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Whining, warning, etc. So instead of teaching younger women what men want and how to secure one long-term, you are resorting to “cock-blocking” under the guise of “protection.” And you’re proud of it. I don’t even understand the last sentence, the men get to fuck all the hags too? Umm, yeah. They’ll fuck you but they’ll pursue younger women seriously. These old hags proud of cock-blocking just want their options in perpetuity. It doesn’t work like that. Y’all taking notes on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:48 PM
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That's a woosh, bro. Creepiness is the focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:07 AM
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That’s not how it went. You have either ignored or mistaken what I have said multiple times now You immediately went hyper specific intentionally to get me to look for examples. When I called that out you then asked for examples for my initial assertion. If you are going to take the time to write all that, at least be honest. But that likely was not your intention And let me make this clear since you I want to see you try and be intentionally daft further. A man’s reputation can affect his livel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:07 AM
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Umm, I said sexual allegation and demonstrated that to you on multiple occasions. The point is some men do not want to operate with the reputation of being creepy or sleazy as it can affect their business. That is certainly a pressure as they can’t have their cake and eat it too. Now, after providing an example to your amended request, you are shifting the goalposts back to dating in comparison to consensual dating. That is not what I said. You said I said men “cannot” date younger women because…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:30 AM
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https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2018/10/23/us/metoo-replacements.html Here is an article discussing a sample of men, some of which lost their positions (fired or pressured to resign) only on allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:15 AM
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Old dude with young chick. If the man is creepy, is the woman too? Or it’s only manipulation that absolves her being a creepy gold digger (certainly not with an old dude for his looks, sexual prowess, or “personality“).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:12 AM
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I know it’s the topic, but I mentioned a single sexual allegation. There are numerous examples. You asking examples for such a specific thing like that considering what’s already on the record (in short sentences at that), I get that’s your only move, but you really revealed yourself there. Few women…kinda irrelevant to everything I said. Aside from the old hags whining, maybe it is a vocal minority. But then again, someone needs to tell these old hags to shut up for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:08 AM
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Yeah. But this situation is literally just “player hating.” It’s probably how women feel in their 20s about their privileges in sex and dating. Only difference is the older man is required to provide significant value to the world market.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:05 AM
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Reputation matters, that's the point. Especially when it affects one's livelihood and there are fewer, if any, safety nets for men. Most men prefer younger women in the 18-24 range. I misspoke about "dating" there. Either way, these old women need to stop hating. If you're not mad about losing men in your age group, how about trying to shame? Men learn to get over it, and if they do well enough, get the last laugh regardless. I'd much rather be a single 40 y/o dude than a single 40 y/o woman. Fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:58 AM
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Well when a single sexual allegation can jeopardize a man's career, it's certainly a significant pressure. Also most men are still doing it anyway. They just call women jealous, which, obviously given this topic and the one right below yours on "New," seems appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:52 AM
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lmao men are not being prevented by any means from dating younger women. They just don't want to be shamed or be called creepy (or even pedo) for dating what they find attractive. Those women likely did the same thing when they were younger (ignore men their age in favor of older men with money (more attractive)).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:47 AM
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This is fundamental redpill advice lol. It's literally about shifting your mindset through self-improvement and chasing success (which would require some extroversion and disagreeableness).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 09:15 PM
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I read FDS to (1) disillusion myself with women and recognize they are just like the "scrotes" they denigrate; (2) pick up the subtle game that is dropped when they talk about how they got played and what to look out for; and (3) for laughs. But I'm hoping this thread is a joke or a roundabout way to get men to read FDS to get them to pick up the subtle game that is dropped there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:06 PM
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Men are aware they are judged by immutable traits and deal with them. They may grouse at first, but they generally deal with it over time. However, if men espouse even "fixable" standards (like weight) on women, they are publicly shamed. The problem isn't what attraction is based on, it's the fact that there is a protected class that is claiming oppression while simultaneously believing they are secretly running the world. And simply discussing it gives off "small dick energy," which funnily is …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:26 PM
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If being nice, respectful and non-offensive was what women were looking for, this sub would not exist lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:19 PM
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This sub is very red-pilling tbh. The hamstering some people will go to "argue" some ideas keeps confirming almost every RP claim. FDS is the same way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:16 PM
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This is like her life, bro. Let her be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:54 PM
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Women keep looking at male sexuality as if men look at sex the same way women do. A chad fucking a non-"Stacy" is not going to look at his value going down, especially if that chick comes late night through the back door. If sex falls into a dude's lap, he'll likely take it. I'd have no problem banging the 7 I know who's down opposed to jumping through hoops for the 10 if I just want to fuck. Here's the real red pill though: Who are women pursuing for sex? The "providers" or the fuckboy types? T…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:47 PM
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Bruh, I would LOVE for the blue pill shit to be the way. I wish I could tell women that I cared about them and all that but that shit just does not work en masse. Reality is what it is though. And my feelings are gone. I'll be "toxic" because it gets the results I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:24 PM
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Yeah, check out AMS dating commandments. One of the first ones is: Never argue with a woman. And it’s for a lot of the same reasons you mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:34 PM
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Arguing with women is the most red-pilling aspect of this sub. The old AMS commandment was so on point on that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:45 PM
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Truth. When I started working out in college, I started getting cat-calls in my co-ed when I was walked back to my room after taking showers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:29 PM
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Yeah, guys will hang out with you too JUST because they think you attract a lot of women. If you're fit, dressing nice, and all that, you've done all you could. You don't need to fucking walk on water for a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:34 PM
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So all the things women can bring, but Im going to wait for you to say “No they dont” which proves youre no better than the Karens. If it's so basic, why couldn't you answer the direct question then? You intentionally avoided it for two days. It's not my fault. "When you tried to blame women for men’s whiny behavior. I said “If hated medicore sex so much, they can stop having it.” And then you to change the subject and ask an off-topic question. Yes, I'm going to ignore that flagrantly flippant …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:24 PM
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Not even on the congruence angle. Many women do not want to compete for men outside of just looking pretty. A man who peacocks well, is fit, etc. can easily be "rejected" by women because the women believe the man gets plenty of other women and attention. There's really no winning tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:06 PM
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Congratulations, you just revealed your hypocrisy. "Men are not all abusive assholes" is revealing hypocrisy, how so? "Karens: What do men have to bring to sex and relationships?" Karens will tell you: Ambition, Money, Good looks, Confidence, Height, Hygienic, etc. "I did with another question because you sound no different from bitter women who blame their taste in shitty men on everyone else but themselves." No. First, I asked you that question multiple times over the course of TWO DAYS. All y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:00 PM
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There you have it. Once again wholly unresponsive to a simple question. No, all men are not abusive assholes. But once again, what do women have to bring to sex and relationships? And if you don’t answer this question, I’m going to assume you have been avoiding this question for days because your answer is “nothing,” and you don’t want your name next to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:44 PM
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Maybe the behavior is more common than you’d like to admit. Let’s look at this way: What do women have to bring, if anything, to sex and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:36 PM
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I asked an avid poster: "What do women have to bring, if anything, to sex and relationships?" And she ignored the question THREE times and gave non-responsive/flippant replies. This sub is not about honest discussion and debate. Literally any truth that sheds an unflattering reality is immediately ignored and cast aside if it is about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:24 PM
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Yeah, it's attention AND validation, that's what I meant. You filled in the gap. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:29 PM
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Completely unresponsive. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:15 PM
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Also, answer my question: What do women have to bring to sex and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:14 PM
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Some women are willing to risk their lives (BBLs) to compete looks-wise. Male attention is that important to them. What's editing a photo if that is what they believe makes them competitive for the men they want? I'm not hating, but the competitive drive is that cutthroat. It just looks "honorable" because they don't say it's for sex like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 09:52 PM
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What do women have to bring to sex/relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 09:45 PM
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What fantasies? You mean desires? Stop wanting women who actually want to have enthusiastic sex with them? Also, answer my question: What do women have to bring to sex and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:27 PM
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I’m saying — tell this to OP because a man saying these things is “complaining.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:56 PM
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I’m not committing at this point. But dudes, like women, stay in bad relationships all the time because the alternative is undesirable. I’m not staying with a chick I don’t enjoy having sex with. But men should be able to vent frustrations on the internet. This whole put up or shut up stuff regarding men’s grievances is toxic however
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:53 PM
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Tell OP, not me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:30 PM
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Let’s just put numbers to this. 2 men are making the same amount of money 80K, same industry, same looks face-wise and fitness. Hobbies are similar and all that. Only difference is one is 6ft and the other is 5’5”. As single men, the 6ft dude had sexual abundance while the other guy had significantly less play. Maybe he was rejected for not being tall enough. Maybe he had some insecurities because of it affecting his game. Whatever. Both get married. Who has more options? Do both increase but ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:21 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:13 PM
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“Maintain the appeal” implies a burden performance. Having sex as a favor implies it does not involve lust. I’m just saying, women are saying it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:08 PM
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You can’t expect men to not vent their frustrations in some outlet. People are not generally having these pilled discussions in person. This is locker room talk. So I’m gonna say fuck off to the don’t complain route at this point. Men are allowed to voice their gripes on some forums online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:03 PM
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What is the delusion? That men with fewer options are less likely to cheat than men with an abundance of options EVEN after getting married. Just let me know if I have it right. And this is still on the premise of mitigation of risk, correct? I would just love to see a third party discuss this exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:56 PM
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I’m just discussing reality and I don’t think most people would disagree with me. If you aren’t famous or really attractive, men are not in sexual abundance. Sexual abundance is the ability to have sex consistently on a whim. If that is “picky beggar,” so be it. Either way, my points stand unfettered. Just talking about these topics will make men come off whiny regardless. No need to mischaracterize the perspective with ad hominem. I’m sorry the unflattering truth bothers you but you’re speaking…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:47 PM
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I’m not complaining, I’m adding to the discussion from a male’s perspective. You even asked what unenthusiastic sex was, which honestly should have been enough of an indication of your level of reason. Further, the comparison between men and a dog was not about making men beasts. It was about hating on something for its nature (dogs bark and men want to have sex), these are hardwired for the vast majority of the aforementioned. I intentionally didn’t talk about a woman’s hardwired behaviors by t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:39 PM
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Everything back on the man. If you don’t perform this way, it is a chore. What do women have to do in a sex/relationships, if anything? Clearly men have to do something, what’s the other side? Men are beasts and not worthy of equality. Sounds very feminist and pro-social justice to me. Thanks for revealing yourself. Men are monsters for wanting to have sex with women. This is where we are in 2021, gentlemen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:30 PM
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Gaslight if you wish, but that hamstering on the pimp comment, you’re not getting out of that. Unequivocally bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:17 PM
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So hypocrisy. That men don’t want to feel used too? If a man has sex with a woman, is he using her? Just don’t treat it like a chore. That’s all men are asking for and that’s too much. This is great. “If it was that bad, they would stop having sex.” Sex is better than no sex for men. It’s why some men marry the first woman who is nice to them. Getting upset for men for wanting sex is like being upset with a dog for barking. Understand that and move on with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:10 PM
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It’s clear that there was a racial undertone that gave you the pimp vibe. Just stop hamstering. Moving on from your drivel
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:07 PM
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“Men are only as faithful as their options.” It still applies. Ned Flanders isn’t fucking bad bitches off the flex of being married either. It’s still relative. You haven’t really refuted anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:06 PM
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Getting laid is difficult for men in general. Dudes become millionaires, read books, risk their lives, and drink alcohol attempting, at least in part, to achieve sexual abundance. Women have sexual abundance almost innately while men generally have to work for it. Why wouldn’t they look at dudes who get it easily differently? It’s a completely different experience that men spend their lives trying to experience. As for the drinking stuff, I am not going into that. I was responding to OP and it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:03 PM
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He’s been on mainstream platforms and mentioned on mainstream media. He’s not a nobody, considerably famous. If anything that link shared with you likely was a smear attempt and you let one image define his persona. Where do you look good here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:48 PM
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Yeah and being a wallet is unappealing too. But men settle for that when they get no/bad sex in relationships. Also, it's not evil that men want to fuck you, hypothetically speaking, of course..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:36 PM
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Only image on your google search? Not likely. That image is also years old. Sorry, not buying it unless you were watching his videos focusing on men years ago. That is not how he is represented on almost every platform and this is an influencer with 1M subs on YouTube and close to 1M on IG. We all make mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:35 PM
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Female satisfaction is irrelevant as to whether an activity is counted as "having sex" during hook ups If a guy never got a boner people would say sex didn't happen If the woman doesn't come and the guy did, people say they had sex The entire thing is predicated on a man achieving erection and nutting If this is what you're basing it on, I don't know what to tell you about why it's that is the norm. I could try a biological argument, if the purpose of sex is for procreation, a man's orgasm is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:32 PM
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So hold on. Chicks are not fucking men they find attractive for ONS? Otherwise I don’t know what’s the point of your post. “Women have sex to get men to stfu” I’m looking forward to any indication that this is a common viewpoint outside of OP who has an obvious agenda. These arguments are sad lmao Even with lowered inhibitors women aren’t fucking average men en masse for ONS. I have seen on this very subreddit that some would rather get pumped and dumped by the best dick rather than an average g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:04 PM
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Look up with “mitigate” means. "Won't cheat" was never mentioned nor implied. Logically, a man with less options will be less likely to cheat as he has less opportunities. An average man with a boost of confidence is still limited in his options due to his attributes, physically or financially. "Mitigate" just means lessens the chances. But I think when it comes down to it, if an average man cheats it's just viewed as egregiously disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:01 PM
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Again, that's already happening in the form of porn addiction. Guys here think Instagram Thots are the norm, already. Bull fucking shit. You're telling me most women are not getting sex from men because of porn? So let me get this straight: Men are not fucking women AT ALL outside of the Top 10% of women? I would be done with you but this is hilarious and I will keep going. "Lust and desire are not the same thing. You guys just desire women to act like porn stars where they're just ready to hop …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:50 PM
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You mean porn addiction? There’s an uproar against of the ADDICTION part. Addictions are unhealthy and affects various parts od a person’s life. No, I mean not fucking ANY women AT ALL outside of the top 10% of women. "You guys define shallow physical attraction as “genuine desire” which isnt how hookups work, since most of the time alcohol’s involved You call it shallow but ONS generally come from genuine lust and desire. Unless you're telling me that women generally have ONS indiscriminately. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:03 PM
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lol, are you seriously claiming that there is a problem with men settling for low quality sex over the alternative of no sexual activity? If men en masse just decide to jerk off instead of dealing with most women, there would be an uproar. Yes, a man will settle for a relationship just for sexual access (good or not) if his options are not abundant. Dudes do not want to deal with the bullshit that comes with women, however, the bullshit comes with the territory. What does "unenthusiastic sex" me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:42 PM
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Something along the lines of "If you want to mitigate the chances of your man cheating, marry/get with an average man with less options." If that is "lol," then I see him lasting a lot longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:30 PM
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They are definitely aware of it. I was on a date one time off Tinder and she was actually saying how she needed to go back to the gym and all that. I was physically fit at the time and she was...larger than her photos. I was in the mindset of just "being nice" back then and just sat through the date with the thought of never seeing her again afterwards. Fortunately, however, she also was really connected in the weed community so I just made her my dealer for exotic strands. She reached out again…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:28 PM
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I used to be a relationship-seeking hopeless romantic type. That is absolutely dead. No way I'm committing to someone who doesn't even find me attractive. I have everything to gain from just pumping and dumping. Emotional fulfillment honestly sounds like a fairy tale at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:06 PM
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There are like a handful of posters who make the same topic every week that get multiple reddit awards. "Men only chase 10s or Insta-thots" - What does "chase" mean? If it's pursue, that is certainly not true. If it's date, that is certainly not true. If it's attracted to, that is certainly not true. I need that term clarified. And this also begs the question: What makes the average man unattractive? Let's even assume the average dude is relatively hygienic and groomed here. What makes the avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:59 PM
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I love in that link you posted probably the loudest suit he's ever worn. Then as you see other image thumbnails you see more of what he regularly wears and yet you still hold on to the "pimp" frame. "Anyone of any race." Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:48 PM
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You ignored the point twice. Acknowledge the discrepancy in the graph or don’t respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:41 PM
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A chick NEVER initiating sex would be a bit of a red flag tbh. I would think that I don't turn her on. The sexual gratification would be nice and it would be cool, but she's not even gonna rub my crotch or get touchy-feely?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:18 PM
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I’m not discounting the numbers. But can you focus on the graph’s representation specifically and explain the direct correlation until the drop-off? It’s still relevant. The idea that men only pursue 10s is a female fantasy. Unless the guys in your inbox don’t count as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:02 PM
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Well if the data from the same source provides a conflict to your assertion...idk what to say about that. Granted, I'm not putting in much effort this morning. Edit: Yeah it's the same data. The graph illustrated exactly what I said. They aren't just pursing the apex women (the 9-10s). They are going after above-average women (7-8) on a higher level. How do you explain that? It's almost a direct correlation before the drop-off too in terms of attractiveness and messaging on the graph. Guys send …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:06 PM
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Just going by this topic: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ok2ufd/women_do_think_physical_attractiveness_is/ And this: https://archive.is/ZJymw/7f74463722db9605adf297c01163cc4b7fd406fa.png That's all. I don't know how "embarrassing" that is though. It's literally what the data said. Men are not just chasing 10s. That's all I'm saying. And they are not ignoring the average women completely. The numbers indicated such. Average women are more attainable and men will go after them …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:30 PM
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That's not true though. There is another thread using OKC data where the apex attractive females received less messages than the above-average. How do you explain that? Men think the less attractive are more attainable and pursue them more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:33 PM
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That site is hilarious. I did the Kevin Samuels generic standards and got 5/5 on the cat food scale. "You don't belong on this planet." lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:36 AM
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It was intentional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:20 PM
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Simps are the ones who throw their money away with no return on investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:49 PM
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The media is designed to make blue-pilled beta males. Of course its representation of romance is full of lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:45 PM
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Yes, I agree. But I (or any woman) can NOT KNOW YET if I am going to sleep with him. It is a qualification process like you said, so there is a possibility but no guarantees. If it is not even a "maybe," it is not in good faith. You're telling me you don't know if you find him attractive and you need a gift to begin realizing it? No? Then stop with these games. "Well this is the first time I'm hearing of this term, so Idk how plentiful it can be. Whereas smash & dash or hit it and quit it is pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:16 PM
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I don't believe I am entitled to his resources. HOWEVER if he is asking me on a date and paying for said date, that is his GIFT to me in exchange for us spending time together. He is using that opportunity to essentially make his case that he is a good, compatible partner. That does NOT entitle him to sex. NO ONE said anything about a man being entitled to sex here. The only thing I said that you are aware of why he is jumping through hoops and entering a qualification process –– his ultimate go…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:54 AM
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/topic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:39 AM
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Well, idk, it seems like you prioritize sex over your connection you made via dating. All the lead up meant nothing to you if the sex didn't meet your standards. Why is it ok for you to make sex a priority but not for women to do so? Because my list of wants/needs from women are pretty simple. You can fit it on a stamp. Women on the other hand, can write a novel on what they want from men. So if I have few factors, a paucity in one is that much more significant. "Well, not all men, first off. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:20 AM
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Not to even mention, it's way easier to get a dude off. But even then, dudes fake cumming too. I spit and pretend it's cum at times too. Condoms fucking suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:13 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ok6gm7/longterm_and_shortterm_relationships_are/h56dp6h/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:11 AM
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You even said it was statistically harder to get. You have yet to even acknowledge what I said about what a man does leading up to that. But none of that matters if you don't cum? Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:07 AM
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Women can enjoy sex without orgasm. That's the difference here. Your failure to even acknowledge that and raise a standard to do this diatribe is indicative of a bad faith argument. Good night. I just do not have time to care. If the chemistry is off, I'm not pursuing. It's not even about me cumming. If I don't enjoy it, I'm out. YOU assumed the orgasm is the necessary indicator. I just said if I enjoyed it. YOU CAN EVEN LOOK at the post where I responded to an inexperienced woman or a virgin. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:05 AM
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The claim that it's personal. The claim that I'm angry. Making it something that it's not. I see it over and over again. Demands, demands, demands, left and right. And now to pile on more and espouse even higher standards. And let's talk about statistically proven things too, like the difficulty in general of women achieving orgasm through penetrative sex. Men have to be everything and women just have to show up? I'm good on that. I'll fuck other pussy. No need to bother with your nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:58 AM
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If orgasms are mandatory now despite all that went beforehand (as I put in the previous post), I am honestly rolling my eyes right now. I just do not care anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:56 AM
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I deleted it and made an extended comment that said the same thing with an addendum. It's right there for you to see. This isn't even personal. This is speaking to women in general. Go on and have higher standards. We'll see how long you last.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:52 AM
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I'm not vunerable to the shaming language. Not taking this personally. I'm just tired of seeing this nonsense. You claim you don't want to be sex objects and then use it as leverage. Great. Go on and have a good life. Plenty of other women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:50 AM
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Haha – so I have to approach, ask out, set up the date, pay the bill, seal the deal, and make you cum. You just show up and decide to get pretty "for yourself." Go ahead and have higher standards. I'll find another chick to bang. Two can play this game. Men: don't let women leverage sex. This is the only power they claim to wield in sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:47 AM
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It’s the type of pomposity you’d get from overconfident neckbeards on the internet who think they’re smarter than everyone else. Where does their overconfidence come from? Being a woman who enjoys privilege in sex and relationships. It’s funny. I read FDS to take notes on how to get away with finessing too. I’d advise others to do the same. Look at the open misandrist rhetoric and realize they are no better than the “scrotes” they lament.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:00 AM
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It needs to be its own thread. Dude beat me to the punch lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:35 PM
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I mean I can excuse inexperience from a woman if she actually tried to make it enjoyable. If I found a virgin, that might be worth the investment but that’s like finding 100 bucks on the floor. But generally, if we’re not sexually compatible with vanilla sex, I don’t see point unless she’s pursuing me. I won’t pursue after bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:31 PM
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This sub is honestly worthless. lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:21 PM
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Maybe to you, "something else to offer," doesn't equate to personal qualities. But that was included when I said that. Let's not talk about wasting time when you are hyper-focusing on a semantic argument in attempt to refute what I posted. I am not even interested in applying to attention to detail when (1) People didn't even read the 2 sentences I posted initially; and (2) Y'all are construing words to any extent in attempt to say I said or implied something I did not. My words are even substan…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:13 PM
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Then why talk about dating at all then if you can’t apply anything with generalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:53 PM
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Hence - “Unless he has something else to offer.” I honestly believe you don’t read what I say. This is not the first nor the second time you have failed to encapsulate what I have posted in response.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:52 PM
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I am not seeing a chick again if I didn’t enjoy our first sexual encounter. I’d imagine women generally think the same way unless the guy has something else to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:43 PM
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Oral sex is very common and it is certainly not foolish to extrapolate that a more attractive man generally will get more blowjobs. Worthless comment, honestly. Even considering the individuality, like I said earlier, this is not an absolutist concept as nothing in human sexual dynamics is universal and that should be implied in honest discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:28 PM
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Let’s play baseball. Once a week is fine if you’re busy, granted. But only one message with one person? I’m not sure how that is going to help men get a relationship with only one at bat. Also I already posted on the not all women not chasing top tier men thing earlier — and it was agreed by OP — women think they are fuckboys and do not want the competition/nonsense that comes with them. Men just have it on HOF difficulty. Even at your best you do not get as much attention as the worst woman onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:26 PM
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A huge range between 1 and zero for messages on a dating app? Either way you split it, the most attractive men barely even out-compete the bottom-tier women. Let’s even think about average time between messages too. Do you think 1 message a week is indicative of any real interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:02 PM
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You’re right it is not a percentage, but the point is it’s close to zero. Why does your personal experience matter btw? Anecdotal evidence doesn’t counter statistics. Also, you’re talking about OKC when the reference point used Tinder. It’s irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:47 PM
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Almost evenly, at close to zero. Bruh...c'mon, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:30 PM
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Attractiveness certainly affects amount of BJs. Maybe not for you, but nothing in the dating world is universal, and honest discussion should at least have that assumption implied. BJs requests go from "I don't feel like it or I don't want to," to either being consummated or having the girl initiate it. And I'm not even talking about within the confines of a relationship. You are generally NOT going to suck someone's dick if you find them unattractive, that's a given. And it's general psychology…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:58 PM
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Imagine if someone posted: "A woman being only wanted for sex is not that bad of a life." I might just make a throwaway account and do just that for laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:51 PM
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No, it's because they don't look like they're trying too hard. It's quite like the bimbos I talk about, their appearances are always very nice because they're trying to lure a bunch of men to them either for sex or money. I don't know why it can't be both there tbh. But it's interesting how you consistently talk about men not putting in effort and yet say that. "The issue isn't the expectation of sex. The instant is the expectation of INSTANT sex." Men are generally spending their hard-earned mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:33 PM
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Honestly, yes. 10s get approached less because most men are intimidated and self-disqualify due to various factors. The 7/8 market is crowded due to the belief that they are more attainable, but then the saturation ups their ego to where the 7/8s believe they are 10s. And that also applies to less attractive women too. The attention they get based on their perceived attainability boosts their egos to where "average at best" also claim they are 10s too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:19 PM
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Ehh, you can tell. If she's not touchy-feely or barely ever trying to initiate sex, she does not view you as an alpha/chad. They also just suck your dick more often and with more vigor. And sexual enthusiasm is just different. All guys want to experience that but very few will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:04 PM
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This kinda kills the "Men only chase 10s" thing though. Looks like they aim for 7-8s as they seem more attainable and try to pursue them while still shooting their shot at the top as a Hail Mary. And on the women's side, it kinda seems like the most attractive are judged to be fuckboys or guys that get a lot of women and many women don't want that competition/"nonsense." Even if you say average guys can be fuckboys too, it kinda lends into the idea that those guys are more attainable to give wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:01 PM
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On and on? I literally added another clarification and replied to another comment about how I’m dealing with it. Then I sarcastically replied to your comment and you blew up on me. Have a good night. I’m getting tired of having my actions being painted incorrectly when a log is readily available. Literally making up a reason to be upset. You clearly were the emotional one here and have the nerve to talk about people being whiny. Only on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:30 AM
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What the hell are you even talking about now? You're taking this beyond what it initially was, an honest representation of the male condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:25 AM
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lmao, I know. I said even my mother doesn't care and thank you, NO ONE cares. Point proven. I deal with my shit, I just answered a topic. Chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:19 AM
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Cool, so people will care if I pay them. Definitely reassuring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:05 AM
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Well, who gives a shit? I have to deal with the hand I'm dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:08 AM
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The patience is VERY thin. Women in general say they want a man to open up, but only to a certain degree. When it gets real, they are generally unresponsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:49 AM
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I go out alone and have no problem ditching spots if they are inactive or just chatting up with locals. I made friends with a local rock band that performed and the bartenders knew my first order. Haven't been there since, you know. But it's not for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:23 AM
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lmao my own mother doesn't want to hear me talk about my issues Literally no one cares about men's mental health. "Shut up and self-improve."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:42 AM
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It’s just not good advice for the majority of men, especially if we’re talking 1/50 chance. I’ve done the dive bar thing too. Plenty of nights are a wash, like you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:35 AM
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lmao you’re gonna tell me dudes in general can expect consistent sex on the first date? Get all the way out of here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:35 PM
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Bruh — this will make you an incel unless you are insanely attractive. You would be limited to paying for sex to get any play whatsoever. Even the best womanizers understand that the first date lay is a play where EVERYTHING goes your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:20 PM
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Umm did you read? It is the jackpot. A bit of an over correction, but it is the jackpot. I didn’t ask for permission for anything either. I don’t need that on here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:06 PM
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Relationships are just a bad deal now. Even on this sub I've seen women admit to treating FWB better than boyfriends, so what is the point of commitment? Companionship would be nice but I even saw a poster literally say a guy "led her on" by "only wanting her for sex and companionship, instead of wanting me for me" (whatever that means) so I am not even going to bother. I will be pumping and dumping from here on out. If I have a kid, maybe I'll do something for the sake of the kid. But I'm not r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:34 PM
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This is the dream. I'm not getting married, period. I'm grinding to the point where I can do what I want with my money. And now that the market is skewed more heavily into the rich man's favor, I just need to keep grinding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:16 PM
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Did you miss: "If the answers to all of that are no, then there clearly isn't an attractive alternative that women will accept" This is the jackpot. You can have your cake and eat it too and claim you're being oppressed while also believing that you secretly run the world. Holding women to the same standards as men is clearly not going to be attractive either lol Men cannot even talk about this without it automatically being labeled as a complaint as well. I noted that the misandry is annoying, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:08 PM
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If you're a rich man with game, yeah, I'm sure it rocks. Women will throw themselves at you and you can fuck without giving commitment or risking anything in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:45 PM
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When are the men's roles going to become optional? Can I be effeminate and still be viable to a large pool of women for casual sex/relationships? Are women going to take more initiative in starting relationships by asking out men, paying for dates, and pushing for sex/commitment early? Is my financial "standard" going to decrease now that women are making more money? Can I be less confident and ambitious and still get taken care of by a loving woman and have it not be a pipe-dream? If the answer…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:32 PM
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Where were the complaints?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:56 PM
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Ehh, not necessarily homely. Average American dude is around 5’8” or so and makes around 40-50K/year. Average women, not even talking about just the attractive ones, are not searching for that at all. The above description is considered “settling.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:06 PM
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Not saying it was a bad thing. I just wrote it in a way to shed light on the reality that women do not have to bring much to the table to get relationships –– and even with high value men (however, I'm assuming you are at least pretty attractive). It just substantiates the idea that men are pretty simple in what they want from women: beauty (even that is negotiable to an extent), intimacy, and companionship. But on the other hand, just writing about him felt like a novel and then your resume fel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:41 PM
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So you essentially had nothing to offer to a high value man besides companionship and intimacy, realized it, and then caused him to leave you due to insecurity after he tried to meet you halfway? At least you didn't say he was abusive and painted him a good light. But this is textbook alpha widow stuff and substantiates a lot of what the RPers have been saying about the sexual marketplace. The saddest thing is, it seems like the guy genuinely didn't care and wanted to be with you until you pushe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:28 PM
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It's never "ALL." I said "many" anyways. Many women are intimidated by confident and successful men too and don't even bother with them. MANY women want a beta male they can manipulate that can provide for them. The whole "my money is my money, your money is OUR money" spiel, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:17 PM
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It's actually hilarious. They split the groups by age for sexual inactivity and then lump everyone together for overall sexual activity. Of course this would be the PPD hot study for the crazies. The manipulation is apparent and it's long enough (39 pages) to where you can claim someone didn't read unless they analyze it like a scientist or something lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:08 PM
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If you’ve been in relationships where you have had access to consistent sex and companionship with a woman and still watched porn, perhaps the urge isn’t as easily satiated like you implied
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:51 PM
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If you have been in relationships and watched porn, I don’t want to see your emojis breh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:44 PM
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Batshit crazy and not worth responding to further.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:03 PM
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And in this comment thread, I replied to this: “The truth of what? If a guy really felt ugly, he wouldnt use tinder.” I’m taking a break from you. Waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:57 PM
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You’re being intentionally daft if having multiple dating accounts did not imply using multiple sites. You’re just being disingenuous. YOU named Tinder in a post I replied to and are blaming me for not naming others. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:55 PM
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Pretty sure I mentioned using other dating apps. I don’t have to name all of them to make that point. I used Tinder because the comment I replied to was one where YOU said Tinder. I get it, you have nothing. Don’t need to reply further.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:47 PM
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You can slide the scale down two numbers. Point remains. Men will pursue the prettiest but will stick around (i.e. take seriously or marry) with a less attractive woman with better interpersonal skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:46 PM
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I don’t think casting a wide net means just using Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:42 PM
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That is a worthless comment. Of course men have to work to be attractive. But they don’t have to wait until they have abs to try Tinder either — they can workout and keep Tinder around in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:30 PM
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It’s a numbers game lmfao. Not necessarily lazy. Just like generating passive income, generating leads passively only helps increase the odds. Look at what you even posted before. You haven’t met a dude off Tinder EVER. So why not have multiple dating accounts? Men generally have to cast a wide net. Privilege is invisible to those that have it. That attitude is just indicative of the general lack of awareness to the male existence in the sexual marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:20 PM
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Patently false. Dudes just want a chance and Tinder is an easy way to get leads passively.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:17 PM
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I don’t even know where self-control came here. There’s a difference between simping and fucking a chick that made it easy for you like in the previous thought experiment. Dudes aren’t going to blame a guy for shagging a less than reputable chick in a drought. You’re going elsewhere, which is understandable, because you can’t tackle that. Maybe, having sex is hard for guys from 12-17 because they don’t know what they’re doing? Kids those age are watching tons of porn and jerking off to crazy ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:49 PM
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I think if women got a shot of testosterone they’d understand how a male’s sexual appetite may work to some degree. It may not be a need but it is an insatiable biological imperative. That’s why dudes take what they can get sexually because sex isn’t a buffet for most men. On the other hand, women can deny a ham sandwich and hold out for another option because they are at the buffet. And just because you don’t like most of the food doesn’t mean you can’t eat it. You have the luxury of choice. Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:42 PM
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Because he’s fucking hungry and beggars can’t be choosers. Even in a thought experiment you cannot play fair and stick to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:31 PM
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lol is that even a thing? Most men know they aren’t the prettiest or have the biggest dick a woman has been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:20 PM
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Those broke, ugly, low ambition men likely use a shotgun approach to get women and many men do not have the confidence or persistence and most importantly, the time, to use that approach. Which is why many men just stop pursuing. Especially since they can be liable for sexual harassment because women in general campaigned against men they didn’t want. Now less men in general are approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:09 PM
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The group was added to the post, hun. It was there longer than 6 minutes (aka before you posted that). If you are young and not some savant, consistent sex is very difficult. Money equalizes that and that explains the evening out as the age increases. Any my question is, if they did shorter age group breakdowns for inactivity, why expand the pool to 18-44 for the other stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:59 PM
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What is the standard of having sex btw? If I get laid once in a year, do I get to claim I'm "having sex" or does consistency factor into the equation? If consistency is a part of it, my point stands wholeheartedly. If the former, that is a very low bar to prove your point. Getting laid is colloquially referred to "getting lucky" for men for a reason. Lmao, the sexual inactivity graph in that study is kinda funny too. Over 30% of men aged 18-24 reported compared to less than 20% for women. And we…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:39 PM
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"Most of today's incels are men" does not mean "Most adult men are incels."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:32 PM
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Most men are not dating and having sex LOL. Most men are struggling and you probably do not even see them. Most of today's incels are men. There is a higher bar for men to get relationships and sex than there is for women. Period. Average women do not want average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:43 PM
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You really think men don't find interesting and confident women attractive? Those are qualities that are generally found attractive by most people. Men generally do not like masculine women, and there's a difference between being masculine and being confident. Still, there remains a minimum physical attraction requirement for men AND women. Many men will go for an 8 who is interesting rather than an annoying 10. The latter is not worth the headache after getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:37 PM
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Umm no, I’m just saying if men had the same requirements women had for them, society would be in trouble. Not even talking about physicals here. Women do not need to be confident or interesting to field suitors. You’re joking if you believe that reality hasn’t stunted the personal growth of many attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:58 PM
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I'm curious, why did you even post this? I spoke exclusively on generalities and then you tried to insinuate that I'm boring and nervous around women...lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:14 PM
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I think this would be phrased better as: "If women had to compete in dating like men do just to become sexually viable..." There are hardly any women who go without ANY attention from men (approaching, talking, social media, etc.). When women have to deal with a man's reality in the dating world, it's typically when it's late in the game (mid-30s) so it's largely a matter of imagination. Imagine telling women they had to become interesting and confident to get sex, we'd be in HUGE trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:18 PM
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This is why you don't get married, guys. Marriage is the woman's safety net from a guy monkey branching when he finally gets the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:47 PM
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Any dude that capitulates to an ultimatum, undoubtedly, is settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:38 AM
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Ehh, fuck it. I'm playing the women's game regardless. I'm winning in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:28 PM
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Free attention, validation, an abundance of men in line for you as an ego booster, instagram follows, venmo/cashapp payments. Oh, and some may be worthy of fucking or dating eventually. Plenty of reasons to just have one. It's literally easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:14 PM
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That already is the advice. I know women don't care about men's feelings but imagine how it'd feel if you were working towards success with little to no positive feedback in your personal life. It would be draining. You would wonder why you are working so hard for no rewards (money without positive social experiences just doesn't cut it). And despite that, everyone tells you to shut up and and work anyway because no one cares. Women talk such a big game, but c'mon, at least pretend to be empathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:09 PM
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Is that even a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:32 PM
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Take notes, gentlemen. They will sell their souls for a high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:48 PM
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You’d rather be used, understood
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:41 PM
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Yup. And I implore guys to apply the same logic. Think about the hottest chick you fucked, dated, or even had a good approach with. You can get another on that level. Don’t take women’s bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:08 PM
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Honestly, social media just changed the landscape entirely. Many men who would have been acceptable in their area are now generally invisible because social media and dating apps have globalized the sexual marketplace. It's not even that most men are ugly and not worth dating, it's just now a lot of these women have access to top tier men and once they experience that they are not going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:49 PM
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Thanks for revealing yourself. I'll spell quote the post for you: "I have to use a different phone number on Tinder because I got banned in 2 hours after posting my venmo link on there. Fucking haters lmao" What would this imply? Because you need help, I'll elaborate further: I saw many women post their cashapp and venmo link on their profiles (which was also mentioned in the original post) and did the same. 2 hours later, my account was banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:23 PM
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What concerning human social dynamics is universally true?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:21 PM
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It wasn't what I said. How about you scroll up and read.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:16 PM
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The only thing I "complained" about was getting banned within 2 hours for playing the same game as the women. Tinder is not worth spending time analyzing every profile. Most of the time, I do not even look and just swipe and move on. Many men do the same thing. And as a guy, generating leads is how the game is played.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:11 PM
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Swiping left is the default for women. Swiping right is the default for men. Nothing profound.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:08 PM
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They don't even make profiles for the most part, just pictures and "I don't know why I'm doing this." There is no way you're going to tell me that a full inbox and hundreds of matches isn't an ego booster.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:56 PM
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Ehh, most guys are looking for sex. Most women are looking for attention and validation. It's just way easier for women to get what they want and they have NO reason to care about men they aren't attracted to. Women are literally just making profiles to give themselves the idea of tons of dudes getting in line for them. They also just post their IG mostly for followers and some even post their venmo and cashapp. But let's be real, many dudes just mindlessly swipe because it's mostly a waste of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:42 PM
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Yeah, this is pretty much where I'm at.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:56 PM
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Dude, the Redpill sub is quarantined and FDS isn't. Redpill isn't going mainstream because there are a lot of societal pressures and mechanisms to suppress it as much as possible. If most dudes were redpilled, women would be VERY upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:28 PM
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Absolutely nothing. I just browse this sub to "challenge what I believe." I have yet to see anything particularly encouraging.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:20 PM
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I'm at the point where I have no idea if there is a woman out there for me. All this stuff on the web indicates that love isn't real and completely conditional anyway. I have no intention of settling down and I am just trying to raise my value to be able to do what I want. But I'll be damned if I am going to put in all this work at my job and the gym for years to go home to a chick that I'm not attracted to. Get the fuck out of here. I want a damn reward for the work I put in and I did not get s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:41 PM
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I think what made KS blow up is giving actual insight on how women think about men from their own mouths. For me — I just needed to see it for myself. Removing the veil was both elucidating and cathartic. I just do a lot of things differently now. I am so thankful I am a man and have more time to get what I want in this world. I think the videos on male self-improvement having low views is kinda a good thing. He literally gives away competitive advantages and many men are too lazy to just sit th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:05 AM
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Modern women: "Blah blah blah, I'm not listening!" No wonder Kevin Samuels is blowing up. Women definitely care about race too. Stop the cap. I addressed the immutable traits that men have to deal with. You don't care. I did not even ask for empathy in that post. You didn't read. I did not "beg for understanding," I simply stated the current status of vocalized standards in this society. Short dudes get play too. But depending on my words, suddenly one can sense the size of my penis via "energy.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:17 AM
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I've banged chicks taller than me. I don't care what they think about my dick or if it looks bigger in their hands or whatever. I just care about having sex in that moment. Maybe, perhaps, guys are telling you what you want to hear. Guys will behave in public in ways that are auspicious to getting laid (if they actually know how to get laid). A big part of that is telling women what they want to hear. Sure, smaller girls may be easier to fuck but taller chicks like getting choked and spanked too…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:01 AM
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Men are judged ruthlessly by their immutable traits. That is just something men have to learn to accept. They just focus on other things to make up for them. Women are consistently coddled by society regardless of their traits. Shame is doled out against anyone who "tells the truth." Men cannot even be honest without getting cancelled and shamed for it. There is a comment where EVEN THE OP said a commenter "must have a big dick" when he said he didn't mind taller girls. You cannot make this shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:30 PM
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Let's be real. I'll posit the idea that men across the board collectively raised their standards and absolutely refused to fuck or give attention to the average women. Society would be in HUGE trouble with women suffering a SEVERE mental health/suicide crisis. The government likely would step in and find ways to get men to start fucking "average at best" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:22 PM
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Start posting screencaps or stop the cap
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:11 PM
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Women are not going to change. They just do not like hearing about their strategy because it makes them look cutthroat and selfish. Additionally, modern society has provided a myriad of ways to circumvent men (i.e. welfare, birth control, police, etc.). Why would you need a man if you make good money? Why would you need a man if you can call on the police if you need protection? Why would you need to change if no one holds you accountable? You can be a 600lb woman and there is still a guy that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 07:47 PM
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The mind is the ultimate thing for me. I don't think I'm as confident as I should be. Maybe it's inexperience or whatever. But I've had abs and felt ugly. I don't have them now and feel I look the best I've ever been. I'll take that in mind when it comes to texting. But I'm not collecting numbers yet, the ones I've recently gotten were the woman's idea which is what puzzles me. So maybe I should be building more rapport or just asking them out quicker. I still gotta figure it out but I'm gonna t…
/r/seduction17/10/17 12:00 AM
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Yeah loving my diet is what makes me stick to it and helped me shed a lot of weight. Probably 40lbs since May alone. I can see my abs at the gym on a pump and I'm walking around shirtless in the house again. It's coming. And it's working. And it's great. And I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything. Just be aware of what you're putting in your body - and there's a certain confidence that comes with knowing your body well, at least for me.
/r/seduction16/10/17 11:27 PM
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What I did was get MFP and a food scale. I eat the same things most of the week so I logged what I was putting in and adjusted based on the caloric intake and what I thought I needed in terms of macros. Once I kinda just knew what I was eating almost every day I just started eating 'normally' without logging everything and exercising almost every day. It's tough but the root of dedication is desire. You have to want to change, and sneaking in snacks to cheat just means you don't really want it.
/r/seduction16/10/17 10:21 PM
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I've lost a lot of weight too (70lbs working on getting to 90lbs or at least abs) and I started paying more attention to fitness/nutrition/fashion and more importantly positive (and confident) thinking and I definitely have noticed a difference. But I'm not sure if I'm aware or actually getting positive indicators often, but that doesn't necessarily matter. Yes, always assume attraction. Maybe there's something about my game though I'm having a lot of trouble getting from numbers to dates.
/r/seduction16/10/17 10:17 PM
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Suddenly I remember being at a part and having a girl I was talking to ask me if I wanted to get something to eat out of nowhere. And I just flat out said I wasn't hungry. I just never assumed that it could have been a sign back then. Part of this process for me is getting into the mindset that women do want to be with me and that some of the "nonsense" you hear is supposed to trigger a..."oh" moment in your head as a time to escalate. Still have a lot to learn but I'll keep these in mind.
/r/seduction16/10/17 09:15 PM
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Maybe if you have nerves and a drink will ease you, but if you think you're smooth when you're drunk you are mistaken.
/r/seduction12/10/17 10:11 PM
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:)
/r/seduction12/10/17 10:08 PM
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I feel like this is my biggest weakness so far so I'm reading up on this and the other texting guides and while I'm over the whole "it needs to be perfect" idea, I just haven't found myself able to get any further through text. In person I can do a pretty decent job but it's like everything I did in person goes out the window in like a text or two. Hopefully these things will help. I think I'm being too forward partially but I'm not entirely sure. Maybe they just weren't as interested in me as I…
/r/seduction09/10/17 11:34 PM
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It's not that I'm looking for rejection. It's just that it doesn't really matter to me anymore. Moreso, I'm sure most of the women I approach or talk to are great people to some degree. But I don't really know them personally and it doesn't mean that much if they reject me since I'm sure I can find another interesting woman later on. Hard rejections kinda just take me back for a second, but I laugh, and compared to the time where I would just ignore or not say anything to women. Now I'm being fo…
/r/seduction09/10/17 10:15 PM
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lowkey, no one really cares that much if you suck at dancing. Maybe just don't go for the spotlight but if you can have fun moving a little bit and not think about how you look you can have more fun with it. I try to limit my dancing too but having on go-to move that you know you can do is enough.
/r/seduction09/10/17 09:30 PM
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If you believe you aren't worthy, then there is a very good chance you'll make it so even if a woman is basically spelling it out for you that she wants you. And being attractive is hard work for most guys, just because it'll take too long doesn't mean you shouldn't start trying today. Motivation isn't what gets me going to the gym. I used to think it was dedication but lately I've found the root of dedication is "desire". You have to want to make a difference in your life. The body is probably …
/r/seduction07/10/17 08:18 PM
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I'm looking for some more friends too. But one key for me is I don't use lack of wingmen as an excuse to not even go out on weekends. You have money, live in a place with a lot of young people, and you're looking to improve. Why not go out and work on talking with people while getting intel on the best bars/clubs nearby.
/r/seduction20/08/17 05:30 PM
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I need to read more, but I'd just add - try to internalize the positive and don't be so quick to assume negative things about yourself.
/r/seduction19/08/17 07:18 PM
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Don't make it about motivation. Make it about discipline. You want to get fit, go to the gym. Don't know what to do, check ask r/fitness but they'd probably put you on Starting Strength. "I'm weak and I don't want to embarrass myself." I really don't care what dudes are doing at the gym unless they're near my level or stronger than me. And even then I'm focused mostly on myself. If I see dudes benching the bar I just think you gotta start somewhere. And if I see fat people I at least think to my…
/r/seduction18/08/17 08:53 PM
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Have you played video games before? How many times did you roleplay or set yourself up as a coward or a wuss? Everyone admires confidence, it attracts, it inspires, and it awes. It's not just women who like it. You may be into sports, look how they market the leagues. The kind of passion that players exude draws people in. You know that feeling when you dominate some noobs in something? Imagine feeling like that regularly, not because you've done anything at that moment, but because you feel lik…
/r/seduction18/08/17 06:19 PM
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Just gonna say a couple things If you catch a woman side glancing with her peripherals at you, that's a plus. And if they say something that doesn't make much sense when it comes to getting alone, that's a pretty solid tell. Regardless use the experience to take notes, give yourself a boost, and try to be better.
/r/seduction18/08/17 01:36 PM
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They're not hot enough..., you should tell your dude that is even more reason to approach if he feels he has the upper hand. Might as well get some practice in and get used to feeling comfortable talking with women.
/r/seduction18/08/17 01:34 PM
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You know what's wild. I went out on a Thursday not feeling really great and for some reason I still managed to have a solid night talking to a few women, even had sisters fight over me. Like, when you just allow yourself to be comfortable with yourself when you're out, it's like a script sometimes.
/r/seduction18/08/17 06:48 AM
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I do that a lot. Not approaching anyone kinda sucks though, and maybe one day I'll be able to talk to a group of 4 on my own.
/r/seduction17/08/17 11:27 PM
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You know, a lot of that makes sense. I guess I gotta just figure out ways how to get numbers now. But I was just thinking about how women aren't just sticking around talking to me to be friendly all the time. I need to start thinking more that they are interested. I'm not sure if this would work at the gym though, any thoughts on that or is that strictly taboo? I really can only initiate if they are doing a workout I haven't seen before.
/r/seduction17/08/17 06:58 PM
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I just started going to salsa dance classes too. I haven't really thought about asking anyone out yet though since I'd like to learn how to dance but I took some time to meet people and this one lady whose husband didn't dance gave me an impromptu lesson since I came in late. My issue is just trying to stay cool since I sweat rather easily. I'm in a similar spot in shying away from past opportunities, but I simply wasn't ready and I think regretting that stuff is pointless since you can't go bac…
/r/seduction17/08/17 03:45 PM
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LOL my exact reaction Congrats, man.
/r/seduction17/08/17 03:39 PM
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Yeah I go out on my own a lot, I'm kind of surprised I've done some of what the guy said. Just wish he would provide a situation where people weren't all mostly out of their comfort zone looking for someone.
/r/seduction10/08/17 01:48 AM
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Well either way I need to get better. Just when I think my inner game is improving I just start ruminating on self-doubt
/r/seduction09/08/17 01:42 AM
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I was having one of my worst days in a long time and somehow stumbled on to this. It inspired me a bit. I hope to love myself sooner rather than later.
/r/seduction09/08/17 12:44 AM
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