HailkingCesar Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Dating is a nightmare Try long distance! I felt the same way after divorce , then I tried long distance and it’s working perfect	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/24 12:34 PM
2	Financial ruin (divorce) vs. Wasted life (stay) Bounce back Might take a minute , but it better than being miserable daily and mind games etc	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/24 12:04 AM
8	Financial ruin (divorce) vs. Wasted life (stay) Get the f out and re build finances , can’t get back wasted years . I had to make that same decision. The bounce back can be quick just depends on you	/r/Divorce_Men	07/09/24 05:48 PM
-7	My ex loves telling me about her sex life. She doesn’t like sex with you trying to give you hints to improve or to do like ex	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/24 02:25 AM
5	Should I attend daughter's birthday party if ex brings her new boyfriend, or just have a separate one? Separate , keeps it about the kid and not the other bs	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/24 02:23 AM
8	"Happier After Divorce" brother you have just as much rights as her in any state in America. Get yourself a sensible lawyer (spend the money ) and file for an emergency pick up order that gets the sheriff involved and she will have to comply with that to get your kids. Don’t role over! You have rights!	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/24 01:16 AM
7	"Happier After Divorce" Divorce is never easy, for anyone!. But you shall be made whole again!! , the quicker you hop off the pity train. The quicker you can start to rebuild!!. And your kids will always be your kids you just gotta fight harder to there parent because of the divorce. You got this! Listen to some motivational videos on YouTube and get to work on the new you!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/24 10:19 PM
2	How pissed off should I be? Very pissed! She is patting you on the back while stabbing you in the back , good riddance	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/24 08:17 PM
5	Was marriage worth it? No it wasn’t. Especially don’t do it young !	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/24 05:35 PM
4	I talk a tough game Hang in there brother, regardless of all the shit they put us through and the fights and the emotional nightmares there was good times buried in there so at the end. We’re going to feel no matter how macho we pretend to be . Treat it like a death , grieve and move on. Hope it helps! stay blessed	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/24 03:16 AM
3	Something I just saw Any realtor can sell a house just negotiate the commotion to 4% 2 for buyer agent and 2 for your agent . That saves you and her some money so no reason for her to be opposed to it. As I’m sure her friend is not listing it for free. Both of you have to sign for it to sell so you have power there. I have some experience in this so feel free to reach out if needed. “ don’t let the hard days win” thanks for that!	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/24 08:30 PM
2	Surviving the cost of divorce with two young kids. How did you do it guys? Get a good accountant cook the number on the taxes and revisit the child support, get the 50/50 and you’re good to go!	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/24 03:45 AM
4	Wife Threatened Divorce Brother, i sit here reading your post almost in tears. I can hoestly say i feel your pain as we share the same story minus the child , i brought my child from my previous marriage i was a single dad when i met my now wife and after getting married march 2020 she is now throwing the D word and im at the point where im going to give it to her as the feeling is mutural. my opinon and answer to your question is shoot for a clean break. The thing about it is you can only control what you can control …	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/24 09:51 PM
1	What are some if the red flags in the beginning of the relationship that you missed? Aint that the truth, some other poor guy will be absorbing that problem	/r/Divorce_Men	07/08/24 11:32 PM
2	What are some if the red flags in the beginning of the relationship that you missed? Yea knowing the family dynamic is definitely something that should not be overlooked. I made the same mistake, my ex mother is a textbook narcissist that objectify men . And I somehow thought she would be different than her mom.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/08/24 12:44 AM
1	What are some if the red flags in the beginning of the relationship that you missed? Yup that sounds so familiar, if I didn’t know better I would say they are the same person lol. I used to burst my brain trying to figure out why she is like that . Then I came across a video on YouTube about narcissism. Life is to good to not live it to the fullest with people that deserve us	/r/Divorce_Men	07/08/24 12:40 AM
15	What are some if the red flags in the beginning of the relationship that you missed? One thing I missed that came back to haunt me 7 years down the road and contributing to decision to divorce is the fact that she was never able to take ownership of her actions. If she ever did something to offend me and I verbalize it she was never able to say “ I’m sorry”. Which tells me her feelings are more important than mine. So my advice to anyone in a new relationship and seeing this if it’s important to you do not over look it in the beginning and don’t think you can change people.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/24 04:36 PM
7	I've been separated with no agreement for 5 years My ex just informed me she's not bringing my kid back after having him for a week for the summer and that she's filing papers for custody and registered him at a school in her county. Get an attorney file for an emergency pick up order to block her plan with the kids. You have rights! Then attorney to work out that 50/50 custody plan. Most attorneys have payment plan . Spending the money is better than the headache. I went through similar situation. Just keep it in your head that , “I am the father I have rights!”	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/24 12:57 AM