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Sorry, too busy actually having a discussion to worry about your troll accusations. Later.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 12:01 AM
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I already like pussy, way to make an assumption. You are the one trolling.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:59 PM
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Have you considered the possibility you might have had mercury poisoning which was potentiated by testosterone? John Wilkes Booth's assassin had mercury poisoning and castrated himself with a pair of scissors.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:54 PM
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Yes, so many people are misunderstanding this.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:53 PM
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Do you not realize I came to this group out of frustration?
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:52 PM
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Thanks. I'll check that out. I've also read Thomas Sheridan, Gavin de Becker, Michael Tsarion, Hervey M. Cleckley. After my psychopathic experience, I gobbled up a lot of that kind of stuff.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:50 PM
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Yeah, that's been what I've been leaning towards. Just take life on a person-to-person basis.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:48 PM
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And intersex people, too.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:46 PM
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It's interesting how the kind and erudite people are always followed up with comments like this. "You people!" "Sure is ironic." It's not very helpful.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:45 PM
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The secret cabal was my sense of humor. I couldn't think of any way to describe the phenomenon, but then again, you probably think psilocybin is DaNGeRoUS!!
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:44 PM
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Thanks Unconfidence. Holzy's argument is silly, to say the least.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:40 PM
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That's probably because you're not used to someone with my level of openness. I should probably tone that down, huh? I've had a very interesting life, to say the least. I'm also a University graduate, graduated Valedictorian from high school, and have a cute little garden. You've never tried hallucinogens? I'm really sorry to hear that. There is a big world out there. You also didn't read about how I did go to the police after I was poisoned. You are a very judgmental person. You could probably …
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:37 PM
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Stop trolling, dude. I said I was exploring it. I explore lots of things.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:29 PM
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I see.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:27 PM
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Yeah and I actually got told off for recommending the work of two male authors to a woman recovering from psychopathic abuse. It was insane. I know both authors, one posts nothing but cute animal videos on Facebook, but his writing on psychopathy is really thorough. They were implying that somehow I was triggering her by exposing her to male writing (maybe there's a psychopathic agenda!!) It was really nuts. I also hate the concept of a trigger warning...it's called the internet, get used to it.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:26 PM
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I'm not unstable. I just think a lot. Are you prejudiced against people who use hallucinogens or just those who use them openly? Because that is a vast swathe of the population, not to mention history. Do you live in a socially conservative part of the world?
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:22 PM
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I can understand the sentiment. I was ostracized pretty severely for outing my abuser. I don't think these experiences we have are relegated to one sex, honestly. There is a lot of common ground.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:17 PM
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I don't see that as being the case. There are a lot of Stone Butches in radical feminism and they don't purport to be gentle and compassionate. I'll check out the Gender Egalitarians, thanks.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:15 PM
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I was saying that's what the philosophy teaches. My dad passed away when I was a teenager and I know for a fucking fact he would support me every step of the way in finding my place in the world. You sound like a mean person.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:14 PM
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Thanks for this. It's precisely why I came here. I have a somewhat obsessive mind and I get "really into" certain things, sometimes to my detriment.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:11 PM
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But men are usually the ones in favor of war...I don't want to go to war, but I also don't want anyone else who doesn't want to go to have to. My dad was a conscientious objector when drafted to go to Vietnam.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:09 PM
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That's what I meant though. Gender roles were traditionally attached to sex. If you have the freedom of choice, that choice could be a traditional role.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:05 PM
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Neuter status? What? That would be forcing something, instead of just allowing kids to be themselves.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:54 PM
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I agree.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:52 PM
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That's what I mean. Removing the implication of the choice.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:48 PM
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I know. I'll see if I can rally the victims to report him. There is no doubt in my mind he's a future serial killer. He had lists of serial killers and their crimes on his iPhone, which he gave me "as a present," but really it was just to track my whereabouts. He forgot to delete the notes.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:46 PM
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It happens to white women and heterosexual women a lot, too. So now straight women go around calling themselves queer to hide from being called out on their privilege. Hah. It's really a mindfuck. Honestly that's more common in third-wave, second- wavers seem more pragmatic and mature about that kind of thing.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:32 PM
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Thank you. I'll contact her.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:28 PM
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Not a troll.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:21 PM
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That's a good question, and yeah I have thought about that. I started doing it as survival work while recovering from a disability. Another pro-Domme friend of mine said she would never marry, whereas an entirely different one seemed to lose her mind. She said the job was "soul-killing," but I'm pretty selective now so that I don't experience that. There are some really kind people who are afraid to lose their marriages over the fact that they like pain, and then there are some super entitled sc…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:21 PM
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Thanks for sharing, Lugash. Sorry to hear about your mom but I'm glad you could make something positive out of it.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:07 PM
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I feel like the notion of "checking your privilege" is a silencing tactic. I think there's also this notion that you make one misstep and you're a bigot, instead of understanding the inherent fallibility of people. This kind of behavior is big in the Queer Theory groups, too.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:03 PM
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Yeah, the Bible is fucked up. Yep, on drugs I realized the secret cabal of psychonauts have historically not included many women.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:14 PM
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That sounds like dogma, not humanism.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:01 PM
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Well then you're no better than RadFems assuming men are on top and ignoring men. I suppose that answers my question.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:00 PM
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Thank you! This is exactly what I was trying to say. Gender roles are exactly why men don't have an equal opportunity gaining custody of children.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 01:59 PM
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The phrase "man or woman in the traditional sense" presupposes the society I live in sees traditional men and women in the same way some remote village does. That phrase could mean a whole lot of different things. The idea is you get to be yourself.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 01:53 PM
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Are you talking about biological sex? I'm talking about gender as in femininity and masculinity i.e. biological imperative to dress/act a certain way based on your junk. You can be a masculine male or whatever you want to be...
/r/MensRights16/06/14 01:49 PM
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That's pretty much what I have been doing. Like I said, radical feminism has given me some interesting epiphanies but I am not a lesbian separatist and can see the flaws in it.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 01:42 PM
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Hmm...no, I'm not violent and have never cheated on a partner, but it does give me some food for thought.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 01:40 PM
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Oh, and no, I was not raped when I was young. I had a fantastic childhood, was very loved by my dad.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 01:38 PM
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Wrong. Boyfriend told me the other day he's never even been mad at me. He's raised his voice maybe 3 times and we've been together over 1.5 years. We're both high functioning autistic, he's very gentle and I always talk to him when I'm feeling insecure. We're very good at conflict resolution and we cherish each other. I work very hard at being a good partner to him.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 01:37 PM
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Right, but do they still fight for females?
/r/MensRights16/06/14 01:33 PM
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Hmm...okay, well that doesn't relate to my notion of gender abolition. Mine is exactly what it sounds like...gender abolition. Voluntaryism.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 01:30 PM
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See, you think they are "gender-defying" behaviors. I wasn't doing anything out of the ordinary for a kid my age. Neither would a boy wearing a dress being doing anything that defied a child's natural curiosity or preference. Colors and fabrics do not have anything to do with sex. In Papua New Guinea, being a boy doesn't mean wearing blue. If you want to do whatever constitutes "the package deal," go for it. I would just never force a personality on another human being. I guess I'm kind of a lib…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 01:26 PM
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Wha? That's not what I mean at all. Kids are way smarter than you give them credit for. Not having toys I didn't like or clothes I hated forced on me wasn't scary at all. Gender isn't something that needs to be expressly "chosen." I was radically no-schooled by a single dad. I made rubber band guns, played Street Fighter, caught a bugs, played Barbies and just did what came naturally. No one reprimanded me for anything. I wasn't pushed into feminine or masculine roles. I was just assumed to be a…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 01:11 PM
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Well that's good, because I have seen some pretty wild hate attributed to MRAs, but maybe that's a fringe thing?
/r/MensRights16/06/14 12:50 PM
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I feel the same way with regard to embodying both sides of the gender coin. Do you think your lack if desire for a traditional relationship was not finding the right person or just part of your personality?
/r/MensRights16/06/14 12:49 PM
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You are projecting. I'm trying to have a discussion. I don't think you even read my post. "You make it harder for me to get to know women because there is a chance it will be someone like you." Me, being a real live person with thoughts and feelings, does not have any impact on you, someone I don't even know, getting to know other female human beings in all their variations. Trust me, I don't need a t-shirt to identify myself so you don't talk to me. I generally don't talk to people who look lik…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 12:37 PM
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This is good stuff. You remind me of my own dad. Granted my mom didn't intentionally try to ruin his life (like I said, she became mentally ill), he certainly suffered a lot trying to prove his fitness as a parent when it was glaringly obvious. You're right about there being a lot of disinformation on either side. I think one thing that bugs me most is the attempt to bring questioning people under their wings instead of facilitating critical thought. That's just cultish behavior. Anyway, I appre…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 12:27 PM
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Oh, no, I meant he didn't do anything criminal to my current boyfriend. He did TONS of criminal stuff to me and other women. Theft, poisoning, identity theft, defacing mail, cyber-stalking...
/r/MensRights16/06/14 12:19 PM
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Thank you for this advice. Can I ask in what way(s) you consider yourself non-traditional?
/r/MensRights16/06/14 12:12 PM
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I guess it started when he was in high school. The majority of his victims are female. He stole the passport and car registration from a MtF friend, and he did some trickery to my current boyfriend, but nothing criminal.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 12:10 PM
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One other victim and I are discussing it, but I've also been using the Grey Rock method for dealing with him because I don't want him to retaliate and finish what he started...but yes...as far as I know, I'm the only one he poisoned (sadly he learned it from me because studying toxicology is one of my hobbies, but in reverse, I study how to eliminate them from the body). With the other gals, he just stole identities, lied pathologically, racked up credit card debt, stole musical equipment...that…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 12:03 PM
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Thank you for your thoughtful response. I want to clarify that when I said I wish sex and gender didn't exist, I mean the problems and divisiveness associated with them, and any kind of stereotype attached to someone just by virtue of their having a certain set of junkitalia (I just invented that word btw). It's 5:00am where I'm at, and I haven't slept, so I'm going to do so. Thanks again.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:57 AM
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Do you not feel like this group sees women as the enemy? Just curious.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:51 AM
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That's good advice. Thank you.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:47 AM
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Dated a guy for two years, talked about marriage, thought he was the perfect guy, family loved him...I got increasingly sick...turned out he was poisoning my food, using my identity, planning to frame my murder as a suicide, and cheating on me under the guise of having a second job. He was a clinical sociopath, I talked to other women he victimized, etc.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:45 AM
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Yes. I think they're being destroyed in so many ways. I could rattle off for hours how society harms males.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:29 AM
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I feel like according to the media, the definition of "female" is an image created by male sexuality. I never see images of women without makeup or with unshaven legs in advertisements...you know, our natural bodies. I have felt intense pressure to be that way since puberty. That is gender conditioning. There isn't the equivalent of a respected female actor with the looks and age of Danny DeVito.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:21 AM
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Actively, yes. "Girls' hair is their crowning glory," "you need to wear a skirt/dress to church," "the man is the head of the household" were all said to me verbatim.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:56 AM
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What do you mean? My life has been one long existential crisis. In a good way, I think. I keep thinking and evolving.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:53 AM
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Gender is much more than being told you only have the option of wearing a dress, it also includes things like posture, manner of speaking, etc. I had to live with fundamentalist Christians for a while and the gender shit was heavy.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:53 AM
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I don't feel like my boyfriend wants to own me, annex a nation and commit genocide, rape or pillage...I sure as hell hate male circumcision and don't know what I would've done if my mentally ill mother had gotten custody of me just out of default. But yeah, the voice of women is sorely lacking in historical texts, and while on hallucinogens I realized I was entering into a place of knowledge usually denied to women. Judeo Christianity is sociopathic and misogynist. Right now though I feel like t…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:31 AM
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And vice versa, obviously. Aesthetic presentation and choice of hobbies/careers should not be limited by biological sex is what I'm saying.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:20 AM
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I mean gender based on sex. Boy wants to wear a dress, play with dolls, and be a househusband? Cool. Girl likes to play with trucks, wants to be an astronaut? Great. I mean gender should not be forced on anyone. It is the very definition of "choice."
/r/MensRights16/06/14 10:18 AM
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