HP_Love_Shack Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
158	The mid life, divorced man and women’s perception	Rant	HP_Love_Shack	/r/Divorce_Men	19/08/25 02:20 PM
113	My role as a man in my former marriage has turned me off from dating		HP_Love_Shack	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/25 12:57 PM
96	Some women look for a 'bailout man' over and over	Dating After Divorce	HP_Love_Shack	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/25 12:02 PM
1	Bath time thoughts		HP_Love_Shack	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/26 09:53 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	How little people care I read all the similar stories here and its heart breaking. I also went through my divorce with zero support. No one cared. The lesson I learned: take ownership for your life and your happiness. I am that caring friend and person for myself that I need. Of course its not ideal but I see it as necessary in such a world.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/26 01:22 PM
22	The hypocrisy of reddit when a woman cheats is borderline hilarious There is 100% a culture of "leave your man" for any reason in women's friend groups and social media. I had no idea until my divorce how commonplace it is. It is everywhere. A culture of entitlement for women and displacement for men. At this point I've made peace with it and am just happy alone. I see no reason to ever commit or God forbid "provide," when one day after years of my loyalty the other party in the relationship can just feel a certain way and have an army of support, including the …	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/26 02:43 PM
9	Seeking advice from divorced men Look, statistically and culturally once you get married you are "on the ropes" to use a boxing metaphor. Because all it takes is for your wife to "feel" like things are not right. You could be the best provider, husband, father...but if she decides or watches a tik tok video, or talks with her divorced friends and just feels divorce is the way she can just say "I'm not happy" and that will be that: Your marriage is cooked. And no matter what you put into the marriage, the love, trust, financial …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/26 05:27 PM
11	Need the real answer from actual men Personally reluctant to date in my 40s. Older or younger. I’m happy solo. I’m sure there are plenty of men out there looking for women their own age. I think that is more common. Personally I’ve felt very used in my former marriage and, what I gather, women seem to have an incredibly low opinion of men overall at least in the US. After some interactions and dates it feels like I’m looked at for what I can do for them or financially, etc. and I’ve been through that already. So it feels like a was…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/26 11:48 PM
7	My Wife Asks for Divorce Every Month When PMSing Look into “PMDD” that’s what it sounds like. My ex had it and ruthlessly hated and discarded me every few weeks. I would make excuses that it was just her pmdd and adhd rsd, etc but… Turns out it was really how she actually felt. Found that out when she tossed me aside and found a new guy. Looking back I wish I stood up for myself more. It would have ended things much sooner and I would have been mentally healthier. PS PMDD is no excuse to abuse you and whatever you feel is valid as well. I used…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/25 12:57 PM
6	My role as a man in my former marriage has turned me off from dating I hope you are right, I spent a long time with her so it’s hard to imagine otherwise. I’m conscious enough that I don’t want to date just yet with this attitude.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/25 01:05 PM
14	Some women look for a 'bailout man' over and over I was her 2nd, this will be her 3rd lol	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/25 02:37 PM
11	Some women look for a 'bailout man' over and over Never heard of it. I'll check it out. No More Mr Nice Guy helped me, another recommendation	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/25 01:57 PM