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1

Maybe he spends that much on her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 01:09 AM
10

Yeah I don’t get it either. We’re supposed to expect to be treated like “queens” every day but we’re not allowed to acknowledge our man’s birthday? That’s nuts. Healthy relationships only occur where both people treat each other with respect and kindness; that includes treating your loved one special on their birthday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 01:08 AM
44

And it was probably his plan to isolate her further. When this has happened before, I told my friend to call me anytime she needs help or support getting away from him, but I won’t continue to support her while she’s with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 11:28 PM
15

He wanted to ghost you so you’d start chasing and bending over backwards to please him. It’s a headgame. He doesn’t really care about you if he’s willing to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 11:10 PM
7

You have to whip your hand back really fast before they can kiss it and then just look at them like that’s the stupidest thing anyone’s ever done to you. This approach has always worked for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 10:41 PM
42

Good for you, and I’m so glad you dodged that bullet. We should all be doing a certain amount of background checking on someone before getting involved with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:08 PM
264

“you have to say yes or the man feels betrayed and unloved...” It’s not betrayed and unloved he feels, it’s just a knock to his ego. When I was younger, an ex kidnapped and raped me in a brutal way, forcing a sex act on me that was repugnant. Years later when being nagged for it, I’d always remind the new guy I don’t want that because of what previously happened. He finally had a little toddler tantrum, stomped his feet and screamed, “Well you gave it to him but you’re not willing to give it to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 02:28 PM
20

No, what they hate is women having CHOICE. Notice if we fuck them we’re whores, and if we refuse to fuck them we’re also whores. Some men really want sex to be something that’s owed to them, not given of our free will, and they cannot stand it that we have choice now, so they’ve decided we’re all dirty somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:34 PM
2

You dudes are so transparent it’s pathetic. What mom describes her daughter as a princess with goldy locks? 11 hour old account - reported.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:52 PM
2

Sounds like an army aged guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:17 PM
2

I stand corrected - 14 day old account with all the posts looking masculine. Here we go again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:05 PM
3

Yes... 14 day old account too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:03 PM
5

Holy moly this is so shallow. This is akin to men saying not to date women under a certain cup size because she’ll have some inferiority complex and she won’t look as good anyways. Was this written by a 14 year old?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 10:12 PM
23

If your bf of 5 years ended things 3 months ago you may be having rebound feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:32 AM
14

He went out on your 2nd date with the flu? How? I can barely move when I have the flu. Are you sure he wasn’t doing that PUA move where they’re supposed to withhold affection the 2nd date? Because it sounds like he’s got you considering sex for the 3rd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:05 AM
31

Of the few strippers I’ve known in my life, they’ve all admitted those private rooms really aren’t for dances at all. Maybe where I am things are a little more liberal but I will never believe a man who went to a strip club didn’t pay for random sex with a stranger. Of the few men I’ve asked to fess up about it, they’ve admitted they don’t think it counts as cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 10:26 PM
4

Another 10 day account - reported. And kid, the answer is integrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 04:58 PM
19

Lol! This used to be called “tantric sex” and is based on the premise that sex without orgasms somehow made you spiritually superior to people who enjoyed regular sex. In other words, it was new age bullshit peddled at couples where the men had no idea how to make women cum. Seriously, there’s no reason you can’t produce plenty of both oxytocin and dopamine each time you have sex, and one doesn’t cancel out the effects of the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 03:58 PM
35

It’s an ego thing; imagine how exciting and sexy and desirable you’d have to be for a man to do a complete 180 from everything he wanted before?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 02:20 PM
178

Ok this is funny! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 12:24 AM
6

Wow... so many cheating rumours following him everywhere he goes... must be all lies! 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 10:15 PM
47

Tbh this does seem passive -aggressive but it’s hard to tell from one sentence. Just be on the lookout for more of that, and watch for yourself feeling defensive as you’re talking to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:58 PM
22

Uhm, #7 gets you a slap on the face and dumped by me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:59 PM
54

This is so pathetic; this guy devotes so much of his energy competing with other men who are no longer in the picture. It must be mentally exhausting to have such a fragile ego. And he thinks women are actually turned on by mansluts? Not me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:56 PM
11

I’ve noticed A LOT of women will get angry and defensive when I say I have standards or that I don’t want to date someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:29 PM
7

Seconding Why does he do that? By Lundy Bancroft. Every woman should read it, HVM right there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:27 PM
5

Didn’t he cheat on his last wife with Madonna?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 03:44 PM
2

Not Aussie here but it’s not really a cultural thing; men and women have both been wrongly taught over the last few decades that it’s somehow empowering for women to pay their own way on dates. It isn’t, because it just sets you up for failure. Players, plate spinners, fuckboys, abusers, and users all WILL NOT BOTHER to court you if they have to pay for dates because you won’t be worth the effort to them. They’ll eliminate themselves and just move on to the next woman that doesn’t cost them any …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 05:25 PM
6

Huh? Why? This reads to me, “I value your input, choices and opinions just as much as my own.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 04:49 PM
16

He told you, “call me if you need something” and when you did he said no. My dad used to do this same type of stuff to me all the time when I was a teenager, and it took me way too many years to learn it was all orchestrated just to make me grovel and beg him for things. I’ll bet your boyfriend would have said no if you called him for grocery money too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 02:51 PM
6

Pictures of pets, plants, or things I make like a piece of furniture refinished or a painting I did. No selfies on there yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 10:45 AM
5

I think yes it does get worse because they realize they aren’t getting any younger, and they don’t have anyone to take care of them. They want to “get their feet under our tables” so they can have a cook and maid and not worry about all the little daily errands or managing their own healthcare, etc. They want servants, not relationships, so any woman will do. But I think it’s an ego stroke to them to get the youngest or most attractive they can because it signals to other men that they still can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:48 PM
11

I’m 47, I think they hit the wall by 35 for the most part. They lose libido, hair, their natural waistlines, their respect for hygiene, and most importantly they’ve lost their youth so they don’t want women their own age anymore, because we’re by comparison so much more fit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 04:30 PM
5

You have an extremely normal sex drive for someone your age, so don’t worry about that. You’ve been with 2 people in 5 years and they were both relationships so it looks like you really do have the restraint with casual sex you’re wanting here. Like others have said, sex toys are your best friend, and they’ll keep you satisfied enough that your sex drive is more controllable in the heat of the moment with guys too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 04:24 PM
42

You forgot that she has to be a virgin AND willing to have sex in exchange for a Big Mac.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 02:53 PM
19

And they won’t just get hookers to scratch the itch because hookers would literally charge more than what a dinner costs. So yeah, they’re cheap too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 11:53 PM
49

I think anytime you start playing games or manipulating or setting up tests you’re actually doing the exact same behaviour that is abhorrent to you that men do. Rise above it. Instead, pay attention to how many positive versus negative experiences you have with him, whether he treats you with real respect, etc. Be present in your relationship, really actively listen to what he’s telling you with his actions, and you’ll figure out what kind of person he really is. HINT: Practice on your women fri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 04:46 PM
10

He may have just read, “if you can handle adult communication,” didn’t want to be spoken to like that and noped out of there. I see nothing wrong with what he wrote, but if a guy negged me like that I wouldn’t contact him again either. There’s being assertive and then there’s just straight up insulting someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 03:52 PM
5

Answering a question with another question is deliberately being deceptive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:41 PM
23

Imagine being this delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:24 PM
16

Absolutely a terrible idea! I see everyone mentioning sexual compatibility and micropenises, but you need to know how he’s going to treat you. Is he going to push boundaries, make demands, force you into situations you don’t want? The fact is, once a abusive man has put his dick in you, he’ll feel like you’re his property, and this will be evident in all aspects of your relationship. Of the 2 abusive relationships I had, both were good as gold to me until we started having sex, then the mask cam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:09 PM
11

Is she now stuck alone with a guy that’s livid OP did that though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 09:06 PM
17

Omg why would you send a call girl!? Seriously, he’s going to be furious and now that poor girl is stuck alone with him. Please don’t set other women up like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 09:05 PM
16

Word. Don’t forget: that 30 something whose Mommy and Daddy never taught him to be responsible for anything in his life? Wait 20 or 30 years; you’ll be the one changing their diapers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:08 AM
17

looks at glass “How much have I had to drink?” Seriously, I have no idea what this is trying to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:02 PM
56

THIS. u/danxingdasies please get in here. I’ll finish his note: “HaHa you thought.... you were worth marrying to me but you’re not.” There’s no such thing as “just a joke.” This was designed to hurt you at your most vulnerable, when you were in front of his family, who most often judge an SO. It was designed to humiliate you and was done with maximum emotional cruelty. To put it bluntly, THIS GUY ENJOYS BEING MEAN TO YOU, then will gaslight you that you’re confused about his intent, and will try…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 10:33 PM
15

I get that you feel very sure he wouldn’t cheat and there’s certainly a possibility he isn’t, but coworkers are not friends, they’re acquaintances you work, hang out, and party with. Just because you know a group of people and get along well with them does not mean they are your friends. They have no more loyalty to you than to him because you’re all coworkers and nobody has enough emotional investment in either of you to let the shit hit the fan at work. But that’s not what you want to hear rig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 01:31 PM
6

Holy shit, any man who purchases women for sex, whether she be a prostitute or a sugar baby, is not a HVM for fuck’s sake. You’re delusional if you think these men can ever love or respect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 01:45 AM
8

“Such shady shallow creatures”: I hate ALL women but I’d like to stick my dick in you anyways. “You have a father, brother....”: OTHER men may have been good to you so you owe me a chance! This is literally negging women all over your bio; how can a man possibly be this clueless?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 01:21 AM
47

Oh this is savage! I hope either it’s satire or he really really deserved it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:09 PM
140

“Friends of pickmeishas are basically doing the boyfriend/husband emotional support duties that pickmeisha's partners don’t do.” THIS. So. Much. This. And we can’t change their minds because something needs to change in their relationship with their man for them to be fulfilled and happy, and WE can’t change THEIR man. In fact, we’re enabling their men by always being there to pick up the pieces. EDIT: I had a best friend back in ‘98 that got knocked up and married within 2 months, and 8 years l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:17 PM
15

10 hour old account and one of his comments starts with “I fucking fapped....” Little boy, every post on this subreddit says it’s female only. That rule also actually applies to you. NO really does mean NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 02:39 PM
9

I’m looking for genuine respect for women and true empathy for people in general, good hygiene, and a willingness to take care of HIMself in all areas of HIS OWN life, like an adult. If this is the starting point, it’s amazing how many men fall short.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 01:58 PM
80

Yes, they hunt them using a decoy duck call then shoot them out of the air. Yes, these guys are proud of the fact that they can outsmart ducks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 12:12 AM
56

Incels/MGTOW/redpills etc. all says it’s impossible for women to be incels, yet in the same breath say we all hit “the wall” by the time we’re 30. It’s not true. There is no wall for women; men are the ones who hit the wall. I’m still attractive, fit, and stylish at my age; (most of) the men my age all look fucking repulsive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:48 PM
34

This is all so very true, OP. “I’m not like other girls” is just “I will not stand up for myself or disagree with men for any reason.” It’s just not healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 04:00 PM
16

OP, you told him after 3 months you had feelings and wanted to pursue a relationship; he said he didn’t feel the same way about you. Then he let you stew on that for 2 weeks, contacted you back and whaddayaknow! Presto-chango! Feelings! Nope. It’s the old “feed/starve, feed/starve” doling out of feelings and attention that players do to get you to do anything to please and keep them. If he truly wanted you he would have pursued you from the beginning, not “casually reached out” after being lonel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 11:14 AM
56

I lived this too. I was everything to him: mother, nurturer, spiritual guide, life coach, personal assistant, therapist, cook, housekeeper, chauffeur, ATM, grief counsellor, trophy, and of course sex doll. I could have been anybody; who I was didn’t actually matter to him, so long as a woman, any woman, was completely meeting all his needs. The relationship was 100% one sided in his favour and I meant nothing to him. And he will always be indifferent to the pain he caused. We are THINGS to them,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:34 AM
65

I’ll add to my last comment. If you say you’re put off by this he’ll either try to prude shame you or he’ll just brush it off as, “Oh porn is really just fantasy; nobody really does this stuff extreme like that.” Ahem. Gross to suggest it I know, but imagine instead he sent you porn of someone raping a 2 year old. Would you be able to believe he’s “not really into it” and that it’s just fantasy? Of course not. He’s turned on by what he’s watching, to the point he chose this in particular to send…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 04:02 AM
132

He’s white, you’re black, and he sent you violent porn with white men abusing and terrorizing black women. Okaaaay... why do you THINK he’d want you to like that? HINT: He’s telling you how little he really thinks of you. If you continue seeing him, he’ll think you’re consenting to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 02:46 AM
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AND work full time AND take care of the kids. It’s constant servitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 11:25 PM
11

Manipulation 101: “You’re afraid to love” so you’ll have to hook up with him ASAP to prove it’s not true. Remember: Anytime someone else TELLS you what you think or feel about something, it’s a false accusation and they’re lying to you about yourself. You’re the only person who knows what you think or feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 08:04 PM
1

Why are you still following this man online? You stayed in the relationship to just keep using him? Seriously, you legit sound just as childish as he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 07:24 PM
9

He legit likely sees women as human beings and women pick up on that, whereas neckbeards see women as servants and prizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 03:36 PM
5

Yeah this is the same for me. I’m 47 and still in shape and stylish but it’s like men don’t even try and they all look 60. It was rare to be attracted to a man when I was younger but now it’s nearly impossible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 03:29 PM
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