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Could be that you have complex ptsd stemming from your possibly emotionally abusive relationship with your mom. Look for a therapist who is trained in how to work with patients with trauma. Determine how much you can heal autonomously and how much healing you can do in a relationship (relational healing). Wishing you the best!
/r/seduction18/06/25 10:26 AM
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I don’t even get why my comment is being downvoted. I’m literally suggesting to ppl that they should educate themselves so they don’t commit manslaughter or at best maim someone. If you don’t care about the ppl you sleep with or yourself, you’re welcome to keep walking. This comment isn’t for you.
/r/seduction12/04/25 07:50 AM
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Even blood chokes aren’t actually safe unless that’s not what you’re suggesting. Safest practice is really just applying a firm grip to the sides to give the sense of control and dominance.
/r/seduction11/04/25 08:58 PM
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Before anything else read up on choking and realize there’s no way to do it safely but you should both understand the risks
/r/seduction11/04/25 08:02 PM
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Oh boy there's a lot to unpack here. Sure there are women who say they don't want to have sex on the first date. You know what is the right thing to do when you go on that first date with them? Still project attractive energy, be confident, make them feel safe and comfortable with you without going in with the expectation or gameplan of trying to get them to have sex with you. If your date chooses to change her mind, which she can whenever she wants, then good for you. The point is that you shou…
/r/seduction18/03/25 12:27 PM
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It seems pretty clear that you want different things, or if you want the same thing, then on very different timelines. Seems to me the only reason you'd want to go is to roll the dice to see if you can somehow sleep with her, which isn't what she wants. Leave it alone.
/r/seduction18/03/25 12:03 PM
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I was being a bit silly but the truth is that my style was already decent but(!!) the key to improving anything is to immerse yourself in the area either by teaching yourself or associating yourself with “experts” so I looked for and found myself someone who’s style I liked and who’s taste I could trust. We’re no longer together but we’re still good friends and she definitely elevated my wardrobe and still does occasionally. It was just enough inspiration to run with and make my own.
/r/seduction21/02/25 08:30 AM
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By getting a gf
/r/seduction20/02/25 07:31 PM
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Honestly this is the reason why at the very latest by the second date I’ve discussed sexual preferences and kinks and energy to see how compatible we are (at least on paper). I’ll never understand how ppl will talk about literally everything on a date except just one of the most important things in a romantic relationship/situationship
/r/seduction09/11/24 07:45 AM
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So my hot take here is that I actually disagree with this. The fading out says more about you than it does about her and this curated manipulation takes so much time and energy that you could be spending on better things. It’s not about sparing her ego, it’s about you sparing your feelings of having to have an uncomfortable conversation. All of us (men and women) notice an energy shift long before there’s an actual conversation (if the other person even respects you and themselves enough to offe…
/r/seduction09/11/24 07:21 AM
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“Hey what are you doing this afternoon? I hear the next town has this really cool new cow. If you’re not free what about your sister?” Jokes aside literally dgaf at all. If you don’t make it a big deal they won’t either. Pretend you’re asking your best friend if they want to go for a walk.
/r/seduction16/07/24 10:57 AM
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Going to offer a different opinion here with the understanding that different strokes work for different folks (my 2 cents is just what has worked for me and I want to show that there's no real need to be sly or coy or cocky or indirect or cringe about it and also definitely no need to make your masculinity dependent on whether or not she sees you romantically or platonically: I do agree that if there's no clear signal of attraction of some kind by the third date then it's probably time to addre…
/r/seduction08/07/24 01:20 PM
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It's hard to do anything with your foot stuck in your mouth lmao just text her and be like, "Hey, I put my foot in my mouth with the whole your mom picking you up thing, what I meant to say was xyz. I didn't mean to make it awkward. I'm and idiot but a cute one. Could I interest you in a third date with a cute idiot?"
/r/seduction04/07/24 08:56 AM
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