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Better to move on to the next woman who isn't playing.
/r/seduction15/07/26 08:19 PM
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Agreed. When I read the post I was like wtf, but eventually it came around and I agree with OP that if you are not judgmental that the person you want to fuck also likes to fuck, it can make her less hesitant to be sexual with you. But indeed, if a woman seems uninterested in or hesitant about sex, I'd rather just call it a day, tell her to let me know when she's ready to do this, send her on her way, and don't think about her again unless she lets me know she's down. As far as I'm concerned a w…
/r/seduction15/07/26 08:15 PM
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Still, it's a mindset. Having abundance is not the only way to have an abundance mindset, just like having competence is not the only way to have confidence. A guy might be confident in his coding skills because he has been doing it for the past decade. But someone else who hasn't written a single line of code can be confident too. They KNOW that this is something they can figure out if they put their mind to it. To translate it back to women, it's the difference between hoping you will one day …
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:47 PM
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Well then she said no so who gives a rat's bomboclat ass what she thinks.
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:11 PM
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You're saying it's stupid based on your experience of girls asking for your number INSTEAD of giving theirs, so they were the ones not cooperating with what you're asking, meaning they are not that interested in you in the first place.
/r/seduction01/07/26 08:30 AM
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I think he means when it comes to the point in the interaction to exchange contact information, you give her your number instead of asking for hers. Not as a response to her refusing to give you her number. At least I hope it's not the latter because yeah that makes zero sense.
/r/seduction01/07/26 08:19 AM
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Oh okay, I read your comment as a rebuttal to what the OP was saying about being most engaged and least attached. I read it like you were saying "that's cool on paper, but how are you supposed to keep that same energy when girls respond unfavorably or say XYZ about you? Not everyone will accept you." But it was meant as an addition, not as a rebuttal, got you now.
/r/seduction24/02/26 10:20 AM
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Should everybody accept you? Does that also mean you're supposed to accept every woman out there? What makes you think you're supposed to get along with everybody? Just come to terms with the fact that you're not going to be compatible with every woman. Doesn't mean there's something wrong with you, just means she wasn't for you.
/r/seduction20/02/26 07:38 PM
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Those things you mentioned are meant to facilitate circumstances in which they can get to know each other and have sex, not to exchange for sex.
/r/seduction16/10/25 08:04 AM
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So you go for the low hanging fruit, and they're nice to get along with, but you can't get over their looks, however you wish you could because other than their looks you like your experience with them. Is what it sounds like. Do you approach women you're attracted to?
/r/seduction26/10/24 07:07 AM
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What do you mean by that specifically? her face does matter
/r/seduction25/10/24 09:28 PM
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I mean, sex is one of the main things that differentiates a girl friend from a girlfriend. So you have to be attracted to her to sexually desire her. I don't find that very shallow at all. What does venture into the territory of shallowness is when you won't date girls you are personally attracted to because you don't think your friends or other people would be impressed by her looks.
/r/seduction25/10/24 09:23 PM
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So they're supposed to walk around looking at the floor ignoring men all their lives until you come around and then they're supposed to magically be drawn to you and your cramped world view. Good luck to you.
/r/seduction17/10/24 11:15 AM
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This is why the guys I tune into for game continuously say "the game is about you". I hereby give you permission to acknowledge and stand on your own point of view. If you think approaching women is a normal and cool thing to do, then stand on that shit. This is you filtering the women. The ones that don't appreciate being approached (by you) are simply not for you. Just wish em a nice day and move on to the next one. and since I’m a low value beta guy If you manage to switch that perspective of…
/r/seduction08/10/24 07:29 PM
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In general, just be about what you want to make happen. Tell her what you want to do, and then proceed based on her reaction to THAT. If she makes it known that she isn't down with your plan, then you have your answer. I state it in such a general way because the same applies for other situations. Sometimes men see a woman and think "she wouldn't go for that" so they back down etc. Women don't lie, and they don't tell the truth, they merely state how they feel at the time. Whatever scenario she …
/r/seduction24/09/24 01:32 PM
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This. Op, don't look for ways to avoid approaching women, accept that it's a part of the game and do it. How are you going to be the guy that takes women, and "high quality" women at that, out on dates, flirts, touches, kisses them, invites them back to his place, get them naked and fuck the shit out of them, has his pick of them so he can choose the right partner from abundance. And at the same time be the guy that is too shy to approach them? That makes absolutely no sense man.
/r/seduction23/09/24 10:50 AM
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I agree man, what part of the game is that? If you're into hanging out with gay dudes just because you like it, knock yourself out. But if that's not your thing, don't do it just because you want more access to women. Address your issues head on instead of looking for gimmicks. If you're too shy to approach women and you don't know what to say, accept that you will be bad at it, and do it anyway to get those lessons and improve. Or break it up into smaller steps and get comfortable with each ste…
/r/seduction23/09/24 10:40 AM
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You can still do what anon said. If you're physically attracted to her, chances are you're gonna wanna at least sleep with her. Of course on the date you're assessing if she's the type of person you want to interact with on that level or more anyway. So things only advancing to the next stage because you like her (personality) enough to do so is a given. And if you're not feeling it after all you can just end things there. But you should already know what you want at this point in your life befo…
/r/seduction21/09/24 02:59 PM
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Ecposure therapy like others have said 100%. I don't know much about affirmations but I personally like visualization. Still do your approaches for that exposure therapy, but also, take a few minutes every day to mentally walk through a few typical scenarios of approaching women. Tap into the feelings of it, particularly where you get nervous/anxious. Make a mental note that whenever you start feeling that way, you will take a few calm but deep breaths to calm you down and carry on saying what y…
/r/seduction21/09/24 02:04 PM
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Of all examples, why did you choose that one? You likened it to creatures that can kill or hurt you without rhyme or reason. Snakes could go their whole life without interacting with a single human being and not miss it. A woman you approach might be excited to meet you. Or not. But she might be your next fuck buddy or even your girlfriend. I don't know what's cool about petting snakes but whatever upside doesn't beat the upside of approaching women and seeing if you can make something happen. A…
/r/seduction20/09/24 03:46 PM
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Fear of being called a creep, or fear of negative responses or rejection in general shows you how fucked up your priorities are. See, you're making that the primary factor on whether or not to meet a woman. So here's what you're not thinking, or pushing to the background. "Yo that girl is cute / sexy / just my type, let me go up to her to find out if she's cool, down to go on a date, hook up." Now God forbid a woman says "eww get away from me you weirdo" you're thinking "omg what did I do wrong,…
/r/seduction12/09/24 11:25 PM
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She likes the control she has over you, and she's giving you just enough to keep you in control and so you can keep giving her more of what she wants, which is your attention, maybe dates etc. If she really wanted to fuck you she would, but she's not. And you'll keep playing her game and thinking "maybe today she will give me what I want". And boom, another whole evening of your previous time wasted on a wishy washy chick.
/r/seduction05/09/24 11:56 AM
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"Cool, well hit me up when you're ready to make it happen." and then just forget about it. If she can't break off an hour anywhere to go for a drink she's probably not that interested. But for the sake of argument, maybe you met the busiest woman in the world. If she only remains interested because you feel the need to text her everyday to keep the lead warm she's not that interested either. That's way too much thought to be putting into a woman you barely know.
/r/seduction21/08/24 09:37 PM
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Keep up the good work man!!
/r/seduction11/08/24 06:54 AM
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Do you think a woman would walk away so easily if she was interested in you? No, so if she's ready to walk away, that just means she's not interested in you. So just move on and go to the next one. You making that about power and all that makes no sense. Shouldn't they be allowed to not be interested in you? The only power you feel women have in relation to that is the power you give to them, because a woman not being interested in you shouldn't affect you in any way. Men are supposed to lead wo…
/r/seduction05/08/24 10:25 AM
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I don't care what the reason is. My thoughts start and end with me. If I see a woman I'm attracted to, I approach her because I'm curious about her and wonder if she's a right fit for me. As opposed to being head over heels with a woman you've known exists for all of three seconds because she's aesthetically pleasing, and wondering what you need to do and who you need to be to have her like you. If she's not interested, I am thankful that I did what I had to do, and I'm happy to have quickly fou…
/r/seduction05/08/24 09:25 AM
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If you know who you are, you know what's valuable about you, you know what you want, and you love yourself and embrace all those things about yourself, there is nothing a woman can really say or do to make you feel any differently about yourself, whether she rejects you or is obsessed with you. If you operate from that mindset, you are not looking for acceptance from a woman because you already accept yourself. You're looking for women you're compatible with. And unless you're completely delusio…
/r/seduction30/07/24 09:16 AM
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Cause I'm not into prostitutes or women who pretend to be really into you in hopes that you'll upgrade their life with your western income.
/r/seduction27/07/24 04:15 PM
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If those boss babes were approaching men, do you think they'd approach guys that consider themselves passport bros?
/r/seduction27/07/24 04:13 PM
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Oneitis happens when you're mentally over invested in a girl. You have on rose colored glasses, you amplify her good qualities and rationalize away her bad qualities, and you build her up to be some type of angelic being in your mind. Maybe you think being with her would complete you and you think about how awesome it would be to have a relationship with her. Based on her looks, your perception of her innocence, or whatever the case may be. Maybe you're dating or in a relationship with her, and …
/r/seduction26/06/24 03:42 PM
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Just because you think a girl is beneath you doesn't mean the girl will think she's lucky to get an opportunity to meet you. She might think she's a 8 and you're a 2 in her eyes. Conversely you might think a girl is so hot she's out of your league but you're just her type. Forget about women being above or beneath you. If she's so "beneath" you that she's not attractive to you, just leave her alone. If she's fuckable or hot, approach and see what's up. Also if you think you lost confidence from …
/r/seduction03/06/24 08:27 AM
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A lot of times when people talk about confidence, they act like competence is the only place confidence can come from, which is false. You can have zero experience and still be confident. Confidence is just knowing "I can do this". Knowing you can improve and figure out how to become successful. That is not to say you won't fuck up many times along the way, but you know you can and will succeed at something no matter how many times you fall. And while you're doing whatever you need to do, just e…
/r/seduction30/05/24 09:04 AM
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Yeah I noticed. On some "why do these bitches have it easier than me" energy. Ridiculous.
/r/seduction29/05/24 10:45 AM
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There is no pride to swallow. I already know that who I am, how I look and what I want isn't for everybody. That goes for everyone on this planet so why would I take it personal. She can keep that bit of validation (chicks don't even always feel validated when guys they don't want are approaching them but that's another conversation). I'm not some sucker keeping up with her IG or paying for her Onlyfans like a fan, I just went up to her and told her what's on my mind. If she's not interested the…
/r/seduction29/05/24 10:39 AM
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No idea, it could be a thousand things. The fact of the matter is, if she really liked you and she wanted to not fuck up a situation she valued, she probably wouldn't be acting this way.
/r/seduction29/05/24 10:24 AM
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If she was interested enough she'd come to the date and find out. She basically put herself on the pedestal and wants to know how hard you intend to simp for her. Fuck all that, next, as far as I'm concerned.
/r/seduction25/05/24 01:05 PM
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This is precisely why loving yourself is important. If you know who you are and what you want, you embrace yourself and think you're worthy, and you're happy and grateful to be you, you validate yourself through that so that you're not seeking validation from women. From that point you're just looking for women that fit into whatever spot you have open for them in your life. If for whatever reason she doesn't want to be in that spot, you don't even worry about the validation aspect of it, you ju…
/r/seduction24/05/24 04:49 AM
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you want people to LIKE you Yeah, no. It's not your job to get people to like you. Sure, don't do shit to intentionally scare people, piss them off or harm them. But one should be authentic, not move in a way to have the highest odds of people liking them. If you're authentic, you will draw the people to you that are meant to like you, and repel others. But not everyone is supposed to like you, what type of people pleaser bs is that.
/r/seduction20/05/24 09:15 AM
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Others have given you great advice about approaching right away. Not coming across as a guy who was building up the courage, premeditating approaching her and catching up to her to do so and all that. I just want to add this. She gave you a response that's high up there in terms of bad rejections. Yet you're still here, you didn't lose a letter off your name, the sky didn't come falling. Don't doubt yourself, just take the practical lessons and treat this as a turn around moment that you can han…
/r/seduction20/05/24 08:57 AM
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Validation seeking can play into it but that's not close to being the root cause.
/r/seduction19/05/24 01:32 PM
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Is social media the issue? Cheating has always been a thing, internet / social media just made it more visible. Part of it is that monogamy has been the societal norm for centuries, and a lot of people are like square pegs trying to fit themselves into that round hole, no pun intended.
/r/seduction16/05/24 06:24 AM
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State your interest in dating her before exchanging info, so that the number is given under the premise of romantic/sexual interest rather than on some platonic shit. Get straight to the point when contacting over the phone. I'm not gonna waste my time talking about all types of shit with a woman I want to hook up with when I don't know the feeling is mutual. What if you talk to a chick for days (or weeks or months like some guys apparently do) and then when you try to set a date she declines? I…
/r/seduction10/05/24 11:40 AM
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It doesn't matter whether you step to a woman or she comes at you. Ultimately you still need to let her know what you're interested in, and she needs to follow that plan. Women checking you out and initiating conversation is cool and all but they may be interested because they think you'd fit their agenda (free dates, free attention, an ego boost, making another guy jealous, whatever they may want). The only thing you need to know is if she's responding to what you want to make happen. If not, j…
/r/seduction09/05/24 06:43 PM
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"Cool, I respect that. If your situation changes and you wanna make it happen, hit me up."
/r/seduction09/05/24 06:23 PM
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Good for him, but what he fucks doesn't make me cum so I think I'll continue focussing on what I'm doing and how I can improve instead of fantasizing about what it would be like to be another man. Don't wish it was easier, wish you were better type shit.
/r/seduction08/05/24 11:43 AM
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Sounds to me like your actions clashed with some type of old programming you have about how you're supposed to treat a woman or what women want etc. There is nothing wrong with two adults having the great time they agreed upon. It's not that you didn't like it, you liked it but you felt weird about it afterwards. So ask yourself some questions to try and figure out what caused it so you can move past it. Questions like: Do I feel like it was an unfair exchange to my benefit? Am I convinced women…
/r/seduction22/04/24 02:13 PM
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Just like if you throw dice enough times you'll only throw a 3 about 1 in 6 times, when approaching women, only a minority are going to be down with you and what you want to do with her. You already know this in theory. It's supposed to be that way. In practice, that'll look like some women being down with you and the majority being uninterested for some reason or another. Why would you feel bad (about yourself) when you throw a 4 with dice instead of a 3, when a woman isn't interested, when it …
/r/seduction08/04/24 04:15 PM
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I don't understand. So your rating system depends on the type of men a woman can get? So you value a woman more if she can get "high value men"...? Meaning you sit there and wonder what type of guys she has been with in the past to inform how you're gonna treat her? What?
/r/seduction24/03/24 03:34 PM
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Okay so: Step 1: live in a small town where running out of women to talk to is a possibility. I need to move Step 2: do things to be more attractive to women so you can impress them, but tell everybody you're doing it for yourself. Like make up for men basically Step 3: be concerned you will be perceived as needy, a weirdo, pathetic, desperate, and having a bad reputation with the armchair quarterbacks of the world. Because people are really paying you that much attention when they see you talki…
/r/seduction14/03/24 12:09 PM
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You can go out and approach only one woman and have 10/10 success rate. Exactly. I played basketball one time, shot my first 3-point shot and actually scored it. Then I quit and never touched a basketball again because now I can claim I scored 100% of the shots I took. I don't know how to do that with game yet though, can you teach me the way to approach one woman and have a 10/10 success rate, every time?
/r/seduction14/03/24 07:28 AM
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Hold on so you're waiting to be vulnerable with her? So all this time you've been selling her a false bravado image of yourself while waiting to come to a point where you can trust her to really queef out your feelings, insecurities and concerns? We are all human and nobody is 100% certain or secure all the time but I don't really see the point in dumping all kinds of emotional baggage on a female, and if you feel the urge burning inside you to do so, to me it points to the fact that you have in…
/r/seduction10/03/24 08:37 PM
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I get you, I understand the sentiment on some level. But then again, I'd still bring it back to what you want versus being hung up on what she did with other men. If you know you want ABC, and your girlfriend wants to do CDE, you can choose to delve into "yeah but you said / I heard with your previous boyfriend you DID do ABC" or you can come to the conclusion that you're not all the way compatible, and move accordingly. Because I'd rather enjoy my time with the woman and focus on what I want, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:55 PM
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Why not just have expectations centered on what you actually want, and see if she's down with that? Sounds like you want to formulate a weird checklist. "Says here your 9th lay Xander gave you an Arabian snorkel 3 hours after meeting you, so we better rush to my place. And then you sucked his dick for 15 minutes? I want to see at least 18 minutes on the stopwatch young lady."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:22 PM
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Lol can't even give a straight answer
/r/seduction03/03/24 08:13 PM
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How is it making a fool of yourself?
/r/seduction03/03/24 08:00 PM
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Where is the best place for this motivation to even come from? From being grateful for your life and everything in it. From being in tune with who you are and what you want, and loving and embracing that. And then focussing on the process and letting the chips fall where they may. From there you're not looking for women to accept you because you already accept yourself and you understand that there are girls out there interested in meeting you, so focus on finding those instead of the ones that …
/r/seduction01/03/24 11:13 PM
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I go up to meet her, not for her to accept me or validate me, but to screen for compatibility. I know what I want, and I'm there to find out if she's down. Yes or no. Black or white. 1 or 0. Binary. Everything but a yes is simply a no. Whether she says "I appreciate it but I'm not interested unfortunately" or she spazzes out and gives a disproportionate response, I found out what I wanted to know. And how can a woman shame and humiliate you exactly? That can only be given if you take it. Yeah I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:59 AM
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I listen to Mr Locario's shows on youtube and some other guys he does shows with (real game no theory show). The thing I like about their approach is that they teach men "the game is not about women, it's about you." They advocate knowing who you are and what you want, embracing that, knowing how to articulate that and finding women who fit into that. So from there, you go out and meet women not to feel validated or accepted, but to look for women who are compatible with you. This is just a pret…
/r/seduction19/02/24 11:18 PM
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I have no qualms with asking to buy bread because I know the people there are doing their job, and the bakery would love to have a client. Yeah the bakers want to sell bread, and women want to meet men. If you're her type, she's happy to meet you. If not, you're just incompatible. That doesn't make you lower than the woman.
/r/seduction19/02/24 01:25 PM
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Yeah your confidence and self esteem are low, but not because of the dry spell. Because someone with true confidence and self esteem wouldn't start to feel undesirable because of a dry spell. Definitely something you might wanna do some self-inquiry about. Did anything significantly change about you since dealing with the last girl you dealt with? Probably not. So that means there are women out there that are interested in you as you are, you just gotta find em. Idk what else to tell you man. Th…
/r/seduction17/02/24 01:42 PM
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I doubt I'd notice. Your question is if I would think it's creepy if I noticed that you KEPT approaching girls in their 20s and 30s. Now if I saw you approaching a 25 year old, what's not to say that that's one girl of many girls that you happen to be into of many ages that you approached. For me to even notice a pattern of you only approaching girls of a certain age range would require me to pay you way more attention than I realistically probably would. And to me there's nothing wrong with you…
/r/seduction17/02/24 12:04 PM
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Okay yeah I see what you're saying. Both are kinda disrespectful. On scenario one it's perfectly fine for her to talk to someone else, and it's perfectly fine for you to leave and do something else if she does that. She doesn't owe you her time and vice versa. But there is such a thing as tact. She could have said "I have to talk to my friend real quick I'll be back in a minute." But not only did she not do that, and later she didn't even say "hey my bad about earlier bla bla" but she complained…
/r/seduction14/02/24 06:21 PM
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Well that's for you to determine. As far as I recall, the definition of a shit test is a woman testing you in the interaction to see if you're really the guy that you portray yourself to be. If it's just a playful thing, I just brush it off or flip it back onto her or whatever. If it's resistance, I stand my ground. So if I offer to take her out on a date and she says I'm moving too fast, I'll tell to hit me up when she's ready to do what I said. If it's straight up disrespect she's done, I don'…
/r/seduction14/02/24 03:31 PM
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Your outlook on dating necessitates that all women respond to 'the right guy' - a label they have no way of knowing is applicable to Some Guy Of course they do. It's just that 'the right guy' is not some alpha male giga chad that dudes on the internet dreamed up, it's a guy she is actually attracted to. I'm pretty sure she can tell she's attracted to a guy when he's in front of her. You said out of the 4 billion women on the planet, SOME women will respond to what OP called unapologetic flirting…
/r/seduction14/02/24 03:04 PM
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Okay I'll bite. How am I thinking women are aliens? Edit: and what anxiety? Stop projecting your experience on me.
/r/seduction14/02/24 12:48 PM
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There is a guy out there they'd respond to if he approached them directly. If it's not me it's someone else. Sure there may be an exception here or there but it's generally true.
/r/seduction14/02/24 12:47 PM
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And you accuse people of talking gibberish? Rich.
/r/seduction14/02/24 12:45 PM
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See you're not understanding what I'm saying. I'm saying they all would respond to a guy they're into being direct with them. If I'm not that guy to her I'm on to the next. You made a value judgment out of women that respond to that. I'm saying good luck finding a woman that is not like that.
/r/seduction14/02/24 12:42 PM
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Ah no wonder you're so mad. I'm discussing the ideas you put forth in the context of the topic of the post. I wasn't aiming anything specifically at you or your way of doing things. Lmao.
/r/seduction14/02/24 12:39 PM
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Gibberish, says the guy that thinks women responding to a guy openly hitting on her makes her a certain type of woman. No need to get angry cause you didn't understand what I'm saying lol.
/r/seduction14/02/24 12:34 PM
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Some guys think of giving compliments like throwing coins into a vending machine. If I throw in a compliment, I'll get something back. They might give a compliment and wait for the woman to react to have something to further the conversation, or they think it'll make her fall for him, compliment him back, reward him with affection. I find compliments to come off the best in an "oh by the way" type of delivery. But really it's just a bit of verbal recognition I wanted to give her for something I …
/r/seduction14/02/24 12:16 PM
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Just because you don't get a girl by approaching her this way doesn't make her higher quality than a girl you do. There is another guy out there that she would go with if he approached her that directly. You're just not that guy to her. Girls are not stupid guys. They already know you want to fuck, whether you approach them with the "hi where did you get that dress? Asking for my sister. Ah okay thanks. So... Nice weather huh?", all the way to being super direct. But this is where guys fuck up b…
/r/seduction14/02/24 10:12 AM
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Why are people so concerned with the opinions of others? If you think it's a normal thing to do that's the only thing that matters. If you see a cute girl walking down the street, are you gonna walk by her and wait till you see her in a club or on a dating app to approach her? She's right there, just go talk to her. If she is happy to meet you it won't be weird. And if she's not excited to meet you who gives a shit what she thinks anyway. "okay have a nice day, bye".
/r/seduction13/02/24 11:24 AM
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That's why it's better to be a lot more forward and find out if she's sexually interested a lot earlier. Just get it out of the way. All this endless talking, falling in love with her looks, finding out she has the same favorite color etc got you daydreaming about a girl that doesn't even wanna have sex with you. If she's not interested in having sex with you she's not your dream girl mate. If you fall for a girl this quickly you fall into her program. Because you are already completely sold on …
/r/seduction12/02/24 06:54 PM
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All aspects of the game are skills, and the process is getting better at all of it. Don't know what to say? It's a skill you can improve upon. You had a chick in your bed and your dick didn't get hard? It's a skill you can improve upon. Your nerves ruined the situation? It's a skill you can improve upon. So many guys have one fuck up and write themselves off (general statement, not necessarily you OP). Just take the lesson, figure out what you can do to improve, and move the fuck on and don't th…
/r/seduction06/02/24 12:58 PM
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Where did you go wrong? When you want to order a pizza, do you call the pizza place and talk about the weather, or do you make the conversation about what you want?
/r/seduction30/01/24 12:05 AM
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Yeah, dinner often seems like a guy thinks he has to impress a woman for her to want to spend time with him. If the idea of chilling with you and having a drink is not exciting enough for her, you might as well skip her entirely because she's more interested in what you can do for her than she is in you.
/r/seduction29/01/24 11:52 PM
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Not to be nitpicky but I prefer to think of it as giving away a piece of art that only I know the true value of, and the woman will gradually learn the value of each day she interacts with it. Just because it drives home the following point. Everyone would be happy with an extra mill to their name. But the piece of art comes built in with the reality that it's not for everyone, no matter how beautiful it is, how much work was put in it etc. It's just not going to be everyone's taste, and that's …
/r/seduction28/01/24 11:20 PM
0

Dress well, get a good haircut, take care of your skin. Things you should be doing for yourself anyway, not for women. Any worries you have beyond that is just you going around in circles in your mind for no reason.
/r/seduction13/01/24 10:15 AM
1

Yes that is the prerequisite mindset to even do this. You shouldn't do this as a tactic to hope she'll like you more for it because you really like her, you have to really not give a shit. Nor would I. The comment I replied to before said she takes it as a lack of leadership. Actually, me giving her my number and telling her to call later that evening is a way for me to see if she can follow instructions and submit to my leadership. And only her willingness to follow my instructions and submit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:58 PM
1

I don't see how this is not leadership. A guy gives the number and instructs her to reach out to him. If she does, he proceeds to set something up. If she's highly interested in the guy, she will. If she is anything but highly interested then who cares anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:39 AM
1

That's what I'm saying. Also when you say you don't bother dating, what do you mean by dating? Sleeping around or looking for something serious? And if the latter, what if you met an attractive girl and you got along great, she respected you as the leader of the relationship and wants what you want in terms of kids, living situation, household responsibilities etc? She admits to a body count between 15-25 but of course you can never truly verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:35 PM
2

Well that definitely filters out the really obvious ones. What about the normal girl-next-door types? Lots of girls love dick, not just the ones that wear the dick-lover uniform. Do you really want to be sure she hasn't sucked dick or fucks other guys while you date her, or do you just want her to make you feel like she doesn't? And if it's the former, how can you really be sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:04 PM
1

How can you tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:09 PM
-1

And how do you aim to enforce that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:43 AM
1

If she rejected you move on to the next one. Who gives a shit what the reason is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:42 AM
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I'm not, I'm actually perfectly happy with the dynamic. I already know people will call bs but I like that it's "hard". Really the hard part is just being willing to deal with a lot of volume up front. It's out there if you just do the work, but a lot of guys' egos won't allow them to because they're scared to have that repeated unforgiving confrontation with the abstract reality that not every woman is going to like them. Some of those guys will then soothe their ego by calling the guys that ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:55 PM
1

No they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:43 AM
1

Is it purge week again?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:48 AM
5

That's how I come at this as well. I just want to understand the game as much as I can so I can play it more effectively, but I'm not mad about it. As far as I'm concerned, if women were not hypergamous throughout history we probably would not have made it to 2021 for people to whine about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:59 AM
962

Why do guys even spend a cent on girls they are not fucking or dating? How the hell did it even get to this point? Asking for money like this is pathetic but I don't really blame them cause idiot guys actually do pay up.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/01/21 03:05 PM
2

Besides some of the other things people have already pointed out it seems like being married is a status women want to attain, as if she's lesser for not being married by a certain age. And of course they want the big party that's "all about me". These are the women that will put more thought into how to have a perfect wedding than they ever will in how to make their marriage work.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/21 01:40 PM
77

They're probably calling her a pickmeisha.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/01/21 04:14 AM
7

How is this a denied pussy pass?
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/20 03:22 PM
1

You mentioned anti-feminist before though, which is totally different from not being feminist. Fair enough. I shouldn't have said anti-feminist. I don't even know if the lady isn't a feminist, but she spoke out against it so I thought it was safe to assume at least that much, but admittedly I worded that too strongly. Of course, correlation does not imply causation, nor does it imply that all individuals in that set conform to the correlation. That is, I don't think anti-feminism is equal to dis…
/r/PussyPassDenied23/12/20 02:30 AM
3

If you're going to say something, you have a better chance if you show some compassion and understanding for her situation first. It is fucked up for a 13 year old to be getting cat called anyway. She's 13 bro... How can you expect someone to have their use of words as well as their emotions perfectly dialed in at that age? And why do you get so butthurt over what a kid says anyway? If someone makes a stupid generalization I understand wanting to correct them but there's a way of going about it.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 07:45 PM
1

I did skip over that. Still it doesn't prove anything. I'm still wondering how not supporting feminism is equal to not liking women. What about the large quantities of women who are not feminist? Do they hate themselves? You just did an "all racists voted for Trump, therefore everyone who voted for Trump is racist" in another context.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 06:52 PM
1

Congratz man!
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 06:37 PM
1

And what is what they say supposed to prove? They happen to be a contentious group in the Netherlands, whether justified or not. Even if they have trouble dating, that doesn't prove the general notion that being non-white is an unattractive feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 06:33 PM
1

Wow. This has absolutely nothing to do with what I asked. Well done.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 06:03 PM
1

I'm not mad at that.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 05:09 PM
3

I'd agree with you if that was what feminism was still about. Sadly they've moved on to things like confusing the vast majority of kids in schools about gender because a tiny minority feels they were born in the wrong body, forcing companies to hire equally across the gender divide regardless of whether or not the sexes even want such equality if you let them pick what they wanted, trying to set a precedent where all women should unequivocally be believed when accusing a man of sexual misconduct…
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 04:05 PM
3

Don't say logic and common sense are attractive. Check his profile, apparently that makes you a horny little redditor jerking off to anti-feminist women.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 03:36 PM
3

Reddit's absolutely hillarious response is 'you don't like women? oooh yeah baby that's so hot what a logical, intelligent, beutiful queen.' So being anti-feminist equals hating women? Tell me more.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 03:30 PM
5

Women calling other women on their unwarranted "women have it so much worse" rants are rare and you know it. Don't try and make it about something it's not.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 02:41 PM
21

My cut off is "I know she's not that conventionally pretty but there is just something about her." Clearly I'd rather date a good looking girl but I'm not going to allow myself to be unhappy.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 02:19 PM
8

I'll take a look
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 02:15 PM
13

Oh I'm sure not every display of logic or common sense by a woman is to show what an attractive partner she would be to a man. Just like you might think there are certain qualities that make a man attractive, I'm merely stating this is an attractive one on a woman (as well as men, which is not my focus which is why I didn't mention it but fair enough). As for all the other low quality bait I suggest you try that on someone else :)
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 02:03 PM
3

Hmm fair enough. I feel like being brown has never held me back here in the Netherlands. If anything I'm sure it has helped but maybe it's a combination of other factors too. I can see how what you say might be the case. Well the question you asked is if being settled for is that bad, which it is. Then you say "she wants to date you now" as if that makes the sour taste go away. It feels like a consolation prize. Sure, it may be better than nothing but it's not great. If I had to give my personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 01:55 PM
2

They are 5'5" and let's add that they are not white, or have some other unattractive feature, for example. Are you saying being non-white is an unattractive feature? Wtf. Anyway. The guy who would have never gotten laid before is now able to find a relationship, and with that comes all the things he was missing in his life, like love, affection, sex, etc. All these things are not binary. On or off. The quality matters too. Sure he'll get sex, but only insofar as a woman has to give up some to se…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 01:26 PM
181

Yep. A girl can be drop dead gorgeous but if she's entitled and just a headache to be around, those looks don't make up for that in the long term. I wouldn't want to get ahead of myself and base her whole personality on two messages but a girl who can generally think like this and check her entitlement is just a breath of fresh air.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 12:28 PM
889

Common sense and logic are like +3 instant attraction points on a woman.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 11:01 AM
1

I said take her on a date (if you'd want to) and at some point during the date just make fun of her for how silly her way of asking was. The purpose of this is to show her that her behavior doesn't phase you, and when she starts to qualify herself, you smile and say "no worries, just ask me normally next time." I did not say lead her on by starting a personal relationship with her for the purpose of making fun of her.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 03:36 AM
1

I'm aware of what he meant by enforced monogamy. But the radical left and SJW's twisted everything he said. From his takes on free speech, gender differences, personal responsibility, everything. But right around when he started talking about enforced monogamy he fell out of favor with a large portion of his fan base. Whether it was because they misunderstood what he said, or because they didn't like that part of his message, I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 03:42 PM
2

Lol go read some evo-psych books before you "no" a perfectly valid explanation in favor of your idiotic statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 10:44 AM
7

Jordan Peterson's message was a lot broader than just talking about intersexual dynamics. I believe he got so popular because he was able to put words to the struggles everyone had in their daily lives. Ironically he lost a lot of popularity when he started talking about "enforced monogamy" or whatever the precise wording was. Also I don't think how much money the content creators of a philosophy make is necessarily the most relevant metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 07:30 PM
1

You didn't, you said it makes you feel respected if he only proceeds with your consent, and you said you'd like him to ask for it, which implies that it's verbal. But I see we agree. And yeah there are plenty of clueless idiots out there who just want to get their dick wet even if she's not into it, but I'm not planning to go through a verbal consent ladder (not to mention consent forms like wtf lol) because we all have to play to the lowest common denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 08:05 PM
3

I did an edit to the comment you just replied to but admittedly it was very late lol. Hey, I don't disagree with anything you say. My problem is that women of all temperaments and preferences think they can define what "a real man" is. Which then turns into "a real man pays for all dates" or "a real man asks you how you're feeling 17 times a day." That's my grievance with the "real man" bit. But I feel the same way about sex as you do. I respect a girl who wants to verbally consent to every litt…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 12:38 PM
1

It's such a shame when in the process of stating one's preferences, people make everything outside of that out to be toxic. As if asking verbal consent is the only way to treat someone like a human being and acknowledge and respect their boundaries. With the girl I was with most recently for about 8 years, we didn't do much asking for consent at all, but I completely respected her boundaries. I didn't just stick my hand in her pants to start fingering her. There was a build up to such things. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 12:27 PM
1

She's pushing for the marriage track. I'm trying to vet. Nope. Nope nope nope. You vet as long as you feel you need to. And when discussing it, don't be apologetic or emotional about it. Just state matter of factly that you're not ready yet. Quite frankly you have to stand firm on only marrying when you're ready even if the relationship is at stake. But do not get married before you're ready just because she's pushing you. And if she tries to guilt trip you into it that's a big red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 11:46 AM
2

They think of all the traits a guy could have that are beneficial to them and then they slap the label "real man" on that. Edit: but the rest of her comment is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 11:28 AM
1

If not asking for consent makes you a rapist I am one too. But quite frankly the whole world isn't SoCal and that sentiment doesn't go everywhere. There's also girls who don't like to be asked every little step. But keep devaluing the word rape all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 11:25 AM
2

Yeah exactly. There is no point changing OP's view. If that's her preference, that's great. But it also seems like a minority who likes asking for consent at every step.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 11:18 AM
13

I'm disappointed in this guy, he failed to slap some sense into her.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/12/20 09:23 PM
10

Thank you!
/r/PussyPassDenied18/12/20 04:29 PM
758

People like this should be sterilized. No more ability to have kids, they don't deserve it.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/12/20 01:29 PM
7

Nah this is perfect. The best way to get back at them is to show how amused you are by the whole situation. Yeah she shouldn't be crying but that's just a great lesson not to care about women's crocodile tears.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/12/20 01:21 PM
10

I really love the "all the time" part. Like I just picture some new people watching on in shock as the situation unfolds and other people going "ah don't worry about it, this is the 14th time she's done this now."
/r/PussyPassDenied18/12/20 01:14 PM
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Yeeeaaah... It is kind of an entitled way to go about trying to set up a date, I can see that. But women aren't usually the ones who try to ask men out anyway (yes I know Suzie asked you out on a date once we all get that there are counterexamples). So it's understandable that they kind of suck at it. They often show their interest covertly (eye contact, body language etc) and then the man pursues it, which some men are butthurt about because it's not muh equal, but honestly I don't really give …
/r/PussyPassDenied18/12/20 01:07 PM
10

Can anyone translate what it's about? I'm always curious to know what gives women the sense of entitlement do some stupid shit to a man like spill a drink on him.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/12/20 12:41 PM
17

It doesn't have the "view profile" option but if you click on the name you can still see the profile.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/12/20 10:00 PM
74

I always find this so arbitrary. The concepts that these words represent aren't related just because the words have some crossover in one particular language. But if people want to waste their time changing woman to womxn just so there's no man/men in it, have at it I guess.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/12/20 05:17 PM
73

Same experience lol, if you look at their profiles it's all women I wouldn't want to touch with a 10 foot pole. It's like meeting a group of girls and everyone is just cool but the only one with a shitty attitude is the fat one.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/12/20 10:44 AM
2

You missed a word but I assumed you were saying "biologically wired" or something to that effect. I have never heard of that in my life and I find it a bizarre claim so maybe you can provide evidence beyond "it's true".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 02:05 PM
3

That sounds like some made up bs but feel free to prove that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 10:45 AM
2

What makes you think guys don't know that? That just is what it is, and as a guy I'm not even upset by that. But within the realm of possible lives a guy could create for himself he seems to have done pretty well (in the dating department at least). But idk first you wonder why guys would want to have casual sex, now your point is women have it easier. I'm not sure what you're trying to get at anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 10:44 AM
2

If you're consistently fucking 2 different women a week that's a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 07:56 PM
3

Shit end of the deal (AND he doesn't know it)? How? He had a lot of casual sex, got it out of his system, and now settled at a good age with a woman who appreciates him and benefits from his sexual experience. Are you a woman? I feel like you're trying to take something TRP claims is bad for women and say it's bad for men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 07:52 PM
1

Exactly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 07:48 PM
1

That's just a meme at this point. Sorry if I gave you the impression I was being serious, I won't be in a relationship for a good while afaic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:52 PM
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Yeah I've seen her before in a video of Donovan Sharpe doing a breakdown of this mess of a lady. Interesting video to watch just to see how she justifies her shitty behavior, how she gets jealous when her boyfriend starts seeing another woman even though she started this, and then when he commits to exclusivity again she starts hooking up with the other guy behind the back of her "man". All the while still insisting she is a great and worthwhile person. In terms of pussy passes though, her cuck …
/r/PussyPassDenied03/12/20 10:18 AM
3

Yeah, me and every man in an LTR where the sex dwindles down to nothing. But I gotta go do the dishes and take out the trash, I heard that'll get her in the mood!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 09:07 AM
1

It is to "insult" her lightly yes, and it could either be to get the frame of the conversation, to convey that you're not completely sold on her, and/or to set yourself apart from all the yes men she runs into all the time. People get it twisted though, they seem to think negging is along the lines of "normally I'm attracted to girls with bigger boobs but I like you anyway" but it's not like that. It's not about crumbling a girl's self esteem so she'll lower her standards to have a shot at fucki…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 01:52 AM
1

Could you tell me what negging is and why it isn't welcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 09:59 PM
3

Women love having sex too. Well, until they don't, at which point you're a shallow horndog for wanting it so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 09:57 PM
1

If I see attractive women I want to sleep with them regardless of whether I'm in a relationship or not. I could be happy with a girl and WANT to, but I won't. I think men and women cheat for different reasons but at the end of the day I still think it's a fucked up thing to do either way. Being unhappy about sex I'm getting makes me want to leave, not cheat. Though this is coming from a guy who is not in a relationship of real consequence yet. Half my net worth is not on the line, and I don't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 10:19 AM
3

I have never heard of guys having such a life before outside of celebrities. You clearly don't want to give out his name but do you have a comparison of the level of hotness this guy is supposed to be at? I am genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 08:11 AM
2

Yeah you can argue guys care about the emotions of sex too, sure. We want to be satisfied, we want the woman to be satisfied, we might feel a sense of pride if we did particularly well or know she really wants us. If all sex was to men was only about the physical sensation of pumping in and out we'd just fuck hookers or fleshlights all the time. Clearly the emotions that go with it matter but that still doesn't prove your point. We're arguing why we cheat, not why we enjoy sex period. Starfish s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 07:39 AM
1

That's not really the point but sure. We're trying to discuss the differences of cheating between men and women, not justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 05:47 AM
0

Okay let's go with your definition of love and say it means the man didn't truly love his girlfriend then. There is still something different about cheating between men and women. I think for guys it's common enough to be able to sleep with another woman and still have the same level of appreciation, affection, mental and physical attraction, and commitment about future plans with her. I very rarely, if ever, had the impression that a woman wasn't kinda done with a guy on some level if she cheat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 12:23 AM
4

The problem I foresee here is I don't think women actually know what the average size is, and even if they do, what it looks like. So everyone will be going on their own idea of what average is. The average size from what I understand is 5.5" length bone pressed (meaning the ruler is pressed into the fatpad till it touches the pubic bone) and 4.6" girth. But guys lie about their size, women aren't all that good at estimating, and porn gives wildly unrealistic expectations of what a penis should …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:56 AM
2

People should really try it before they make such assertions. It's not like the difference between going and not going to the gym is you and how you feel now plus or minus some muscles. Like you said, health, well being, but also longevity, feeling stronger, the sense of accomplishment from pushing yourself, better energy levels, better sleep, better hormone balance, better mood, the discipline you build from going consistently even though you don't want to at times. It's like a release for pent…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 08:48 PM
2

They say stuff. The stuff they say makes things I've experienced and continue to experience make more sense than the lens through which I was previously viewing them. I try out their recommendations, it works. I'm not trying to fuck them so what do I give a shit what they look like? By all means if you can recommend better content creators I'm all ears but it sounds like you just piss vinegar but have no solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 11:11 AM
5

It's pretty wild that this to you is in any way shape or form evidence that he couldn't pick up a woman. What do you think being a "master pua" should look like anyway? He walks up to a woman, looks into her eyes seductively, says "hey there" and she just drops her pants and bends over?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 11:00 AM
236

What a great day it is when people actually cheer when some cunt gets put in her place. No white knights anywhere defending m'lady's honor. This should be the norm, but it is beautiful to see
/r/PussyPassDenied25/11/20 10:49 AM
2

I mean assuming it's true that she cheated, I'm so glad the internet is giving guys example after example of why you should NOT buy into women's attempt to play on your emotions with their crocodile tears. Get all the facts and decide on that, fuck em and their pity parade.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/11/20 10:35 AM
2

It's funny to me that you cross the line when hitting people, but getting all up in one's face and yelling (probably getting all kinds of spit particles on him cause she's not wearing a mask) is totally fine. You SHOULD be able to do something to get people out of your face. People are just going about their day peacefully, nobody needs some piece of hood trash yelling in their face.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/11/20 09:49 AM
1

Bitch! Bitch! Bitch! Bitch!
/r/PussyPassDenied24/11/20 11:49 PM
0

Who cares? It's not a religion
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 03:53 AM
2

I'll stick to condoms thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 03:53 AM
1

Yeah exactly. Maybe once a guy has had kids it's an easier decision to make. But it's a bit strange to me to suggest a vasectomy so flippantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 12:51 AM
1

Watch your blood pressure girl. And good luck getting men to snip themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 12:28 AM
3

I follow soms red pill content creators. When they speak on this subject I consistently hear them say that for an LTR they'd rather have a pleasant and fun 7 than an insufferable 9.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 12:15 AM
6

Is that really the main/only reason you think people go to the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 12:07 AM
-2

Sterilize myself most likely irreversibly? Yeah that's definitely not happening. Why don't you get your womb removed if you think about it so lightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 12:04 AM
4

No no no. Clearly women have agency. Until they cheat that is, because then they were just so confused! On a serious note, I'm sure there are guys and girls who are perfectly capable of platonic friendships, but I've also seen a lot of cases where the girl is ignorant (or "ignorant") of the guy's intentions when it was clear as day to the boyfriend. Half of all women have the back up guy ready while they're still in a relationship. And if her intentions are such, all she has to do is maintain pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 12:18 AM
3

Yeah just normal. Those dudes were just looking for another pal to hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 12:39 AM
1

Never suggested it's not possible but cool to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 12:30 AM
5

If you don't trust your partner then the relationship isn't worth having in the first place. This is one of those phrases that everyone cheers on but it makes no sense to me. Trust is earned over time, not given freely upfront. I don't trust a guy with 10k just because he recently became my friend, but there are some people I would wire that to without second thought. But I've known them for over a decade. I would like a girl not to cheat. If she does and I find out? Neeeext. If you get married …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 12:29 AM
2

Okay, sorry to hear that, and I commend you on your efforts to rectify your deficiencies. I still can't relate to not being able to not see a friend for longer than a week, cooking together and talking and watching movies but I gotta be fair and say that may (may) speak to my immaturity. Quite frankly if it was a friendship like you describe I wouldn't want to come in and try to break that up even if I could, but any real sign of fuckery going on and I'd drop her like a hot potato. That's my pol…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:36 PM
8

In a perfect world that sounds very nice, but then guys with unmentioned intentions trying to fly in under the radar entered the chat. I can't help but wonder how many of girls' best guy friends would be at her doorstep within 10 minutes if you took her phone and messaged them "come over I'm so horny."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:28 PM
1

Probably about a year or so later we really considered each other's best friend, and here we are today where nobody of us can live without the other and we see each other like family. We have met each other's parents, go on small trips together, make sure to see each other at LEAST once a week and then we cook dinner, watch a movie or just talk etc. I must not have any true friendships then because sometimes I can't wait to not see people for a week or two. On a serious note, to me it sounds lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:20 PM
5

That is true, and this is not why the person you're replying to posted that link, but the post is pretty indicative of the type of dude he is. Meaning I wouldn't have a blanket iron rule stating that my girl is not to have any male friends if she wants to continue dating me, it depends on the guy, what his intentions are and what his sexual market value is. And if it's a guy who is depressed because he can't find a girl for years that seems like less of a threat than a high SMV guy. Now that's v…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:02 PM
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I mean who doesn’t want to be desired sexually? Of course people want to feel sexually desired, but that's hardly what David's point was. He was saying some men aim to be desired in that way primarily, before being desired for their provisioning ability. And it's plain to see some men just want the girl. They lead with their wallet, they promise to treat her like a princess, they just want to be the person that girl thinks of as her partner, but they seem to have little regard for if they even m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 06:52 PM
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I'd thank the trash for taking itself out and enjoy my non-locked-up life finding someone more worth my effort. We have different priorities I guess.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/20 10:55 PM
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I was wondering the same thing about these women sleeping with men they're so repulsed by.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 08:35 PM
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You're saying men don't understand how women feel about this so you're giving men an analogy to help them understand because you understand how they feel about the analogy and you know it's an equally visceral feeling. But how can you claim men don't understand how women feel and say you understand how men feel in the same breath?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 09:35 AM
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Yeah this a little pointless having to argue your shit sandwich also just tastes like shit. Women: We are utterly repulsed by some men we apparently have to fuck. You can't understand the level of repulsion unless you think about sleeping with a guy Men: No, believe me, there are plenty of women we are really repulsed by and we just do not want to sleep with them. I would never have to go through a dry spell if I was willing to drop my bar all the way to the floor, but I just won't. Women: but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 09:26 AM
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I guess I would agree insofar as he is responsible for contributing to the situation and logistics under which the cheating occured. It's not like a girl in a relationship just sort of grabs a guy and sits on his dick without any of his involvement, probably he pursued her and made it possible as well. But I still don't see how he has a responsibility towards the boyfriend. If the other guy was a friend I'd definitely end my friendship with him in addition to breaking up with her. I expect a fri…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/11/20 01:09 PM
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You can't hit a guy either.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/11/20 11:49 AM
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Would you stay with your girl if you hypothetically could somehow know she internally decided to cheat, even if she hasn't quite met the guy she will cheat with? I think the responsibility falls on your partner staying committed to being loyal to you and not cheating. To me it's already a lost cause once that commitment goes out the window, everything beyond that is just extra.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/11/20 11:42 AM
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I would sleep with her because I do think "she would've fucked somebody else" is an excuse. Why turn down something I want if she's down, when she's going to do it with someone else anyway if I turn it down. And quite frankly it doesn't even need to go there. Forget the other guy she would have otherwise fucked. Her wanting to is enough. I really don't see the person a partner sleeps with as a homewrecker. The home was wrecked when whatever made her open to the idea of sleeping with another man …
/r/PussyPassDenied16/11/20 11:21 AM
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And the validation. The feeling that she's so wanted by both of them they're willing to fight it out to see who deserves her.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/11/20 10:33 AM
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Lol. "You supposedly assaulted me so now my 65 pound ass is going to block you from leaving." BITCH if he really put his hands on you no way you wouldn't just want him to gtfo.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/11/20 09:47 AM
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Guys, guys, guys. Let's try to have some empathy here. If you were the girl who gets picked up last in the bar by some drunk dude who thinks "it's better than nothing", of course she's going to care about the size of a soft dick. The guy had too much to drink AND he has to get aroused by that, of course she sees a lot of soft dick.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/11/20 09:07 AM
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Exactly! Even in daily life it's always the fat ones with hotter friends that have the biggest attitude. Has to be a facade but still, it's gross.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/11/20 08:57 AM
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I remember him doing that in Elephant In The Room as well. "Anal? Mouth? Ok. Nobody said learn how to play Xbox, learn how to play pool, tell better stories, bring a bitch that got a pussy to come in. I've been getting pussy beamed this entire show but you're just a bunch of holes to yourselves!" Or something I'm paraphrasing. Rest in peace big man. Wish he was still around today, he would have torn this world a new asshole with the pathetic state it's in.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/11/20 08:54 AM
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That's encouraging. If that's the wall for men it doesn't sound like anything meditation and a modicum of game can't fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 01:18 AM
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chicks with bfs mad at me for talking to other chicks HAHAHAH wtf
/r/seduction12/11/20 12:47 AM
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Idk man, if you're 14, a 33 year old might as well be a dinosaur. Lucky because he got some semi attractive old snatch? He probably would rather be messing around with girls his own age.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/11/20 12:26 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:01 PM
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I don't know that this is a woman not getting away with using her gender as an excuse to act like a piece of shit. I think she's just a terrible person who got rightfully locked up.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/11/20 11:00 AM
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I know it's not yours but it makes no sense. If you're with a woman and for years you invest in your relationship with her, just for her to sleep with other men, she is breaking the agreement you rightfully had with her. With your daughter however, you are not in competition for her sex with other men, so it makes no sense for her to forego sex to appease you. Any child you put bring into this world is going to live a human experience, which entails wanting basic needs met (shelter, nutrition, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 10:35 AM
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And yes if u lookmaxx properly u aint gonna be sexless, why do u think trp ask tell you to go in the gym first and foremost? A better physique is more attractive. But it's also an honest signal of your dedication to fitness and a reflection of your discipline. You can't really compare that to going under the knife to get a square jaw line or whatever it is these people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 08:48 PM
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The red pill being a lens you view the world through, it has a tremendous amount of explanatory power and I see things a lot more clearly from this perspective. But still there is a big gap between learning these things and fully internalizing them. A big struggle for guys is reverting back to their "blue pill ways" once they catch feelings for a girl. If you've been told girls are made of sugar spice and all things nice, just always communicate about your problems bro, just be patient the right…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:25 PM
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Odd, because I am a woman. Most of the posts on this sub are men approximating how women think based on how they think. watching what they respond to rather than listening to what they say. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:56 AM
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Hang in there bud. That is really some cold shit that happened to you. I hope it doesn't turn you off from all women but trust is definitely something that has to be earned over a long time, and tested through trials and tribulations. Sorry you had to learn the hard way. If I could recommend any book that might shed more light on this I'd recommend giving "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi a read. Sorry for your loss with your sibling :(
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/20 11:49 AM
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No worries man. I wasn't trying to justify it but to be fair, I don't try to demonize women either. I just try to understand what they truly are from an evolutionary psychology lens so I have a better understanding of how to navigate my relations with them without getting played. There is a quote in the red pill community that encapsulates perfectly how I feel about it (even though I don't remember exactly how it's worded): "You don't learn about true female nature in order to hate women, you le…
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/20 10:35 AM
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What gave you the impression that I was justifying it?
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/20 10:06 PM
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I hope the dude doesn't face any repercussions. Looks like a pretty justified response to me but if you put hands on wahmen the court of public opinion will cause a shitstorm until they get what they want.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/20 07:44 PM
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I see a movie I want to watch, I go see it. A movie doesn't capture my interest? I don't go to see it. Most people's lives don't revolve around this gender equality shit. But by God am I happy more and more men are waking up to this fucking nonsense women try to pull on everything.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/20 07:39 PM
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A lot of people are saying "she's just defending the woman because she cheated." Could be, but I think the "sisterhood über alles" dynamic is more prevalent here. Guys should read the Sisterhood blog entry by Rollo Tomassi to get a better understanding of it. Excerpt: So the sisterhood will cover for infidelity, aid in fraud and deception, keep Beta men ignorant of a woman's duplicity and support single motherhood if it means that woman can lock down an optimal ideal of Hypergamy or parental inv…
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/20 04:10 PM
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"She may have sat on another man's cock but I was about to see a nice proposal and then that selfish prick ruined it. He probably made her cheat by lacking XYZ anyway."
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/20 04:06 PM
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Exactly, thanks for saying that. A lot of people are saying "she's just defending the woman because she cheated." Could be, but I think this "sisterhood über alles" dynamic is more prevalent here. People should read the Sisterhood blog entry by Rollo Tomassi to get a better understanding of it. Excerpt: So the sisterhood will cover for infidelity, aid in fraud and deception, keep Beta men ignorant of a woman's duplicity and support single motherhood if it means that woman can lock down an optima…
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/20 03:56 PM
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No no no. From social media I have learned that if a woman cheats on a man, the man should in fact realize that he is at fault. He was lacking in some area or another that compelled her to cheat. Her hands were tied, you see. She had no choice. So what any reeeaaal man would do is look within himself, discover what he was lacking, rectify it, apologize for making her cheat, forgive her and hope she will continue the relationship. Yeah, I've seen women say this.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/20 03:08 PM
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Big facts. Missing out on reproductive opportunities was a far more costly mistake than falsely interpreting a woman's attention as sexual interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 10:36 AM
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We'll see how this plays out but I'm not sure what OP is expecting, asking women to confirm an unflattering truth(?) about themselves. "What you do speaks so loudly I cannot hear a word you say."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 10:25 AM
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But I've also had some users tell me I'm 'an idiot' for not getting money/ gifts out of my fuck buddies. Gifts for what? Blessing men with access to a woman's divine vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 10:01 AM
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Exactly. In being red pilled, there is something called the anger phase most guys predictably go through for a reason. They did (and wanted to) believe women and what they said they wanted, only to find out that ultimately you will get played for abiding by that set of rules. Watching what women respond to has far more explanatory power than listening to what they say, no matter how hard women try to delegitimize that process (circle jerk!).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 09:21 AM
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I've had girls I've dated make the first move on me. Like my most recent relationship, I appreciated how upfront she was, it didn't make me think any less of her, but it seemed like she kind of expected special treatment for breaking the norms and being the one who approached me. We've had countless discussions where she wondered if I'd have ever made a move on her if she didn't, to which I had to explain to her that I very well might have, but seeing as we were colleagues and I was the new guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 12:28 PM
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Like what? That the other side of the coin of women being hypergamous is that men chase their dicks in search of quantity? At least a lot of us can admit that, unlike women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 11:13 AM
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It's not semantics though. Women pick the men who treat them like shit over the nice guys. But those are pretty far on opposite sides of the spectrum. What they'd prefer is a guy closer to the middle who has the right amount of narcissism, machiavellianism, and psychopathy to keep her and her child safe, but not to the degree that it spills over negatively on her. In the absence of such an option they'd rather tolerate being treated like shit by a more alpha (wheel in the downvotes people! He sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 11:07 AM
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I'm aware that the cost doesn't stop with the man. That's why I added "... social embarrassment on his end." Because a percentage of men really don't take into consideration what they're doing to the woman in question. Sorry to hear you had to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 10:48 AM
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Hey I'm with you on that. They really haven't thought this shit through. Not to mention, outside of these toxic feminist groups, normal women actually enjoy being with men. It's not like our only use to women is making sure the lights are on and there is lobster they can buy at the store.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/10/20 10:32 AM
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Yeah that's what I was thinking. If you're riding a high that gets you thinking "I can game any girl I want" you're being sorely unrealistic. Better to never lose sight of the fact that you're supposed to fail more than you succeed. It's cool to have that type of confidence I guess but it's delusional.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 10:11 AM
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From an evo-psych perspective, it has to do with the cost of mistakes. For example, have you ever seen those videos where cats are eating, and someone puts a cucumber behind the cat? So the cat gets done eating, turns around, sees the cucumber and launches into the air in panic. There may not be any snakes where the cat lives, but the snake detection mechanism fires and gets the cat to react. Because if it is a snake, and the cat doesn't react, that's a far more costly mistake than panicking ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 10:05 AM
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Yeah I despise feminists but I gotta hand it to them, they are infiltrating all the places where they can exercise power, and they know the pain points to hit if they want to damage a man. All with the help of weak beta men who think they'll get some pussy for selling out their own gender. They delude themselves into thinking they can win an all out war though lol. "Once we can make synthetic sperm we no longer need men." I'd love to see them try to get rid of us all.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/10/20 09:46 AM
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The thing he did in response to her cheating is why she cheated? But yeah yeah sure. Not liking something about her boyfriend is perfect grounds to go sit on another man's cock. Let's give her a pussy pass for that.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/10/20 01:14 AM
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This. To me this whole journey is not about becoming a cold emotionless robot. There is nothing wrong with falling in love, feeling a genuine appreciation for a girl because she's cool and adds value to your life. Now you understand that she's not yours, it's just your turn, so you don't let yourself get attached. But then again, it's not like you were head over heels with your highschool crush because you knew you'd go together well with her and she'd add so much value to your life. You saw wha…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:05 AM
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Very true. Thankfully more and more men are opening their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:32 PM
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When breaking down mate selection to its core, roughly speaking women go for quality, men go for quantity. Seeing as from an evo-psych perspective women can only have a baby once every 9 months, pregnancy makes her vulnerable, and having a baby with a low tier man could cost her and her baby their life, she looks for the best man who is able to provide and protect her, and give her the best genes so her genes have a chance to live on. Men can make a new woman pregnant every day. That is not to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 11:52 AM
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When breaking down mate selection to its core, roughly speaking women go for quality, men go for quantity. Seeing as from an evo-psych perspective women can only have a baby once every 9 months, pregnancy makes her vulnerable, and having a baby with a low tier man could cost her and her baby their life, she looks for the best man who is able to provide and protect her, and give her the best genes so her genes have a chance to live on. Men can make a new woman pregnant every day. That is not to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 11:46 AM
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I wouldn't say it's all on her. From the way you stated it, there is no onus on the man to put an effort in or be reasonable for that matter, which is clearly ridiculous. I do hate that "maintain the lifestyle she's grown accustomed to" line of reasoning though. Motherfucker, there are no guarantees in life. Even if ya'll stayed together the man could have lost all his money through an unfortunate string of events. I mean I don't think women should be left out to dry if she has not been in the w…
/r/PussyPassDenied03/10/20 04:12 PM
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"Let my sister keep beating on you without trying to stop her" is basically what it boils down to.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/09/20 03:58 AM
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A few minutes in I like giving girls an out and then seeing if they take it. So I'll establish what the girl was going to do before we started talking, and then I'll say something like "oh man I'm not holding up your plans am I?". It's funny when you get replies like "well... maybe a little but that's okay." Or "nah we already did most of the stuff we came to do anyway."
/r/seduction22/09/20 08:40 AM
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Yeah man you say you've talked to 6 girls so far. You can't be giving up that quick my man. Be willing to go through a lot of rejections while you shake off the rust, keep working on yourself, forget the theory for a bit and get real world experiences, and then if you must, seek out information for your sticking points. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 08:04 AM
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Definitely. Not everyone is meant to use regular condoms, or even magnums can possibly be too small for that matter. Do some research to make sure you find properly sized condoms. Also a drop of water based lube on the inside of the condom can increase sensation.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 07:49 AM
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To be clear, what I said mostly applied to going from not having sex to having sex with a girl. If we end up at my place, and talking leads to kissing leads to touching leads to.. you know the rest, I'm not going to stop her and say "hold up, even though we were just going with what felt good to us in this moment, before we continue, I need you to know I am looking for a friends with benefits at the very most." Sure, once you're dealing with each other, having sex, hanging out etc, having that c…
/r/seduction05/08/20 12:59 AM
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To give a counter argument to that, I feel that if a girl wants to have sex with you, but she wants it to lead to a relationship, I think the onus is on her to gatekeep in that regard. I don't like this narrative I've heard sporadically where the status quo that should be assumed, is that things always have to be moving toward a relationship, and if you happen to want otherwise (fuckbuddy, friends with benefits etc), you have to be the one to make that clear, ideally before any sex goes down. If…
/r/seduction04/08/20 10:22 PM
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I agree. From one human being to another, losing your ability to walk, and thus being confined to a wheel chair is devastating. Twice I've had to deal with being severely hindered in my mobility for a few weeks due to injuries. Having to live your entire life like that? Sounds like a nightmare I don't wish upon anybody. Still not a fan of the shaming tactics though. "Anyone who does not accept me exactly the way I am with all the extra attention and care that comes with it is not a real man." A …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/20 11:08 AM
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Lol at her thinking she's on the same level. You make your own money, you have friends and you take care of yourself. Eh, cool? Those men are entering their prime, you're past yours. Anything we'd value you for, a girl 7 years your junior can do better than you, because news flash, I don't give a fuck how successful you are in your career. It does not factor into my attraction for you, at all! In fact, if you think going through life a masculine ass boss bitch is the way to go because it gets sh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/20 10:49 AM
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Careful with that edge
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 11:30 PM
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I'm willing to acknowledge that that is merely my opinion but so should you. You act like dinner dates are THE portal through which getting to know the other person should happen. Master_manufacturer said he doesn't pay for dates, you kinda implied you need to go on a dinner date to get to know someone. No you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 10:34 PM
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A date doesn't have to cost (much) money and dinner dates are stupid anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 09:20 PM
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You don't speak for everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 09:18 PM
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Ah, I see what you're saying. I don't disagree that there is a lot of vile / disrespectful attitude towards women. I was just a little puzzled by your original choice of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 09:11 AM
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Red pill is the understanding through which a TRP'ers get better results in their dating lives. I don't know what point you think you're making but that's like going into a gym and saying a lot of the members care about building muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 09:05 PM
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I don't get this one either. If one honestly weighs two options to determine how he'd get more enjoyment out of life, and the one that helps him get women wins, that's not pedestalising pussy. You could either stay in your comfort zone with the benefit that you get to enjoy watching netflix and eating junkfood every day, but the downside is that you're living below your potential, becoming unhealthy and making yourself more unattractive to the opposite sex. Or you could get out of your comfort z…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:03 PM
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Does he not follow up on numbers or does he not get any? If the latter, he should continue practicing not quit.
/r/seduction10/07/20 05:08 PM
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Learning game is directly related to women, and if you wanna learn that to improve that's cool. But all the other things really just make your life better as a whole, so you might as well do them anyway. The fact that they help attract women is a nice bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 07:47 AM
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Yeah every time I read one of those stories about some poor sap finding out after years of raising a kid it turns out to not be his, I find them to be pretty gut wrenching. Even though I'm mixed race and I look nothing like people with this similar mix, you still can't be sure the kid won't take after their grandparents more than their parents. So "your facial features bro" doesn't exactly hold weight imo. The existence of cuckoldry won't stop me from having kids, I'd just like to be certain tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 07:34 PM
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I feel like you're not taking what I said in the larger context of what's being discussed. Because a girl who gets a cold approach knows you aren’t going for really know her personality. Getting to know her personality will happen on that first date if she’s interested. Most of us are superficial at first, that’s human nature. I agree with this completely, and it's how I always found it to work coming in to this discussion. But I keep hearing that using a situational opener apparently shows you …
/r/seduction26/06/20 06:41 PM
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The reason I got a bit fired up over your comment is that the guy you were replying to didn't sound like he doesn't give a shit about the woman's experience like you seemed to imply. To me it sounds like he just did what he thought was right because taking all the advice women give about how not to approach leaves you with literally nowhere to go. But I'm glad we have common ground in that. Believe me, I've witnessed some bad, sad, or downright creepy or disrespectful approaches (or reactions to…
/r/seduction26/06/20 06:08 PM
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Going back to the drawing board on things that seem to not be working is already kinda how the whole thing works. Like Einstein said "insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome." That won't stop the dummies from still not getting it but I don't know how to solve that one. But I appreciate the reply. I got a whole different vibe from your previous comment but I might have misread the tone, seems like you mean well.
/r/seduction26/06/20 05:47 PM
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Forgive me if I'm being too technical, but I'm a little confused if I'm honest. I just copied this from your main post so there is no room for misinterpretation. I've been approached in various places but what I've noticed is: when a guy walks up to me on the street when I'm going somewhere and he outright says to me something along the lines of "Hey, you're pretty, what's your name", I'm almost always startled and want to leave asap. First, because I'm usually in a rush and need to get somewher…
/r/seduction26/06/20 05:39 PM
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I personally think it's a bit tacky myself, and prefer to save whatever form of stating I find them attractive/interesting/intriguing until at least a few minutes into the interaction. Like I said, I wasn't trying to defend the approach, I was saying it's a bit naive to think a guy's intentions are bound to be any different because he started by talking about the weather. In the vein of "if you want to catch a fish, don't ask the fish, ask the fisherman" (which is not meant to be read into past …
/r/seduction26/06/20 04:41 PM
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Wow, you really took that and ran with it. I would like to point out, however, that you're basically asking women as a whole to be guys' social guinea pigs and make their lifes available as a training ground, completely disregarding their reality, that you yourself admit is shaped by harassment and worse. He didn't ask that. He means the onus is on guys to try and find out for themselves what works in the face of subjective advice that contradicts the last piece of advice. Women should respond h…
/r/seduction26/06/20 04:09 PM
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There are situations where women would be open to being approached. Or there are approaches that could go well if they were powered through. Or situations where when women say they don't like being approached a certain way, it only applies to guys she is not attracted to. But if he looked hot and went up to her like that she'd promptly completely forget that she does not prefer being approached that way.
/r/seduction26/06/20 03:27 PM
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A shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on. I'm surprised women aren't more creeped out by these weirdos who will fake a friendship with them for months or years, waiting for their perfect opportunity to make their move. I'm not saying all guys do this. But even then he might accept the offer of friendship hoping she hangs out with friends of similar level of attractiveness.
/r/seduction26/06/20 03:04 PM
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It also doesn't make sense in the fact that women are not fish. If you read into an analogy past its merit you're going to hit a point where it falls apart. It's just a different way of saying "if you want to know how to seduce a woman, ask a guy who's good at it, not women." Reading further into it is just mental masturbation.
/r/seduction26/06/20 02:47 PM
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Just try anyway. Sometimes I'm in a hurry and a street salesman approaches me for something. If I don't have time I'll just say so. Remain respectful and if she no longer wants to interact with you, then she doesn't and you should respect that. But yeah, when you go outside this gets to happen to you. Not sure why everybody is so uptight about this. And also sometimes it does work but that doesn't seem to matter so much evidently.
/r/seduction26/06/20 02:32 PM
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What you do is you take in the feedback you get, use your creativity to see if there's another way, and test them out and see what gives you better results. One person stating their preferences doesn't mean everybody has to stop doing something.
/r/seduction26/06/20 02:24 PM
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Exactly. Besides the "not putting pressure on her to have a conversation that she MIGHT not want to have" part, how does this in any way demonstrate that you care about her personality etc, as opposed to just how she looks. Also, another thing to consider is that it may demonstrate a lack of courage to stand and talk to the girl you're interested in. But that's one guy's perspective, not sure if girls generally value that.
/r/seduction26/06/20 02:19 PM
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How can she feel that someone is attracted to her without even knowing her? It makes it obvious it’s just about looks or physical. Well it's not like it doesn't make sense. Guys are motivated to pursue girls they find attractive. Just because that sparks his initial interest does not mean he has to be completely fine with whatever personality and lifestyle goes with the exterior. Quite frankly the guy who compliments her on her glasses or asks about the text on her tote bag might just just as ea…
/r/seduction26/06/20 02:10 PM
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And I would never fuck a friend's girl/wife. Agreed, friends' girls are off limits to me too. That part of the OP slipped my mind as I was reading the comments
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:05 PM
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Plenty of guys here would fuck someone else's girlfriend/wife and say "not muh problem, he shoulda been more alpha then". But when you say this you get downvoted. Lol
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:43 AM
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Yes I like this approach as well. Get fancy and try to expand your repertoire of techniques after you've learned how to get past a sticking point. But at first just focus on overcoming it at all.
/r/seduction25/06/20 09:17 AM
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That's why when I break up with an ex I imagine her adopting the lifestyle that would sting the most. May be insecure but I hate thinking she's having tons of casual sex now. Well I just imagine that's what she's doing, feel the pain till you can live with it and then move on. But most of all work om yourself. You don't need to deliberately show off to her or try to make her see you doing better. But when the day comes that she runs into you and you've moved on so far you don't even give a shit …
/r/askTRP21/06/20 09:42 PM
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I am talking the men lookism forums worship and say you need to look like that to get women. Yeah but their entire world view is formed from behind their computer. Why take anything they say seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:46 PM
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Being a dancing monkey is to misunderstand what it takes to seduce a woman. A dancing monkey thinks he needs to continually pump her emotions and keep her entertained and laughing and smiling to seduce her. For some it may just be a phase they need to get past, or something to lean into to develop that part of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:11 PM
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It's never all about any one thing. It's a mix of countless preferences and proclivities that decide what people respond to. According to RP and the concept of AWALT, if I’m understanding correctly, that means it shouldn’t matter how powerful a female is in her real life, she will always sexually respond better to a more powerful/masculine/dominant partner than herself for sex. AWALT means women all have the hypergamous instinct in their firmware, but they are not a slave to this instinct. Just …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 05:44 PM
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Well, you know you didn't have any malicious intent. You made a mistake. It's not like you've been leading her on for a substantial amount of time. If she wants to take it the wrong way that's on her.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:24 PM
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I'd reserve ghosting girls for when they do something fucked up etc. Sounds like you messed up asking her for something you didn't really want. The least you can do is tell her.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:09 PM
1

Friends are always tellin' me You're a user I don't care what you do to them Just be good to me (oh, oh, oh) Life is a game of chances So I'll take my chance with you And you, I won't try to change We talk about it and I'd Rather have a piece of you Than to have all of nothing (oh, oh, oh) SOS band - Just be good to me Maybe not my type of music but I like what this lady has to say lol.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 09:15 PM
1

It does have to do with the likeliness that your genes live on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:14 PM
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What's the lesson? That getting your dick wet is more important to you than your bond with your brother?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:26 PM
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Contemplating today's society for just a brief moment I really don't think this knowledge is as common as you assume it is. I can't count how many times I see guys slowly but steadily become a lesser version of themselves after they enter a relationship. What are you supposed to do with this information? Realize that even if you are in a relationship you should maintain your frame, yourself as a mental point of origin, and keep working on yourself and improving. Understand where you rank in the …
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:08 PM
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No. Maybe I'm starting to become too much of the "the world just IS, myaaaaan" guy but I really don't blame them for it. Maybe the fact that we exist at this time at all would not have been possible if women didn't prioritize high tier men and had a threshold of standards. Imagine surviving our hunter gatherer days if women procreated with a man too lazy to hunt, who just wants to eat trippy mushrooms all day and jerk off. In terms of value on the sexual marketplace, I am not living up to my pot…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 01:47 PM
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Spot on, thanks for connecting the dots there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:42 AM
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Yeah... must be pretty painful to hear that your girl's ex rocked her world in bed at least in part due to his size which you don't have and there is nothing you can do to get it. So when you have sex with her, the comparison will be made that "it was good, but just not as good as my cheating big dick ex, but hey still pretty good." Maybe it's just me but it's pretty insane that some women think you must have a fragile ego if you're a little hurt and maybe concerned that your girl is pining for …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:27 AM
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Women are objects of beauty before they are objects of success. Downvote me all you want, but if two girls are equally beautiful, one being a high achieving career woman doesn't make her much (or any) more attractive that a girl working some retail job.
/r/seduction12/05/20 11:46 AM
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Why travel? You can just work and go home and play video games, and if you watch some travel vlogs occasionally then you've seen the world too. /s Video games are great fun but if you tolerate your job until you get to go home where you can finally get into your biggest source of fun, which is video games, imo you're using gaming as a cope and hiding from the world. Games nest into a human's desire for accomplishment. Some people live lives they're not happy with but take solace in knowing that …
/r/seduction12/05/20 11:22 AM
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Didn't OP address that though? Some people don't want to rack up hundreds of lays but just want to have experienced casual sex before they move on to the next phase so they don't feel like they missed out.
/r/seduction12/05/20 10:54 AM
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Well you could argue she's doing it to please her husband. My thinking was more towards hurting/humiliating/making him feel like less of a man because he doesn't have a dick like the bull, by possibly making it seem better than it really is, even if it does feel really good to her. Unless you meant that that is what would please him. so she probably welcomes the fact she gets to be fucked by someone decently attractive. I'm sure. There are also terms like boyfriend dick and vacation dick. The bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:20 PM
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I'm not saying they don't love it, I'm sure they do. But wouldn't you say that acting like she's riding some divine shaft that had made her feel things she never knew she needed that her husband could never dream of giving her plays into the fantasy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:28 PM
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Lol I wouldn't necessarily take that from people who have bad guesstimating skills on body parts about which they're also being lied to. Wait I'll save you the trouble. "COPE"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:04 PM
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Lol or the "just become really good at foreplay". Yes because guys with big dicks couldn't love licking pussy and all that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:01 PM
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Idk mate. I follow them for the same reason but unless you can show that their subscriber to engagement ratio is way off this is just a baseless claim that doesn't help anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:59 PM
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Good read man. After I broke up with my GF I'm working on getting my shit together at the age of 29, so your title definitely caught my attention. Your story definitely put some gas in my tank. Not that I was ever pessimistic about being able to turn my life around and get results, but I'm still chipping away at my procrastination. I just wanted to ask you, what's your outlook on dating in your 30's? I've always been under the impression that it's doable as long as you look decent enough, you ha…
/r/seduction08/05/20 05:50 PM
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They expect you to spend a bunch of money on them and pay for everything (initially) or you're a filthy scrote. So love free dinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:26 AM
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If it makes you feel better sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:55 PM
1

Even if it was my job to answer for what other men do, which it isn't, yes you'd expect a 30 something year old to look a lot more fuckable than someone 50+.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:52 PM
3

Imagine harping on the looks of a man in his 50's
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:39 PM
3

Rollo: "hypergamy is not a straitjacket" You: 🙉 LALALALALALALALA I CAN'T HEAR YOU LALALALA
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:38 PM
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I'm not sold on her being a hypocrite beyond the shadow of a doubt based on this evidence alone, sorry for not joining the REEEE this time bois.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:33 PM
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It was about women on FDS who love to shit on scrotes. Since you're asking men if ragging on FDSers being obese women with overinflated ego's is really the best use of your time and the best mindset to operate from, I'm just asking you if you hold women constantly making fun of scrotes to the same standard. No need to complicate the matter beyond that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:40 PM
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Yes move the goalposts why don't you. Does that change the fact that some of the members on FDS love to shit on "scrotes" all the time? Also this is about obesity. NAWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:19 PM
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They're queens, they don't have to play by the same rules
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:07 PM
13

I wonder if you ask a similar question to women in FDS constantly ragging on LVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:01 PM
1

If you're in a relationship where you feel you're being treated unfairly you can always walk. I get that there are circumstances that make it harder to just up and leave but you're not obligated to stay with someone against your will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:05 PM
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Okay. And where in your point of view is there space for personal choice? I could have unfair expectations for a relationship, but ultimately the other person is free to either accept it or reject me for it. You seem to put everything on an equal playing field even though people don't choose to get raped or killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:44 PM
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Yes he did, he implied that it was okay for life to be unfair. Where? If he said it in the comments I might have missed it but I didn't see it in the OP or title. Also how does "it's okay for life to be unfair" translate to murder and rape not only being okay, but good ? To pick and choose what is unfair is based on selfish desires are hypocritical and illogical. Either fairness is good and what we strive for, or it isn’t...there is no in between. So just to name an example, if I want a partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:49 PM
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Lol these people... OP: so what if it's not fair or consistent that a man with a high n count wants to settle down with a woman who has a low n count People here: wElL ThEn wHaT AbOuT RaPiNg sOmEoNe, KiLlInG ThEm aNd rApInG ThEm aGaIn?!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:24 PM
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According to OP’s logic, murder, rape and such is not only okay...but good. Nope he didn't say that at all. If you think this comparison is unfair...to bad life is unfair lol. Nah your comparison just sucks. Nothing to do with fair. OP was talking about preferences. He even said as long as you're not locking your preferred sexual partner in the basement who cares, implying there is a line drawn at hurting and/or taking advantage of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:17 PM
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