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RSD. Real Social Dymanics. They've got Hot Seat @Home which is doing wonders for some guys. Or the abundance of free youtube videos they provide.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 09:16 PM
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Lol, nice try buddy
/r/askTRP25/04/16 04:56 PM
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Go visit?
/r/askTRP25/04/16 04:55 PM
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If you're white and decent looking, try Bangkok Thailand. Great thing is you'll match with 98% of them too
/r/askTRP23/04/16 11:33 PM
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Sounds like you should fix that. Be of the cause and not of the effect. Go to meetups, etc.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 01:32 PM
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Same here. I'm 25 and I noticed that my sex drive is virtually nonexistent when I work out (heavy lifting,etc) consistently. Or shit, at all. I walk 6 miles a day to work, but sit at a computer. Got my levels checked and they're fine. Component -- Standard Range -- Your Value TESTOSTERONE, TOTAL -- NA -- 8.05 TESTOSTERONE FREE -- 35.0 - 155.0 pg/mL -- 168.9 TESTOSTERONE FREE -- 1.1 - 2.8 % -- 2.1 Keep in mind..... I've realized that I'm not attracted to white women after several failures sexuall…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 09:56 PM
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I don't agree. Soy Cowboy girls will pull you in that way.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 01:19 PM
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Ignore this guy... You don't need to prove anything.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 01:18 PM
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Thai women aren't usually the most well endowed. If she's got flawless tits, a stunningly shaped ass, and fit, there is a good chance.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 10:23 PM
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I spent less than $500 in two weeks. Stayed in two nice condos. Just negotiate the prices of lodging down, and enjoy the already super cheap prices of transportation and food.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 08:58 PM
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This is false. It's very easy to tell. They don't change their voices, and have more masculine faces. If she's a 10, chances are she's a dude. Easy to find out though, just ask politely, or if you're touchy feely, reach down and feel.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 08:56 PM
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Pom bpen koon American, but I've spent some time in Thailand. I went to bangkok for two weeks last month. Decided to use Tinder. My match rate was 90% probably. I am a "hunky chad" though. Things I noticed going on a few dates: The girls you match with are mostly school girls or working girls (which is what I want; low partner count, normal girls; not bar/club girls that have a new foreigner every night). They're most likely fairly decent at english too. Enough to go on a date and explore with a…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 08:54 PM
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The second reading is suggested on the forum for NMMNG. A man needs to understand what the book is about first to present it in an elegant way to the wife. Emotional beings that they are, they tend to freak the fuck out when they find men reading a book with the name No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 06:11 PM
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NEVER EVER GIVE A WOMAN AN ULTIMATUM. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 04:55 PM
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Brothers -- Go to Thailand and see this for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 04:24 PM
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Abundance, actual true abundance and not fake it till you make it mindset, has shown me that the risk of fucking sluts (STDs, drama ruining other plates you have) is not worth the effort. I don't hate anything at this point. I weight risks and take actions.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 07:14 PM
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I spend a lot of time in Thailand FOR THIS REASON. Local girls know I can leave for a 8-10 girl and because I pay peanuts (relative to America) because I'm a "rich American", I could do it for long periods of time and not need them. They fight and claw for my attention, want to cook and clean for me, and want to do everything for me to show they're better than a prostitute. I'm sure the fact I'm white, tall, and handsome helps... But I know there is more to it.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 02:56 PM
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Downvoting this post so that no one else clutters the comments with suggestions. You are spot on.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 11:04 PM
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Might I suggest finding a friend that's familiar with Thailand and the red light district? I went there two weeks ago for the first time and was amazed. You can have a 7 - 9 girl shaking her tits in your face all night and then leaving the bar with you to a hotel for just a few cheap shots of liquor. They will treat you like a king and you barely have to put in any effort. My best friend lives there and took me out. He told me that one of our nerdy coworkers visited him a few months ago and they…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 10:14 PM
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I may be weird, but I have to emotionally invest in people I'm sexual with. Unless you're getting drunk or high before, you need to at least like the person. Unless you're hormones are through the roof and you pop a boner in public just thinking about some girls boobs. Haha. As far as I know I haven't seen TRP tell you to be emotionless with your plates/gfs. Just be smart and tactful with how you navigate and choose them. I've gone months without girls before. You just re-focus your energy man. …
/r/askTRP01/02/16 05:46 PM
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I'm confused. Can you clarify what you mean by no-sex and finding a lover? Are you not going to try? Or are you just saying that you've given up the fairy tale of "the one"?
/r/askTRP29/01/16 02:58 PM
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Dude, same shit here. It happens to everyone. My cousin and his best friend tell me it happens 2/10 times and they're both with new girls every weekend. Either they're in their head too much (not enough alcohol for them) or too drunk. For me, it was keegles and breathing exercises that helped (so far). But really, I find it hard to get sexually attracted to even girls 8+ if they're dumb and uninteresting.. I ended up not taking girls home that I don't have any connection with. I broke up with my…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 07:51 PM
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I'm inclined to agree. Last two girlfriends I had were always dehydrated and refused to use my bidet. Maybe that's the connection... Asian girls seem cleaner, and most asian cultures use bidets...
/r/askTRP23/12/15 04:05 AM
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Good thing I have yellow fever. That's what I've always believed actually. Every bad smelling girl was black or white. 70% of my sexual encounters are asian women and I'm thinking I should just stick with it... Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:48 PM
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Not always that bad... Just one so far. The others just smelled, off... It's their vaginas.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 11:08 PM
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Yes you are. The sidebar, once consumed, will clarify everything in your question.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 10:27 PM
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These days you can say "Be a woman". Women are expected to be equals to men these days. Or just laugh at it and ignore.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 07:12 PM
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To further elaborate for the OP: Saying things like this will draw out the red flags you want to see early on in dating. As a man of abundance, which I hope you are at least pretending to be, you should be cycling through girls/dates quickly. It's important to figure out exactly what you find important, and then expedite finding out if the girl meets those requirements. Telling her she's splitting the bill will make sure she's not a "gold digger" and willing to be in a balanced relationship. I d…
/r/askTRP21/12/15 01:39 AM
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The more women you're with, the more you'll realize that no girl is a 10, and certainly never truly a 9. She might be smoking hot in her photos, getting the makeup and angles right, but in person you'll be able to quickly find flaws. Humanizing (looking for flaws and things I don't like) women takes them off a pedestal and makes me way more comfortable to not try hard around them. I've yet to meet a girl I can't find something wrong with.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 02:19 PM
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I've been in this situation twice. First time I lost the girl as I wasn't aggressive enough in showing intent (I wanted to take her home). She never came back, it was so fucked up but, meh, I was able to get a few numbers that night which turned out to be two great girls I still regularly fuck. Second time (different girl) I didn't make that mistake again, picked her up by her waist and then kissed her. Other dude walked away. She was all over me the entire night and when we got back to my place…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 02:42 PM
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Record the interaction. If you know you're going to argue, turn your audio recorder on your phone on. People don't second guess having a phone on you anymore. NEVER lose frame and stoop to an emotional level in an argument.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 02:59 PM
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I personally don't shit where I eat. Not a bad thing to take this as a failure, learn from it, and move on.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 09:55 PM
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ZMA destroys my appetite. I end up having to force feed myself to hit calorie goals. Melatonin can make your body lazy with it's own production. I would suggest first changing things like the amount of light and amount of computer screen and light exposure ~1.5 hours post-bed before supplementing.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 10:39 PM
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Related mindset quote. "This is happening FOR ME, not TO ME".
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 05:52 PM
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I'm 25 and date 19 year olds. So what? The reasons behind it are simple. You've got more value (even if it's not a lot) than the guys in high-school they're around. Got a beard? You'll look older and most girls I've met are into that. Got a nice car? Girls will see you as a man that has resources. Learn about SMV (sexual market value)
/r/askTRP28/10/15 10:38 PM
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Wait.. Y'all have the time and energy for this kind of thing?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:52 PM
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NoVA here. I'm not in college though.. I'll help as much as I can regardless. Also, you may want to research how No More Mr. Nice Guy did their meetings. I hear they had success and their forum is open to the public. As others have said, it may be best to label it as a masculine group and not identifying directly with TRP. As far as I know that's what the NMMNG guys did.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 02:32 AM
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Love your writing. Clear, to the point. Great post. Reminds me that TRP is a sort of method to help men evolve in today's world.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 06:14 PM
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HA. As soon as I grab the number for texting I unmatch. If she creates a stink, I know she's insecure and delete her number from my phone. Guys can shit-test too.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 12:44 PM
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This applies to super skinny (unhealthy) too.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 07:20 PM
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This is tricky... But here is the deal. If you're a fucking boss, and girls are throwing themselves at you, you learn to not stress about "sealing the deal" that night. I mean sure, getting laid is great, but let me clarify a bit. Friday I went out with my cousin and his best friend (quickly becoming mine) for his 30th birthday. We were all fresh as shit and had a reserved table right in the middle of the club's seating area. Birthday boy is fairly well know, so our value was super high that nig…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:17 PM
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I just broke up with a girl I met from Tinder. Like, this morning. Just be aware of a few things: What Red Flags does she have? Can you deal with those or the possibility of those persisting and never being resolved/dealt with? FIND THEM OUT BEFORE YOU LOCK INTO A RELATIONSHIP. Ask legitimate questions or look for indicators. The girl I just broke up with had two cut marks on her arms. She said she dealt with it a long time ago and was super honest and revealing about a ton of stuff in her past.…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 03:41 PM
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DAMN! Perfect time bro. Having the same issue right now. Being American, I want everything "now now now". Being a child of the internet, I'm used to a constant feed of information and have grown almost addicted to it. I think disconnecting is the best thing. Go back to the basics. It's like food and diet allergies. Cut everything out and slowly incorporate things back in to see how you feel but be careful to not overwhelm yourself.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 09:52 PM
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A quote to back this post up is : "This is not happening TO ME, it's happening FOR ME"
/r/askTRP13/09/15 04:00 PM
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Twoitis.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 06:13 PM
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Hey fellow homeschooler! Glad to know I'm not alone ;). We have a lot in common it seems. I'm also a giant nerd myself and work as an architecture/linux engineer for a major corporation. You cannot masculinize computers or IT. Nor should you. First, work and life are separate things. What you do does not make you who you are. Second, programming is an intellectual occupation. If you're worried about looking like a pussy when you tell someone what you do, you're in the wrong mindset. Change your …
/r/askTRP24/07/15 03:36 PM
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Oneitis, learn what it is. A girl that plays hard to get isn't worth it.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 01:43 AM
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What's funny is the guy in your example isn't a good example. First, as depressing as this might seem, you're still thinking that all of those things are necessary to be happy and letting the fear and learned helplessness, that you and everyone else seems to have, create doubt and speculation. First, if you're 50 and at a bar hitting on younger chicks, you are in a scarcity mindset or just generally are ignorant of things like escorts, etc. However, there is a big difference between choosing to …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 08:02 PM
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Got a second video for you. Touches on the hand in the air and also the perspective points I made : https://youtu.be/wXWflJS2TkE
/r/askTRP24/04/15 01:20 PM
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Because if you fail at the gym or studying, you're relatively fine and there is no fight or flight. When you get rejected socially, the lizard part of your brain thinks you're going to be kicked out of the tribe and that typically means death back when we were hunter gatherers. Perspective, or hypothesizing about my anxiety, social or not, helped me a lot. But it doesn't help everyone I'm told. I know for me the gym and studying was an escape from real life. It's a great distraction. When left a…
/r/askTRP24/04/15 02:52 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YhwEmS3-tf8
/r/askTRP24/04/15 02:23 AM
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http://www.songlyrics.com/jimmy-soul/happy-for-the-rest-of-your-life-lyrics/
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 09:48 PM
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The trick is to be such high quality/value that she's qualifying herself right away. Girls will try and maintain a relationship if you've got abundance mentality going into a relationship and you're high value. Or at least worth wile girls.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:46 PM
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And you gained perspective from it, did you not?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 03:42 PM
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Mine was salvia.. I recommend it to everyone. Perspective goes from 20% to 90+
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 03:16 PM
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When you say "telling a woman", what do you mean? I'm certainly not going to waste my time trying to verbally convince some chick I've got abundance mentality. Be mindful of your wording, even though I think I understood what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:01 PM
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Post-date, I feel alright. In fact, I'm glad I failed I went out of my comfort zone and got a new experience and it feels great. 18 and you think like this? Boss! haha Things don't happen TO YOU, they happen FOR YOU. You seem to know this already. Again, BOSS. Practice makes perfect. While this might sound shitty, you need to date a LOT of girls, getting exposure and lots of it. My first time doing a one night stand, or going to a club, or dancing was nerve wracking. The second time was still sh…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 04:59 PM
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Yes, a woman, or women, can push a man to become great even if he isn't aware it's happening. The goal is to be aware and in control if it while it is happening. Now that, that's power.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 05:57 PM
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http://markmanson.net/phone-numbers Tips from a pro
/r/askTRP22/03/15 02:23 PM
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What can I do to stop feeling inadequate? Grow up. you're only 20.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 02:14 AM
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Your condom problem can be easily solved by purchasing Large size Skyn condoms. I'm just slightly above average in the pants and the Large size condoms make a HUGE difference. The material they use (which isn't latex) is as close as it gets to not using a condom. Don't ever ever not wrap your junk.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 02:49 AM
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I'm spinning a plate from Tinder that is turning out to be a diamond in the rough. Asian, shy (not a loud mouth cunt), submissive (Let's me do whatever and does what I tell her to do), and a fair amount going for her. She reminds me of girls from Thailand that will literally let you do ANYTHING if you're from America. Lives far from home and family too which makes her responsible. Making generalizations is idiotic, bra.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 02:46 AM
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The solution to this is to get rid of (change the paradigm) the bullshit lies that women tell each other in their private little circles that say "If you lift, you'll get big and bulky". They automatically start rationalizing, like women often do, improperly and say, "Oh, if I just don't eat like the bodybuilders do after a workout, I'll avoid getting giant muscles ".
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 01:50 PM
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This girl I'm seeing currently is Hmong. She told me straight up that she doesn't like Asian men because they have small penises (stereotype) and are timid, even compared to the most timid white male. I told her I'm not into white women because they're mostly entitled and just down right boring.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:34 PM
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Very true. Thanks for taking the time to comment.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 01:09 AM
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This is kind of what I'm thinking. It's weird, but I feel as if I might not want her dating an "alpha" RP guy. Maybe balance is more of what would fit. Someone that practices RP lifestyle, but also doesn't exhibit pump and dump "alpha" behavior. Everything that works well in this world is balanced. Someone that will go the extra mile for her. But, knows not to overdo it and rewards her behavior when it's due, etc etc. She's absolutely a catch because of her sexual past, trustworthiness, beliefs.…
/r/askTRP17/02/15 01:08 AM
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What the fuck are you on about bro?
/r/askTRP17/02/15 01:05 AM
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Thanks. Solid perspective. Agreed wholeheartedly with making things worse and the fine line.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 09:01 PM
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Preffered? You're really bad at this. So what are you going to do about it? You're just looking for attention at this point. Go change your life and quit crying about it online.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 02:35 AM
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I love how people in the comments are trying to persuade you not to kill yourself. "Life is X", "You should X", blah blah blah. Your entire post is based on self defeating presumptions. You don't want to work for someone else for pennies on the dollar? Then don't. You don't want to put in effort to securing your own personal personal income? Then don't... You don't want to improve yourself to see it all slide downhill as you age? THEN DON'T... However, with each "Then don't" I provided, you'll j…
/r/askTRP15/02/15 05:43 PM
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Boy, I'm really tried of people commenting with things like "You're overthinking it. Still." Look, TRP is about PERSPECTIVE. The OP posted this because it was how he gained perspective on natural game/blunt game. It will help some, it won't help others. Don't comment if you don't have something constructive to add.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 05:56 PM
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You're manipulating women to get what you want. If you want an LTR: Go somewhere where you can talk about important shit and have a real connection. Without that real connection, it won't work out, and you should move on REGARDLESS OF HER LEVEL OF HOT. Abundance man, abundance. Hot bitches are not perfect!
/r/askTRP22/01/15 06:07 PM
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THIS IS KEY. You should be increasing your SMV so that she chases and changes her life to be with you. This is the goal for all of my relationships in the past year. It only takes one compromise on your end to let her know you're a shlub and can be pushed around/not trusted. If you're being you, and she's attracted, and you don't compromise, you'll have the key for a long lasting relationship filled with honesty and trust.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 06:04 PM
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I met this chick on Tinder and she was a 5'2 asian girl. I'm 6'4 and everything on me is above average. I don't think she's tight as it's more of a general difference in our body sizes. I had the same problem as OP and this was my solution: After the first orgasm (I lasted a few minutes which I was surprised about) I waited 15 minutes and then proceeded to rail her again for a full like 30 minutes. She was sore the next day and has been constantly texting me since. I don't care what anyone says,…
/r/askTRP21/01/15 04:52 PM
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To be fair, the guy could be fucking insane too.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 04:44 PM
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This advice/post is great. Really good information for people in a certain mindset. The more I talk to older RPish men that are single, read these posts, and see married couples, I realize a few things. Let me first start by saying that I want kids and a family. I also don't find spinning plates as fun and more of a chore. Not because of some sort of programming or anything, but simply because I see having a family as a stage of this great game we call life. A chaotic, fun, sad, terrifying, wond…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 04:51 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP20/01/15 02:40 PM
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Can I ask why? I mean that sounds great, but why did you start taking them?
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:31 PM
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What this guy is saying is found in a book called The Way Of The Superior Man
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 05:45 PM
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Emotional. If the girl can cum from physical stimulation is because she has no reservations and has a very open/free mind with nothing holding her back. If not, it takes an emotional stimulation of varying degrees.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 01:11 PM
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If you just take on "Avoid Debt AT ALL COSTS', it's easy to apply.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 09:05 PM
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Might I suggest a book. http://www.amazon.com/The-Way-Superior-Man-Challenges/dp/1591792576
/r/askTRP02/01/15 12:05 AM
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This shouldn't be downvoted. It has it's merit. When I'm nervous I tend to find a release in pushups.
/r/askTRP01/01/15 10:38 PM
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to dominate betas with my superior sense of style Really? Haha In all seriousness: It depends on where you live. In Tampa, FL I noticed a bunch of dudes with them. I guess that was cool there, but it sure as hell isn't where I'm from. I think those guys in Tampa were Russian or something. Everyone sees you here as a try hard douche or someone who lives in his mom's basement. In my opinion hats are never cool. But that's just one bros opinion. Get a sweet hair cut or buz it off. I personally thin…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 10:37 PM
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I'm seeing too many variables, so let's break down what situations I would presume someone would freak out in. Also, I'll touch on why you're thinking about band-aiding the symptoms, not the root. Rejection - So, you walk up to a girl you find is attractive. Maybe passively, maybe direct. "Hi, I'm threwfa" you say. She looks you up and down and immediately starts laughing/giggling like you're some below average chump not worth her time. You see it on her face, clear as day, and instantly get tha…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 04:07 AM
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MOVE ON. You should be lifting and doing something bad ass with your life so that you have girls chasing you. Don't chase after girls... Trying is a paradox
/r/askTRP18/12/14 04:36 PM
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"It's not happening TO you, it's happening FOR you" http://youtu.be/mnXAAH5uwCw
/r/askTRP07/12/14 02:46 PM
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I soft nexted her after that. No more conversations. I have my own life to live but I still engage her when she texts me about this guy or that guy only enough to see the red pill truths. To help me accept AWALT. Smart. A woman's bad behavior is our fault. We feed that shit by talking to them like you were doing and not calling them out. Problem: She texts you that she found tinder. Solution: "Good, now you can be like every other girl and wake up one day alone and used up" I like being blunt an…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 01:56 PM
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https://thailand.zeef.com/esther.van.veen
/r/askTRP02/12/14 10:18 PM
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Agreed. In a way, this post is contrary to so many thing in TRP and should NOT be stickied simply to prove the mod's point. The only thing this post has done is confirm, once again, that sex can be a chemical addiction and that being held by a woman after X is simply pleasurable because of the need for the male mother (we're boys, and boys need their mommies, until we become men, no one said it's easy being a man). I'd rather have a fantastic emotional immune system and be happy when I'm alone. …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 02:29 PM
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Wrong. You must desire your passions enough to be something more than a bum in life.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:41 PM
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You just summarized everything I'm currently pursuing for myself at this very moment.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:40 PM
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And this is why mindset is so key to a happy life.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 07:33 PM
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Just a suggestion. Don't shit where you eat. I know this is your only social setting to do this stuff, but it's a social setting where you can lose your job, get a rape charge, and never work again in your life/field. Just be careful.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 12:23 AM
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I wonder if these guys sat down and matched their list with a list of what their SO does for them, what they'd find.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:35 PM
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I'm giving http://amzn.com/B007SZCG0C a try for the next few months for my blog.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 06:55 PM
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Ding ding ding, we have a winner
/r/askTRP16/11/14 05:49 PM
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It's quite common. I would guess it's risky, but you have to feel out the situation. If she seems fucking crazy, you want to avoid it like the plague. She'll pull a rape card the minute she doesn't like you anymore and there isn't shit you can do. If she's sweet, innocent, and good for a relationship, I say go for it. The worst that could happen is you date for a bit, meet the parents, get their approval, and have a good time until you realize that relationships at your age are fucking retarded …
/r/askTRP16/11/14 03:00 PM
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Best thing to do for psychological erectile dysfunction is to treat the psychology. Fuck girls you're attracted to. You've got nothing left to prove by fucking for sport. Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 01:29 AM
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I wonder how many guys will read this and completely miss the mindset of, "If she turns into a scathing bitch, it's YOUR FAULT FOR LETTING HER". How many marriage issues and women get out of control because you're a chump and let her?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 01:30 PM
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Personally, the big take away from this is to examine EVERYTHING you do and ask yourself why you're doing it. Before I make any post, even this one, I examine why I'm about to do it. And I examine it on a deep phycological level. I'm posting this comment because I hope other dudes will start doing (and save a ton of time and pain) what I've found to be extremely useful in life. Not because I want someone to read it and go, "Wow, this dude is smart" (ego), "He must be an alpha and have his shit f…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:05 AM
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Religious? Well there is your problem. You have what I like to call american sex shame. I was raised to be shamed about sex and feeling sexual feelings. Getting over it is hard, but you have to abandon your beliefs that something natural and wonderful as sex is bad. I had to abandon the god I was raised with for that reason. I can either have a terrible existence in fear, or live my life without guilt and have no regrets. STOP FEELING SHAME AND GUILT ABOUT SEX.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 09:33 PM
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This is more of a ASKTRP question /r/asktrp/ If you've got your life together (know what you want in life), have high SMV, and don't want to deal with an innocent and stupid girl, then don't. Beggars cannot be choosers and you're not a beggar, right?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 07:10 PM
4

THIS! People waste soooo much time arguing. I tell people all the time I don't care about their opinions. If that hurts them, I don't care.
/r/askTRP02/11/14 09:48 PM
6

No, start with The Book of Pook and easier stuff. Those books are WAY over a 20 year old virgin's head. Then, go read Mark Manson's book Models, or the audiobook. Really easy stuff to start with.
/r/askTRP02/11/14 12:34 AM
2

How do you even know the trail can be blazed though? You do it. Take the risk. If you fail, learn from it. If you don't, you just shattered any self limiting beliefs you had.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:17 PM
3

Also size. I ended up after years of discomfort finding out I need large size condoms. WORLD of difference
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 06:43 PM
1

So you shut out information which could be beneficial because you disagreed with something someone said and you blew out of proportion? You'll go far....
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 01:38 AM
2

http://youtu.be/BtouYm0K6II
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 02:36 PM
5

Well, you could be vulnerable and tell her "I'm not looking for anything serious. Just want to get to know you and see what happens". Or, you could stone wall her by diverting the conversation. You could even just say, "I'm just not". Up to you dude
/r/askTRP24/10/14 05:16 PM
1

Thanks, I tried to get every angle and forgot that one lol
/r/askTRP22/10/14 05:56 PM
0

Personal preference. If you're looking to weed out women that are uninterested, or maybe shy, there is merit to that. Almost every girl will give you her number, even if she's uninterested. (NOTE THE WORD ALMOST) She just won't respond or flake, etc. I ask for their numbers because the more I get comfortable with asking for the things I want in life, the more desensitized I become to the fear (the goal of confidence for me). I've had girls walk up to me at clubs (not attractive ones all the time…
/r/askTRP22/10/14 03:49 PM
1

Good luck brother! You've got the right mindset
/r/askTRP20/10/14 08:16 PM
1

https://www.google.com/webhp?q=famous+people+that+have+overcome+speech+impediment&spell=1
/r/askTRP20/10/14 12:08 AM
1

Yes, let's presume OP has a neurological issue that cannot be fixed.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 09:08 PM
1

Just google people that got over their speech impediment issues. It happens all the time. Learn from the people that have success in reversing/eliminating/lessening their problems.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 07:51 PM
3

Great video about this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oG9eezhU2fI
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 11:12 PM
1

Been realizing that Tinder was my easy way around being vulnerable to rejection. I've recently deleted it and you just helped validate my action. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 12:29 PM
1

That's the problem then. They aren't depressing numbers, they just are. I feel like you have unrealistic expectations about life and aren't focusing on your own goals/success/life. Pedestaling women and placing ANY emotional weight in how many girls you fuck, etc, is weak and insecure. You should be figuring out what you want in life first, then give 110% towards it. If girls come, sure, see what happens, but don't let your self worth hinge on other people's actions or things that happen externa…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 03:02 PM
1

Failed? Wait, dude, everyone fails. So what? Mark Manson's Models' book talks about this. Take 1000 women. Out of those 1000, 200 are attractive to you. Out of those 200, 15 will be attracted back to you. Out of those 15, 8 will actually like you and let you hit on them (number/date) or have sex with you. You have to get rejected to meet those 8.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 02:26 AM
1

No, it's only happened once. The old me would have just gone without sex. I meant in general morning sex is better since I'm ready to go and full of energy.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 02:03 PM
2

Agree with the provider thing, but carrying them around like that usually turns girls on from what I'm told. It can be considered dominating. Like a "I can throw you across the room", power display kind of action. Cuddling is foreplay IMO. I then move to kissing, sensual touching, etc. We were touching, and even when we were naked.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 06:52 PM
1

Often times, the girls say no once and then they literally fuck you 5 min later or in the morning. That has happened to me. Morning sex is better IMO. But to be honest she had a few red flags the whole night that I didn't include in the post that showed me she wasn't worth waiting until the morning to find out.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 06:49 PM
3

"At 2 am, how did you feel having a nude woman sleeping in your bed that you couldn't have sex with?" Like the old me. "Did you want this?" Nope. "Would you have preferred to be sleeping alone at that point?" Yep, I had a bad cough cause of this shitty dry weather and wanted to run a humidifier. "Could you trust her with the things you had at your place?" No, that's a good point. She could have stabbed me to death in my sleep or something. Robbed me blind. She wasn't very responsible.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 06:45 PM
3

Abundance mentality. Works wonders.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 04:13 PM
3

Yeah, I agree. If anything, her asking means you're remaining a man of mystery and she's trying to figure you out so she can put you in a box with all of the regular chumps. She'll remember you, and be on her mind if you don't answer her and take her seriously. She'll be at home like "He's so mysterious... I just can't figure him out..." feels feels feels feels.
/r/askTRP12/10/14 02:56 PM
1

http://www.amazon.com/Models-Attract-Women-Through-Honesty-ebook/dp/B005EOTH24
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 02:30 PM
3

I've had trouble with this in my life. Models by Mark Manson is helping me
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 04:29 PM
0

"That’s not a fair thing to ask of women. It’s not her responsibility to stay with you on principle alone. It’s your responsibility to be the kind of man who doesn’t get dumped or cheated on." - The moment I liked this post.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 09:38 PM
3

Thanks, great timing. I just realized this morning that I'm losing focus on what's truly important: My own passions and goals, and pedestaling women/PUA All of the game theory is fun and really rewarding, but it's fleeting. If I'm not constantly reminding myself that there is no unicorn/"the one", and that this is simply just a developmental process to become a better man, I quickly fall into neediness and pedestaling women. Sometimes without even realizing it. It's hard to explain, but it's all…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 02:25 PM
1

Thanks, that does make sense. I noticed that this girl I'm seeing mentioned that she watches Sex and the City. That sold a hookup and absolutely no chance we'd go any further in a relationship. Those are the things I look for in dates. As I said, if the girl goes on a date with me, I pretty much presume she's going to give up the goods by the end of the night or the next date.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 01:55 PM
2

When you guys say "Talk about sex", can you provide examples? I've never done this and always just taken sex as implied in my date.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 11:04 PM
3

I was dating a girl a few weeks ago. We were 7 months in and she was quite, or at least I thought, emotionally stable. Then, her mom increased pressure on her (she was psychotic), she was getting ready to move out of her parents house, and even started to get serious about working out and doing shit I already did (match my value). That's when it went down hill. She was not able to cope with everything and quickly started being super needy and way too aggressive about us spending time together. S…
/r/askTRP18/09/14 01:20 PM
1

This is important. I've never had much success telling people what they need to do. Or worrying about what they SHOULD or COULD be. It's much more powerful to live what you'd tell them and if they ask, give them the resources. However, don't invest yourself in whether they listen or read it or not. It's ultimately THEIR choice whether they want to change and you shouldn't have time to focus on someone elses problems if you're doing the right thing and fixing your own.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 04:36 PM
1

A recent study showed that just saying "Hi, how are you" works better than anything else. Once that's done, just remember to not pedestal the girl. She's a human, probably just as insecure as anyone else. Probably has lots of personal issues in her life, etc. Then, just ask normal ass questions like where did they grow up, etc. Here is a great video: http://youtu.be/b-a1jXgAsQI Additional video: http://youtu.be/Naz1MKbSZWA
/r/askTRP17/09/14 03:27 PM
2

After reading Iron John, I immediately realized that everything I had read up until then was based on the book's ideas. Specifically No More Mr Nice Guy
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 09:00 PM
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Good story. But, Adderall and weed? Are you in highschool?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 11:54 AM
1

Tyler (Owen) from Social Dynamics talks about this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pdRKzteqUG4
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 07:43 PM
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"she was freaked that he could break up with her so quickly" Oh, what's that I hear? I have to actually work to maintain this relationship? He can leave at any time?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:20 PM
6

Can someone clarify the "Take responsibility for every escalation" section? Specifically "Don't get her horny until you have her isolated". What exactly do they mean here? Got any examples?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 03:19 PM
1

Stop drinking so heavily. Sober game is TRUE game and IMO makes you a stronger man in the end since the buzz only helps you be YOU. Don't watch porn AT ALL, don't beat off, lift weights, and you'll have no problems with your junk working.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 11:25 PM
0

"But now that everyone's seen that pussy and realized that it is just like any other, the bubble has burst." This.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 05:19 PM
2

I'm exactly like you. I work as an engineer and make a whole lot of money. She knows it, but she from the start (before I had the job) was paying her half in the things we do unless I specifically told her I was paying. What I noticed is that after the "I'm not getting married" talk, her replying with "I'm alright with a prenup, blah blah blah", is that she's actually quite closer to me now. Like, it's weird, I set an expectation and it brought her closer to me. The only way I would get married …
/r/askTRP30/08/14 12:08 PM
0

My girlfriend found out I don't drink. She started to stop but not entirely. She gets drunk one night and tells me about it. I tell her I find that extremely unattractive, and then changed the subject like it was and wasn't a big deal. She hasn't even had a glass of wine since. All of you dudes should be high value if you want to have this kind of influence without having to do any sort of over controlling crap. The girl will change for you simply because you're super high value and she doesn't …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 09:46 PM
1

This is what I've found as well. TRP builds character which will extend into all aspects of life.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:37 PM
1

That lower back hair though....
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 12:06 PM
3

So, this came up in my own relationship. Your logic is sound. Women want equality right? In my opinion that means 50% BOTH WAYS in everything. Both partners spend equal amounts on EVERYTHING, or else they don't get married. Marriage ceremony: split both ways 50/50. Either she sacrifices marriage and can get my support in an LTR (401k, an account where x% of my paycheck is placed into an account for her own spending needs, etc), or we get married and she has to work just as hard as I do for the t…
/r/askTRP14/08/14 05:24 PM
1

Nah it'a cool I play the occasional game. I'm just being a dork. Good improvements dude. Really glad to hear you turned stuff around.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 08:10 PM
2

"Built and bought brand new gaming PC" - Now sell it and buy some books. :D
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:52 PM
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RSDTyler covers this: http://youtu.be/BaRjwsOKEyQ
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 11:42 AM
2

Starting a new job soon. Thanks ;)
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 04:03 PM
1

What do people thing about Tyler's video about this? http://youtu.be/BaRjwsOKEyQ
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 12:22 PM
1

Before we talk about girls, let's talk about you. "Alpha" men don't exist, it's a mindset anyone can have. "I get awkward as fuck in social gatherings and would rather just spend my time by myself." -- This indicates to me that this should be your area of focus. Force yourself into awkward situations until they aren't awkward anymore. Your emotional immune system is a muscle, you need to flex it. I argue that success is the 80/20 rule, 80% social skills, and 20% intelligence/knowledge in the fie…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 01:08 PM
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My cousin got laid a lot and seemed to be an "alpha". He also bitches about how his new girlfriend won't say she loves him back, spends all of his time with her instead of his friends even when she doesn't want to, and buys her things when she acts like a little girl instead of rewarding her when she treats him like a king first. Just observe these guys, take what you want from it, and meld it into your own inner masculine toolbox. Sort of like TRP. Not everything here is going to be stuff you w…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 11:13 AM
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The other dude was huge. I'm not sure I'd be scared if I was that guy. The guy wanted a fight regardless, if you're not going to attack immediately (preemptive self defense), than you maintain amused mastery. Being calm is worth 10x anything else in a fight. Humor helps.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 05:28 PM
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Amused mastery, just like the guy being yelled at used. He made it a fun game, then pored water on his head to see if he was being serious. Shit made me laugh.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 04:37 PM
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I was homeschooled too. Same shit. There is hope dude. I feel like I'm finally free of all that past garbage.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 02:43 PM
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It fucks you up, but get over it. I was raised by a single extremist christian mother and two sisters. I went to a homeschooler's school that was pretty good for my social life... but my mom taught piano and music theory there. Also, I'd argue that being a beta from this kind of home sets you up to break free/become a man in a way that is 10x better than breaking from from a healthy home. Why you ask? Because you now have PERSPECTIVE and real EXPERIENCE. You know about the other side that many d…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 10:56 AM
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I'll probably be like you in the near future.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:19 AM
1

Read The Book of Pook. Start living it http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/book_of_pook.pdf
/r/askTRP31/07/14 11:51 AM
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Thank you. This was the point I was trying to make.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 06:57 PM
0

Let me rephrase that. Focus on you, becoming a bad ass, and lead BY EXAMPLE. Show your brother how bad ass he can be by hitting the gym, etc etc etc. If he doesn't change that way, since it's working sooooo well trying to control him with force, then move on. Yes, abandoning your kin (at a certain point) so that you don't abandon yourself.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 02:36 PM
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I've spent the past 20 years coming to EACH AND EVERY one of these points through hardship. If I was coming across this article as a different man, I would buy a whiteboard and write each of these on it forcing myself to read them each morning and practice them. Or, I may just ignore it thinking it's just another TRP article and it's cool but is something unattainable for me without major changes and a lot of work. Save yourself some time and take heed to this article. Your Emotional Immune Syst…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 03:42 PM
0

This really isn't TRP related IMO. Maybe regarding PUA... General advice: Smile when you meet people, call guys brother (but if you feel it's going to come across awkward, avoid it, because it probably will; use it, but in a legitimate sentence, don't force it; say things like "thanks brother", "Nice, bro"), get hobbies and start doing things with other like minded people. Pickup artistry works on dudes as well as girls, that's why it's so valuable. The skills learned with general PUA give you c…
/r/askTRP22/07/14 03:20 AM
1

Start with No More Mr. Nice Guy: https://7chan.org/lit/src/Robert_Glover_-_No_More_Mr_Nice_Guy.pdf
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 12:16 PM
1

Does "Don't shit where you eat" apply here?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 05:44 PM
5

Because busy hungover dudes don't have time for such nonsense. You knew what he meant.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 07:22 PM
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I thought this was understood... Hasn't everyone already read: http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/book_of_pook.pdf ?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 11:33 AM
3

Move. Cut ties, start a new life somewhere else. Otherwise confront her like a man, maintain a strong "this is how it's going to happen" frame, and walk away.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 10:07 AM
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Same, but my mother was justified by her filthy god in all of it. Just remember that you're an adult now and you can't let that shame ruin the rest of your life. Take a hold of it and lead it to wherever you want to go.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 10:05 AM
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And this: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/29u3ko/the_importance_of_having_a_mission_in_your_life/
/r/askTRP04/07/14 05:47 PM
2

Found this today: https://laidnyc.wordpress.com/2013/09/10/man-on-a-mission/
/r/askTRP04/07/14 05:47 PM
2

SORRY! Typo. It's Outer, lol -- http://www.amazon.com/Taming-Your-Outer-Child-Self-Defeating/dp/0345514483
/r/askTRP03/07/14 04:34 PM
2

The ones I listed, but start with No More Mr. Nice Guy: https://7chan.org/lit/src/Robert_Glover_-_No_More_Mr_Nice_Guy.pdf Then do Taming your Inner Child, which I feel is SUPER important since most of your problems are just your inner child. Learn to let the adult (alpha) take control instead and lead your life. Ever since I started doing that, interviews, taking to girls, etc is 10x easier. I could shit confidence. I don't have any expectations on anything I do anymore as they lead to fear and …
/r/askTRP03/07/14 03:52 PM
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First, there is no magic bullet. You're looking for a Do X, get X plan and that's not going to happen. TRP shouldn't be this hard man. This shit is natural for us men, just buried deep inside. It took me several books like Taming your outer child, No More Mr. Nice Guy, and a few others to GET OVER MYSELF so that I could TRUST my choices in life. Trusting yourself and having a sort of inner piece WITHIN YOU is super important for everything in life, not just girls. If you trust that you'll find s…
/r/askTRP03/07/14 03:32 PM
1

Honesty ALWAYS wins. If I don't like something a girl does, I tell her. If she thinks I'm a dick and storms off, fuck her, I'll call another chick or go hang out with my bros. If she accepts it (in the case of annoying you and everyone around you), she becomes a better person. More times than not I've gained respect for it. Women are little girls, they are all looking for their daddy in other men.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 03:51 PM
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First -- She was your best friend. Best friend status is saved for the guys that can and have your back through anything. WOMEN CAN'T DO THAT. THEY LOVE CONDITIONALLY, only men can love unconditionally. Second -- Read the sidebar of the parent sub http://www.reddit.com/r/theredpill, start working out, read a few books, start watching RSDTyler's youtube channel, and move on. You're a man, not a boy. While we appreciate you sharing, you've got to become a better man and get on track towards someth…
/r/askTRP25/06/14 11:35 PM
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I see a lot of stuff through kid glasses. What I mean by that is I want to have kids and a large family. That's why I agree with most of what is said in this article. I don't want a weak girl that compromises. I want a strong woman that can deal with real world shit when she's raising my children. I'm not her daddy. "A Loyal Woman will be loyal to your MANHOOD, not loyal to your EGO. A Loyal Woman will tell us the TRUTH, even if that means she might LOSE us. " -- This is key. I don't want a girl…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 01:36 PM
2

I thought and said the same thing to myself.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 07:02 PM
1

You should have gotten up and called them all out on the mic after she was done. Then walked out with your girl.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 04:06 PM
1

Glad you found it as intellectually arousing as I did. There is an art to being direct like the latter request you posted. I've tried that directness before, maintaining absolute confidence/frame, and my girlfriend at the time got uncomfortable. Trail and Error only leads to mastery I guess. :P
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 02:13 PM
1

This, so much of this.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 01:29 PM
2

Getting laid is nice, but it's still putting women/sex ahead of bettering yourself. You're still letting them manipulate you.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:38 PM
1

Wrong. The underlying goal of TRP is not teaching someone how to cheat to get results. It's also not meant to put women/getting laid above growing as a man. It's meant to teach you to be completely sober and exude confidence naturally. If you're popping a pill to lose fat, you'll just gain it all back once the pills run out.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:36 PM
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"but my alcohol level was right around where I have decent game" -- You're doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 09:56 PM
1

Ah! Thanks for the clarification. That's a great idea. I've been actively humanizing her since we met as a way to prevent putting her on pedestal. I totally see what you're saying. Again, appreciate the replies.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 12:50 AM
1

Because fat women are constant victims in all aspects of their lives. It doesn't just apply to their "disease".
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 02:42 PM
1

I need to start networking/flirting more. I still do, but I don't actively go out and network like I need to be doing with both girls and guys. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 02:04 PM
1

That's the weird thing, I don't. I've been building my own personal value for years (lifting, eating organic/healthy, career/debt-free). I have no issues picking up women and all that before her, it's just once I get into a relationship I start freaking the hell out. I think it's just me being inexperienced in real relationships and over time it will get easier.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 02:03 PM
2

Thanks for the feedback. It's getting easier and easier. I feel as if all of this "fear" as I say in my post, is just my ignorance with relationships. All of my relationships have been flings and not lasted more than a few weeks. Mostly because I've always naturally focused more on me and realized I don't want to be locked down. The more I experience things with this girl I'm with now, the more I realize shit tests and other things are really not all that hard when you maintain frame and call th…
/r/askTRP28/05/14 01:59 PM
1

This was found out the hard way back in my BP days. Should be the first rule to TRP IMO.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 01:30 PM
6

This should be the end goal for most of us that wan't to procreate. All this MGTOW is fine and dandy, but it's lonely and not as much fun as navigating the waters of love. We met through my cousin, hooked up of course shortly after due to her attraction to me (she tells me she doesn't do that, I was like "right..". She was cute, but I wasn't "head over heels" or anything. I found out more about her after some dates, which showed me that she was more and more of my kind of a woman. Responsible, m…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:50 PM
1

Starting your own business is very hard, and most importantly very capital intensive. Wrong. If you require a lot of capital than you're not doing it right. But then again, we're just talking about the businesses that require capital to start. All of what you said is old world advice. It's the same crap people spout when they tell you that you have to go to college if you want to be successful in life. Give me a break.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 04:27 PM
-2

clears throat, DUH....
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 04:23 PM
1

Would you say that's just because no one wants to work their asses off to start their own practice/business? All of my friends just want some big corporation to hire them instead of paving their own way. Lazy I tell you, just plain lazy and un'merican.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 12:58 AM
1

All of the suggested resources I use daily. Starting my first software company this month actually. It's really not all that hard. The hardest part is staying motivated and pushing through the resistance and failure fear. Most of that goes away when you change your perspective (see the video) to think of any possible failure is just a way of becoming a stronger.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 03:42 PM
1

You have a computer, so start using it -- Get Virtualbox, install Debian or Centos, read through the documentation or a getting started ebook and get really good at Linux. Then, go to https://trueability.com/ for a job. You can probably find a remote support position. Next -- http://teamtreehouse.com/ http://teamtreehouse.com/library/how-to-start-a-business http://teamtreehouse.com/library/soft-skills Payed for service, but worth every penny. Maybe you can get someone to pay for it? http://udemy…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 02:31 PM
8

Wear a condom. These girls carry shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 04:53 PM
3

Hurry, someone post a competing article but for guys not girls. Say the exact same things.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 11:57 AM
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This. Absolutely. I stopped going to clubs a long time ago and started do the suggested things. So many of us forget life is much more than sleeping with chicks. It's about being an actor in your own movie.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 05:39 PM
1

Remove your melatonin suggestion. Just get a sun lamp. Supplementing melatonin fucks with your production when you stop taking it. ALWAYS go natural if you can.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 04:29 PM
7

Knew this chick from my home town that moved up to Northern Virginia where I live for a job in the towncenter near my house. We met up a few times and she was all excited to see me, blah blah. Then, she calls me and asks if I can help her fix a computer problem she's having. I told her yeah, but you have to do something for me. We talked a bit, similar to this post's story, and ended up on her taking me to dinner. We agreed and then she told me she'd call me when she was available the next day. …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 02:10 PM
1

I'm not talking about doing it coming from a "beta" frame. I'm talking about a way of facing fears and growing a more masculine energy. Men face their fears. Guys these days don't try and desensitize themselves to rejection, confrontation fear, etc etc. They let people push them around and don't call girls out when they act like sluts. Fear is the strongest motivator for humans. Maybe she'll avoid fucking around in her next relationship if you give her the reasons you're leaving. Who knows. I'm …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 06:55 PM
1

Edited my post to make it clearer. You seem under the presumption I was suggesting he give her another chance. I wasn't. I don't understand why suggesting to run from a relationship and not confront it before you leave is good advice.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 06:42 PM
8

My father and I discussed this recently. I'm 3rd generation Norwegian from my dad's side, and like 10th (really not sure) from my mom's Pennsylvania Dutch side. Both families as far as I'm told came over in couples from their native lands. They did this fairly young too, like early to mid 20s. This I'll touch back on in a bit There was a book I read called King, Warrior, Magician, Lover that talked about how young men in America have lost their initiation or "ritual" into "man-hood". This ritual…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 01:58 PM
1

What am I missing here? Why doesn't he just do porn too to even the game she's playing.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 02:28 PM
1

Blame your parents.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 02:29 AM
14

Might I suggest No More Mr Nice Guy instead of TRP at first. TRP is too much and just covers up the emotional issues that make you a nice guy. It will prevent you from becoming an one of the cocky assholes, but instead build your frame into the true you and everything else will follow: https://7chan.org/lit/src/Robert_Glover_-_No_More_Mr_Nice_Guy.pdf
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 03:24 PM
4

THEY DO EXIST!!!
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 04:54 PM
44

She sucks seed, so she can succeed. Gold digging for greed.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 04:36 AM
1

Found this the day after I shaved my handlebar mustache.... Damn it.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 12:26 AM
2

I think it's more of you can be racist to an entire group of people as long as they are white.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 07:56 PM
5

Good tips. This needs to be higher up because you actually took the time to answer with a legitimate example.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 02:47 PM
1

I've already dealt with my mother fortunately. I'm working on unraveling years of bondage from her ideals.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 12:39 PM
4

Thank you
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 12:36 PM
1

Thanks. That is a good way to look at it.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 02:03 AM
0

Oh, huh... I guess I expected something that wasn't common sense. Thanks for the clarification.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 01:31 AM
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I'm lost. How does that image express the point you're making about game?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 01:01 AM
4

Not sure I can answer all of your questions, but I can answer how would you sum up, in one basic paragraph, TRP theory? Build your frame: find out who you are; what you want; what you need; and work to stop seeking validation from others (Is baseball some sort of validation of your athleticism? Examine it critically, and determine if it's for you or for other people). At least, that's what I've determined. Just stop doing stuff for others as a caretaker, and only do it as caring: No More Mr. Nic…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 02:53 PM
1

This is my best friend. He even dated a feminist and wants another one. He's taking small doses, administered by myself, and slowly getting better.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 12:32 PM
60

"Marriage has become a minefield of unattractive choices."
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 05:33 PM
2

You're not responsible for another man's dive into the blue sea. Even if it's a friend. I suggest taking his status in your group. Often, the alpha in the group will be thrown out for a mistake and another will take his place. It's normal. Once you've established status as alpha, explain to him what happened and hope it sinks in.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 02:28 PM
2

Just watch it. Have to say, great movie.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 02:21 AM
11

Concur.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 12:31 PM
3

I dunno. I'd have to agree here. I'm not unattractive, but girls seem to notice when I walk in with a big ass smile to a party. A big hearty laugh overpowering the room helps too.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 12:29 PM
11

Why did you promote her beyond this status to begin with? Ding ding, we have winner!
/r/askTRP17/10/13 01:59 AM
2

This. Yes.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 01:54 AM
1

I pictured myself smashing the 2 liter bottle out of the 3 year old's hands.. Does that make me a bad person?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 01:33 AM
2

Ding ding ding ding, we have a winner!
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 01:30 AM
5

I'm fortunate to have realized this early on. I'm 23 now. Every day I'm reminded this is the right path. My grandfather worked as one of the head guys in the ATF in the 60s, 70s, and 80s. He was quoted as saying "I never hired anyone with a college degree. I wanted real experience first and there are plenty of people with it."
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 12:31 AM
10

I giggled like a girl in the middle of work when I heard him say they are "Dandelion fluffs" I've been watching this guy for years. ALL of his stuff is gold whether you agree with it or not.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/13 11:43 AM
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See, I wouldn't have apologized. Ignorance of social "norms" is not malicious intent. I would have told her that children just point things out because they don't know any better and walked away. I would then speak to my child about what happened and suggest he avoid it in the future because people don't take too kindly to insults. Great opportunity to teach my kid about insults and people's feelings. The best thing you can do for your kids is allow their mind to process ideas on their own. Don'…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 02:12 PM
9

That immediately set off my red flag too.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 11:27 AM
7

I would imagine it's the same as a guy playing hard to get. It's exciting. A hunt of the subconscious, heightening the climax/kill. I've never had a problem with these girls to be honest. Growing up in churches and the typical puritan white suburbia and such. They just take more time than other girls to crack. Hell, some girls I've chased like this never crack. The most you get is some awkward hand-job. In short - If you're out to have sex, not make friends, don't waste your time. If you want to…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 01:31 PM
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