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DiscussionHailHealer/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:12 PM
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It reads inexperienced, because any man who has dated women before knows that asking her body count is offensive. It's like asking a woman her age. Literally the same concept. It doesn't make it any less important to know a woman's age, but the socially acceptable way to determine her age is to infer it, not to ask. The problem is, women can be good at hiding their behavior, at least in the beginning. I can't tell a woman's body count very easily like I can her age. What I like to do, is to pret…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 12:00 PM
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Not a dick but just not super kind. Kind to women, kind to the waitress. But doesn’t take shit. Will disagree with people. Will escalate situations where he feels he’s slighted. Will get in fights rather than back away. If someone cuts in line he’ll call them out. Bullies tend to have more sexual success than non bullies. Multiple studies show this. Same with sociopaths and narcissists. Even serial killers and murderers are mysteriously attractive to huge swaths of women. The most common ferish …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:52 AM
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I forgot to mention: Attractive men can be pushovers and still be attractive. Their attractiveness can dominate their weak personality. The ideal is, your man is kind of a dick, but he’s nice to you. You are that special person that he treats well. He doesn’t hand out his kindness to anyone and everyone. You, alone, get his kindness. That demolishes women. Basically summed up kindness in its entirety.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:30 AM
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Well that settles it then. Like 60% of the male population being single age 20-35 is not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:56 AM
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I don’t think you’re understanding the key differences between men and women and who can afford to be picky. ‘Oh I just kept my standards and just waited til I found someone who met them’ A lot of Men who do that generally stay alone, and also most people don’t like being alone. Being lonely is generally uncomfortable for 99% of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:50 AM
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You’re a woman. The idea that you can find the right man with a narrow selection criteria without issue makes sense. Us men have to try harder to find a woman who meets any standard. We can’t afford to be nearly as picky. I assume you know that by now, that men have to be less picky? Your experience in dating is not going to be similar to what men experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:36 AM
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Because, enough people voicing their concerns eventually causes a shift in behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:16 AM
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Often times if you ask women their sexual history, they find it very offensive and call you insecure or paranoid. I suppose this tells you everything you need to know but regardless, the question is risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:13 AM
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You’re playing the logical angle here. We get it. Don’t date people who you don’t like. In practice, that’s exactly what you should do. Regardless, it’s okay to say women should behave less like this or more like this. It does have an effect on the behavior of women. Just like culturally, women telling men to stop doing x works. Women begged and pleaded for men to stop approaching them in public. That shit worked amazingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:08 AM
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This is bullshit frankly. Pretending to be kind doesn’t get you laid. Any guy will tell you that he has never gotten in a girls pants by being nice. If anything, it’s the other way around, being a cocky douche works way better for getting laid. It’s simple, you don’t like nice guys because you don’t like nice guys. Kindness signals weakness. Kindness is a strategy where you make yourself non-threatening, accommodating and safe to others in order to benefit in some way or avoid being hurt. That i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:00 AM
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So good looking people and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:24 AM
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Keep taking those showers bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:16 AM
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Girls who have any kind of desire toward u can and will fuck other men Not really, they don't have a strong biological incentive to whore out and rotate men. I am not saying it doesn't happen, but if you treat a woman well, she generally won't care for other men. Just been my observation. How many women do you know who form harems of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:52 AM
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Nah that's just randomly hooking up, I wouldn't even call that dating. Dating, I think, is where you invest in a relationship at some level. Girls who have a burning desire for you will not fuck other guys, even if they have the free option to do so. A woman who seeks commitment cannot afford to fuck around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:55 PM
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Accepting the fact that everyone we meet or interact with would probably give more for less if they found us more attractive is definitely one of the more depressing realities of life One that people need to accept without any hesitancy because it cannot be more true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:47 PM
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Because a woman has a biological clock and everyman she dates has an opportunity cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:40 AM
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A girl with 100 male orbiters has a moral obligation to cut these men off, I'd think
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:16 PM
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If you’re higher status than them they will do anything to please you. I know that, and being in this scenario does not feel good to take advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:52 PM
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If the attraction differential is large enough, the girlfriend experience is offered at a major discount.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:44 PM
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I care because even from a selfish standpoint, I do not enjoy causing pain. It is unpleasant and makes me feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:41 PM
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I am not being intentionally deceitful, but I am not being blatantly obvious. I am not bringing up that I don't want to date them long term very often. This might be a form of deceit that I am not recognizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:38 PM
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I've been this guy for sure. Wanting the perks of commitment without providing the actual commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:35 PM
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You are not obligated to have certain feelings, but it does feel like I am obligated to tell them if I don't have those feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:24 PM
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I have come to understand that I value intimacy too much to do things casually because I also understand that for the women who I can't hurt in casual situations, they don't care about me at all. or the women who do care, I'm fairly sure that I'm hurting them by being unavailable or losing touch or passing out of their life, not feeling things. You put this better than I did. This is exactly what it is. My girl will show that she cares, she will tell me she's not seeing anyone else, she'll tell …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:22 PM
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As a woman ages she loses physical beauty (in 99.9% percent of cases). A 40 year old might think that her value hasn't diminished or act like it hasn't diminished but in reality it almost certainly has. A divorced woman who is 40 who most likely has kids, is not as valued as a 25 year old girl who has never been married. I hope we don't need to argue that point. Not to mention, at 40 years old, your pool of men who are 40+ who are not currently in a marriage is very low. The men who are unmarrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:37 PM
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Yes this is also a great point. For me I just try to be a good person generally, avoid all the manipulative bullshit and if I scare women by being this way, then I will just wait til one is okay with it. I had that phase where I sacrafice my morals to attract women, it works but it is 100% not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:49 PM
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For sure there is a modern grift where women get male attention by glorifying the trad wife lifestyle. That doesn't mean it's a bad lifestyle. In fact, there's tons of studies that show it might actually be beneficial for all involved, the woman, the man and the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:37 PM
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There is no excuse for a man to be a fatass whatsoever. Being fat is bad, it's a physical manifestation of weak will, laziness and unhealthiness. With that being said, a fatass man can still be uber wealthy or super funny or successful and still get showered with female attention. If you are a fat woman, you can't do any of those things and expect men to be increasingly attracted to you. So women really have one job- don't be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:35 PM
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These are great points, but if you want to get women then you have to play by these rules. It's up to you if you are willing to sacrifice your own values potentially in order to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:31 PM
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Yes, you play by nature's rules in order to survive and succeed. What else are you going to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:30 PM
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There are different standards for women and men. This is how it is in the animal kingdom. The big silverback has his harem of women while the smaller one has to operate alone and will likely struggle to survive. The male lion has his pride and if a bigger, stronger lion comes in, that lion will kill him and all his children. Male competes, female selects. You can complain but that is like complaining about the sun shining too bright or the rain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:28 PM
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You are right, religion and society for the past thousand years plus, most men have children. Right now, with how things are shaping up (women dating the same men, lowest marriage rate, lowest rate of dating long term), a smaller pool of men will have a the most children. When there is an abundance of resources, and women don't need men to survive (like they did up until like the 60s), then women have the ability and desire to share top quality men and will choose to do so as it is a natural ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:21 PM
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This applied in the past, but now it is less relevant. The government can take the place of a provider and does for millions of single moms currently. These children of single mothers have a lot of issues, but they can definitely survive and reproduce themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:16 PM
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It's taboo to tell women to their face to lose weight (not for men, I tell my fatass friend to lose weight occasionally). However, not being fat is literally the golden rule for women. As long as you are not fat, you can find a man no problem. Hell, if you are fat you can probably find some black dude who likes that. The reason not being fat is so important is because looks are incredibly valued for women as we all know. It shouldn't be a taboo, it's something you can and should fix and it's a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:54 PM
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The reason men your age don't have issues because the pool of women they are selecting are divorced, past their prime and desperate for another man. Not to mention these women don't have the influence of social media women in their 20s do. Completely different dating experiences for a 40 year old vs a man in his 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:10 PM
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Divorce rates were actually higher in the 80s and 90s than they are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:08 PM
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Yeah Ted Bundy doesn't have the same moral code as Jesus, what's your point? You think it's morally okay to scam desperate losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:21 AM
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I am not crying over a fool losing his money. But this is generally immoral and you should feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:08 PM
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I can see why incels might blame women as a whole for all dating the same 20% of men and complaining about lack of commitment while these incels can't even get a single date. Just like I can see someone getting mad at a snake biting them even though it's acting within it's own nature. At the end of the day, blaming the snake is pointless and childish, but I can see why you'd get mad. I still have sympathy for the guy getting bit by the snake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:41 PM
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Marriage rates are the lowest they have ever been are they not? Same with LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:21 PM
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Is it being sad about women not fucking them or is it sad about having no romantic love in their lives? Personally, I can see both being mentally concerning but one is for undeniably sad. Being a virgin probably does not feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:20 PM
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This is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:08 PM
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Well, can you blame women for engaging in this behavior? Imagine we switch the scenario to men. You are an average man 5/10, you match with 100 women every day (this is legit how many matches women get). All these women are sending some variation of 'hey, what's up'. Most of these women are also 5's but you are also matching with women who are 7's and 8's. Are you going to choose to message the 5's back? Why? If you have a woman who is 5 messaging you 'hey' and an 8 messaging you 'hey' who are y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:27 AM
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Oh is that true?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:11 AM
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You can think a group of people are inferior at certain tasks or activities but not think they are 'inferior human beings'. I think that is the root problem with 'wokism'. If I say I won't hire a woman because she could get pregnant and spend 9 months out of the year not working and I have to pay her wage, that is a rational move to consider. However, progressives will say it's sexist to discriminate based on this reason. 'You won't hire women because you think women are inferior'. They don't co…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:05 AM
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I try operate my life through logic, I genuinely don't understand the logic of the progressive idealogy so I might be stupid in reference to what you think. Ageism is bad in what context? Older individuals are potentially inferior in some ways. Some of those ways are serious and can affect competence. If I were a CEO and I had the choice of hiring between two individuals, one being 29 the other being 75, all else being equal I would hire the 29 year old for a number of reasons. Is that a case of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:12 PM
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Well lets look at 'ageism', yes someone who is 70 will be inferior to me at say sprinting 100 m dash in 99% of cases. Is making that assumption unfair or incorrect? It's not about feelings of superiority it's just about being realistic. Sexism is fine both ways, men and women both have their specific flaws and it's fun to discuss them in a teasing way. It's not that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:49 PM
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100,000 in Dallas. That is a huge percentage of young women in this city. Like mindblowing percentage. The rest of the women might not be on that specific facebook group but still behave in a similar way, sharing the same men. I can speak for myself, I changed some photos, took really good ones and my matches tripled. The more attractive you are, the more exponential your matches. It's just how it is. Women would rather share a high value man than be exclusive with a middle value man. That is, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:42 PM
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'players' behave this way. Players who play with women's emotion and manipulate to have sex are usually attractive-ish men who got hurt and now try to 'get revenge'. Chad has no poor experiences with women. Every chad seems to love women because women love him. Women do not behave poorly on chad, they don't cheat on him, they don't ignore him or branch swing. Chads are rare and women do not want to lose a potential relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:33 PM
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racism, sexism, insecurities, transphobia, homophobia, ageism, conspiracy theories, unpopularpoliticalopinion, tradcon misandry, etc. Goddamn I would have to censor myself so hard I wouldn't be able to say a single sentence around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:30 PM
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Most women don't demand a mansion but yeah it is fair to assume that most women have some kind of financial demands of their man regardless of their own ability to meet those demands themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:06 PM
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Have him look into getting a sleep study done or some way to solve that snoring- snoring can easily take years off your live and reduce your quality of life significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:05 PM
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3 is wrong Hypothetical: Let's say we have 5 women, and 5 men, each women has sex with 3 new partners a year. For the men, one man has sex with 10 new partners a year the rest of the men never have sex. The average new sex partners for both men and women are about the same at 3 but this scenario still reflects the 20/80 rule. The 20/80 rule can apply and the average sex partners for both genders can be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:47 PM
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Women want to pair with the top 20%, that is correct. A woman who is at 50% will go on a date with a top 20% man thinking she will be able to lock him down. She has sex with him with this assumption. She is not trying to just hookup, regardless she has sex in a futile attempt to get him to commit. This is what is happening on a large scale. Almost all young women have some complaint that she can't find a man who is willing to commit to her, where as almost every man can't seem to find a date per…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:34 PM
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Yeah probably the biggest reason not to dabble in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:17 PM
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Being 6 ft 4 and decent looking facially is enough to get laid by default, how much can you attribute your success to muscle when you have two strong variables taken care of
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:16 PM
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Interesting, autism is incredibly genetic so if his dad had it... I can see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:59 PM
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You think Andrew Tate is autistic? He's definitely intelligent and analytical but I wouldn't categorize him as autistic or on the spectrum really. Studies show that autistic men have severe issues with dating. Something about autism is repulsive to women, it's not cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:16 PM
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There have been multiple studies on this. It's not exactly a difficult study to conduct, testing testosterone levels and comparing them to previous decades. Here's another: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7063751/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:49 AM
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Absolutely, agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:23 PM
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I never said it was the primary only reason for all those things. I think when it comes to ED problems that lowering testosterone could certainly be the primary reason though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:23 PM
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Well that's definitely the primary reason why a larger percentage of men are not having sex. I thought we are talking about causes of ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:17 PM
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It's a hormone that impacts a lot of things. It's literally the primary hormone that differentiates us from the entire opposite gender lmao. Yeah it might effect your mind a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:13 PM
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Serious truth to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:29 PM
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Could be lowering testosterone as a trend in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:28 PM
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Top 20% men don't care about what, about long term dating women with high N-counts? I'd say men who are top 20% and have the most to lose when it comes to getting cheated on, divorced, or dumped, care THE MOST. Further, these men are able to be the most selective, meaning they are able to choose whether their partner is slutty or not. The men who don't care, at least from what I've seen, are generally mid to low tier men who take what they get. A man in this category will tell himself he doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:12 PM
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I think it's safe to say, generally, men across all cultures and all societies, across thousands of years even, would select a woman with less previous partners over a woman with many previous partners all else being equal. There is a very logical biological explanation as to why almost all men globally seem to have an aversion towards promiscuous women I can describe if you'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:45 PM
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What benefit are you looking for from being vulnerable around a girl? Ask yourself why you are looking for this in your sexual partner and whether you have more to gain and less to lose being vulnerable around male friends, siblings, and/or parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:40 PM
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That's right, there is a perverse incentive where if you are a woman and you have a kid and no income, you actually are flooded with government money and programs to the point that if you're self interested and want money only for yourself, you might actually pop out a couple kids and just start thriving on that government cheese. This is not a luxurious life but it's not terrible either. The problem is, if the government said enough is enough, if you have a kid, you have to pay for it. Some per…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:01 PM
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Apparently they don't because they keep having children with men who have no money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:21 PM
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What exactly is so offputting about a man with autism/aspergers? I don't think I have ever met an autistic women in real life, but I can't imagine her autistic traits would be so off-putting that I would refuse to date her. People with autism are interesting to talk to, they can be extremely passionate with their hobbies, independent, etc. Why is it such a turn off to women? Talking about high functioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:09 PM
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Huge swaths of children in the US are born without a father in the picture. This trend is getting worse with time. Women need to choose better men to have children with. The consequence of their poor choices is that society has to provide for the kid, and the kid in turn is likely to cost more to society due to his increased proclivity towards poverty and crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:02 PM
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