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don't tell anything to your friend, he'll figure it out when the time comes. and you just don't engage. simple
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:44 AM
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if it's fresh: a&a if it fits your frame and personality. if not and it's already on the way to fwb: don't take the question seriously, deflect, ignore, smirk, amuse yourself however you can. don't fake it
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:38 AM
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you can't control her, but if you care about it, you can have it on your terms. you basically have to "own" her, not in a possessive way but rather make her obsessed with you. you have to be willing to leave, always emotionally less invested than her and keep the dynamics in control. you can't fake the willing to leave. and then you require from her to give you what you want through subtle actions. you put her through an emotional rollercoaster and then you become a part of her. you have to be a…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:18 AM
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a hardworking, traditional/religious guy with a strong frame and from a good family. something similiar to what elliot hustle is for reference
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:35 AM
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too comfortable with you and lost frame. if she says she doesn't like it, it means loss of attraction and you can't negotiate that. you'll need to pull away attention and detach and see from there if the ltr is worth it (otherwise great value to your life), but start lining up plates in case it doesn't pan out
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:25 PM
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bro, what are your bp/dl/sq stats? you don't seem to be lifting hard enough. when you reach 340 bp, 450 dl and 400 sq, girls will start approaching you
/r/askTRP21/05/20 07:13 AM
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pop culture or not, it's about how the girl was raised. I lived in the Balkans and in the "West" and the nature is still the same, but the number of girls fully let to their nature is smaller in the Balkans for example. it's about the respect for their father, religion, participation in household chores, tougher life and in general emotional "stability" coming from good relationship with her parents.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 05:49 AM
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work on emotional control, not seeking validation, being comfortable with yourself and social calibration
/r/askTRP17/05/20 07:21 PM
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tyson fury. most boxers probably
/r/askTRP16/05/20 09:34 PM
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text or rl? you can say whatever you want depending on your frame, considering you're in the right frame. if I were on a date enjoying myself and not giving a fuck if she leaves or not, I'd probably say something like "I don't rate women I never slept with" with a smirk, just to amuse myself, because it honestly would amuse me
/r/askTRP16/05/20 07:01 PM
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you'll have to rewire. I don't think you are lazy but rather complacent. either ride it out or quit it rn, in either case take the hit as a sign to level up. you are not quite there yet and that's ok. follow your mission with all your focus, know (or learn) what you want and get your frame right and game other girls as a side thing, not even a hobby, but just something you are doing on the side while living life because you have needs. work on controlling your emotional investment in that area r…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:51 PM
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hmm, you even approach during corona? or you mean online? if online, better pictures, better texting and normal strong frame non-investment with fun in goal date game. if approaching, well develop the frame (most important) and be more sociable. go approach and practice game with a dgaf attitude with again fun as the goal. you can also go direct game (look for good looking loser and basically copy it if you just want to get laid and you'll develop your simple pickup style on the way). don't do t…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:49 PM
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soft next. ideally don't give her ANY space in your mind, but with writing this post, I guess you broke that
/r/askTRP13/05/20 07:03 PM
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If you care about not spreading it, go self isolation for two weeks, use the time for something useful. You are a young guy but still call your doctor and ask him if you should come if the fever doesn't go away in a couple of days. Pray with your family and trust in God. Doesn't mean you can't ask the doctors opinion. Don't panic because it will make it worse, you should be fine.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 05:19 AM
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seems like you want to be a player. adopt a player mindset and don't let thoughts that don't fall into the mindset ANY space because it will weaken it and you won't be a player. you are what you think. don't think you are a virgin. don't think you are bad at sex. don't have any of those things have an effect on your self worth. if you have high testosterone and want to fuck, make appointments and game girls but don't let it be on your mind. even as you are driving to the date, it's beneath you. …
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:48 PM
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hmm, I didn't read anywhere that you went to therapy, who knows what kind of a psychological problem you have causing the nice guy syndrome or other problems along with it. if you are sure it's only the nice guy, you have to read the book several times in a certain period of time without cheating (meaning rigorously following the steps described), preferably with help of nice guy groups. it won't fix the other underlying causes if you have them, though. if you know it's your only problem, stick …
/r/askTRP10/05/20 01:17 PM
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yes. you'll never truly understand if you don't experience it, but after you experience it, you'll become bitter and go through the phases. maybe you are naturally pretty rp aware, though. in any case, point is to get to the point where you don't care about it that much because woman are never #1 to you, even if you are married. you need experience to gain better control of that area in your life, make you stronger in general and teach you to never base your self worth on the outer, in this case…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 09:50 AM
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don't understand the question. she is a plate fullfilling your sexual needs? okay, don't mention cooking and shit, it's a plus but nothing of worth there. you want to uprade to fwb? why would you do that if you don't enjoy spending time with her in general? I think it's clear you don't go in a LTR so nothing to discuss there. really don't understand what you are asking here. you are fucking a more than average disturbed girl and that's it. always game other girls, have other shit going on, keep …
/r/askTRP09/05/20 08:50 AM
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alpha widow. too bad for the fiance. she bases her worth on you and wants to get validation/your attention through any means. you can give it to her if you feel bad but understand what she's doing
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:43 AM
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you want to tell them you quit? you tell them you quit. they ask why, you say why if you want to talk about it; if not, just "stopped being a fan" with a smirk, or ignore with a smirk or another quick answer with a smirk and change subject. the point is to enjoy the conversation and you do it on your terms. if your frame is strong, there is nothing you can say to a girl that would break it, or other way around. it's not interogation, it's something you do for fun while you are not busy with more…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:16 AM
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why would you explain to girls why you don't drink? do you rly care what they think of you? you tell them whatever, it isn't even a subject. then you go on and talk about whatever you want to talk about. there's other issues with the frame
/r/askTRP05/05/20 09:27 PM
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you can do it, but it's not something anyone should do for a date. if you have fun and enjoy texting, just text non-investing fun messages here and there and keep her from your mind. I have a friend who has a routine that leads to talking about sex, but he's smooth at it and he fucks during lockdown anyway. if you do it for the date, the key is low investment, because you don't want to spend all that time/energy investing in a girl you didn't even fuck. if you have fun texting, just text whateve…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 09:18 PM
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you can learn alpha traits and if you're smart, accept what works. you'll never be a real alpha. real alphas are born (genetics and upbringing) or life made them alpha. theoretically you could achieve alpha mindset and then those kind of questions would never come to your mind nor would you care about it. you'd just do what you want to do
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:40 PM
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you've been seeing her onlynfor 3 months and the question indicates that she's not an LTR for you. I answered something like this to a similiar question: "I like you, but I don't think we'd work exclusive, since I wouldn't want my girl to go to trips without me, but I understand you want that and that's perfectly fine." We dated and she wanted to be exclusive, but she had major red flags anyway and I couldn't trust her. you have to understand that you can't be afraid of losing her after saying t…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:42 AM
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man, you're letting a fatty threaten you with quits. no need to end it right now, but get your power/balls back you made her too comfortable. you should have enforced better boundaries
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:27 AM
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all good advices, but I think humans in general and most of us here even more are very stubborn and we can't learn from such advice unless we ourselves experience it. sometimes not even then
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:21 AM
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get weights to get your ballsack hanging to please a girl. don't you have any other ways to make sex interesting if you are bored? if not, find another girl
/r/askTRP05/05/20 09:59 AM
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well the convo was decent, but there was just not enough. it's tricky and I myself lose it often, but there's a fine line when you are going to ask for the number or just suggest a date off the app. it can be done many ways, but in my experience, the most successful one is when you have some type of connection, when you gave her an emotional spike, when she wants to write to you more and feels like she knows you a bit. then a number is just a continuation and doesn't feel like you want something…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 09:07 AM
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who listens to whom in your relationship? is she in your frame? you shouldn't feel insecure and if everything else works for you, keep it easy, but if there's more wrong, this sudden change definitely indicates something. start detaching and preparing for single mode if you feel the ltr doesn't suit you anymore
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:56 AM
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why would you want a unicorn? you looking to settle in your 20's? are you prepared for that and have the experience to keep a wife in check? enjoy your time with her and don't waste much thought. play her game if you want, but don't fall into the trap of emotional investment, just because she checks a couple of boxes
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:45 AM
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I don't dump them. I prove them it doesn't work anymore. Sometimes if change is possible, we try it; if not, it's pretty clear it doesn't work anymore. Even those times when change is possible, it's usually just postponing the end.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:28 AM
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how is it an opportunity? I mean, those with homeoffice have extra time and for the rest the traffic is better, but I don't think that's much of an opportunity. I could have locked myself down even before when needed. this thing just breaks social life, even for those that still see their friends and shit and have some kind of rotation
/r/askTRP02/05/20 03:45 PM
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can you still maintain frame?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:08 AM
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depends on you, the girl, and the initial attraction. if you are walking around carefree, grounded and focused and feel like you are on top of the world and don't give a fuck, and a girl is looking into your eyes and smiling, and you feel an instant connection, feeling like you know she wants it and you know you are going to give it to her, then you can just start the flirt, get some pulls in to balance it out and go for the kill. otherwise, I think for an rp man an indirect, aloof approach work…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:03 PM
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why would you have female friends? to meet more women, can't you approach? to hang out with them, don't you have male friends to hang out with? I guess sometimes you meet them through family/social circle, but I wouldn't pursue those friendships actively, it's mostly a waste of time
/r/askTRP26/04/20 07:40 AM
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low interest. you were in her frame to begin with, so unimportant. there's one liners to get you some leverage, but if you were already in her frame, doubt you could get out after the response, so unimportant
/r/askTRP25/04/20 08:25 PM
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you tell yourself you won't think about her in a year. and that's the truth. there's no way she's going to be on your mind after you've spent time thinking about all those other endevaours. if she pops in your head, it's either some disorder/obsession, like pure-o, or more likely, it's normal. if it's normal, you just think about something else or just think of her if you can't help it. but ask yourself, do I want to waste energy thinking about her or go for a run, do some pushups, read the side…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 03:23 PM
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you stop feeling terrible by not waisting now
/r/askTRP25/04/20 06:11 AM
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you can be nice all you want, but you won't make a girl be your bitch that way. you also won't have a decent religious girl who had a strong father figure submit to you completely in a monogamous relationship. you can be nice and get laid, but if you want continuous respect and control in a relationship, you have to assert dominance and be a strong man with boundaries, mission and your woman/women serving you. I doubt "being nice" will work in the long term in 99% of the cases for various reason…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 06:56 PM
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if you don't wanna see her during quarantine, call it quits, otherwise you are investing too much into just a plate (or even a fwb for that matter). you don't want to be texting her and thinking about is she fucking anyone else while you are being a good boy avoiding social contact and texting only to keep her interest because you are afraid of losing a plate. can you get more plates after? if you have fun texting, do it; if not, don't.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 05:41 AM
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fact is most people are fake alphas. you can be born an alpha, raised an alpha or life can make an alpha of you. if you adopt an "alpha mentality" successfully, you are just a smart guy implementing principles that work. real alpha doesn't ever think about him being alpha, he just does what he wants. I think the fake alphas you refer to here are the ones who adopt the principles unsuccessfully and are still insecure deep inside and do things for the wrong reasons. you can pretty much recognize t…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:25 PM
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Live your life, fuck her, and don't have her occupy your mind. Why would you want to take her serious? If you choose her after some time and leave your plates, she better make your life better with cooking, cleaning etc. You should never lose frame and consider her serious or your equal. This question already leads to oneitis.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:50 AM
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Take it as a learning experience. Pain which will make you grow. You have a fault in you which compounded and caused what it caused. It will always be there until you fix yourself. You have to come on terms with yourself. Learn game and fuck many women if you want. Come to the point where you and your thoughts are #1 and everything else below it with women somewhere in the middle. Never fall for the trap of taking them seriously, even if you marry one and have more kids with her and don't do tha…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:07 PM
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It's good you did that. It seems you got bored and she was draining you and you stayed only because of complacency and scarcity, but now you woke up, good for you. Stay strong and get back up if you slip.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 05:09 AM
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You said it yourself. It works. It's not real. The more you continue, the more you'll have troubles getting out. You shouldn't delude yourself into anything. The most you can do is fake it till you make, but even that is build upon understanding and accepting yourself knowing that faking will rewire your brain so your actions start to be congruent with your thinking and trusting the process. Thinking you are terminator to achieve something is try harding. You want to live like that your whole li…
/r/askTRP12/04/20 03:17 PM
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Had some "gf's" when I was younger, but only one ltr who really complemented me and it broke upon me moving cities (I didn't even ask her tbh, was rather bored of everything). My advice: if you aren't religious, do the plates route and have fun. You'll also learn what you like in women and what you want from a woman, you may not know it right now. After you have your life figured out, a lot of experience with girls and you feel like settling down, start to vet more from the get go, meaning only …
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:15 PM
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You won't break frame when you start believing it. You can go the fake it till you make it route and it will break and break until you develop real frame. Or it just sticks and you actually fake yourself be something you really aren't. Ask yourself why would you need to have strong frame and go from there. It's the belief in yourself and your worldview. It should be formed and strong, not subject to change (weak frames change all the time because they don't allign with the persons inner beliefs)…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:06 AM
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All great tips here, but I'd also recommend fixing your mental health if you have problems with it. If you have depression, gym will help, but it won't cure it, with time it well help less and less. If you have some anxiety disorder, like OCD for example, where you have a physical fault in your brain, no amount of lifting will fix it, you need behavioural therapy. Also start lifting and trying out all sorts of stuff before something sticks and you find your purpose in it. You are young, so use i…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:53 AM
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If you had ONS with her or hooked up a couple of times, I can see why you feel like you didn't take as much advantage as you could have, but it seems to me you fucked plenty and by that time you surely should have gotten bored of her? Or is it an ego problem of some sort? Try to raise your testo and go fuck some average girls for yourself. I think you made this girls beauty get to you, although she is just a pretty face you were fucking. Or she was benefiting your life in some other way? If you …
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:41 AM
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agree completely. it wasn't so before this rona shit. I didn't care much since I had a decent rotation and full social schedule. even now I can't wait till she moves out. have to get my mentality straight
/r/askTRP04/04/20 01:52 PM
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"Fuck buddy and ok with it" K think she wants more than sex and she cooks good, especially traditional asian, as she's asian anyway, agree on all of those. she goes in 3 weeks anyway and I can't wait tbh. so you wouldn't even have her as a fwb? she lives 25 mins away so I'm often lazy to drive back home and wanna stay for morning sex. wasn't so with fwb's living close
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:45 PM
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Yeah. In this specific example, I wouldn't turn her into LTR because: mood swings, weed, too independent, male friends, fucked on first date (although these days I get butthurt if it doesn't happen), maybe there's more. Now she still can be a fwb with whom I actually talk and sometimes sleep over. Sleeping over triggers pair bonding and paired with scarcity leads to overinvestment. I'm telling you this because I can't just fuck her like a little whore she is because I got bored with sex during t…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:21 PM
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I have to get my life sorted out. with nothing to do socially, I already see how empty it is besides work. I probably caught some feels. It's impossible to do a tl:dr because sometimes the details matter. I'm keeping awalt on my mind, but I still try to upgrade. This one I can't imagine being my LTR, though, but she's also more boring than my average plate. I use her to kill loneliness from time to time. So you never ever go above plate?
/r/askTRP04/04/20 11:32 AM
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I have a problem in which I always try to take advantage of the situation. In this case, I don't want it to go to waste if I can fuck her a couple of more times, but I'm not sure if I should do it because of the corona situation and her basically exchanging saliva with another dude. I know I'm done when the effect wears off
/r/askTRP04/04/20 11:04 AM
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yeah, she and the dork's gf must have done it together, all in the 20 minutes from when I left till the call. I hope not, but it's always possible, she's not my ltr so her telling me all those things are straight up lies? better never go above plates I guess... because I'm stuck with her and I hoped for opinions of others. never rly had a shutdown situation where my only fwb smokes weed with someone. usually as written, I'd ignore and demote to plate, but I want to hear what other people would d…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 11:01 AM
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Do what you want. I don't know either of you, but this just smells of overinvestment on your part, her being too comfortable with you and you puting her over what you want. Are you a man you want to be and are you living a life you want to live or going towards it? Is she helping you in that regard, and being that what you wish of her or you are staying with her because of lack of other options/fear of staying alone or similiar?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 08:45 AM
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I hope you didn't plan on marrying her because this is a big hit. You have to start dissengaging emotionally ASAP and start building yourself into a desireable man. From the way you are writing, it seems it's gonna take some time before you get running plates again. If you have other Christian women you can start with, great. If not, either monk and focus on other things while joining church activities or just plate "normal" girls for some time. Depends what alligns more with what you want.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 07:08 AM
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Of course it's also a mentality thing. Were you tired of their bs as a younger man? I don't care about their bs tbh as long as I have other shit to do and several plates. I just get tired of fucking and sex more often, which as already mentioned happened with age, and I also notice it depending on diet/stress/gym habits etc which are all corelated with testo. With time, I became paranoid about STD's so certain type of girls got more and certain less attractive. If that was not a factor, I'd rath…
/r/askTRP31/03/20 03:48 PM
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I have friends who get laid on tinder more than ever. Bitches use tinder to full extend and choose in last minute between options, they get so many flakes/ghosts before meetups and still fuck.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 06:05 AM
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I'm pretty similiar, but I'm already nearing 30, so the testo difference is also obvious. I know I hear from some guys that they still have the same testo at 30 or that it even peaks there, but like 3/4 of men pretty much admit they feel a drop after 27 and noticeable drops after 34. When I was younger, I wanted to fuck anything that moves, whole day, all the time, now it's like I need variety and can't fuck the same girl for months with ocassional waves where boosts happen where again I feel ho…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:56 PM
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Well, I don't remember ever having such an enforced lockdown. Good thing about the virus is it mutates roughly 4x less than the influenza types. Considering that every time it fights an immune system, the virus gets weaker, wouldn't measures with more focus on protecting/isolating the compromised have better long term effect than what we have now, considering the majority doesn't even notice the effect on their own bodies? Before this one, there was the "first" SARS which didn't succeed in causi…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 12:17 PM
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I like how everyone's positive around here and it's a breath of fresh air considering all the conspiracy talk. I wonder how no one actually is talking about how this will/could change things. I'd love for someone to convince me otherwise, but I have a bad feeling this is a ground for introducing measures that will slowly but surely make the world a different place. Scientists/virologists are the men to listen to right now and it's a great opportunity to ask for future funding, which they are doi…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 11:18 AM
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no matter if I agree with him or not, since you are calling him out: what's moronic about his post?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 09:26 PM
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conflict/risk engagment. you either are alpha or aren't. becoming alpha just to get laid is pathetic and you'll never be a real alpha that way, only a fake. just for example: look at pua's
/r/askTRP23/03/20 09:26 PM
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we still fuck and she texts. she's also saying she wouldn't want me to see other women. I'm ignoring because I think she's also sleeping around and I can't make myself not to care about it at the moment because of above mentioned reasons. I'm looking for ways to not care while not fucking any other girl and have her be all over me without the competition anxiety. it's difficult for me to have only 1 non-ltr material woman and still feeling confident/secure. there's probably something deeper at p…
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:25 PM
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she's your ltr and she didn't ask you to come pick her up after or call you in distress? dude, just disengage, start fucking other women, demote and let things take its course. fuck her if you feel horny but don't give her any space in your head. when the discussion comes up, just ask her "why didn't you call me to pick you up after the assault" and watch her lie. most importantly: don't invest anymore and block her from your brain. not because you're angry, but rather because she's not worth yo…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 10:56 AM
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You can say whatever you want if it fits you frame/your thinking. If you even have to ask what to say, you'll probably not in the right frame (still faking it). strong dominating frame + a smirk + take it as a compliment, without caring about her reaction (never try to fake this)
/r/askTRP05/02/20 12:25 PM
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Start by adopting the mindset that all those things you are working for are good and nice, but you don't need them, meaning you'll be fine if they disappear. Get to the point with your mindset where you are satisfied with yourself just by being alive and knowing how to be present. It's almost impossible to explain, but it will click eventually. Overthinking/analyzing will always kill that mentality and lead to depression. Reflection is great, but only from time to time. You are living to do actu…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:27 PM
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Practicing game is important for various reasons and shouldn't be considered bad. Becoming obsessive with it is rather bad, imo. Inner game on the other hand should be a part of who you are. Meaning you have a certain lifestyle/habitat you enjoy and find purpose in and know how to deal with women. When you have a certain mentality/inner game without trying to FAKE it, game comes naturally. You can practice game without that mentality and still be lost/confused/unsatisfied, and you can on the oth…
/r/askTRP20/01/20 04:37 PM
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“so are you talking to anyone else right now” Not ask that? Not go to lunch? Have something simpler, like a walk or maybe drinks for a date. Go there with the mentality to find out if you will like her. Look forward for a good time/fun and be in the moment while not expecting anything but fun time. Have something to do after the date which preferably is more important than the date. If you really like her, escalate and decide if you can prolong the date to yours/hers place or rather say you have…
/r/askTRP19/01/20 08:05 PM
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By the way you are writing, it seems you don't think much of yourself. When you get laid, you won't suddenly change. It would be good to get laid just because you won't think you're a virgin anymore. Other than that: you have to change your thinking. You have been conditioned a certain way and you have to begin the process of deconditioning. Regarding girls and life in general: you have to think of yourself as the shit. That doesn't mean be full of yourself but rather defeat fear and accept what…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 03:37 PM
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Read No more Mr. Nice Guy. It seems you were hanging out with this girl just in hopes you get sex and are now disappointed because your investment didn't pay off. Know what you want and go for it. If you want to fuck a girl, escalate. If it works, great; if not, do whatever the fuck you were doing and try again later and/or possibly with more girls.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 01:24 PM
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You can get girls literally anywhere. You have to practice socializing. Just don't make it a chore and think you have to achieve a certain level. Get yourself to enjoy talking with people and learn to vibe. Key with girls is to let go of your ego and be vulnerable. Meaning be a tough motherfucker who knows what he wants and works on his smv, but don't let it get to your head and make you arrogant/closed. DGAF about what others think and learn to do what you want. If you see a girl who peeks your…
/r/askTRP14/12/19 10:09 AM
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Doesn't sound like you are in a fullfilling relationship, at least sexually. It's normal you lust for other women. What you should do, though, is still game her. Have fun, enjoy conversations, outcome independence. If the lack of good sex or rather your unfullfilled sexual desires keep you off your purpose, then guess what? If you love your life, but you still feel horny around other women you are gaming, then either lose control and cheat or don't. Do what you want, you'll regret it anyway.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 12:32 PM
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Why don't you do what you want? It's pretty easy: if you don't care, just send her nonchalant/low investment short messages and give her the closure. She may reach out even more and you may fuck her again. But really, investment to the minimum, even if it becomes obvious you are going to fuck, don't let her pull you into her bullshit. It's a good challenge.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 12:20 PM
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Do you like the girl? You could probably self amuse yourself into her pants. Be non-affected while honestly being amused with a grin on your face and tell the girl "I think he likes you" or something like that and proceed based on her reaction. If you know her already, different story then. You can also say something like "you always try to offend people when trying to impress a girl?" also with a grin on your face. If he says no, then you can proceed with "why not? what's wrong with [name]" and…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 12:01 PM
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Not in an LTR atm, but I was in one I liked but ended because of moving cities. After the vetting process, I like to be in a relationshiop where the woman has a degree of respect for me where she wouldn't show me pictures with other guys and her or talk about them in a way that could make me jelaous. Now, that doesn't work always: sometimes is just the woman you chose and often times you lost frame, got complacent or just don't know what kind of woman you want and you are not the kind of man (di…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 09:50 AM
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Don't ever invest in a woman so much again. Don't tie your self worth to a woman. Get comfortable without a woman, meaning a life you enjoy and clear vision where you are going. Adopt a real alpha mindset for yourself, not to seek approval from others. Work on self awareness When you are in that phase where you are actually not phased by anything and don't take women seriously, then go for whatever you want. Don't try to do everything at once. First step: work on yourself for yourself, but don't…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 04:33 PM
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Hurts. Don't be so invested. Adopt the dominating mindset/frame and work on it continuously so you don't have to fake it anymore. This what you showed that night isn't your normal persona and you're afraid you didn't take more advantage of it when you actually could while thinking you won't have more opportunites. Be more self aware and know what you want. If you don't succed, reflect but don't invest too much energy in thinking about it and beating yourself up. Try to always know what you want …
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:14 AM
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Tried that line just out of curiousity. As I have thought, it was some kind of manipulation from her side. She doesn't want to meet again. Maybe she wanted validation after I was silent after the date. Then later got back to me by accepting and then playing games. Same pattern as the single mom I fucked. After a certain time, she started leading me on with appointments, always responding later and then one day canceled in the last moment to which I snapped because it was Saturday evening and I h…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:22 PM
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In the case where I mentioned I managed to fuck the girl afterwards, I wrote this (translated from German): "actually, the vibe was great and we were good together. I looked forward to the second date and thought you were too, since we both agreed. but this message now was just wow. something's wrong here. so better leave it after all, I don't like drama, unless it's in movies haha". After it I got involved in discussion just out of my own curiousity and she later got back to me. Anyways, maybe …
/r/askTRP23/11/19 11:18 AM
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Very good reply, I agree completely. Thank you. Can you tell me what would you personally answer in example 2 after the "Hab nicht erwartet das du dich nochmal treffen möchtest"? You have to keep in mind that we already agreed to a second date after she said first she liked our time. In this case I ignore probably out of anger, that's why I think there's a better path, but the last time I answered that line, I got involved in a discussion but still got to fuck her. Not worth it, of course, but I…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 11:17 AM
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where exactly can I find it?
/r/askTRP23/10/19 11:47 AM
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op, you seem insecure and overinvested, why did you ltr her? now you obviously cannot let her go, but you should have let her go and demote. THE FACT THAT SHE WANTS TO GO SHOWS SHE'S NOT THE KIND OF LTR YOU WANT!
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:20 AM
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"haha, hey trouble" "come join me at xx at yy pm. wear something cute"
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:55 PM
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well, if you knew from the beginning, why did you ltr her? it seems you are overinvested. if you weren't, the obvious course of action would be to accept it and tell her your relationship won't work anymore, but it's ok, she should follow her dreams and it's her decision to decide what she values more. would be perfect if you could do it rationally with good emotions. JUST DON'T GET INTO DRAMA. the situation is how it is and that's your view on it. just move on after wharever she decides. she'd …
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:39 PM
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Dude, I know it's your first time, but you're going to catch oneitis. Have abundance, dgaf. Be in the moment, enjoy it, you'll know what you have to do. Vagina's lower than you probably think it is, though. Concentrate on getting more girls and not how to get good at your first time. It will just cause performance anxiety.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:34 PM
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Have other goals, more important stuff in your life. She's there only to fulfill needs. You are enjoying her in the present moment, that's all that's important. Don't marry her. Would be good if you could make it an oltr.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:43 AM
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Yes, but honestly, it's a fucked up thing when a woman in an ltr or in general denies sex. It's an indicator of your inadequacy in most cases and it would be useful you find out what it is (don't let it affect your frame). Her denying sex and you attention will probably lead to breakup. Depending on the dynamic of your ltr, dread and you improving yourself while being emotionally less invested than her could fix it. What I would do, but that's just me, is something like this: "sure, it could wor…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:12 PM
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What do you mean should you end it? That would be acting butthurt like a bitch. Seems like she lost respect for you and found a way in to start controlling you. Restore your frame, don't discuss, don't be AFFECTED. Reflect on your mistakes in the relationship and try to fix them. Consider other girls and soft next if it persists after. Under no circumstances act butthurt if you don't manage to fuck her at the lake house. It's important you find where you had mistaken and adapt. In the process of…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 07:26 AM
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I'd like to see your profile
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:19 PM
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Do a picnic or something similiar, let her use your arm as a pillow and after some silence, just turn towards her, look her in the eyes, touch her face/chin if you feel like it and kiss her. But honestly you have million solutions, seems to me you need to create romance. If you feel like kissing her, you can also say you'd love to kiss her, but it's all about how you pull it off. Get out of your head and don't make it such a big deal.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 08:21 PM
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I'd probably try to find a good/reliable rp pick up coach and pay him some money to improve your skills drastically. Then find a wing or put it into action alone. As you have money, you can then later hire someone again to reflect with you until your skills and your inner game are master level. There's probably a lot of unexplored potential with the kind of game you can run. Still, if you make women your goal for a year or two and then prioritize getting a family in the next couple of years, you…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 05:36 AM
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considering you're asking here, I'll assume you're or trying to get rp'd. fixing this particular situation won't fix your ltr. it seems to me you got too comfortable and lost frame, or perhaps some other shit weakend your frame. maybe she should smack your ass? have you even been through the rp journey? I think you should get some rotation going to build your foundations and then carefully choose a ltr out of abundance. I don't know, maybe you have done all that and have just fallen in a rut. in…
/r/askTRP22/06/19 12:12 PM
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Easier said than understood, but the past is the past, you cannot change it and it happened exactly how it should have. Now the new chapter of your life begins. I think your problem is too much emotional investment in that one chick, caused by laziness. Your girl shouldn't be your life but rather a good addition that fullfills certain needs and it's your job to be a man a girl wants to do that for. Now you're left with a big emotional hole and it will and should hurt, but it will make you grow. …
/r/askTRP08/06/19 01:29 PM
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actually wanted to hear someone with experience setting up "movie" dates straight from the app, without meeting the girl. I understand the point of dates, but I'm rather interested if there's a possibility of setting it up at home instead at the bar or w/e, my reasons are now less important, be it time, curiosity or something else. I often, especially during the week, don't have logistics in my favour so I could only fuck in public or at her place.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 02:12 PM
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I like all the encouragment and I think you can theoretically make it but only with focus being on improving yourself, perhaps eventually banging low quality women/prostitutes just to get some confidence up and don't have the thought of being a virgin in the back of your mind, although you can frame it as not important or right how it should be atm if you get a good plan/mindset. Your focus should be on yourself and feeling better, at the moment it's more important than getting pussy. After impr…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 07:01 AM
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I had the most success with terre d'hermes and jean paul gaultier.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 04:31 PM
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the thing is, I moved cities and I can't seem to find a right job and my mood suffers from it. so it can happen I can't get it or keep it up and stuff. anyways, needs be fixed and I'm working on it, but I have to resort to manipulation sometimes. so in this case I'd like her to think we could be serious (which in theory is true) if she gives me what I want. in this case, although we don't see each other often, I don't like when we don't have sex. she gave me a bj for example when she was on her …
/r/askTRP12/05/19 04:26 PM
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It would be amazing to always be in the moment and carefree. I'm having trouble with it and for me it depends very much on the state I'm in. My first thought on the first situation was something along the lines "oh yeah? would you care?" with a sneaky smile, where the smile, your attitude, composure and playful mentality in general play a bigger part than what you say. It doesn't have to be witty and smart, it just has to be congruent with you. In this case it's an ideal opportunity to start ask…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:42 AM
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Dunno where you live, but in Balkan countries (Croatia and Bosnia at least), the chance of finding ltr material girls is pretty decent in religious circles. Some are even virgins at 20+, rare but still seen once in a while in that environment. In western countries, they are mostly divided between religion (if they were raised that way with strict parents) and partying. Don't speak for all, but pretty sure most succumb to the latter, especially when college starts and they move away from parents.…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:28 PM
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Why do you care? Think about getting her back? What's your mission? What do you want in/from life? It will hurt, but if you don't know the answers on those questions, the suffering might take you on the wrong path and make you dwell too much on it and not be able to get over it. The reality is: if it's over, you shouldn't care that much and get over with your life while not looking for a replacement and a girl to fill the void that originated by the lack of mothers love or whatever other reason/…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:06 PM
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Post has some good ideas in it. What I think: you should focus on your mission but not ignore women, rather having a side mission of finding the woman/women worthy of you. This side mission will suplement your main mission and vice versa. What is good about this is that you are the hunter and if you don't like them, drop them; if you do, let them in but don't ever become emotionally attached to the point where it can sacrifice your mission. The type of abundance you are mentioning is good becaus…
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