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| 1 | 3 girls, 24 hours, 5 euroKPTN is tight. Can't wait to get back this summer and do some serious bar hopping. There's another bar not far from there that has a really cool 2nd story lounge spot....wish I could remember the name! Also - if you like hash and jazz, Art Liners is tight. Also in F-hain | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Went out with a guy from the local "lair" yesterday. It was the most pathetic experience of my life. I don't know if I can do game anymore.If you find yourself acting in a way that seems unnatural to you, then you're probably being creepy. Just be yourself. I prefer to use this sub as a way to get better at picking up on social cues from others more than I do as suggestions as to how I should personally act. Maybe you should try the same. If you feel like you're being fake, others will probably pick up on that too. | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Are you an exciting person? So what are your exciting hobbies?You make great points here, but sometimes your hobbies can help you out. For example I'm a part-time musician, I tour when I can, and play locally and regionally very often. This is a great ice breaker, great way to meet people who might be interested in you. I suppose one thing that makes a difference is that people are actually seeing you engage in your hobby, I guess this is a good way of presenting your hobby to people without incessantly boring people by just talking about it. | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 05:58 PM |
| 1 | To all the virgins out thereHmm, interesting. Well if it works, then it works! More power to ya | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 05:18 PM |
| 5 | To all the virgins out thereI dunno, I think you might be playing from the wrong end of the spectrum, I think you'd want the girl to be roughly the same age for this scenario to work out. If they're 2 - 3 years younger, especially when you're over 21 and she isn't, I think you're establishing yourself as a beta in a way. Just my two cents | /r/seduction | 14/07/14 09:24 PM |
| 15 | To all the virgins out thereThere is a very specific age group that this works within, though. If you're a guy in your late 20s, chances are it won't quite work the same way as a guy who's 18 or 19 or even early 20s for example | /r/seduction | 14/07/14 06:04 PM |
| 5 | How to Pay a Compliment to a Beautiful Woman - Part Ihah you're right, I just looked it up. Seems a bit more advanced than what OP here is referring to though, lol | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 04:44 AM |
| 3 | How to Pay a Compliment to a Beautiful Woman - Part ISorry, this is really bothering me, but the word is "proximity". Other than that, some good advice here. | /r/seduction | 26/06/14 11:08 PM |
| 5 | Being Confident vs. Looking ConfidentThe real goal I think that you want to look for is to be loud without speaking loudly, if you understand what I mean. Project your voice, but do not necessarily be "loud". Take a deep breath. Know what you will say. Do not stutter or say "ummm" or "uhhh" or "like" every 5 seconds. Let your voice boom, yet speak softly and calmly. It is a subtle art, one that is hard to explain...and the deeper your voice, the better. | /r/seduction | 07/06/14 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Sex on first date for long term relationship?"Damn, I got sooooo stoned I fucked this guy with a weird name...something cat theory or whatever. #FML, never smoking so much weed on a friday night again" | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 03:09 AM |
| 23 | [FR] Meet HB9 at the beach. Date a few days later with f-close."....today I read some Sartre and began to reevaluate the incredible vanity of my own weltanschauung. I nabbed a bottle of 18 year Macallan from my parents' cellar, and contemplated the complete worthlessness and futility of modern and past creatives whilst lounging upon manifold 100 dollar bills strewn across my own private pool table, writhing like a supple feline in heat. 'twas a most horrible day" | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 06:00 AM |
| 21 | [FR] Meet HB9 at the beach. Date a few days later with f-close.Pompous might be a better choice of word /pretense edit: "pretentious" is sooooo passe | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Just approached a girl. .Leberkäsfressa! | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Just approached a girl. .Are you kidding me? Plenty of people say that | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Just approached a girl. .gesehen ;) | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 10:36 PM |
| 4 | [FR] #-Closed the Bartendersmdh... | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Why being a virgin means NOTHINGSomething I think a lot of dudes who have never had sex before miss out on - unlike men, for women, foreplay is really essential. I know that especially with a novel woman, you're already ready to go and just wanna dive right in. Don't do this. Finger her. Eat her out. Then it won't matter how short your actual intercourse might be, or how inexperienced you might seem, she will fucking adore you for caring about her sexual desires. And don't rush through the foreplay. Take your time. | /r/seduction | 07/12/13 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity last night! Just a couple questions,First of all....in case you didn't, you're gonna wanna get her engine going. This should help turn you on as well. Secondly - could also be an issue of posture. Use your whole body. Fucking destroy her (in a good way) | /r/seduction | 26/11/13 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Dating tips while still living at home?Are you sure that your parents are that conservative? Because you don't sound so sure. Having to be in an open area is a lot more than "somewhat conservative". I'm not entirely sure you haven't convinced yourself this is a rule without it being explicitly stated. I'll echo what others have said: you should discuss this with your parents. I know it can be a really awkward conversation, and I don't know your parents,exceptthatonetimewithyourmom but it's an important conversation to have especially… | /r/seduction | 05/11/13 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Dear r/seddit I'm currently feeling like shit but have learned a painful lesson that might help others - It has NOTHING to do with how you look.Agreed. I mean it's a decent point to make from a psychological standpoint, but grouping it as only women who have no clue what they want is veritable bigotry | /r/seduction | 14/10/13 08:34 AM |
| 4 | Dear r/seddit I'm currently feeling like shit but have learned a painful lesson that might help others - It has NOTHING to do with how you look.That's pretty misogynist | /r/seduction | 14/10/13 12:27 AM |
| -7 | Stop with the bullshit."treat her like you’re only using her for sex ... when it comes to young hot chicks, this type of behavior is a must." What the fuck. This has got to be a joke. If anything, in my experiences it's been the complete opposite. | /r/seduction | 30/08/13 08:55 PM |
| 6 | Why Being a Jerk is Better than Being a Nice GuyAgreed. It's also possible (and in reality not that fucking hard) to hone the positive aspects of both being a nice dude as well as being a confident man. | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 07:41 PM |
| 0 | What are fun things to talk about with women?ummmm what? | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 02:46 AM |
| 14 | What are fun things to talk about with women?Subtlety and innuendo is key. Throw a cheeky wink in there when something sounds vaguely dirty. | /r/seduction | 22/08/13 10:21 PM |
| 1 | 21 years old, never been on a date. Decided "fuck it" and asked 5 girls out. Got 4 dates in a week.Damn, sorry bro. Happens to all of us. You'll get yours, though! | /r/seduction | 22/08/13 01:03 AM |
| 4 | 21 years old, never been on a date. Decided "fuck it" and asked 5 girls out. Got 4 dates in a week.Go have fun with girl 2 first! Sounds like you don't have a whole lot of experience? (I'm talkin bout sex, baby) This is going to be made MUCH easier for you if she's already into you. You're pretty much in there. Then, afterwards, your general physical confidence around women will be MILES higher. | /r/seduction | 21/08/13 10:03 PM |
| -12 | Oldschool pua! The most dangerous routine in the known Meta-Verse..."Insta-Girlfriend."Men tend to think one way. Women tend to think another way. Well that's just fucking false. | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 05:55 AM |
| 0 | Oldschool pua! The most dangerous routine in the known Meta-Verse..."Insta-Girlfriend."You have a much better approach to this. I don't think the idea is all bad, but I think the examples this dude is giving are completely fucking tool-bag-ish and setting yourself up to get, well, yeah probably kicked in the dick more likely than the shins. You can use this approach in a non-creepy way, but for the love of god, the examples given are douchy and creepy as fuck. | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 05:25 AM |
| -11 | Oldschool pua! The most dangerous routine in the known Meta-Verse..."Insta-Girlfriend."Lumping all females into one psychological group. Well done. You're seriously not helping yourself here, bud. | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 05:23 AM |
| -9 | Oldschool pua! The most dangerous routine in the known Meta-Verse..."Insta-Girlfriend."I don't know what kind of women you're fuckin with, but it's clearly not the same kind I am. No self-respecting girl I know would ever put up with any of the latter half of what this dude was giving as examples. | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 04:44 AM |
| -9 | Oldschool pua! The most dangerous routine in the known Meta-Verse..."Insta-Girlfriend."Are you fucking kidding me? Ok, this started off alright, but the latter half of this is just asking to get fucking slapped in front of everyone. You can have confidence while being respectful, too. Fuck off with this misogynist bullshit | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 04:29 AM |
| 9 | Wow. Just had a completely game changing revelation. Hopefully it will help some of you get out and be comfortable in social situations, it certainly did for me.are you 12? | /r/seduction | 08/08/13 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Something I noticed about the "Most Interesting Man in the World" thread that applies directly to /r/seductionWell this is a lot more abstract than what I was expecting, but I agree nonetheless. What I expected you to post was this comment (paraphrased): "In order to be interesting, you have to be interested" | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 06:08 AM |
| 5 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.See, while my original post was meant more jokingly, this is the kind of thing I'm hoping for someday, honestly. If I start ranting about linguistics and my date is engaged, I will be attracted to her considerably more than before. Unfortunately, these people are few and far between. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 05:45 PM |
| 1 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.Actually I was somewhat joking...but I think it could actually be effective for scoping out possible longer-term things. If someone's interested in this, then I will automatically be like 10x more attracted to them. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 04:14 PM |
| 20 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.See my problem is that I'd probably start ranting about linguistics, or evolution, or german dialects or something | /r/seduction | 13/06/13 08:46 PM |
| 2 | first cold approach last night. went terrible.Hmmm. I don't know that I would say this was necessarily a blatant rejection, but rather a sign of disinterest. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Going out tonight, alone. I don't drink. I will not know anyone. Any tipps?Contrary to a lot of Anglo-centric stereotypes, it's actually a very beautiful language. | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 06:03 AM |
| 9 | Going out tonight, alone. I don't drink. I will not know anyone. Any tipps?hah! Not particularly, but I'll take it! | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 08:57 PM |
| 17 | Going out tonight, alone. I don't drink. I will not know anyone. Any tipps?Alright, well this is certainly a bit of a generalization, buuut....all in all, when it comes to flirting/pickup/etc. in Germany, men are generally much more, umm....complacent, nervous, jittery, and generally not confident. This is of course not true for everyone, but it is quite common, and something I have suffered from severely in the past, myself. On the other hand, the German women are much more forward and don't give a shit (and they will also drink you under the fucking table). They are … | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 08:50 PM |
| 11 | Going out tonight, alone. I don't drink. I will not know anyone. Any tipps?Aint this the truth. I'm a german/american, and every time I try to hit on women in Germany, they just seem confused. Women really seem to take more charge sexually in the Vaterland | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Who else lives with their parents?Absolutely, they are. But there definitely is a north-south dichotomy going on, too. This is pretty much the standard among everybody I grew up with here. I lived in the north east for a little while, and it was drastically different. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 12:40 AM |
| 9 | Who else lives with their parents?Might work for some people, but down here in the south, this is a big no-no with my parents, at least. Even at 24 years old.... | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 12:21 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closeMan, I really needed to hear that last part. Well done, friend. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 04:42 PM |
| 2 | You're depressed and lonely. Should you work on yourself before taking the plunge?As someone who has a similar problem, allow me to put in my two cents. What you should really do is not actually actively try to go for women, if you get my drift. Approach them, but do not expect or even attempt to seduce them. This will only lead to you trying to over compensate by doing something silly. Treat them as you would any other person, and don't give a fuck what happens. The minute that you get too emotionally invested, and shit falls apart, you will only worsen your mood. I've been … | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 12:07 AM |
| 3 | My brain never reminds me of any rejections. But it does remind me of missed opportunities.I like your brain. Are you done using it? Could I have it? Or maybe just borrow it for a bit? | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Why one-itis is a piece of shit, and getting rejected is awesome. (And why you should make moves early!)Especially considering how rare this is, too. Not once in my life have I experienced that. Experiencing it at 18 is even luckier. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 04:55 PM |
| 62 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!uh, if you could just stop staring at my penis, that'd be great | /r/seduction | 06/03/13 11:30 PM |
| 1 | So I don't want to approach girls anymore...I hear ya. I'm a manic/depressive individual myself. I always feel like I overcommit to everything I ever do. Artistically speaking, this is great. But when I try to pick up women, it is god awful. So I just stopped. I'm definitely a weirdo in general, and got a little bit obsessed with doing this, with ZERO success rate. Social anxiety isn't always a problem for me, only about 25% of the time. So I've just taken to not even worrying about that kinda shit anymore. Do whatever you gotta do. Every… | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Wisdom from Psychopaths. "The trick is to stop your brain from running on ahead of you."Overly wordy? Seriously? Did we read the same article? I thought it was just wordy and descriptive enough without seeming douchey. Brought you into the scene so to speak | /r/seduction | 08/01/13 09:36 AM |
| 11 | Openers for everyone who will be celebrating the end of the world tonight"Madamoiselle, given that Earth's final hour is nigh upon us, wouldst thou care to engage in coition back at my abode?" | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 04:21 AM |
| 2 | [FR] "Stop staring into my eyes, you're making me want to cheat on my boyfriend"Everything makes sense now. | /r/seduction | 10/12/12 07:48 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "Stop staring into my eyes, you're making me want to cheat on my boyfriend"Bro, do you even English? | /r/seduction | 10/12/12 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Chicks at metal showshaha....well it's typically hard to talk to somebody if there's a pit going on (ie there's music playing). That and, well...depending on how many drinks I've had, I might be in there myself. | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Chicks at metal showsyeah does seem to be a prevalent issue | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Chicks at metal showshuh, interesting response. see that's a big issue, making sure a girl at a metal show knows you're hitting on them. it's especially weird for me, because I network a lot from being in bands and know like half the people even at a 200-person show (ok not literally, but you get what I mean), and the fact of the matter is that most of the time these chicks are with their boyfriends. However, especially after visiting this sub more often, especially earlier tonight, I've noticed some chicks that you… | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Chicks at metal showsHah I find myself in those situations, too. But I feel like that's an even better situation in the long run though. I'm a front man sometimes, so I feed off of crowd reaction....always try to single someone out visually, make eye contact. I've always thought of it, but I've never actually attempted to take it one step further. Can't tell if it'd be awkward or not. | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 11:40 PM |
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