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He does raise a good point wrt boobjobs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:50 PM
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Wall e is from the POV of a trash packing robot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:50 PM
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I meant George
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:53 PM
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And how it shows the woman is so boring
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:37 PM
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That doesn't mean it caters to (straight) men. I'm not into men. Why would I want to watch men getting reduced to a panting mess?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:22 PM
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As a man, I'm qualified to tell you porn is quite boring. Maybe porn is made for lizard people then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:00 PM
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Don't know, I don't really watch porn, so I'm just talking off of stuff out of curiosity. But what I've noticed is there's rarely a focus on anyone's pleasure. Plenty of sad excuses for foreplay that involve zero erogenous zones. Even when the penis does get some attention, they neglect the frenulum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:43 PM
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nice guy getting the girl I'm sure that was Back to the Future
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:17 PM
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I'm not sure the porn industry is built around men's sexual interests either. I would've noticed by now if it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:15 PM
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Are you queer by any chance? I've noticed non queer leftists are often very anti porn, while queer leftists are generally supportive, even if both groups agree on pretty much the same issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:10 PM
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Then only have sex with men you're attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:34 PM
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Then you literally are incentivising asshole behaviour. If you're treating access to your body as a prize for good conduct, I have every reason to act in a manner that will filter out women like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:33 PM
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If it's a part of it, she never deserved me in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:20 PM
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Then they'd be having sex that leads them to orgasm instead of looking for excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:15 PM
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It must be so flattering that she chose me simply because I seemed like a safe option
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:13 PM
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If you keep acting like sex is so terrible, then you sreally shouldn't be having it then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:08 PM
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With a Z score of 8.6? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:57 PM
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A part which you don't enjoy. I think people should do stuff they enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:53 PM
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Like I said, he enjoys anything we do But you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:50 PM
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All claims are valid if you ignore every single exception
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:49 PM
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If that was true, I wouldn't care if women are only having sex due to comphet or not, yet I clearly care enough to challenge you on this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:47 PM
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Is divorce an option? I don't really think staying is healthy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:45 PM
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If you're not orgasming, then you don't need to be having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:39 PM
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Men will never be pregnant Many actually do, and those who do face a lot of systemic discrimination by the healthcare system
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:30 PM
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Then what you're after is the relationship, not the person. You're not into men; you're into heterosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:21 PM
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If you get to have sex with someone you're ostensibly attracted to, and still compare it to giving stuff away for free, you were simply not into that person
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:38 AM
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If you expect mutual attraction, the only option for men will be other men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:30 AM
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Sure they aren't dangerous but they do make me disgusted and makes me not want to date. Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:28 AM
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I've had the chance to be in comphet-driven relationships before. I'm sure I still could if I created a Bumble account.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:52 PM
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Because of comphet
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:47 PM
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Because women's economic position is better now, but they are still socialised with the expectation of male superiority
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:27 PM
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And why women were legally allowed to have a bank account or buy a vehicle without a man's signature in the 1960's and 1970's That already was a thing in the Netherlands centuries ago. I could also find sources on Ancient Assyria for propertied women. So where were their feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:44 PM
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Literally when did feminists ever support that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:40 PM
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They completely missing the point of why feminism is important to begin with. Which is?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:36 PM
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Oh, that totally explains why they harass trans and GNC women!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:30 PM
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Where does it say so?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:21 PM
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Completely unrelated but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:17 PM
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Exactly, which means male fanservice is still more common
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:16 PM
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Baldur's Gate had equal opportunity fanservice and thats why it was seen as so revolutionary. That's exactly my point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:15 PM
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Horror film: Nosferatu Video games: eh, I guess there was a lot of female fanservice in BG3. That one's an exception though. GoT: you mean the show where Jason Momoa appears?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:11 PM
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Ok, that still doesn't answer where the supposedly ubiquitous female fanservice is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:08 PM
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Literally where is the sexual objectification of women you're talking about? Until very recently, men were more likely to be sexually objectified. The Street Fighter series always had more male than female fanservice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:05 PM
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Would you happen to have any sources on trans women seeking abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:52 PM
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That's not even peer reviewed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:02 AM
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Ace women are valid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:22 AM
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If you're being chosen for long term qualities why would you think you're her only option? The only option with those qualities, probably. Those can be kind of specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:10 AM
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They totally can and do cry. That's because of comphet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:03 AM
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Women totally can develop emotional bonds to men. In fact, it seems to be the only thing the majority of women ever manage to do wrt men within their partnerships. They believe wanting to want someone is the same as wanting them, and men generally never realise until their wives become r/latebloomerlesbians users.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:59 AM
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It means women are socialised into seeing partnered life (namely, with a man) as ideal, and thus form emotional attachments to the idea
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:53 AM
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Compulsory heterosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:48 AM
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If women toss men to the side with no emotions, why have I personally cried over at least 6 men? And have consoled and supported friends through their breakups at least 100 times by now. Because of comphet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:45 AM
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Why are so many men desperate to be seen as disposable and indistinguishable from each other? Because it's not fun if I'm her only option and just get picked by default
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:41 AM
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mainstream preference for all women to have entirely hairless prepubescent bodies from the eyebrows down [citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:35 AM
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Why should I be obligated to be with a woman who only cares who I am as a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:39 AM
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Nice try. The reason I'm most likely to reject a woman for is if it feels like she cares about me as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:55 PM
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I'd call it more of a symptom of the issues than anything else. This dynamic can only happen if women are much less likely to be into men than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:43 PM
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That a woman, especially one attractive enough for me to be interested, wouldn't have a sizeable pool of dicks lined up for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:38 PM
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It's not my problem if other guys have issues of their own to work through. Especially since that would require women to pretend something that isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:34 PM
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There will always be undue advantages in sports. No matter how well I train, I'll never be as good as MBJ at basketball, because I'm significantly shorter than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:28 PM
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What do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:26 PM
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I recommend garlic bread
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:16 PM
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Men literally do not see the women they find sexy as people, they see them as entirely interchangeable If only women could be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:15 PM
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They assimilate until they don't. The healthcare system is known for structural discrimination against masculine-presenting people who need gynecological treatments. If you think society is harsh against women seeking an abortion, wait until you hear about men seeking an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:13 PM
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Yep, femme trans women are the most oppressed group of all. Meanwhile, masc trans women are doing amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:02 PM
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Tomboys are not at all accepted. Imame Khelif got harassed to hell for not being feminine enough. This is because it's masculinity that our society is biased against.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:58 AM
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But from the moment a girl is born people talk about how pretty she is and put her in pretty clothes and all the story books stress stuff about girls’ looks and there are very few cues about what makes a boy “handsome.” It’s literally fucking everywhere. Every aunt comes over with “pretty clothes.” Every cartoon has a male character going NUTS over a beautiful female character. This is totally unrelated to attraction Megan Fox was super hot in that scene [citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:12 AM
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That men actually are into women. Women will rarely ever perform attraction if they don't already personally care about the man in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:11 AM
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Parents don't know shit about that stuff. I know this for a fact bc my dad swears my sexual awakening was when I was 10 and I saw the Megan Fox scene in Transformers 2 at the cinema with him. I literally don't remember any of that. I mean, I do know what scene he's talking about, it's THE scene people bring up when bringing up the movie. But I really don't recall myself watching the scene at the cinema. The film was very confusing, in my defence. But I'm sure I defenitely wouldn't forget somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:59 AM
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Interested in me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:37 AM
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I do. I just don't recall ever being trained.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:36 AM
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What you're describing as depth simply is what needs to exist in absence of attraction. It's women clinging to any trait they can pretend to be interested in to fill the gap left by comphet. What most women will do is look for excuses to perform attraction towards men. Men generally don't need an excuse, because we already have attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:05 AM
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For instance, does she only begin acting that way after getting to know me for a while? If so, she most likely only cares about me as a person and expects that to be enough to carry the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:59 AM
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all of us - ALL of us - are trained from infancy to know what a pretty woman looks like I must have missed that part. Help, the Men In Black erased my memories!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:31 AM
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Most Women want to have sex with men That's called comphet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:29 AM
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the world of straight women is very very diffent from that of queer women So women with enough self awareness to notice they're not into men and openness to experience to try out stuff they weren't socialised into behave different from other women. More news at 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:29 AM
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I've seen what that looks like. Some of those women have even performed attraction towards me. It's not actual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:27 AM
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You get the comphet-afflicted women to leave me alone too and it's a deal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:25 AM
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Might be wanting them to have aex within hours of knowing/spending time with you There sure is a reason for women not liking that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:24 AM
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That they're most likely not straight
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:23 AM
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A lot of my straight female friends are pretty open about wishing they were attracted to women Tell them I have great news And there just isn't the stigma about female homosexuality that there is about male. And yet guys generally have no problem finding other guys willing to have sex. In fact, it's significantly easier than finding women willing to have sex, even in some very conservative areas. This is despite gay and bi men already being a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:06 AM
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We didn't start the fire
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:34 PM
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Or, we could do both options. Not mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:25 PM
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The only reason warm apptoaches are more likely to work is comphet. Men who do only those are bound to end up with women who can't reciprocate the attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:12 PM
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So you literally have men leaving women alone, which is what you asked for, and you're still complaining? There never is a way to win as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:20 PM
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I’m not going to prioritize your feelings over my safety That's your prerogative. It still doesn't mean nice men owe you any attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:06 PM
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It truly must be an achievement for me to have a porn rotten brain without watching porn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:26 PM
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women get wet when seeing women with aspirational bodies They definitely don't need to be aspirational most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:30 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:15 PM
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What evidence do you have of her actually being into me when she clearly only cared about who I was as a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:28 AM
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Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:22 AM
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Why would I be hurting?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:04 AM
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There is no indication of any of that in your comment above
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:50 AM
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A conclusion which I came out on my own way before ever being anywhere near yellow pilled, and also before being aware that she was interested in a relationship with me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:25 AM
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If by dating success, you mean getting to validate a woman's comphet by letting her pretend she's into me, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:23 AM
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Men hate us Quite the projection
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:15 AM
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Women will say the worst things about men and then wrap it up with "totally straight btw"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:46 AM
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You know how men love to taunt women by telling us we become expired and old and dusty and disgusting after 25 or 30 and cry out “where have all the good men gone???” This is literally made up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:36 AM
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Very telling that the only way to orgasm was with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:35 AM
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*Straight-identified women are everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:31 AM
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I'd be more afraid of her staying when she was never into me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:29 AM
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Literally where?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:40 AM
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So your claim is true because some rando said it on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:00 PM
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I'll take thar as a no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:19 PM
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So no APA citation, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:14 PM
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Our RMV/ SMV goes down with every new partner Source: trust me, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:59 PM
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Source: trust me, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:31 PM
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I'd most likely not be attracted to men anyway, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:57 PM
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I'm personally not one to be that much into gift giving. It's certainly not about being more or less, but I might simply think we're not compatible if it's too often.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:56 PM
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why are they seeking out prostitutes and sex workers, women who they know do not love them I think that's the point. Love is one of the cheat codes of all time. The other, of course, being money, so I find neither alternative categorically different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:43 PM
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I'm pretty sure that's because women their age are not interested, so they go to less competitive markets
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:41 AM
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Question: why should men over 30 give a fuck about what some mid 20 year old thinks about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:33 AM
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Because I actually expect a woman to be attracted to me if we're going to date instead of having comphet drive the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:06 AM
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I didn't know HRT was cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:16 PM
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straight cis men don’t go for rough butch lesbians Those are some of the hottest women out there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:11 PM
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The wall actually does apply to uterus havers who want biological children of their own. If this is not you, then it might as well not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:13 PM
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That I am currently logged into a vast network of users that is organised around distinct forums, which generally have a specific theme
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:40 AM
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him hitting and choking women That's actually what appeals to women: https://aella.substack.com/p/women-prefer-more-violent-porn-and
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:24 AM
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Very perceptive, aren't we?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:20 AM
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It's all sunshine and rainbows until you realise your gf isn't actually into you either
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:33 AM
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We do because there's little evidence to support the notion of women's performance of attraction being tied to actual desire
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:31 AM
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It actually is taking what had been found by Charles Moser to be present in 93% of cis women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:28 PM
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This is exactly why I don't think porn is meant to appeal to (straight) men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:28 PM
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I agree that autosexuality exists in people of any gender identity. What does stand out in most straight-identified women is the lack of any meaningful externally targeted attraction, meaning that for them, it only ever is autogynephilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:27 PM
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My cock
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:35 PM
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If we think biologically these phenomena make sense - a man can impregnate many women, whereas a woman can only carry one pregnancy at a time If we decided to go along with your TERF narrative of reducing women to a uterus, then your objections still shouldn't apply to infertile women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:01 PM
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If women simply ignored me I wokldn't have reason to agree wiith OP. Instead, women do occasionally perform interest towards me despite no underlying attraction. So definitely something is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:57 PM
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Then you should see what they say about MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:32 PM
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Didn't you hear men who are not female centric are misogynists?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:04 PM
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I'd rather die an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:18 PM
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Correction: a nice guy can easily find a woman willing to be with him entirely out of comphet. If you actually have standards and expect your attraction to be reciprocated, you're in tough luck. Not even chads find that most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:48 PM
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If Sydney Sweeney wanted to date you, would you really be worried about whether she wanted a deep connection centered on emotional intelligence? Either way, it's lose-lose
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:57 AM
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Source: trust me, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:47 AM
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…is getting a tongue on your clit even painful?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:10 AM
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That it's all comphet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:51 PM
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Women like that do exist in some capacity, but are so few and far between that most of the attention chads get will still be comphet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:40 PM
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Bi women aren't real most of the time either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:36 PM
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Incels believe in chadexuality. Try going on that sub claiming chads get genuine desire and see how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:35 PM
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Wouldyou happen to have a guide on how to be the perfect chaser?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:33 PM
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Then women would simply be having forms of sex that don't lead to pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:31 PM
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So do a lot of aces
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:26 PM
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That's called comphet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:25 PM
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Projection sure is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:24 PM
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The fuck does hugging have to do with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:24 PM
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I don't feel like I need to engage with people who are fine with ace erasure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:26 PM
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I already told you aces are valid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:15 PM
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They'd behave like it if that was true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:15 PM
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That's not the same as attraction. The women in question simply like LARPing as heterosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:35 PM
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He is, but it's comphet most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:10 PM
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So sad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:09 PM
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I cannot imagine a majority of women on the dating market, actively dating men, are lesbians... True. Aces are also real.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:08 PM
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New? The concept is from the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:05 PM
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Women will still perform attraction for men. Doesn't mean they're into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:04 PM
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And of course, becoming worse means not pursuing relationships with women. Because we all know what we think of men who are not female centric.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:03 PM
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Sounds like comphet but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:56 PM
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Correction: most men can induce comphet in women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:55 PM
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You said I wouldn't be getting laid, which isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:46 PM
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If it was, my body count would have three digits. Of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:42 PM
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The claim is backed by decades of feminist scholarship. Anticlimax by Sheila Jeffreys lends a lot of support.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:41 PM
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we would be begged men horrible men to take us as sex slaves Either that or you dismantle comphet. Your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:39 PM
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Most of the time it's through comphet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:38 PM
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Would you lust after him if he was an Andrew Tate fan?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:38 PM
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Straight men aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:37 PM
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Comphet be strong
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:25 PM
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It sure is weird when that perform attraction towards me nonetheless. What reason would I have to believe other men are actually getting real attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:23 PM
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Chadsexuality isn't real bruh. Incels made it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:22 PM
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They'll be gone once you start taking Zyprexa
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:20 PM
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Straight women actually do exist. There are, in fact, hundreds of them. Literally hundreds. Throughout the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:57 PM
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“The manosphere constructed an elaborate fiction of a world that doesn’t exist, and convinced people they must engage and do battle with the fictionalized women within it. “ You misspelled feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:26 PM
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Run the numbers yourself. That's a Z score of 8.6 for it being the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:48 PM
5

Okay man? Never heard of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:33 AM
0

I see attractive men all the time, but I only see like one attractive woman once a month. I think it's just that men are expected to care about our own appearance more. It wasn't women who invented looksmaxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:26 AM
-1

Not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:13 AM
1

Maybe women simply are the default target of attraction and a minority of people, for any unbeknownst reason, happen to be attracted to men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:50 PM
3

Is misogyny in the room right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:27 PM
8

The share of women interested in men is a lot lower than the share of men interested in women. Gay men already are a minority and, excluding comphet, it is significantly easier for me to draw male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:54 PM
5

I'm literally being pro women anti men. No worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:47 PM
1

No. How about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:23 PM
22

Because as we know, single men are never decent. Men who are not female centered are equal to scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:49 PM
44

You seem to be imposing your own standards of what a decent man is. If it's not you dating them, it hardly is your call.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:36 PM
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I'm happily married to Chad Then maybe this wasn't about you. Though it's not like chads never enter comphet-driven marriages either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:54 PM
2

I always stood by believing women, especially when they say they wear makeup for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:53 PM
4

If I'm going to be completely alone otherwise, B. I can have enough fun by myself when it comes to sex. Not to mention whatever high tech sex toys the aliens have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:11 PM
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Women suffering from compulsory heterosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:14 PM
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Many men refuse to perform oral on women or if they do they will only do it for a couple of minutes but demand a woman do a BJ for 30 minutes. [citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:41 PM
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Men are struggling to get out of the starting area, but if they can manage to, they will not deal with as much hordes of bullshit chasing them around Comphet-afflicted women have entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:13 PM
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give us orgasms Women would gey those if they actually were into men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:11 PM
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So your argument literally is that you get messaged by men you're not attracted to. Might want to check r/latebloomerlesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:07 PM
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Hookups are usually bad Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:55 PM
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We might as well be talking about Bigfoot here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:49 PM
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trying to figure out which attention is actually genuine Yeah, that's one men generally don't have to worry about. We already know it's most likely comphet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:15 PM
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Locking down a guy who can fuck multiple women is the ultimate femdom fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:52 PM
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Chadsexuality is an incel myth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:44 PM
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But hookups are much less valuable for women This is because they're not into men in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:40 PM
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If only wom*n could be relied upon to see me as an interchangeable dildo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:38 PM
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It's not genuine most of the time. Even for chads, comphet will always be most common.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:36 PM
2

Then where is the porn that caters to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:21 AM
5

Sounds like ace erasure but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:06 PM
3

Wonder why that is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:53 PM
1

Tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:46 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:22 PM
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Because I don't think normative relationship structures are fair to men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:20 PM
1

Can hardly argue against the results: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19591032/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:59 PM
0

Your entire reason for being with him is that you care about him as a person. I know I'd feel miserable in that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:56 PM
1

I'm so sorry for your husband
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:50 PM
1

Charles Moser also found evidence of autogynephilia in 93% of cis women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:46 PM
3

my sexuality depends on being the object of desire Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:36 PM
1

You were saying non visual mediums tend to cater to women, which I'm not sure of
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:25 PM
2

Men will put up with low quality porn and studios know that, so they're complacent. So they don't really produce stuff catered to men in any meaningful way. Men have never been known for high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:21 PM
1

But that's a visual medium
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:20 PM
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Women need narrative buy-in. Historically, that narrative has been heterosexuality. Women love sexual roleplay, and the main way societies have managed to get them to pair up with men is having them RP heterosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:19 PM
2

Beggars can't be choosers. If men organised we could've started demanding quality porn by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:16 PM
-1

Literally autogynephilia
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:14 PM
-2

Women are not into men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:14 PM
2

About that… ever heard of Adrienne Rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:13 PM
2

porn generally isn't made for women to enjoy I doubt it's made for men to enjoy either. Surely I'd havd noticed by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:08 PM
2

Most non visual mediums are geared towards women I really doubt so. There's not a lot of women in my ao3 authors discord server. Maybe it's just that they're on the consumer side.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:01 PM
0

They "care about the whole person" because they don't actually desire men. It's comphet all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:00 PM
0

Women care about the whole person AKA they're looking for excuses to be with a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:43 PM
1

There'd be evidence of it if it were true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:31 PM
0

The fact alone that you need to use the slutty prefix is an admission that you're a minority. Otherwise it'd be just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:29 PM
2

And where is that supposed evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:27 PM
1

But there's no evidence of there being anything to repress at all in most cases. Men whose attraction for men has been repressed still show very clear signs of that attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:21 PM
4

Men are also raised to repress their sexual urges towards men. Grindr is still a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:06 PM
2

They've been raised to repress their urges towards women, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:50 PM
1

At least it means women are into men at lower frequencies than men are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:50 PM
2

women are raised to repress their sexuality It's actually the other way around. Women are socialised to perform heterosexuality regardless of their actual orientation. If it was like you say, as society has become more accepting of overt sexuality, the share of men who can't enter relationships would have dropped, but it's the other way around. Once you give women freedom, that will inevitably be freedom to break out of comphet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:33 PM
0

In that case, Grindr wouldn't be the only functional major dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:56 PM
-1

I strongly doubt most women you know are actually straight. I sure would've noticed if most were.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:51 PM
-1

My sister in Christ, you just admitted to being an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:46 PM
1

Most are not. I receive way more male than female attention. And the female attention I get is often comphet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:34 PM
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Because they're not into men, by and large
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:24 PM
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Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:47 PM
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Cool, so it's just comphet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:32 PM
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Ugly women generally don't have a shortage of simps. If you're a woman and you struggle to attract men, it's probably your personality. Maybe you should try getting a shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:17 PM
1

So it's either pairing up and getting derided for it, or staying single and getting called a failure. You can never win as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:15 PM
1

Apparently, the only way to not be female centric as a man is… to acknowledge your duty to pair up with a woman. Men can never win.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:28 PM
0

Doesn't seem like it from the way this thread is going
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:42 PM
1

That has nothing to do with my comment but ij
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:37 PM
2

Exactly! Great example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:16 PM
1

And apparently, not having your life revolve around women is misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:11 PM
1

Then look it up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:55 PM
1

"Well, what were you saying when you got called a misogynist?" "Maybe he did deserve getting accused of misogyny." "He probably asked for it."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:50 PM
5

Then try looking up MGTOW inside 2XC
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:47 PM
0

I sure love when people blame the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:42 PM
2

And getting called a misogynist for it. You really can never win as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:39 PM
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Men want to be valued as people Speak for yourself, weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:37 PM
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Have you even read the comment section here? Also look up MGTOW in 2XC and see for yourself how women think about men who aren't female centric.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:36 PM
1

"Well, what were you saying when you got called a misogynist?" "Maybe he did deserve getting accused of misogyny." "He probably asked for it."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:35 PM
1

Must have forgotten how often MGTOW get called misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:31 PM
3

That 20 years wasted where a deep or meaningful connection could have been made We don't owe women a relationship. Unfortunately, women seem to think they have the right to control male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:30 PM
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You are in a place where some women will be attracted to you rn unless you are extremely ugly. Even there, one needs to be able to tell when they're doing it out of comphet, which is most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:27 PM
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The point was how men are expected to have our lives revolve around women. Everything else is minutiae.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:26 PM
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Must have forgotten how often MGTOW get called misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:25 PM
1

I sure love when people blame the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:25 PM
-8

[citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:25 PM
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Both get stigmatised for not being female centric
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:24 PM
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Must have forgotten how often MGTOW get called misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:47 PM
-2

Must have forgotten how often MGTOW get called misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:46 PM
-4

Yes. MGTOW get called misogynists all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:44 PM
1

Already did lsst night
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:56 PM
4

If only w*men were capable of that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:38 AM
-2

Source for men prefering younger women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:52 AM
1

The only thing cishets have on their side is numbers Cishet men have the numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:37 PM
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N=30 is enough to be treated as infinite values in statistics, so 29 is near infinity. Now, let's actually test the hypothesis that the majority of women is autogynephilic. That's a 43% difference, with a standard deviation of sqrt(93%*7%/29)=.05, giving us a whopping Z score of 8.6.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:49 PM
-1

She just admitted all that matters is if how she feels about the man in question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:17 PM
1

*you My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:13 PM
0

It literally is in the abstract: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19591032/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:10 PM
1

[citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:07 PM
2

So you're happy about the women who have sex with yoi not being into you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:51 PM
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how I felt about them is what mattered Most blackpilling comment of all time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:38 PM
4

I'd rather be alone. I've never been the one to care about love anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:14 PM
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Most men want the woman they are fucking to give shit about them Bullshit. The reason I'm most likely to reject a woman for is if it feels like she cares about me as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:57 PM
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That's just the autogynephilia talking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:51 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:29 PM
-1

So you’re saying women should only have sex with Chad? Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:45 PM
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They're bad because they have sex with men they're not attracted to and later complain about not reaching orgasm..At some point, you are responsible for your own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:37 PM
1

Maybe try having sex with people you're attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:34 PM
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So do MLMs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:27 AM
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Because as we know, Disney Princesses are no longer a massive media franchise
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:35 PM
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If an internet rando tels you they're a Nigerian prince, do you choose to believe them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:26 PM
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They'd be if they were straight
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:16 PM
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I really doubt the majority of women are into men. There's a reason why Tinder and Bumble are failures but Grindr isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:00 PM
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When they're not attracted to me, yet still make the performance of attraction towards me, something weird is definitely happening
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:57 PM
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Sounds like ace erasure but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:42 PM
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Would be harder if women at least made an effort to make their straight LARPing believable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:32 PM
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You're describing matters of intensity, but not frequency. Most men genuinely are attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:29 PM
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I'm sure it's the other way around. Women are conditioned into identifying as straight when they clearly don't feel attraction towards men most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:23 PM
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It's a concept developed within second-wave feminism that suggests that women are socialised into seeking relationships with men, regardless of their actuak attraction. Anticlimax by Sheila Jeffreys is a good exploration of its ramifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:15 PM
2

I'd have less reasons to believe women are not straight if I got no female attention at all instead of specifically getting comphet-mediated attention
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:51 PM
3

Do you have any source for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:35 PM
2

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:22 PM
1

The thing is it hardly works if you only act like that during sex. Which goes back to the question that triggered your post. If you don't act like you can see men as objects for your pleasure, the way men largely are able to do when it comes to women, then it'll be all too obvious that you're being performative.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:17 PM
1

The counterpart of that is that you should also have a responsibility to at least pretend like you desire the man you're having question. And women are often bad at hiding the fact that the entire reason they go after men is comphet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:57 PM
2

That could simply be solved by having other forms of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:55 PM
11

They're still married, which is relatively uncommon among their friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:52 PM
2

Then you'd simply have forms of sex that are more likely to lead to orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:50 PM
2

[citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:47 PM
1

Maybe it wouldn't exist if women didn't have sex with men they're not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:42 PM
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What you described are roles. Either might be part of self-directed attraction insofar as they are part of a script in which one is participating. So for instance, a woman's typical fantasy, under your description, would be being a submissive woman (LARPing as heterosexual by having sex with a man, might I add). This is wholly unrelated to externally target desire, which is mostly absent in women, at least towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:38 PM
1

Then women in general simply shouldn't be having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:28 PM
1

Then don't have kids. Maybe don't even have sex in the first plsce if all you'll do is complain about it. Men are way better off having partners who are into us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:23 PM
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What I want is mutual attraction. I definitely would enjoy to have an attractive woman turn into a puddle of sweat under my touch. But from what I can tell from the amount of female attention I've received, women generally do not desire men in such a way. It's comphet all the way, with some autogynephilia mixed in (women think about how a man touches us, how he makes us feel wanted and desired). So women simply expect a man to serve as a prop for their own self-directed desire, without doing the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:17 PM
3

Men who were already doing well for themselves are more likely to get married, scientists find
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:12 PM
1

Probably, if they're fine with it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:48 AM
3

Trans exclusive radical plebs, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:52 AM
1

Twillight was incredibly male positive
/r/MensRights13/05/26 01:39 AM
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This is why I prefer antivaxxers. It's only 5 years of child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:26 PM
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Natalie Wynn is the closest I can think of
/r/MensRights12/05/26 08:48 PM
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Ok, why does it only happen after they have a feasible excuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:54 PM
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They look up to single men with no prospects We do not need women to not be losers. We are Kenough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:40 PM
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Yet women keep pretending to be into men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:36 PM
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I sure love some good old biological essentialism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:29 PM
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It plays into the comphet fantasies they've been socially conditioned to fulfill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:43 PM
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Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence, plus Anticlimax: A Feminist Perspective on the Sexual Revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:19 PM
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Ok, would you be saying the same if he was an Andrew Tate fan?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:44 PM
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Why would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:43 PM
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I simply have read too much feminist literature to believe otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:37 PM
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Sounds like comphet but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:36 PM
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Makes sense once you notice women aren't actualliy into men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:24 PM
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There are always signs. The main one is if it only ever happens after she's gotten to know you enough to like who you are as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:13 PM
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Showing interest in someone, regardless of actual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:11 PM
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Or maybe he simply found one too many woman who performed attraction for him but it was so obviously fake
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:09 PM
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That you got scammed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:46 PM
4

That has nothing to do with my point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:29 PM
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Seeing it as a prize after I fullfill the necessary conditions is what would actually be entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:19 PM
2

Then we don't need to do PIV. I definitely plan on getting a vasectomy before trying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:15 PM
4

So you're saying I should be satisfied if she treats her body like a reward for me being a decent person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:06 PM
1

No 10 with small boobs and high body count. Terrible service.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:58 PM
3

It teaches men to believe women simply give sex to men who are allies™
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:56 PM
2

see women as stupid teenage level creatures I wish women weren't doing their own share of the work to make men believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:54 PM
0

Your point being that access to sex is a man's reward for being nice to women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:31 PM
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They typically want a man who is pleasant, considerate, and respectful as a default, not part of a transaction If she only chose me because I was a nice guy, she was never actually into me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:06 PM
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Comphet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:31 AM
1

It's also been found in 93% of cis women: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/pdf/10.1080/00918369.2010.486241
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:40 PM
0

That's just called autogynephilia. It's socially learnt instead of inborn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:45 PM
0

boo!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:48 PM
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If she's actually into me, that's enough. Not everything has to be about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:08 PM
1

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1186/s12884-017-1491-5 https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0266613823000232 https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8040683/ https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7518170/ https://www.npr.org/2022/10/18/1129736018/getting-an-abortion-as-a-trans-person-is-hard-with-or-without-state-restrictions https://www.guttmacher.org/article/2020/11/not-debate-lgbtq-people-need-and-deserve-tailored-sexual-and-reproductive-health https://transequality.org…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:37 PM
1

Because some do, and they in fact may be even more harshly affected than women are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:41 PM
1

Dunno. I think of being wife material as the same as being husband material, so maybe it's not worth it that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:05 PM
1

That wasn't what we were discussing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:17 PM
1

Many do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:32 AM
1

Why would I be pretending?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:36 AM
1

Then risking pregnancy is a problem men face, and in fact may pose more of a problem to the men who do than to the overwhelming majority of women. So switching things up may, in fact, make pregancy even worse for you if you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:28 PM
0

Physically disabled men will also have plenty of dating experiences which able bodied men will likely not face. They're still men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:25 PM
1

Trans men are men. The question never said it was about cis men in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:21 PM
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That wasn't the question but sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:58 PM
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Then don't have forms of sex that lead to pregnancy. It is that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:54 PM
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That shit already happens to trans men. You're not switching anything up. You jusy want to pretend you're number one on the oppression olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:52 PM
2

Many already do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:50 PM
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Sounds like the dream
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:04 AM
0

If your [sic] straight They aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:59 PM
5

Of course, things never are women's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:51 PM
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Women being actually straight is a very rare phenomenom. If it wasn't, there would've never been demand for PUA methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:50 PM
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All I'm saying is I know how supposed female heterosexuality works. I've had women perform attraction for me and it's obviously all fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:41 PM
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So, men are only allowed to do shit if you personally find a point in it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:37 PM
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It wouldn't be comphet if it lacked the performativity. I'm confident they would do none of that shit if the men in question turned out to be Andrew Tate fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:36 PM
0

Case in point: the overwhelming majority of straight-identified women having sex with men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:29 PM
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Comphet has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:10 PM
1

being used for sex by "straight" women Imagine my shock
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:08 PM
6

Next time you'll tell me to make money without ever getting to spend it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:33 PM
5

Good to know all women care about is tone policing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:09 PM
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I've women actually wanted men to do our share of emotional labour, they'd be pleased to find out about all of the PUA strategies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:03 PM
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My guess is 95% of the female population
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:35 AM
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I've just seen all too many times how, when women have a terrible idea, people are much less likely to cut them off than when men say terrible ideas. It's simply seen as more aggresive to give the same treatment to women (even I've noticed I need to remind myself to treat women with kid gloves more often when they're saying bs). What happens then, at boardroom meetings, when everyone has to go along with a terrible idea, just because it was said by a woman? I have experience in things like that:…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:42 AM
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I agree that the kill all men rhetoric is quite marginal but entitlement culture is not. And from entitlement culture, you get divine feminine talk and so on. Feminists really seem to have stuck their heads on the ground regarding where all of these issues come from. It was because of a culture that was all too happy talking about what women deserve without the expectation of them ever having to prove themselves, because expecting women to be competent is, of course, patriarchy. I legit believe …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:54 AM
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I totally would support feminists if they actually tried to get women to improve themselves and break away from comphet. I wish there was something like the red pill for women, but instead all they get is messages of how they already are perfect the way they are and deserve everything without needing to work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:12 AM
1

You should've asked that 10 years ago. Anyway, maybe you should try taking a shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:51 AM
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If the alternative is a miserable relationship with a woman who only cares who I am as a person, it's not even worth it, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:12 AM
3

Who is this majority exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:27 AM
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You are not the CEO of healthy relationships. If that advice gets me to filter out women who would only be with me because they like who I am as a person, then it achieved its purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:30 PM
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What I'm saying is I am content with that set of expectations. But, as you discussed, this feeling of loneliness actually feels quite burdening to a lot of people who idenify as men. I don't think people should have to subscribe to any identity that only feels like a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:56 PM
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I really don't think being loved would solve shit. I believe your gender should spark joy. To me, it does spark joy knowing I'm not expected to burden others with anything I'm going through. The notion that my failures are mine only to worry about; the last thing I'd want is to have to think of how what I'm going through is affecting others. And I think it's fine to not want this for yourself. But if the kind of expectations that exist for your gender don't spark joy, maybe it wasn't made for yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:46 PM
1

I definitely wouldn't care. I know for a fact those women are rarely ever attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:17 PM
1

Literally me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:44 PM
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I really can't relate to the people doing that shit. I even struggle to relate to chatbot users.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:24 PM
0

I think so. I wouldn't feel satisfied if she couldn't see me as an object either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:40 PM
0

I consider them synonyms
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:13 PM
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It's all autogynephilia
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:33 PM
1

The comment section here begs to disagree. Can't say I saw it coming, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:02 PM
1

for the individual, but bad for society if the guy goes too deep wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:45 PM
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The existence of straight men is the surest proof that sexuality isn't a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:41 PM
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Funny how any acknowledgement of the problems with socially sanctioned arrangements make others go "then why don't you become gay?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:32 PM
1

Where does it say so?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:26 PM
3

It's surprisingly easy to get one. I don't doubt OP on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:16 PM
0

Why would that need ever be understandable? If anything, I think it's more likely to lead to mistreatment of women than the need for casual sex. Most sexual abuse happens within committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:15 PM
0

Why would it be any less healthy than obsessing over a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:42 PM
0

Dude, why? Because it's true, and I'm in no obligation to reciprocate any comphet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:27 PM
4

Which is wrong, because aces also exist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:25 PM
0

You just arrived too early. Plenty of late bloomer lesbians out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:24 PM
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It's an excuse people make for why they're forming partnerships which align with socially approved scripts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:18 AM
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Abortion bans hurt men too; trans men most of all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:58 PM
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Since pheromones are the proposed link, my guess is HRT status
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:22 PM
3

Feminism is a thing, too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:02 PM
3

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:31 PM
1

That's hers to figure out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:28 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:25 PM
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I'd rather be chosen for my dick or die an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:25 PM
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If by using, you mean engaging in an activity the women in question ostensibly enjoy, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:30 PM
8

I might be young, but I sure am looking forward to dying alone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:33 PM
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I simply realised I respect myself too much to be content knowing a woman only chose me because she likes who I am as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:32 PM
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Guess that's valid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:12 AM
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On the one hand: congratulations, you're a real one. However, no offense, but are you chopped or something? Again, I don't mean to insult you, but AFAIK most women can get regular access to sex regardless. I really am just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:24 AM
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It is an operational bottleneck, to say the least
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:15 AM
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Well, if I cared about him, that would hurt. Maybe don't go for men you care about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:06 AM
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Men don't get to be used
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:05 AM
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Sure thing, Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:58 PM
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And using a woman, in this context, means engaging in activities she ostensibly enjoys
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:16 PM
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I'm sure they'd orgasm just fine if they actually were straight
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:10 PM
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Well, the right guy is just the one who manages to induce comphet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:09 PM
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Employers will also tell you it's better to be minimum wage material
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 10:35 PM
2

I really loved Fleabag; she nails down the literally me energy. PMMM is also one of my favourite anime ever; I'm hyped fpr Walpurgisnacht: Rising later this year. And of course, there's the Barbie movie, which is my favourite depiction of the Yamnaya invasions ogf the Balkans ever. As for novels written by women, the last one was The Fountainhead, over 10 years ago (I don't read novels that often). Though I do guess some ao3 authors I read might be women. Does music also count? I was a huge Aman…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:58 PM
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Most men totally can be desired. By men, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:16 PM
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every year more and more women opt to stay single and away from men Good. It's better if they drop the comphet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:53 AM
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I'm sure I would've noticed by now if it was for me. Maybe it is for enbies then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:00 AM
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I think it's ultimately better this way. Hypergamy is a force for good. We might've still been in the Stone Age had men never had a reason to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:30 PM
1

A partner I can have reliably good sex with. Even if I had easy access to hookups, it'd be hard to get a woman compatible enough to make sex more enjoyable than masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:57 PM
1

Or, get this: men who already are successful have more chances of getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:54 PM
1

I already have one. I'm a war criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:00 PM
1

That sure is a way to incite hateful rhetoric that only serves to pit men against each other
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:59 PM
3

IDK, trollsfrom WoW can be pretty hot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:04 PM
0

People get turned on all the time without any target of who they are attracted to. Just head over to r/askgaybros to look up femdom and you'll find a handful of them can be into it without needing to be into women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:54 AM
1

They only want the sex because they've been socialised to understand it as part of what constitutes a healthy relationship. Just look up stories about pregnat women over on the dead bedrooms sub and it rarely ever appears like the women actually are sad about the lack of sex itself, but the fact that their pregnancy is disrupting the desire they'd been the target of from their partners. It is so glaring that you really can't unsee just how much of what women actually care about in sex simply is …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:55 AM
1

Um, yeah? Women also That's just autogynephilia
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:26 AM
2

This is how 99% of married women feel about their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:22 AM
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