HafezSpirit Archive

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0	I've come to the mindset that men should just learn to be comfortable with making women uncomfortable. I dunno I think it was at least somewhat more like that in the past. For example in the 50s it wasn't unusual to wait a little and spend dates and time together to see if tension/chemistry can build. These days although that may happen it's still far more fast paced, superficial, and first impression type where if you aren't immediately feeling sparks in the first 5 minutes even though there's potential people will forget about you and don't even bother after that. Or they think you aren't attra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 08:12 PM
1	I've come to the mindset that men should just learn to be comfortable with making women uncomfortable. Ok let me make my point clearer. Let's say a man/woman finds another person initially physically attractive, and is willing to be intimate, but that doesn't mean they're ready to be sexual with them yet, they still need a mental/emotional/personal connection to them on some level. For me, simply getting to know the woman, her background, where she grew up, interests, her job, thoughts/feelings about those things etc and finding some sort of relatability or connection there is what helps crea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 12:51 AM
2	I've come to the mindset that men should just learn to be comfortable with making women uncomfortable. Okay tell me what old school dating looked like. Why shouldn't I pat myself on the back? I think I'm making a pretty good point. I'm describing what I consider to be stimulating, engaging conversation that makes me attracted to a woman, whereas that's just not on average the case the other way around. I don't know if it's an age thing, or the type of conversations that people have in bars, clubs, etc under the influence. But even then it seems like men and women dynamics usually stays at a super…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 12:26 AM
1	I've come to the mindset that men should just learn to be comfortable with making women uncomfortable. I'm confused about all this and about "sexualizing" conversations to create attraction. To me overt sexual convos and empty "flirting" before even knowing the person that much has no emotion or depth to it. Theres just no connection yet and it feels performative, almost mechanical. What stimulates and attracts me is first a level of physical attraction, and then simple convo about knowing the other person, their background, where theyre from, their interests, etc...within these convos I may find…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 09:16 AM
1	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? The irony is that it's women who are also very reckless with STIs and don't ask about testing, or don't disclose their HPV, HSV status etc or even know their status...women also will want to raw dog it easily if they really like the guy no problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 11:59 PM
1	Another Bar Lay (3 approaches, 1 bar) Yeah but what ethnicity are you and the girls you took home?	/r/seduction	29/12/24 06:12 AM
9	Is/was anybody on this sub a chad? If so then what made you end up here.. That's called a first class ticket to herpesville : D	/r/MGTOW	17/11/20 07:56 AM
1	Sorry ladies, you aren’t entitled to men’s commitment Women already know that but still have sex with men anyway. Although he shouldn't lie, a man lying for sex still WANTS TO HAVE SEX with that girl because he finds her attractive! A man has to be aroused to the woman to want to have sex with her. His genuine desire for the woman at least is honest. Whereas a woman uses sex for a different purpose. A lot of women don't put as much importance to sex in a relationship as they do to many other things the man provides in the relationship. If they don'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/20 09:03 PM
3	Sorry ladies, you aren’t entitled to men’s commitment They may enjoy it but most of the time it's not sufficient enough profit to give it away. Commitment is still a price regardless of great sex, good looks, etc etc... And a lot of times women DON'T enjoy the sex and don't see the man in that way and will get bored of it but will trick men by acting out sexuality and horniness to get them hooked and then they get trapped into marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/20 08:17 PM
1	ever notice EVERY marriage has had a "rough patch"? For me it's instant. As soon as they find out I'm not a doormat when meeting me they want nothing to do with me. I don't even get to 1st base. The fact is, to be in a relationship or even a short-term fling, a man MUST concede to the woman and let her control the relationship. There is no such thing as "alpha fucks," it's B.S. Women especially attractive women aren't going to give away sex for free, why would they when betas are lining up willing to hand over their hard earned money, resources, …	/r/MGTOW	17/07/19 10:06 AM