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I'd like to speak to your manager.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:56 AM
0

Extroverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:11 AM
1

Good for whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:21 PM
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I think the answer may depend on your level of well-being offered in both cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:48 AM
3

Tradwives had a community of their neighbors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:47 AM
3

A usual betabuxxer brainwashing attempt - she wants all the nice perks of the relationship without having to put out, because it's "transactional", and if a man in the dead bedroom becomes grumpy and less considerate of his partner, he's a bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:31 AM
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A usual betabuxxer brainwashing attempt - she wants all the nice perks of the relationship without having to put out, because it's "transactional", and if a man in the dead bedroom becomes grumpy and less considerate of his partner, he's a bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:01 AM
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Misanthropy, I'm distrustful of any gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:30 PM
1

It is true for a sizeable proportion of men, and even one of them is enough to potentially ruin your day, so beware. Especially if you aren't in a Western country (and a good school location in it).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:28 AM
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"Chadsexual, not heterosexual".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:32 AM
4

What happens when, say, that extremely lucky man, the one who views you as THE OPTION, the one who cannot live without you, approaches you, and you reject him? A news article happens. 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:20 AM
2

"The bar is in hell" means you have to dive down to reach it. ))))))
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:42 AM
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Easy - men can just get hooked on porn and fap on instead of pursuing their partner, a common woe of HL women in dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:36 PM
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Oh noes! A woman got offended!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:53 AM
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We're gonna say that we don't and we will never ever think about using this law and we only want to marry you because it's a proof of love and shows everyone else our mutual commitment, or whatever drivel women say when they pressure their boyfriends to tie the knot. Then after the marriage contract is signed, turns out our verbal promises mean nothing because we changed our mind while the state laws are very much enforceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:28 AM
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And in the states that have a concept of spousal alimony, let's extend it to post-divorce. By marrying, man sacrifices his career as a fuckboy while becoming accustomed to certain sexual frequency. So imagine that until he remarries, ex-wife owes him sexual alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:13 AM
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"The bar is in hell" means that average men have to dive down to it to pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:42 AM
1

Recommended reading on women's personality detector is r/AlAnon , r/domesticviolence and r/abusiverelationships . Anyone can check how picky the queens really are personality-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:40 AM
4

Yep, normally I'll steer clear of a supermodel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:57 PM
0

For an unattractive short socially awkward guy with weak genetics, the red pill often just gives him a more accurate explanation for why things happen to him. So it works. He can stop wasting time attempting to date conventionally and instead explore other avenues of getting sexual satisfaction (spectrum of transactional sex, toys and dolls + AI chatbots) or try to intentionally go monk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:46 PM
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Not my woman - not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:22 AM
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Can work both ways - not giving women any relationship perks if they don't put out, making them know that there are competing providers of sex (including directly paid ones) if they attempt to price-gouge too much. You're taking about a "husband" who is forced by the government to give up his power to walk away (without a disadvantageous divorce process), but why are you so sure that men will keep marrying when it's a bad deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:29 PM
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Be the man feminists think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:19 AM
5

I'd choose a sex doll and AI girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:55 PM
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Why does this topic come up so much? A female power fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:52 PM
1

Market forces will achieve the balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:28 PM
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Just NEETmaxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:16 PM
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Be the man feminists think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:09 PM
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They will fuck someone else's wives? "No sex before marriage" doesn't mean that sex after marriage, when she has secured a betabuxer, is going to only (or at all) be with husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:36 AM
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Good analogy for men would be "young and hot raging feminist vs overweight 40yo submissive pickme".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:14 AM
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As a man or as a woman? For me as a man "feminist academic" is a gang member.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:02 AM
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"Loser" is one thing, "mastered the game" is another. OP concentrates on men whose long term partner settled for them, questioning whether they are "winners" despite their coupled status. But even men in happy LTR wouldn't necessarily be successful in dating if they reenter the dating market. They have no practice, the market may have changed. (Though OP puts more emphasis on not settling, not humiliating yourself and not betabuxxing than on actually scoring. THAT I can do despite not having dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:28 AM
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It isn't what "game" means in RP terms. Sounds more like "stoic frame"? "Outcome independence"? "Self-worth"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:17 AM
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Do you build a roster and pick one for a relationship? Yes, if LTR is his goal. Why are you surprised that men can have standards and choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:05 AM
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Why not. Already some men do worse things when validating their lifestyle and sources of emotional fulfillment. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:10 AM
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When most of the women are toxic misandric nth wave feminists (though turning tradcon the moment the bill arrives), polite and agreeable woman is indeed not like the other girls. It's OK to advertise it and point it out as her advantage. If the other girls feel put down and ashamed in comparison, it's their own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:16 AM
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And don't need (exclusive long term) relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:48 AM
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It was in the reign of George III that the aforesaid personages lived and quarreled; Good or bad, handsome or ugly, rich or poor, they are all equal now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:54 AM
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I think rotating new women could be exhausting for a drama-averse introvert whether he can potentially do it or not. Also logistical limits of the new mates supply were much harder before the dating apps and I imagine are still hard in small places.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:22 PM
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The night is dark and full of terrors enough so that I don't need to exaggerate anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:02 PM
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Men should walk out. Let it burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:16 PM
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Men should walk out. Let it burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:49 PM
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Sex dolls are still on the market, including life sized. And humanoid robots and AI chatbots are still getting developed anyway, so sex robots won't demand as much R&D dedicated specifically for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:41 PM
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Wives are more romantic Describe "more romantic". Does it mean "are expecting to be romanced more", i. e. being the receiver of the effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:59 AM
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Its not smart as a women to build a life with a man What's your alternative as a 40yo woman though? Either trying to serially date with all the disadvantages mentioned, or a string of fuckbuddies (if you worry about being treated bad due to your age in relationships, will those studs treat you better without a relationship?) or femceldom. Being a good LTR partner - pleasant, agreeable and sexually available - can arguably yield a better outcome as your man pair bonds with you and looks at you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 06:44 AM
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I hope that officers who didn't follow Bolsonaro will be force fed the fruits of this law.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/04/26 06:35 PM
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You do you. I sometimes do one-off acts of basic kindness to strangers (ensuring the return of a lost phone of documents, showing the way). But it won't be something regular or requiring a considerable effort from me. Changing a tire is a service.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:24 PM
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They may truly wish it, but with it being unavailable they may settle for what they can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:41 AM
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Who would be the better man Better for whom? 😏 Not trying to alter this hypothetical scenario ("Federica can live on her own"/"there are other things she can offer to trade and cooperate" - in reality it well may be, but that isn't the question here), I am Cedric. In the sense that I'm not going to provide free labor to a woman who isn't my sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:40 AM
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Most redpillers obsessed with being providers? That's something new and odd to me. Redpill is a wide spectrum, so some might be, but most of?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:18 PM
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Great.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:28 AM
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To increase the value of their personal contribution, men should refuse to contribute to the safety and well-being of the society for free. Make your services scarce, men. Do not advocate, do not volunteer. Not your woman – not your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:18 AM
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I'd rather get laid than be abstractly "good".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:01 PM
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His wife did it first (sexless marriage). His lingo ("she had no right to tell me what I can or cannot do with my body") pretty much hints that that's what he heard when trying to discuss the issue. Well, FAFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:46 AM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:30 AM
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Monogamy was part of that And sexless marriage is agamy, not monogamy. OP's wife cheated on him first by unilaterally altering the conditions of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:29 AM
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No women available to cheat with is a condition that I maintain myself by not having a social life (and for a long time either zero colleagues or little contact with them). One of the reasons I was more socially active when I was single is because I was looking, and now I don't. Me and and my girlfriend are both reclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:26 AM
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How is she an "unpaid intern" if she receives "monthly allowance"? She's a salaried employee.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:15 AM
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Fetishize transactional sex in your mind to enjoy it, sexualize your economic power and always stay in immediate control of your resources. Do a trip to SEA of course, learn the ropes first. As a STEM student you should be able to research the topic, find and absorb the information.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:05 AM
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How sigma. 🦾
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 06:23 PM
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I can't imagine myself dealing with a 20something woman generating drama and having strong emotions Your friend specifically wants a woman with strong emotions, doesn't he?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:47 PM
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In guys thrill seeking can manifest as a whole spectrum of high risk behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:12 AM
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but if two women are approaching and don't go single file In this case I seek eye contact with a mask of contempt on my face and fold my arms into a triangular ram - elbows covering ribs, hands locked together in front of solar plexus. And keep walking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:16 AM
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but women date the way they want to be dated Looks like you are an example of survivorship bias, because My husband also dated and slept with a ton of women before meeting me. Majority of his relationships were indeed "replaceable placeholders" according to this point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:06 PM
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Women screech and seethe at any mention of men-only environment and attempt to invade it or shut it down. Denying your adversary freedom of association is a standard political tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:21 AM
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How would such a couple raise a kid ? Same way any divorced couple raises a kid. If you argue that such environment is less than ideal for the kid, do you then think we should abolish no fault divorce to protect the children?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:12 AM
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False dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:20 AM
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Ignore the trends, it's just pussy cartel trying to inflate the prices on the relationship market by aggressive commercial campaigns, as usual. OnlyFans has shown everyone how pure and chaste the women are. Hold a tight grip on your resources, disregard any attempt to scam you out of it by negging your value or presenting themselves as a luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:50 AM
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No, you shouldn’t expect pussy just for helping someone in need Thanks for confirmation of what I said above.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:13 PM
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Yes, generally to start doing things for someone else's benefit. Nowadays men are, of course, told that they shouldn't even expect a reward of pussy (old social contract is broken), but if they don't fall in line, they are definitely not getting any and are destined to stay the deplorable incels forever! Only a stick, no carrot anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:59 PM
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I should've formulated it as "social service", not strictly patriotism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:52 PM
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Bluepill hates porn because they want to inflate the value of pussy and channel the male frustration into patriotism. Redpill hates porn because they want to inflate the value of PUA courses and channel the male frustration into gym and buying supplements. Blackpill hates porn because they hate the idea of women being able to capitalize their bodies and want to channel the male frustration into hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:53 PM
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Be the man feminists think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:21 PM
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If the world economy blows up like many experts expect i would expect to be seeing a lot less people obsessing about their access to sex. Because sex will become cheaper. Another burst bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:21 PM
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The difference is that now they don't melt and integrate the coming unwashed into the receiving culture as it should be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:20 PM
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It's possible to recruit people to your way of life. For example I heard that cities were population sinks in Middle Ages, with negative natural growth rate, but they siphoned the population from the countryside.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:16 PM
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Children are a women's hobby. If a woman wants the particular man to sire her child, she must pay him the stud fee covering all possible expenses imparted on him by the state (child support, partner alimony if applicable etc). Or else she can use a sperm bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:22 PM
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Women who need an expensive "beauty routine" are either obsessed or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:13 AM
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It doesn't help that "misogyny" is a buzzword.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:14 PM
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Well, WNBA players expect the same salary as NBA for some reason...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:36 AM
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They should wear an armband "do not approach" in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:01 PM
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Traditional masculinity is heavily scrutinized nowadays Only the parts of it that are inconvenient for women and the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:45 AM
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What if your hypothetical boyfriend is OK with such limitations long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:16 PM
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Being a wife is a perpetual humiliation ritual. Does it mean that most women have a humiliation kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:30 AM
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I just had female friends that I found pleasant to converse with but wasn't attracted to (I'm not omnivorous in this sense even when I'm single).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:18 AM
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You're just bombing me with suspiciously AI-sounding pop psych buzzwords to gaslight me into surrendering my boundaries and interests for the benefit of women. It isn't "growth" and "maturity", it's a pipeline to becoming a doormat. I admit that I am selective. Any woman can take it or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:01 AM
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Unhinged women is a real pattern too, I experienced female "unfiltered self" for a long time in shape of my mom. Took years of learning to be dismissive, rude and threatening enough to set boundaries with her. My girlfriend isn't silent, but she's polite, considerate and grateful, and I always care about any issues she may have. maybe it's your comfort with being challenged Of course. Who wants extra unnecessary challenge in their life, especially personal life?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:30 AM
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even the "bratty nag" or "unregulated shrews" wouldn't want you. "Even"? It's a blessing to be unattractive to such types, they're a liability. I'm in a very long term relationship, and I attribute this success (together with luck of meeting her) to my pickiness even despite being an incel back then. I discarded any girl whose manners made me uncomfortable in the talking phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:33 PM
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It sounds like your full self is probably a bratty nag, and your aspiration is to abandon any self-control. I don't like unregulated shrews, I prefer reserved women. You're not entitled to love despite any character flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:12 AM
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We deserve to be our full self without fear of punishment or withdrawal And without a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:30 PM
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Women should propose. In r/waitingtowed you can observe a ton of women who want to marry more than their partners, but their way of proposing marriage to their men is somehow... badgering men and issuing ultimatums for men to buy them a valuable ring and propose! It's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:28 PM
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Virgin racism and misogyny. Chad misanthropy. Misomny, even (is it how hatred of everyone not limited to humans should be called?).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:51 PM
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There aren't enough rich guys for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:49 PM
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Tell that to princess Diana.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:28 PM
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Princess treatment Does it mean arranged marriage to cement some political alliance, duty to produce heirs and beheading for marital infidelity?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:32 PM
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Men are natural-born providers for women. Women are natural-born bangmaids for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:16 AM
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I think your hope in the last sentence is quite futile. As Stalin once said, gratitude is a canine disease. Men should keep correcting the course with their strong arms and sure votes, unmoved by screeches, manipulations and name-calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:01 AM
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There is nothing behind your smoke and mirrors.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:11 PM
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Does this word salad mean that someone else got to decide what's meaningful and what isn't for me? They can fuck right off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:04 PM
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I can't take anything to the grave with me anyway, what's the point of dedicating my life to complete some checklist before I die?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:55 PM
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"Peter Pan syndrome" is a weaponized term coined to manipulate men into producing surplus labor for the benefit of society. But with old social roles and structures crumbling around, redpilled men unapologetically question whether effort demanded from them is worth the reward anymore. Perhaps for many men staying childish is now the wisest move?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:04 PM
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"They can't use you if you're useless."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:04 AM
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How are divorced men counted in these stats? Also, unhealthy men are less likely to get married in the first place. So cause and effect could be not what you think it is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:03 AM
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It is stopping. https://np.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/1j3llup/updated_percentage_of_americans_married_by_birth/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:07 AM
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I'd feel great. Sleeping together is an inconvenience for me. Different schedules, bedding and temperature preferences, someone getting up to visit a bathroom, snoring... Sleep time is for sleeping. If it's one bed, I want separate blankets at least. It isn't like I'm not touchy with my partner usually, but positioning my one body in a convenient way to sleep is already challenging enough without adding more variables to the task. And personal room is an important thing to have as well (I'm of o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:34 AM
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She's a movie actor, her looks are a part of her professional CV.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:26 PM
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Actions are communications. Often more effective than verbal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:08 PM
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It's a power play. Not asking directly lets them not feel powerless in case of rejection and absolves them from gratitude. Displaying expectation to be offered help reinforces the part of obsolete social contract that benefits women (while feminists explicitly reject the parts expecting women to perform certain roles and be accountable). Reasonable mindset for men is "not my woman - not my problem" and unapologetic display of hostility and contempt to women attempting to negatively engage when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:35 PM
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Her friends are for going out and having fun. Her husband is for being a serious adult That phrase doesn't exactly sell me the idea of marriage, LOL. That aside, I feel like you have created some extreme straw man of a nerd (though even such an outlier can sometimes find a similarly crazy mate to spiral together). I was in live action roleplaying and folk music fandom in my youth. There wasn't big gender imbalance (though perhaps boys liked more to hit each other with the swords while girls to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:05 PM
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...and we should strive to close this gap. In whatever direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:35 PM
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Somehow worked for humanity till now. Perhaps we'll see the era of UBI and passable sex bots and artificial wombs yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:12 PM
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Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:03 PM
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I too like both sex and money. I imagine many men like money too. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:01 PM
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Yes, for these 1/3rd of women who don't need sex that you've mentioned in your post. Which is great, because it filters them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:55 PM
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What is OP's stance on sexual exclusivity? If sex is a boring chore for OP, I think it would be logical and thoughtful for her hypothetical partner to absolve her of this chore by outsourcing it to volunteers (if there are any) or hired help? I personally can't comprehend why would he concede even this (barring the threat of devastating divorce if he was foolish enough to marry) because for a man obtaining sex requires spending extra resources (in addition to what he gives in the relationship wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:49 PM
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This for me as well, a woman should pass in the looks aspect, but it isn't a linear (and universal) scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:49 AM
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It’s not transactional What if I'm saying that it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:47 AM
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Exactly. And after that it's up to denied party how to react in their best interest. And actions are communication (that every bluepiller is hellbent to advise) too, often more efficient than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:54 AM
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Actions are communication. And often are more effective than words. Cheating is wrong I disagree with OP on terminology, Denied party having sex outside the dead bedroom isn't cheating. Denying sex in a relationship is, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:11 PM
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fear Awareness. before proposing Proposing what? Proposing why? Sell me marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:06 PM
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"The bar is in hell"? Dive to reach it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:05 AM
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She may want it, but according to OP's offer and my choice she wouldn't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:53 AM
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Number one. She should make her preferences known though (BECAUSE I WILL IT AND SHE'S OBLIGED TO OBEY ACCORDING TO CONDITIONS SET BY OP, to prevent OP from somehow weaseling away this point). I don't have to always have my way, in many cases it's better to have her happier. But in the matters important for me I want the final say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:05 PM
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Rather dump my girlfriend, I'm not a fool to marry in the 21st century.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 03:09 PM
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Of course, many wrong things there. First of all, the man foolishly married in current legal and social climate. Second, the list goes on for four weeks (even though with some positive responses). I'd become alarmed at the first rejection for bullshit everyday reason (showing that sex isn't prioritized by her), put my foot down by stopping some relationship perks at the second, probably exited the relationship in a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:41 AM
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Not breeding when conditions aren't right is biological too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:58 AM
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BeNeFiT sOyCiEtY What if I want it to burn?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:57 AM
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And I always wonder how divorced and not remarried men are counted in this statistics...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:56 AM
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Modern marriage in Western and westernized countries is a fraudulent debased contract pushed under the guise of old "traditional" customs (when female behavior isn't socially, much less legally, held up to the old standards anymore even though it is sometimes implied or promised to men being pushed to marry). It is meant by feminized societies and governments to keep extracting surplus labor from men without repaying back with due respect, service and power the world-building men deserve. The on…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:49 AM
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If faced with such circumstances, I'd make it into my fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:13 AM
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This. Take women's issues hostage until measures resolving them become offered by truly egalitarian politicians in package deals resolving men's issues as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:43 AM
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I won't pursue anything, I'll stay with my current long term girlfriend. Will not marry her of course, because marriage is a shitty inflexible contract that isn't treated like the other contracts in court of law, and I consider the title of husband repulsive and demeaning in the modern Western/Westernized social climate. With fuck you money it should be possible to customize the formal part much better than marriage+prenup - with trust funds, LLCs, will, power of attorney, whatever else legal to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:52 PM
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It depends. Only socially or technologically too? Also mass use of condoms predates sexual revolution as it is usually defined. I'd like to keep them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:32 AM
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Be the man feminists think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:55 PM
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It does, OP uses the terms "husband" and "wife" meaning that OP implies the continuing existence of marriage. I challenge that view.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:29 PM
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(looking at OP's user flair) What would you think about starting this journey by removing the legality of polygyny from islam, so that wealthy and attractive men who can afford multiple wives won't be able to legally "hoard" women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:14 PM
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Women preferentially desire, as short-term mates, men who possess cues to good genes, but value social stability and economic security above traits relating to fertility and physical appearance for long-term relationships. "Alpha fucks, beta bux" spelled in academic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:50 AM
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Desirable men are not viewed as desirable? Define desirable then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:48 AM
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Criminalize spermjacking (as they did with stealthing) and paternity fraud. No child support to be paid by male underage statutory rape victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:41 PM
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Be the man feminists think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:30 AM
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"I signed under duress, Your Honor - he told me he wouldn't marry me if I don't sign!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:49 AM
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Wrong, spermjacking women can transmit semen from one orifice to another so anal and oral aren't safe per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:51 PM
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The "Mike Pence Rule" is sexist Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:52 PM
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How people vote isn't important, who counts the votes is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:06 AM
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Neither. You can't force me to choose between two bads, I'm not obliged to enter any relationships. Feel free to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:24 AM
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What if they surrender to enemy en masse? Defect, even? It is known that Western alt-right and incels flirt with Islamism ("Islam is right about women" posters, cheers to Taliban victory etc), many are Putinverstehers as well. You may want to fight fire with fire but end up adding fuel to fire instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:35 AM
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They work much better when not mixed with legal contracts though. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:53 AM
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High attraction you're talking about is important for men to consider entering committed relationship with the woman in question. Because stakes are higher, as it usually means sexual exclusivity and financial entanglement. As for just banging her - it doesn't matter at all, just consent is enough. Stop baiting and switching with that last paragraph of your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:00 AM
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Boundaries are a social construct. Being able to recognize situations where social constraints are null and void is smart and beneficial for survival. And men in this case were obviously dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:34 AM
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One that helped me to avoid becoming a walking free-use ATM so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:28 AM
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Unmarried wealthy bachelors are inherently selfish. Yes. I wish I was wealthy, but I'm selfish in a different way, being a semi-NEET.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:27 AM
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No. I reject responsibility without being handed authority and tangible benefits as a compensation. Manchild is a compliment for me. I enjoy Peter Pan's syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:17 AM
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Children are women's hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:09 AM
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Porn addict can spend all his energy on porn. Also from what I grasped about it there can be madonna/whore complex at play, i. e. the addict is ashamed to expose their partner to their perverted sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:41 AM
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Sometimes it is indeed the case, at least as reported. In the internet we only have words usually of one party to assess the situation, but if you're going to discard even these and shoehorn every case in the tenets of your pill, it's pointless to discuss anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:37 AM
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Quite the contrary, it's time for the honeymoon energy to totally wear off and familiarity to start setting in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:45 AM
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Who said he wouldn't? But she could lie. Comments to the post in question suggest that the genie is out of the bottle, and "you go grrrls" are probably going to stop bragging about their carousel rides.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:42 AM
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