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| – | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps ExistMen want to have beautiful girlfriends, then put absolutely no effort into their own appearance. While women often spend hours and thousands of dollars a year and loads of mental energy on maintaining beauty standards, the majority of dudes expect to be accepted as they are and barely know how to put together a nice outfit. Then you wonder why she wouldn’t wanna pick someone who makes her look worse side by side because this dude lacks self awareness…… Sorry if you’re losing out to a more attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps ExistI’d say most modern relationships the women seem to lose a bit…..You end up having to often put in a lot more effort than you would have to alone, especially if you’re both working. Plus read some of the comments talking about party girls not going out to clubs or to any social gatherings with guys….. what if you just enjoy going out? You would lose a lot of the fun associated with that and tied down to only being with your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps ExistThe problem is that men have no idea what equal is…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps ExistIs this crazy? My guys friend party this much too….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 08:47 PM |
| 1 | What kind of porn would make you uncomfartable knowing your partner is watching them?Most, but not every. And yes that is kinda my point tho, I wouldn’t be with a dude that only ever looked or preferred fake ‘porn bodies’. Besides some amateur/niche stuff, Most female actors in porn also have big tits, big asses, and flat stomachs (most due to plastic surgery) If my dude only ever got off to women who were somewhat unrealistic and possessed none of the qualities that I have, I would simply believe that I couldn’t be the one he would truly want to be with if given an option. He s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 04:22 PM |
| 8 | What kind of porn would make you uncomfartable knowing your partner is watching them?This doesn’t help. How would you feel if I your girl was watching mainly BBC interracial porn and stared at jacked black dudes in public all the time, but you were a scrawny white guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 03:01 AM |
| 1 | People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating.Hey and that’s totally valid if that’s how you feel and you’re still not comfortable at that point. I just personally wouldn’t consider someone a “stranger” after we had been talking consistently and gone out alone multiple times. In my head if they’ve made it to that point it’s because I trust him and see something genuine that I like within him. BUT to each their own and you deserve to share yourself with someone who respects your values. P.S. this is totally dependent on the depth of our date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 02:33 AM |
| 1 | People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating.Oh I agree fully, and it’s a mindset that I think would turn me off of a guy I was interested in anyways. I’m just mentioning that this is a fear I’ve noticed I internalized when dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 01:42 AM |
| 1 | People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating.I agree. And I also have that fear. I think you should be definitely finding out if the sexual compatibility is at least somewhat there by like the third date. Personally I wouldn’t be waiting months if we had already been around each out her enough for me to know someone well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 11:21 PM |
| 1 | People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating.I think I was with you up until this point. If I were in a relationship with a guy, even if he were trying to be respectful by not coming on too strong too early on, I would start to feel kinda weird if we hadn’t gotten even somewhat physical by like the third date. Sexual compatibility is too important to me to be wasting a whole month on someone with very opposite desires than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 11:18 PM |
| -1 | People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating.I’ve always been told by my guy friends that they could never consider a serious relationship with someone they slept with on the first date/ first meeting, because it makes that woman look easy. For that reason alone I’ll sleep with an attractive guy on the first night if I know that (for whatever reason) this wouldn’t be a serious relationship. If I’m talking to a guy I actually like and hope to really date, then yes I will 100% hold off out of fear of him considering me to be too easy to be h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 09:40 PM |
| 4 | Why does the perception that "most men are physically unattractive or below average" exist among women?Are men not the ones complaining that modern women are getting too fat and becoming less attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Why does the perception that "most men are physically unattractive or below average" exist among women?Because we create a society full of rizz-less attractive people who have no social skills….. kinda where we’re started to head now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveMy guy, you are not recovering ❤️🩹 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 02:38 PM |
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