Haipul Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice) If you are divorcing there is very little else you can do, but honestly your wife doesn't respect you, staying with her was a mistake, divorce her and move on.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/03/26 11:29 AM
-1	My ex wife found out I wrote poetry about her during divorce, now wants to talk Nah he has moved on she is seeing another man.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/24 05:50 AM
-1	My ex wife found out I wrote poetry about her during divorce, now wants to talk How do you know?	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/24 05:46 AM
5	My ex wife found out I wrote poetry about her during divorce, now wants to talk Oh man seriously stop this kind of BS. how do you know he didn't go to the gym, how do you know what helps him or doesn't.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/24 05:44 AM
-6	My ex wife found out I wrote poetry about her during divorce, now wants to talk This is such a toxic comment, yes the gym helps a lot but there are many ways to gain control over your emotions and writting poetry is definitely one, and a commendable one. Who are you to call BS on anything that OP does or doesn't. Also OP doesn't say she cheated they are legally divorced now. But yes OP I don't think you should turn back you have moved on and you will do great.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/24 05:30 AM
2	Went looking for answers..Rock bottom. No sorry that was not what I meant, I meant that the message that all women are like this and things leads to self complacency and are generally used by people that don't want to make the changes that you have made, you are already better than that ignore the people that can't see inwards and keep improving	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/24 09:42 PM
2	Went looking for answers..Rock bottom. man get out of this echo chamber, you messed up you said it yourself, now accept it move on stop blaming others, stop listening to other people that just tell you oh poor you is never your fault. You messed up, she moved on, it doesn't make you a monster it doesn't mean you will always mess up, i5 doesn't make her a vad person either It just means you have to learn and improve. Now you know what you want now you have made the changes that will stop you from losing it again on your next chance go…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/24 09:48 AM
9	Not even a month and she’s sending me stuff about couples that lasted longer than us. Man I would not hangout with someone who falsely accused me of abuse, I would keep contact to a minimum. Also would tell her to stop those text and if she doesn't I would just block her and keep child related communication by email only.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 09:42 PM
1	Admitted to Narc ex wife I still love her why do you feel the need to insult someone asking for advice? Are your insecurities so deep that you need to make other people feel bad to get a bit of validation?	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/24 07:45 AM
1	Need advice, recently divorced Hi, I am very sorry you are going through this, my ex wife also destroyed our marriage in the middle of a career change, and I know you are scared. First and most important take care of yourself, if you have those thoughts remember you are not making the pain go away you are just passing it to the people that really love you. My advice is don't rush things and be open with your family, I was surprised how much on my side they were they cared and protected me beyond my wildest dreams without aski…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/19 12:16 AM
1	Tables are starting to turn on her. And I don’t like it... You will never be happy with her, but you won't be happy if you are not yourself, so don't torture her for the sake of torturing her, do what is right for you. In my case I am being the bigger person but not kind just fair no need for kindness, just treat her respectfully and set your red lines and no unnecessary contact. Its the only way to move forward with no regrets.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/19 10:27 AM
2	Question for you guys Well I am more in your situations than the opposite but when my ex left me, I confronted her on how she had done everything wrong if she wanted out, and was just making my pain sooo bad, her answer was "Because I know you won't stop fighting for me otherwise". It was hard and I still don't know how to take it... I don't know if its your case but do I hope it helps you. Keep strong better times will come.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/07/19 02:14 PM