are staying retarded.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 09:27 PM
3

The modern day wymen isnt only throwing you under the bus, she’s driving it..
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/22 06:50 AM
9

>I may not get married again, not sure. yeah, dont. >The 27 & 32 yo, were like no we don't want to get hitched right away, 6 months later it was why aren't we engaged.. And when can we have kids the wall is closing in on them at that age - and they want to secure the safe future, marriage and kids bring. a red hot bullet you dodged here. >I'm looking for someone to grow old with and that will stick around, and that we both enjoy being around each other Than get a dog.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/22 07:17 PM
3

Dude, please dont hold back on your lawyer costs now. Thats basically the only thing preventing a judge from slamming the verdict a 100% her way You had your life pretty much planned out until this wymyn came in your life. Fuck i feel for you. Leave no stone unturnd and all the best brother.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/22 06:44 AM
5

goodluck man, seems like you have your shit sorted out. im more than happy for you!
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/22 09:24 AM
4

Yeah, you dont. Dont make fast decisions, have someone in your corner represent you, and can make clear decisions for you. You wanting her gone, being hurt, or angry or just want it to be over.. will make decisions you just might regret later on. Also double check the limit in your state of a monetairly gift, if its below that amount it will probably NOT be deducted from the amount she gets when court has settled this, and also, she most likely wont pay any taxes over such gift.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/22 07:20 PM
1

Yeah exactly, than you stay. That house is more yours than hers.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/22 06:37 PM
4

I co-sign this. No more Mr.Nice guy
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/22 05:34 PM
1

Is that your house? If not, are the invoices om your name so you can prove you paid for the repairs / work you did ? If so. Get back in asap and dont leave. Lawyer the fuck up like the day before yesterday. Good luck man
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/22 05:32 PM
52

Whiteknights and shouting snales to the rescue as Always. She got what she deserves, just not enough.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/22 07:08 PM
4

“Subredditdrama” My guess is, you got what you were looking for. Drama.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/22 05:49 AM
5

Playing the blame game. increase the drama / high blood pressure situations trying to compete with me financially visible big tattoo’s debt Weird / fucked up friends. on meds
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/22 02:27 PM
1

Damn guys, i feel for y’all! Fuck..
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 06:13 AM
1

Death by a thousand cuts if you stay. You’ll prolly die of a stroke by this non stop bullshit. A guy who is making 6 figures had options if he wants to. Get out, work on yourself and enjoy.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 07:19 AM
13

Never wake up a sleeping dog, it might bite.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/22 10:02 PM
20

She doesnt need to buy a parrot. Poor bird wouldnt have a chance to talk anyway cuz she doesn’t shut up for 5 sec.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 08:52 PM
7

They should know. No secrets.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/22 09:05 AM
0

good luck OP, what made you decide to have a second kid with her even if she's bipolar type 2 ..?
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/22 07:51 AM
-2

Just walk out, you work to live not live to work. I get the 24/7 mindset if you have some ownership in the company, and making big bucks. Given you dont get good commissions for months now makes me wonder that your not getting top notch dollar for your work. Its no charity work and i dont work for free, nor does that CEO of the company. And however i’m not a fan of the ‘group’ the guys over at r/antiwork might have some usefull insights for you.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/22 05:36 AM
1

Not everyone is willing to do this, and live life hidden. However if OP wants to do this he better has his shit airtight planned cuz this wont be a walk in the park. I think its easier to lawyer the fuck up and get the best closer in town to get the divorce done. Or dont get a divorce and just move…
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/22 02:55 PM
1

Monero.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/22 02:50 PM
3

90k for 4.5 YEARS …. Well, fuck.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/22 03:27 AM
2

You ever went over there?
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/22 08:54 PM
4

Lol’d @ “some weird country”
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/22 07:07 AM
4

Yeah you dont move out, who’s she to demand that lol. You can give what you get. Lawyer the fuck up, record everything.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/22 02:13 PM
12

Dont do the pick me dance, she left months ago, mentally. Sorry man, it sucks for now, but get your shit together. Lawyer the fuck up and get it done with.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/22 10:17 AM
2

22 and 3 kids… bright future ahead!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 05:29 PM
4

And a lawyer that doesnt throw it out in court.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/22 07:14 AM
22

I died 😂
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/22 09:18 PM
10

Who the fook pays 32k for a rock
/r/PussyPassDenied24/12/21 10:22 PM
10

What a fucking badass 😂😂
/r/PussyPassDenied24/12/21 10:21 AM
6

A day, like yesterday. Or like 6/7 years ago.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/21 05:54 AM
9

It jUsT hApPeNeD! I sneezed and Poef! My clothes were gone! 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/21 05:41 AM
1

Ask.your.lawyer you can potentially gain, or not lose, 10k by asking a question..
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/21 05:33 AM
9

It is. Hypergamy at it finest.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/21 02:37 AM
1

😂😂 cant strip a rock
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/21 04:46 AM
2

“i 12 hours and come home to this” After googling this ; Fuck me.. lawyer the fuck up, you’re not a walking ATM, get the fuck out of there and enjoy life.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/21 05:51 PM
7

Atleast, you can do whatever the fuck you want without Ms. Sour titz scrolling through her phone on the couch and a face thats almost hitting her tits. Blast that music, get yourself a drink and think about the good shit in life.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/21 04:12 AM
1

That ice was broken i bet
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/21 03:40 PM
1

Record.everything if your state allowed it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/21 03:39 PM
4

She tazed you? And stole your fruity laptop? Oh boy.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/21 06:02 AM
1

Fwah, that would creep me the fuck out
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/21 11:27 AM
2

Another reason not to get married. Its signing a contract that can be used against you.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/21 07:45 AM
4

How is it that you’re still married there but not ‘here’… thats which country?
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/21 04:59 PM
2

Totally understand, however this will also consume you now. What it she rubs your knob 3 times and tricks you. Now you’ll need the PHD to take care of the kid and the mom. I would be honest, and run for the hills.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/21 03:34 AM
6

Like. What? If it has something to do with a job or money, better cut the deal out now and push these plans away a little. Or missy sour tits is (probably) taking half of your freshly gained shit
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/21 09:50 PM
2

So, why would you stay. Edit; i’m going through the comments now, and get a feeling you don’t have a lot of options with other wumen in your life, which is no big deal, you can work on that. Just imagine you had the option of 5 other girls who are nice to you, you wouldn’t bet an eye for your wife and run for the hills like yesterday. I bet this is the mindset thats keeping you hostage. Once you change that, You will be free.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/21 09:50 PM
2

Lets put it simple. These are YOUR statements. So, no.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/21 05:01 PM
2

Good.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 03:24 PM
5

Did you SEE her take it, and was with her afterwards for a few hours..?
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 05:39 AM
5

Fuck dude, thats hard. Hope you’re doing alright now, all the best mate.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 05:38 AM
2

Babie rabies.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 05:36 AM
7

Save this text and ask a lawyer. Fuck this. This is taking someone hostage. “You can live in the badsement” yeah, and you can live in the dungeons luv. Fuck me, these wumeng dont have any logic nor feelings once they leave the “rollercoaster of the honnymoon time” and think they are entitled to it all. Time to denie the pussypass once and for all. Too bad you took her back after these 4 months with kevin from sales. I do hope you have everything on record from that time.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 05:27 AM
1

Fuck this, let me apologise for something i didn’t do. You grow some balls and don’t take the blame for everything wtf.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/21 05:30 AM
3

Check out rollo tomassi and entrepreneurs in cars (YT). All the best mate
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/21 06:03 AM
8

This. from the moment they physically leave, they were already gone mentally for 6+ months. Hypergamy at its finest.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/21 02:30 PM
5

If only men would stop paying for all of their shit..
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/21 01:25 PM
10

Yeah, if you want to be second choice thats up to you. If she doesnt have burning desire for you, you should look somewere else.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/21 06:45 AM
13

You’re getting cheated on, and you are hoping for reconciliation? Grow some self respect my man.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/21 05:37 AM
5

I co-sign this comment
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/21 08:36 PM
1

Anyone who can fight will tell you, the best self defence, is to gtfo of there asap. There is nothing cool about beating another guy halfway to death or having to protect yourself from it. Just, get out of there. As self protection, look at legal conceild carry. Not sure where you live, but The (second?) best self defence, is a gun, if you do the training.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/21 09:05 AM
1

Great, good job.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/21 06:56 AM
6

Get a lawyer, better safe than sorry.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/21 08:03 PM
3

This comes back to everything in life. Do.the.work Thumbs up for you man, way to go!
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/21 06:28 PM
9

Nr.1 dont get married.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/21 08:15 AM
1

Read about hypergamy. Check out Rollo Tomassi and Rich Cooper. I have a feeling it will be eye opening for you.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/21 05:32 PM
1

Record? Yeah! “But there is no job”.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/21 05:29 PM
6

Depends on the ‘relationship’ you have with her, if she’s not a psycho or makes your life an (emotional) mess, i would lay that good pipe and just spin plates, but anyway always be in control of your seed. Once it leaves your pipe the plumber is in charge.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/21 08:16 AM
3

I totally feel for you man. This sucks, her blackmailing you is something you should have on record. Not only for yourself, court, but for the kids. I know it sucks balls, but there is sunshine after rain.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/21 05:46 AM
2

My man. 👍🏻
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/21 05:33 AM
4

And what about the physical abuse? Just forget that? Grow some balls and with that, self respect.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/21 05:32 AM
9

Moving closer to her family is like getting closer to a burning vulcano. Not something were you want to go. Wumeng always hang out at the finish line, financial or health struggles are a big no no for them. Don’t expect any sympathy. She can take it for some time but still will expect you to step up. Who’s paying for that expensive condo? Get records of the abuse, film everything (check the law) all respect goes out of the window after being physically abused by someone. Record, laywer up and gt…
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/21 05:29 AM
3

Ah, a walking ATM. Time to deny service and cut the plug if the users dont know how to restart, handle and maintain it. Ask THEM - what do they bring to the table. Ask em directly, cuz they will hufflepuff their way out of any ‘smooth’ question you’re giving them. Also, expect the blame game to come out in full force. I rather burn my money in a stove, than being a provider for leeches. Welkom in modern soysiety were males are expected to have unlimited supplies and wumeng have a unstillable hun…
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 06:55 AM
2

India seems like a fucked up place overall. Cant think about a good thing there except fast internet and some populair mountain. The divorce rate can be low, but the nagging wumeng will be everywere since they ‘have no other way’ out than to put the husband in an early stroke/heart failure by a 1000-cut death and high bloodpressure 24/7 so they csn freely ride the cock carrousel. (Or just cheat lol) Take on hobbies, lift shit, run, go hunting or fishing. Build your own house. Be the best self fo…
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/21 05:08 AM
2

I can spot you’re a fan of Rollo and Rich. Way to go brother 💪
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/21 06:12 AM
6

Congratz amigo’s! You DO YOU
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/21 06:10 AM
1

How do people who get married, cope with the idea of having half your shit stolen, your kids gone and talked badly to about you while dying alone without… basically anything., cuz they were even trying to steal your shoes in court while lawyers are laughing their ass off and making bank over your misery.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 08:03 AM
5

No advice, you do you. This is only my view: You would want to break with this girl like yesterday, if she tells me im a dork and is with that reason for me, thats a fucking lie. Ether your SMV is way higher than hers, or you make serious bank / are on your mission doing so. Asking how is your day, every single day is basically telling ‘ask me the same, so i can tell you about my feelings’ which is fine. Woman behaviour. I dont care that your girl is hot, in 20 years that will be gone (prolly so…
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/21 07:21 AM
3

My man 💪🙏
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 03:58 PM
1

You’re standing on the edge of getting fucked over royaĺly, make sure you add in the plans you described above since its your work she wants to steal.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/21 08:13 AM
2

Solid advise, thumbs up. Good she signed away everything. You 2 (you and your kiddo) deserve to have a solid base. Thumbs up, take care 🙏.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/21 09:36 PM
5

Wumen like this make me happier day by day that i walked away from the dating market.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 06:07 AM
6

Would be a shame if that Algo was worthless all of a sudden - and traded absolutely berzerk. ​ Right....Right....?
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/21 08:37 AM
12

my man. * brofist *
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/21 08:37 AM
1

Congratz! did you come out relatively unharmed? some specifics and tips for others to learn ?
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/21 07:54 AM
6

Its the main reason why i keep my solitude. The shit i’ve seem people go through after 8-30y being together. And the monsters came floating to the surface faster than we can flip on a light switch. For OP; i have literally no clue how to go about this llc. Your relationship with your mom is toast because of it. Make sure she is aware. Not that she will care, cuz convince me she didnt plan this a long time ago already (lol) and is fully aware of the consequences they just dont want to be held acc…
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/21 06:13 AM
20

You dodged a bullet.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/21 09:26 PM
4

A shoulder to cry on, becomes a dick to ride on. I would take my losses and look for another job. Never shit where you eat. I’ve burned myself on this too unfortunately. Luckly for me it was the misses that switched company soon after. The increased blood pressure you’ll have constantly by walking on egg-shells in that company will prolly give you a stroke down the road sooner or later. Regarding the attorney, keep looking man. There has to be someone willing to take this on.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/21 06:53 AM
9

Buy yourself a lotery ticket there is a chance you’ll win it. Get yourself a lawyer who is basing things in facts, not speculating about what might happen and ‘there is a chance’. Fuck me, Is that your therapist too? (question: is your lawyer a women?) You’re wife already left months ago, mentally. Where are you willing to take this, she damaged your trust clearly, are you really expecting this to “be as it was” I would take my losses, which most likely turn out to be a gain.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/21 06:45 AM
4

'but she literally told me that she told her friends I was a dork'' Doesn't matter, at the end of the day, it's all about laying that good pipe. She can literally complain and cry her heart out at a GiRlS NiGhT and 3 weeks later you're the first one she invites to her birthday party and she's justifying it somehow to her friends 'CuZ FeElInGs'. ''It just sucks that she talks down on people'' that's only because you allow her to do so. “Remember when you said we were just friends fucking?” I was …
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/21 05:32 PM
2

I know 😉 where are you located? Im not sure if I understood it correctly, what do you mean with land contract? Did you two buy the place from her dad? Leaving your place most of the times isn’t ideal and gives her power over you. Especially if her dad owns it, id thats the case you’re more like a milk cow paying for the land, which he already owns. And now she can keep it? Seems like you can still agree on things which makes it better. (Be carefull, they change their mind like 4 y.o kids) I woul…
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/21 01:05 PM
5

What would happen if you would take everything out and move it into crypt0 and move it to another cold-wallet. Just thinking out loud here. No advice.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/21 09:34 AM
2

Cuz the way soy-ciety is build. Its just a joke really. If you’re older i can get this question. You would still have the believes build on ages of “happy wife happy life”, churches and god. This is gone now. If you’re in your 20/30’s the question would be; why the fuck would a guy get married these days. There is literally NO benefit for HIM or things which cant be accomplished without this legal document. Creepy as fuck, to drag the government into it cuz boy we know they fuck everything up th…
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/21 08:32 AM
7

Dont come home? Well, that would be the exact place i would go. If she has such balls, she can pack her shit. Document everything, lawyer the fuck up, communicate through the lawyer. game on.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/21 03:52 PM
2

The line is were you draw it. Men lead bro. Sometimes its just not a match.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/21 03:45 PM
3

If you change, she got you. (Again) do whatever you like doing. She can join or leave, the choice is hers.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/21 02:01 PM
2

Regarding the documents im not sure what needs to be changed, if any, im non-US so i would ask someone if its needed.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/21 05:58 AM
3

She’s sending him, a guy who she doesnt know, pics of your kids? And gives him, your address? Fuck me, thats sums it up right there. I would (try) to get full custody, get all the evidence you need and go for it. I wouldnt want my kid(s) there for a split second. Damn. Also, get the police involved. There needs to be evidence, and if needed change your document numbers. Unless you’re super wealty or have a gold dick. I wouldnt be too afraid someone is showing up on your doorstep now they have yo…
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/21 05:42 AM
8

atleast we wont need to share our profits when we moon.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 06:42 PM
10

username checks out ;) i totally agree.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 06:41 PM
0

How the fuck is it possible we need 4 military police guys to arrest a wumen
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/21 07:54 PM
2

This. Totally. I know it sucks with kid(s) in the picture but you don’t want to be unhappy all the time and running around a ticking time bomb just to have some (horrible) time with your kid.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/21 02:56 PM
2

For dogs, someone needs to he the alpha of the pack. Switching this arround will cause issues. They are social animals but they have their own order. Anyway, i wont think she will come back for them.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/21 03:29 PM
4

Man, get your shit straight. Dont shit were you eat. There are so many wumeng and you choose the one who can fuck up not only your personal but professional life too. Great pick. Dont take on the wumeng at work, You’re one mistake away of being alone and jobless.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/21 06:20 AM
4

It can be hard, rly hard. But think of why you’re going through this. Spin plates with different wumen, lift heavy stuff and eat clean. Work on yourself broseph. Do some sports and hobbies you would like to try. Just for the fucking sake of trying things. The world is literally at your feet 💪🚀 Edit; also, try to meditate. I know it sucks at first and you dont rly know what to do. Check on youtube
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/21 04:48 AM
5

After reading the whole thing, The boy just needs to disrespect her. That’ll make her happy. Logic 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 04:30 AM
3

Salute to the little gym slute
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/21 04:25 AM
14

First of all, thumbs up for leaving suckerb3rg app years ago. I wouldnt even react to the people not close to me. (i would be ok losing them) So, lets focus on the people i’m close to, Were there charges filed and found not guilty? Shove that in their faces. Its critical to not burn your hands and make her file now just to give her stronger social credit, watch out for that. Also, if you have evidence of her lying about it, shove that in their faces as well. But only for the people close to me, …
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/21 12:51 PM
39

They just rely on whiteknights to come along and fight for them like the twat filming who was screeming ‘duuuuude’ while the man was just defending himself. If you go to a Zoo, would you pick a fight with a gorilla? Me neither. I suggest wumen to do the same, and dont pick fights with men.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/10/21 04:35 AM
11

she already threw it away - your only thing left to do is get the most out of it. it takes 2 to tango. and dont do the ''pick me pick me'' dance
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/21 09:53 AM
4

laywer the fuck up - and buckle up. get your shit straight. she already left months ago (mentally), Watch 'Entrepreneurs in Cars' to get some non-BS insight in how Wumen are. Spin plates, work on yourself, get the snip down there and have fun.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/21 09:52 AM
7

** Badum Tssss ** moment
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 09:10 AM
3

i would ask that a lawyer like yesterday.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/21 04:15 PM
20

white knights are strong in grouping together.. a shame for soy ciety..
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/21 12:50 PM
4

if I go to a zoo, i dont plan on fighting with a gorilla. i know they are stronger than i am, faster than i am, and i can expect to be ripped apart pretty fast. I encourage these girls to not pick a fight with any guy cuz i can already tell the outcome will be pretty much the same.r
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/21 12:43 PM
3

Lawyer the fuck up, or you might find yourself running into some ‘surprises’ along the way. Its good that you both agreed on this, but i would still lawyer the fuck up. No way im going to court against a wumeng without a lawyer in the soy-ciety we live in. You will split the stuff in half as far as im aware (ask the lawyer for the current laws and how to proceed) and maybe its a good idea to stick out there and find a remote-job back home so you can get started again, the bittersweet thing of Co…
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/21 07:07 PM
6

Exactly, flip the board around and serve her a cookie of own her own recepie for trying to steal your ass. Lawyer up, all the best!
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/21 04:30 AM
3

Does it matter if she regrets it? Focus om yourself instead of her.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/21 07:34 PM
11

99% chanse that they will walk if it doesnt blow up in the media.. - pRiSonS ArE oVerFulL - so they will do community work for 14 hours like cleaning public toilets or trim some state-gardens and bye-bye. laws in Europe are a joke.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/10/21 03:09 PM
6

Get over her by doing the stuff you like and get better as a man. Chase excellence and spin plates if you like. Lift and eat healthy and/or do some combat/self defence sports to get the bloodflow going. She left mentally already 6months prior to actually bouncing the boat, and the chance is that you only just found out.. Tldr of the i need space talk wumeng give : https://pics.me.me/i-need-space-i-need-space-i-need-space-i-15042445.png
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/21 05:36 PM
9

The question would be, why the fuck would you get married. She’s never yours, its just your turn.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/21 04:07 AM
0

Therapists dont help in these situations where basically, you’re getting fucked over. show me a guy with ‘these issues’ and i show you someone who doesnt lift and has very few options with other girls. Fix that, lift, eat healty, do stuff you enjoy and spin plates. I would talk to a lawyer, get the evidence i needed and file for divorce the day before yesterday. Not even worth trying to fix it because she will always see you as the one who is doing the ‘pick me pick me dance’.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/21 04:05 AM
2

True, however still way to much beta bucks are spend on these SiNgLe iNdependAnT sTrOnG wUmen. Good to see that a lot of men are waking up lately 🙏
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 03:50 AM
1

Good for you man, so whats the gameplan going forward? This was a BIG step and it shows you have the balls to take whats right for you. 💪
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/21 06:06 PM
3

‘Entrepreneurs in cars’ on youtube. Focus on yourself and do whatever you would want. Lift heavy stuff, eat clean and wear protection. Invest your money to work for you. One small thing, Never get into a wedding ever again. Goodluck mate.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/21 05:18 AM
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Broke up with a GF a few years ago cuz of baby rabies - need to mention she was on the cock carrousel 3months after, being married 2y later and having 2 kids now in less than 4y. I Dodged a bullet here imo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 05:16 AM
4

Women age like milk. Men like wine.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/21 05:08 AM
47

free food*
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/21 07:04 PM
2

Just point her where the door is - get evidence of the gheating! And lawyer the fuck up. You’ll be more than fine real soon, do sports and whatever you like FOR YOU All the best
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/21 05:55 PM
5

Soms people have lives around here 😉
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/21 05:18 AM
16

Happy for you brother, Amen to this.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/21 03:38 PM
8

Good to have you back, try to read the rational male by Rollo and check out ‘entrepreneurs in cars’ on youtube. Take care.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/21 05:40 AM
8

I’ve seen some other posts of OP. Can only point out some things. She was never yours, it was just your turn. There is a reason you got into the divorce, think about that. She moved on a long time ago (mentally) before the divorce got into play. Women have backup plans, almost all of them do at any point in the relationship, it may suck but there’s a ‘pretty’ high chance of her going on dates. Who cares? She’s no longer yours but guess what, you’re no longer hers… Lift heavy shit, get out there,…
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/21 05:17 AM
2

Welcome to society.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/10/21 05:07 AM
2

Than try to check if you cant reach on via some friends, a friend of a friend .. you know the drill, just need to find a way.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/21 05:04 AM
4

Lawyer.the.fuck.up You needed one yesterday
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/21 05:02 AM
4

She left (mentally) more than 6months before you/her filed for the divorce, why would wou want to make something work if the other doesnt. I get it, it sucks now but you’ll get over it. The squeeze of this “tRyInG tO mAKe iT wOrK” isnt worth the juice. Especially when you could date women that are actually valueing your time. Brotip: dont get married ever again and wear protection. Lawyer the fuck up, and get it done with. Here comes the classic “Eat healthy, lift heavy shit or do other sports a…
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/21 04:52 AM
3

Lift heavy stuff, get shredded, put in the work. build yourself up. get out of your current situation.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/21 07:49 AM
3

Rollo is a fucking BOSS - also check out Rich cooper on YT 'Entrepreneurs in cars' is his channel.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/21 06:50 AM
1

Well, fuck 10 to forget one. Be safe.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/21 05:34 AM
3

all of these 31 things make me wonder ''why the fuck would someone put up with this shit''
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/21 08:16 PM
3

''She is truly one of a kind'' just remember that you probably already thought this once.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/21 07:19 PM
2

Swipe left?.. stop swiping at all 👍🏻
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 09:42 AM
1

- record everything - voice, video, check if thats legal where you live.- Lawyer the fuck up, you needed one the day before yesterday. - Once you have enough evidence, file for divorce, contact that lawyer and make a solid plan. - I would live in one place of the house, I wouldn't leave my own house like ever, unless it becomes violent, then make sure this is documented + call the cops. - contact goes via the lawyer only. - Get a DNA test for you and the kid, maybe this sounds strange to you but…
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/21 12:55 PM
3

This, this is it. nothing to add here!
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/21 06:38 AM
22

Can't agree more - I'm in East EU and especially Ukraine/Russian women will skin, and eat men alive, with the pun on the skining $$$ em'. I noticed that when they speak English they have the access to the top 1-2% of guys when their looks are in place. Dating a woman who doesn't speak English, well good luck with that, you have no clue what she's up to unless you speak their native language. it's a very alpha-driven (dating) society in general. if you drop your frame for a second. you're basical…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 08:41 AM
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i know guys who got rekt by phillipino woman, in their country - so that bird doesn't fly mate. flying them over to western soy-ciety doesnt work since they will just adjust at a faster rate than you can cook your noodles. you think Nawalt, i say Ewalt. You can place a bet on a woman that ''she's different'' (lol) but i hate to gamble and till now i haven't seen a woman i would want to bet on so imo. not playing is the only way of winning. spin plates, dont commit youself, be safe, get the good …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 07:33 AM
1

Have a feeling you know Rich already but still throwing it out there - Entrepreneurs in cars on YT. And remember, a red pill a day keeps the blue pill habits - who will kill your beliefs, money, and ballsack - away
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/21 07:23 AM
5

I dont want to sound like a dickhead, but man up. You’re showing her every single day she has the total control over you. Time to deny the pussypass and walk out of there, in my opinion. Whats the worst that can happen to YOU? Prisoners don’t leave the prison cuz there is a guard… and you?
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/21 04:49 AM
4

In this case, like yesterday, or the day before. Also check out what the reason is for verbal abuse, there is a underlying reason. Cant just keep going at it untill some shit sticks, go to the core of yourself and find out. I never woke up with a feeling that ‘its a good day to verbally abuse someone’ what triggers it? How to solve it? “Physical abuse, and you deserve it”? Give me a break. Grow some balls and drag the police in this. No one deserves abuse? Suicidal threats are maybe no joke, but…
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/21 08:38 PM
2

sorry to hear - however with no kids you're still good i guess. counseling wont help a damn thing. she already left mentally a long time ago, trying to get her back mentally is stepping on quicksand and hoping it won't drift. ​ Follow this guy - to give you some insight. https://www.youtube.com/c/EntrepreneursInCars
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/21 07:13 AM
3

exactly, even if its a paid lawyer. its worth the investment imo.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/21 05:07 PM
2

record everything - also speech if your state allowes that - get ALL the evidence you need & lawyer the fuck up. you needed one yesterday. and file it after that, record everything - also speech if your state allows that - get ALL the evidence you need &
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/21 05:06 PM
2

IMO, you dodged a bullet. Stand for what you want, always.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/21 07:41 AM
9

Dont let the door hit ya on the way out.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/21 04:28 AM
9

underrated comment. thumbs up. she was never yours, it was just your turn.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/21 05:19 AM
13

Personally, I would take it to court, her situation doesnt seem like a place i would want to have my kid living for half the time. I would get ALL the evidence i could find and get it over with in court. But thats my view, you do you.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/21 08:58 AM
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Atleast you’re waking up, thumbs up for that! Most guys just try to ride it out and die of a stroke from all the stress. Get the hell out of there. ‘The i need space’ thing is a excuse to (most likely) ride the c0ck carousel, why would you want to fight for it when clearly your suffering from it and she’s moving in with family, i have a feeling its not that hard for her? (Most of the times it isnt for woman) i know its though now, but get over it. Lawyer up and file it is what i would do, Life i…
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/21 05:30 AM
1

Back to court?
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/21 05:21 AM
3

Grow some self respect, she’s sleeping around and you’re saying to take all the dept and she the assets? No bueno homes. Also this ‘iLl kIlL mYsELf’ is a stupid manipulative way to keep you tied up. I would have walked out of there yesterday. What i would do: - go talk to a lawyer - document all the shit - file for it myself when i have everything in place - dont give her a damn thing.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/21 04:49 AM
2

Common practise in Europe to transfer inheritance a generation to dodge taxes. (So from grandparents to your children) However, you should look into that. Im not sure if your wife can touch it via the kids. Probably depending on their age?
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/21 04:47 PM
68

‘MeN jUsT dOnT gEt iT’🤷‍♀️
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 05:37 AM
1

good tip. buyers remorse could kick in after the fact and sue you anyway. get a good lawyer OP.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/21 08:37 AM
5

good to see you're doing great OP ! just be careful showing it off. don't wake a sleeping dog, it might bite ya.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/21 07:09 PM
6

cool, so she has more money to pay for lawyers..
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/21 07:08 PM
3

Dont want to sound like a d!ck, but take care of YOU first of all now 😉 all the best 👍🏻💪
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 04:50 AM
3

You sound like an ATM already before the official papers have been filed. I wouldnt do it, if you feel the need, document EVERYTHING(you should do that anyway) and get that money back. She’s working so tell me why you would need to pay for it.. Anyway, you’re still married, so getting that money back wont be easy in court I guess
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 04:43 AM
4

Yep - welcome to ‘the new age’
/r/PussyPassDenied04/09/21 04:38 AM
8

Seems like its deleted already? Sensorship much
/r/PussyPassDenied04/09/21 04:36 AM
18

Sounds appealing… ahum … but no thanks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 04:35 AM
2

The justice system is build for situations like this to happen cuz every “LaW eNfoRCeR” gets their paycheck from it. Lawyers, judges, courthouse personell you name it. And than they wonder why men dont want to put up with this shit anymore. Ha!
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/21 04:28 AM
2

I know more unsucessfull marriages than succesfull once, so i dont think a state-contract and a ring is the recipe for the bright future. Show me 1 happy marriage, i’ll show you 10 unhappy. However, more and more guys are waking up and i’m happy to see that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 05:05 AM
5

23yo preggo and single - that's a recipe for a bright future I expect...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 07:43 PM
2

Why she want to leave? Record everything. there has to be some reason (or another chad..) - get all evidence you need or you wont be able to very soon. Dont expect any cooperation from her side. Regarding the counseling, get it on record she doesnt wants to go (voice recording) but to be fair, i wouldnt even try counseling myself, its 99,99% a waste of time. She made up her mind, let her go. Would be good if you could record it when she’s manipulating your daughter against you. lawyer the fuck u…
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/21 05:05 AM
1

There is a reason why we're here. dont forget that.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/21 07:58 PM
7

It's something I've been thinking about for a while, and it's not something I regret saying. - thats sums it up pretty good, get out. your not a mental tampon, you dont need to suck up everything. ​ She, on the other hand is very much in a victim mentality. I'm an awful person for saying such an awful thing. - typical, lawyer up and get the pieces you need NOW - or you wont get them any further down the road.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/21 06:54 AM
3

you dodged a bullet. believe me. you'll be fine. I won’t deny I had my issues. I’m stationed in minot North Dakota, and to be honest I’ve had so many extended shifts that I was barely able to be home and be the husband she wanted me to be. - yeah, its called a job and life. She should've been the wife that she could be, supportive and caring. she had problems with this, but not with asking you for money, and cheating. nice. and when she asked for money to help with her bills each month I did it …
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/21 07:53 PM
5

Talk
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/21 05:58 AM
3

who are in the process of settling 'down'.. emphasis on down just replying to highlight this. great one.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/21 11:13 AM
1

I feel for you man, fuck. Good to see you’re back on track. 🙏🙏
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/21 03:35 PM
1

Thats the truth. Marriage is a scam.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/21 03:34 PM
12

Handled it right.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/21 06:25 AM
1

Good question. Thats paying more for the same.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/21 08:29 PM
1

Its not really a matter of being OK..
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 09:42 AM
1

Same, its not like you have a choice in the EU. Wanna travel? Covid pass or 14 days quaranteen. Wanna go to a restaurant? Negative test (every 72h) or vaccinated. Sports? Same thing. Shop? Same thing.
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 04:40 AM
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