HDMinh Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Escalating/Flirting with sexually-inexperienced and socially-awkward girls? Travel.	/r/seduction	22/12/14 03:36 PM
1	Keeping in touch over the break. You can't. NEXT !	/r/seduction	15/12/14 11:51 AM
2	When she asks "Is that ALL you called for/wanted?" In doubt, escalate.	/r/seduction	14/12/14 03:45 PM
0	[Question] Noob looking for advice for OKC date #2. a.1) Workout. a.2) Practice. b) Assume she is interested and act accordingly. In relationships, behaving as if something is true is a good way to make it happen.	/r/seduction	27/10/14 08:16 AM
1	First date. Went in for the hand holding. Bad? +1	/r/seduction	27/10/14 08:09 AM
1	Dick is too Shy? Yes, once with someone unusual.	/r/seduction	07/10/14 06:56 AM
1	[Rant] Someone once told me that starting off F closing more unattractive women will help me gain experience. All I feel is regret after trying this. Oh, so she did mean "tie me up". I understand, it takes love to do extra-ordinary things for someone.	/r/seduction	29/09/14 04:31 PM
4	lowering standards for experience I thing that you are an exception in setting the two standards "GF material" and "would have sex" at the same level. But if that works for you, good.	/r/seduction	29/09/14 06:03 AM
1	[Rant] Someone once told me that starting off F closing more unattractive women will help me gain experience. All I feel is regret after trying this. No comments on BDSM ? I think what she meant was "be dominant", not "tie me up". But that could have been your opportunity to learn/practice ass slapping, which is when done gently always should be surprising and exciting.	/r/seduction	29/09/14 03:49 AM
12	[Rant] Someone once told me that starting off F closing more unattractive women will help me gain experience. All I feel is regret after trying this. 3 times ? You are a gentleman ! You can't avoid poor experiences while learning. This investment will make the rest of your sex life better.	/r/seduction	28/09/14 09:26 AM
1	[Serious] How do you handle a 5+ girl rotation? Experienced guys only please When I GF hunt I do keep a notebook, just like when I visit houses for renting/buying. It helps. I also do have a folder on my computer with documents from my successive long term romantic interests. But this is just being ordered, like keeping a photo album for each year. I also have a folder with subfolders with the people I supervise at work.	/r/seduction	14/09/14 07:15 PM
0	Building the perfect bedroom to encourage repeat guests. What would you recommend? Add basic Feng Shui consideration: Balance the 5 elements, balance the male and female, make sure the Ki flows everywhere well, beware of hidden arrows. Seeing the door, not being next to the bathroom wall. There are plenty more things to consider.	/r/seduction	14/09/14 07:12 PM
1	Stagnating in pleasant/conversational mode instead of escalating to intimacy Play a duel game --tail/heads with a coin, mastermind, backgammon, whatever-- with the stake that the winner gets a kiss from the looser.	/r/seduction	04/09/14 03:53 PM
2	Values, Friend zones and double standards (Long post) r/nofap for you !	/r/seduction	30/08/14 07:09 PM
0	How do you know when to move in for a kiss? Online dating at 45. Opens second date directly with a peck (=very short kiss), or even first if the text game was clear.	/r/seduction	28/08/14 07:36 AM
2	This girl at my university said she wants to hang out and drink alone with me, but I have no place for solidarity. What do? In a forest is good. Near the water is better. Find a riverbank or a lakeside. Trespass into a park if need be, that will be even more fun. Or find a rooftop.	/r/seduction	27/08/14 08:41 AM
1	One year after reading 'Models,' life is a lot better, but.... I know I made all these changes solely to attract women. It is totally okay to use sexual energy to further your life. Read "The selfish gene", you will see that in fact reproduction is THE purpose of your life. If you disagree with Dawkins, it remains that sex is the most powerful motivator there is. Be proud of that you have succeeded in accessing that energy source. Keep it flowing for the rest of your life !	/r/seduction	14/08/14 07:16 PM
20	To those who do well on Tinder: Please share your pictures with us. hmmm. Do you know what a photographer does, professionally ?	/r/seduction	07/08/14 11:24 AM
1	[FR] Got froyo, tried to hold hands but it didn't work You can hold hands in two situations: social dancing, and established mutual relationship (lust or love). In the street, I would rather offer my arm to the lady than my hand - but only in cold weather.	/r/seduction	01/08/14 02:57 PM
2	[FR] Met a girl at a restaurant, K-Close with a near miss on F, need help with what to do next. The strategic idea was to force her to decide in the next few days, or next her. In anycase rebound relationships are expected to be short lived. If you assess that she does not sleep at date 2, have a fun timebridge activity on date 2 (dancing, riding, sailing, hiking...), then get her to your house for dinner on date 3 the next day.	/r/seduction	29/07/14 06:12 AM
1	Advice on handling being friendzoned She is now a pivot. Use her for social proof, get to know her friends.	/r/seduction	28/07/14 10:18 PM
2	[FR] Met a girl at a restaurant, K-Close with a near miss on F, need help with what to do next. Invite her home and cook something special this week.	/r/seduction	28/07/14 08:42 PM
1	Is it possible for a girl to lack game making escalation... bumpy? If unsure, make it clear verbally that her only work is to say no, and don't proceed if you feel that she has not the guts for that.	/r/seduction	28/07/14 12:12 PM
8	(Field Report) How I fucked up and what I learned from it Thanks for sharing. Everybody had a number of missed opportunities like these, but they are too rarely reported. I remember once a girl wanted to show me how to kiss, I was in her arms but turned her down uninterested. She was so unhappy for the rest of that trip :( Never had the opportunity to apologize to her, alas.	/r/seduction	28/07/14 11:59 AM
2	First date/First Kiss You are missing the other term of the alternative. Which is: "If I don't make this putt, you get one kiss". ...	/r/seduction	28/07/14 11:47 AM
2	Problem with some hot girls... Drink a beer. Imagine her in ridiculous situations. Warm-up by talking to friends and other girls. Apply the three seconds rule. Be compassionate to her beauty: it is fragile and won't last long (10-15 years ?), and may make some aspect her personal development harder for her (why should I work hard if I can have everything I want by asking men). Consider the real merits of what you see. Is she hot because young and protected from everything by mummy and daddy ? Or is she responsible for her hot…	/r/seduction	05/07/14 09:34 AM
1	[FR] Came to the beach alone, then had sex on the beach. Thanks for the link. And it's 0.04%.	/r/seduction	04/07/14 12:44 PM
21	[FR] Came to the beach alone, then had sex on the beach. glhf then	/r/seduction	03/07/14 06:16 PM
1	My dorm-neighbor's girlfriend [might have] hit on me. What's the right way to respond? (1) Talk to the BF first, bros before chicks ! Always flirt with everybody, for fun not to test any waters. Don't assume that she is still interested. (2) At this level of interest, you should have gone for first base directly, no talk. Stop conversation, strong and clear eye contact, come over here sign with the hand, make out.	/r/seduction	03/07/14 06:06 PM
38	[FR] Came to the beach alone, then had sex on the beach. No condoms ? Like to live dangerously ?	/r/seduction	03/07/14 05:45 PM
3	[FR] had an amazing first date; F-closed, afterwards nothing but flaking. (need some advice) The girl has a list of lovers and you are not top priority. She has good game so she does not need to keep any relationship. Advice: skip date, go for exciting sex. Ask if she prefers to do it ('to meet') at the motel/in the woods/by the river... whatever you yourself would find interesting and logistically convenient.	/r/seduction	01/07/14 09:07 AM
1	[FR] Finally went out of my comfort zone and approached a girl for the first time in my life. Alternate between - Playfully and gently tease her, because you are not needy and love is good with some spice - Sincere appreciation for what she has done / disclosing some of your personal story	/r/seduction	01/07/14 09:00 AM
0	Casual to LTR investment dilemma Use push/pull dynamics. Don't pull too much of course.	/r/seduction	01/07/14 08:54 AM
1	First approach in years... Nothing bad happened Congratulations, bro ! Keep training.	/r/seduction	30/06/14 08:15 AM
5	[FR] Finally went out of my comfort zone and approached a girl for the first time in my life. Congratulations, you rock ! It's time to text the sister to practice your push/pull, and go out together to explore the dating places around town. Another good place to meet people would have been with the volunteers serving the food.	/r/seduction	30/06/14 08:13 AM
1	[FR]: Never go out with a dead phone Rapport is a process of mutual discovery. You say something about yourself, she says something about herself. Then again, and each time it is something deeper, more personnal. Think of the conversation exchange doing a spiral, knowing deeper and deeper into each other.	/r/seduction	25/06/14 05:19 PM
2	The first kiss. I need help. My first kisses have always been ackward. Don't believe the movies too much. In real life, you need to do something several times with your partner before you know her preferences. Start with a short but early first kiss, debrief playfully, then repeat. You will improve in the field.	/r/seduction	25/06/14 03:57 PM
3	[FR]: Never go out with a dead phone Good game. I don't see the phone as an issue, you could have #losed with pen and paper (or pen and hand). Too much sexual escalation before the logistics were right ?	/r/seduction	25/06/14 03:45 PM
1	The game got boring. What next, seddit? Why don't you turn to power, money, real estate development, reproduction ? Or making the world a better place ?	/r/seduction	23/06/14 10:46 PM
1	[Tinder match] - How to keep interest when you'll meet her in a week? When you chat, remember to alternate pushes and pulls.	/r/seduction	23/06/14 07:29 PM
1	Have you had any success with a dating site? So true !	/r/seduction	23/06/14 07:24 PM
2	Having a great convo w/hb on okc every was going great until.... Age is totally irrelevant. Steer the conversation on "so what do WE want to do for OUR first date ?". Agree on the theme. Find a day you are both available. Give her a meeting place and time. THEN swap numbers.	/r/seduction	22/06/14 06:18 PM
1	Practicing game on a girl that already rejected you Don't be cruel.	/r/seduction	18/06/14 08:25 PM
1	Today I Bitched Out Go to dance class !	/r/seduction	17/06/14 08:08 PM
1	Is this oneitis? Or my Game is not good enough? Need advice. Iam, You are right to try to avoid falling in love before making love. You will now take your responsibilities and escalate because she wants it. It is your duty as a man to entertain her physical desire, up and including to being the best lover of her week/month/year/life ! Doing this you will keep in mind that the outcome is irrelevant, all fun is in the gaming, living the present moment to the fullest. Three cheers to you bro !	/r/seduction	17/06/14 08:06 PM
1	[FR] My first time approach with a HB9 She SAID she had a boyfriend.	/r/seduction	17/06/14 06:32 PM
3	[FR] First daygaming ever. Girl working in a small toystore. Went ok-ish Hand holding is significant. Checking jewerly is much easier to start, IMHO rings are practically meant to allow a man to take the woman's hand.	/r/seduction	15/06/14 10:16 AM
11	[FR] First daygaming ever. Girl working in a small toystore. Went ok-ish What about kino ?	/r/seduction	14/06/14 05:43 PM
1	Next Move after #-closing Beware that if you offer a specific place and time for the date it may not fit her agenda. It may be easier to find a common open slot in your schedules if you offer three choices of time period where you are available.	/r/seduction	14/06/14 04:58 PM
1	First Solo Night Game Report - Notes and Advice Needed Congratulations on your first night out. Seems you learned an important fact that I never understood: that nightlife starts after midnight. Maybe it is meant to exclude people who actually have a real life ?	/r/seduction	14/06/14 04:54 PM
7	Hesitating to have sex It is time you become an adult.	/r/seduction	14/06/14 08:09 AM
1	How do you actually f-close? There is no magic formula that works everytime, keep trying. You may also try dating and aim to lay on the second or third day. F-closing on the same evening is likely to lead to a one night stand. A regular sex partner will lead to more frequent practice and progress. Regarding your escalation: do you get to second and third base before the pull ?	/r/seduction	11/06/14 07:21 AM
2	How do you balance ABC and girls being genuinely busy? Scheduling is a collaborative process. Work together on coordinating your agendas ! 1/ Agree to date and a theme (icecream, show, park...) 2/ Offer three time windows 3/ If none is feasible for the other party, it is up to her to make a counter proposition. 4/ Work out the specifics: place, hour, dress code. 5/ Swap phone numbers. These skills are going to be useful when you work IRL http://blogs.hbr.org/2011/03/scheduling-a-meeting-the-right/	/r/seduction	09/06/14 10:33 AM
2	How To Get Girls Interested In A Threesome And why not ? Depending on where OP lives or travel, he can achieve one of his life goals for way less than $200. Admitedly that would have nothing to do with "luck" or "seduction", and "interested" will be in a different meaning than OP intended. Otherwise the scenario that happened to me confirms what is said above on girls power. I was once called by an ex who was with another woman and they both wanted a male part.	/r/seduction	06/06/14 10:17 AM
1	Rules different for those of us in our late 30's early 40's? After 40 the roles are reversed, the average man has higher sexual value than the average woman. Thus you can be choosy. It is okay to aim to pick up partners who are as rich, good looking, smart and funny as you are. And let us not talk about extra-easy mode, where in this world a few bills gets you young and beautifull bodies.	/r/seduction	04/06/14 12:36 PM
1	Rules different for those of us in our late 30's early 40's? 45 here. Yes, the rules are different. You have to play in hardmode, otherwise it is way too easy.	/r/seduction	02/06/14 07:40 PM
1	It appears I have hit another wall. Take dance classes. Go out.	/r/seduction	14/05/14 08:27 PM