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CMVHMosadek/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:55 PM
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Why would you have to link personal contacts? If it isn’t extremely unusual, you should be able to find numerous examples online. Link one or two of these 250lb baddies here for everyone to look at, should be super easy to prove us wrong..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:11 PM
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Okay, we’ll say 5’9 then- literally the maximum end range of the numbers you gave. It is still equally as ridiculous. With 7 billion people on the planet, surely there’s thousands of attractive, non-obese women that you could find online weighing that much at that height. Link a few maybe? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:04 PM
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5’4, 250lbs, and not obese?! 😭😭 This person has to look extremely cartoonish- perhaps even more a physical marvel than Cbum or Prime Arnold. Nevertheless, if you are being truthful, you’ve found an extreme outlier so rare it isn’t worth considering at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:56 PM
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Show me, right now, an example of a 250 lbs woman that consistently has a fitness routine, eats healthy, etc.. If she was doing those, she wouldn’t be 250 lbs for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:47 PM
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The national rate is around 42%… So maybe not the norm, but close to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:42 PM
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Idk, I personally think even things like the way my girlfriend makes me feel around her is a benefit. She’d probably be upset if I told her it wasn’t one, that would be a little rude. That benefit is one of the main reasons I enjoy being with her. I don’t go about my life autistically thinking about this in the most transactional way imaginable- there’s no excel chart weighing this over something like money I spend on her.. but at the end of the day it’s a benefit, transactional, whatever you wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:52 PM
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Yeah.. and could we not say those things are benefits they are providing to you? You essentially just said it’s the core benefit, the whole purpose! And I agree :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:42 PM
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Sorry for snapping at you bro. Appreciate sharing and I’ll consider your words. Hope things are good now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:35 PM
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? You are fucking weird bro. Keep that same energy when she’s with me forever and you die a sad lonely virgin wasting all his time critiquing anonymous relationships online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:04 PM
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Don’t we all choose people based on the benefits you get from them? Whether it’s “superficial” things like gifts, clothes, status, or less superficial like the way they make you feel when you’re with them, it’s ultimately all choosing someone for benefits. Finding the person who adds the most to your life is the whole point isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:00 PM
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Extremely well-put bro. I used to think it was basically the most & only important thing, until I met someone with a semi-high count (by my standards anyways) that I couldn’t imagine trading for other (low count) girls I’ve dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:58 PM
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So wrong. Just being able to pay the bill for every meal goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:58 PM
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Why do girls need a guy whose strong and 6ft tall? Attraction isn’t symmetrical
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:18 PM
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I agree for sure. They aren’t actually red pill or trad, just fucking losers that think this ideology is a good tool for manipulating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:05 PM
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It can be true that male rape is not taken seriously enough, and also true that supposed “trad” men are consistently overlooking the unique power dynamics wrt men & women. These are not mutually exclusive. Sure, I sort of agree. But I don’t know many trad men who are even interested in entertaining those types of women. For the most part, men like us are interested in the kind of girls that expect to not have to pull out their wallet. Why would she? It’s not her job and she knows it. Obviously t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:48 PM
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Yes, this is hypothetically possible. Yet, I go out every weekend, and have never seen / nor heard of a girl drugging someone or pulling a weapon. Multiple times, however, I’ve had to get in the middle of some guy dead-set on fucking up his girlfriend. I realize this is anecdotal, if you can find data supporting frequently female-on-male assaults or attacks I’d change my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:23 PM
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You don’t know if people are dangerous. I’m 6ft nearly 200lbs, a girl is putting herself in danger simply by giving me a chance. On the other hand, I get to go to a chick’s house and never even for a second worry about my safety. It’s dope, but if I was a woman I’d be pretty jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:00 PM
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Bro it’s not about whether or not they can get laid… this sub has permanent coomer brain-rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:40 AM
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I simply do not get how treating women on dates like uninvited guests is RP in any sense of the word. For what it’s worth though, a lot of girls say that, and then when you ask them if they’ve ever paid they’ll say no xD
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:36 AM
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Yeah, maybe, so what? That doesn’t mean it’s not a problem worth consideration. I’m not saying don’t ever leave the house, I’m saying that when you do we should try to make each other feel comfortable. The fact that you instinctively and dismissively reframed my argument tells me this post needed to be made.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:32 AM
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And of course I would agree with you there, as would any reasonable person. Unfortunately, I’ve seen a lot of unreasonable people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:31 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:25 PM
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I’d like to see numbers on this trend and compare them to male on female domestic violence. Regardless, as someone who goes out in the real world, I’ve been in over 5 violent altercations because I noticed some guy hitting on his ole girl. Never peeped a girl trying to drug some guy- although I’d put a stop to that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:11 PM
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Well, I’d like to have daughters and shit, so I still kinda care but I see your point 100%. And true, I agree she should offer out of courtesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:04 PM
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Notice how I didn’t say the severity, it’s usually related to whether or not rape even occurred. I can’t think of too many traumatic events where one of the most popular responses are something along the lines of “didn’t happen” or “happens to men too”. Like.. why? Obviously believe all women is nonsense. Very few people unironically think that way. What’s also nonsense is shitting on potential victims online because you’re so poisoned by ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:32 PM
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Not sure why we’re even wasting our time going after “fierce feminists”, but I understand what you’re getting at and don’t disagree. Although I have seen several advocates here of always splitting, which is very not-trad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:23 PM
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Of course. Shame you don’t see it more often. A lot of us here don’t get out enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:59 PM
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Well, I hope you are overgeneralizing on point 1, because I’m RP and am the one that made this post. That’s unfortunate and certainly not one of the reasons that men should be paying the bill. Although, sounds like simply letting them may be a good option for you to weed out bad apples.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:43 PM
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Oh sorry I actually have no opinion on whether paying for dates is a way for women to spot RP men. I was chiming in on EarlyChristmas’s comment to say that IF that is true, that’s sad and means we’ve been misguided. Paying for everything is Trad, RP, and Based. Insisting on a split is the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:56 PM
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I’m sorry wym by spot? Like financially? I have never allowed a girl in my presence to pull out her wallet, so idk haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:13 PM
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There are plenty of RPers that disagree with this, if not the majority. A lot of us don’t even think women should be in the workplace, why would we encourage that by asking them to pay? I wouldn’t, I’m the leader, and I’m going to pay our bill both without asking and without looking at the receipt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:31 PM
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Yeah, he says “she has all the curves I want in a woman” but doesn’t she just have all the curves?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 08:04 PM
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Lmaoooo just wants to drink hot chocolate and decorate for Christmas 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:51 PM
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She got me good, wasted a decent amount of time at work trying to reason xD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:07 PM
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Hahahahahaha what the hell. It’s funny, earlier at work I was thinking it would do the community some good to read our thread. Show em a more positive interaction online between a normal guy and a normal girl. Guess they didn’t like it. Maybe I was supposed to call you derogatory and sexist names for going out as a woman? And then you fire back? Idk what they want LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:06 PM
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You’re my favorite type of person to run into at the bar lol. Met a girl last weekend that was just immediately energetic and fun. My friends told me to come bar hop with them, I said no and her + I spent hours fucking around / playing corn-hole. I think one of us got too drunk before night’s end, we didn’t hook up or anything, so most losers here would say that’s an L night. Huge W in my opinion though, hope I see her again :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:28 PM
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Your first comment generalized all dudes of this sub (of which I am one), and then in your second, you actually said I’m just like them 🤣 Now you are backtracking and saying you were never specifically talking about me, and bravo if I’m “one of the good ones”. Haha. Have a nice afternoon Snow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:22 PM
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Why do you all keep saying “you guys”? Where does this come from? I’ve been on the sub for almost a year, and haven’t seen anything like this. If I had, you’d best believe you’d see my name in the comment section explaining the stupidity. Usually you see this with far lefties / feminists, but I totally believe my fellow RPers might parrot this nonsense occasionally as well. Doesn’t mean it’s even close to the majority opinion. OFC women are more vulnerable, and should take every precaution to ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:19 PM
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Agree friend, you get the feeling that most users here actually haven’t made the effort to go out and meet people. Maybe they do it once or twice, and then project that onto the “scene” as a whole. Silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:16 PM
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I was never anything BUT nice and understanding. “Fucking weird” is about as polite of a response that I could have conjured up. A woman who is willing to tell a man that has had both guns and knives pulled on them for trying to protect them at bars/parties/etc that in fact HE is part of the problem, and just like the men who are pulling the guns and knives, deserves much more than to be called a fucking weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:15 PM
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You- “Careful, the men here don’t want to admit that some are dangerous!” Me- “Hey, some of us (like me) do. Pretty weird of you to say none of us care!” You, to someone who has almost been shot on multiple different occasions defending victims of abuse- “You said I was weird! HA! Proof that you are just like all the other violent men!” Again, weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:10 PM
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I’m a dude of this sub, and I’ve encountered more like me here? Seems like you’re so quick to negatively generalize all men here, but undoubtably take issue when the men do it to women. Odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:43 PM
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Gonna have to disagree, I’ve formed many authentic connections over shared mutual interests I would have otherwise never known I had with a female if not for asking her if she’d like a drink or four.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:37 PM
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That’s what you talk about at the bar though? Maybe you have a shit ton in common, in which case you might consider dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:17 AM
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LOL no it will not. A girl with 50 bodies is a girl with 50 bodies, and I can tell that she has a significant number whether she tells me it’s 1 or 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:08 AM
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Super edgy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:20 AM
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Last thing I’ll add is (and something I also remind myself of to stay sane) is that Reddit subs where people discuss relationship dynamics between gender is incredibly niche. I’ve never met a girl who actually thinks like the average user here does, I certainly don’t think like the average user, so I just think that’s important to remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:39 PM
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Number 1 is just so incredibly stupid and offensive it makes it hard for me to believe that you are operating in good-faith, hence the aggression. It’s honestly sad if this is really what you think. Like heart-breaking. Assigning such a malicious level of intent to such a large portion of our population. Never-mind assigning the most altruistic sugar-and-spice narrative to the opposing portion. Number 2, depending on what is being said, is objectively true. Men lie to women all the time for sex,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:15 PM
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Lol, didn’t mean to come across as aggro, but I’m still amazed that the comment was made and nobody else was like 🤨 huh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:02 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ… the most altruistic, hyper-charitable-to-women explanation imaginable for why women say they don’t need men And then you get the most cynical, toxic, ridiculous narrative in the other direction for men “overstating their need” for women. Absolutely insane critical thinking skills on display here. I pray to Allah that these types of women only exist on this autistic debate sub, because I haven’t yet encountered one in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:40 PM
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Are you mentally handicapped? It’s not fucking Sexist to say a woman will probably have great difficulty understanding male psychology, especially considering that she doesn’t necessarily have to in order to find partners. I’d say the same thing to a man trying to tell me about female psychology without any data or evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:29 PM
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No it means teachable / coachable Which is super based.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:27 PM
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Absolutely, just like all women. Most women would say that confidence is a big turn-on. However, I happened to know one that’s been traumatized. She interprets confidence as hostility, and feels more comfortable around soft, timid types of guys. Because of the way the world works, we speak in generalities. The fact that this woman exists, does not mean that when men ask if they should be confident or timid we should tell them the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:23 PM
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No point in arguing with a woman about the inner workings of the average man’s psychology. Best of luck in the relationship :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:03 PM
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Women are allowed to all they want, it’s different (if not opposite) for them. In the same way that women find “fetishizing” virginity weird- because they fetishize experience. Regardless, I’m telling you that no man wants to take a girl out to dinner and hear about all the other times she’s been to said location.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:32 PM
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Saying that a woman may be experiencing “the wall” (ie is unable to keep her SMV from decreasing) is a little different from saying she’s “sullied and ruined” but I get your point. It’s not “wanting to have your cake and eat it too” to have preferences in partners that you yourself do not have. I’m never going to say she’s a hypocrite for expecting me to be 6ft, even if I lose an inch every year I’m with her (to make the analogy as accurate as possible).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:06 PM
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I don’t think it’s new, I believe it’s a small part of the reason why 18 year olds have been preferred to 30 y/o since essentially the dawn of time. You’re using all of these incredibly negative words, I don’t think it’s “sinister” to have this preference. I’d hope you wouldn’t make the same claim about n-count. It’s a preference, it’s not like I see them as ruined sub-human scum. In my experience it’s the opposite of a “world of pain”, we have incredible satisfying relationships. Why would I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:26 AM
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Who is this Aurora?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:11 AM
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LMAO omega wrong. Preferring younger women to old isn’t “Machiavellian”, and has nothing to do with being able to manipulate them. This is an extremely common preference, for many reasons. It’s evolutionarily baked-in, as younger women will have more optimal pregnancies. Another factor is, when men love women, they want to give them things / show them the world. Why would I want to take an Instagram model to Dubai for her 9th time, when I could take the waitress from my Louisiana Applebee’s, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:10 AM
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Meet somewhere in the middle Them having the expectation that you lack the experience to be able to properly satisfy them Combined with Them wondering what the guy all the girls are around has that you don’t = no shot bozo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:59 PM
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Oh brother it’s actually a significantly large portion of the population for me. And yeah personally I don’t think they make the best of friends otherwise, although there are a few perks so perhaps not entirely useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:23 AM
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All women that I would, and many of them were currently, boning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:11 AM
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Fuck that piece of shit, the South contains the last couple of decent places (and people) in North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:44 PM
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Hope that’s true, the former of course
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:36 PM
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It seems like you are implying that this is my fault, that I’m from a high-crime area with a lot of poverty and domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:16 PM
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You have to be from a Northern state. Where I’m from (the south) you protect women. I’m in my early 20s and have been in multiple, potentially life-threatening altercations because some jackass wanted to beat on a girl. And I’ll happily get myself involved in many more if that means putting some dude who thinks you can treat women like men in their place. Call me sexist❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:29 PM
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I have never expressed an issue, grievance, problem etc to a woman and felt the end result was positive. Either: 1. She listens to you but eventually throws your vulnerability back in your face 2. She listens to you but prefers you to already have a solution 3. She listens to you AND genuinely wants to help, but there’s nothing she can really do. It seems to me that coming to your bros with emotional stuff is so much less problematic than doing so with a woman. In your personal opinion, is the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:27 PM
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We do. The existence of God doesn’t become less likely every year, “muh its 2022” is braindead. Atheists have the highest suicide rates for a reason. It’s poison, plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:56 PM
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Worth noting that the women that aren’t having sex are simply choosing to not have sex, while the men that aren’t having sex are trying and failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:54 PM
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Involuntarily, like the vast majority of those men? Or because they aren’t choosing to? If I remember correctly the study is just about sex-havers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:22 PM
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Proof they were alcoholics? Mind blowing if true. I can’t wrap my mind around believing in God and both KNOWINGLY and UNREPENTANTLY commiting the same sin on a regular basis. Literally (from the believers perspective) signing your ticket to potentially eternal hellfire from worldly pleasures that, from your POV, are nearly irrelevant in the grand scheme of things. If that’s true, that says something wild about humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:01 PM
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I think that does happen to a lot of people. I legitimately cringe when I’m in F&Fs chat and I see unironic hatred and anger towards women, and seemingly existence itself. I want to reject your claim because this didn’t happen to me, I have seriously only improved. It’s hard for me to think that I’m like a 1% minority, but maybe I am. I can’t really argue with you because I’ve seen what you’re talking about, and am the only major success story that I personally know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:38 PM
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Based and actually red-pilled. Well put.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:35 PM
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Sure, I’ll look for some stuff. Thanks for entertaining me this long, and not banning me despite disagreements. Come back to this comment later, I’ll have a few things if I see anything good. LOL just saw your edit about Ethan. Maybe you really are RP. Edit#1: this episode really shows you Wallers beliefs, and the whole gang is in it https://youtu.be/WSdNptzAc-c I’ll try to find shorter clips though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:32 PM
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I’ve seen Myron explain why it absolutely isn’t hypocritical, going far more in-depth than “we’re different” maybe 20-25 times on his podcast. I’m not sure about Tristan. I’d say he is. JWaller is a G, look him up. Haven’t seen that episode with Rollo, not a giant fan. Pretty sure you are referencing Andrew talking about allowing his girlfriend to go out clubbing and shit without him. In which case, he absolutely isn’t being hyperbolic, he’s being completely serious and I agree with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:31 PM
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I’ve never heard a red-piller complain about picking up the check 😂😂 it’s almost always about what they expect in return for consistently doing so. Myron is certainly RP and he says this. Over half of Waller’s content, and everything he’s done with F&F & Andrew, have been about women/sex/relationships. Keep digging..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:28 PM
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From what I’ve seen, you aren’t actually wrong. But for different reasons than you’re implying. If you’re successful with women without understanding all of this, you are likely naturally RP or have other major advantages. If you actually start studying RP shit- something led you to that point. Almost by definition, anyone who discovers RP or gets super into it is having trouble getting what they’d like out of relationships. So yeah, % wise I think there’s more loser red pillers than those that …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:23 PM
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You can use the newfound respect you just garnered by not being a bitch to fix the relationship? You’re objectively wrong about this, both Myron and Justin on F&F have said that You should always pay for dates Never look at the check when it comes Like these are pretty core tenants I’d argue, basically everyone in here has probably heard this 5-10x minimum. Justin Waller is a big red-pill guy who hangs out with Myron, Tate, Rollo- all of them. You don’t need to know who Ethan is, he’s a weirdo. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:16 PM
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No, it’s not about smashing, it’s about being able to always go back to her (if that’s what you want) instead of getting blocked on everything. What? Paying for dates is simping????????? LOL if you really wanna do this I can find multiple red-pill creators talking about the importance of never letting a woman pull her wallet out, not even looking at the check when the waitress comes, Etc. And no, being a gentlemen and being a “NiceGuyTM” are not the same thing at all. Compare Justin Waller to so…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:05 PM
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It doesn’t matter? Lmfao. Do you know how many calls back I get for respectfully saying “I’m sorry you feel that way, goodbye”. Normally guys scream, cry, etc and prove why she made the right choice. With me, she gets home and thinks “fuck, that was easy for him, I must be fucking up”. Acting like a gentlemen (holding doors, paying for dates, etc) has been mentioned by damn near everyone in the red pill space. It’s therefore as “red-pill” as spinning plates. Gentlemen absolutely get fucking laid…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:53 PM
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Plenty, I certainly agree. Most? Hell no. I’m “red-pilled” as they come and 100% care about maximizing my woman’s fulfillment in the relationship. That’s what red-pill is, in a super round-about way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:37 PM
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Non red-pill sources could also teach you about spinning plates, yet you were just claiming that it’s exclusively red-pill and that TRP isn’t for ANYONE not interested in that lmfao. You say “Lol” as if that’s not extremely important, and the major reason that a lot of otherwise compatible people will hate each other for the rest of their lives. Men (and women) really don’t know how to let relationships end. Learning how to be a better gentlemen isn’t TRP? Do you literally just use TRP as a subs…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:34 PM
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I think it’s odd to say something as expansive as the Red Pill isn’t for them if they want a serious relationship. Myron and Fresh can still teach you how to get your money up, and how to avoid getting finessed. Tristan Tate has an excellent video on how to maintain frame during break-up situations. JWaller has lots to teach young men about behaving like a gentlemen. Rollo can explain how he’s made a long-term marriage successful w/ red pill ideals. Andrew has endless advice of leading a more di…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:21 PM
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It’s pretty based. Always made sense in my head, as a kid I’d watch Christians thinking “you believe every word in the Bible and are doing THAT?!?!” No way! Out of curiosity, what would be your rule for feminism? Like if he/she believes in x you can’t call yourself a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:14 PM
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I’m not sure how you even know that most aren’t married or have been through divorces? There’s probably a ton like me, who are doing as well as they possibly can, but why just go around bragging on every thread? I add my input if I think it’s valuable, otherwise it’s just for entertainment- and learning what not to do from the blue pill folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:12 PM
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Do you think that could be problematic? I feel like in most debate subs, say religion, it’s pretty equally split between religious and atheists. Not that I’ve seen comments removed that shouldn’t be etc, but then again we wouldn’t really know. I’m not so sure there’s THAT many guys that just want sex without relationships. Dudes are fucking lonely out here and putting your weeny in some hoe ain’t gonna fix that. I think a lot of guys (partially true) think that being able to get sex = being able…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:10 PM
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I’m not sure “spinning plates” is necessarily red-pill. Some might teach guys who want a “roster” how to accomplish that, but the same is true with relationships. It’s just about optimizing for whatever it is that you’d like, from women and from life as a whole. Tristan Tate emphasizes the importance of serious relationships with wholesome women. Myron always says you should never lie or cheat. JWaller also emphasizes the importance of honesty if you’re going to fool around. They ALL talk about …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:06 PM
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Aren’t you a mod btw? Are there other mods that think differently than you? Obviously red-pillers will argue that it is what women want from a relationship, and that they are most happy and content this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:57 PM
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We do, these are pretty core tenants of red-pill. I’d argue not doing these by definition makes you not red-pilled. Like how in Islam, if you blaspheme God or the prophet, you are by definition not a Muslim. Even if you say you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:56 PM
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This is true for the blue pilled guys here too, as well as the women. It’s more of a Reddit / using a subreddit for debating relationship dynamics thing than it is specifically a red-pill thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:53 PM
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I must admit that kind of dinner sounds fun. Cheers to you for being polite although we disagree. Maybe I’ll consider trying a philosophical dinner party woman haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:54 PM
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It’s not about whether the coffee is good or not lmao. I don’t know many men that prioritize a woman’s personal philosophical positions over how pleasant she is to interact with. When I get home from a grueling day of work, whether or not she agrees with me about moral realism matters significantly less than how happy she makes me when she says “welcome home”. I suppose I’m forced to admit that these men must exist, assuming you have daughters via your husband and not adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:31 PM
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Of course they are? Lol Most men are losers absolutely and utterly unworthy of a woman’s affection. Overweight, cuck/victim mindset, wants a traditional woman but can neither support her nor protect her, etc etc. Both genders are failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:03 PM
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What? Why not? Obviously she’s not doing shift work after she meets you, so why judge & penalize her for not growing up in a wealthy family? I don’t care how she supports herself, because she doesn’t have to anymore. She’s no longer a MacDonalds worker, and she’ll probably be infinitely more grateful than if I had done the same for a Lawyer. Not to mention, the corporate world heavily rewards masculine behaviors such as aggression, being disagreeable, etc. A god damn headache to deal with, as ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:59 PM
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I mean, we’re talking about approaching / considering if someone is datable. Obviously, once I get with her, I’m giving her the great news that she can quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:49 PM
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I would argue that these are pretty low value males. If you are in a place where a woman’s income matters as much as her other qualities (or matters at all), then you’re doing something wrong. For successful men, however, it 100% doesn’t matter. I’d take a girl from CVS that’s a 9.1/10 over a hospital director that’s a 9.0/10 all day long.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:41 PM
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We don’t see it as “freeloading” the way you all do. I earn more, and if she has the right energy and makes me feel good when I get home, I don’t give a fuck if she even works. Hell, if anything it’s a plus. You think Applebee’s is a fancy restaurant? You think Daytona beach is the best vacation spot? Let me show you some stuff baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:34 PM
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I know tons of successful men that give 0 shits if the girl they’re into is a doctor, or works at MacDonalds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:36 AM
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Incoming anecdote from a woman telling you why this isn’t true in 3..2..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:00 PM
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Giving up on women because they don’t just naturally throw themselves at you is lame
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:59 AM
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Has nothing to do with getting back at them. They’ve never wronged me, as I would never be with one for that to happen. It’s about preferences and standards, in a world where women are allowed to have them and men aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:58 AM
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No? What the fuck is wrong with your mentality? It’s like you know for certain that any socially awkward guy, “nice guy”, whatever is going to criminally harass you on the level that the weirdos did in your examples? I promise this is delusional, even girls who only go after NiceGuysTM have favorable experiences with most of the people they meet. If you are failing so hard to do this, and so god damn certain that any of these guys that would get with you are broken individuals- I think it’s time…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:49 PM
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Quick tip on your suburbs comment, that’s easier said than done- Learn how to take advantage of the small world, how easily words spread, the fact that everyone knows everyone, etc rather than having all of those used against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:38 PM
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There are plenty of normal, nice guys who aren’t going to literally harass you or share weird furry porn. I promise. Your post actually seems to just be directed at guys who are socially awkward- the vast majority of which fit this description. To be as charitable as I possibly can, and to avoid insulting your choices in these individuals- I’d implore you to consider the possibility that you have gotten extremely unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:22 PM
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There are so many men, in fact the vast majority, that are neither “bad boys” or “nice guys”. Just regular ole dudes who try their best to be decent for whoever is willing to be around. The fact that you can only find NiceGuysTM, the rare breed that is often only seen on subs making fun of them, seems to be more telling about you than it is some male behavioral phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:58 PM
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Men who let their 100th bad experience with women dictate their feelings about the gender as a whole- misogynist losers Women who let their 3rd bad experience with a man dictate their feelings about the gender as a whole- super based, yas queen, go!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:45 PM
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Yeah for sure! I didn’t mean close friend as in same circle, just cordial / friendly with. I’m in a super small town, so everyone knows everyone & everything- maybe why preselection is so helpful. I’ve actually been interested in / seeking a LTR the entire time, but I’ll agree that’s somewhat rare. Most men with a “roster” (cringe term) surely aren’t thinking about giving it up. Also a baddie AND she’s humble, nice :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:30 PM
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Obviously they aren’t going to say “I want a man whose been with 1000 women”, it’s more so about what your N count implies. I never say mine publicly, but I have a reputation for picking up girls and am known to have been with some baddies in the past. No girl thinks “he’s a player, I want him to play me” no ofc not. They DO, however, pick up on other things that are either caused (or correlated) by the high count. Preselection, particularly via girls they like / are friends with etc, causes the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:05 PM
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You wouldn’t know where they are, because you spend so much time sulking. Your victim mentality comes across even on Reddit, I can’t even imagine in real life. “Ughh wrong generation, I coulda been happy!” Sounding like the girls that romanticize the 70s. Gym isn’t enough, you need actual hobbies or at least something to talk about other than female hypergamy or whatever other shit. You have to be fulfilled outside of a relationship to EVER be fulfilled in one. If you are that lonely by yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:55 PM
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Bro, do you think that normal women are in the Purple Pill Debate subreddit? Get off these ridiculous subs about dating, relationships, all that. It seems like you’ve let it consume your entire thought process. How hot you are in a girl’s mind varies greatly, you may not be stereotypical Chad but I SWEAR TO GOD there are things you can do to live a fulfilling, satisfactory life- with a good woman or two to share it with if that’s what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:42 PM
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Definitely not relevant, I’d say it’s actually flipped and young men are expected to be at least somewhat gentlemen, while young women are free to essentially be as cruel as they’d like to lesser attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:13 PM
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I’ll just work twice as hard gigachad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:36 PM
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Find me a red-piller saying, or implying, that “men are innocent creatures that just want a loving relationship” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:58 PM
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Scroll up to see me expressing guilt and acknowledging that it’s immoral to sleep with someone else’s monogamous partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:15 PM
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Anecdotally, me asking girls I’ve slept with that have boyfriends what exactly lead them to the situation we’re in. It’s not every time but it is common. And they always add, “I thought it would be nbd and I wouldn’t mind” or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:27 PM
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It’s such a common, universal story you’ll hear from guys who actually get laid- it’s almost impossible to believe there’s not something to it. Not to mention, like most of red pill, it makes sense from an evo-psych perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:09 PM
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All I have is anecdotal. But it’s a pretty decent amount. Whenever I used to sleep with girls who had bfs (horrible thing to do will not do again) I would always ask why afterwards, 75% or more it was because he cried in front of her and she couldn’t see him the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:03 PM
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I’d choose all of em 😉 And it doesn’t, but it is a supporting claim we can use to give us an overall idea. There’s plenty of other evidence as well- like the fact that girl’s will encourage their boyfriends to cry in front of them, and then cheat on them because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:41 PM
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No, men openly state their sexual prefaces (despite facing criticism for doing such). Pretty sure there’s a Harvard study that hooked up men and women to a machine that monitors brain chemistry for signs of arousal- The men were turned on by exactly what they said turned them on, the females were completely unable to predict their responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:37 PM
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What women say they want is nowhere near as accurate as the desires they express privately- such as analyzing tinder data.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:21 PM
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I think it comes from a book by Seth Davidowitz. As a young man with high standards, I often ambitiously go after the kind of girl who basically could have whoever she wants. In their dating profiles (or just dating history) you’ll see they have a serious preference for not just guys taller than them, but much. Guys 6ft+ do even better than 5’10 guys in places like the Philippines, where the average woman is extremely short. You definitely shouldn’t be doomer pilled. I posted earlier than no one…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:57 AM
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“Researchers found that, a 6ft man earning $62,500 per year, is, on average, as a desirable as a similar 5’6 man who earns $237,500 (all other things being equal). In other words, those six inches of height are worth about $175,000 in the dating market.” Exceptions absolutely do not make the rule though. My mom absolutely couldn’t believe this study, because her 5’6 husband is perfect for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:58 AM
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Did not say that at ALL. I literally said making a woman orgasm will improve your relationship significantly, and it’s something you should want to give her. My whole point was just that other aspects of quality sex are way more important. Even for men, who apparently are all about busting a nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:28 PM
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Where does my confidence come through? I’m not convinced you can just learn it, I feel like that would be a billion dollar industry. It’s likely a feed back loop that begins at a very young age. How your parents see you, your peers see you, athletic stuff, bunch of other factors. Height is related to all of these. For all I know, if I wasn’t raised as a tall person, I may be missing a bunch of other important qualities as well that I didn’t even realize were connected. I definitely on the agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:26 PM
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Oh yeah, I’m gonna be honest if I wasn’t tall I’d have a really fucking hard time excepting it to. I’ve been treated significantly better by everyone in my life, been able to talk to women others couldn’t, etc all because of something I didn’t even earn. Just given from birth. I honestly don’t get how they aren’t even more bitter. I have data showing you have to earn hundreds of thousands of dollars more per year to be comparable in the dating market to a 6ft+ guy whose only doing “OK” financial…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:15 PM
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What about women who are around these older men just as often as they are around men their own age? All that data proves is we get in relationships with those around us. I’d like to see the data on, say, 22 year old models (seeing as they can have their choice, and are more likely to be introduced to older men)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:10 PM
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????? The importance of Height is universally discussed on red pill and dating subs in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:09 PM
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You have to exclusively look at data for men and women who aren’t limited by their own shortcomings- essentially those that could have anyone (with any features) that they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:07 PM
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In the context of you essentially minimizing the importance of females having sexual relationships with men, saying “why fuck men if you only get off half the time”, it felt rather prudent to question. Obviously men should concern themselves with the woman’s orgasm, even from a selfish perspective it will improve your relationship with her significantly. Just sounded like you were implying that’s the most important thing. In reality if the moments right and two people are really connecting, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:05 PM
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Do you guys know you can limit that? I set mine on 25 or 15 miles, depending on how frisky I am that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:51 PM
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Absolutely bizarre to view something like sex through such a soulless, utilitarian perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:53 PM
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Bio: Emory Andrew Tate III (born December 14, 1986) is an American-British Internet personality and former professional kickboxer Citizenship: American & Britain ??????????
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:30 PM
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Piers cuts him off constantly, can’t really say it was a Tate interview. Lmao @ the part where he says being against any woman of any kind is misogynist, in response to Tate accurately stating that it’s ageism (at best) to prefer younger women to old
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:09 PM
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He could retire off the money 5 years ago??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:07 PM
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He’s both?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:06 PM
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Didn’t know that about Kentucky, was just taking OPs word he has done research. It is very hard to come by outside of the religious world. You have to be a lot as a man. I’m personally not into that but I agree it’s more simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:15 PM
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Personally I’d say it depends on the reason for the divorce, but that’s another topic entirely lol I agree though, you aren’t wrong. Obviously alimony is a concept for a reason, even in super based trad Islam there’s a similar concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:58 PM
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I would immediately dismiss these statistics on the grounds that the men involved almost certainly didn’t vet their partner and her ability to raise a child as much as I’d say you should. Also, I place a higher value on certain intangible things related to character than I do future career outcomes- so it wouldn’t be an own to admit that daycares may very well raise better worker bees. I would agree that you shouldn’t whine afterwards about being “divorce raped”, albeit for slightly different re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:53 PM
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Do you not think, all things being equal, that the child’s mother could probably do an overall better job than anyone you could pay? Presumably, you’ve spent YEARS “vetting” and bonding with that person. More than you could ever expect for a paid professional. She loves you AND her kid, a paid professional loves neither. She has so many incentives that make her both motivated and capable to do the best job humanely possible raising your shared children. Even if a babysitter can come close, why b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:33 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:58 PM
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“Just pass your child off to a complete stranger that may or may not be capable of raising them as you’d like them to be raised” doesn’t sound too great to a lot of people. Me personally, if I’m not with my kid, I want to know that my wife is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:56 PM
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And the fact that he worked his fucking ass off to learn multiple programming languages. Huge barrier to entry. Unlike OF- all she did was make an account and post mediocre photos. Since I’m no developer, I could NEVER replace that guy in your office. Proof he at least has some valuable skill. For her, I stepped in as her manager and IMMEDIATELY profits soared. I think the fact that I was able to do this should be pretty telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:25 PM
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After my personal experience seeing just how incompetent this girl was yet making a fortune, I absolutely refuse to believe that I couldn’t take over any girl’s OF on the planet and at least be more profitable than my 9-5 is. We’re probably going to have to agree to disagree my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:02 PM
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Not really luck, just going to high school. That’s all it takes to have a Snapchat completely full of willing, paying customers. Don’t really have to be that attractive either. In comparison with virtually every other way to pay the bills- shit might as well be free.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:53 PM
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She didn’t even work towards developing a following. She’d just post thirst traps on her FB or Snap, all the guys she had added from school would see, and start giving her $ for her content and maybe, hopefully, she’d sleep with them. There were SO many things she wasn’t doing. I took over for a week and profits were 10x. But she was still making enough to travel full time essentially just from local simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:49 PM
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I dated an OF girl. She did not work hard AT ALL. And she made a good bit of dough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:25 PM
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I supposed that I have. But also, I admit there could be a bit of correlation going on as well. One can notice if a girl is the type to call someone up because she wants an on-demand orgasm, or the type to prioritize other things above her immediate orgasmic needs. From that alone, you can begin to infer a good bit about her number. I never claimed it was objectively a negative. I said it 100% changes her personality, which I believe is self-evidently true. I prefer women with the personality of…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:15 PM
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Depends on where you’re from. Maybe in San Francisco. Where I’m from, it absolutely matters. It matters so much nearly every woman lies about it. I’ve seen several “lists” in their Iphone notes to confirm my estimates. 30% isn’t “most”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:58 PM
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Do you think you have to have sex with someone in order to find a partner? Because I would absolutely disagree. Also where did I even say it’s bad? I’m saying it changes you in a noticeable way. You are the one that’s implying said change is a negative one. Perhaps your subconscious is onto something, I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:55 PM
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Most women are honest about their body count when asked by men? This is absolutely an obviously lie, that anyone reading this will note. I’m sure some men think they know. 30% of men are either virgins or have not had sex within the last year. Their observations are meaningless, these aren’t the type of guys we’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:52 PM
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We’ll never know how wrong they are, because the vast majority of women lie about their body count. Find me a man who mistakes a girl with 100 bodies for a virgin, it’s damn near impossible unless he himself is a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:48 PM
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It’s not about the orgasm. It’s about going through the process of meeting a man, developing some sort of attachment, bonding with him, inevitably giving herself to him sexually, usually followed by (at some point) fighting, heartbreak, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:45 PM
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You must be either a woman, or a man without a lot of experience. Nothing wrong with either. But as an experienced man, I can go out with a girl and within minutes have a pretty good idea of how many men she’s been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:38 PM
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Of course. That was a different woman though? Those 100 men will leave a lasting impact on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:36 PM
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You don’t think that a girl that’s had sex with 0 men is going to have a vastly different personality than a girl that’s been with 100?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:34 AM
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Only in religious settings for the most part. Women are incredible promiscuous where I’m from.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:10 PM
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Bro, women almost UNIVERSALLY see male virginity as a turn off- barring the religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:40 PM
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No, because the existence of prostitution doesn’t disprove the broader point. Where did I say they’re entitled for this? Sounds like you’re either a moron or projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:23 PM
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Equivocating being forced to pay a prostitute to being “forced” to settle for fucking someone who maybe wouldn’t be your perfect choice is absolutely insane and invalid. Almost as insane as implying I dislike women, simply because I acknowledge that one particular problem is unique to men. There’s a whole bunch of problems that are unique to women. We can chat about those too if you’d like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:14 PM
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Doesn’t count, will not fill the void in men. Just because, technically, some lonely incel could maybe find some chick on backpage to pay for sex, doesn’t mean he’s not a lonely incel. And it doesn’t mean that men are in a vastly different place when it comes to sexual dynamics than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:00 PM
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It seems you believe I’m replying to OP instead of this guy implying that women aren’t having so much casual sex. My point is that, even if that’s true, it’s because they don’t want to. Which is astronomically different from the situation many men are in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:56 PM
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I disagree that they would only be approached by serial killers and rapists. I’ve seen the kind of women you are talking about- probably even more undesirable than what you have in mind, leave with decently average men. Women have many unique struggles, most of which I feel a great deal of sympathy. Going without sex, involuntarily, is not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:53 PM
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He’s not talking about by choice though. And there’s maybe 2 women on the planet (at most) that can’t walk into a bar, say who wants to fuck me, and leave with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:32 PM
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Short answer, yes It’s not everything, obviously, but it’s a huge factor. Most of the prettiest girls have pretty tall boyfriends. I have a theory that it’s not only attraction, but confidence from the male side. Tall men even as boys are generally treated better, which in turn makes you confident, that confidence makes you more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:56 AM
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That’s you. I wish more women were like that tbh because I feel bad for my friends who aren’t as tall. Unfortunately, exceptions do not make the rule and height matters for most women. “Don’t swipe unless 6ft & up” is extremely common on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:38 AM
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“A 6 foot man earning $62,500 per year is, on average, as desirable as a similar 5’6 man who earns $237,500. In other words, those 6 inches of height are worth about $175,000 in salary on the dating market” according to a book by Seth Davidowitz
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:34 AM
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It’s clear that you are a woman firmly intent on justifying sexual promiscuity and deviancy. Like many others, you ignore data, anecdotes, and everything in between. Best of luck in your relationships madam.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:54 PM
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The data from these studies would be the same if the husband had no idea regarding her count. Whether or not she tells him 0 bodies or 100 is worthless. The truth is revealed in her behavior, behavior that often times ends in unsatisfied marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:46 PM
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According to studies, women with 10+ partners are FAR more likely to get divorces than those with 0 or 1. Female promiscuity has been (rightfully) shamed in every culture since the dawn of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:37 PM
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Damn, two whole generations of height-obsessed losers. That’s crazy bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:36 PM
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Sounds hella black pilled. You’ll never be the chaddest chad, might as well just kill yourself am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:35 PM
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I understand all of that. I’m still young though, intent on finding out for myself if what I expect out of life (a lot) is realistic or not. In 10 years, we’ll circle back to this conversation. Maybe I’m right, and I tell you that you should have tried harder. Maybe my username is MrMushySauce2, and I’m demanding to know how you were right all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:24 PM
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Different strokes for different folks. I cannot personally relate to your first paragraph. When I love someone, I want to take care of them. I work twice as hard when I’m in a relationship rather than single. If I had to choose between me working 10 hours at $10 an hour, vs my girl working 1 hour at $100 an hour, I’m going say “stay home, I got this” every single time. I don’t necessarily agree with modern society on the assumption that easier = better. We chase easy when we should be chasing fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:06 PM
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I will have to respectfully disagree. Perhaps I even understated it’s importance. Obviously, you won’t hear a woman say “I’m so wet because of your career”, but them knowing you have the ability to take care of them absolutely will do it. I used to be involved in a business that made various amounts of $ day-to-day. I have never seen women more horny than on days when I exceeded the usual expectation. Is this a bad thing, are they just gold diggers? I think no. It’s weird how, if a woman admits …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:39 PM
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No woman I know would take this person seriously, I know that for a fact. It’s so embarrassing I can’t believe someone is unironically saying that oh yeah she’ll think nothing of it 😭 Also Tate didn’t manage to attain a harem of women as a “famous kickboxer”, he was hardly famous. And Tristan, who has receipts of sleeping with extremely exclusive women, was even less famous. There’s a study showing that women are attracted to benevolent sexism. Type it into your search bar rn, it’s a good read.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:35 PM
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No law will make 18 year old girls become celibate, or incentivize them to actually want to have sex with 18 year olds over 25 year olds. More money, more confidence, more experience, just better overall. Likewise, most guys don’t want girls that have done everything. We prefer to be the one’s that show them the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:28 PM
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I gave you a reason. Women will laugh at you. Every last one of them. You are comparing something only done by fringe height-obsessed manlets with things that every woman on the planet does. It’s not the same. Even if it was, which it obviously isn’t, it wouldn’t make for a good argument. I’d rather never fuck than have to see a girl’s reaction to finding out I have to wear lifts to feel confident going out. Cringe as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:24 PM
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A guy advocating for wearing lifts because he’s so insecure about his height calling not wearing them insecure 💀 Being short is bad if you are a loser. If you work out, train, make money, etc no one gives a fuck. No one’s turning down Floyd Mayweather because of his height. You think the
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:12 PM
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Lifts are significantly more embarrassing than being short imo. Couldn’t imagine explaining that to a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:08 PM
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He also gives detailed advice & recommendations on how to do all of those individual things.. If you STILL won’t / can’t, then you are the only one to blame- not Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:59 PM
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It absolutely isn’t. It’s like telling poor people that if you want more money you have to take certain steps to generate wealth. Which should be self-evident, but yet there’s still those that wonder why money or pussy doesn’t just fall in their lap.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:54 PM
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Okay but let’s say, god forbid, you are born short? Do you give up and kill yourself? Or do you listen to Tate speak about the importance of maximizing whatever features you can? Work out, get a good job, build confidence & competence, etc and the girls will start choosing you over the tall dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:51 PM
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His advice to Joe Blow would be to maximize all the aspects of life that are in his control. His advice absolutely would work for 5’9, jacked Joe Blow that boxes and just got himself a big promotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:49 PM
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I feel like NASCAR and DnD is a wild combination for 1 person to be into, much less two haha. Sounds like a lucky guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:00 PM
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They aren’t. But they’re expected to be. Alternatively, your entire post is based on the fiction that the majority of women are similar to your friends (if that part is even true). Gorgeous, successful, wonderful (whatever that means), and single by choice 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:47 PM
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Just unfortunate, really. Unlike men, Women don’t have to worry about becoming big or strong. No societal expectations of being physically capable, learning how to fight- none of that shit. All that’s asked of them is that they not eat so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:43 PM
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Are women staying fit? Your friends are the exception, not the rule. I have to swipe 50-100 times on tinder just to see a woman with a flat stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:23 PM
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I see where you’re coming from, saying something the right way makes it much smoother. But I could see how someone like OP, just reading this advice on Reddit, could fumble hard with these interview-style type questions. I like to add a bit of excitement. Guessing and having them correct you is usually a bit more fun. For example: The girl is the one that choose the spot. You could say “sooooo come here often?” like a boring nerd, Or you say “so what should I get to drink/eat, since you’re alway…
/r/seduction29/09/22 06:35 PM
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Pulling other people into your conversations is an extremely underrated tip. Been doing it all week on vacation.
/r/seduction29/09/22 05:55 AM
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I’m saying he’s the rule and these others, who obviously are going to exist because it’s no where near the only thing that matters, are the exceptions. There are things a woman can do to “win” against other girls. It’s not like a 9 becomes a 3. She just becomes an 8.5.. then a 8.. etc But to say that women have more inherent value either for sex or dating at age 30+ than they do 18 would be demonstrably wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:52 PM
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It’s both sexual desirability and relationship interest, for men & women but particularly women. Men peak 30+, women peak at 18. Most men who can have whatever they want, like Leonardo DiCaprio, will make this abundantly clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:41 PM
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I mean I literally know one person with every single trait you listed. Most skinny but not fit. Attractive enough (I could get girls if I looked like them), funny but usually not confident, hobbies vary widely. I don’t know what their conversational skills are like around women because they never put themselves around women. I feel like the confidence thing is huge, women pick it up easily, and a lot of it is baked-in unfortunately, I don’t know if you can just tell someone who doesn’t feel like…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:42 PM
1

“Researchers studied the desirability of 200,000 male and female dating app users. They determined that that while men’s sexual desirability peaks much later in life, women’s starts high at 18 and falls from there.” https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/15/style/dating-apps-online-men-women-age.html
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:36 PM
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“Manosphere” includes: Tristan Tate, multiple children with multiple wives Sneako, beautiful gf with masters degree Derek From MPMD, happily married Etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:33 PM
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Just unexceptional. Not people that can charm a table of girls, not much confidence, too fat or too skinny, idk bro. Average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:29 PM
1

I don’t know as I’m not one of them. All I can is, I know a whole bunch of regular “normal” guys. A lot of them are pretty cool. And they haven’t been laid in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:52 PM
3

I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:51 PM
2

True, nothing you said is incorrect. I’m likely dramatizing the issue for sure, but I think overall I’m correct if I would have said 4s or 5s. We can both agree that men will frequently have sex with partners way below them (dating wise), it’s a whole meme/trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:30 PM
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Great work soldier.
/r/seduction22/09/22 06:13 PM
3

We should ask Sam (or all the other men like Sam, not the first time someone’s told me this) if he’d prefer to be stoic around women or have them in someone else’s bedroom. This is what I mean about radicalization. If someone this has happened too sees this thread, and sees a woman denying it (so far as to call into question the legitimacy of a strangers anecdote) he’s going to think “fuck, they really are all self-interested liars, I’ll never listen to them again.” That’s the last thing I want.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:03 PM
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So you see it “thrown around” or expressed often, yet dismiss it as fiction because it doesn’t match up with you personally? And at the same time are telling me that I need to be listening more to the opposite sex? Interesting for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:54 PM
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Do you think they never try? Or do you think they come to forums, asking how to get / understand women, and are given all sorts of bullshit responses that ultimately fail and upset them even more? Forget Elliot. Let me tell you about my old friend Sam. When he was trying to learn about girls, he talked to a mutual female friend. Honest mistake. She told him all sorts of things, including that you should be emotionally vulnerable. NEVER hold back tears around your partner, she said. Months later,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:46 PM
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Certainly some of his anger was misplaced and should have been redirected, maybe towards the gym. But I can absolutely see how, if I was one of the single average males I see out every weekend, I may get radicalized by being lied too. “Women would never share a man!” *Sees chad at the bar with 4 girls” “Women want you to be emotional!” Cries, causing his girlfriend to lose respect and call me “Looks don’t really matter!” Notices that every guy with a cute girl has similar facial features I could…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:33 PM
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That’s amazing, I’m glad you guys have it all sorted out. It’s still true that a lot of women would prefer to share me than be with 3s. Sometimes they get it out of their system when they’re younger, and manage to find a husband whose happy to overlook that past. Or maybe you are just more attractive than you give yourself credit for, so your husband feels like he did alright. You’re married, so you’re good. I’m on the higher end I think, given the common experience I’ve listed above. So neither…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:16 PM
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Brother I go out every weekend. You are telling me I’m getting my lived experience “invariably wrong”. If I go to the bar right now, with everyone knowing that I have a gf / relationship interest, these female 3s would walk right past all of the other cool single male 3s and start trying to add themselves to my harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:08 PM
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I will have to respectfully disagree that a female 3 would ever be seen with a male 3. All the female 3s I know (seriously fat, resembles Shrek, masculine behavior, maybe they are 1s or 2s) are absolutely expecting to find 6s/7s. They keep fucking them and wondering why they aren’t getting actual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:04 PM
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I would largely agree. I was elaborating on red pill thought processes, not making an argument for them. I would say, though, there are parts of your narrative missing. I don’t think it’s always the one she was dating. I see a lot of average guys that are unable to date average women. It’s very noticeable in a small town. All these single women want to be with the same couple of men, (8s, 9s, 10s). They would rather share this guy than be with someone in their own league. I can’t really speak fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:54 PM
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Most importantly, perceived by others. Which sort of implies it isn’t so subjective? If an entire bars worth of women all rated me at once, I believe the range would be 2 at max. So, for instance, some might say 6, some 7, some 8. But no one is saying 3. And no one is saying 10. So there might be some slight variations, but I think largely there is some objectivity there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:50 PM
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Red pillers would say this is actually not what happens. All of these “average” women are not interested in the average man. Because of the wicked combination of the hypergamous nature of females + instagram, you get all of these women convinced that they are worthy of a “high value man”. Normal guy gives up and gets addicted to porn. Normal woman tries retaining HVM until 30+, when she becomes disillusioned and either focuses on her career or settles for one of these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:41 PM
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Which is also stupid to say though, because no one wants to be with someone they find unattractive, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:38 PM
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I definitely don’t think you should expect something. It sounds like for the most part we agree. I just wanted to remind you, and whoever else, to try to be charitable to these types of men. We may choose someone with “nothing” tangible going for them. But only the worst of the worst would do this so that they can trap someone. Many of us just like being able to help people in as many ways as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:41 PM
1

I see it, of course. But it’s not so vivid for most, fortunately for you. Assuming I never share my powers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:37 PM
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Any man with life experience and money has been with enough women to have fine-tuned their thot detecting mechanisms. Give me one IRL conversation, and I can tell if it’s closer to 1, 10, or 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:25 PM
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I pretty much agree right up until the second the last sentence. Men do want women to need them, but NOT so they are trapped and unable to leave. That’s ridiculous, insulting, and incorrect. It’s because it fulfills an extremely primal base-instinct. There is immense satisfaction in being able to be that G. The dude she looks to for financial support, the dude she calls when the car breaks down, the dude she calls for emotional comfort, the dude she calls to fuck shit up if necessary. I wanna be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:19 PM
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It’s so negligent and meaningless that if Walmart girl had just one unique benefit, like I could use her employee card, we’ll take her 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:49 PM
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That stable financially successful guy is going to be able to tell if you are a woman that has been railed by a significant number of men, and treat you accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:47 PM
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It has nothing to do with fear. Why is the damsel always in distress? Locked away in a tower, guarded by a dragon, seemingly doomed? Because men generally love saving women, being the knight in shining armor, able to show them new things for the first time etc. And women usually love being saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:45 PM
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Flair checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:33 AM
1

That’s also bad and unfortunate? Lol Why can’t we acknowledge things on both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:51 AM
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I totally agree, I wish it wasn’t a thing. It also sucks women genuinely aren’t aware of how they’re going to feel about it until it’s too late. I don’t think they are malicious about this. But the consequences are devastating, and I’ve seen many women leave their man or cheat on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:45 AM
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You can and should cry if necessary. I’m just arguing you should never risk doing it around women, based on what I’ve seen. Even though they will tell you differently, that’s what bros are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:18 AM
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Yet when I used to have sex with girls who had bfs, I’d always ask where it went wrong / why she’s doing it. You’d be amazed how many said it was because he cried in front of her. Even the ones that thought they could handle that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:02 PM
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I’m sorry, but your boyfriend is and was correct. The only way someone could manage to never have sex by age 25, is by listening to girls like Jessica instead of men like your bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:37 PM
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LOL that’s genius, I only recognized it because I always get triggered by their comments. Respect. Inshallah they stumble across this and also become halal-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:11 PM
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Is your flair supposed to be making fun of another person’s flair I always see commenting here? If so, extremely based.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:08 PM
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That’s not what single 40 year old women want though brother. What they want, they can no longer have. Hence, the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:56 PM
2

The whole “men blossom with age” thing isn’t implying that they are unlike females when it comes to psychical deterioration. Beauty is the primary attractor for men to women. As this fade’s for a woman, she is inherently less valuable from a dating perspective. Men, however, are not seen as beauty objects. We are valued traditionally for things like status, money, confidence, competence, etc. ALL OF THESE are things that increase with age- not decrease. Leonardo Decaprio was probably most attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:54 PM
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Everyone saying just have fun, dance, and be yourself LOLOLOL this will fail 10/10. Let me give you real advice. Fuck dancing, if you don’t like it don’t learn. I personally think it’s goofy. You wanna be dancing around like a goofball or seated, enjoying a drink, while some chick twerks on you? Obviously cover the basics. Haircut, shave, fire outfit, accessories. You gotta stand out. An interesting fit will get you approached. After that comes logistics. If you have a friends that are cool, bri…
/r/seduction08/09/22 03:30 PM
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Black pilled garbage. Plenty of people who aren’t down too bad, just have a bad mindset, and upon fixing it are capable of living significantly better lives. Even just in my small area, I know several folks who have leveled up thanks to “red pill” content.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:04 PM
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I’m inclined to agree. It should be clear as day to anyone outside of the western liberal paradigm that these values are not something to aspire to. Unfortunately, the arms of the western propaganda machine spread far and wide. We’ll see who wins I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:31 PM
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It’s not just, say, abortion law or some shit that feminism is influencing. It’s permeated culture to an extreme extent- the music women hear, the TV shows women watch, the things they’re told in school, etc all influenced by an ideology that is inherently misguided at best, malicious at worst. You have a 0% chance of meeting a western woman that hasn’t had her brain altered by feminism in some way, shape, or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:18 PM
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Lmao keep making whatever assumptions you want so you don’t have to step outside your world view. There are virgins out there who are more than capable of becoming the absolute best girlfriend to the right guy, and you’re upset because you are not the guy. You’ve convinced yourselves the used goods are the real perfect matches because you’re a low value male only capable of attaining such.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:08 PM
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He made his money from that same webcam business, he’s talked all about it. Don’t see what’s wrong with helping women make more money. As for Hustler’s University, what part is fake? It’s a course that teaches you how to make money in 18 different ways. I’m not in it, but anecdotally I know people who have found success in both trading Options and E-Commerce. Are you calling it fake just because they’re used to be an affiliate component to the site? Do you take issue with Amazon as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:01 PM
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It’s fucking moronic that this is always the go-to when people disagree about these topics. Tristan Tate, a model / millionaire / kickboxing champion, has said the same thing. I’m going to guess he doesn’t get any either?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:40 PM
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I would agree that the 18-20 range is ideal. Regardless, the fewer bodies the better- always.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:37 PM
1

They’re just waiting to know if they love sex or not with the right person. Or they’re religious, that’s cool too. If they deem you to be the first one worthy of giving themselves too, they will bond with you, love you, and respect you in a way that no woman with 40 bodies could ever imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:29 PM
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Your flair needs an explanation, virgins are the best partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:34 PM
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Extremely based and realistic woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:32 PM
3

What does your flair mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:34 PM
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You can call it creepy, weird, go with whatever coping mechanism you’d like. You don’t see 18 year old men bitching and moaning because all the most attractive women would prefer an older man with money, maturity, competence, a stable lifestyle, etc. Men are valued for these things and at 18 you have none. Women, on the other hand, are typically valued for beauty. Something that is maxed out at 18, and decreases every day after. It is what it is. Most men here accept this, and choose to adapt. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:57 AM
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Because they’re isn’t an infinite supply of attractive 18 year old women, or men that are worthy of claiming them. The way to tell what men actually want, if they could have anyone, is by looking at high value males like Leonardo DiCaprio. It seems like the more options men have, the younger they go. Curious..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:46 AM
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There are actually hundreds of different studies proving the same thing, probably a meta-analysis out there to be found. Here’s some data from a book called Dataclysm: “The graphs show a sliding scale where both 20-year-old and 49-year-old men both cite women aged 20 as what they find the most attractive. The age of a woman men find most attractive never makes it above 24.” Here’s another study https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/sciadv.aap9815 proving that “Female online daters peak at age 18, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:33 AM
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Researchers once studied the “desirability” of both males and females on dating apps by looking at over 200,000 users, it revealed that while men’s sexual desirability peaks at an older age (30+) - women’s desirability starts high at 18 and begins falling from there. A 30 year old woman is the equivalent to an 18 year old man to women. Basically useless, cannot provide what is expected of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:11 AM
0

We literally agree friend thanks for your comment. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:03 PM
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Because I didn’t know I was talking to a female. A man would read that and understand exactly what I mean. Even what you are saying isn’t true, 30% of men haven’t had sex within the last year. Trust me they would be in these FWB relationships if they could. You are being hyper-autistic. Yeah, I guess any dude could find an ugly girl with a high libido, and embarrass himself by keeping her around to bang 10x times a day. Who the fuck wants that. The point, AGAIN, is that women wouldn’t have to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:03 PM
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Not only does he not need to, he CAN’T, despite such a reality being preferable. Whereas any woman, barring extremely unfortunate genetic deformities, CAN. That’s my whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:54 PM
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We aren’t talking about can you get a FWB once in your life. My original comment was about what’s necessary to get laid as much as an ugly, promiscuous female. You saying these men cannot get poon every week is just an admission that I am right. Even a female 2 or 3 can go into the bar, say “who wants to fuck me”, and leave with an alright guy within 5 minutes (10 at most).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:24 PM
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Bad faith argument here. You can’t tell me that if I sat you in front of a UFC fighter and a southern housewife, you wouldn’t know exactly what it is I’m talking about. I agree, they should do what they can to take care of things as well. We should all behave according to our capabilities and proclivities- most of which are biological. Why should my wife spend 10 years training martial arts with the aim of becoming a fierce protector of children, when I could achieve the same result in 3 months …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:22 PM
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Well, personally, I would say something is wrong with it. I believe men and women are supposed to be and do certain things, and the world is better off operating under this system. A man that takes responsibility for the people he cares about is inherently better than one that doesn’t believe in gender roles. A better father, a better brother, and a better partner. The same is true for a soft, pure woman that heals the energy of those around her. A world full of these women is (objectively, IMO)…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:54 PM
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Oh my sweet, summer child.. You would have to spend so many hours per day doing this to compete with a woman walking in a bar and just sitting there. So many hours, that other areas would begin to fall behind. You’d become overweight. You would lose your job. There isn’t enough time in the day, unless again you are one of the 3 things listed above.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:35 PM
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Women aren’t fucking men similar to them. For a guy to get laid as much as even an ugly promiscuous female, he has to be either 1. Rich 2. Verified on Social Media 3. Top .001% looks, capable of becoming a model.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:23 PM
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I’m trying to tell you that’s every man. Imagine you went to a LV store for a handbag. Yours is $500. Next girl in line gets hers for $250. The next girl gets hers free. You are going to say oh hell no, something’s wrong here. Why is hers free when I paid all this money? (Or, for this analogy, gave you a ring and commitment) Even men like your husband feel this way. High value men can speak their mind and still get women. Low value men, on the other hand, are forced to say all kinds of crazy shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:15 PM
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Andrew Tate can’t get laid? The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him couldn’t get laid? King Solomon, who had 300 wives yet undoubtably would discourage female promiscuity, could not get laid? I think there are lots of notable men who recognize the differences amongst genders. When you are at a certain level, as a man, attracting women is guaranteed. The only people who need to soy out for promiscuous females are men that are also weak losers. It’s a coping mechanism. “Fuck whoever you want! It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:47 PM
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Funny, I was on a date just the other night with a young woman who once said the same thing. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:42 PM
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Begging me to “stick to my own kind” is only proving my point. The most liberal, feminist woman cannot help but be attracted to a masculine man. It’s biological. The same way that, despite being raised in the most progressive culture in human history, my peen still feels a certain way when I bump into a submissive, gentle, southern woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:37 PM
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We are not the same. Positive traits for men are not the same as positive traits for women. A submissive man is a weak, unattractive man. Both to other men, and the majority of women. On the contrary, a submissive woman is a pleasant, attractive woman. Both to other women, and the majority of men. There’s nothing wrong or puritanical about this. It’s just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:27 PM
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“There’s nothing wrong with a woman wanting a tall, strong man that can protect her- unless SHE isn’t tall & strong herself. Otherwise, she’s just a hypocrite.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:19 PM
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Is it hypocritical for women to want a strong man that can defend them, while also having never stepped into an MMA gym themselves? I’d say fuck no, because men look for different things in women than women do in men. For totally valid, sound, biological reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:16 PM
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Guys that get a lot of sex on their merits, rather than lying / being manipulative, absolutely end up with less promiscuous women. Do you think Andrew Tate has to choose prostitutes over Romanian virgins? A Russian oil tycoon? Conor McGregor?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:14 PM
1

? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:29 PM
2

Because those dudes are morons. There are probably other more obvious explanations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:18 PM
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Yeah that’s 100% wrong, these dudes just resent women (especially ugly women) because they can put in no effort and still attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:11 PM
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This is absolutely proven false by tinder studies showing that the ugliest women receive more attention than even the most “chad” men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:30 PM
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LMAO holy shit I’m at work right now trying to save it for later Is this the video? https://youtu.be/MSq54f2JT_U
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:05 PM
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What the fuck is this experiment for the uninitiated
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:46 PM
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I agree, but I’m more so talking about what attracts the opposite sex. If we take location or workplaces out of the mix and apply this to tinder, what % of women will swipe specifically because of a man’s career? What about vise-versa? If I’m hyping up a girl to my friends, I’ll never mention her job. No one gives a shit. If a woman is doing the same, “he’s a doctor” is the first thing out of her mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:17 PM
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Could it just be that those are the kinds of people high value men are around? Like yeah they don’t mind a woman having a career, but it doesn’t attract them like it might for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:00 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypergamy I’m sure there are counter-examples to both. Just like how I’m sure you can find women that prefer shorter men rather than taller. Doesn’t mean it isn’t the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:52 PM
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Men absolutely do not care about status as much as women. If you look at the Wikipedia page for hypergamy (“dating up”), you’ll see that it literally says this mostly applies to women. A rich man may very well wife up the cashier at CVS if she is beautiful enough. A male cashier is going to be virtually invisible to all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:39 PM
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