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| – | If women are successfully hypergamous, shouldn’t men be upset and demand action from/against the few men benefitting rather than the multitude of women?In the age of nukes, that might not be the case. Japan has been in demographic decline my entire life, and they are still holding together as a culture. They are also pretty anti-immigrant, so that might make a difference, but I doubt anything will change in the US in my lifetime. We are becoming majority minority, as a country, but the ethos of the country has not changed much, and the primary ethic groups, African Americans and Latinos, have been here for hundreds of years, so most of that cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 04:34 PM |
| – | If women are successfully hypergamous, shouldn’t men be upset and demand action from/against the few men benefitting rather than the multitude of women?People can live fine lives in declining societies, Rome lasted hundreds of years in decline, before finally failing. The key is to plan for the decline, and keep your assets safe from inflation and unjust taxes, of which Rome had plenty of both. Of course there may come a time where you just have to bail, although most of the western world seems to be caught in a demographic decline, so having some nice 'border crossable' assets would be handy, if there comes a time for geo-arbitrage. The proble… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 04:25 PM |
| 3 | If women are successfully hypergamous, shouldn’t men be upset and demand action from/against the few men benefitting rather than the multitude of women?Society doesn't 'need' functional mating. A society is just a group of people following a certain set of rules. One of the big problems with societies is that they often become very rigid and resistant to change. Sometimes you need to change a society, and I feel that not reproducing is just another method that a society can be forced to change, because it just can't survive following the same ideals that have clearly failed in the sexual marketplace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.If society treats some people like they are special, why shouldn't they think of themselves that way ? People treat diamonds like they are more valuable than water, but good luck surviving in the Sahara with your large bag of diamonds. The market rewards all kinds of things, just because people want them. This is just how markets work. This is also biology, and in nature things like this happen all the time as well, so there is no point in complaining about it, because its just reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesYea, if you want Chad you gotta put out, cause he has 4 other women on call, so he isn't going to chase if there isn't any honey right away. The problem here is that most 'Reddit men' that you can talk to here are sub 5 'ghost men', so what we want, or think is the right thing to do, doesn't really matter, because we are completely invisible to all women, so we don't even know what the 'Chad logic' even is, and can only guess what the guy who has all the girls is thinking, or what is the best wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 09:11 PM |
| – | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeThis is Chad's second superpower. He either ignores women's political 'feels', or he just says 'you are wrong' and immediately changes the subject. The reality is that most people are highly illogical, men AND women, and autistic guys just need to turn their inner Spock off, and just go with the flow, and not argue with women over stuff that is not in their immediate control. Ironically, its pretty common that women don't even mean the stuff they are regurgitating, and even if she says she's a '… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Is a man more attractive when he’s single or in a relationship?A man is probably slightly more desirable in a metaphysical way, just because he's probably not a deranged lunatic, if he has a woman standing by him. He's probably also not desperate, since he at least likely has some intimacy in his life, while a single guy could very well be pretty desperate, depending on their situation, which is at least initially a big unknown with a single guy. Preselection is also real, in that its more reasonable to think that there is more than meets the eye, in a good… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherComplaining about stuff is pretty normalized in our culture. I imagine even if every lonely guy got a free, fully bedroom functional government Cat-girl Waifu robot from Japan, they would still be posting here complaining about how the Trad-Wife setting isn't working the way they want, or it forgets their name when they have to reboot it ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 11:06 PM |
| 1 | "Nice Guys" are basically an urban legendYou ARE the OP, so telling me to read your post again doesn't really clarify what your own issue with my comment is. I have met plenty of guys who consider themselves 'nice', and who ask the exact question you say is purely hypothetical, and wonder why they get 0 attention from women, and the reason is, they are usually pretty shy, and only do the bare minimum social graces to function in society. There is no 'participation trophy' in the relationship world, that a man can win for just showing u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 09:29 PM |
| 1 | "Nice Guys" are basically an urban legendIts kind of like someone saying, 'why am I not financially successful, I go to work for 8 hours every day !' The thing is, most guys are 'nice', at least on a surface level, you kind of have to be, or you end up in jail or beaten up. Its kind of like the water a fish lives in, but just like most guys go to work for 8 hours a day, being nice, or having a job, is just the bare minimum to get by. To succeed in life, or relationships, just takes more than saying please and thank you, that is just th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Women complain about men lacking commitment, yet society allows women to always have one foot out the door while putting all the risk on men if they do commitThere is no reason to commit, or support this Late Stage Roman Empire we live in, in the West. Some men just want to see the world burn isn't just a villain description, it applies to most men of the West now... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 09:52 PM |
| 8 | Men below 25 want a relationship more than women below 25These generalizations are sweeping so hard, my condo must be clean by now... Girls just want to have fun ? Yea, that's how the song goes, however, I'm a 50 yr old man, and there has NEVER been a time in my life that I didn't want fun in my relationships. I'm trying hard to even imagine what that would be like 'Yes, Ms. female human, we must produce a fresh crop of Tax Cows for the Fatherland, to win the Eternal War, so lets just do this. Could you wear this bag over your face, I don't really car… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Straight men on this subreddit, would you take a magic, gene-altering pill to become gay? (Not a satire question. Be serious.)No, and the reason is, any relationship will be hard. Will a fantasy perfect gay relationship be easier ? Yes, but not so easy that it would be worth ditching traditional sex. I'm just going to trust women on this, from those that talk about having done both, that vaginal sex is better than anal sex. Intuitively this should be the case, because our bodies evolved to do this thing a certain way, so why would another way be better ? Although I personally don't care if the human race ends, a lot of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 01:18 PM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyWe all don't do the right thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 11:21 AM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyThis won't be a choice most women make, either you are meeting people pretending to be successful, but are actually criminals, or you troll the gaming shops where the autists might be found. The two groups are worlds apart, I can't imagine a situation where a person would be dating both of these types of men, and could make that choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 11:12 AM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyObviously there is a type of woman out there that likes danger and aggression, and they are NOT choosing autistic men, as a matter of course, so there is no point in complaining about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 08:02 AM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyI don't really see the incentive here, the crimes have already been done. Women want excitement, risk taking, and men who perform well in bed. and they are NOT getting that from functional Autists that are as bland as wonder bread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Losing attraction to my girlfriend because of her jobYou are responding to a Red Pill generalization, which of course do not apply to everyone. However, most desperate simp men WILL pay for, and tolerate, a nice attractive young woman to live with them, even if she has no money and no ambition. Now if YOU can pull another, up-level woman, then that is the winning move, and you should do that, but if you go a few years in the wilderness, and there IS no hawt 5 year younger woman, with a comparable 90 K college job to yours, to happily jump into you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 06:28 AM |
| 1 | It's unnatural for men to chase women.Yes, I 'get' this strategy, but you have to be over a certain level of basic 'manliness', before a woman will ever come to you. I'm going to put that level at, lets say, 7 out of 10. I myself, am unfortunately below that level, and thus there is no approach, or even subtle hints, from any woman I interact with. I'm happy for you to be of such an inherent desirability level that you do get passive approaches at some reasonable level, but for many of us, this is not the case, so unless we are drop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 10:48 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't make sense when women claim that most men just want casual sex.I think in terms of pure ID wants, most men would in fact just want casual sex. Now long term relationship is certainly the third best thing, and if that were the only option, many average men would settle for it, but I don't think most men are looking for long term relationships, as their fantasy dream option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women?Women on average have more sexual opportunities than men, so they are less likely to look at friends in that way. Also, if a woman wants an intimate relationship, they can probably go out and find that fairly easily, while that initial hump is MUCH harder from a man's perspective, so the odds of a man looking for a more than friends situation is much more likely. I would say faithful and happily married men might be more open to platonic friendships with women, but that is not the majority of me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 07:27 PM |
| 2 | The advocating of age gap relationshipsI think what men want in relationships is more visual/physical, while women want to actually do interesting things with their man. This can be a key difference, because a man will have no problem putting up with a slightly less mature woman who is young and beautiful. while a (say, 30 year old) woman may not want to do the kinds of cheap and dangerous things a 18 year old guy wants to do, like go tubing through a storm drain during a storm, which is obviously stupid and dangerous (and affordable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 04:21 PM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menBeing in a city HAS stopped people from fucking, and the last crumbs of jobs are in the cities, so they are pure population sinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 05:36 PM |
| – | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?Id say $10,000 a month is too much. I've seen higher, but at that level, there is just nothing that kid is ever gong to go without, even if the mom isn't spending like 80 % of it on herself, which of course she is. Yes, yes, high cost of living, and private school and private daycare, and maid service, but if a woman has that level of living costs, maybe the big city just isn't for her, if she doesn't have a high powered Gigachad Daddy Warbucks man in the house, paying for everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 07:39 PM |
| 17 | Men’s sexual desire has been socially castratedMen's desires have been at the forefront, and the default, for millennia. You are just too young to see a time before the pendulum swung its current way. When I was young, mainstream movies had this rather silly thing, it was called a 'shower scene', and a young, physically attractive women, who was a main character in the movie, would just randomly undress and take a shower in front of the camera, and you got to check out her goodies, for no plot reason. I saw a few of these as a kid, and even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | The quantity of marriages dont matter if the quality is shit.I think you are getting into semantics here. I 'care' about Timeshare sales pitches, in that they are very common, and have very obvious tells that your 'free' steak dinner isn't going to be so free, even though I have no interest in them, or interest in actively fighting them, I'd still like to warn any friends that are talking about such a pitch event, since they may not understand the legal risks of getting into such a thing, and that is how I see Redpillers and marriage. This is actually how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:29 PM |
| 2 | If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her?Ironically, about half of the hypotheticals already exist in some form, or make logical sense. We already can't have certain types of pron, even if its drawn, or pure fantasy, we already do have a lot of our income taken from us, if we have a child and the mother demands child support, there is totally a social stigma from a man being permanently single, and you know what ? I would totally be down for some 'child insurance', that presumably would cover the costs of child support, in the case of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 06:24 AM |
| 1 | If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her?I think the idea is that men with low quality sperm or no family are treated much worse than other people, maybe sent to a work camp. To some extent there is some social stigma for opting out of the future of the human race, but OP's vision is something much more like reverse Handmaids Tale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 06:17 AM |
| -1 | If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her?I beg to disagree, at least in the West. In our system, politics is mostly meaningless, as an Anachro-Capitalist, literally none of my ideas are law, and I oppose 95 % of what liberal western governments do, as well as the entire tax system. If you are not in team red Uniparty, or team blue Uniparty, your views will never be taken seriously, and even if you ARE in one of the two lame choices, you just flip flop back and forth between them, so your ideas are only going to be law for 4-12 years, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 06:10 AM |
| 1 | The quantity of marriages dont matter if the quality is shit.Redpilled men don't care to get into marriage, but they DO like dissing it. Dissing something is not thinking its the end-all-be-all, its just tearing it down. If you don't like Redpill tearing marriage down, that is fine, but I was a little confused by the first paragraph. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Saying that romantically unsuccessful men have bad personalities is ableistDating is probably the area in life with the most overt discrimination of all, because its purely a personal preference, and there is no way to force 'fair' decisions, because nothing is fair in love and war. The very term 'bad personality' could pretty much cover every non-physical aspect of someone, including autism, intellectual deficiency, and even just being rude, and I'm sure its used in an ableism way, and sometimes not, the ambiguity itself hides what exactly is the problem, and that is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | The quantity of marriages dont matter if the quality is shit.You seem confused in this 'debate' It's actually the Patriarchy that is all about the 'quantity of marriages' Most actual Redpilled men don't care for marriage much, and its pretty clear the quality of marriages is on average pretty sh!t. I don't know what the TikTok chicks are saying, but they are probably just mouthing off to get attention, and the act of marriage has always been something of a shared fantasy. Marriage has in reality been a state and society institution, as if relationships ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: These "Her" like AI experiences won't alleviate loneliness for menAI as it exists now is hot garbage. That being said, its somewhat good at generating random-ish responses that are somewhat logical. I think such things will have to be judged on a spectrum. Clearly this thing will not end loneliness, and probably it will always be looked down on as a fancy chatbot, but if they ever get a robot person going, being able to spew random topics with some level of coherence will be needed, along with many other simulations, to make this larger fantasy come into focus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 08:52 PM |
| 1 | If hypergamy exists, why are there so many couples which disprove it?Its a self-serving theory as to why its hard for red pill men to date and marry women. Clearly anyone with eyes can see that its still pretty normal for at least 50 % of men and women to be shacking up and married, even if a lot of those relationships eventually end in divorce. My theory is that the pool of, say, 6+ out of 10, and 18-29 year old women that are single and looking for men in clubs and online is just a REALLY toxic subset of women, and maybe among this, lets say, 10 % of all women,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Why raising men’s standards could change dating for everyoneMen are on average thirsty and will settle, and I don't see any way to change it. Its just like the Social Security Ponzi Scheme. The Galveston Texas teachers opted out of Social Security when that was briefly allowed, and by creating private investment accounts, each person in a real retirement system got eight times as much money out at retirement, as could be eked out by participating in a government slush fund, but normal people don't care about or understand compound interest, so we stay st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why aren't men as into Consensual Non-consent or raep fantasies as much as women?This goes to a core feminist belief, one that gets lots of male pushback, including from me. The idea that raep is about power, and not sex. I don't believe this is the case, because there are lots of other things in life a man can do to get power. The very concept of power is highly malleable, and can be expanded into almost anything. Owning a muscle car can be a form of power, as in horsepower. A rapidly compounding real estate empire or stock portfolio is a type of power, spending power. Winn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Women wield a ton of access to sex. But, it's pointless to argue about it.We are literally on a forum called 'purple pill debate' and you are asking what is the point of debating women's gatekeeper role ? There is no point, its the internet, baby, arguing is what we do, its what we ARE, and if men are going to whine about something here, its probably not going to be their slightly better job prospects... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Why do men claim to want a virgin wife and yet try to sleep with virgin women saving themselves for marriageIt means that guys want absurd things all the time, and virginity is just one of those things that we might want, if we could have whatever we wanted. This type of fantasy is not limited to the West, how about all of those virgins the terrorists get for dying for their cause ? Most guys will actually take whatever they can get, and don't really care, in my opinion. Obviously, the more partners a woman has had, the more cumulative risk of having a disease, or children, or just physical wear and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 06:50 AM |
| 1 | "Lower your standards" is good advice for women but bad advice for menLowering your standards is always bad advice, for any gender. Most people will be happier alone, than hooking up with someone they don't like. Guys get in a lot of trouble settling for being Beta Bux, or even worse, a walking ATM machine, or a sugar daddy. If there are men of high standards, there is nothing wrong with women looking for that. I have met several high status men, they are out there, and if you can't compete, that is a personal problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Sure we don't like it when men sexualized women. But we all still live in a society that encouraged men to sexualize women though.Women have been heavily sexualized in the past across most works of fiction, and the modern depictions and presentations seem to be carrying that forward to some extent, in the areas where such things have appeared in the past. Most non-remake stuff released today tends to not sexualize women very much, compare the Madam Web red carpet presentation to the actual movie, and you can clearly see that the red carpet leans heavily into the sexualization of the cast, while the actual movie is very res… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Online dating really isnt that bad.The original sites, where you looked through profiles were ok, all this new video game swiping stuff, while it is visceral and faster, it really isn't dating, more like dissing on people, and is way to gamified. I'm sure someday they will figure it all out, as we are not going back to mixers IRL, but the current crop of apps really isn't worth your time, unless you are a top tier man, but for that top 10 %, it really seems to work great. The core problem is that there just are not that many attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 06:24 PM |
| -1 | Why Men Are Doomed Due to Hypergamy in Modern SocietyYou need to get out of the online bubble, I know plenty of lower working class men, and they are mostly in traditional committed relationships. This opinion that modern men are doomed is an online doomer position. Online dating just doesn't work, and almost can't work, since its basically a video game, so random, and there are so many fake or located far away people, and the chances of a match are all but nil. This problem of yours is just a matter of getting out there into real life, and meetin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 04:29 PM |
| 3 | If TRP believes it’s mostly unsustainable to meep LTRs, why does it always blame the guy if the girl leaves him?This is about relationships, not specifically the marriage timebomb. Being Brad Pitt only makes long term relationships with 9's and 10's possible, they still have all the risks of normal relationships, just with less crazy, because there is not an obviously better man than an 11/10. For a married man, once your joint assets go over a certain amount, divorce is almost certain, regardless of if there is no better man to swing to, unless you let them spend what they want, or you are close to a nat… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/24 08:47 AM |
| 15 | If TRP believes it’s mostly unsustainable to meep LTRs, why does it always blame the guy if the girl leaves him?We are about figuring out what went wrong, if anything, so we can do better next time. Randomness is a pretty big factor in any relationship with a woman, but there are people that make them last a lifetime, and people that can't get 1 week, and there are patterns and lessons to be learned from both, and that is what we try to do. The phrase, 'She's not yours, its just your turn' is a good cope for an unexpected end, if you have done your best. There also is a trend that many women end relations… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/24 06:55 PM |
| 8 | After all, what is for you, the most condensed and hard hitting distilled essence of the red pill? If you had to put it into a tldr?The most important fact in this modern life, especially for an average man, is that at the start of your adult life, literally no one cares about you, beyond your immediate family, until you give them a damn good reason to care. Not your boss, not your co-workers, and sure as hell not women. You are not the center of attention, no one is looking at you, unless you have a hideous birth defect, and nothing in your life will change for the better, until you change it with your mind and your two han… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/24 10:20 AM |
| 4 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.No one wants to be a trad wife, not even in a dudes fantasy life. That is why fertility is going to 0, as we descend into Rat Utopia... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Frame vs SetupYou can certainly improve those external things, and you should have some long term plans, but they are not easy, for the most part. Getting into shape is hard and takes some time, at least 6 months to a year, getting wealthy is not hard per se, but its usually very slow, taking a decade or more. Also, regardless of your retirement planning, no woman will care what is in your 401k before dating you, or sleeping with you, until you get all the way to the divorce rape part, so its not just having … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/24 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Red pills only feed the system they oppose, making it harder for the average manThe misconception is to see these things RP says as 'complaints' rather than just modern reality. "Improve yourself to become alpha or close to alpha, meaning getting fit, money, status, anything you can get to increase your sexual market value, followed with the knowledge of "true female nature" So you complain that the system is hypergamous yet your solution to go through it is... feeding hypergamy more?" We don't do 'solutions', just managing our part of reality. If the system IS hypergamous,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Question for those that "gave up."I gave up about 30 years ago. There was nothing really wrong with me, besides being short and not very social, but that is more than enough. After giving up I have been developing my Ninja-like skill of being invisible to women. Its not easy to tell when my super power kicks on, but the occasional jump scare reminds me that with great loneliness comes great responsibility... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 09:14 AM |
| 1 | The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous.Those men have a goal and confidence. The fact that the goals are insane and evil isn't the most important thing. Having no goal and no confidence is much worse in women's eyes, and you will never convince them otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.Ummm, anyone with this idea does not understand strait men, and we are NOT that complicated. We want to get our ding-a-ling in some ho ho, and it would also be nice if she had a pretty face. That is it. Yes, another dudes behind can technically fit a penis, but that doesn't excite us. I'd rather, by a factor of 10 or 100, stare at some porn and use my hand and just imagine a female, then put my penis inside another man, and since porn and our own hands are usually free, the incentive to actually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:05 PM |
| – | Dating is hardest for straight menDating is harder for all men, regardless of sexuality, because we are the more thirsty sex. Now its easier to have GAY SEX as a gay man, because gay men are more promiscuous than strait women, but an actual gay male relationship requires a lot of self improvement, maybe even more than man-woman (!!), and the numbers of available gay men are much less than strait male-female, so the odds are even more against that type of ongoing relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 07:05 PM |
| 8 | By evolutionary logic, we wouldn’t have evolved to be attracted to things about people that they can controlHonestly, we are mostly no longer 'naturally' hunting on the African savanna, so our evolutionary logic is mostly just genetic baggage at this point. To be blunt, a mate with a huge pile of freshly printed cash they got from their daddy's Federal Reserve banking job can make your life a LOT easier for you and all your offspring, even if they have no genetic advantages, and you give birth to lots of ugly duckling children... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Men don’t love romantically either, they’re just coming from a place of scarcityKind of a generalization. I'm sure some men 'love romantically' even if they come from a place of scarcity, this is more of an 'average Modern man' kind of thing. The reality is that human children are too helpless to quickly stand up and run on the steeps of Africa, like prey animals, and they just don't survive without some father AND mother involvement, so there had better be some biological and emotional attraction of men to their mates and children, or we would never have made it to where w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Men don’t love romantically either, they’re just coming from a place of scarcityWelcome to the internet, Simp Central. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 12:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Males are more likely to accept being fetishized in a LTR than women.This is from the Bell Curve. Men are further toward the edges, that is why we have more men in prison, homeless, in mental institutions, CEO's, and, of course, sexual fetishes. Also we have to get by the gatekeeper (women), so if we have to suck toes, or wear a diaper, well, you gotta do what you gotta do to get some... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 07:19 AM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsI would argue that its not actually a problem at all. Nigeria is FULL of young, English speaking people, looking for a better life, we have a better life, and a few less kids, seems like these two situations balance each other out nicely, once people stop complaining about immigration, and accept that we are not going to self-replenish, so we actually need the new workers that want to come here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:46 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsHow is it bad for 'society' if we have less kids ? Will it reveal that Social Security was just a giant Ponzi scheme the whole time ? Of course it will, and that is a GOOD thing. The sooner we either scrap SS, or have a real savings system with personal investments, the better. Sometimes building things to last instead of scams is a net gain, even if the transition is rocky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:43 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsHaving less people is not a disaster, its just a different population level. The Earth was fine with a population level of 1 Billion, and its fine with 8 Billion, and it will be fine when we get back to 1 Billion, and housing will be much more affordable as well ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:41 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsWhy would I support all those things which will cost me a ton in taxes, if I don't have any kids, and don't care if anyone else has kids ? If I don't have any of the fun of making kids, I sure as hell don't want to pay for Chad to have that fun... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel any male soliditary with male refugees/immigrants or view them as sexual competition/invaders?Anything more than 100 years ago is not relevant to the real world, unless we get EMP'ed back to the stone age, which is not impossible, but its such a low likelihood event, that its not worth dealing with. What is a real and current problem is that NYC is housing and feeding tens of thousands of immigrants, but we don't let them do the work they are willing to do legally. Its pure madness, and a horrible use of our countries swiftly dwindling resources. Speaking of events over 100 years ago tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel any male soliditary with male refugees/immigrants or view them as sexual competition/invaders?I welcome immigrants all the way, and I don't see the sexual element, except in Europe, and its usually aimed at rapists, which must be a tiny minority of the total immigrant population. Trump also referred to Mexican immigrants as rapists in his first election run, but seems to have set aside that rhetoric this time around. Most of the concern I hear is either economics (taking our jobs), or consuming government benefits (welfare users) As a Libertarian, I think everyone should work at the job … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 06:15 AM |
| 1 | What Male-to-female Ratio would your ideal Society for you to live in have?66 % female world would be a woke dystopia of the worst kind of welfare nanny state. Deficits everywhere, moneyprinter go BRRRRR everywhere. Inflation gone wild. Free college, free houses (except there won't be any built), free healthcare, green new deal everywhere, 100% solar and wind power, but it suddenly kicks off when a bunch of clouds comes by, or its a hot day and the wind stops. Alcohol would still be illegal in the constitution. Jack booted thugs would hunt down the last remaining men a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Most men just need to get laid. And social justice/modern culture has ruined their chances a lot.The incels didn't just appear out of nothing in 2000, the environment changed, and the sexual opportunities became vanishingly small, and as a result, they made some rational decisions, and now don't bother getting haircuts, or working out, or working on social skills, because there is no point, when they could instead be getting that next chrome gun in Call of Duty. Is this the most ideal outcome ? Of course not, but the reality is, those sexual opportunities are never coming back, so now its o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Most men just need to get laid. And social justice/modern culture has ruined their chances a lot.Maybe sex would help society and people, or maybe not, but it doesn't matter, because society has decided not to let most men get laid anymore, so pining for some fantasy good old days serves no purpose, because all the women of the world are not going to hand out pity sex to the incels like its the free love 1960's, so what is the point of this 'debate' ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Why do *some men, try to convince virginal & low n count women to have sex without marriage/commitment?There is a view in the Red Pill scene that all women are promiscuous for the 'right man', usually referred to by a racially linked name, Chad, Tyrone, Sanchez, Wong, and that if you made yourself into that man, you would have a chance with any woman, regardless of their reason for not being interested in promiscuous sex. Of course this is not reality, as there are definitely some women that will wait for marriage, or death, because they are weird, or have morals, or whatever reason. Yes, waiting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 01:38 PM |
| – | A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.Motherhood, like fatherhood, is not appreciated in Rat Utopia anymore, and that is why no one will do it anymore, unless its an accident, which is why the Powers That Be are trying so hard to outlaw abortion, to make sure the Social Security Ponzi Scheme gets some new victims, but THEY don't have to raise them. Also open borders is another simple solution to the 'Motherhood Problem', as its so much easier to just recruit some ready young workers, than to actually create them organically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 02:16 PM |
| 1 | If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them?The civil war in Liberia is the big example, but this link has some other smaller wins https://theweek.com/articles/457903/5-sex-strikes-21st-century | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 12:38 PM |
| 1 | If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them?Women do what they want, and that is not for me to say, but yes, that is the general idea. It wouldn't be the first time women got what they wanted manipulating sexual access. This is a pretty normal strategy in Africa, but we in the West like to think of ourselves as pure intellectual beings of light, but we have flesh as well, and the desires of the flesh drive a lot of the bad things that are now normal in our society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/24 09:48 PM |
| 1 | If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them?Sex strike. Its pretty much already happening, which is just another factor convincing men to further lower their fairly low standards, especially the 25% or so that are incel level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/24 08:11 AM |
| 1 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisW..T...FFFFFfFFF ? If you can PAY, there are no lines. The people in the US that go to India to get healthcare are looking to save a buck, and good for them. The lines are in Brittan and Canada, my friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 05:29 PM |
| 1 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisWe have established nothing. Only a test would establish anything, and I doubt there would be any savings. Also, the cost distribution is radically different under UHC, which will make some people pay way more than others, so there are also winners and losers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 05:27 PM |
| – | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenHe only told us the price of the car because he bought it to impress women, same reason as the steroids, which is insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 04:10 PM |
| – | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenSupercars only attract men, Wrong Bait ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 04:07 PM |
| 1 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisJust to clarify without your framing of this issue, Universal Healthcare is SLIGHTLY CHEAPER than the most expensive healthcare in the world. This does not mean that it is cheap, because its not cheap, and when you insert expensive things into the US, which has lots of structural flaws with its current system, it may turn out that UHC is not cheaper at all here, just because our system itself is so broken, with costs so out of control, that this may actually be a cost driver, just because servic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 04:02 PM |
| 0 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisPractically free, I can't believe we haven't provided it to everyone on the planet yet, considering its just pennies a year... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 10:38 AM |
| 1 | If the blue pill is correct, why does the friend zone exist?Standards for friends are MUCH lower than standards for lovers, also 90 % of advances get rejected, so the odds of lovering a friend are not good, so you are far better off looking elsewhere for a lover. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:49 PM |
| 0 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisUniversal healthcare is so unaffordable its insanity to support a massive nanny state, on the off chance that you might get lucky with a government freeloader that can get the government to pay for your possible progeny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingOMG, are you actually blaming the wealth gap on picky women ? Really ? If any Modern women are unhappy with the dating situation they can fix it, by dating Lonesome Losers. They haven't fixed it ? Well, I guess they are happy with the status quo then. Don't like the wealth gap between the rich and poor ? YOU can fix that, starting by not spending any money on any woman, saving and investing your earnings, and becoming the 1 % you seem jealous of in your comment. It turns out that living paycheck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else given up after discovering trp?The way you phrase that implies that you want me to 'game theory' out a society that lives like that. Ok - Don't Date Robots But that really isn't any of our problems. It will probably be another 200 years before the foreign chads come in and impregnate all our feminists, and they will be like 'Why didn't you defend us ?', and we will be like 'Miss Independent don't need no man, right ?', and then Miss Independent will have to decide if she actually DOES need a man, or if, in fact, the real worl… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/24 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringThe world won't go to shit, hell, even the west won't go south, because of reverse colonialism. The west can just import all the people in their ex-colonies that speak their language. We could right now replace almost every US citizen with a Nigerian, and the population reproduction problem is 100 % fixed, English is still the majority language, Social Security is solvent again, and everything's fine. No problem, bro ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Why Do Manosphere Dudes Get Mad At Women Having Options Instead of Other Men for GIVING Them Those Options?There is plenty of anger to go around, Usually Chad pops into the Redpill to sell the rest of us his PUA course, you know, so we can pay his child support for him, and he wants us to hate the women (and ourselves) and not him, so he can sell us more courses on how to be alpha and confident like he is, and manipulate those female dogs into doing what we want. Its actually a lot like the inflation problem, if you think about it. The problem with personal relations is a lot like money, its so uncle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | With the growing ideological divide between men and women and increasing bitterness, is heterosexuality becoming inferior?Social expectations can make relationships harder or easier, but the human sex parts just fit together best in a heterosexual way, so that isn't changing. That being said, traditional couplings are in decline, as are families worldwide, so clearly something is changing. I think its more technological than ideological, and reddit is closer to the fringe edge of the tech, so this forum tends to draw out the most affected people, so it seems more ideological, but more normal people are more obsesse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them95+ % of women are not interested in a normal guy, friend or stranger. 'Friend' isn't going to magically improve those odds, although a friend would have the slight advantage of knowing when a break up has happened in a woman's life, and there is technical availability, its not enough of an advantage to really tip the scales. The issue is more sunk cost. If a guy wants a friend he has known for, say, 6 months, to be more, and they say no, it hurts more than a random approach at a bar, where mini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 05:50 PM |
| 0 | Is the Red Pill something you would recommend to someone who wants to improve their dating experience?I think 'improve' is the wrong term. You don't improve your homeowner experience by buying a fire extinguisher, but instead you are 'more ready' if something goes wrong. It also depends on the goal of the dater. If you want to form a long term mutual respect relationship, TRP is unlikely to help much, but if you just want to get your penis wet without getting divorce-raped, it might help to have a more clear-eyed view of the risks and tactics needed, and where they lie. Things that you REALLY do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 10:17 PM |
| – | If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn.Its pure hypocrisy, and that is the norm with human sexuality. Lots of people like porn, but won't tell the world about it, because there is a stigma attached to it. The math of porn is not at odds with the number of men and women, because a few top tier beauties can make all the porn for all the other fat slobs, and thus your wife and mother don't have to be in any porn, to still have bajillions of porn videos full of beautiful people, with only a tiny subset of the total population making all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 06:51 AM |
| – | Women dress provocatively for male attentionA lady in the streets, and a freak in the sheets. This could apply to submissiveness as well, as there is a fairly universal (in the West) expectation of being miss independent, even if the reality is quite different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Every time a male celebrity's nudes are leaked - women and gay men spread it, laugh about it, discuss it, critique it, shame it etc. with zero blowback.Our culture protects women more than men, a pretty standard situation in most cultures. Also, a side effect of that is 99 % of dick picts are just ignored because there isn't much interest in that material in general without some kind of celebrity angle, whereas a female nude will have interest regardless of celebrity status, because there is general interest in it, so this is usually something of a non-issue, except for an extremely small subset of men were there is actually interest in their j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Predictions for how the dating market will look 100yrs from now?Ignoring this is DEFINETELY an option. And its sure as hell better than 'handmaid's tale' style social control, or the taxpayer funded kiddie bribes that are all the rage in Japan (along with sex robots, no contradictions there...) As the great Alfred Pennyworth once said 'some men just want to see the world burn', and I am definitely in that camp. We can always just open the borders if we have too many people collecting Social Security. There are 200 MILLION Nigerians, average age is 20, highly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Would you be a beta bucks?Yes, sadly, the world sort of forces us into these setups, even if something much more fair could exist in the 'wild', the reality is, the existing structure is so strong that it tends to pull the idealists into its orbit, and crush them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Would you be a beta bucks?I hadn't read that information on wolves, but some animals do have a pecking order, even if wolves specifically do not. Horses have this, and deer as well, to some extent. The wolves, if they are forced to live together, like in a zoo WILL have a pecking order, it seems to be a natural result of living in a large group. The only reason wild wolves don't have this is that they don't live together, outside of a family unit. But we humans definitely live together in large groups, so this type of be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Which do you feel a woman values more?This is something of a trick question, because we guys are notoriously bad at reading what women feel about things in the women's life, and I would not be sure which answer is true from the woman's perspective, but I can tell you that the MAN usually wants to be guy #1. Maybe after being guy #1, the man would be ok later becoming guy #2, but WE want that first state, before any transition, and if we are seen by a woman purely as guy #2, we may never get to that relationship, because guys kind of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 09:06 AM |
| 0 | Would you be a beta bucks?Leaders and followers exist outside of a romantic context, and there are tons of animal studies that find this relationship in mating rituals. Its hard not to believe that it exists in the human context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 08:16 AM |
| 1 | In the current year, do you think men should pay for dates? Why or why not?This is SUCH a small issue I don't see why men keep complaining about it. The reason men usually pay is simple economic supply and demand. The current supply of thirsty men of all ages vastly exceeds the number of available and attractive (to those men) women that want to waste an hour talking with them, full stop. This is also why online dating is hell, as well as the way clubs charge different genders, and men pay more there on average also. Men, if you don't want to play the mating game this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:58 PM |
| 1 | On the evolutionary origins of the BetaAnimals also have homosexuality, its probably related to the biological mechanism for attraction being a little wonky. We know that biological attraction IS wonky, because birds raised by humans won't usually mate with other birds, indicating that the entire mating process has can be 'nurture diverted' Fortunately, every female doesn't need a male, so its easy for an alpha to step in and make sure every female gets pregnant, regardless of if 2 % or 10 % of the males decide not to bother, or in n… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/24 04:24 PM |
| 1 | On the evolutionary origins of the BetaI'm sure there is a biological advantage to male nipples, since all lactating species males have them. Probably something second layer, like it takes much more energy/genetics to have completely different genders, or no male nipples increases the odds of a nippleless female, which would be so bad for reproduction among less social animals than humans (that tend to share the breastfeeding duties in more primitive cultures) that its worth every male having tiny nipples, if it guaranties that all t… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | As an actual Man, and intelligent, it makes no sense to me how TRP theory was flawed from the beginning?Of course we stole the theme of unplugging from societies lies from the movie, because its a cool theme. It doesn't mean the entire sub's idea set lines up 1 for 1 to the trilogy, beat for beat. If you found meaning in Neo and Trinity's lame relationship that is great, but we didn't, for the most part. Honestly, the only thing this sub has to do with the Matrix is the symbology of the red pill and the idea that mainstream society doesn't align with reality, that's it. You are trying to read more… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/24 07:34 PM |
| 8 | how to deal with losing your best womanSome things can only be learned by doing them. Just make sure you learn the lessons from the relationship, and you will find another. Since you only had one serious relationship, you have no perspective on how easy or hard they are to find, and I am sure you can find another. I had a VERY similar experience when I was young. When I was in junior high I met this girl who I thought was The One for me, but I was too young, and she lived too far away and I didn't have a car yet. We were together for… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/23 08:05 PM |
| 15 | How do you actually guage your level of attraction as a man?Online is VERY different than RL. The algorithms give a burst of bonus attention to new subscribers, then takes it away in a few days, to try to get them to become paying customers to try to get the same attention they used to get. This can lead to a lot of luck right after starting an account, but not nearly as much after a short while, so you really have to just go for it right at the start, because that will fall off hard in a few days. Another difference is if you rarely approach in real lif… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | If men want societal safety nets, they need to band together and weather the storm to get them.We don't want to pay for any more safety nets than we already have, and our nets would surely be much smaller than womens, because children get the dollars, and most men that need help do not have custody of their kids, if they have them, and if they do have custody, the womens benefits usually apply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 05:10 PM |
| 1 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?Men can say anything they want to, but it doesn't really matter, unless they can actually convince young women to get with them when they age out of that range. People want to be in a relationship if they are into that, or you can incel it up, and go your own way. There is no reason to have a family unless you want one, and plenty of good reasons not to have one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 11:31 AM |
| 1 | What is a the bitter truth for men about dating over 30Men's sexual peak is 17, but the odds of having any real life accomplishments at that age is very low. As a man, you can beta bucks up your life faster than your looks decline, but you still need to master the social skills, or those bucks are not going to help much. Also, the options fall off to some extent as the years go by, and older women are pickier, unless your social skills are god enough to pull much younger women. If you want sex or relationships with women, you need to prioritize that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not a meritocracy and it's toxic to suggest single men should "work harder"Grinding money and looks do help, but not so much as to be worth a huge amount of effort. I'd say its like going from 1 % success to 1.5 %, I mean, its a not insignificant 50 % improvement, but it still might get lost in the margin of error of normal rejection rates. It kind of reminds me of replacing the lights in my condo with compact fluorescents. Now I know from a special meter that the new bulbs use 75 % less energy than incandescent lights, but even so, I could not see the difference at al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 10:44 AM |
| 1 | The Fourteen Commandments of FrameClearly you will need some of these traits, just to have the interactions that might lead to opportunities. I was just pointing out they were pulled from all over the place. You can be negative or closed off, but as I said, it does make success much harder, but if you are negative or closed off, you will have to change that to succeed with women, and that won't be easy for those people. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/23 05:06 PM |
| 6 | The Fourteen Commandments of FrameTo clarify, video games and anime are not 'stupid' hobbies, they are antisocial. If you do antisocial things all the time for fun, you will end up an incel, just because you have separated yourself from others, and have no opportunities for social success (or failure). Those hobbies may be poor choices from the point of view of being an alpha male, but they are not stupid in and of themselves. Also, a lot of that 'be a fun person', 'move on from any negative person', and 'be open to new experien… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How do I gain back my confidenceI'm going to take a different tone than the other posters, because I think college is mostly just a scam for people to use daddy's money to get laid. Its really important to 'nail the launch' of your life, and maybe now isn't the best time to have a pity party here, or chase skirts harder. Yes, college is a great place to get laid, probably much better than Real Life, but you are kind of running out of college by year 3 (or at least you should be), you've got a lot of 'stuff' in your life, with … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/23 07:04 PM |
| – | Why do men hate sex workers so much?I don't know any men that just generally hate sex workers, but I do know plenty that resent the fact that women can sell their affections, and men cannot. I think the second thing is what you are experiencing, as sex work is just a job, and not that great a job, beyond (sometimes) the money, so its not logical to hate someone for doing a job, since most of us have to do one, of some kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 09:43 AM |
| 48 | Why women are obsessed with powerThe strangest part of this story is of course that the father obviously could do nothing to rescue a kidnapped daughter. He's a corrupt politician, not Liam Neeson. Since he was already dirty, he couldn't even go to the cops, and even if he did, there is no guaranty that she would have been rescued alive, and it would probably politically ruin her father, if his corruption was exposed. The father made the best rational choice available in his poor situation, but of course the daughter doesn't se… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/23 06:26 PM |
| 1 | New study shows that 5% of men sleep with 66% of young women. Will society destabilize from most men being neglected?'Society' is in sad shape, having spent all our savings, both individuals and government are hopelessly in debt, and we need society to destabilize, so we can change things, and get back to limited government and no debt. It doesn't matter if men have sex or no sex, as long as Chad can keep those single mothers pregnant, society can limp along, but we really do need a great reset, and the sooner we can get things destabilized enough to do that, the better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:02 PM |
| 2 | why do women do this?There is definitely a skill to small talk, but it seems that OP is challenged in that area, and may just be avoiding them from fear or something. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/23 02:45 PM |
| 0 | I don't think average men get laid that much actuallyYou are probably thinking average reddit 'Mother's basement dweller', while the rest of us are including real men like construction workers. I think overall average men DO get laid just fine, but when looking at reddit nerds that rant here, those averages go WAY down... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 08:46 PM |
| 2 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itI'm somewhat doubtful that there will be any rise in AI girlfriends, as even as a guy this mere possibility seems massively lame. There was a whole bunch of VR hype about next level porn a while back, and that obviously went nowhere, as there really isn't much better than an image or video that any new tech can do. The Daily show had a whole skit making fun of Japanese VR sex, with their correspondent getting trapped in the vr sex world and unable to escape, I can't find the skit, because its to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 02:06 PM |
| 42 | why do women do this?Welcome to Western culture. Now the hard part is making yourself something for them to pay attention to, and then acting on the attention. The reality is, its normally hard to get attention from women, because there are a lot of guys looking for it, and you have to compete with those other guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/23 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Do men's options really go up with age and women's options drop ? I don't know if that's true.Youth and beauty have value to both genders, and these things always go down. IF you took care of yourself physically, they could have gone down much less as a man. However, in addition to those things, men have other bonus traits that women might also like that you COULD have improved after you turned 18, if you have been working on them, which you didn't indicate. Fame, confidence, sexual experience, reputation, conversational skills with women, earning power and wealth, most of which tend to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Question for Redpill : Why do you care that women and society lied to you?What you posted is pure Red Pill 101, the problem is, some people (ESPECIALLY people on the internet all the time) are just anti-social bedwetters, and just can't move on from reddit trolling to actually fixing their life problems, or doing the stupid monkey tricks that might actually work to find someone actually willing to have sex with them. The sad reality is that societies lies extend FAR beyond the bedroom, as I would argue that most of the systems in society either don't deliver what they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 08:20 PM |
| 2 | How is it that each woman has tons of guys chasing after them (on average) when they're 51% of the populationYou (and those tons of guys) are probably not pursuing land whales, married/committed women, welfare mothers, homeless people, women over 40, Feminists, tat freaks, etc. Each woman probably does not have 'tons' of guys chasing them, only the sexxy womens, and also guys pursue multiple women at the same time as well, because frankly, its something of a numbers game to find someone who will actually reciprocate, so 'one-itis' is something of a loser strategy, so when you look at the kind of woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Only if its subsidized by my government, and since this is Japan, then NP. There are so many more immediate problems to be worried about something silly like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Why Should Men Get Married?Perhaps you have not noticed, but marriage is in serious decline in the west, and even gay marriage didn't reverse that trend, and even they are getting divorces from their new marriages pretty fast, this isn't too surprising, considering how permissive the gay lifestyle is, compared to the restrictions of marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Why Should Men Get Married?Sometimes the woman wants it, even if the man is expected to actually propose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think so many women are sexually attracted to K-pop male stars ?Fame. The ultimate aphrodisiac. Even female stars have groupies, and I assume these groupies are all not all lesbians in real life. If you are famous, have clear talent, and even if you are the elephant man, but at least if you have a cool 'phantom of the opera' mask, then women will be into it. Also, the k-pop build is more common over there, so its probably not as girly to them as it is to us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Today society is PERFECT for menThere is always someone that will tell you not to do something you like. You could substitute slumming, video games, skateboarding, or even the Waltz. All the reasons change, but its the same nannying. The oldest figurines made by humans are pornographic, so this is actually the oldest thing we have done as humans, and as such, its probably better made by real women, at least until the AI takes over making it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 06:52 PM |
| – | Why cant men immediately withdraw all their money and flee the country before a divorce to save their assets.IF you are married, they are not your assets, they are our assets. I mean, why not rob your rich neighbor and flee the country, its pretty much the same thing... Like every other poster is saying, don't get married if you don't like sharing things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic?Male beauty is much more fluid than female beauty. Thin and cut can be just as good as ripped to shreds, depending on the viewer. I also think that male beauty is much less important than the female version, i.e. there is greater societal tolerance for male imperfection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?I would be very suspicious. There are a lot of romance scams out there, and my friend was conned by a Russian mail order bride that pretended to be local, until she roped him in. It was apparently unnaturally lovey dovey on her part, until she got here and had a kid, then it was divorce rape time. Its classic 'if it seems too good to be true, it probably is'. An average woman should not be very 'thirsty', if she is, that is a red flag, guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust?I would say Macho Man, but that would be Village People gay... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 08:46 AM |
| 15 | Lessons from a former incel.OP HAS finished the game, at least the young man part of it. Its confusing, because the title is about being an Incel, but most the text is more about fuckboy-ing. The key point is OP is 40, and could very well have BOTH been a real Incel for about a decade, and then a Fuckboy, in turn, and apparently found nothing of value in either state, and that is what I think he is trying to say. it seems that the point is, you first gotta fix your personal problems, but that is only if you want the blue p… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/23 07:57 PM |
| 1 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?You see, the SUPPLY of young attractive available women is MUCH less than the number of men of all ages that want to date them (DEMAND), so if you don't want Chad Thundercock to monopolize all the 'date time' of all the women you had your eyes on, you might want to offer a small economic incentive to get them to date you, because there are more and probably better options to date than you... :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 08:11 PM |
| – | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.You seem bitter, maybe you shouldn't spend significant money on a girl at all, sex or no sex. You really don't have to, that is just an outdated stereotype. Miss Independent can cover her own bills, that is the new way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfThere are no hard and fast rules for relationships in the West, its the wild west (lol). Don't want to pay half ? Then don't. Just demand that the man pay for everything. This is not unlike the situation of a stay at home mother, and there was a time not that long ago when that was the norm in most Western countries. I assume the reason you don't want to do that, and are posting here, is that you want more worthless stuff than one man's salary can provide. I can understand this, since most women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Sex work could be a real alternative to relationship for many men, but...Paid sex is sad, and you are sad to discuss it seriously as a relationship alternative here. If it were ever cheaper in the past, its because it was more dangerous and less regulated then. I'm sure if you find the right crack wh0re, you could still get your rocks off for a more reasonable $50 or so, but the risks would of course be much higher. Depending on where you live and your Spanish knowledge, prostitutes are much cheaper in Mexico, if you are seriously considering the 'prostitute lifestyl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:26 PM |
| – | Is it true for most guys that there are more dating options in their 30s as pointed out on here?Age has little to do with it, its Malcolm Gladwell's 10,000 hours. Clearly you have been self-improving the relevant skills for dating during your 20's. If instead, you were platinum-ing every Dark Souls game, your RL game would probably have declined from loss of looks, and lack of anything else to replace them. I personally went from zero to zero over that period of life, so clearly its not just number of years on this Earth, but what you DO with them that matters. The only reason most 20 yr o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 04:37 PM |
| – | Is it true for most guys that there are more dating options in their 30s as pointed out on here?Mathematically, there will always be more moms, as women age from 20 to 40, just because its hard to get rid of a child once you have them, and they usually stick around for about 20 years, so a 20 year old had about 5 years when they could have had a child, but at 35, a woman would have had a total of about 20 years to possibly have had a child, so the odds naturally go up for them to have a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 04:27 PM |
| 6 | Why are there not more TPR posts about having kids and raising them?The answer is that there are no longer any official incentives in the western world for MEN to have children, beyond the possibility that you can 'Russian roulette' a marriage along long enough that you can net all those sweet 'coof' child tax credits up to (their) age 18. Cultural reasons still exist for marriage and family, what I might call 'familial peer pressure', or blue pill fantasy (which is briefly discussed here), but all the hard reality of societal elements of children and marriage a… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/23 04:09 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Red Pill is nothing more than a misogynistic women hating movementIts not really the false accusations that are the problem, its a society that unfairly enforces the law in a very patriarchal manner that is extremely unfair to one gender. As a 17 year old, its VERY unlikely you have been through a divorce, a custody battle, or been in a position to lose a lot of assets and purchasing power, or if you would even understand what it means to turn over 30 % of your paycheck for the next 18 years. The reality is, learning these things the hard way is very traumatic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Being attracted to 18 year old's is comparable to a high n count womenAttraction is a thought, having lots of sexual experience with many partners is a reality, and comes with certain risk factors for diseases. Also, everyone is attracted to young people who are adults, its just people's most attractive time in life, for the most part, and men are MUCH more focused on looks, for the most part, so it should be expected that they most likely have this attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 03:07 PM |
| 1 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?AI has a long way to go to be even passable as a human, and the robots are barely safe to interact with, much less able to do very sensitive interactions. While this could be a long term answer, I believe it is still decades away at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 12:06 PM |
| 4 | A little story.Never date co-workers. This non-relationship is already trouble, and nothing has even happened yet. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/23 09:37 AM |
| 1 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?Good to know, depending on how the reincarnation goes, I just like it as an example, because in the insect world, males are only good for one thing, and once they have done their deed, the only further support they can offer the mother is nutrition ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 07:10 AM |
| 1 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?No one is a slave to anything, big brain and all, we could move off the old assumptions to some random new future mating theme, but the question is, What will move us off the old animal assumptions ? Yes, no need for children, but the base assumption that the male is the more eager to mate is not dependent on children or no children, but the availability of females willing to mate. So far, it appears that there are still more human males looking for mates than females, even with the possibility … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 01:11 PM |
| 10 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?Courtship in the animal kingdom is fairly analogous (the male does most of the work, then the the mantis bites off his head, if all goes 'well'...), so there is really no reason to apply the 'big human brain' to this topic and figure out if its fair, because life isn't fair, and this is one of the more unfair aspects of it. One could also look at the negative career effects of leaving the workforce to raise a child, as women often do, as another different unfairness, but its all pointless. This … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Intelligence and attractivenessThe redpill ideology itself is very unappealing to women. Most members will acknowledge the need to apply Fight Club rules to the redpill itself, while still using the tactics and knowledge of the site to their advantage. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/23 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Why Do You Think 'Blue Pill' Advice Is So Popular?The Blue Pill is pure fantasy, and a LOT of people want to live in a fantasy world. As more and more businesses pop up to cater directly to the blue pill fantasy, the pull of its absurdity just gets stronger. Onlyfans, Camgirls, video games, wedding planners, family lawyers, Planned Parenthood. A shocking amount of the total economy is devoted to this Blue Pill absurdity, and its only a matter of time before the people of the west 'turn Japanese', in both meanings of the term. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/22 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Why Do You Think 'Blue Pill' Advice Is So Popular?Unfortunately, its a Soccer Mom world, and we just live in it. Until more people unplug from the Matrix, we just don't have enough votes to change anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/22 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Why Do You Think 'Blue Pill' Advice Is So Popular?Governments don't care about masculinity or testosterone, they only care about control and stopping riots and protests. If the laws are not to our liking, then maybe we should get off reddit and actually push to change them. We only got to this point because the other side pushed harder and we rolled over. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/22 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Why Do You Think 'Blue Pill' Advice Is So Popular?The greater good does not screw individuals, POLITICIANS AND COURTS screw individuals, the 'greater good' is just the excuse, like bringing Christianity to the natives as the reason justifying killing them and stealing their land. If someone screwed you, its because the law was written by the victors to do it, and maybe its time to write some new laws that have a different idea of justice. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/22 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Why Do You Think 'Blue Pill' Advice Is So Popular?'Greater good' is an extremely nebulous term, and it really depends on what the observer values. I personally see no reason to distribute wealth from the earners to the takers, but others think that is for the greater good. Its really a political question, and as such, there is no real agreement on what the greater good even is, and what that is changes a lot over time, as someone thought statues to our heroes were for the greater good, before modern day people thought tearing the same statues d… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumThe bar is where ever women set the bar, as they are the gatekeepers for starting relationships. Sometimes the bar is low, sometimes its high, it really depends on the person. I think the real issue is that people in general are just less interested in relationships, because of technology and other modern distractions, so that makes the initial hurtle high enough that some lesser men can't even get a shot, and that is a shame, but that is also the way it is, so guys better get to at least level … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Prediction - In the near future, porn tech will get exponentially better and might kill dating & relationshipsYou are not the first person to 'go there', and the consequences have been considered as well. Don't Date Robots ! sums it up pretty well. Most people don't want to have kids, they are the logical result of physical intimacy, and even with inferior tech, the number of new humans on the planet is quickly falling below replacement levels. I'm personally an 'enjoy the decline' guy, but others may want a future for the human race, and sexbots will definitely kill all humans, even if that is not the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.Men don't have a good counter example to forced marriage that we have to deal with, but substitute being drafted if you have to have something PTSD worthy, although I have never been drafted, I'm sure being forced to fight and die or live with life changing injuries and painful memories would be in the ballpark of rape, depending on the severity. Its not really the same, though, because society knows the draft is fundamentally wrong, to some extent, even if 'this tired old man that we elected ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.We may have to agree to disagree, to some extent. I'm not arguing that it was right, or not in some cases forced, only that it legally wasn't rape in society, even if the physical act was similar, and I believe most people were raised and conditioned to accept it, and mostly did accept it, even if a few felt it was rape, because most people in their society felt it wasn't rape. This is somewhat similar to how I feel about inflation, of all things. I personally feel very strongly that inflation i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.Every society forces people to do things they don't want to do, but we treat this thing in modern times much more seriously then they did then. If someone were raised from birth to accept this thing, it just wouldn't be the same as a brutal attack, they are just not comparable, even if the same act happened between two people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.Some of us do get laid, not me, but someone is doing it. It does no good to romanticize the past, that is true, but since we are comparing times in history as best we can, it does tend to encourage it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.You are looking at it through the modern lens. Back in the day, this was the socially acceptable way to live. Yes, some people didn't want it, and it was like that to them, but the vast majority just accepted it as normal, so it was neither rape nor love, but just normal life, and not looked at as terrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 03:50 PM |
| 1 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.On average life then would have been much worse than life now, with all the modern conveniences and rights, and medicines, . . . but at least they got laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.If you are socially inept, an arranged marriage might be the best of the bad options. If you married young, in a time without an obesity epidemic, chances are you would get a reasonably averagely attractive mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 03:21 PM |
| 4 | How do I know whether a potential partner consumes red pill content?There are certain catch words used extensively in the RP community, if they use any of them, its very likely they are pretty deep into this content. I had a guy start saying some of these things in an otherwise normal conversation at work, and I 100 % knew he was redpilled. Stuff like All Women do _____, divorce rape, Disney as a verb, White Knight, Simp, or really any of the terms in the RP sidebar. These terms are just never used in normie conversations, so they kind of stick out like a soar t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | In a perfect world, how often would you have sex?In my perfect world, I'd like to be able to heal all permanent injuries, have cures for all STD's, and be able to chose my gender, only then it would be more of a 'go nuts' situation. My sexual hang ups are a lot more weird than scheduling issues... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | How do we "choose better partners"?Unfortunately, there are a few men that are good at seduction, and a lot of us that have no clue, so there is not a lot of advice the majority of men can give on this topic. I doubt I could tell if someone would be a bad partner, until after the fact, and that would be if I knew the man. A lot of men I know just want casual sex, so that is definitely something that is out there. In the end, all of this is subjective. As a society, we seem to be moving away from commitment, for various reasons, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?Me? No. Nor any one person. The structures that move that money up can move it around. The fact that they don't want to is a different matter. I didn't talk about "payout" but political structures where money doesn't go and stay up (if that wasn't clear, sorry) I have to call you out on this very utopian view of the economy. The fact is, money is not so easily moved where do-gooders want to move it, because the owners of this money will hold on to it dearly, which is why wealth inequality was no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?300 million is an estimate of the US population, so you would take this money from the rich, and then divide it 300 million ways, so the actual payout would be a tiny fraction of the cost of raising a child to adulthood in the US, estimated at $250,000, so the exercise would be pointless. Also, as a former rich person, I can assure you that all that 6.5 Trillion dollars of steal able wealth the 1 % got in 2021 has been lost in this market rout, ESPECIALLY any of the 'tech bros' that are at the t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?OK, lets start over, the amount of money you could give to 'normal people' from the rich would not amount to that much, divided 300 million ways, and would not lead to more babies. Much more likely they would just buy new cars and drive inflation up, like they did with the $3000 child tax credits, which is about the amount you could get by eating the rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?The idea that it is fair and just and right to secretly syphon off all the productivity of the people and businesses, to pay for a mismanaged government program, is basically the primary excuse for why we should have an inflationary monetary system. And this is unjust, its stealing. If the government wants to take away all my productivity gains over my lifetime to buy another missile, or pay poor people, or whatever they want to do with my money, they should write a law to that effect and then p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?I fully agree with this, confusing these taxes with proper retirement plans has messed with people's minds, and caused them to think they don't need their own plan, but of course if a corporation ran their retirement plan full pay as you go they would be in jail, and the plan would go bankrupt as well, because the design of these things is pure fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?I know many decent people in this situation, now they did something stupid to get into that situation, but they are not pure a$$holes, they just made a few mistakes in life, and an early relationship was often one of them. Its one of those 'full life fSkups', so when its all on the line, it might not be worth it to roll the dice, especially if you are too young to even know how to maintain a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?Good for people, and the planet, bad for public pension ponzi schemes, and who wants to be in charge when those things go down the tubes, not the former leaders of the UK, that's for sure ! ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 04:20 AM |
| 0 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?Take the Blue pill and get back in the Metaverse, you battery ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?The rich don't have enough money to run the federal government for more than a year or two, and once they are done, the rest of the economy will spiral down with them, because the incentives to succeed will be gone, and then everyone lies down and lets it rot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?Spoiler alert - your pensions are just paper, this is ALREADY a fact, and inflation will make that very obvious, even before the formal cuts come. The math on pay ins versus pay outs just does not work, and it never worked, and assuming population growth to pay for it STILL does not work, because eventually population growth slows in all countries, and then the ponzi nature of pensions becomes evident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?Education reduces fertility, better to just have the base skills. We can still use everyone, there are lots of basic jobs that need to be done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 04:09 AM |
| 5 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?Having kids in a high cost of living area IS a raw deal, for men AND women, but only women are smart enough not to think with their libido, and once they had the knowledge, they solved the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 04:06 AM |
| 4 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?Its almost like the market for houses and other limited supply goods is telling us the right path, and we did the math and figured it out ourselves, and we didn't need a government policy to get to that path, either ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 04:04 AM |
| 4 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?Why do we have to continue our genetic line ? The dinosaurs are doing fine with their zero child asteroid policy, and the world still spins around the sun just fine. What we do, and what we ARE, just doesn't matter in any real way, so why go on worrying about the future, when we can all live for today ? Serious question. At some point, houses and other built resources will become very cheap, as fewer and fewer people are around to buy them, then the system will stabilize at a much lower populati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?No fault divorce has ruined the very concept of settling down. Every guy knows some shlub that has no family and lots of child support, and its REALLY obvious that the odds are against a young relationship, so why roll those dice ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?I wasn't good looking enough for a 'hoe phase' :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 03:55 AM |
| 4 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?I think you meant 'no', because if you meant yes, Ill be signing up for the childless option tomorrow, as I have been chomping at the bit to get out of the pension plan ponzi scheme for a LOOONG time now... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 03:53 AM |
| 5 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?I'm with you, no kids, definitely more work than they are worth. But I also see no reason for any incentives to have families. Your idea that childcare should be free because its 'necessary' is absurd logic, and could be applied to many other things in life. Why isn't our food free ? I mean, we need it, right, no one lives on imagination. I deliver pizzas and need a personal car for my job. Why isn't my car free ? Now that I think about it, I don't do well sleeping in a ditch on the side of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?Benefits don't cause modern people to reproduce, that is a Republican 'welfare queen' myth. Japan has some of the best benefits for parents, sometimes even paying them cash for dates, but its no use, they just don't want to breed. Its the same in China, their new 'three child policy' was met with widespread ridicule on social media, and no increase in birth rate has happened, either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 03:28 AM |
| 7 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?Chinese youth have already figured out how to deal with the social security ponzi scheme, its called let it rot, or lie flat. All you have to do is the minimal to get by, and let everything else collapse under its own weight and illogic. And it didn't even take that long, now that no one will buy unbuilt investment housing anymore, all the empty buildings are just being torn down, because there is no money to complete them, and no one will pay a mortgage for a tofu dreg structure that will never… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Playing hard to get is perfectly accepted by women to do. But it's not perfectly accepted at all for men to do and it's a big double standard.Feel free to play as hard to get as you want . . . and you won't be got, unless you are Brad Pitt. This is just the nature of the dating game here and now. Men are expected to work for relationships, and if you don't work for one, you much more likely than not will never have one. Maybe on the world with the 1 man per 10 women this thing is completely reversed, but we don't live on that world, so there is really little point spitting into the wind, or stepping on Superman's cape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 02:52 AM |
| 0 | Do you prefer 50/50 or submission?Many seem to want 50/50, but life isn't like this. The reality is that a mostly or somewhat submissive man will almost certainly never have a relationship, unless its a financially abusive relationship to the man. The man almost has to be dominant to some extent, just to make anything happen at the start. This is expected in the dating game, and the reason most sales people are men, because if you can't push someone else to do what you want, you can't succeed, in sales or relationships. This is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 12:55 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about women who have "no ONS" written in their tinder bio?Its there for honesty. Why not explain what you want, whether or not you live up to that standard before or now ? You are way overthinking this. No ONS does NOT mean no sex, its just that she is going to want something more, so why not be upfront about wanting something more, instead of surprising people with such a request. Dishonestly is sometimes part of the human dating process, but it doesn't have to be, why assume the worst in people ? A sleazebag is going to sleaze, regardless of what is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about women who have "no ONS" written in their tinder bio?A permanent rating system would be a big improvement, probably not for really sleazy guys, that will just start a new account, after burning though women, but more for just average things, that one person might like, and another might not, but the guy is unlikely to mention, just on the assumption that its either not relevant, or might possibly be seen negatively, even if women might benefit from knowing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 06:19 PM |
| 1 | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?I mean, it depends. Maybe in the initial hunt was challenging, but so was getting my first job, and I don't any longer obsess over the fact that I was pounding the pavement for a few months, because I have been gainfully employed continuously for decades now, and that seems to be the majority of the population's situation, when it comes to relationships. If people have been together for years, how hard a search would be is something of a non-issue, at least until something happens, and most peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 03:52 PM |
| – | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?The vast majority of men and women have normal relationships most of the time, this sub and other relationship subs just suck in the 20 % of the population that has all the problems, so it seems here that the sexually frustrated are the majority or about 50 %, when its really just the internet self-selecting for relationship trouble. The people I meet in real life mostly seem to have sex and relationships, if they want them, only here do I hear about how terrible it is to find sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?Kind of a reverse 'Handmaid's Tale', there was a Heavy Metal story with this concept, but it was kind of lame, with a Fascist Matriarchy in charge, harvesting men's sperm by force, that our hero had to stand against with his physical strength and sexual prowess. A lot of anime's also do this setup, usually to justify a harem situation, but I don't think it would really be like that, more of a take turns situation, rather than group living. I'm not sure what the plot of such a movie would be, sin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 10:43 AM |
| 0 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?This is a very simple 'chicken and egg' problem, and the chicken industry already figured it out. What they do is they gender identify every chick after it is born, then almost all the male chicks are immediately tossed into a mulching machine and made into chicken McNuggets, problem solved. Of course we will need more male humans than male chickens, because there are a few wars we may need to fight (not really, but pretend), most women don't want to fix cars and clean buses, and someone has to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 05:58 PM |
| 7 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?People claim women are more emotional and less logical, but most of the complaints from men are also contradictory and illogical, and this idea that every woman has all the sex they want all the time is one of the weirder ones. The men's movement is full of generalizations about women, including my personal favorite, 'all women are like that' (AWALT), which is sort of a meta generalization applying all of the red pill stereotypes to all women at once ! 'Your woman is faithful, well, don't worry,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.Its not complicated, or logical, its just random, like the stock market. You could spend all day drawing support lines and graphs, but at the end of the day, there is little logic to the short term moves, and its the same with relationships, especially in the 'maybe' phase of meetups in the wild. There is no science to it, because there is no logic to it, and on top of that, every person is different in random ways that cannot be predicted, so even if you know what one person likes, the next one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | What would equity in dating look like?It would look like a Communist Handmaids Tale hellscape, if some force of nature or government made dating 'fair' Dating is not fair, and has never been fair, not in the natural world, and not in our world, and the closest it ever got was the Patriarchy imposed arranged marriages, where women were treated like property, the 'dates' were foregone conclusions with no sex until marriage, and that horse left the stable so long ago that we don't even ride horses to work anymore ! The whole pretend 's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't EVERY guy prefer a virgin for a serious commitment?As if it wasn't hard enough to find a female who is young, in shape, and not tatted up... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 06:37 AM |
| 1 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.Q anon is definitely the weirdest part of the far right. I'm not sure if because it came from the depths of the internet if its incel based, but it could be. Some people are just surprisingly easily and strongly influenced by really strange things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 12:50 PM |
| 6 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.Men are usually better at suppressing their emotions than women, but we are both emotional creatures at heart. However, in hard math and science careers, it really doesn't matter how much you believe the bridge struts should not oscillate in the wind, that stuff has to work in the real world, so its a little more constrained by reality than a job in child services or psychology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:58 PM |
| 3 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.I think you mean NFT's, ETF's are actually real investment things, and there is no crypto ETF yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:53 PM |
| 14 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.The far right has little or no connection to the incel culture. The right is all about trying to defend the status quo in relationships and marriage, even though that horse had already left the stable a decade ago. The right also defends the tax and child support system as it exists now, which incels see as pure BS. Popular culture likes to connect the two to smear the right for occasional murder/suicides from incels, but that connection is just not a strong as they think, as incels are a lot mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:50 PM |
| -1 | I carry a Nokia 3310My conservative talk show does a 'dumbest online posts of the day' segment, and sometimes I follow them back to their origin and leave a post . . . too soon ? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/22 03:53 PM |
| 2 | So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame?The very concept of marriage is mostly transactional, and has been since its origin. The whole idea of 'true love' is the recent innovation, this stuff was always done by parents or for political reasons if the parents were high ranking in society. Why would you even need a license for a marriage ? Because its a legal contract, not that different from a purchase agreement, and 'traditional' marriages were most definitely purchases, many actually requiring money to be paid, usually to the parents… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 03:38 PM |
| 42 | So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame?They don't call it 'the world's oldest profession' for nothing. I wouldn't be surprised if money itself were originally created for this particular use first, similar to how sex drove the adoption of the VCR,and the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 03:26 PM |
| 8 | What are the future consequences of RP going mainstream?'chads' in general are not trolling RP forums and carefully constructing a false identity to lure women. These men are physically desirable, do small things to maintain their looks, and are social and outgoing. They may know on an unconscious level that long term commitment is a bad deal, but they are not out there preaching it to the masses, posting on RP, nor do they use RP terms in normal conversations. In this way Chads are not really RP'ers, but just people that follow their own selfish and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Do men in general envy women?Obviously, if a modern man was reborn as a poor girl in the projects, they would have the knowledge and skills to work their way out of the situation without having kids, and they would want to do the work to remain attractive to get the benefits of female attractiveness (also having kids often leads to weight gain, so the two are related), but if you were born into that situation without any knowledge of how the rest of the country lives, the possibility of being socialized into unhealthy belie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Do men in general envy women?Modern technology mostly limits the risks of unwanted pregnancy, if used correctly. I 100 % believe this discussion would not happen 100 years ago, if something like Reddit existed, because the huge risk of unwanted pregnancy DID keep men and women 'in line', to a large extent, and following the patriarchy's desire to get most people married young and keep them that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Do men in general envy women?Clearly the situation is created by society in general, and often by other men. The family court is still mostly run by men, but the parochial attitude that we must 'protect the woman at all costs' clearly leads to very biased anti-male verdicts where the woman almost always gets the children and the support, even in 50-50 judgements, which is clearly not fair, but the men in 'the system' go along with it, because it is the prevailing wisdom of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Do men in general envy women?China is a very F-ed up place, and the one child policy was a thing for most of my life, they only recently changed it, and the results will take decades to work through the system. Also, since modern living in China is much more expensive than it was even 15-10 years ago, it no longer makes sense to have a large family, so even the late policy change may not change the desire to have male children, because the reality on the ground is that one child is probably the best way to do it, even if it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Do men in general envy women?I think we can agree this perception exists at a society level, and it filters down to the individual, but its still a stereotype. As a less than desirable or physically strong man, I often feel that I am invisible to women, and to some extent other men, who are not threatened by me 'taking their girl', or whatever. As a result, I'm not afraid of almost any situation in modern society, but this confidence is really a mental thing, and not an objective evaluation of the risks. Most of my experien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.I suppose it depends on the guy and the energy. For me, I just fade into the background and get no attention, but I suppose if you are good at small talk something can still happen, but its never worked for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.Humans are idiotic and unnecessary. The Game of human mating just has this element in it, its expected for the man to show interest and push for more. Since most men already do this, if you are a more passive man, you will likely have 0 interest and chances for intimacy from women, because this is the way it is. Would the world be better without men chasing women ? Maybe, or maybe not, but since most men chase, its kind of a moot point, since if you don't chase, your odds of anything happening a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that women's clothing has gotten more and more revealing and sexualized as society got more and more progressive?Its called freedom. In the past, there were different standards and more shame in the country, but huge cities just have a completely different 'shame dynamic' from small towns, and the new dynamic is much more liberal, so as we urbanized the shame went down, and we can be free of the tisk tiskers that have a much larger circle to gossip in in a city, so it rarely gets back to the victim. The decline of participation in organized religion probably also played a role, as this part of the patriarc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 04:30 PM |
| 6 | There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan?We don't need any more children. The world will be fine either way, there will just be more immigration from the parts of the world still reproducing, no problem, bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Its not a tipping scale that could theoretically come into balance, its uneven standards, and the reality that men can be shared easier in our culture than women can, because its more socially acceptable to do so. Men just have higher beauty standards than women do, because we are more visual, and attracted to such things, and we are expected to provide for ourselves more than women are, so there are fewer other things men value. I have experienced this with both my friends and myself. To put it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | how to address gender entitlement?The thing you find disturbing about men is the bell curve. The bell curve puts most people in the middle (average), and the outliers at the edges. However, for men, the curve is noticeably flatter, so there are more men at the edges of the bell curve. This is both good and bad, in that most CEO's are men, but most homeless people are also men, as are most criminals and most insane people. And yes, this includes violence. Most people, men and women, are in the middle, but you will see noticeably … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 08:54 AM |
| 6 | With male virginity rates near 30% in the USA for the 18-30 age range what impact will this have on societyThis will actually have very little impact on society, except we may increase immigration to keep the population up. One Chad can put a lot of loaves in the ovens, I believe this was the historic norm, before the patriarchy imposed monogamous families on society, but that was never going to last, because it required a lot of control of private lives, and people got tired of that crap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Question for PPD. Do you believe dating is hard as men are making it out to be? Primarily the ones on this sub? Why or why not?Also consider the bell curve. Men tend to be the outliers of society, go to any CEO meeting, jail cell, or homeless camp, and its going to be overwhelmingly male. Because its possible to share the 'higher value' men in casual relationships, dating very much falls into the 'winner take all' way modern society runs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 01:40 PM |
| 3 | The RedPill is a perscriptionHe explicitly does not want a relationship, only sex, but he also self-sabotages any sex possibilities. I have done the same thing. Perhaps its an aversion to the actual work needed to get to sex, as it usually isn't easy for men. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | The RedPill is a perscriptionI've heard bad oral stories before, and of course faking it in general is also common. Its likely some not too illogical logic, like they feel some duty to the relationship. Honestly, the mouth isn't really an erogenous zone, so the female rationale for oral never made sense to me, beyond lubing up the penis for later use elsewhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/22 05:40 PM |
| 5 | The RedPill is a perscriptionHumans are not logical, not women and not men. Our irrationality just seems logical because of our internal biases are harder to see and easier to rationalize. The redpill mantra is in fact the same as female hypergamy, except without the pretend commitment, and of course with more work on our part, because its much harder for men to get sexual access than it is for women, but the 'logic' is the same, as in there is no logic, beyond do what feels good as much as possible, and as safely as possib… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever get insecure when artificial women are considered beautiful?A lot of male muscle gainZ are equally as fake as female enhancement. Steroids are the most common tool, but strait oil injections are not unheard of, although they are MUCH more health risky, and totally fake to boot. A lot of what Hollywood serves up in the ripped men department is unattainable without insane training and doping, so you can't believe most of what you see, of either gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 12:39 PM |
| 2 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.Relationships in Western societies require the man to chase, that is just how the game is played. Even a high SMV man has to chase, even in video games with relationship elements, which are designed to make it easy, you still have to chase in the game, to get anything. This is an ambient thing, 'the way it is', and there is no reason to believe that it should be different. I don't think online things make women 'have higher egos', but instead just create more life options rather than dating, so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos?I have no tattoos, because I usually find them tacky, and I'm cheap and don't like pain. That being said, there is a context to the tattoo that has to qualify it. Some tats are works of art, and others are trash. It also depends on where on the body it is, because it sort of encourages onlookers to look at it, and if its in a suggestive place that does imply, at least to me, that the person might be more sexual and open to casual sex than other people. Of course I mean the exposed tramp stamp, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Body count and infidelity excerptsI bet a study of smoking vs mental health would have the same result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:29 PM |
| 62 | Women getting upset about men asking them about their sexual history is the equivalent as employers getting upset about a job seeker asking them about the salary a position pays.This analogy is dumb, because your salary is literally the most important thing about any job, and you must know this, and you WILL know this, if you start working for them, because it cannot be hidden, you will see it on your first paycheck, even if you are gullible enough to start a job without asking for it. Sexual history is more of a 'nice to have' piece of information, because you can have a fine (or not so fine) personal relationship without this information, and its not as make or break … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women are having fewer kids now because of preference, economics or irresponsibility?Its social situations and economics, and its not just in the west, this is happening all over the world. The reality is, kids are a huge expense, and now that contraception is very good, they are completely a choice, and its quite logical to choose not to have them, or to have them later in life. The irresponsibility angle was the old 'pre pill' reality, where fooling around (or even just leaving an abuser) could immediately lead to a hard life of single parenthood. In the future (And today) the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Single Guys in their 40s+ and Early RetirementMarch 2022 Average US male salary - $ 95 K MEDIAN US male salary - $ 52 K https://www.averagesalarysurvey.com/united-states Yes, its not the average, but any average will be horribly skewed by the top end, but the median is more relevant to us, unless you are STEM Cali tech bro. And if you are, rock that $ 250 K starting pay, no problem, bro, but for the rest of us, $ 52 K is a good approximation. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do we as a society continue to engage in hook up culture and the degeneracy that comes with it, when it leaves most people so empty inside?Everything in life is too easy, the only reason a house seems hard is that the prices are increasing in dollar terms, but that just means that you need to learn about investing. Houses have been crashing in Bitcoin terms for years now, it might be worth looking into. Things are so easy that now people are looking for fulfillment in their lives from work, which is kind of silly. There is nothing wrong with just working for money, since with our modern setup, we need money for everything else in l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 05:43 PM |
| 0 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialThe problem is, women don't know what men like. If she didn't like him for a relationship but wanted sex, she would have ghosted him after a ONS. Maybe to you this is the preferable outcome, but she feels like having immediate sex with someone you want a relationship with will drive them away. Whether that is correct or not is debatable, but relationships have strange logic to them, so its best not to be upset by the games that people play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 05:55 PM |
| 14 | 2022 Predictions for the new year (Warning: Politics)They won't tell you to get out of the dollar, they will just let it drop, and let the chips fall where they may. I mean, has ANY regime falling into major intentional inflation actually tried to help ANYONE get out with some wealth still intact ? At most they will try to push you over to the new and improved digital worthless dollar. Those with half a brain will get out of USD entirely, the rest will 'have nothing and be happy' Honestly, many of my service industry co-workers are already getting… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/21 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Doesn't the existence of lesbians completely destroy a lot of red pill views of how women view men?Women may wear makeup to impress each other, or even to feel good about themselves. The motivations of women are hard to know. I have heard from many women that they actually got breast implants to improve their own self esteem (!!) Now some of that improvement may be related to male gaze, but I doubt all of it is. The reason people do things is just complicated, and it appears to be more complicated for women. The red pill ideology contains a lot of Sith-like absolutes, like AWALT, and maybe yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?The whole 'eating out, but on a computer' thing is really sad, but more common than ever. Obviously there are lots of benefits from being online, but meeting people or even interacting with the others at the bar/table is a clear casualty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 08:17 PM |
| 5 | There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry.I suppose if every married man is BB, then I guess they can't all be losers, but I see BB as kind of a subset of married men. Tiger Woods when married was clearly still AF, so its kind of hard to place the truly successful men into the BB category, even if they are married and got divorced, because their success is so great that they can just keep buying mega-yachts no problem, bro, like Bezos does... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 08:14 PM |
| 3 | There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry.Clearly the inc * l population is increasing, but usually redpill classifies BB in the loser category as well, but maybe that's just my interpretation of the way they discuss the issue there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 08:11 PM |
| 5 | There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry.I would agree. Its the parochial way assets and income is split by the state that is most of the problem, as the obligations can be VERY one sided for a supposedly 'equal' custody situation. Its also unfortunate for the kids growing up in a broken home, but there is no easy answer for that problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 08:08 PM |
| 10 | There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry.Marriage is somewhat overrated, since there is no legal protection holding the union together, its basically throwing an expensive party for yourselves before shacking up. My mother used to say how good no fault divorce was for everyone, but as I got older, I could see the nuance of the situation better, and that, in fact, no fault divorce actually destroyed not only individual marriages, but the very concept of marriage itself, since its entirely voluntary at all times, its entirely abandonable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 06:31 PM |
| 6 | There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry.I always felt that the betas WERE losers, but maybe we are defining loser down to the in cels or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 06:24 PM |
| 2 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?I honestly don't think radfem or redpill really have any effect on things. Probably the biggest impact is just the way the family courts hand out men's money like candy, and the tendency for many families to be broken families. You may think this is a redpill talking point, and it is, but it really predates the whole redpill ideology entirely, it even predates The Matrix movie itself ( source of red pill meme ). Relationships themselves seem more fragile, and almost everyone I know in my generat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it really better to be red pilled?Perhaps the Darwin Award people. ;) On the plus side, this will probably gradually stop climate change :D | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/21 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Is it really better to be red pilled?Not at all. The incentives to reproduce are not there in modern society, since at any time your part of the process can be reduced to paying a lot of money, with limited controlled access, or no access, if the woman moves away. In a way, modern society has unintentionally fSked itself, with its own twisted illogic, in that this forced control of men is very likely leading to much less desire for reproduction, and the less fit men doing the remaining breeding. I fully expect the entire human race… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/21 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Is it really better to be red pilled?I don't want to get too atheist here, but our consciousness may not be related to the electrical energy within our bodies per se, but instead to the wetware connections in our brains, that our internal body energy flows through. There is no reason to believe that the energy within our bodies incapsulates any conscious thoughts, or that those thoughts remain, once the wetware no longer functions. One might even argue that the consciousness could stop existing, while the body still lives, once the… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/21 02:57 AM |
| 1 | The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendshipsMost people in life are not that intelligent. I would guess maybe 10% actually understand how the world works, and the rest really just react to what the media feeds us. Also, there are clearly many types of intelligence. Knowing how to build a complicated machine has nothing to do with your love life, or how street smart you are, and realistically you can't actually know it all, so we all choose to be ignorant about some things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 05:53 PM |
| 1 | The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendshipsNot necessarily. Only relationships that have you doing something for the each other are transactional, and even then, the friendship may be worth it enough for one party to contribute in an uneven way. I have had friends of both genders where favors were rare or not given at all, and it was all about just hanging out and chatting. I suppose even chat time could be seen as a transaction of a sort, but that is a very mercenary way of looking at life. Its also possible that simps may see an attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 05:48 PM |
| 2 | What percent of women are AWALT?I'm going to wildly guess about 50 %, but there is a problem with that %. Women that are not like that tend to have stable permanent relationships already, by the time you meet them, so there is a large bias to meeting single women that ARE like that, because women that are not like that are very desirable to have relationships with, and the thirst is real, so odds are any guy dating available women is much more likely than 50 % to find women that are like that. After about age 25, the % of wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 11:48 AM |
| 4 | Do womens level of intelligence mean nothing?These things are stereotypes. You can choose to act to a stereotype or not. Just because (certain parts of ) society would like to see you do certain types of behaviors doesn't really mean anything, you have to decide for yourself. Some non gender stereotypes are : people should be good consume bots and keep up with the Joneses. Taking out a quarter of a million dollars in non-escapable student debt will help you succeed in life. Trust your government to print an appropriate amount of the curren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 03:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?The reason is none of that stuff, the real reason is E) that there is a general withdrawal from social interaction by both men and women into the digital world, but Meta and video games don't (yet) solve the physical need for intimacy, and this need is much more intense for men for biological reasons, so there are naturally more men seeking intimacy than women, and once the ratio becomes too one sided, the attention can become too much, causing further women to withdraw from the dating apps, sin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 01:06 PM |
| 1 | When you take your seat at the head of the simp tableMost guys would cheat just the same as a woman would, if they were desirable enough, and had the opportunity, even if the other woman was inferior to the main squeeze. Bill Clinton, Tiger Woods, and Arnold immediately come to mind, and only Tiger might have tapped something hotter than his wife, and even that is debatable, the other two really didn't look for much better than what they had... | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/21 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Social media and online dating have ruined dating for menDesperation is built into our genetics, you see it everywhere in the animal kingdom. There is no way we came through all that, and are somehow intellectual beings separate from our flesh bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | People are underestimating the prevalence of the childfree movementIt shouldn't be that difficult, but the average American can't find $400 for an emergency, so clearly it is an issue. Also, if your base costs like diapers (up 100% in cost this year) eat up most of your earnings, budgeting can't really fix that issue, only make it more clear to you how much the situation sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 09:32 AM |
| 1 | People are underestimating the prevalence of the childfree movementI know no one in my life that owns multiple houses, but its certainly possible to own them as investment vehicles. I get by fine on my non-real estate investments, but then I didn't have any family, failed family, or child raising expenses for my last 25 years of working, and that helped a LOT in amassing investments to the point they could snowball, and I know plenty of people who worked as much as I did for those 25 years, and have nothing investment-wise to show for it, besides broken homes a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 01:45 PM |
| 11 | People are underestimating the prevalence of the childfree movementSpoiler alert, its a downward spiral. That being said, if you somehow make it big, then you could afford the blue pill fantasy, otherwise, its a life of poverty with kids... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 07:00 PM |
| 0 | What would you do in the following hypothetical sci fi scenario?It would be hard to prove anything in this world is 100 % accurate, but I suppose if 100 people tested positive for violence, and the results were ignored, and they all turned violent eventually, it would be believed as accurate, even if it could never 100 % be proven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | As a male that went throug all stages of looks (fat, thin, average, bald, handsome) i can pretty much say blackpill is bullsh#t. Women date with only one thing in mind...I think what you mean in the title is, Blackpill is dead on correct, not BS, as you have a very blackpill outlook on life. There is nothing wrong with that, but I think it might create mental blocks that make relationships harder than normal for you. Your rant is very similar to many Blackpill posts, and seethes with negativity towards women. Also, as someone with money, I can assure you that is not the magic sauce you think it is, unless you are dropping a LOT of it on relationships, and that w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Women do not want sex as much as men do, otherwise we'd overpopulate the world within a generationWell, there were lots of natural limiters on human population in ancient times. A lot of infants died young of disease. Wars, of course, chewed up any excess young men available. A fair amount of civilization and religion seems to have been devoted to controlling women and their sexuality, limiting their opportunities. But lets get down to the big one, the human body can only produce so many children, even without birth control. Even the most reproductive people tend to cap out around 10. Also, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Why Men Stay In Red Pill RageAll the more reason to not be out there sky diving or climbing mountains while pregnant. Whereas men without any of these pregnancy risks seem bent on finding exciting new risks to take. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Why Men Stay In Red Pill RageI'm not going to defend male bullsh!t, but there is a biological basis for the insanity. Unfortunately, knowing it's silly does not necessarily allow us to reject our nature. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/21 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Why Men Stay In Red Pill RageBearing and raising children is not really compatible with lots of risk taking, because its easy for most women to get pregnant, and pregnant women already have a future for their DNA, and now have to make sure it makes it to adulthood. For a childless man, the logic is reversed. If you have no stake in the future, you might as well go balls out crazy on some weird shit, because if you don't, you will be forgotten, and since no one depends on you, there is nothing holding you back. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/21 03:02 PM |
| 5 | Why Men Stay In Red Pill Rage"his purpose does not serve the world in any way, then I'd see him as a degenerate." What is this crap ? Meta Disney ? People don't owe 'the world' anything. We didn't choose to come into this world, it was thrust upon us. Now it might be polite to apply campsite rule, and not leaving the world worse than we found it, but our little changes really don't amount to much on a planetary scale, so even that would be limited to large changes that most of us don't have the ability to make. I think its … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/21 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Guys would rather be fuckboys than seen as husband material because the former gets the best of both worlds, and the latter gets the least of both worlds.Of course I'd rather be Tiger Woods in his womanizing prime, than my lame self, but this is not a realistic choice of options for most men. The very term 'husband material' is kind of a putdown. Being dependable and grounded are useful things in a man, maybe even desirable from an intellectual perspective, but not in a sexual way. Beta bux can eventually be a winning strategy, but its a pyrrhic victory. The reality is, not that many men can ever pull off the fuckboy play, so its more of a doomer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Has this tactic ever worked on any girl ever?This tactic doesn't usually work on guys, either, because most normal people are put off by aggressive requests for sex. This is usually not done for any chance of success, but instead to show off to their friends how wild and crazy they are, and yes, I have seen women do this, and it was very off putting, even if I am normally interested in women, an aggressive approach pushes me out of my frame, makes the situation hard to evaluate normally, and makes me think its a scam of some kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | As a man it's better to be a "husband material" than having random short term encountersThere are certainly better odds if someone looks like Fabio, but its never a sure thing, since women tend to sometimes want a little something more than looks, when more men will often settle for looks alone, for whatever reason, probably 'male BS'... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 02:30 PM |
| 5 | As a man it's better to be a "husband material" than having random short term encountersI mean, its probably more than feet fetishists, but I'm sure there is a moderate group of women that don't like the cocksure IDGAF tude-dude. That isn't universally appealing, even if a fair number go for it. Its kind of like blond women for men. Yea, many guys like blondes, maybe up to 50 %, but not all. Humans just have very varied tastes. And although brodude works a lot, and is probably worth trying to emulate, you are leaving a lot of women off the table doing it, even if its numerically yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence.Human perversions are almost infinite. If a man can be attracted to an operating motor vehicle or feet, I have no reason to believe a woman can't be attracted to a person just because they have a lot of money. Is this going to be as numerous as the 'traditional' attractors ? Of course not, this is fetish stuff, but I am sure some women are sexually attracted to the fantasy lifestyle that a rich man could provide, even if its not politically correct to say it. Clearly its likely if the man lost a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 04:42 PM |
| 3 | What’s causing decline in male sexlessness of recent?Marriage has been declining for decades, I think its the whole 'bowling alone' phenomenon, of course, few people even bowl in meat space much anymore, so its even worse than that book made it out to be when it was written. Church attendance is also a small part of this, since that was also an area where like minded people could meet in meat space, but this decline covers almost all entertainment and socializing events. The decline of arcades, the decline of video rental stores, the decline of li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Women tend to downplay their dating advantageI would argue that job market advantages men have are probably better than dating world advantages for women. The problem is, you really don't see the job advantages, as you just get the job on the assumption that you can do it better because you don't have a family and won't get pregnant, but you just assume its all about your skills and abilities, so you can't perceive the edge your manhood gets you. Also, people fixate on the things they don't have, so if you have your income going well, you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 08:32 AM |
| 4 | What is it about happy couples on social media that trigger some in the manosphere?You need to watch The Last Unicorn. There is this older lady that discovers that unicorns are real when the group meets up with her, and she suddenly has a 'redpill'-like moment, venting on this innocent creature for not showing up earlier in her life, so she could have 'lived the fairy tale'. Its a really jarring moment, in one of those European fairy tales that has such things. This is VERY similar to how the redpill community looks at successful relationships. They even refer to women in thes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?If someone doesn't like their crop of men, your only two options are to go younger or older, and chances are, if fairly young men don't want commitment or relationships, the 100 % video gamer group coming up after them probably doesn't want that stuff either, so you are kinda stuck with the older set, which tends to be slightly more old fashioned about such things, and more willing to settle down. Its clearly a third best option, but what are the alternatives ? Rampant money printing has made fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 06:47 AM |
| – | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?Well, I mean, most of human history could be explained by desire or greed, we aren't that complicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 04:25 PM |
| – | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?Usually that, but sometimes we just want to virtue signal, sometimes referred to as a White Knight. Think a super simp. He may want sex as well, but he will never make the first move, so nothing is ever going to happen... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 08:51 AM |
| – | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?I would argue that the red pill position is that women are like women, but men have much more of a duality to them, with a few being at the top (alpha), and the vast majority in the beta camp, either as betabux, or as simp losers. I've almost never heard the position that all men are alphas, but most of them just can't do the hard work. The usual position is that there is just a huge loser base of men, and the only real option is to pull yourself out of the cesspool and enjoy societies decline, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 06:57 PM |
| – | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?Ill give Clinton credit for passing some unpopular tax increases, and Al Gore's Quixotic defense of the Social Security trust fund, but the real reason we actually got to surplus for only one year, was the rather absurd wealth creation of the dot com boom, and the surplus was only in the crescendo year of 1999. One might argue that the surplus was purely transitory (like they say about inflation) , since the bust that immediately followed put an end to any future surplus, without any immediate p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?I would argue that the right leaning view is anti-environment, and not fiscally conservative, because I feel no party really has any fiscal limits, the right just 'vice signals' that they are tightwads, while still dropping a few trilli on Afganistan, tax cuts, and stimmy checks, never even coming close to a balanced budget during Trump, even pre covid. I would argue that its hard to apply ROI to tax cuts, just because they are more of a philosophical item. Yes, there is a Laffer curve, but we a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?While I do know a person that is illogically too giving, I would say on average more people are on the selfish side. There is also virtue signaling, where the generous act is only done for the chance to impress other people, which is partially selfish, at least in its motivation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 08:30 AM |
| 24 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?This. AWALT is kind of the Hodl of the RP community, and annoying, as a response to any criticism. Its basically a gender stereotype, and although there is some truth to every stereotype, its not the One Ring of relationships. Human beings have free will, and just because we have lizard brains doesn't mean we are following their base needs all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 04:12 PM |
| 7 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?Old skool Liberalism, sometimes called Libertarian nowadays. Left on social, right on finance. This is fairly common, but most just squeeze the square peg into one of the political parties round holes. For example, I am fine with gay marriage, equal rights, and environmentalism, but against money printing and infinite debt to pay for handouts. The problem is, both US parties believe in money printing and infinite debt, its just a question of where the handouts go (Haliburton vs homeless), and I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 04:02 PM |
| 6 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?Its more of a political correctness thing than RP/BP. The reality is, everyone is looking out for number 1, in their own way, its just not acceptable to say that is what you are doing, or to be too crass about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Yes, environment does indeed play a huge part in how easy it is for men to get partners.In a way, technology has changed the game. It started with the iPod, which allowed people to tune out the world when out and about. As bad as this was, you could at least see if they were an 'iPod zombie' from the earphones and cable. This got exponentially worse with the iPhone and wireless earbuds. Now you basically can have someone come near you and suddenly they are having a loud conversation with an unseen person on the phone, not that different from behavior formerly isolated to mentally i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 05:44 PM |
| 2 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenMost lefties I know what to work with the state, not fight it. A fair number of people have been imprisoned for this, so word has gotten around that its just not worth it. Also this conflict is clearly unwinnable, and few are so delusional to think they could win a war the US army couldn't win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 05:11 PM |
| 5 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenWhat you would do is not join an army in the first place, if you don't want to fight for your homeland. By being part of the new Afghan army they either presumably were willing to fight, or their 'service' was all just a scam to get a sweet, swEET American paycheck, then just go back home when the pay stopped. This looks like it was a fraud from the very start, and we were just fooling ourselves that we were 'nation building', when in fact we were just giving away $100 bills by the pallet, for s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 08:00 AM |
| -4 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenIts illegal for US citizens to try to overthrow a foreign government, and the Taliban will be the legitimate government of Afghanistan again, before anyone could even get over there, so even an attempt would be insanely foolish. Honestly, I doubt even a group of US right wing paramilitary guys would actually sack up so much they would even try something so absurd. No one wants to die in that sh!thole, just to see it slip back to its natural anarchy on the corpses of a bunch of foolish do gooders… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 07:50 AM |
| 9 | Men would make the exact same decisions they shame women forMen will definitely leave their wives for someone better, its a tale as old as time, however, there are so many examples of men having affairs with meh level women that that is also a stereotype. What advantages did Monica Lewinski have over any Victoria Secret model ? Clearly, if you are a Tiger Woods level man, you will probably just bang every model you see, and not bang down, but men are very opportunistic about this, and its fairly easy to be miss right now, if a super model is not in the r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 03:35 PM |
| 41 | Men would make the exact same decisions they shame women forPeople suck, you gotta look out for number one, and not trust anyone easily. This is the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 03:29 PM |
| 1 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?Yes, child support is not really related to marriage directly, but the concept of marriage does encourage taking on of child rearing responsibilities, which someone purely in a 'shacking up' situation might be more weary about signing up for. Marriage does present the illusion of solidity that might encourage starting a family, which is why that illusion needs to be dispelled, so people can make more rational choices, which would involve men not starting a family. unless they can support it livi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?The lack of home economics in schools is a mystery, but as to inflation, I doubt the government fox would ever teach the young chicks how absurd it is for it to be allowed to guard the currency hen house... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?The inflation tax is the most regressive tax, as it extracts value from everyone that earns dollars with labor, or has dollars, but even worse than where this tax falls is its hidden nature. Everyone starts assuming government is free, even though there is no free lunch. Even as well off people dump dollars for assets, they still are willing to support nonsense policies that blow through money we don't have, just because the actual cost of them can't be seen directly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:02 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?I think the Obesity Epidemic speaks pretty clearly as to which food is better, but we live in an instant gratification world, which is why running a government fully funded from tax revenue has only happened one year in my lifetime, the totally normal year of 1999 dot com boom. If you don't have to pay for it, why not have a more 'fair' system ? Everything looks good with a few trillion in free money... BRRRRRRR ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 08:27 AM |
| 3 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?The forums definitely compete with the real world, and maybe they are winning. Maybe people just don't want to grow up, if they don't have to, and maybe they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?Well, I mean, as long as those hard working Chinese workers and companies will take freshly printed green pieces of paper for their valuable production, there is a sort of twisted logic to working 'harder' in a BS office job, so you can buy more useless plastic crap from far away lands. We don't have to be the biggest consumer country per capita, that is a choice, and its one people freely make, even if they don't understand that the results of those choices will never make them happy. I would a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 09:02 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?Communism and socialism will always have the advantage in debates, as its much harder to sell the advantages of free market capitalism in a 30 second sound bite. Capitalism also has the 'your father's Oldsmobile' problem, since its been thoroughly tarred and feathered as a tool of the Globalist elites to siphon off a huge cut of your money, by the Trump crowd, and there is some truth to the fact that capitalism greatly advantages the already well off, especially in the Fiat World of free money t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 08:52 AM |
| 33 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?^ This. The world has changed, and everyone is living in a screen. Its both hard to compete with a screen, and hard to escape one, if that is where you live. I suspect there is a loss of interest in RL intimacy on both sides of the gender divide, and at some point the statistics will bear this out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?I think you are putting the work cart in front of the consumebot horse. People waste tons of money on worthless crap, and thus they need to work full weeks. We are a consumerist nation, and people choose to work more to consume more. Yes, COL is going up, but that just means it might be time to move, or cut back on space. Most of the time being 'forced' to work is a choice to keep up with the Jones's, and that is a bad choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?Poverty has won every war its ever fought. That being said, certain ideologies can push a LOT more people into poverty. At least under captialism, you have the opportunity to work your way out of it, if you choose to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 08:58 PM |
| 3 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.Printer go BRRRRRR breaks this country. If the average house in your city is soaring 20 % per year, and now costs $ 500,000, it takes a LOT of savings to get one, if you make that median 36 K per year. Wages increasing 1-2 % per year, but the stuff you want is going up 10 x that, eventually everyone is broke, except that top 10-20 %. Its a thermal runaway situation, most people will never own a home, its just running away from them exponentially... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Sex robots, legal prostitution, improved sex toys etc. won’t have any major impact on dissatisfied men.Its about the combination, not the individual components. Each component is meh on its own, but someday someone will combine them all and make something insanely great. In the year 2000, there were lots of MP3 players, mostly crappy solid state Chinese units. I had one that could only hold 17 songs, and the random function always played them in the same 'random' order, and it ate AA batteries for breakfast. At the same time there were tiny hard drives, I had one in the form of a square USB stick… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractiveIts hard to find good human sexual attraction studies, so its unlikely anyone can bring anything but their personal theories to the debate. Here's my personal theory about female attraction. Because a large subset of women like muscles on a man, and generally men do not like very muscular women, beyond fetish seekers, there are more likely 'desirable' categories for women then for men, which is why men agree more on attractiveness than women do. So not a change your view theory, more an explanat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 04:32 PM |
| 0 | Women have blown the idea of Men only wanting sex way out of proportionIf the woman in question is young and attractive, this is probably the case. On the 'plus' side, once a woman puts on a lot of weight or gets to about 40, you won't have to worry about this problem any more, as most people will just ignore you, then you know anyone who sticks around is for real... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Why do we push for legalizing prostitution yet denigrate the men who patronize prostitutes?Winners don't do drugs. No matter how legal they are ever made, you are STILL a loser if you sit in your mother's basement and get high in your free time, instead of making something of yourself. That being said, I am 100 % for legalizing all drugs, not because it will make people winners in life, but just so I don't have to pay for the largest prison industrial complex the world has ever seen. These are not contradictory positions. I feel exactly the same for prostitution. I would never use a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 04:21 PM |
| 8 | A 50% Divorce Rate does not mean you have a 50% chance of divorceAnother point is that becoming a millionaire, unlike marriage, is almost 100 % under your personal control, if you are able bodied and live somewhere where you can earn Western World sized wages. If you save and invest a large percentage of your earnings, the odds are more like 92 % that you CAN do it. Of course a marriage would cut those odds 50 %, unless it doesn't end in divorce and both partners work, which might actually increase the odds, ASSuming your partner is also a saver, and that can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 03:58 PM |
| 2 | A 50% Divorce Rate does not mean you have a 50% chance of divorceThe Apple Newton was a complete failure. Did Apple have bad engineers ? Did they not know their market ? Of course not. Would people actually buy a handheld computer device that had data entry ? Of course they would, look at Palm and Handspring that came later. There is always a large element of luck in any endeavor, business or personal, and 'doing it right' guaranties you nothing in this life, so you just have to decide for yourself if the juice is worth the squeeze, and in the case or marriag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | If a man is entitled to hold out for marriage until he finds a virgin, is a woman entitled to date only men who don't watch porn?Real life imitates the plot of the Jim Carey movie 'Once Bitten'. Finding a 'porn virgin' man might be even harder than finding an actual virgin woman, just because the lower risks and availability of porn just makes it almost inevitable that a man has had a porn moment. I had plenty of encounters with porn well before adulthood, and that was in the ancient long ago times before a network of computers spanning the world was freely available in every home. Kids today have actually grown up with i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | How the dating world radicalizes peopleIf you (we) are not getting anything out of it, why would you want to force the same worthless tax on everyone at the same effective rate ? Or is the fact that it sucks some kind of strawman thrown out there to win a point ? No more SS tax increases, until SS is fully fixed into an investing retirement account. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How the dating world radicalizes peopleSocial security is presented to the public as being different from welfare, where you actually get out a proportional amount to what you put in. Clearly you want a more welfare version of the program, but that is not what it was created as. If it was just a tax, why was the cap put on it in the first place ? Clearly it was intended to be proportional in its benefits, which the cap is there for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?The issue is not the child support, the issue is that western marriages end a LOT more than such relationships anywhere else, the vast majority are ended by the woman, and no fault divorce means that they end VERY easily, at any time, by any member. The culture is such that marriage is really just throwing yourself an expensive party before shacking up, with some inheritance benefits when you die. Honestly, the only real use for marriage is late life inheritance planning, if you find an unrelate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 04:59 PM |
| – | How the dating world radicalizes peopleSo, this system clearly doesn't work, because corrupt politicians steal the money, pay as you go, and no actual compounding occurs in a IOU based system. What should we do ? I know, lets make it bigger and more burdensome ! Ummm, no. Why don't we actually fix the broken mess, rather than make the wreckage bigger ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How the dating world radicalizes peopleTaxing more for social security, but offering no benefit for the extra tax makes it just another welfare system. I'd rather not see it go that way, but so many others here just want to soak the rich, rather than build a just system, and clearly you are one of those pro tax people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 02:29 PM |
| 10 | RIP itiswr1ttenI just use their replacement term 'Intellectually Deficient" instead, in the same context. Its not quite as succinct, but otherwise able people acting like (they do) is still a problem, so you need some word to call them out... | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | How the dating world radicalizes peoplePeople complain about everything, that doesn't mean its important. We only tax income in the US, not wealth, so looking at wealth gives a distorted picture of tax percentage paid. There are two obvious and reasonable reasons the 'wealthy' pay less tax. The first is fail social security, which imposes HUGE and burdensome taxes on the middle class, to fund a de-facto ponzi scheme. In fact, its because SS IS a ponzi scheme that its costs are now so high, because no money was ever saved for retirees… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 06:48 PM |
| 6 | Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessnessSoyboys are not very appealing to women, you NEED traditional gender roles for part of base level attraction. Its fine if some people leave the beaten path and not fit into the stereotype, but everyone can't be feminized, because its not what women want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessnessI doubt a disclaimer would do any good. I mean, the culture already disapproves of porn to no effect, the natural desire to consume it is just too great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 06:55 PM |
| 9 | Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessnessThe same way drugs are 'better' than working hard on success in life. People just don't want to work hard. Drugs and porn are easier, one and done. There are also risks to sex, like disease and pregnancy, that are just not possible with porn. In some ways porn is a reasonable choice, depending on your concern about sex complications. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 06:47 PM |
| 3 | How the dating world radicalizes peopleClearly the main point of my post was to judge men by their gender, since I basically lumped in mass shootings with all the other things men do 90 % of, like prisons and homeless shelters. By the same token, there are logical reasons women are not at the edge of the bell curve, because they have an important role in successful reproduction in a way that men don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 02:36 PM |
| 2 | How the dating world radicalizes peopleMen live on the edge of the bell curve. If you come back to this issue when there is full gender equality in the prison system, you will never come back, because that will never happen. Beings who would go on mass shootings would be poor mothers, and would have sorted themselves out of the gene pool long ago, and the pretty rare (usually their own) child-killing mothers ALWAYS make the news, because its so unusual to have the female equivalent of a mass shooting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 02:11 PM |
| 1 | How the dating world radicalizes peopleEnvy is entirely irrational. I can't tell you how many people in otherwise rational r/Economics want to tax away Bezos's money, just because he has it, as if his company is some kind of scam that stole his wealth. I met Chad once, his life is a scam, he works two jobs to hide his main income from his child support obligations and is always chasing the next lay. He did have a few interesting stories about his love life, but that is all he really has going for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 02:05 PM |
| 2 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?I was vaguely aware of this guy, but the outcome is not surprising, since men are expected to 'suck it up' or 'man up' and get over it in any sort of breakup. And of course, men are expected not to have custody in a breakup, so of course there are no kids to protect when a man tries to get away from a woman. And men are stronger, so they shouldn't be threatened, even though they are likely to end up in jail in any kind of modern day physical altercation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 03:07 PM |
| -1 | “Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship.Sex is a little different from money, theoretically there would be some mutual benefit from sex, whereas if you provide a partner with money directly, it is almost by definition a using relationship, unless there is an agreement that one person will be stay at home, or there are children. There is a strong argument that money should be kept separate, until much further into a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 07:59 AM |
| 1 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?I'm fairly sure 80 % of men are not celibate, I prefer the term 'very seldom sexually active' for most men, something on the order of once a month to once a year. I would wager that only 10 % or so are true in cel, but I think that the average man does not feel they have that great a sex life. I'm not sure if there are any recent scientific studies of the subject, the really good sex studies are from the 1960's, but that is so long ago, it doesn't really reflect current reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 07:45 AM |
| 2 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?Well, I mean, its already happening, just look at 'Baby Rabis' China. Who would have thought that in our lifetime the repressive Communists would suddenly jack their One Child policy up to THREE children per couple ? A Clear sign that The End Is Nigh. Interestingly, the new policy was ridiculed on social media, because all those new age Chinese in cities can no longer afford even 2 children, so its too late ! I never thought the Communists Human Wave attack from the Korean War would be stopped b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?The system is pure legacy, from back in the olden days when women didn't work or vote, and their job was to be barefoot and pregnant, and people could only get divorces for real serious problems, like wife beating and infidelity. Under the old repressive system, you had to take care of the little lady, and she couldn't survive alone, so clearly the bad man had to pay everything. Of course, a lot has happened since 1901, we have women's liberation, two income households, no fault divorce, the pil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:16 PM |
| 2 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?I'm not so sure if 80 % of the men could really fix their way to being top 20 %. It seems to me this may be a sliding scale, where SOMEONE will be in the bottom 80 %, regardless of how much effort is put in. Or 80 % of men are just losers, one or the other... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:20 PM |
| 8 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?But the situation for women is to some extent by choice, either because they don't want to have sex, or they are unwilling to do the work to be physically somewhat close to the sexual ideal. I suppose I can't really speak to the women's situation, but its VERY different from the loser men fading into the background, which is not normally by coice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?Society doesn't need men to support it. They take their cut out of your check before you get it, and its not like another society with real men can overcome the nuclear advantage. This snowball just keeps melting slowly, like the decline of the British Empire. One day we wake up and all international trade is in Yuan, and the dollar is worthless... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:48 AM |
| 1 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?There is no government solution to sexlessness, just like there is no victory in a war on poverty. A good start would be not making singles pay for family/childrens benefits, since we don't have any, and stuff... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:43 AM |
| 3 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?The problem is marriage itself is broken in the West, and few of us believe in it anymore, and marriages are ended at the drop of a hat. The fact that the man almost always pays child support makes a committed relationship a LOT riskier here than elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:38 AM |
| 4 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?Mexican immigrants will save us, and single handedly repopulate the US in the afterscape, even though native born people reproduction are WAY below replacement, and going lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:32 AM |
| 7 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?There is nothing that can be done. All the womenz want to be liberated and share Chad, and he's now easily findable online. There is no legislative solution, no amount of slut shaming can put the Sexual Liberation genie back in the bottle. Time to lift and grow 6 inches (upward) if you want to have a chance... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:28 AM |
| 3 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?The welfare state is actually a big driver of broken families. Why have a man around, when you can just get a check from the government, or have the government extract said check from the sperm donor ? I would argue that the two political parties are much closer to each other than not. The Biden Covid plan is pretty much exactly the same as the Trump Covid plan, except that the Biden plan has nominal tax increases. Not nearly enough to actually cover the costs, just enough to pretend, both plans… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:07 AM |
| 10 | 35 year old single mom and her regrets. After 20 years in the friend zone, her backup plan used her for sex and dumped her.Potentially appreciating assets. I guaranty you if you are still living in your mother's basement playing video games at 40 with no savings, then you have definitely depreciated. Maybe not as much as this woman, but you will be less physically attractive, and have nothing else that you could have been developing to make up the difference. The difference is that men can develop other things that can make up for physical decline, while a woman could have a great career, its unlikely to help with r… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/21 09:22 AM |
| 5 | Unpopular opinion: Women’s careers are overrated compared to men’s.Ever heard of the bell curve ? Men have just always owned the edges, so you will always see those outlier successful men, and they are mostly men, but how much time do you put into jails, homeless shelters, and insane assylums ? I guaranty you all the 'other' outlier men are by far the dominating members of these institutions, so there is good and bad. My feeling is that long ago, the process of having and bearing children just required a more balanced outlook and tone with more focus on safety … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 06:54 PM |
| 10 | How to start a cultThe leader of the cult always gets the best women members, I mean, just look at almost any cult. Quite a few of them have sharing of women or polygamy built in at their base level. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | If you're in the bottom 50% of men, dating is not a worthwhile endeavor.Hospitals everywhere are basically unaffordable, just suck it up and hold on until Medicare kicks in, its your only hope :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 03:40 PM |
| 2 | If you're in the bottom 50% of men, dating is not a worthwhile endeavor.Its already happening. Those bonus unemployment checks are pretty much UBI 0.1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 10:13 AM |
| 3 | If you're in the bottom 50% of men, dating is not a worthwhile endeavor.Male sex bots would be much harder to make, both because the male tends to be the more active leading member in sex (girl bot pretty much just needs to lie there and make some sexy noises), but also because women need foreplay a LOT more than men do, and the male programmers that will make these things will probably be level 10 incels, so they probably can't do a seductive male robot... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | If you're in the bottom 50% of men, dating is not a worthwhile endeavor.Being with a woman is a kind of social proof to others that you are worth dating. Its probably some evolutionary stuff, as it makes no logical sense, but it works. Perhaps always being alone makes people wonder if there is something wrong with you, when there are many reasons that might be the case that are not bad reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 09:55 AM |
| 17 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.Assuming the man is good enough at sex. Also, there are some non-physical things that some women need. In other words, the mutual benefit is not guarantied, just because people have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | If women shouldnt feel proud about talking money from simps and losers, then men shouldnt feel proud about fucking Pick Me Girls and female losers.I think women are just more attuned to undesirable women than men are. Yes, its undesirable to get with a crazy person, but many men wouldn't mind a 'doormat', as you call them, as some men like submissive women. Women are just more attuned to and care about social status than men do. Also, there are lots of marginal men that would be happy with any not terrible relationship. The only reason men look down on 'money simps' is that whole industries pop up and revolve around them wasting money on w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 06:51 PM |
| 5 | Dating is easy. You are just overthinking this shit.The incel sub will never reopen, also, all of our off site forums were taken down by the authorities as well. We are actually an official hate group now, like the ISIS of penises. Free speech is only free if its not too offensive. Don't be too sure your off site forum will always be around, they have ways of taking them down, if you cross the line (or the line moves, like it did for us...) | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?Oh it was still quite doable for gen X when I was 30, but yea, ladder got pulled on that idea. My condo was like 1.5 times my annual salary in 2005, and I had the cash, but now it would cost 7 times my salary, so good luck saving that, millenials... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?Yes, clearly there is a minimum beauty standard for most men, but that can be reached with a very small outlay of funds, for the most part. The $3 Wallgreens makeup is often the same stuff as the $100 department store stuff, and I'm not really a makeup loving guy anyway. Even real gold jewelry can be OK, if there is only one set of it. My point was more around things like 100 pairs of expensive shoes, or handbags, these things are less about how a woman looks, but just over the top illogical con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?Honestly, I misworded that a bit, since its possible to reach level 2 without reaching level 1, I.e. you rent or have huge loans for your 'stuff', but still have money to blow on relationships. Yes, its pretty rare even just to have your stuff together, but some of it is planning, like only having the house you need, like a small condo. I consider living debt free and owning all the basics to be a high value display, whereas buying another person all the things they want to be more in the simpin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market?Its hard to find a good statistic, since there are so many ways to look at marriage. Clearly it is declining, but if divorce declines as well, the true drop isn't as sharp. Delaying also makes things look worse, but I think many of the delay-ers will eventually decide not to do it, as a lot of the downsides of marriage are only understood later in life. I think it will mirror our decline in belief in institutions in general, a long term trend that affects many things, including organized religio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 03:56 PM |
| 5 | How dare you want what you want?Not really beta per se, more like that guy from Guardians of the Galaxy that responds to all questions literally. Dates are a game, you don't generally tell the truth, its not a truth-y event. There are plenty of more subtle but still rather obvious ways to say you want to have sex. It might be worth learning a few of them, or just blow off dating entirely and just pay for sex, or hit his friends with LARP weapons, hard to tell with this OP.... | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/21 05:50 PM |
| 7 | How dare you want what you want?Hmmm, OK, I'm down with do what you want, and stop a date if its stopping time, but I also assumed if you are driving someone in a car, its still common courtesy to either return them to the starting point, or leave them somewhere they want to be. I would be pissed if someone dropped me in a random parking lot during giving me a ride somewhere. Either don't give people rides, or at least be prepared to finish the agreed upon transportation. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/21 05:26 PM |
| 13 | How dare you want what you want?If someone ditched me in a random parking lot over a petty disagreement, I might tell people to avoid them on social media, and I'm a dude, and I hate social media... | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/21 05:13 PM |
| 62 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?OK, there are two distinct levels of 'have money' for men Level 1 is more 'have your sh!t together' level of money. For example, you have a house that you own, you have a car and 'stuff', and you are not in debt, ie you are not just pretend rich, you are 100 % stable in your life. I don't mind a woman appreciating that I'm not a financial loser, and can 'pull the cart' of life, but this is not the same as physically attractive, as others have said, this is more 'practical attractive', so its mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market?https://www.statista.com/statistics/195951/marriage-rate-in-the-united-states-since-1990/#:~:text=In%202019%2C%20the%20marriage%20rate,9.8%20marriages%20per%201%2C000%20people. Marriage has dropped 40 % since the 1990's, to about 6 per 1000, and that drop is pretty constant over time. Maybe most people still eventually marry, but I think the trend is pretty clear that this will not be the case going forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market?Perhaps I was overly negative, I do have a counter example. I have a third friend who has been married for 15 years, no kids, and things seem fine. Of course with no kids and the wife working, the income and savings are a LOT more equal, so the risk in a breakup is much lower, and they have not broken up. My parents are also still married after 50 (!!) years, so relationships CAN work out in the long term, but the percentage that blow up in your face is still pretty high. Also one of my two frie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market?Religion is a very important part of marriage, but although 95 % of US people say they are religious, its not the same religion of the 1950's and before. The pedophile priest long running scandal has really broken faith in the organized part of faith itself, and all the institutions it presides over, including especially marriage. Because marriage isn't sacred, its now become just a contract, so why not take advantage of the contract, when the feels are not as good as they used to be (and they n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 08:00 PM |
| 33 | Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market?Those marriage statistics are going WAY down, in the near future, so don't get too excited about those Norman Rockwell 1950's stats. Something like 70 % of African American women never marry, and those numbers are going up fast for Caucasians as well. The institution is just broken, and the mystique of marriage is also broken, and those marriages fail so fast that dying alone is still very much on the menu for people in many marriages. HALF of the people I know that got married then got one kid,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 03:19 PM |
| 0 | If they can do it, so can you!Its the old 1-10 scale for women's attractiveness, probably dates back 100's of years. I don't know what the HB means, I'm sure its something dumb. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/21 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Do men have a moral obligation to physically protect women in dangerous situations?The way the OP phrased the situation implied a large level of personal risk. There are certainly low risk situations, like auto accidents or just dialing 911, where help would be expected, but this is not implied to be such a situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: Do men have a moral obligation to physically protect women in dangerous situations?We are not discussing 'helping someone in need', this kind of bland non-descriptive situation would almost certainly have a moral reason to help, we are discussing engaging in clearly dangerous situations to potentially help someone else, the key difference is the RISK to the helper. Airlines explicitly tell passengers not to do this, you are instructed to put your own oxygen mask on first, before helping anyone else, even if they are young or elderly, and the reason is the risk to the helper of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?I'm not sure women would be that effective in physical combat compared to a man, unless they were able to unnerve the enemy with their presence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 09:52 AM |
| 3 | Why is getting laid your main goal?Being near a college is more like traditional dating/game, when you are going to college you are in close proximity to young women every day, and have lots of conversation opportunities. In some ways, work can be like school, but not for dating/relationships. Job dating is a big avoid, as every workplace will forbid it, and its really not worth it to put your job at risk for some pussy. I'm sure its a sidebar rule - 'don't shit where you live' There is no point in worrying about the past, its do… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/21 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Why is getting laid your main goal?Well, I mean, school is the best chance to find women before they get ugly, tatted up, strung out on meth, lots of kids, etc. I'm middle aged, but when I went to school, the hotness level was fairly high. It actually got much hotter when I went to college. Something about the 'cover charge' of going to 'paid school' just screened out a lot of the land whales and meh women. College also screened out a fair number of men as well. All my high school friends didn't make it to college, so the male/fe… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/21 09:22 AM |
| 5 | Why is getting laid your main goal?Lets be honest, school is kind of a bubble in reality where most chicks are hot, and you have a natural way to hang out with them and talk with them that isn't the kind of forced competition that the bar scene is. Also, a lot of guys are at their physical peak, and if someone in school is rich, its not really their accomplishment most of the time, its just daddy's money, so there isn't a lot of real status difference to segment people off. Yes, there is lots of fashion BS, but that usually doesn… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/21 09:12 PM |
| 42 | Which pill explains what I noticed on datingoverthirty?Red pill theory is that women ghost pre-date because they are unreliable and flaky by their nature. Clearly the fact that women have lots of options also makes flaking much more doable as well, since there will always be more thirsty men, maybe even that day (!!), but men have a lot less options, so why would they flake before trying to have sex, since that is almost always the primary goal of going through the effort of dating for men. You will also see posts of post-sex ghosting by women as we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you think social media, smartphones and online dating has changed the dating landscape that much, or are the effects of this overstated?Lets not forget all the corrupt politicians that went along with the war on drugs, including minority politicians. Would the news really put on a druggie to debate the law, of course not, but if a few more politicians were against it they might have had a say. Clearly most young people were against it, but until 'team morality' got old and died, there really wasn't much chance for change. The war continues to this day, although now we have a kind of 'states rights' thing going where some states … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | If the redpill is meant to be an unbiased look at the sexual strategies of men and women, why is there so much moralizing and pathologizing of female sexuality?What are you talking about, red pill is fair and balanced, just like Fox news ! Of course as they say, all is fair and balanced in love and war. The issue here is that anyone is trying to give unbiased facts about the most emotional and irrational aspects of human life. I doubt our future robotic overlords could describe human relationships in an unbiased way. "Why do you stupid meat bags 'break up to make up', THIS DOES NOT COMPUTE !" Part of the language of the red pill is 'all women are like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Do you think social media, smartphones and online dating has changed the dating landscape that much, or are the effects of this overstated?Censorship of news is not bad, if what is censored is the 'crazy man yells at cloud' stuff. Before the age of Alex Jones, I had no idea that diet coke would sterilize me and then kill me, or that the US had concentration camps in the heartland, and you know what, life was fine without any of that (mis)information. In our current partially censored world, you DO know about the conspiracy theories, AND you know they are being censored, because you see the posts being pulled, so the nuts can make a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Do you think social media, smartphones and online dating has changed the dating landscape that much, or are the effects of this overstated?OLD is a clear positive for most people, that is why we invented it, and started using it. It just saves everyone involved time. If the end result is some people 'don't get picked for a team', then that is the likely result of the old system as well. The only difference is, in person, the losers could beg for pity sex, or try to overcome their disadvantages with wittiness or something, and maybe that could work sometimes, so it seemed 'better' from their perspective, but it also wasted the time … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you think social media, smartphones and online dating has changed the dating landscape that much, or are the effects of this overstated?The fundamental issues are the same, but the technology has made the situation much more mechanical and changed the odds of anything happening, or even meeting anyone to extremely tiny. I mean, if you asked your simp male friend to do your yardwork for you in the 70's, he would at least have a slim chance to proposition you or suggest his availability for sex, but if he is one of your 3000 online 'friends' today, and say you asked him to find some information for you online, the odds are none to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Do you think social media, smartphones and online dating has changed the dating landscape that much, or are the effects of this overstated?Yes, dating is just the tip of the iceberg of virtual spaces and social media changes. People are spending more of their time online instead of in 'meat space'. If people are not out and about, how are you going to meet them ? If people are spending a lot more time with a screen, then they get out of shape and less attractive, if you could even find them. Even when people are in 'meat space', they are still plugged into the Matrix with their earbuds, and talking into space to an unseen friend li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 07:19 PM |
| 8 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?Until the technology gets much better, I think we men can still take 50 % of the credit/blame for babies... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 08:35 PM |
| 2 | The Harsh Reality of Being PoorI guess trust no one is a ok lesson to learn, but its a sad way to learn it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | The Harsh Reality of Being PoorBy far the most important use of money, beyond the basics, is to make more money on your money. Its quite possible to have your earnings on your savings compound much faster than your ability to save in the range of 10 -15 years. This creates a much better happiness or freedom than buying more luxury crap. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/21 12:29 PM |
| 3 | The Harsh Reality of Being PoorThis is like the worst lesson parents could ever teach a kid. Don't save any money, because it will just be taken away from you. I'm also not a fan of forced savings or charity. Money for children should be all about choice. If you don't give a kid the choice on how to use the money, then it wasn't really their money to begin with, kind of like when I get a paycheck with the taxes already helpfully removed by the government to buy another missile. Gee, thanks Uncle Sam ! | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Closure Is Bullshit [laidnyc]I wasn't saying that women were rational about relationships and ending them, only that both men and women are irrational about such things. There are lots of posts here saying that men are more rational than women, and while that may be true to some extent, there is plenty of irrationality in both genders. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/21 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?There are plenty of counter examples on social media of women not being supportive of other women who are overweight, but this would be hard to objectively prove. Most of the guys I know don't care about body weight that much, at least not of other men, of course there are lots of guys who ridicule fat women, but that is more related to sexuality than just them being overweight, where sex was not possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?I have seen posts online where lots of women volunteer that they have huge sex drives, but I suppose that doesn't matter, if you don't meet their minimum standards, or they all live in some big liberal city far away from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?When I said shells, I really meant the powder bags they used to load into the main guns on battleships, behind the actual shells, which I doubt are actually picked up by a mere mortal unaided. Yes, the shells need to be big, but the powder bags could have been smaller for easier loading. Of course I am no ship designer, so there could be some reason to make em hefty, and I just don't know it. I recall one of these guns blowing up on the last remaining battleship, and they for some reason blamed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?Honestly, I quoted that fact from some long ago article, and there are women pilots, so perhaps a more overall performance evaluation by an impartial computer might resolve this, where I just don't have the facts to prove it one way or the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?Stop applying logic and reason. War makes perfect sense if you think you can win and settle old grievances, even if it doesn't work out like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Announcing: CHADCOIN - Cryptocurrency for the ManosphereMy three wives each took half of my simpcoins, now I don't even have enough left for an Onlyfans membership ! | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/21 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?I assume most nations that send men to war plan to win, or at least not lose so bad there are no men left. Clearly this can be a bad bet, but its hard to do the rational thing and give the country sized bully all your stuff, because you will be a much lesser nation, and still possibly be wiped out later anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?But the underlying REASON manual load powder bags for battleships weigh 90 lbs is macho bullshit, since the weapon would be easier to use, for either gender, if it were designed with a reasonable weight. What I mean is, these things were not designed for men, they were designed for MANLY men, to boast to other men how manly they are, and are thus actually less effective weapons, because some of the designs were 'man illogical'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?Pets are things, not people, female animals are inherently more valuable because their offspring can be immediately sold for money, or milked for money, or eggs sold, etc. Humans for the most part don't care about reproduction. A post menopause woman in great shape will still be sought after, while a much younger land whale might have more trouble, even if she can reproduce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 04:07 PM |
| 5 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?There are other macho bullshit reasons women are not sent to fight, like the shells are made in a large and hard to move form factor, and logistics is too lazy to make different types of body armor. Another big and good reason is pregnancy evacuations. These are not cheap or easy, and as soon as young women were serving with men on ships and subs, this became a problem. Even if guys get all gay with each other, you still won't ever need a pregnancy evac on a guy only ship, giving men a clear adv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?Most developed countries are below replacement rates already, and no one cares. Sperm will be cheap until the day the the last man dies in the arms of his much more accepting robotic mate... Don't Date Robots ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 03:51 PM |
| 5 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?I don't think female standards are higher because of what 'society' says about them, I think its because they just have more options. If you have few or no options, how high can your standards be ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?Women do hold other women accountable when they do stuff like fat and slut shaming, but men just don't care about these things, so they don't give women 'credit' for doing it. To be honest, I have almost never seen 'fat shaming' from men. Even in events where physical ability is needed, like sports. Now the fat man might be skipped over for a team, but no man is going to call out another man for being out of shape just to complain about it, except maybe to suggest improvement, but women will say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?I don't think there is any inclination against men, its just that most people are inherently selfish, and don't really care about anyone, unless there is a reason, and there just isn't a reason to care about random man #23, unless he stands out in some way. There is the implicit assumption that women can't handle dealing with physical problems, like flat tires. Although this sometimes IS the case, they can just as well call a service to fix it, while many guys can do it themselves faster and pla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?I believe it may be the opposite. Female choice seems to be the primary setter of male traits, which feature a lot less strength than most other primates, and capacity to reproduce seems to set female traits. Humans are unusual among mammals in that our brain weight is very high relative to body weight at birth, so our heads can just barely fit through the opening to be born, and the female body is shaped to accommodate this. This is not at all the norm among mammals. Baby rabbits just easily po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?Its a subtle point, but if the lifeboats were fought over or overfilled, a lot more people would die in the melee or a capsized lifeboat, so SOMEONE had to make the choice not to go, or much fewer people overall would survive ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Are men inherently seen as disposable by society?In the grand scheme of humanity, it really doesn't matter if a human tribe (nation) is conquered. Even a conquered nation that still has women can at least have the chance of regaining its freedom later, should circumstances change, as they did for most colony nations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 02:38 PM |
| 5 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyClearly there is a hookup culture out there, although TRP has a love/hate relationship with OLD. They love hooking up, but not the dating format, which is very female centric (because, at a base level, there is more male demand than female supply). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?There is definitely some sexism in the red pill. There is plenty of RL evidence that women are fine in lots of roles and jobs, but TRP is very sex and status obsessed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyThe base assumption is that everyone wants to be in a relationship, and that is just not the case. Women sometimes make the first move, but it will be very subtle normally, because that is the way of our culture. Aggressive first moves are usually rejected, just because they are often very awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 06:48 PM |
| 6 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyI think he means socially speaking, and even then, its not always the case. Pity sex comes to mind, and I am sure there are other relationship types that don't revolve around the woman 'getting stuff'. 'Evolutionarily' I think the only reason to have sex is that it feels good. I seriously doubt that animals have any awareness of 'passing on their genes', or even making more animals, beyond instinct. With humans, its different. I mean, its still mostly good feels, but our big brains can invent al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?The two sort of bleed into each other, since the general RP opinion is that women unreliable, overly emotional, and are not worth dealing with, unless they are attractive and sex is possible. I have tried to argue that those traits they don't like apply to both men and women, as men furiously pounding the table or getting into road rage incidents is clearly not based on a logical assessment of the situation, but sometimes you can't see what is right in front of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 04:02 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the push to get people to be "happy on their own" and is it a good thing for the individual and society as a whole?The world has changed, and people are just now catching up to it. We NEED to be independent, as well as dependent, because we can't depend on institutions, the patriarchy, the church, pensions, and other things that used to be strong supports, but now just get blown apart in a storm. And there are a lot of storms out there. Of course this is bad for 'society', but its our reality, so we have to deal with it, or be destroyed by it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 06:47 PM |
| 6 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?It is exactly a cope. To be honest, this whole mentality is the guy version of 'girrrrl power' and 'You go, girl !', and just as cringe to listen to. This RP mantra is for incel guys or failed relationship guys to make them feel better about themselves being older and not in a relationship. and feeling just as 'used up' as RP likes to portray middle aged women, because supposedly a lot of a guy's SMV is based on things other than looks, that might get better with age. The reality is, school is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?We are talking about red pill theory, and in that context (relationships), its very much about sex for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 06:27 PM |
| 11 | Closure Is Bullshit [laidnyc]Lets be honest, a lot of guys can't actually handle the truth, especially the truths mentioned in the post. She may just be afraid the guy will go off in a wild rage if they knew the truth, and sometimes they do. Telling a guy his actual fucking is shit to his face would take a LOT of courage, and is sure to create a negative reaction. I've seen more than one relationship end in a fit of screaming and door kicking and pounding, its all too stupid. Relationships only feel important, they are all … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/21 03:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadThis is the 'I am the Prize' TM logic. but there is a flaw in the Matrix. Either my work and hobbies are sh!t of sh!t, or there is some super charm level Advertisement of said successes needed to activate all this feminine attention that only seems to exist in parody form in Axe commercials. Now it could be that my job and hobbies ARE sh!t of sh!t, but I think the problem may lie elsewhere. I own all my stuff free and clear, and I am financially independent, yet I still get 0 attention, in fact … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 02:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadIf its a tactic you have to explain, then it isn't common sense, at least not to desperate guys. As a :desperate guy: TM, I can assure you that I will make sure the logistics are good if I am dating, even if that is a mistake, because you don't want to miss your (perceived) first real chance in a long time, do to random sh!t. The 'pretend busy' strategy would never occur to me, because of how desperate I am... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 08:09 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadTrying to look cool on your own, which if you are not cool will be very hard to pull off, but if you are hanging out with three cool dudes that are having fun, then you get some social cred just from the assumption that you must be cool as well, even if that's just not the case, unless you admit it, you may not be looked at as carefully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 08:05 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadYes, these things only help you in that you have something to talk to a woman about that isn't your WoW guild. An improved physique has to be placed somewhere, with some cool revealing clothes (like that thin underarmor sh!t) where perspective mates can see it. You have to brag about these things before anyone will care, and you have to be actually be dating women to get said bragportunity, and you have to have the balls to actually hype up your stupid hobby. It might also be a logistical closer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 07:59 PM |
| 0 | The men who had harems were rich and powerful, not merely hot and charming (or AT ALL).Can we stop misusing the word Harem. This is a 'woman's place' in the house, where wives and unmarried women were kept away from other men. Yes, a man might have more than one wife in the harem, and maybe sex slaves, if they were insanely rich, but they could just as likely have only one woman. What has happened is, like many things, this word has been perverted by westerners to mean having sexual relations with multiple women, which was often not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 05:35 PM |
| 0 | She wants to be treated like who she is.https://youtu.be/YnPlIIXOJs8?t=79 Everything wrong with xxx, time indexed. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/21 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto AbortionsWe should financially abort the airline industry, and Boeing, and the automakers. But we don't, so why should ANYONE be stuck with an inconvenient financial burden, I mean its free money rainbows for everyone else, why not deadbeat dads ? Printer go BRRRRRR.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 10:23 PM |
| 31 | Reddit Anti-Evil Operations Decidedly Evil as They Remove Pro-Equality Post from TRPIts not just reddit, its all of social media. Moderation has become the new censorship. MSN banned all comments on all news articles, because the sheeple aren't allowed to speak anymore. Certain opinions are just not allowed, and those groups that have them just have to move on. The inc.els already moved everything to their own hosted site and departed reddit, for the most part, because there is no public forum that will allow them to speak, and it might happen here at some point, since the writ… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Are women who are “addicted” to erotica/smutty romance novels/fanfiction equal to men who obsessively watch porn?Its just a distraction and a poor use of time. Some people call it an addiction, but its really not. It sort of devalues real physical addictions, when they are compared to this. I would actually say romance novels are closer to video games than hard core porn, because there is a story in most of them, even if its somewhat predictable, whereas the male porn tends to be purely visual and fast to consume. I would say there is more there there on the womens side, even if the need it meets is somewh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenWhen it comes to specifically men's desire for sex/women, we are clearly just as 'shallow' as women, as depicted in many works of fiction. I believe the actual RP claims are that women are 'shallow' in most other aspects of life, sometimes claiming they are childlike, whereas men tend to be more SRSBZ about non sex/women things. I think a better term would be 'emotional', as its a bit less judgmental, but still gets the point across. There may be some bias in this judgement, as I believe almost … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20%This theory reminds me of some anime's where every woman has exactly the same figure (very busty), and the dialog tries to convince us that this woman is massively feeling inferior in looks to another woman, but the animation makes this comparison absurd (Misaki Chronicles is the most guilty of this in anime, the models are laughably similar among all main women characters). Clearly the dating scene would be much more challenging with identical male good looks, some other measure would have to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Do you think BDSM pretty much universllay being "woman focused" says something about sexuality?Actually, in the caves with the first human paintings there are these small statuettes that feature women with exaggerated breasts and hips, we are not exactly sure what they symbolized, but its not hard to imagine that they are related to sexuality or reproduction, as there are no similar male statues... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 06:29 PM |
| -1 | Do you think BDSM pretty much universllay being "woman focused" says something about sexuality?Would you expect their most wild and exciting sexual fantasy to be lecturing some nekkid simp in the bedroom about proper gender equality ? You don't normally fantasize about a slightly better version of your real life, that would be asinine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 06:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet themI'm sorry you have had bad experiences. It may just be a male/female thing, since guys are almost never approached, we just can't relate to the female issues related to approaches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 12:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet themI didn't mean that as a threat, more of as a normal reality. There are very nice and subtle ways to ask for sex, and 90% of men will accept a no from you without being mean about it, but most will ask for it, and probably even a larger % of them, if they have to pay for your time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 05:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet themEvery man you will ever date will be interested in having sex with you, and will pressure you for it, unless its some gay guy pulling a prank on you or some sicko doing a research study. Maybe they want a long term relationship, or maybe not, but physical intimacy will be a primary goal, or they wouldn't be dating you. Being angry or upset about this won't change anything, and requiring the man pay for everything actually amplifies the pressure for sex, since the man is just out of pocket for ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Threesomes are mostly silly and definitely overratedThe world is going to hell, it really doesn't matter if a 19 yo has sex, they all have sex nowadays, who cares if its with an older person or someone closer to their age. The hardest part is actually relating to young people, so you can communicate on their level. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/21 09:25 AM |
| 1 | The Rapidly Inflating Sexual Market Bubble Is Going To BurstMarxism has two problems, the elites, and 'Beavis' The elites run the current system, so instead of competing with the elites on their merits, because for some reason, cooperatives can't compete with Wal Mart, they pretty much have to overthrow the system, and that usually ends in violence. The Beavis problem is more subtle, but some people just cannot share, either because they love private property too much, or because they just 'want to see the world burn', and any Marxist system will have to… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/21 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Date women your self esteem can handle.Its not entirely binary, as there is a marginal level where most guys can definitely settle, if there are no hotties around. I'm fine with the standard looks numbers, as they give a rough estimate of attractiveness, although some guys are not that great at assigning numbers, and there may be other things that influence the number, that are unique to them. For instance, I like black women, but I know some racists that would definitely never rate a black woman over a 6, just because they don't lik… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Date women your self esteem can handle.-Hodlmonk puts on his hat and wizard robe . . . | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/21 09:09 PM |
| 14 | Date women your self esteem can handle.FSkable, marginal, and land whale. I mean, you might have other categories like grandma, if you like robbing the grave, but as long as they are in the fSkable range, why stress about which one is 5 % prettier, when it really doesn't matter, and it does kind of mess up your game, to fixate on a woman's beauty too much. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/21 09:05 PM |
| 6 | Date women your self esteem can handle.Rich guys are just losers with money, so expect some beta as fSk behavior from them, if you are around the hot women they want. I was watching a youtube video about lottery winners, and they had this loser on who bought a large house with a large backyard pool area, and he went around and invited lots of young and attractive women to come to his house and party on his dime. (He said) he didn't even have sex with them (and this seemed believable when he said it), but they just hung out at his hou… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/21 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How would you want society to address “sexlessness”?I suppose in that case we could have an even more promiscuous culture that encouraged women to have more casual sex, but that would come with real risks of disease spread and unwanted pregnancy, and people are really bad at taking precautions against these things, and talking about the risks of sex is still sort of taboo. In our current culture, the man has to pursue the woman, or there is unlikely to be any sex, so unless men find the motivation to get out there and (RL) game members of the opp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 09:32 AM |
| 2 | How would you want society to address “sexlessness”?Give me an example of 'society' doing something about this that doesn't involve government guns. Government is literally the instrument our society uses to force people to do things 'we' want collectively. I can't even imagine any other non-governmental way to change people's behaviors. Nonprofit 'foundation for a sexier life' billboards ? I mean, WHO is going to donate their fortune for lonely guys ? Onlyfan superstars ? I think not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How would you want society to address “sexlessness”?'Society' has no business addressing 'sexlesness'. This is some Handmaids Tale dystopia stuff here. In Japan, they actually pay people to go on dates and have children, but its just insulting to waste tax dollars on anything like that. If men on average are not having much sex, that is just the way it is. If men decide they want sex, there are some pretty basic things they can do to get it. If Western countries 'need' more consumebots to keep 'debt society' running, there are many willing immigr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 2 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?This. The personal benefits are limited to if only one partner works (better brackets, better IRA's), or if one of them dies (benefits and inheritance transfers better). The bulk of the benefits are to The Matrix of society, from a pill perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?It always devolves into civil liberties, because its easy to lose them, and hard to get them back, especially in this area, and we do live in Cancel Culture. I'm not sure how bad the content is on Pornhub, because I try to avoid them, but its pretty clear the banhammer is not subtle, and the stuff that meets 'mainstream' approval tends to be bad, maybe not bad in the sense of being prohibited material, but bad as in not very sexy/exciting, or produced in a decent way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?No, the argument is clearly a 'throw the baby out with the bathwater' problem. When you ban, you ban with a big hammer, and it would take out erotica and amateur, and the statue of David, I mean, where does it stop ? The websites that offer porn have already set up a verification process as a first step. Does it stop the bad stuff ? Maybe one or two videos, but it really stops anyone that isn't 'corporate', so out goes the amateur material, which I consider far higher quality than corporate porn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Government Mandated GirlfriendsThe GOVERNMENT will choose your looks match and shared interests (!!) Its like 'Relationship Communism' You know what the problem with Real Communism was ? Its that Meddlesome Bureaucrats are TERRIBLE at making economic choices for huge markets, hell, they couldn't even figure out how much TOILET PAPER the people need, (and that is a fairly easy thing to figure out, since the BM 'output' is fairly consistent ) and you are going to let them choose your most intimate and important life decision ? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Legalized prostitution will not dramatically change things between men and women like people on here implyI agree, the whole idea is absurd. Yea, a bunch of people would use it at first, but then you will realize its a waste of money and stop, or they will go broke. Last time I was in Nevada I noticed that, away from the casinos, locals don't usually play the slots, even though they are in every convivence store, like arcade cabinets used to be. Why ? Because the excitement wears off, and you have better things to do, and/or you lose your money faster than you can earn it. It would be the same with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Sex is a need, but not a right & never should be.You must be from Bizarro Universe, where only the people that want it 'contribute' to Social Security. Its NOT consensual, its forced, with guns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Sex is a need, but not a right & never should be.Just came here to say this. This third paragraph is completely different in tone than the other two, implying a right to the time an efforts of others, while earlier denying any right to companionship. Both are wants, and people should work to satisfy their wants, without calling in the state's guns to get what they want with violence, personal or group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Sex is a need, but not a right & never should be.Maslow's hierarchy of needs Intimacy is level 3. All the 'needs' you sighted are level 1 needs. Anyone living in the West probably has all the level 1 and level 2 (safety) needs met, so they tend to incel around this level 3, because you can't do it alone, and big nanny government won't help you with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Sex is a need, but not a right & never should be.I think the idea is no laws making it unnecessarily hard to access legal things. You should be able to access contraception if its legal, just as you should be able to pay a cam girl with a credit card. Why should the FBI demand that credit cards cut off access to buying legal things, because they think its 'naughty'. its really no different when Texas makes abortion providers have hospital admittance rights. The Dermatologist doesn't need hospital admittance rights, you just go to the hospital … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 06:54 PM |
| 3 | 2021 Predictions for the Sexual Market [Warning Politics]Bitcoin has always been a gamble, all the way back to its inception, none the less, the macro picture just keeps getting better and better, and if your dystopian predictions start coming true, its quite likely that will just throw gasoline on the Bitcoin fire. If you have looked at the very long term price charts for Bitcoin, you would see that it has a tendency to go absolutely bat shit crazy on the upside every 4 years, and here we are at year 4, so its hard not to see a fSkton of upside from … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/20 08:04 PM |
| 10 | 2021 Predictions for the Sexual Market [Warning Politics]Negative interest rates + SCS bank bans = Crypto full adoption. Right now crypto is just a get rich quick scheme, but there is a change the world element hiding inside the protocol, like a Trojan Horse. Yes, people like free checks, but the costs of government will also become obvious, at least for the 25 % of society that has lots of assets to protect, and there is no reason we can't get and immediately dump dollars, and save in real money... | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/20 06:20 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who are considered 'Beta' are better off alone.I type d that reddit tyitle twice because I knew it was not the red pill the first time. Still wrong. w/e. I’m out at a lesbian bar, where women might talk to me, still crashing and buring, WHY AM I HOLDING OUT? I'LL TELL YOU WHY. It's because I'm a bad player and I KNOW I'M A BAD PLAYER. Yeah you good players can spot the hoes and the gold diggers pit pat piffy wing wong wang just like that and don’t need a millino bucks to score sure no problem bro. Likewise the beta hands are like OH NO I’M G… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 01:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who are considered 'Beta' are better off alone.Its probably that in most locations the cops could bust you at any time and 'nightstick rape' a man for 2 years of his freedom and $10,000. That could add an element of shame to the transaction... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Is she “playing games” or is she not that interested?If it were obvious, there would be no Red Pill, or PUA course sellers. This is a much more nuanced tricky thing, and that is why lots of people are flailing around trying to figure out the 'secret' of attracting members of the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 01:35 PM |
| 6 | Is she “playing games” or is she not that interested?Some people do not get approached by women. I am one of them. Maybe I'm the biggest creeper in the universe, but I don't think so. Maybe if I were Brad Pitt then no problem, bro, but in the real world, some men DO need to approach and try, otherwise you can be alone for a long time, a VERY long time. Ideally, there would be some mutual spark every 10th interaction, but if its every 50,000 th interaction, there could be some purgatory involved, maybe enough to get to the actual Purgatory... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 08:28 PM |
| 22 | Learn from my Dumbass (aka You Are Not Alone)Honestly, there were not a lot of mistakes here. Probably the only real one was looking for a unicorn, or sort of falling into the Unicorn Whirlpool, as she started looking better and better. If there were good and easy sex on hand, I might also have also gone for it, and let some other stuff slide. Yes, we should all be Jedi Masters, and hone our personal success to a razor edge, and put 90 % of our time into success for the first 10 years out of school, climb that success ladder, and and bla b… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/20 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Why You're Only Making the Matter WorseOmega alert - I actually only heard about Onlyfans from this subreddit, it had never come up in my life before reading it here about a few weeks ago (!!) Don't worry, I would never give anything to such a site, but it did get on my radar, and I learned a little about it, so clearly even the negative mentions work in an advertising kind of way... | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Men and women can be friends, the only reason you don’t think so is because you aren’t willing to be friends with someone you aren’t sexually attached to.I have been acquaintances with an addict, but never anything more. There is a saying that you are the sum of your 5 closest friends, and although its just a pithy saying, there is some truth to it. I try to avoid troubled people with my personal friendships, even if they are non-romantic. Most people that are actual friends I am quite compatible with. No one who moves around a lot is going to be an ongoing friend, because they will be far away, and I will rarely see them. They could still be a '… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Men and women can be friends, the only reason you don’t think so is because you aren’t willing to be friends with someone you aren’t sexually attached to.Perhaps it is a stereotype thing, but I've rolled the flaky snake eyes on female friends enough time to believe the hype on this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Men and women can be friends, the only reason you don’t think so is because you aren’t willing to be friends with someone you aren’t sexually attached to.There are two main problems with man/woman friendships. The first is the woman often expects more and brings less to the (platonic elements of the) friendship, and the second is that there will always be an immediate possible 'level up' to such a friendship, from the mans perspective, in a way that there is normally not for male/male bros (no homo). Its much easier for two men to get close but not too close, much harder with a woman in the mix, because of said level up option. A secondary proble… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 04:10 PM |
| 4 | Men and women can be friends, the only reason you don’t think so is because you aren’t willing to be friends with someone you aren’t sexually attached to.Except these posts keep popping up to complain about it. I think most guys agree that friends being other men is good, because men are less flaky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 03:29 PM |
| 7 | Men and women can be friends, the only reason you don’t think so is because you aren’t willing to be friends with someone you aren’t sexually attached to.You would help a male friend because you know they will help you back, if you needed it. And specifically for advice, a male friend will tell you strait what your problem is, while a woman might sugar coat it or dance around it (nice of them, but not helpful). Maybe not for everything thing, but if you need it, a (real) male friend will help. To be honest, there is no (logical) reason a woman couldn't help someone move, its just really unlikely to happen, from my experiences. Yes, women have les… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?Well, to be honest, most of 'corporate' porn is small scale, but its still an order of magnitude worse than even amateur films. There are a few huge names in porn, but most of the material is made by these smaller organizations, and yes, they are terrible, both behind the scenes, and what eventually comes out as a product. When I watch this mean spirited stuff, its obvious the actresses are not having any fun and are not doing things they want to do. The statements just confirm what I was alread… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 11:30 AM |
| 0 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseI think I am talking about elitism, not that there isn't a sexual basis, but there are elites of both genders, and they work together to oppress the less well off. Its more than a war of the sexes, and that was my original point, but you are pushing the gender only narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseI'm not familiar with the historical red pill works around this topic, but it seems entirely logical that some people in a group don't represent all people of a certain group. I mean, that is very close to the definition of racism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?ALL of porn is fantasy. If porn were a video game, it would be a 'press A to win' type of game, and I have seen several such adult games. While I personally don't care for the dreck they sell, I believe they should have the right to sell it. Because if you don't protect it, then you won't have any at all, like China's policy, and then you would have to import it from other countries secretly. Its like drugs, there will always be demand, so arguing if its good or not is pointless, since I hope mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 04:51 PM |
| 4 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?Almost all the negative stuff in the original post is material that would be fully 'verified' on pornhub. Verification only dumbs down the material to the most mean spirited corporate crap that can be squeezed out of the tube. They are too lazy to actually find the bad stuff, so everything homemade is thrown out, and only the mass manufactured material can be 'verifiably' bad... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 9 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?This stuff is all about 'corporate porn'. I'm sure there could be a type of porn that wasn't a scourge on society, more erotica or amateur, but all the mass manufactured stuff is crap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 11:06 PM |
| 7 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?LOL regulated porn... The very concept brings out the worst material, because the only people that can do it make porn only for the money, so their incentives are very bad from the start, bringing out the worst possible material, with the worst possible treatment of the actors. The truth is, the corporate porn is the worst stuff out there, its low quality, its mean spirited, its everything that is wrong with the genre. Amateur material is almost always better. There are exceptions, but watching … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 11:04 PM |
| 0 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseSex workers clearly get arrested, but they are desperate people, and time in prison is just another cost of doing business, so its not a deterrent, and the authorities know this. As to the 'alpha-ness' of the rich and famous, I suppose it depends. They clearly have a LOT of power in relationships, as fame is the ultimate aphrodisiac, if they actually USE that power or not who can say, but the numbers who take advantage of the willing mates on hand is fairly large. If you listen to Phil Collins m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 02:56 PM |
| 0 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseWell, it IS a boys only club, that maintains the system and imposes its will on others... Definition - "a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it." Just because men are hold power doesn't mean ALL men hold power, or even 50 % of men. It can and is a very small club of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 02:39 PM |
| -1 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseProstitutes ARE criminals, but the authorities see that its pointless to arrest them, because then the authorities are paying for prostitute's room and board, and they will go right back on the street when released. To be brutally honest, 'alpha males' DO pay for prostitutes, there have been many politicians and movie stars busted for paying for prostitution. Some guys will just pay to get some on easy mode, hopefully under the table, even when they KNOW they can get some from groupies/interns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 02:16 PM |
| 2 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseI think OP meant that its bad for women that their choices are reduced. Clearly its at least slightly good for men to have some of the (potential) competition living alone at home glued to the computer screen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 01:55 PM |
| 2 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseValue is a very subjective term. Many things that I think are worthless other people will spend mad money on. Lowering a car, raising a car, goofy oversized rims, 'Spyhunter' style hubcaps that stick out a foot, Christmas lights. Ring Doorbells. Nest. Alexia. Disney Star Wars movies (yes, I went there) Paying to see some woman's breast on the internet would also make that list, but they are all of zero or negative value to me, so society will find a way to harvest the productivity of humans with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 01:50 PM |
| 0 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseThe same way prisons reduce the number of black men available for relationships, by removing a subset of the SMP. As technology draws more weak willed people into these simulated SMP's, there are less available IRL for real relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 09:00 AM |
| 18 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseThe Patriarchy is very real, the thing you miss about it is that 90 % + of men are not part of it, it is an elite above the rest, like the cult and polygamous leaders that assign themselves all the desirable women in the cult, or the corrupt family law judges that force peon men to pay for women they have left, regardless of who has custody of the child. Or the politicians that impose draconian laws on our personal lives, while they are out there cheating on their wives at the Emperors Club. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 08:34 AM |
| 6 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseIf you have to do it if you want attention, but you don't, that is either MGTOW or In-cel, attitude dependent. I think these things are a rational response to a world gone mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 08:28 AM |
| 3 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseA John is a criminal, and they do get arrested for what they do. It makes sense to have a different word for the legal payment of women for sex-like activities like a lap dance, or whatever Onlyfans women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 08:26 AM |
| 4 | Made a Fake Tinder Profile as a WomanThe gay male marketplace is basically the same as the strait male marketplace, there is massive thirst, so if you say you are gay, or even a little gay, expect the likes to skyrocket, | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/20 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Made a Fake Tinder Profile as a WomanUnlike others here, I would suggest masturbation, but only what you actually need, as it can be a time waster, if you take it too far. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/20 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Made a Fake Tinder Profile as a WomanPink tax. Most of the things that are sold to women are vastly overpriced versus the 'normal' option, because women are more emotional about buying shit than dudes. Check those perfum-y body washes, they are like $10 each, and they sell like hotcakes. Yes, there is the Axe equivalent, but only a small subset of dudes falls for that marketing. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/20 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Made a Fake Tinder Profile as a WomanI'm holding out for the better Japanese robot dolls ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/20 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Made a Fake Tinder Profile as a WomanI think its the opposite, they give preferential treatment to new accounts, then lower your level to 'normal'. Unfortunately, the odds that a normal level guy gets anything is fairly low, hence the boosters. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/20 12:59 PM |
| 1 | "Their ancestors went to wars" - you're disposable to the world and always have been.Its almost a metaphysical debate, since it depends on your definition of 'degrades'. To be honest, I find some porn kinks degrading to women, but then again, there are thousands of kinks, so if you watch enough of it, its likely something will trigger you, no matter how open minded you are. Some of the bondage stuff can trigger me, but at least it (can be) equal opportunity, even if it still seems degrading if its a guy with a zippered shut leather mask getting whipped. A more clear cut women ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/20 04:55 PM |
| 2 | "Their ancestors went to wars" - you're disposable to the world and always have been.You can both be against porn and for erotic art, its a hypocritical position to some extent, but you still get your porn, as long as you stick to the tamer stuff. There are whole websites devoted to 'erotic art', and while you won't find any hardcore sex or BDSM, you WILL get very porn-like tasteful nudes for you to 'not degrade women' into a tissue... | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/20 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?Kids are not fun. In a first relationship there is the fun part, then later the responsibilities part. Becoming a stepfather means skipping most of the fun part, to a large extent. Would dinner be the same if it were only the vegetables ? Basically the RP crowd doesn't like kids, or the risk of a relationship going south and hurting the kids, so they basically pass on the whole family thing, for the most part, so someone doing ONLY the responsible parent part seems foolish to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 05:16 PM |
| 1 | How do you define hypergamy?I think the resentment is already happening, and will only increase, as more people understand the system. Everyone isn't going red pill, but the South Park episode where the men of the town decide to destroy time travelers and the future itself, by turning gay is not quite as absurd a concept as it once seemed to be. If people are concerned about a declining birthrate now, I think its going to fall a LOT more, once more people decide to bow out of not only relationships in general, but the enti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you define hypergamy?I mean, its usage IRL is different, not in meaning, but in frequency. Young migrant men will suffer all the more because of a preference among Chinese women for marrying men with more money or education (a practice known as hypergamy). — The Economist, "In China’s cities, young people with rural ties are angry," 3 May 2018 As you can see from the economist, this refers to women 'marrying up' ONE TIME, not women moving on from this man to that man like stepping stones, its just a very different u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | How do you define hypergamy?I'm not sure if Donald Trump is 'the best a man can get' TM, but it does show that people seen as 'high rank' can do things Joe Blow can't. This is just reality, even if most people are annoyed that others can do it while they can't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 06:33 PM |
| 2 | How do you define hypergamy?Interesting, but the USAGE back then was different, it was more the 'Caldarella' story, i.e. marrying into a higher caste, like a commoner marrying a prince. The current usage is many marriages or relationships that get incrementally better, like stepping stones, but the dictionary definition is a single advantageous marriage, that is above the persons rank in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 09:22 AM |
| 2 | How do you define hypergamy?Guys would go for upgrades too, if it were as doable as it was in the past. The whole Trophy Wife thing was this, just on the other side, and based on youth, usually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 08:35 AM |
| 1 | How do you define hypergamy?Well, just because less women are Billionaires, doesn't change what it is to be a Billionaire. Just because your game is weak doesn't mean that Donald Trump doesn't live the distaff dream of male hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 08:25 AM |
| 20 | How do you define hypergamy?Hypergamy is a made up redpill term for the ability of women to upgrade mates relatively easily, on account of the bar being lower for women to enter new relationships. The guy equivalent would be Serial Monogamy/Trophy Wife. See Donald Trump's relationships over the years. Just because the guy version requires better prenups and funds doesn't mean its any different, just harder to pull off. This 'special word' is created as a jealousy thing, like a lot of redpill content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 09:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who complain about getting rejected are pathetic.Relationship rejection is MUCH more common than any other type of rejection for men, so its not reasonable to compare it to other life events. It still doesn't make too much sense to complain about it, because what does complaining change ? Its more of a 'be prepared to try a lot' situation, sometimes called abundance mentality, but its more like 'abundance necessity', since depending on too small a group of potential relationship people makes failure much more likely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 10:53 AM |
| 1 | How To Go On Your Own Hero’s Journey And Get Whatever You WantPaid mentoring is just overrated. When you get free advice, even if it sucks, you can always go to another free mentor, and you don't get upset, but when you drop some bills, and it doesn't work, the regarts are just so much greater. My friend did some kind of paid dating service back in the day, and of course got zero actual success, and then he got super upset with the service. I've found that paid mentoring just never works, unless they can somehow do everything for you, and the things we wan… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/20 07:58 PM |
| 7 | CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older.Yes, the same way most burglaries are in poor areas, the kind of people that live off others will very much settle for whatever they can get, and most 'broke' people have a decent amount of money in paycheck, assuming you can get to it before they blow it on weed and other crap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 08:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older.The hermit lifestyle is real, its not just for Ted Kaczynski types anymore. Modern video games and apps have made it quite possible to live a pretend life in your mother's basement, or man cave, if you are semi independent. I think VR and other techs will only accelerate the trend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 08:50 PM |
| 2 | CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older.Someone can still be BB, even if they have no bux ! The fact is, most people waste their money on crap, so they could probably make a $400 child support payment, even if they normally don't have $400 available at any one time, assuming there is some authority demanding the payment. I know so many people doing this. Sometimes its even the motivation to 'succeed', since they are just spending more on weed normally... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 08:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you expect women to prioritize relationships when guys in their age range aren’t thinking about stability?No one expects women to prioritize relationships. If you want a relationship now, maybe you should find someone better, or even moderately older, if they have their life together. The relationship market is not ruled by logic, you just have to decide your priorities and maybe a 'good' guy isn't good enough, without that ambition. Clearly the choices are limited, but not everyone is a shlub, you just gotta try harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Marriage hits historically lows! Lowest Level in over 100 years!It all depends on the framing. Less people going to college could be a bad thing, but less people getting hopelessly in debt they can never repay is a good thing, so whether those things together are good or bad depends on the way you describe it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Look, the whole slut thing is just some women shaming other women, to, I don't know, maybe control them. Most guys don't care, unless they are looking for a committed relationship. As to your question, are guys 'slutty' ? Well, yes, yes we are, but most other guys don't care, and most women don't care either. It is assumed we are always willing to have sex, unless we are in a committed relationship. In other words, no one calls guys sluts, because most people just assume we are, and most of us d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Men here, do you ever get paranoid being acused of rape or sexual harassment?I somewhat worry about co-workers, but that is a clear 'do not go' area, and I don't date co-workers. I have never been hard approached by a co-worker, but then I am a man, so the odds of that are very low. The examples are so numerous of such things going south, and the bar is MUCH lower in a business context, since they will fire you 'just to be sure', while criminal actions require a much higher level of proof (and also have more serious consequences). I don't really worry about non-work rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 07:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If you are an active male member of this sub, you are either Ugly or Poor or Old&Divorced.I'm here because of the censorship of TRP. I'm not super into the 'all women are bad/stupid/emotional' line of not reasoning, but something about a sub getting censored or banned just triggers me. I was on Blue Pill to debate it, but that sub seems to exist purely to mock TRP, but not actually debate the issues of modern society, particularly 'cancel culture'. TPP is like the Libertarian-ism of relationships, the only place were we can actually debate some of the problems of modern culture and r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 11:07 AM |
| 1 | For Those Who Think Women "Should Care About Men's Dating Struggles", What Would That Look Like?OK, but men who complain online a lot about not being able to get into relationships do stray pretty close to the loser side. If you are happy with your life, and make peace with the world the way it is, then this statement wouldn't apply to you. To be honest, even though I share this feeling, I don't generally complain about it, and this thread is to some extent about online complaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/20 08:23 AM |
| 13 | For Those Who Think Women "Should Care About Men's Dating Struggles", What Would That Look Like?OK, its really simple. Please stop complaining about some loser men that are upset about not being able to get into a relationship, by comparing their problems to YOU getting into a relationship. Just because you can snap your fingers and get in a relationship does not mean that an average man can do it, because I assure you its MUCH harder for an average man. Also, please no pity sex, that is dumb, and encourages more begging, and California is already overrun with beggers of the money kind. As… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Anger is not a phase.I agree, also the part about a woman stripping for money online. She didn't get any of my money, and hopefully none from anyone else here, so why get angry about it ? What exactly can you do productively with your onlyfans anger ? Are you going to pass laws outlawing stripping, or imposing some stupid tax on it (there is a $5 'sin tax' to enter a strip club in Texas, but the clubs are still full, the only thing that did was pick the pockets of some blue pillers to buy another missile...), What g… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/20 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Moving To A New City (A Reflection on 4 Years of TRP)Not every state has income taxes, so it can sometimes be advantageous to live in certain locations, depending on how much you earn, and what other spending you do, since every state taxes SOMETHING. Texas taxes property, sales, and business inventory, so if you can minimize those things, it can be to your advantage, but its unlikely to be better than lowering rent $1000/month. Yes, BTC and ETH. I am VERY confident they will not go to zero, and have the potential for much larger gains than any ot… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Moving To A New City (A Reflection on 4 Years of TRP)It doesn't matter too much where you live, beyond state income taxes, if your living expenses are much lower, you will be in a great position to save, because rent/mortgage is almost always the #1 largest expense. I only speculate in the top 2 crypto coins. I own a few others, but they were either airdrops or tiny investments of money. Yes, the top coins will probably not 10 x in a week, but everything else has a VERY high chance to rug, and even the top coins can drop 80 %, but so far, the top … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/20 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Moving To A New City (A Reflection on 4 Years of TRP)I'm also introverted, so can't help there, but the finances is something I know, so I'll give it a shot. Unless you work for minimum wage, you probably have, at least potentially, more earnings than expenses, but you need to find something to motivate you to save. Saving money is very mechanical, and involves just doing without, or finding a cheaper way to get the things you need and want, and even just shopping around for the things you have as recurring bills. Finding the will to save is the h… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/20 07:21 PM |
| 2 | If you are a blue pilled man who has struggles dating there are literally zero resources out there for you.Yes, lots of guys blame others for their own failures. Anyone who does something all the time will not see it as the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 3 | If you are a blue pilled man who has struggles dating there are literally zero resources out there for you.incels.co Just because they were banned from reddit, does not mean that they are not real, or that there are not a lot of them. Its easy to think everyone is a great success, if you ban failure from the digital town square... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 11:07 AM |
| 6 | Why do few women whop disagree with TRP offer alternatives to it?There is no answer, and there probably never will be. The process is probably way too random and slow to ever witness in a lab. Probably the best chance would be the arrival of alien intelligent life on Earth, because then you could actually test the evolutionary theory against a completely different data point, and look for similarities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/20 10:02 AM |
| 18 | Does the prevalence of sex selective abortion contradict the disposable man theory?Stop and zoom out. Its not just 'disposable' men, in fact, ALL OF REDPILL is based on 'Western' culture's treatment of men, like almost none of the theory applies to anywhere else in the world, which often does not even have no fault divorce, child support, and still has plenty of institutional pro-male sexism everywhere. Even the attitudes of men and women are radically different. I mean, over 'there' female circumcision is normal, and here we complain about MALE circumcision. its like the two … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/20 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Saw this and was curious about your thoughts.Its the religion causing this situation. If they really wanted marriage with woman #1, they would have done it without the excessive delay. They say they want marriage, because that is what a good Christian is expected to say and do, but the reality is, they are not really sure, and when push finally comes to shove, they move on. A certain level of hypocrisy is baked into all human relations, and that is why you get these inconsistent stories, as its a duty vs desire situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 08:34 AM |
| 9 | There is a “Men Are Wonderful Effect” inherent in TRP beliefsThis is definitely the case. Now there is a counter current that Simps, and White Knight Syndrome men are part of the problem, but while there are good and bad men, there is a clear stereotypical 'all women suk' theme running through TRP. There is even a term for it, AWALT, meaning all women are like that ('that' being irrational) I've tried to push back on this, to no effect, but I can ASSURE you that all HUMANS are irrational, men and women, and its not hard to find examples. My favorite examp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 08:49 PM |
| 6 | Is It Disrespectful To Make "Boyfriend Material" Men Wait?Its a free world, why not have sex with whomever you want ? No one is 'making' a nice guy wait, he is deciding every day that waiting is worth it. If he doesn't want to wait, there are plenty of 'bad girls' out there that are more into free love... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | A lot of cynicism from men about dating revolves around the fact that most women are not consistent with how much effort the men they “let” sleep with puts into them, versus the men that are actually dating them. And why I like the 90 day rule.Unless you know someone, there is little chance that you would know if a guy pays for sex/strippers, or if a woman sleeps around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | A lot of cynicism from men about dating revolves around the fact that most women are not consistent with how much effort the men they “let” sleep with puts into them, versus the men that are actually dating them. And why I like the 90 day rule.Well, I mean its nothing to brag about, so why would you ever do that ? Rappers love to talk about going to a strip club, but I just think 'loser' (although if they are good at rapping, they can still be winners in other areas, but not making it 'simp rain') | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 03:07 PM |
| 3 | No such thing as a Female SimpThere is totally a 'extreme youth bias' to the treatment of children. Children are out future, until they are gown, then the are forgotten. Grown children are still our future, but there is a 'throw them to the wolves' mentality, over a certain age. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/20 03:01 PM |
| 3 | No such thing as a Female SimpWhy buy the bull, when you can get the 'milk' for free ? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/20 02:58 PM |
| 2 | No such thing as a Female SimpCelebrity is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Real power is hard to get and hold onto in modern society, and money is not you in physical form, its just something you control for now. You could be famous for anything, or even infamous. How many death row inmates have lovers, way more than should have them, but somehow women are digging to the bottom of the dumpster to pull Clide out for his final fling. Celebrity washes away all the other flaws one might have. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/20 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Basing your life around sex/power/dominance dynamics and spreading those ideas is bringing the society backwardsSociety is oblivious, one way or the other. Only a fool would not be aware how the family court system has a huge anti-male bias, and could destroy your life, if you come into its crosshairs.'Society' would be a better place if we were free to live our lives as we see fit, but its gone down a dark path instead, and now we have to maneuver around it, to be free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 02:27 PM |
| 1 | A lot of cynicism from men about dating revolves around the fact that most women are not consistent with how much effort the men they “let” sleep with puts into them, versus the men that are actually dating them. And why I like the 90 day rule.Have you ever heard the expression 'all's fair in love and war ?' Anyone can say there is a rule, or they can break a rule. The truth is, there really are no real hard and fast rules, only arrangements people come to. Most women will have sex on a first date, if the moment is right. If she tells you to wait an entire month, either the moment seems way off to her, or something else is going on in her life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 10:00 AM |
| 1 | A lot of cynicism from men about dating revolves around the fact that most women are not consistent with how much effort the men they “let” sleep with puts into them, versus the men that are actually dating them. And why I like the 90 day rule.Men feel nothing for prostitutes, there is no emotional bond. That is the point of paying for it, no commitment or effort. It has no effect on a man's ability to love someone else, besides a slight loss of semen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 09:43 AM |
| 0 | BDSM stats show that there are far more submissive men than there are dominant women. What might this imply?I'm not so sure about this. It seems to me the vast majority are bystanders, and a fair number are just 'Beavis' and actively destroy things they get their hands on. No matter how well I live my life, everything outside my door is said dumpster fire. In my opinion, Communism could work as a economic system, if only people could just share and care for communal things. I mean, does every house really need a shovel ? Of course not. One shovel could probably work for 2-3 city blocks, if it were jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | BDSM stats show that there are far more submissive men than there are dominant women. What might this imply?I have no obligation to develop your society. Its pretty much a shitshow dumpster fire at the moment anyway. I say let the MF burn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Why *shouldn't* we objectify people who dress sexily/skimpily?Unless the person is super receptive, to you specifically, you don't have some default right to make creepy sexual comments to them. The fact that its specifically a costume makes it less likely that they actually want sexual advances, since its not the 'real' them, its an act. At times, some women may want you to see them as sex objects and for you to make advances to them, but to know when, you need to be aware of body language and other signals that it is OK. The world of sexuality isn't stra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 09:16 PM |
| 2 | 7 days vacation, 40 approachesI'm shy, and couldn't help you with openers, but just having something small and 'natural' to share gives you some time to try, and a good excuse to talk about nothing with someone who is not with their friends or doing anything for a few minutes. Its just the most likely thing that normal strangers will ask you for. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/20 09:25 PM |
| 3 | 7 days vacation, 40 approachesNo reason not to carry a lighter, maybe even some cigarettes as well, even if you don't smoke, I do this, even though I don't smoke or even like smokers. (!!) I have heard that women who don't really care about their long term health are easier ONS material, this seems to match my experiences, and the cost is tiny. This is an easy opener in a lot of random life situations to talk to women, since addicts gotta addict, and once they are smoking, they can't exactly do something else or go back insi… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?The sad part of the great TP shortage of 2020 is . . . enough toilet paper was made for everyone, before and after covid. Besides the first day of pant-crapping along with the market's dump, everyone needed the same amount of toilet paper before and after covid, so if everyone just bought what they actually needed, no problem, bro ! But of course, logic need not apply to Fear World... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/20 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?Both prepping businesses like My Patriot Supply and Zombie apocalypse equipment and weapons were already RL things before covid 19. I'm sure they won't be hurt by RL fears of a political or economic collapse. I know the gold and silver sellers are out there making hay while the (relative to them) sun is shining ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: All men are misogynists. Read the full text before posting.Feel free, its just the old teacher put down, with redditors taking the teacher place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/20 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?The recent Toilet Paper thing is a bit of a pet peeve of mine. While it may be slightly ick to go without toilet paper, it actually isn't a true necessity item. Cut up old shirts and a bucket with a lid works just fine, and you can wash and reuse these make-shift wipes as well, as long as the water is still on. Honestly, even 9 TP rolls per person would have carried you though the whole 'TP shortage' thing, and its hardly even prepping to have one pack of TP in a closet. Containers of water and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/20 09:59 AM |
| 36 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?I think almost everything in the 'Zombie Apocalypse' genre caters to this dark fantasy. A lot of people probably think that any radical reshuffling of society would possibly benefit them, or at least let them act out their aggression on dangerous fantastical creatures. Prepping in large amounts is just dumb, as if things go to shit for more than 5 days, the new Gang Land Warlords will just steal all their conveniently prepped food and water. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 08:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: All men are misogynists. Read the full text before posting.I don't think so, but then I don't know that many well adjusted people in such relationships. The internet just has a large 'failure bias', almost like those that can, do, and those that can't, reddit... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 07:51 PM |
| 7 | CMV: All men are misogynists. Read the full text before posting.Clearly men want sex more than women want it. THAT part is universal, I would suggest that this applies to most animals as well, judging by all the macho BS you see in the animal kingdom. How men cope with this is all over the map. I think most men are in some kind of relationship, but then all the rest ended up on the internet complaining about it. This isn't the kind of sub that men in relationships would frequent, so any survey here will be hard leaning toward the misogynists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future?I think women get shamed for these things by other women, in a way guys just don't. Yes, famous guys will get in trouble, but 99.9 % of guys are not famous, and unless they are a school teacher, I've never seen any stories about average guys getting in trouble or embarrassed by such images. This is just mostly a woman thing, when it comes up in stories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future?I suppose it depends on what kind of character judgement you are talking about. Can you find me an example of a day laborer being fired for posting a dick pick. I really doubt you could, a male teacher, sure, and of course we have a politician in my original post, but these are the exceptions. The reality is, there is very little consequence to the average man from nude images on the internet, because society in general just doesn't care about male nudity they same way it does about female nudit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 07:01 PM |
| 19 | Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future?Because guys are (socially) expendable, and there is no 'looks' reason to ever care about a guy, and we are mostly judged by our ability to do work, and not anything else. You can send your dick picks all over the internet, and as long as you are not a politician with an ironic name, like Anthony Weiner, no one will ever even bother to find your picks and try to shame/blackmail you, because most men have little shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | The beta, turned alpha, does not become attractive to the women who were exposed to him as a beta.Women non-sexual friends have something to offer, but most men don't need most normal 'women help', so its hard to see these things or friendships as important. I have a woman friend who would occasionally give me food, and pens and other small things just at random, but as a matter of fact, 95+ % of grown men simply have no need for minor living things like these. Maybe if I were homeless and broke these things would be noticeably helpful, but any man who even remotely has his stuff together ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 06:09 PM |
| 0 | Almost lost virginity at 16When I was seven, literally the internet did not exist, and BBS's were just starting up. If I had my own internet enabled smart phone, I'm sure my exposure would have been insanely higher. I believe my first exposure was a magazine a friend had gotten from somewhere, it was just a different world in the past, now the world of deviant smut is one 'I am 18' click away... | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/20 10:17 AM |
| 5 | The fact that men rather be sexless than betabux proves sexlessness is a none issueDon't believe the hype, men can survive a long time without love. Masturbation didn't start with Hentai imports, even our most primitive primate ancestors had this evolutionary 'advantage' for a good reason, because going without was a natural part of life for a long time before recorded history, long before betas had any bux to offer... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/20 02:12 PM |
| 1 | I just have one questionThe crude gender reference was to family court almost always giving 'child support' to the mother, even in a 50-50 custody split (where logically there should not be a support issue, since both parties have equal time available to work) Things CAN change, slowly then suddenly. I have a feeling that a lot of traditions are going to fall soon, just based on the normal world turning upside down from the virus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/20 10:55 AM |
| 1 | I just have one questionLife isn't a zero sum game. Why waste your time tearing things down, when you can build your own better thing on top of what is ? Tradition means very little, almost nothing to the next generation. The 'patriarchy' is a red herring. The entire system is thoroughly corrupt, both the male dominated tech landscape, the mad moneyprinting FED, and the female centric family courts, and they all need to be out competed by something better. A new decentralized future is coming, one that laughs at former… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/20 09:00 AM |
| 1 | How can a woman know a beta is committing because he likes her as a person and not because he's desperate for sex?Betas are inherently desperate for sex. Most men want it, but people in the beta category tend to be obsessed losers. Probably the more important thing is to decide if their other hobbies and lifestyle are things you have any interest in. Chances are if their other things in their life are pathetic/terrible, its just not going to work out from your end. It might also help to find someone who is less desperate. The usual RP 'advice' is to push for sex as soon as possible, and move on if its not f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Do women actually want to be sexually objectified?I think this entire topic is just a disconnect with how men and women care about their looks. I know many men, including myself, that just don't care much about how we look, when we are not trying to date or get a job. When I come to work (service industry job), I just want to meet the minimum, and not worry about it. I cut my hair short, and don't style it at all, but I KNOW women feel differently about this. IN GENERAL, many women care what they look like. And when women look good, they also l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 08:10 PM |
| 0 | CLOSE, CLOSE CLOSE: The Importance Of Killer InstinctNo. It turns out that gay men hit on strait men all the time, its not you, its them. But as an excuse, 'being gay' can be useful, to throw a woman off her game. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/20 11:12 AM |
| 2 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sex^This. I mean, it might depend on HOW exactly the magic happened, how much of a heads up we had, and whether we knew it was going back to normal at a fixed time. I would presume that the pleasure feelings would not be that different, since we are all made of the same biological material, and the sensitive parts are basically equivalent and function the same, but just the possibility that it could be different/better would probably be enough for the average man-to-woman to want to test it. Even i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Has any study similar to the OKCupid/Tinder ones ever been done with a 50/50 gender ratio?I didn't mean that the question literally referred to the absurd situation in certain animes, just that the question was unreasonable, because the 50/50 split online will never exist. I'm sure the ratio of attractiveness may be a little more this or that way, but the point was, men care more about appearance than women do. Its very unusual for a man to primarily be a 'gold digger' or looking for an intellectual equal, not that it doesn't happen, but most men are not looking for financial support… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 10:06 AM |
| 4 | Has any study similar to the OKCupid/Tinder ones ever been done with a 50/50 gender ratio?In the end, this fantasy study you want doesn't matter, because the NUMBER of 'available' women that are reasonably attractive (more important to men) will ALWAYS be WAY less than the number of 'thirsty' men, full stop. This post reminds me of Rush Limbaugh complaining that if only African American votes were not counted, his preferred candidate would have won easily. This kind of fantasy is just angels on the head of a pin, because there is no possible Road Warrior future where either African A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 08:15 PM |
| 27 | Why do so many men find women boring here?The redditors that would come to this sub kinda self-select for being losers. Internet trolls are not known for their great interpersonal skills or their partygoing ways... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 09:23 PM |
| 6 | I was falsley accused of rape.OK, people take online crap WAY too seriously. You need to go to each person or institution that kicked you out of anything because 'reasons' and ask THEM to justify their actions. Like demand they show you a police report if they believe you did something wrong. They may not take you back, but it does prove that THEY are the problem, and THEY are jumping to conclusions based on nothing. After getting their 'side of the non-story', I would file a complaint for each one of them, and add a negativ… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 03:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Boys need to be socialized to be neutral towards women collectivelyThe point is people are not normally honest about what they believe, but a screen name and no possibility of being punched in the face really helps bring out the truth, which a lot of people don't like, hence all the no-speech rules being applied by service providers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 05:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Boys need to be socialized to be neutral towards women collectivelyOnline reality IS reality now. Men are more shy in real life, but the reality is, male thirst is real, and natural, and normal, online just brings it more to the fore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Without male-thirst, men wouldn't care about womenYou forgot to add the part about the human race going extinct in about 80 years, aka, the Dont Date Robots paradox. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJ6knaienVE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 10:07 PM |
| 6 | As a man you will live and die aloneSisters and Nieces Not suggesting incest, just let someone else do the heavy lifting of rearing children, and spend time with the children in your family that are not your biological kids. There is no reason you can't pass on your wisdom and surplus to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Help me understand the concept of women Hypergamy!Dammit, I thought you were doing it to live forever, now I'm out $1 ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/20 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever get approached sexually?Strangely, I agree with your idea, unfortunately, since the idea is politically to the right of Hitler, its just never happening, so the reality is either I buy my neighbor some things because kids, or I don't. I wish these were not the only options, but they are. If you live the perfect life, that's great, just realize that a lot of us can't get off 0 for our N-count, so don't mock us too much, especially in this place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/20 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever get approached sexually?Kids don't 'deserve' anything. We have to educate them and give them a place in society, because they will (and have) burned all the cars in France if we don't. But having them is a choice, and people shouldn't do it, if they can't afford to raise them. Throwing my money at the problem does nothing to stop people from having more kids they can't afford, in fact, it is the opposite. Why be responsible if there are no consequences, and my neighbors can be forced at gunpoint to pay for my mistakes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/20 07:18 PM |
| 8 | Do you ever get approached sexually?I don't want to cast shade on your ideal relationship, but no one has EVER valued me for what is in my mind, full stop. Maybe I'm not that intellectual a guy, but I only hear this 'mind desirability' from women, and most men I know don't value a woman's mind at all, unless she has 'traditional values', isn't crazy, and doesn't have a bunch of weird 'everyone else should pay for muh childcare' politics, like most women do. The harsh truth is most minds, women's and men's, have absolutely no value… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever get approached sexually?Ugh, you are misinterpreting the cow reference. Its not literally the milk a woman can sometimes make, the reference means - Why marry a woman who you can have sex with, without commitment. So in the analogy, Buying the cow is the full relationship commitment, and the milk is the sex. This expression was once used commonly to shame a woman into not having sex until marriage. Its rarely used anymore, because no fault divorce made a mockery of the commitment part of marriage, turning the once spec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 10:01 PM |
| 4 | Do you ever get approached sexually?The consensus is that male thirst 'poisons the well' like this. Unfortunately, there is no way for a man to approach and be honest without coming off creepy, so we have to make up some small talk, cause it can't be honest talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 08:30 PM |
| 0 | Q4Men: Do you prefer relationship sex or hookup/FWB sex?The 'theme' of RP is that all sex is hookup sex, just sometimes the hookup can last longer, usually called a 'plate', but its still just a type of FWB. Anything more is considered the blue pill establishment, and likely to end in grief. If you believe a truly committed long term relationship is impossible or personally risky in the current culture, why would you try ? I personally don't like dating, so I would prefer some kind of relationship, even if I'm not on board with the 'white picket fenc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Earning RESPECT as a manBullet point 'Resources' should probably be 'Prepared' - Having what you might need is much better than just having a lot of stuff or money. Protip - carry zip ties and bungie cords in your car, they cost almost nothing, and you can temporarily (or permanently, if you 'roll junk') fix a lot of cosmetic and real car problems with these things, if you think about the issue carefully. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/20 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Do you consider women who use sex appeal for gain as predatory or disgusting?It depends on how you define the word 'use'. If women just look great and people just give them stuff because reasons, that is just 'if you've got it, flaunt it', and if looking great can help you get ahead (and it can), why not ? Now if they are actively pretending to like someone to get drinks and hand outs, that is a little more pathetic, but it takes two to tango, so to some extent guys are also at fault for handing out favors to try to get affection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | If you're not creepy or fragile, you shouldn't be terrified to express interest in women or flirt whatsoever because of MeToo and mainstream media/feminism telling you that your masculinity is toxic.I have dealt with HR before, and they take anything seriously. If anyone complains against you they will almost always move you somewhere else, or worse. Even if you can diffuse the situation, you really don't want a folder opened on you with HR, because you WILL be fired if anything else comes up and you have a folder. I mean, like even at McJobs they do this, this is the primary job of HR, beyond issuing checks, and I am surprised you don't know The Way It Is... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/20 09:23 AM |
| 0 | If you're not creepy or fragile, you shouldn't be terrified to express interest in women or flirt whatsoever because of MeToo and mainstream media/feminism telling you that your masculinity is toxic.There is ALWAYS a small chance of success, no matter how much of a loser you otherwise are, and I know this is true, because lots of losers have girlfriends, some of them even with women that should be out of their league. I would argue that drug dealers have certain advantages that probably put them above your average man. Firstly, having access to drugs is cool and daring, which has a certain appeal. Also addicts that will have sex to pay for drugs are so common its a cliche, because its true,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 06:46 PM |
| 2 | If you're not creepy or fragile, you shouldn't be terrified to express interest in women or flirt whatsoever because of MeToo and mainstream media/feminism telling you that your masculinity is toxic.OK, I don't know why people keep saying this, but you really shouldn't date co-workers. Its usually referred to as 'don't shit where you live', but the reality is, we just live in a litigious society, and this is a prime litigation thing. Its not what you think is creepy, its what she thinks is, and HR will always take her side, unless she has a history of being crazy, and why take the chance ? Also, if it goes south later, this will cause trouble, and can lead to retroactive accusations. Its ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | If you're not creepy or fragile, you shouldn't be terrified to express interest in women or flirt whatsoever because of MeToo and mainstream media/feminism telling you that your masculinity is toxic.Psychos and bad boys APPROACH and say what they want, a lot, because they DGAF, and if you roll the dice enough times, you are gonna eventually succeed. Most nice guys will only put the moves on someone that they are confident is just their type, and if you only roll 3 times, the odds are against you. Also there is a thin line between being nice, and being mousy and introverted, and it can sometimes be hard to tell which you are. If you act like you just want to be a friend, you might just get f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.There are exceptions to every 'rule', this one included, but its a little more subtle than you make it out to be. Culturally in most of the world, women are expected to be more indirect about their sexual desire, and when they don't play hard to get, at least a little, it can be very off putting. I have been approached by a reasonably attractive woman, in an extremely aggressive and sexual way before. It doesn't happen very often, hardly ever, really, but I found it hard to deal with, if I wasn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 04:10 PM |
| 1 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.Southpark is very quirky, and they will slaughter any sacred cow. They also go super weird and explore lots of way out there concepts, like how to stop time travelers if you don't like them. Sometimes seeing things through the looking glass can clarify issues that seem intractable in the present day, like a lot of the absolutist ways of looking at gender relations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Does Red Pill teach men to make their "plates" jealous?This guy is obviously lying to you, or otherwise a scumbag, or just does whatever is fun for him at the moment. Clearly not worth any more effort on your part, unless the sex is that good... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Can women ever be sexually attracted to beta qualities?This is basically the 'Strait Edge' debate. Can someone being normal in every way, walk the line, and not having any antisocial behavior, and this alone be edgy, in and of itself ? I would say generally no, but its a matter of social consensus as to what is cool and exciting, so some level of this is caused by society. As it has been said, men (and women) find all kinds of weird things 'attractive', so a lot of it is how you carry yourself. Being shy and being aloof, and being a strait shooter a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/20 07:24 PM |
| 25 | Women's Learned Helplessness and Desire for the SpotlightSmall counter example, my father (!!) does the exact same thing with regards to email and printing. Yes, he is old, but printers and email have been a thing for 40 YEARS, and maybe they are not a fad that will go away, and are actually worth learning. The problem is, the people doing these things will spend a lot more energy complaining about you not helping then it would take to actually learn how these things work, so its a hard psychological problem to break. Yet another All People Are Like T… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/20 06:13 PM |
| 3 | What are some lessons learned from PPD?Not a huge revelation. Even on TRP its fairly often acknowledged that many of the posts are overly negative and stereotype people, and stray into Blackpill/Incel territory. That being said, the reality is there are a lot of life's losers on the internet, and it would be nice if they had a place of their own they could commiserate, preferably one not getting the reddit quarantine banhammer, with no possibility of fair appeal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Do men who express often inaccurate talking points like “courts always let women take half your stuff” do so because they do not have other outlets for expressing emotions like fear and hurt?There is a negative bias on the internet, as well adjusted and happy people rarely post how great their Blue Pill lives are on these subreddits, and that kind of stuff gets downvoted to oblivion, because if it doesn't bleed, it doesn't lead. Clearly 50 % of marriages don't end in financial ruin, but when it does happen, its devastation is extreme, and I have seen it happen, so its not pure hater neck beards whining, and the pain is real, even if statistically its less than 50 %, but that hardly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.Well, by your definition we are all ready full Road Warrior, since we have riots and looting and stuff, that's pretty much the same as the fall of the USSR, right ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/20 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do women here constantly mistake TRP with blackpill?DINK's might be able to do better in total savings, but I just never hear about any of them socking away tons of money. I may just not roll with those circles, though, so anything is possible. Guys just dominate the edges of the Bell Curve, and I'm pretty confident that we own the outer edge of savers, just like most murders and psycos are men... Women can be blackpilled, and yes, not having a relationship is generally looked down on, but in the US, its not too hard for a woman to get into a rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/20 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do women here constantly mistake TRP with blackpill?Clearly, if you compare the average urban woman without children's salary to an urban man's, you will find for a while now that the woman makes more money on average, with the same education. Now money does not necessarily equal productivity, and maybe men would work more raw hours, if that is an option, but if women get paid more, they probably produce more, to pay that salary. IMO, most of the preferential treatment is for minorities, not women, and the level of handouts is not so great that i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/20 02:46 PM |
| 0 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.We are talking about societal collapse. This event is fairly rare, even in shithole countries. Clearly it can get pretty bad, but usually some semblance of order remains, except in certain circumstances, like the fall of Communism, or the Arab spring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/20 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Why do women here constantly mistake TRP with blackpill?Well it is a choice, its not generally accepted in society to just forsake all intimate relationships. You will be called out on such a choice, so its far from normal. Even incels would try to have a relationship, if any woman would have them. Its not that a married couple don't have more income, its that after the group expenses there is nothing left, most of the time. Yes, you save on expenses with 2 + in a house, but those married expenses are much larger in total than a single guy's expenses… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/20 08:58 AM |
| 0 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.My point wasn't that the black community was doing great, it was that society can keep going along, even as it changes from being a unified family focused group to an evil Prison Planet society. To actually collapse, you have to either run out of all consumer goods (USSR), or be defeated in a war (3rd Reich). Why does Venezuela keep chugging along, even though 90 % plus of all the wealth and income have been destroyed ? Its because societies are strong and can refocus around adversity as a whole… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | I must be the only man who is happy about the idea of being replaced.The point isn't that its not coming, only that it is so many decades away its not worth hemming and hawing about, at least not yet, yet articles and posts about our inevitable and soon obsolescence just keep coming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Why do women here constantly mistake TRP with blackpill?If they don't get pregnant, women's productivity already has surpassed the average man. This doesn't really matter, because many women get pregnant today, but at a base level, women could easily surpass the average man in productivity, if women ever got blackpilled enough to stop having children. This is the long term trend (see Japan), even if immigration in the US is masking it by bringing in more family oriented women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do women here constantly mistake TRP with blackpill?There is no point in trying to have a long term relationship, since they can often end on a dime, and cost you dearly. There is no point in having children, for the same reason, and they could also turn out bad if you don't spend time with them, which is likely if the relationship ends. On the plus side, if you take all the resources you are not spending on this Americana Norman Rockwell BS, you can improve your personal economic situation dramatically in a few decades, even with a stagnant inco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 06:53 PM |
| 0 | Why do women here constantly mistake TRP with blackpill?Its not really a good or bad thing, its reality, and its by choice. Since we are not having very many children on average, and the number is declining, there is no other possible endgame. I imagine if you had a survey of native American attitudes in the 19th century it would be a variation on this red pill theme, that the immigrant conquering white people would become a majority in their country, and it wasn't worth having lots of their own kids to live on a reservation or be killed by the invad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 06:40 PM |
| 2 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.Yes, its Devastated, but society didn't collapse, in fact, the prison-industrial complex just chugs along, proving that black lives not only don't matter, but are actually a profit center (!!) The point isn't that society isn't worse this way, only that its not collapsing at all, and will never collapse, without a lot bigger push than some kids without fathers. Society is far stronger than people give it credit for being, regardless of how many lives 'the system' destroys. that is the flaw of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 11:01 AM |
| 3 | I must be the only man who is happy about the idea of being replaced.The threat of technology obsoleting jobs is way overrated. I've been waiting a long time for those self-driving cars to take away my delivery job. So far, not a single one delivering food, only some prototypes. The fact is, a computer can't deal with random construction cones everywhere, and adverse weather, which is when drivers are needed the most. I think it will be quite some time before our jobs are gone, or even partially gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 10:23 AM |
| 11 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.Yes, the phrasing is different, but garbage like that is part of red pill. Usually its stated as society will collapse UNLESS men revolt, or maybe that society is 100 % collapsing, so just roll with it. The reality is, they overemphasize the importance of the traditional family. But as a practical matter, society seems to be running just fine on majority single mothers. Yea, the values are different, but it still runs and is stable-ish. Anyone hoping for the collapse will be disappointed. A dirt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 08:23 AM |
| 66 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.No one seriously advances the idea that women owe low quality men sex, this is neckbeards in their mother's basement level of strawman argument. Most serious RP posters want self improvement, and to be a part of the hypergamy by offering themselves up for some of the low commitment sex that the black pillers complain about. The truth is people don't need sex, and the sooner people accept this new reality, the faster we can get to a steady state population level. Its a lot like the South Park epi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | As long as prostitution exists, it will be just as easy for men as women to get no strings attached sexSo much sarcasm, must resist troll bait . . . I know this type of person, you might call them 'young', even though they are of age, and they are really bad at planning ahead. They meet some girl, and for some reason they have not purchased said pregnancy reducing item, yet they go for it anyway, I see it every so often. Society will never blame the woman for a pregnancy, there is just a kind of anachronistic chivalry out there, and its pretty intense, even though its very similar to racism, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 06:39 PM |
| 3 | As long as prostitution exists, it will be just as easy for men as women to get no strings attached sexI mean, the risk of a man being forced to provide child support is so well known that I didn't mention it. I suppose I am not familiar enough with the different laws to know if child support can be imposed unilaterally by one party or not, but it is at least possible to not have anyone to provide support, and that is the risk to the woman of casual hookups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/20 09:03 PM |
| 4 | As long as prostitution exists, it will be just as easy for men as women to get no strings attached sexIts possible to get pregnant without knowing who the father is, either because it was too casual, or there were too many partners. No one is volunteering for a test in the aftermath... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/20 07:38 PM |
| 5 | What is the equivalent of red pill truth for woman?This is all true. There is no concern for this group at all, unless they are doing something the majority does not approve of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/20 07:54 AM |
| 4 | What is the equivalent of red pill truth for woman?OP asked for equivalent Red pill truths. If you wanted PC hand holding, perhaps this isn't the thread for you... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/20 07:46 AM |
| 8 | What is the equivalent of red pill truth for woman?Women, you will never be valued for your mind or your career by an average man, unless you are a CEO, super famous, have multiple millions of USD, or invent the iPod, and you probably have not done any of that, if you are here on reddit. The average man doesn't really care if you have money, we can (And will) usually get by on what we have, even if its peanuts, and its not entirely uncommon for a woman to make more than a man, but that doesn't actually change things. If a man DOES ask for money,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/20 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Why is it always "female hypergamy" and not shameless male thirst that is complained about?Shameless male thirst has been a thing as long as the human race has been a thing, and I imagine our precursor species where the same. Hell, even animals have it, watch any nature special on mating rituals. Women being sexually liberated in the west is only like 70 years old. Which are you going to complain about ? Dirt, or rockets. It really makes no sense to complain about dirt... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/20 08:00 PM |
| 7 | Why are males always the ones who end up isolated and lonely in society?Almost no one is valued for their mind, man or woman. Unless you invented the iPhone. Sexual characteristics are much more valued in society, in general. Even as a woman, you should be able to see and understand this illogic. You may care about YOUR mind, but the majority care about other things. I imagine even you don't care about other minds, especially if they disagree with your worldview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Young women makes tinder profile as a male and is extremely disappointed. Redpill on the Front Page.Women were not allowed to be on the beaches of Normandy. If somehow we re-fought WW 2 today with present forces, there would be women soldiers there, not 50-50, but there would be some. These examples are not 'value', but just an expression of the Bell Curve between men and women. Men are the outliers on both sides, we may have most of the inventors and warriors, but we also have most of the insane asylum and prison population, and for the same reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/20 10:15 AM |
| 8 | Why women love assholes (an alternate view) by trpMiloIts dangerous to sh!t where you live. If it doesn't work out perfectly, your best friend will blame you for doing it, and may not forgive you. Its just so much safer to move a little bit out of your friend group. I once lost a friend because he thought my mom damaged his bike. How dumb is that, it was just a bike, they are so easily replaceable, and I don't even know if the story is true, there was no way to know. Now replace mother with you, and bike with sister, and you can see how this could … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Islamist group in Mozambique kills 52 young boys for not wanting to join them. Of course, no one gives a shit. Man are expendable. If they killed young girls instead, you can bet Michelle Obama and Ivanka Trump would join hands, urging the UN for action.TRP isn't my main posting area, but the term 'most good' is so subjective its a very dangerous rabbit hole. Money is a means to allocate scarce resources, with scarce being the keyword, basically hard choices. It may seem in the current political climate in the US that you can just print a trillion here, 5 trillion there, but that is an illusion. No matter how many green pieces of paper you make when printer go BRRRRRRR, at the end of the day, the resources are still scarce, and shouldn't be thr… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Islamist group in Mozambique kills 52 young boys for not wanting to join them. Of course, no one gives a shit. Man are expendable. If they killed young girls instead, you can bet Michelle Obama and Ivanka Trump would join hands, urging the UN for action.Effectively, we do treat all life as very valuable, not infinite, but way more than the amount one might earn in an average lifetime. What sense does it make to spend $6 million on a single premature fetus, it makes no sense, but we do it anyway, same with climate change, same with toxic chemicals in telephone poles (its a rather out there thing, but quite real). The problem with climate change is similar to covid 19. Because the worst possible outcome is unthinkably huge, it justifies absurd ou… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/20 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Islamist group in Mozambique kills 52 young boys for not wanting to join them. Of course, no one gives a shit. Man are expendable. If they killed young girls instead, you can bet Michelle Obama and Ivanka Trump would join hands, urging the UN for action.I hope you don't actually think all human life is infinitely valuable, because in that case no one should take any risk, because the outcome could be catastrophically huge to someone with that value system. You just have to put a reasonable value on human life, so funds can be allocated properly in society. Otherwise spending trillions on climate change and taking tar out of wooden electric poles would be our top priorities. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/20 09:09 AM |
| 4 | Islamist group in Mozambique kills 52 young boys for not wanting to join them. Of course, no one gives a shit. Man are expendable. If they killed young girls instead, you can bet Michelle Obama and Ivanka Trump would join hands, urging the UN for action.Its more like we don't get all emo about some random small atrocity half way around the world in a place we can't find on a map. In reality, I think most of us don't even care about this event, not really, we only bring it up to mock the double standard, but there has ALWAYS been the double standard, even in history. People have always been overprotective of women, its probably genetic. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/20 05:20 PM |
| 2 | The value of vaginaIts another version of the 'Ghost of getting Ass' thread. I'm not searching for that thread, but it reads almost the same, but shorter. Lots of creative writers here... | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 10:51 PM |
| 8 | Journalist admits she was a slut in youth, and now has no trust in her husband w/ 2 children, wishes she was still on Carousel.It is a strange comment, like somehow having a relationship means you can't change the world, don't have the time for it, or maybe the social reform she wants is to destroy marriage itself. The story itself is very 'Bourgeois', in that it follows the traditional narrative of 'did a bad thing long ago, but now I've come to Jesus' Clearly since she is 35 and still has no steady income or health insurance, she needs a provider, so she is unlikely to announce she is going back to her youthful ways, … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Finance ThreadMoney gives freedom to do whatever you want, not happiness. You don't save to have a pile of money, you save to have your money earn a paycheck for you, so you are not stressed about earning it, and can handle bad things happening to you, because they are always a possibility. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 04:47 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Finance ThreadWealth tax proposals already includes Roth IRA's, so Mitt Romney better get his butt hole lubed up with the 200 mil Roth he's got... | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 04:40 PM |
| 8 | The Red Pill Finance ThreadPeople here like to complain, but the average salary is much higher, even if you do menial work. People can blow any amount of money, if they don't have discipline, which is why you hear the complaints about the middle class. Most of those complaints are that easy and good jobs are hard to find, and that is the case. Making sizeable money isn't easy, but its possible, lots of looking and trying different things is required to get that higher pay, its a lot like PUA, you gotta approach a lot of e… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 04:37 PM |
| 4 | So are women doing cold approach now? “pick-up lines were rated by male participants as most likely to be effective. They found that direct pick-up lines were most successful, flippant pick-up lines were second most successful, and innocuous lines were least likely to be judged as effective.”This. This just sets off your natural 'scam radar', and makes you want to check your wallet. Its SO uncommon that I find that my first instinct is caution, rightly or wrongly. Also this specific article is about an experiment to uncover male bias, so caution WAS the right response to such an experiment, since there is no prize for this 'science day game', beyond any initial payment. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/19 07:15 PM |
| 6 | How to not be a bitch: 2019 editionThe first rule of fuck club is, always approach. The second rule of fuck club is, see rule #1... | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/19 12:12 PM |
| 4 | When you are extreme high value man, women will do anything to fuck you. Even sacrificing their job.Why should an uncommitted woman's (or man's) first priority be virtue ? Is this to impress people, or are you "scoring points for the afterlife" ? I mean, if you are, that's cool and all, but that would seem to be a minority position in the present world. There is a lingering 'women having sex is bad' thing in our society, but the underlying logic of it is weak, beyond avoiding diseases and pregnancy, and it seems to be a 'legacy patriarchy' thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/19 07:04 PM |
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