Hack3rDr3w Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Sex decline with the established, decaying marriage. So this is the number one reason to never get married.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/12/23 12:38 AM
1	I still miss her... Guys don’t need comfort. Women need comfort. Guys need to wake up and take back their manhood.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/23 11:46 PM
3	Parental Alienation - Any Success Stories? You have two roads. 1) let it go, and abandon your children with the hope that once they are 18 they will dig into this story and learn that mom was an evil bitch. This will cost very little money, but you will lose the opportunity to spend time with the children, or 2) spend thousands of dollars to fight it, which can go on for years, and still no impact to mom, and no access to the children - with the chance that you will be able to spend some years with the children. I’m personally on path 2 …	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/23 09:19 PM
2	FKN Ex Wife, Now What? Dude. No. Stop thinking. Stop feeling. Do you. Buy a motorcycle. Get real. Stop with the bullshit.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/23 08:49 PM
1	I still miss her... WTF is wrong with you men! Wake up. You are free now. Free! Now it’s time to be you. That’s it. Just be you. Please. For the love of God. Wake up!	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/23 04:27 PM
1	So HOW and WHEN do we finally address this man bashing family court system? I’m tired of talk. So what is the benefit of marriage to a man?	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/23 06:24 AM
1	The Divorce Decree is finalized. Is there anything I should be aware of for the QDRO? Yes. The JD QDRO language must address “market fluctuations”. This is super important. My attorney allowed my exs-attorney to draft the language and he purposely left that language out. I even bitched about it and everyone assured me it would be fine. Well, before the QDRO was executed the market dropped. The language clearly said 50/50 but they argued that the value was set (prior to market drop), and they used that amount - even though it said 50/50. Courts are not financial analysts they don’…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/23 09:47 PM
-2	So HOW and WHEN do we finally address this man bashing family court system? I’m tired of talk. Dude blocked me to get the last word in. How lame can you be.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/23 09:36 PM
-4	So HOW and WHEN do we finally address this man bashing family court system? I’m tired of talk. Nothing in life is a guarantee. This agreement was dumb. Yet it was still agreed too by county and “The Supreme Court”. It was only once it went to appeal that it was denied. This is a Pyrrhic victory for the woman. This had to have cost a fortune to pursue. This is 1% of the 1%. And the dude didn’t even make that much money. Average by todays standards of alpha bro’s. Both of these people are in the poor house RN. This is what’s wrong with marriage. This very case. It’s reasonable for the man t…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/23 09:35 PM
1	So HOW and WHEN do we finally address this man bashing family court system? I’m tired of talk. Even a broken clock is right twice a day.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/23 09:34 PM
-9	So HOW and WHEN do we finally address this man bashing family court system? I’m tired of talk. Dude. I don’t need to research. My point is you are full of shit. All of this is governed under state law. So yes you can’t write an agreement on a napkin between two parties that don’t understand those state laws and expect it to be upheld. This goes for any agreement. So sure, get a attorney that is versed in that state laws to draft the agreement and cover the angles for the other party as well. Prenups work and if you are going get married. No question about it.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/23 08:45 PM
-2	So HOW and WHEN do we finally address this man bashing family court system? I’m tired of talk. Show me a case with a prenup that didn’t hold up please.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/23 06:05 PM
4	So HOW and WHEN do we finally address this man bashing family court system? I’m tired of talk. It’s super easy. We need to stop getting married without a prenuptial.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/23 03:28 PM
1	Help w/ Divorce Agreement that seems Impossible She isn’t entitled. This is what you aren’t getting. Stop messing with the calculation and focus on the broad strokes. Like- she is not entitled. You must go to mediation. Etc… You following?	/r/Divorce_Men	29/10/23 05:51 AM
1	Help w/ Divorce Agreement that seems Impossible You aren’t hearing me. No person is entitled to alimony. It isn’t law. It’s guidance. If she is employable and chose not to work then she may get something to get on her feet but not forever. And it’s not about the judge it’s about mediation. You must get this to mediation and make sure it binding. If you don’t understand what I mean you need to research this asap.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/10/23 05:50 AM
1	How to catch her cheating? Zero. Value. Waste of time. Move on.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/23 01:09 PM
1	Help w/ Divorce Agreement that seems Impossible Simplify your thinking. The more simple the easier for the legal system to understand and support. 1) try to get into “binding mediation” asap. Do not let your case go to the judge. 2) unless your wife sacrificed her career to help you be successful - she won’t get shit for alimony. This rule was designed for that situation. Shame on you for giving her this option with no merit. The game has changed. If she is employable and chooses not to work that’s on her. 3) if you are talking to her remind …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/23 01:03 PM
1	Corruption in family Court. I personally like my lawyer. But I feel like my game is better. However I still use him because of this point. You just need a lawyer that will do what you want.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/23 12:45 PM
1	Corruption in family Court. there is definitely a bias against pro se. But attorneys are a waste of money if you understand the law have good emotional intelligence and know the process. 1) there has to be more to the story that you have not shared; for example you don’t just get in front of the judge. You file motions and deal with referees and recommendations before you speak to the judge. 2) unless the mediator is binding who fucking cares. This keeps you out of trial and men ALWAYS get fucked in trial And even if it’s …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/23 12:43 PM
1	Married to incompetence Your have awakened.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/23 09:42 PM
4	What the fear of abuse that does not exist called? It’s a very common syndrome among all women it’s called; lying.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/23 04:52 AM
1	Did you keep the engagement ring? Nope. It’s a gift given to the woman with the reciprocation promise that she will marry. When she married she fulfills that promise and earns the ring. Only way you get that ring back is if she doesn’t marry. Period full stop.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/07/23 02:26 PM
2	Did you keep the engagement ring? What tradition? Because I’ve never heard that. But like I said, by law, and marriage is about the law - that ring is hers.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/23 09:12 PM
2	Did you keep the engagement ring? By law the ring is hers.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/23 06:34 PM
2	Financial mediation - STBXW asking for "a disproportionate amount of our assets" Few simple tenets. 1) always consider the value of time and the cost of attorneys. ALWAYS. Determine values for these things and add subtract them from your potential win and add them to your loss. Don’t fight on principle. It doesn’t matter. 2) the folks that work at family law are not mathematicians, accountants, nor do they give two shits about your analysis. Stay broad stroke to win. Agree with previous poster, commingled assets are marital assets. If her family gifted her, they gifted the m…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/23 07:40 PM
1	Wife wants to keep IVF embryo ?? This sounds like a serious future issue. Lawyer up.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/23 11:30 PM
3	Pros and cons of filing first? Always better to be the plaintiff vs the defendant. Always file first.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/23 02:04 AM
2	CAUTION: r/Divorce is NOT friendly to men! You had me at “hookers and blow”.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/05/23 04:18 AM
5	CAUTION: r/Divorce is NOT friendly to men! Yeah. r/Divorce a bunch of women and beta males. They only allow “supportive” comments. They don’t want the truth or an opposing opinion. I almost got banned, and decided to leave. I touted that Andrew Tate had some positive perspectives and was immediately targeted as a misogynist and a supporter of a rapist. That group is what’s wrong with divorce. It’s literally the reason that no one should ever get married. It’s full of people, mostly women, who support entitlement of system abuse and an ex…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/05/23 03:57 PM
1	Considering suicide. Divorce destroyed my life. As long as you are above the ground you are still in the game my man. I’m 52. Had terrible shit happen in my divorce. It’s still happening, but fuck giving up. I’m in it to win it, and with these 52 years of knowledge I’m kicking ass. I know anyone can. You just need to get out of your own way and make it happen. Stay in it bro. You got this.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/04/23 10:53 PM
1	Chance of marriage ending in divorce 50/50. With odds like these why play the game? Yes	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/23 12:21 AM
2	Chance of marriage ending in divorce 50/50. With odds like these why play the game? Your awesomeness? Duh! Who cares if she leaves. Nothing is forever. They will sign prenups. Everyone wins.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/04/23 05:03 PM
4	Chance of marriage ending in divorce 50/50. With odds like these why play the game? Dude. Before you play any game you just need to know the rules in their entirety. The reality is that marriage is “property law”. Plan and simple. So if you need to get married, in my view you only do this because; 1) you are punching above your weight class and you need to keep her 2) the tax benefit is significant (need to add in the cost of divorce which is an tangential curve over time) 3) you are trying to help your spouse become your counties citizen. (By the way for all you American men c…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/04/23 02:24 PM
1	Chance of marriage ending in divorce 50/50. With odds like these why play the game? What were the stats in 2007? You see where I’m going here?	/r/Divorce_Men	24/04/23 02:17 PM
1	Is there even a point to marriage anymore? Are women really this immature in the aggregate? Hey. Marriage is property law. That’s it.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/23 11:20 PM