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Probably what my ex used to do - get mad at her because he's so impossibly bad at sex that she is not having a good time (the feeling like nothing more than a human flashlight). He's frustrated that's she's not getting off and giving a pornstar performance. He demands step-by-step instructions so he can 'get it right' (which starts like sweet talk but she just doesn't care to explain and be ignored for the 100000x time. So he gets mad, pulls out, and stomps off to his bathroom to finish himself.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 07:31 PM
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Mine was the same but instead of weight gain, it came from eating a bunch of shitty food right before bed or drinking too much beer (or both). He knew that made his snoring worse. I usually only got 3 or 4 hours of sleep a night because of his snoring and violent dreams. Then he would be extra loud and obnoxious when he woke up and get extremely mad at me for asking him to keep it down because I didn't get sleep the night before. Nothing like aggressive behavior before 8am!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 07:04 PM
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So happy for you 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 06:56 PM
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My ex did this to me. He pushed me to do it instead of worrying about continuing my career (that was too stressful, tbh) then proceeded to berate me for not having a job or making enough to pay 50/50 with my brand new business any time I needed money or he had to pay a bill. It crashed and burned because I had to get a full-time job to pay my bills (he made me cash in my 401k to pay them while I was 'unemployed'). Insane for a husband to do to his new wife, right? So, I pivoted and tried a new b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 01:15 AM
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This was my NVXH (with NPD) He just wanted me to be his mommy mcbangmaid while he advanced his career while simultaneously destroying everything he said he loved about me. He hated me for existing except when he needed validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:02 PM
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I just did this today. He sent me the most nonsensical narcissistic word salad of a response why I barely hear from him anymore. He didn't even acknowledge my birthday which was last month. So I responded with "okay 👍🏼" I don't have time for that shit. I know exactly what it means when a guy 'loses interest'. Especially when it happens as soon as they are now in a situation surrounded by easier targets and pickmes. I'm not stupid 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 06:33 AM
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Yes! And this was just the tip of the iceberg of his awful. He is absolutely unhinged! I recently saw he has a new victim - and this time, significantly younger. Wish I could warn her. So grateful to be free of him and on my way to my dream of living in a big Victorian mansion with my cats and closest gal pals (bought myself the house for my birthday last year with proceeds from the divorce)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:29 PM
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This is one thing I've learned since getting free from my abusive narc ex. Set boundaries/say no early and often to see how they react.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 12:30 AM
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That was my ex. He couldn't even take care of pets. He even said, "I don't like doing adult stuff" (like cleaning and paying bills - seriously. A 30 year old man-child) No way I was going to have a child with him. Especially since I told him, point-blank, at least 15 times through our courtship and engagement, that I am childfree and will not have children - which he understood and agreed to before we were married. He couldn't clean up after himself or take care of the house. How was he going to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 12:23 AM
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