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| 2 | EyeContact AND Why get a Phone#Close??? NewB.PU | H2BAHumanPodcast | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 03:35 AM | |
| 0 | Not sure how to ask out "That One Girl" ?? Try this... | H2BAHumanPodcast | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 10:13 AM | |
| 0 | A Podcast about Not being a Bitch. ...but getting one | H2BAHumanPodcast | /r/seduction | 03/03/19 12:01 PM | |
| 0 | Letting your inner freak flag fly. Steps to take... | H2BAHumanPodcast | /r/seduction | 20/04/18 08:10 AM | |
| 0 | Gaming Psychology 101 | H2BAHumanPodcast | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 12:44 PM |
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| 1 | I seem to be off-guard all the timeThe great news is that you're aware of it. And that is quite literally the only path to correct me to sort of problem. So don't worry just keep putting on the repetitions it's like lifting weights. Eventually you get buff no matter what as long as you stick to it. The hardest exercise at the gym is opening the door. The hardest part about pickup is actually just opening the girl. I talk about this a lot on my podcast "How to be a human", I'll include the link if you ever feel like checking it ou… | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:57 AM |
| 1 | I just can't hold a conversationThe best stand-up comedians come off like they're just saying the things are saying for the first time even though they've been polishing the sentences for weeks months or years. The key to talking with women is a seamless blend of natural communication and some canned material. Not straight canned material but after hundreds of approaches and interactions with women you start to develop improvisational lines that work every time so there's no reason that if you find yourself in a situation not … | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:55 AM |
| 1 | What do you text your significant other about?In pickup I think one of the most neglected subjects is relationship game. That's what the upcoming episode of my podcast.. "How to be a human" is about. I'll include the link if you ever feel like checking it out or asking questions direct. Always here to help!! https://soundcloud.com/h2ba | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Where to next and how to proceed? Advice neededRemember the grass is greener don't overestimate your skills unless you're sure. That being said if you are sure go with what's in your heart the fact that you had the gut to type the word ghost means that it's in your heart. So use your best judgement think it over and maybe test the waters to make sure that you're as sharp as you think you are going back into the dating pool. I talk about this a lot on my podcast "How to be a human", I'll include the link if you ever feel like checking it out … | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Girls tell me I’m too “preppy”. How should I attempt to change this?You need to work on your male to female energy. You're not bringing strong emptiness that a woman's energy can fill the void of. You're giving too much information out. Women like to project the perfect man on to you so let them. There is a great book called The Way of the superior man that talks about masculine and feminine energy I always recommend to people on this subject. It pretty much nips all of the problems you're going to experience in this area in the bud right off the bat. I talk abo… | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Stares from girls?As blunt as wia put it...hes right The only way to know for sure is to approach. You can work on your eye contact and you can have fun things that satisfy your ego happen. But as far as actual progress in meeting women eye contact is only as powerful as you take it. I contact is essentially an approach invitation and if you don't step up as a strong man to take that invitation you're dead in the water before you even began. I talk about this a lot on my podcast "How to be a human", I'll include … | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:45 AM |
| 2 | How to find wingmen? Serious question.The only real way to find the perfect wingman is to turn your best friends into your wingmen. Train your single friends to your level and then you both push each other to a levels you couldn't have achieved apart. I talk about this a lot on my podcast "How to be a human", I'll include the link if you ever feel like checking it out Always here to help!! https://soundcloud.com/h2ba | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:41 AM |
| 0 | How do I follow up with women I approached and ask them out on dates?The best way to get a girl on a good date... Is not to ask her out on a date. But ask her out as a man and not get caught up in a dating frame. Ask her out like you would a good friend that you're excited to see, someone you want to offer value to while not caring if you get any reciprocity from them. Once you have the girl out with you alone you run normal game just like any other situation and let the cards fall where they may. I talk about this a lot on my podcast "How to be a human", I'll in… | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Help With Flirty/Cheesy BanterYou're probably getting caught up in what to say next syndrome. Need to walk towards your goal while never caring if you reach it. Put in the repetitions and let the cards fall where they may. The trick is, just like lifting weights and building a perfect body you lift the psychological weights and talk to as many girls and put it in the repetitions and eventually your verbal blockage is washed away. I talk about this a lot on my podcast "How to be a human", I'll include the link if you ever fee… | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Need some opinionsGive as much value and give as much honesty as humanly possible and whatever cards the dealer flops those are the ones that you have no choice but to play. So play them...and if you have to fold, Fold early! Save yourself the emotional capital. I talk about this a lot on my podcast "How to be a human", I'll include the link if you ever feel like checking it out Always here to help!! https://soundcloud.com/h2ba | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Girl approached me during a pool party and I completely shut downThe only way is repetitions. The first time you go on stage to perform something you're terrified but by the 10,000x you're a master. Same with women the more you talk to women in a friendly way the more it inoculates you to the panic wave in your body that's keeping you from enjoying their company. Just go out of your way to be as friendly and bars and nightclubs with as many women over the next year as you possibly can by the time you get done talking to 10,000 women you won't be intimidated b… | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Advice on how to physically flirt with a coworker without blowing it up?You can't go sexual or overley physically sort of frame. The best course of action is to be fun give strong masculine energy and just be a man. Then get her out not in a dating frame or in a sexual frame but as just a Fun Man and woman hanging out alone in public. If she's not willing to come out with you as a man alone on inside of a non dating frame then it's probably not on to begin with where is if there's no dating train attached to it and she's comes out and she responds positively to your… | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Texting adviceDon't ask out, just be funny sexy and all-around fun masculine energy, then get her out ... Not in a dating frame or in a sexual frame just in a fun come out with me frame. When she's out with you run game just like normal and go sexual when the time comesperiod doing it that way alleviates all of the struggles that accompany normal chode game. I talk about this a lot on my podcast "How to be a human", I'll include the link if you ever feel like checking it out Always here to help!! https://soun… | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:25 AM |
| 2 | how important is fb/instagram and other social media/chatting apps?I find what's great about social media and dating is the risque nature of DM. If you text a girl a message it has a certain impact on her psychology when she sees it. Where as if you send an Instagram DM to a girl and she sees it it just has the slight more risque appeal to it. So I like social media for that aspect of interacting with girls ...kind of "secretive" communication tool. I talk about this a lot on my podcast "How to be a human", I'll include the link if you ever feel like checking i… | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Should I go through with the date ?You have to do you brother. Anything that's worth doing is worth going through the effort it takes. The only way to get a good body is to go to the gym and go through the pain. The only way to get what you want in this situation is to go through the potential pain. Remember not guaranteed pain!! But potential pain, you're projecting your fears upon to them. Studies show the fear of potential harm is worse than actual harm I talk about this a lot on my podcast "How to be a human", I'll include th… | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Im not sure if older coworker [25F] is into me[18]The trick is that you can't overcommit and show your hand too early, you have to play your cards close to your vest... Get this girl alone and just make a move. If it backfires you can explain it away as a moment of passion. Where as if you verbally show your hand or physically show your hand before you get a chance to go sexual naturally you're going to potentially blow your chances if she's not 100% in...and worse yet ruin your reputation amongst the peers I talk about this a lot on my podcast… | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Acceptable places to approach women besides bars?Literally anywhere is a great place to pick up girls but the trick is the strategy in which you use.. Depending on what environment you're in is depending on how sexual you go. most guys make the mistake of either going into a dating frame or trying to be sexual or get too much of an indication of interest from the girl. My motto is Don't be sexual before the sexual location if you're in a hot nightclub making out is cool but trying to finger her on the Dance Floor may not be depends on the girl… | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Help not getting on the friendzoneIt's about always maintaining your masculinity and never being put into a place where being physical and being sexual is not your Mo. If you never give her the chance to put you in the friend zone and risk the chance of alienating her it reduces that friendzone problem down to 0 but you have to maintain a masculine to feminine polarity throughout your whole interaction or else her masculine side will start to take over and put you into the friend box I talk about this a lot on my podcast "How to… | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 10:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I make a move on a girl, without being too creepy or friend zoned?Physically escalate all through the interaction from the very beginning handshake all the way to hugs kissing and into the bedroom Don't make your move until she's reached the hook Point.. remember that attraction is the first stage then you have to build your character and make her believe you're real person then once you engage physically you have to go in for the kill and show no retreat into your head I talk about this a lot on my podcast "How to be a human", I'll include the link if you eve… | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 10:35 AM |
| 2 | I find this difficult...I like to preach the Buddhist philosophy that says: life is always walking towards your goal while never caring if you reach it. I say that because a lot of the times when we were trying to get ourselves pumped into a direction that we want a lot of our mental acuity is spent on trying to get the goal that we want instead of focusing on moment-to-moment self entertainment. Essentially...game is in the School of Performing Arts and just like any Performing Arts you must learn to take your lumps i… | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Art of seduction in marriage?As far as large-scale relationship it's about a day-to-day pressure that you slowly escalate it's like the old saying slowly turning up the heat in the hot tub and till a boil you'll never notice the sweat. That being said the best moment-to-moment advice I can give you his change her mood not her mind. Trying to change a woman's logical mind is a dead-end Changing her mood and directing her into a place you want her to be is always the right direction I talked about this a lot on my podcast How… | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 10:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you become physically flirtatious with a girl?Starting small but always physically escalating Period start with the touch of the back of the hand front of the hand above the waist on the shoulder and then just build farther and farther why I always escalating. You're the kind of guy that hugs you're the kind of guy that shake hands! It's always fun to have a secret handshake with a girl to bust out. Just be weird and fun and physical and don't worry about anything Just don't get creepy and don't try to be sexual until she's reach the hook p… | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Going to a a bar for the first time in a week. Any tips on meeting girls there?Congratulations on turning 21. And congratulations on beating smart enough to ask for help and take your life into your own hands. Definitely have some fun things in the back of your head to talk about when you go out don't ask girls questions.. make statements and guess at what their answers and responses will be. Don't get locked into job interview question game!!! I talked about this a lot on my podcast How to be a human I'm include the link if your ever feel like checking it out. Have fun ou… | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 10:14 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when books say to invest in yourselfI'd say means that profits are not profits profits are more Capital to put towards your business which is you and pick up. If you have a chance to have free time to go play video games take that time and then reinvest it back into yourself go out and do push-ups or talk to girls or do something valuable. I'm a writer and I always find an excuse to do anything but write, but when I get a free night and I want to watch YouTube videos and smoke, I decide to sit down in a quiet room and do some writ… | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 10:08 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to ignored textLet it simmer for a while and put her on the back burner you have nothing to gain from texting right away so just let it sit on the back burner and then when you do text make it something big and irreverent and entertaining that has nothing to do with your previous text and make sure to never mention the previous text. On my podcast how to be a human we have a saying WWGCD? What would George Clooney do? Clooney wouldn't get upset he wouldn't get mad if you didn't text him back in fact he might t… | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Im not the type of guy who goes to clubs, will sarging in clubs affect my game?There's nothing necessarily advantageous about going to clubs it's just a very target-rich environment. It's high-octane environment which means that it's state pumps you and the women into a place where you're more likely to engage in Risky Behavior. But that being said you could pick up girls in the library just as easily as a club but it's not as a target-rich environment and the odds of same night lays go down dramatically so it's not necessarily about where you game it's about how you choos… | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 09:59 AM |
| 1 | What are good books that talk about how to make conversations texting/talking wiseOne of my favorite books on male to female interaction in general isn't necessarily about texting but it's... David deida's 'way of the superior man' 100% best masculine to feminine energy communication education available If you haven't checked out Jeff Allen on YouTube he has got a program out just to exclusively set up to help people with that And... https://soundcloud.com/h2ba Always a great content | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Confidence with girls for a teenage guyHi Philippi Congratulations on being smart enough to take your destiny into your own hands. Doing game in high school when you're young is very high stakes because of the social pressure on the girls. Depending on your status among their peers and remember not status to them but status amongst their peers dictates a lot of your success I talked about this a lot on my podcast how to be a human on Soundcloud I'll include the link if you ever feel like checking it out start with episode 1... I don'… | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 09:51 AM |
| 1 | What are some mild sexual invites?Goin sexual when not on position to physically escalate is not a great idea. Funny and irreverent is a great tactic to take to get her going, but just remember that going sexual when you're not in a sexual location is not progressing much. In the back of our minds we feel like you are putting in quote-unquote game but in reality it's more of our subconscious looking for a sex contract from her to say sexual things back so we know the hook Point has been reached I talked about this in episode 1 o… | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Letting your inner freak flag fly. Steps to take...Instagram #H2BA to find more & get updates on new episodes | /r/seduction | 20/04/18 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Some helpI talk about this alittle in my Free sound cloud show. You wouldn't over think what to say to a big fat guy you were talking to... You're putting to much pressure on yourself to find the perfect thing to say. If you're interested in the principles behind what we shall be thinking in these moments check out ep1 of my show.. https://soundcloud.com/user-348180735/ep3-ever-see-a-hot-girl-with-a "Sex & Love is available for everyone who takes the time to LEARN to find it" -Hemingway Got luck brother!… | /r/seduction | 20/04/18 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Fucked a 5/10 and feel good!!!!Respect. Don't make it a habit tho. Always shoot for out of your league. Best way to get better at swimming fast? Swim with sharks. You da man. # h2ba | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 10:48 AM |
| 1 | How to etablish eye contactNext week's episode of my sound cloud social sciences podcast H2BAHuman is on eye contact. Damn should put it out early for you! Practice and start small. Where to look... Pick an eye to look into (right or left doesn't really matter) and stare into it. Don't break 1st. It's a exercise. Don't puss out! Look at a girl and smile through your eyes and not your mouth. Do this For a month and you'll be shocked at all the cool things that will happen. Worst case scenario you get better at eye Contact.… | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 10:37 AM |
| 1 | How do you close??Well said. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 10:36 AM |
| 2 | How do you close??Closing is phase 3. I talk about it this on my sound cloud podcast. Let me refer you back to the M3 model of pick up. I base my modern game strategy around it to this day.. 1)Attraction 2)Rapport/bonding. 3)Sexual Communication Closing is built on being viewed as a real person. But you can't show her your "real" self and bond until she's attracted. Once you understand the game... you'll see closing is easy... Rapport is natural... But Attraction!! There's where you need to focus your energy. Ex:… | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 10:16 AM |
| 3 | Do girls like assholes? and what exactly is a "badboy"?A bad boy, is just a guy on his path doing what he wants....that's it. Nothing inherently beneficial about being a dick....just sub communicates all the right things so stands out as an obvious archetype to follow I talk a lot about this stuff on my show on Soundcloud plus Instagram # h2ba | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 12:28 PM |
| 1 | My club experience...No, going out of your league is good!!! The problem is your new to pick up. It's a hard game. It's like a preformance art like improv. Looks easy, but is impossible hard when you're new. Check out my show on Soundcloud + Instagram # h2ba if you want some psychological techniques to help push through. Your killing it man! Keeping going out. The bar is the gym. Keep chatting and that muscle with grow | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Help me understandTalk in person. What would George Clooney do? I just made a show about the psychology behind work place approach on Soundcloud | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 12:03 PM |
| 4 | Thank for the motivation! Advice needed.Too aggressive too quick. Your trying to put the car in 2nd gear before starting the engine. I loved your out there hammering it!! Respect. But the same thing that makes a TV Show great is what makes a pick up great. CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT. But it's not enough to tell. You must show. Start with this thought.. "How can I demonstrate my REAL personality to a girl Nonverbally while being fun & self entertaining." H2BA | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 11:52 AM |
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