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| 3 | I decided to leave blackpill and incel communities. I have a plan to feel better AND look betterAgreed - LLMs are *word guessers*. They don't know how to make a gym program, they know how to guess what words you want to hear in what order. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/05/26 09:47 PM |
| 15 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillThis is an ex red pill sub. No one cares what specific flavor of it you gobble up. "Red pill" is a grift. They find young guys who don't yet know how things work and convince them that they are sub-human (which is BS), and that their "lack of success" is a dire problem that is the fault of everyone but them (but especially women). They don't mention that no one has "success" as a teen, because that is when we learn how to move through the world through mostly trial and error. They don't mention … | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 06:35 PM |
| 11 | Why do you think relationships don't last as long as they used to?That's ridiculous. First of all, men are not "becoming more feminized", whatever that is supposed to mean. A lot of men have grown past all the performative "masculinity" nonsense, which is a good thing. It must be exhausting to think you need to be something specific in order to be attractive, especially when the thing you are being told to imitate is not what most women desire. Second, your premise assumes that every woman is attracted to what "masculinity gurus" (ugh) see as "manly man" types… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/26 07:29 PM |
| 6 | Why do you think relationships don't last as long as they used to?Says who? Compared to when? What is your *real* question here? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/26 07:16 PM |
| 7 | An extroverted woman can fall in love with an introverted or shy man.Been married to an introvert with ASD for 16 years, and I am an extrovert (mostly). Why would you think we "couldn't be compatible"? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 07:17 PM |
| 15 | What's a good way to get rid of loneliness in life?You don't have to "deal with it forever" - you need to find your people. They are out there. You are not inherently so especially unlikeable that people are universally turned off by spending time with you, I promise. There are things that, if you do them, your people won't even want to hang out with you, but that's a choice, not some kind of "I am doomed to loneliness forever by the universe" stuff. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/26 05:38 PM |
| 34 | The Red Pill and Narcissistic MothersThe way you are spamming the pro life sub about how feminism is a cancer and we should “undo” the sexual revolution along with a bunch of medical misinformation tells me you are not someone who should be giving ex red pill folks ANY advice. I mean, all you do all day is post misogynist vitriol all day. Maybe you should dig into why that’s a big part of your life if you are “ex red pill”? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/25 12:57 PM |
| 6 | how did humor play a role in your subscription to red-pill beliefs?I am reading a book called "Men Who Hate Women" (it's an exploration of how men get there, not a hit piece on the men that are sucked into it). It has a pretty good summarization of how incel/manosphere content metastitizes to more mainstream parts of the internet and other media, then into regular discourse, especially with young guys. It's an incredibly sad (and informative, and infuriating) read. The chapters are divided up by different subcultures of the manopshere, political adoption of the… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/25 06:58 PM |
| 12 | Scared of not finding another girlfriend due to luck or fate – if they existNo to all of that. No woman who has solid self esteem wants to date a guy whose whole worldview depends on her (you have NO social outlet except her), and constantly soothing his ego (giving into his “irresistible neediness”). No healthy woman wants to date someone who can’t handle basic socialization (even in a social environment), so he puts women he doesn’t know at all on the spot by hitting on them in inappropriate settings (meditation class, yoga). No healthy woman wants to date a guy who h… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/10/25 11:49 AM |
| 10 | Showcasing men’s personalityRight? That's like saying that Tinder should just eliminate bios and you have to go off looks alone. Plus, there is no way to "guarantee they can't use an LLM to cheat" - by the time any solution is in place, people are already figuring out how to get past it. That being said, some guys lie online about who they are, what they want, and how they act. Therefore, it would be no different than any other dating app, right? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/25 06:01 PM |
| 18 | Does tea app proves the red pillers are right about false rape accusationsWHAT?!?! How would the existence of a "report your shitty ex so other girls can avoid him" app *prove* that women make false rape accusations? If you don't have a great answer for that, I am going to assume you are a fully terrible individual. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/25 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Feeling Stuck After Doing the Work: Short, Bald, Ethnic, and Still Struggling with Self-PerceptionIt's not mostly external, I promise you. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/25 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Any YouTube channel that gives good advice on dating and relationships?What do you think you are going to learn from a Youtube influencer type? That isn't a snide question, I am asking in good faith. I am curious what you are looking for. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/06/25 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Any YouTube channel that gives good advice on dating and relationships?There is no correct thing to do. Women are all different. And if you feel like you need a video to tell you not to be controlling, clingy, obsessive, or rude, you don't. You know these things are harmful to your goal, so why do it? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/06/25 08:14 PM |
| 5 | Any YouTube channel that gives good advice on dating and relationships?No. You don't need advice from someone who has a vested interest in you believing certain things (if they helped you succeed, you wouldn't need them anymore). | /r/ExRedPill | 06/06/25 08:04 PM |
| 30 | People here have said many times that according to OkCupid's research, while women think that the majority of men are less attractive than average, they are still less picky than men with who they message, but according to ChatGPT this isn't true according to the studyChatGPT literally fed back to you what you wanted to hear, which is literally what it is programmed to do. Seriously? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/25 02:31 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to decenter women as a man?You need to find people you like and hang out with them regularly, which allows them to get to know you and you to get to know them. That's how everyone makes friends, introverted or extroverted. Nobody starts out as best friends, that develops over time. If people don't get a chance to get to know you, how do you expect for anyone to go, "hey, this guy is great. he's fun, respectful, and hilarious. I love hanging out with him. I wonder if this could be something more?" Women aren't machines tha… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/25 06:11 PM |
| 22 | I feel so stupidDude - you should be celebrating. Do you know how many guys *never* snap out of it? You were able to see through the bullshit within *days* - grifters are out there selling that shit HARD to guys these days, and some of it is pretty well hidden in "normal" videos (my partner is into F1 racing, and YT floods him with red pill crap right after he watches highlights - and he is as far from that world as is humanly possible). When things have seemed to cool off a bit and everyone is calm, tell her t… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/05/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to doThis is literally just dating. It's not "modern dating" - everyone has always gone through breakups, sometimes ones they didn't want. People are highly unlikely to stay together with the first person who says something nice to them - it's just not how it works. For example - in highschool (I am 45...ugh!) I was not super-popular, but I never hurt for guys that wanted to date me. But I only had eyes for this one guy - he was like...everything. He was a good friend, but because he was blind, he ha… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/25 02:56 PM |
| 17 | Confession time: Telling a girl I liked her after years stuck in the ManosphereThat's awesome - you didn't lose anything here, you gained a trusted friend that you know you can speak plainly with. Even after all of the awkwardness you spoke of, she was totally cool and reassured you that she values you in her life. That's a great outcome. Congrats! I'm proud of you. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/05/25 04:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about Tracey Chapman and David buss? Its favorite study by redpillNope. Not even slightly. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/25 11:42 AM |
| 9 | So how should men conduct themselves?In real healthy relationships, there aren't games. There aren't "ways to present yourself so that you attract more women". You don't want "more women", you want women that are a good match for you. I am really curious how red pill helped you. I doubt it has, but I am always open to changing my mind (seriously). Have you been in healthy, long-lasting relationships (regardless of how "exclusive" or "committed" they are)? Do women love to hang out with you, even when neither of you is interested in… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/25 07:48 PM |
| 8 | Telling my father I hate him on a genetic levelThat is REALLY gross, dude. I can't even get my head around the kind of person you would have to be to yell at your father about *passing on his genes*. Why should you be treated with sympathy for being the way you are, but your father, *who is in the same boat as you* deserves your hate and vitriol? It's not a wonder you have trouble finding people to hang around with you, this is peak cruelty and self-focus. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/25 07:35 PM |
| 15 | According to these female psychologists, women lose sexual attraction to men who treat them well, are respectful and believe in equality, and instead desire more masculine, toxic men - thoughts?This is the most ridiculous shit I have heard today, and that is saying something. Well, maybe second most ridiculous. This a person talking about people who are in couple's therapy for marital issues. Their marriages are already in trouble so of course things aren't going well. This is one person's very sexist, very messed up take on these kinds of marriages. Frankly, she shouldn't be seeing patients, especially not couples. Nothing this person said was backed up by facts that proved her conclu… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/25 10:10 PM |
| 12 | Fresh and Fit Touring Campuses now spouting women deserve less nonsense..I did the same thing, so don't feel bad. I was like, "wait, he has totally changed his tune somehow?" and then...no. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/25 12:21 AM |
| 16 | I constantly hear this about friendzoningRight? In fact I specifically was attracted to my partner, in part, because he is respectful, supportive, open-minded, curious, compassionate, and other so-called "non-manly" *max eyeroll incoming* traits. Wait...do we...not exist? ;) | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/25 01:22 PM |
| 6 | I constantly hear this about friendzoningFirst off, friendzoning is not a thing, unless you see being friends with women as some kind of "consolation prize" for not getting laid by them as opposed to...an actual friendship. THIS line of thinking is why fake "nice guys" have a bad reputation - it's because they act like they want to be friends with a woman in order to try to weasel themselves into her pants, then they get irate at her when she isn't into it. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/25 01:16 PM |
| 0 | Red pill has completely ruined my dating lifeYou think it would, but that is assuming a lot. - it assumes that the apology you receive is sincere and actually about making you feel better, rather than making themselves feel less guilty about what they did - it assumes that you would get the exact apology you want, and not "I'm sorry you took it that way" or the like - it assumes that you will be in an emotional place to deal with this person bringing back up the trauma you suffered by insisting on apologizing If you are talking about "trau… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/04/25 12:09 AM |
| 5 | I can’t believe I was 15 taking advice from 40 year old men.I second that. You seem like you have a good head on your shoulders and you saw your way through the bullshit. You are already ahead of many. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/25 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Red pill has completely ruined my dating lifeI would not cause this girl anymore trauma by “apologizing” to her. It sounds like you understand that there is no way to fix this, and more contact might make it worse. However, you don’t sound like you have taken a lot of responsibility for your choices here. You were posting online about women not being trustworthy, but you got into a relationship with a woman who obviously didn’t know you felt that way. That was your choice to manipulate her by omission. You claim that you went back to consu… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/25 04:23 PM |
| 9 | Opinions about certain dating coachesWhy do you need an online dating coach that literally doesn’t even connect with or know you enough to give you anything but clickbait-y, BS-riddled ads for their “services”. These are grifters, and they have always been grifters. You don’t need advice from grifters. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/25 12:10 PM |
| – | Questions for an articleGenerally if you are actually writing an article, you give your credentials and a clear outline of what you are looking for. What is this being done for? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/04/25 06:49 PM |
| 20 | Still believe that women will leave for betterI am glad to hear my husband and I are not the only goofballs that do cute little things like that ("tell me I'm pretty"). If these guys only knew what a real, strong relationship looked like, they would realize how much they are shooting themselves in both feet with this pill nonsense. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/25 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Men who want to changePorn addiction is not an actual thing in itself - there is no DSM entry for porn addiction. That being said, there are several recent studies that actually prove that the perception of "porn addiction" has more to do with high levels of religiosity and the highly specific moral standards that come with subscribing to organized religion. https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2020/02/religious-moral-porn-addiction I am not saying that nobody should be religious - that's ridiculous, and not my ca… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/25 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Things that annoy meBe careful that you are not generalizing women in your pursuit of pushing back. For example - I do not “love flowers, fashion, makeup” by virtue of being female. Some women do, sometimes due to years of gendered socialization, sometimes due to their legitimate preferences. But there are plenty of us that are not “girly”, and it’s not helpful to push back on misogyny with more misogyny. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/25 03:58 PM |
| 20 | How do you actually NOT do something with intend ?So you never do anything for anyone just because you want them to have a better day? You've never gotten your friend a soda when they couldn't afford it, or loaned out your favorite game, or donated to an animal rescue? That is really sad if its true. Human relationships are mostly not transactional, and if that is how you operate, you will have trouble connecting with most people. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/25 07:48 PM |
| 19 | ChatGPT (4o) is Red Pilling my 17yo nephew. He’s changing. Please help and explain why GPT is saying these things if they’re not true - I’m at a lossAI is trained by specific people who ingrain their biases in the process. It is not necessarily intentional, but it is pervasive. That kid should not be using ChatGPT to learn about people, and if you are close enough to them to have copies of all of their queries and answers, you should have a long talk about why using ChatGPT for actual knowledge (and not just summarizing documents, for example) is dangerous. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/25 03:27 PM |
| 8 | Many women are attracted to psychopathic personality traits according to studyDid you ACTUALLY READ THE STUDY? This study was essentially useless, but it also doesn't prove what you think it does. They essentially proved that this one time, with these specific people (in Brazil), the women happened to be more attracted to guys who happened to also have higher levels of psychopathic *traits* - not that they "fell in love with psychopaths" (they didn't actually bring people in that are diagnosed with ASPD or anything, these are regular guys off the street). Not to mention, … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/25 02:50 PM |
| 15 | Is it true that women really do like bad boys and that nice guys finish last?“Not my strong suit” =/= impossible. It may be uncomfortable to you, but that doesn’t mean you give up. I married a man with ASD, and he struggles with socializing. Did I have to do most of the talking for a bit until he was comfortable? Yep. But we had lots to talk about, because he had an interesting life that he had lived on his own, and so did I. You need to push through the fear and find your people. Not women - just people you can be yourself with. Then you can worry about dating. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/25 01:11 PM |
| 10 | I need help deprogrammingIf you are sure the arguments are BS, why in the world would you want to keep believing these awful, hurtful things? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/25 10:23 PM |
| 6 | Why are men who have never had sex painted as right-wing misogynists?Nobody is painting all men who haven’t had sex as incels. After all, how would I know you have never had sex if you didn’t tell me? Guys who incessantly talk about how they “cant get laid” and claim “I don’t hate/blame women” (as though that’s a normal thing to have to say) and then talk about the fact that they get physically ill seeing happy couples…those are incels. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/25 05:24 PM |
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