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Us hags don’t want you either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:33 AM
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To hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:52 AM
3

I wouldn’t care if he told me from day one or waited 50 years. It’s perfectly fine. Just do it with your own clothes, and don’t stretch my clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:32 AM
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So what? Witches are cool
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:19 AM
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Thanks. As someone who was actually around since the early 70s, she’s looking at this through rose coloured glasses. The 70s were shit. It was an awful time for women. Glad they’re behind us
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:54 AM
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I’m loving it. No periods, lots of life experience. It’s the best time of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:57 PM
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How old are you, op?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:54 PM
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I’m not American
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:09 AM
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We can’t help it. It’s biology
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:43 AM
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I prefer to use logical words rather than emotions and reading between the lines
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:25 AM
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That’s too vague of an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:15 AM
1

Okay. If that were true, you can’t expect women to have sex with someone they aren’t physically attracted to. You wouldn’t, why should we?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:14 AM
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Okay, let’s rephrase it: someone you don’t find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:12 AM
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How are women mistreating men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:56 AM
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This, and avoiding someone stalking you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:51 AM
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Facts don’t care about your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 07:06 AM
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Your words tell me this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 07:03 AM
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Here’s a fact that doesn’t care about your feelings: if you spend all your time watching women crying on TikTok, other dudes are out in the real world enjoying satisfying sexual relationships with real life women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:59 AM
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Pro tip: the world is bigger than tik tok. What I have described above has always worked for me and many women. I’m not sure what stats you think are against me, but go off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:45 AM
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Those men can shit in one hand and want in the other. We don’t need to change. This works for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:25 AM
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The men whom the signals are FOR know they are being signalled to and rarely misread them. As for the rest of what you wrote? You’re generalising women. And you’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:21 AM
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What do you mean by ‘non existent signals?’ The signals exist; they work. Of course we’re selective about what’s being offered to us! Just as men should be. Women have agency. We do go after men we find attractive, we just do it very differently to men. We don’t have to pursue in the same way men do, because men make it so easy for us not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:43 AM
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Or, you can have protected sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:26 AM
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We are selective. Op is complaining about this fact
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:07 AM
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Yes, there are so many men hitting on women, that women complain about harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:53 AM
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Sure. But I was specifically asking about women you think are ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:51 AM
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If I’m friends with him, I’m saying he’s a good person. I’m friends with plenty of ugly men. I just don’t want to date any ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:50 AM
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Then why should women have sex with ugly men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:48 AM
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Why would you want her to change her mind? Wouldn’t you prefer a woman who is horny for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:16 AM
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Will you have sex with an ugly woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:14 AM
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Not really. You underestimate how many men there are to go around
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:09 AM
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Nope. Women like sex. They don’t like it with men who expect us to tolerate bad sex, or believe we don’t like it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:06 AM
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How many ugly women are you giving a chance to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:04 AM
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We would still be friends with an ugly man if he was a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:01 AM
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You know what? The other poster here was right, when she said we should all stop interacting with you guys. I’m taking her suggestion on board. Your tone is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:51 AM
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Men are happy with relationships in your country. The women being RAPED are miserable and traumatised. As for your second remark, I’m not sure what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:27 AM
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Yes, that is coercion. People who make threats to get sex are rapists. Not sure why that’s unclear to you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:24 AM
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it depends. Now, keep in mind, I’ve been coerced but never given into it. But… there are people who will drive someone out in the middle of nowhere. Tell the other person that they will only drive them back home if they have sex. If not, they’re stranded. It’s dark, and the person has no way to safely get home. They’re frightened of being dumped on the side of the road. They say yes to sex as a result. This is coercion. But coercion can take many forms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:22 AM
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Do you agree that the other person needs to stop asking after the first no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:12 AM
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Only you can answer that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:08 AM
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Why is the person badgering more than once?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:07 AM
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If she wants sex and is turned on, you’ll know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:02 AM
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That falls under what I already said which is having a conversation about how to make sex more enjoyable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:01 AM
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Sorry your country is rapey
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:59 AM
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So, do women enjoy having sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:59 AM
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Not true. Marital rape is still rape
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:54 AM
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It’s not cool to use the disabled community to make your argument. You are also underestimating them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:50 AM
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Why are you so aggressive about this subject?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:48 AM
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When you’re in a relationship, it’s not a guarantee you will get to have sex every single time you want it. Sex needs two yes’s. It only takes one no for sex to be off the table. You can try to work together to communicate how you could make the enjoyment of sex better. But the person in question has already consented to the amount of sex they’re comfortable with. Either accept it, or move on. Don’t coerce
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:47 AM
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I stand by my statement
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:44 AM
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Man…‘enthusiastic consent’ doesn’t mean, ‘act like a whore.’ What you described is enthusiastic consent. Come on, it’s not that fucking hard
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:43 AM
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That is coercion. This is the amount they consent to. Don’t like it? Leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:41 AM
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No. YOU need to do that if you want sex. It’s not someone else’s fault if they don’t want to fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:38 AM
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It was enthusiastic because she told you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:36 AM
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I deleted my comment because I replied in the wrong spot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:35 AM
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Why not be the guy she’s horny for and begging for sex? If you’re not pressuring her, you have nothing to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:30 AM
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Do you care at all if the woman is enjoying sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:27 AM
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In many countries it is illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:25 AM
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Or…nobody wants to be raped
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:24 AM
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No one wants their store robbed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:19 AM
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Yes, that is coercion. You are in your right to leave a relationship if you’re not happy about the sex. But threatening them specifically to MAKE them have sex with you is coercion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:17 AM
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You could not hold me at gunpoint and get me to publicly announce what you just did
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:12 AM
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That’s coercion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:10 AM
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Disabled people commit crimes, too. It’s not a get out of jail card
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:07 AM
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In lots of countries, coercion is illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:07 AM
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What matters is HOW a person ends up consenting. If it’s their own free will with no outside pressure, it’s consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:06 AM
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I’d say it’s pretty equal across the genders
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:01 AM
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We don’t despise 90% of men. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:53 AM
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What are you saying woman are doing or did?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:41 AM
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You’re doing the right thing. But also, so are the women, as they choose something else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:44 AM
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This topic isn’t about that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:32 AM
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Upvotes suggest otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:31 AM
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Not true. I’m Gen x. We are (and always have been) about everyone getting pleasure from the interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:29 AM
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Men are the cause
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:28 AM
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Cold approaches don’t work. It’s pua nonsense. Hot men have no need for cold approach down the street
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 10:54 AM
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That’s already underway. But also irrelevant. The point of the analogy is to encourage men to exercise their empathy muscle, and most of you in this thread have failed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:54 AM
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I’m not putting any man in danger. I care about men feeling safe and have done my bit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:33 AM
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You’re human, but I’m not going to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:15 AM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:10 AM
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On a carousel, you only ride one horse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:07 AM
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No way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:00 AM
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I don’t care if you believe me. It’s irrelevant anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:49 AM
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He’s not beating my arse, or I wouldn’t be with him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:47 AM
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Hey, if my partner wants a paternity test, I’m all for it. You don’t know how much violence anyone of either gender has experienced. My entire childhood was violent. Not sure that is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:47 AM
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Oh no. Hot guys care WAY more about our orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:35 AM
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When I was young, the emphasis of my generation was mutual pleasure. The trouble is that Gen z men only care about their own pleasure, hence why women have had to point out that their pleasure is also important. Not that it’s more important
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:23 AM
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We don’t if she’s walking down the street and you’re a complete stranger to her, there’s a 99% chance she doesn’t consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:34 AM
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This is not something for women to fix
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:30 AM
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I don’t know who that is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:29 AM
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Okay. It’s about catcalling AND harassment. Two things that make an approach unsuccessful. You don’t have to shoot your shot. Women are telling you they don’t like street harassment. Wouldn’t it be smarter to listen to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:24 AM
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We don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:00 AM
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No offence, but I don’t think any cat caller looks good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:57 AM
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Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:42 AM
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Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:24 AM
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What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:23 AM
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I didn’t say that, and no, I don’t think that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:21 AM
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It’s almost as if men see other men as human
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:18 AM
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Is that all you would do? Great. Lots of men would take the compliment to an unwanted interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:14 AM
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Wrong. It only needs to be a situation where someone you’re not attracted to who could overpower you catcalls you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:13 AM
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They really do believe we owe it to them to decorate the streets at all times! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:09 AM
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I disagree with everything you just said
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:06 AM
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Who said anything about not putting other women down?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:01 AM
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Australia
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:57 AM
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I’m following the thread, not you specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:56 AM
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What would you do if a woman came up to you on the street and gave you a real compliment? Not a catcall; an actual compliment? Don’t tell me how you would feel. Tell me what you would say or do next about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:56 AM
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If they choose to catcall, they fall into the latter category.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:54 AM
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Dude. What if the guy has had the same training at the same gym? Who’s gonna win? 😂 I did not for a minute say I was helpless. However: I do have a painful chronic illness. Stressful events, particularly adrenaline fueled ones put me on bed rest for at least three days. And as the disease progresses, I am becoming physically weaker and in more pain doing ordinary tasks. This topic is about catcalling. I’m pointing out how unsafe it makes us feel. The mental toll it takes. All in the hope to appe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:53 AM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:47 AM
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Untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:46 AM
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Social skills. A man displaying confusion over consent is the reddest of flags
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:46 AM
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If she is walking down the street minding her business, she is not interested. Even if she is interested, catcalling is not going to help you woo her. Also, you cannot assume any woman walking down the street is straight or single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:44 AM
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If a man catcalls us, they lose our respect. Because they have disrespected us. If a man is not a dating prospect for us and we don’t notice him, that’s not disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:40 AM
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You don’t think that might have something to do with less of a physical power imbalance?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:37 AM
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Sometimes, yes. Other times, we don’t want to be pursued at all, or pursue someone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:35 AM
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Good answer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:33 AM
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I have. You just don’t want to hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:32 AM
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It is a problem. Ask yourself why those specific women feel that way. Don’t blame the women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:32 AM
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We’re not scared of ugly men if they leave us alone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:30 AM
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That’s an inaccurate description of what happened
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:29 AM
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A man can be terrible and not be a cat caller
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:28 AM
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Nailed it perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:27 AM
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That sounds like a specifically American problem. If you’re telling the truth, I feel sorry for you living there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:26 AM
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AGAIN: we do learn how to physically defend ourselves. But some of us are never going to be bigger or stronger than the men intimidating us. Most of us know how to get out of it BEFORE it gets to that point. And that’s the thing, isn’t it? A light weight 5’1 woman like me can learn self defence, but it’s going to be imperfect against the size of men I come up against
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:19 AM
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Right. But I very much doubt men have to deal with actual street harassment on a daily basis in some cases. What do I mean by ‘in some cases?’ When you’re young, and live in a city. That’s when it happens MULTIPLE times a day, EVERY damn day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:05 AM
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Flirting is fine, if she is interested and they’re in an appropriate setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:02 AM
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It might be helpful, but we’re not obligated to teach you. I have given you excellent examples. You seem to be more interested in learning how to ‘get’ a woman. But we keep telling you: don’t come on strong with sexual self expression too early! Don’t lead with sex if she does not KNOW you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:01 AM
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I don’t have access to an mma gym. I have other methods. They have always worked. But that’s beside the point. Women are sick of men behaving like this in the first place. We should be able to walk down the street and think about our day, instead of constantly needing to be on guard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:58 AM
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Yes, being ugly does not always work. I definitely can’t completely hide these huge tits. I repeatedly said it’s not perfect already. No self defence method is. You need multiple options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:56 AM
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How? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:53 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:51 AM
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She is 100% right. This topic is about women disliking catcalling. It’s not about teaching men how to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:51 AM
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What is the path? Must have missed it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:49 AM
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No, I directly answered your question. If you don’t like my answer, that’s another thing. I linked it to the topic. Sexual expression smoulders. It doesn’t scream or shout, unless you’re leading up to/having an orgasm. Most sexual expression is done between two people, intimately. In the bedroom, in the quiet corner of a bar, when you’re huddled together, building up a connection. Most healthy sexual expression is private
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:48 AM
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Like I said, we have other tools at our disposal as well. We don’t have to be ugly all the time 😂 just in higher risk scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:39 AM
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The initial phase IS flirting. The situation we’re talking about is catcalling, which is an unhealthy, harmful expression of sexuality. Also, most healthy sexual expression is during sex and/or relationships. Why express your sexuality in the middle of the street, loudly to strangers? That’s being a pest. It makes the person come off as the opposite of sexy. It’s making a fool of oneself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:30 AM
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We can’t feel flattered if we feel unsafe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:28 AM
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My life experience has shown me that it’s only unattractive men who do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:27 AM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:25 AM
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But your username and your own words betray your claims
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:24 AM
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In that case, who’s telling you you have a magical tongue? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:21 AM
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The analogy usually involves a man catcalling you who could physically overpower you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:17 AM
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Username fails the vibe check
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:12 AM
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We can do both. Being ugly is just one tool we use, and its effectiveness is limited, so it’s never the only tool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:11 AM
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You don’t want to learn? Hm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:08 AM
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Flirting. Having sex. Being in a relationship. Kissing. Foreplay. Telling the woman you’re with how you feel about her. Above all, CONSENT. Presenting oneself physically as a sexual being.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:06 AM
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Only unattractive men catcall. Why don’t you run along and go learn what really makes a pussy wet?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:04 AM
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Look at it this way: if a gay man doesn’t respect his no, then the man saying no could physically hurt him. Lots of women don’t have that privilege, and men know it. We know men can physically overpower us. Suspend your disbelief for a moment. Imagine if the man hitting on COULD physically overpower you. That’s what is usually portrayed in this analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:00 AM
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But we’re not talking about rape. We’re talking about catcalling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:55 AM
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But the handsome man is not catcalling us, so we’re not threatened. Also: ‘Chad’ would NEVER have lampshades made of human skin 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:54 AM
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That doesn’t mean those men are attractive. It means those women were desperate losers. Lots of young women with low self esteem fuck uggos until they grow out of it and release they can do better. God, my first boyfriend I had in high school was the ugliest dude I’ve ever seen 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:52 AM
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Tinder is not catcalling though, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:49 AM
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Exactly. We don’t even want to acknowledge their existence in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:48 AM
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Well, I’m sure you know more than me about what makes a man attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:45 AM
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I haven’t shaved my head. But I do wear men’s clothing when I go outdoors to workout. I have dressed ugly when I was going to places in the city where street harassment was rampant. I also put on an ugly bitch face as a deterrent. Also? When I was single, I was not always wanting to be in a relationship. And the times I did want one, I would never have lowered myself to getting into a relationship with some dude on the street, more so if he was catcalling me. There’s a time and a place to seek o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:38 AM
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I’m not trolling. Aggressive arseholes are unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:33 AM
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Yes, it does have a powerful effect. She felt unsafe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:28 AM
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It’s safer to uglify ourselves so we don’t have to get to the point of ignoring you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:26 AM
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How do you know they were attractive? Are you attracted to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:25 AM
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No, they haven’t. Why would they need to? All they need to do is go get laid quite easily the normal way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:22 AM
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No, we’re not selective. It’s always unattractive when a man catcalls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:21 AM
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We’re not threatened by ALL expressions of male sexuality. Only the inappropriate, intimidating, dangerous and threatening expressions of it. We associate with men who express their sexuality in healthy and appropriate ways. They exist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:12 AM
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How many men have catcalled you? I suspect I have more experience on the subject than you. Also, if you are a straight man, I probably know more about what makes a man attractive than you do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:10 AM
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Ever think that maybe our ‘no’ is not always respected?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:07 AM
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No, they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:06 AM
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It’s not about disliking men as a whole. We don’t like men who catcall and aren’t attracted to those men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:05 AM
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Catcalling is not sexually appealing to us. It’s a clear signal that the man doing it has no sex life or sex appeal and has no idea how sexual desire and expression works. And I have to break it to you: lots of men don’t catcall. Those are the men we are having healthy romantic and sexual relationships with. You act like it’s normal behaviour, or somehow essential for men to express their sexuality this way. It’s not. It’s uncivilised, and in lots of places, illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:04 AM
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Lots of women are 4b. But 4b will not stop men from catcalling them. And just because you can see women in relationships with men, does not justify some desperate loser on the street intimidating us when we’re just trying to get somewhere safely in public. What’s the deal? Women are telling you we don’t like it and it scares us. Instead of trying to convince us we SHOULD like it, why not just stop doing it? Also: I’m in a relationship. Still get catcalled, still hate it. My partner hates it, too…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:56 AM
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Attractive men don’t catcall as they are not desperate. And no, the ‘desire’ expressed by catcalling is not harmless. Some of them follow us down the street, or worse, to our front doors. Or try to coerce us as children and adults to get into a car full of men. I’m a petite woman. I have no way to fight back in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:52 AM
6

True
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:51 AM
5

Attractive men don’t catcall. They don’t need to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:50 AM
15

Women are not flattered by it. It’s terrifying. And when it happens regularly, can really disrupt our day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:49 AM
2

My grandmother
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:29 AM
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It is a perfect example. Women aren’t attracted to men who catcall us. Hell, the woman being catcalled might even be gay or asexual. The type of men who catcall are extremely unattractive. Stop trying to convince yourself we like catcalling and want it. We don’t. It’s unattractive AND scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:28 AM
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I should say ex friend, really. I had casual sex in young adulthood and have never cheated on anyone. Some people are just cheats, and others are not. She married young. 19. Had a baby early in the marriage, and soon after giving birth, was obsessed with cheating on him, and acted on it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:32 AM
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This. My friend married the guy she lost her virginity to, and was convinced she was missing out on other experiences. She cheated on him lots
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:17 AM
1

4b can still be promiscuous with other women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:11 AM
1

I mean, what if you’re unhappy with her as a person and want to remarry?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:07 AM
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Same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:30 AM
1

What a fantastic ad ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:04 AM
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I’m in a relationship. All these posts like this one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:57 AM
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They’re really busting their arses to talk women out of this. To me, that’s the biggest sign that women SHOULD absolutely do this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:56 AM
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It WILL bring them peace. They will be far less likely to get pregnant and will feel safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:54 AM
2

Well, that’s what they say publicly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:16 AM
5

What happens if you want to remarry?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:15 AM
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If they didn’t get pregnant and find more peace in their own lives then it’s working
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:51 AM
1

No. I’m in Australia and will be staying with my partner. But if he dies before me, then I’ll be 4b. Not because of this election. It’s something I decided a long time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:41 AM
2

That’s why 4b women are also making plans to defend themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:39 AM
2

Korean women can’t talk about being feminist without being vilified
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:29 AM
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As an Aussie woman, he’s also wrong. There is a small handful of Aussie women embracing 4b
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:25 AM
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Yes. Yes, they are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:24 AM
6

What happens if you end up wanting to divorce her?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:20 AM
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They’re trying to convince themselves…and women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:18 AM
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It will work for each individual woman personally. They will be the ones who benefit from doing what brings them greater peace
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:11 AM
1

I have children and am not married
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:16 AM
1

Either way, I’m sure it would be worth it for women who don’t already have toys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:16 AM
2

The women who don’t get pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:49 AM
3

Ectopic pregnancies are deadly unless the woman has an abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:28 AM
1

What woman in their right mind would get married in the next four years?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:56 AM
1

I’m all for men using flesh lights. It’s no different from a woman enjoying her toys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:50 AM
1

Thankfully, I’m not American
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:49 AM
2

If they don’t get pregnant, then it will work
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:05 AM
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More like the rose. Not everything is snake centric
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:38 PM
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Watch sales of women’s sex toys skyrocket. A sex toy will never get you pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:46 AM
1

Was never given advice from him and I would not have taken it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:13 AM
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My guy loves Kamala, as do I
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:07 AM
3

That’s a legitimate reason
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:50 AM
9

And you’d rather control who they talk to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:58 AM
12

It’s not abuse. Those women are using their social media accounts in the best way that makes them happy. They are allowed to do things that make themselves happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:58 AM
11

That doesn’t blow my mind. I’m aware of this. Regardless, what on earth does child support have to do with women making choices about who they interact with online?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:56 AM
7

I don’t believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:53 AM
11

Expressing frustration is one thing. You’re doing more than that. You’re disregarding women’s autonomy and expressing a desire to control them so it benefits you. That’s selfish and scary
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:47 AM
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That money is to support the CHILD. I’m going to tell you something that will blow your mind: women also have to pay child support if they are not the main caregiver
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:46 AM
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It is taking away her right to choose. You’re forcing women to interact with people when they don’t want to. Do you actually understand that women are human beings, and not just here to do what YOU want them to do? And as for your comment about child support? It sounds like these women have clocked you and have dodged a major bullet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:42 AM
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So…you want to take away women’s rights to make choices? Let me tell you something: women would avoid an app like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:36 AM
12

They don’t owe you a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:30 AM
8

An action can be harmless and women can still choose not to engage with the action
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:25 AM
9

It’s your anger over these women having the ability to make choices you don’t agree with that is frightening these women. Let me repeat that: your aggression, anger and entitlement is FRIGHTENING these women. You’re 19. It’s time to grow up, take accountability for your behaviour and stop blaming other people for this. It’s obvious that your attitude and behaviour is the problem here. That might not be nice to hear. But the good news about that is that if you’re the problem, you can fix it. Isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:18 AM
3

You don’t get to be the judge of the reasons for their choices. These women are human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:12 AM
12

She is allowed to do that. Do you think all those women on Snapchat are sitting there waiting for a random man to pick them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:11 AM
4

Sure. It’s easier for you to blame women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:09 AM
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This isn’t paranoia. This is women making the best choices for themselves. As they should. You’re not entitled to have them try to get to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:07 AM
3

Honey…if a woman is falling asleep during oral, wtf are you doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:34 AM
2

No. No tolerance for bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:08 AM
2

Correct. No one is obliged to have sex with anyone they don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:41 PM
1

I’d say choosing to have sex with someone is a special privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:35 PM
1

Not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:30 PM
4

Totally
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:47 AM
5

slavery ˈsleɪv(ə)ri noun the state of being a slave. the practice or system of owning slaves. a condition of having to work very hard without proper remuneration or appreciation. excessive dependence on or devotion to something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:09 AM
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It does matter. Let me give you an example: I don’t know if you’re implying men will become more violent/rapey with women because of this? Perhaps you meant that, or perhaps you meant something different. It’s reasonable to seek some clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:34 AM
4

I’m using pedantry to argue your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:12 AM
8

I want specifics. What are the literal consequences you’re talking about? I mean, if you leave women alone, we get what we want and are happy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:08 AM
9

Nobody is saying that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:07 AM
9

Right? And he’s asking for an alternative? Here’s an alternative: ask someone else out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:58 AM
9

What you described is still not slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:48 AM
2

People have already told you. Also, cheating happens in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:44 AM
2

People in relationships also get STIs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:42 AM
11

No one needs to send a sexual text to get laid WTF? Just talk like a normal person and when she asks what you’re looking for, tell her a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:36 AM
8

That’s what op wants. He wants sex and doesn’t want a prostitute. That’s free sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:30 AM
0

Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:30 AM
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Leaving someone alone is not slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:24 AM
10

Is 300lbs average? Edit: I just did the conversion. Outside of America, that’s not average
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:24 AM
2

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:22 AM
1

Adam. The other guy is too tall
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:21 AM
10

Women can give good advice. We can’t make another woman like or say yes to the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:17 AM
4

Because lots of men are too ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:16 AM
3

Dude. The women you’re harassing after they’ve said no don’t want you either. Yet this doesn’t deter you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:16 AM
7

In what way will everyone be worse off?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:14 AM
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We are not playing hard to get, no means no, life is not a romcom, etc. Most advice from women is ‘be a decent, considerate person who treats women like human beings. Also, if a woman really was playing hard to get? You’re going to run into big problems in a relationship with her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:08 AM
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Most men don’t struggle to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:57 AM
0

Yes. I’m with a guy in this situation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:45 AM
1

I’m 5’1. There have been times the guy couldn’t get it in. Because I wasn’t aroused
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:10 AM
1

I’m always invested in anatomical conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:50 AM
3

Interesting. You made this weird post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:20 AM
2

I’m not mad about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:15 AM
2

This is what it said: How long is the vaginal canal? Not that long. The authors of one older study, from 2006, found the average length of the vaginal canal was around 2.5 inches (62.7 millimeters [mm]), with a range of 1.5–3.7 inches (40.8–95 mm).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:58 AM
1

It’s not propaganda. It’s biology
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:01 AM
3

Wait. You’re saying we can gain weight and increase our vagina size and lose weight to make it smaller. I just want to be clear, is this what you believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:51 AM
7

Yes, or she isn’t aroused
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:49 AM
6

Most women do kegels
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:15 PM
1

We know it’s jealousy. That’s why we’re not ashamed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:12 PM
1

Oh, my bad! Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:05 PM
2

I didn’t say anything about you telling on yourself. And you’re reading something into my words that I never said. I said above average is my favourite. My man is above average. He’s not extreme, and I wouldn’t be with him for very long if he was, because extreme is not as good as average or above average
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:46 PM
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Yes, he’s secure. Wouldn’t be with him if he wasn’t. We’ve both had a variety in sexual experiences, and tried things in the past we wanted to try. He knows it’s something I wanted to try out of curiosity, and I realised it wasn’t practical or fun in the long term. He also knows that I’ve been with men who had micro penises and hated it. It’s not a competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:32 PM
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Not true. https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/how-deep-is-a-vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:20 PM
2

There won’t be a ‘next man.’ My soul mate is above average. I have told him my thoughts on extreme sizes and experience with it. He’s cool. He knows I like his the best
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:02 PM
2

I don’t see anyone body shaming men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:00 PM
0

But he wouldn’t know. And an average can still provide amazing sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:59 PM
1

But in this hypothetical, the man doesn’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:58 PM
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I will never have an average sized partner again. But if I did, I would be perfectly happy with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:57 PM
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Op, you’re saying smaller women have smaller vaginas. But you say women who like big dicks have larger vaginas. I’m a petite woman who likes above average men. By your logic, that means I’m simultaneously small and big in the vagine region 😂 You should educate yourself: https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/how-deep-is-a-vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:53 PM
1

Extreme size can be a fun novelty, but not needed for every sexual encounter. I can be very satisfied with an average size. Above average is my absolute preference. I had one extremely large guy and only managed to have sex with him about three times. It was a turn on, but not something I would want all the time. That would be stressful and too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:48 PM
2

Why? They’ll both still have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:38 PM
1

You obviously haven’t learned about tenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:30 PM
5

They often don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:20 PM
3

He has accepted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:14 PM
1

Not all people wait until bedtime to have sex, just so you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:17 AM
1

We should shower daily. That’s plenty. Doesn’t have to be immediately before sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:08 AM
1

You don’t douche your anus
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:03 AM
3

If anything, the person giving oral is the dominant one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:10 AM
1

Men would have the world’s biggest glow up en masse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:22 AM
1

A shower will not remove the poop high up in your rectum
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:14 AM
1

He’s talking about poop from inside her ass
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:17 AM
2

Nothing. No means no. Life is not a rom com
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:10 AM
8

Doggy and oral aren’t humiliating. They’re hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:35 AM
3

This is very true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:26 AM
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I like the same sex acts no matter the man. But… I tried anal only once. Hated it so I never did it again. The reason I did it with that particular guy was because we were in a long term relationship and we both wanted to try it. Would never have done that in a casual situation. He had a thin dick. I would never have tried it with a guy who had a huge dick. Men with smaller dicks have historically gotten more oral from me because it’s easier and more comfortable. I’ve also given men with small d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:20 AM
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