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| 7 | Lostdude. this hits me hard. sorry you're going through this. you're definitely not alone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Gender role reversal and divorceoh man. my stbxw didn't and never has done shit. I have always cleaned our home, cooked, managed our finances, done laundry, dropped the kids off and picked them up from school... everything... and until the pandemic, I did it while working 15-20 hours a week MORE than her... all while she slept in, worked out and otherwise just pitched in when she felt like it. she did so little during the course of our marriage that on the (very) rare occasion that she actually did anything, I responded as if … | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/22 10:09 PM |
| 5 | Easter Sunday was the first holiday that we haven’t been together as a family. Even during separation we spent the holidays together for the kids. Papers were filed last month! She has a new BF already, former best friend. Was tough on me with the kids and without her!sorry, man. you're not alone. my stbxw isn't seeing anyone (that I know of) but left with our youngest to go over to "our" friends' for their family's celebration so it was just me and my oldest (from my first marriage.) easter isn't a big holiday for us but it still hurt. she didn't come home either so I couldn't even say goodnight to my kid. hang in there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Marriage Counselingsame here. I feel like she went through the counseling just so she could tell people she tried. she didn't. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/22 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Marriage Counselingpretty much my story as well. we moved on from the discernment sessions and were supposed to be "six months, divorce off the table." we made it two months to the day. she even told me it was over 15 minutes before our last session. in hindsight, I knew she wasn't going to stay. like your wife, mine was at least 80% out the door by the time she even told me she was unhappy. she was apathetic to the whole process. she would frequently vocalize her dislike of therapy, be quick to cancel if the weat… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Mental helpyou're not alone, man. my wife dropped the "I'm not happy and don't think this is gonna work" bomb on me in november after 11 years together (married for 7 1/2.) we did discernment counseling until January and then moved to actual couple's counseling where divorce was supposed to be "off the table" for six months. two weeks ago, twenty minutes before our session was supposed to start, she told me she "loved me but wasn't IN love with me anymore" and wanted a divorce. in the two months we made it… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/22 01:37 PM |
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