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HairyNormus199/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 01:33 AM
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I would agree with the expectations part. This post mainly touches upon the unfulfilling sexual marketplace of which some (me included) feels that its having a huge negative impact on this country. While unrealistic expectations go in hand with such unfullfillment, I was looking for solutions to which would help those struggling with sex/relationships for the many. Unfortunately no such luck yet... people would much rather bash and hate rather than give actual solutions to the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 06:59 PM
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I personally know hundreds if not thousands of men Umm, why is that so hard to believe? I've been on this planet long enough to meet that many men. And no there isn't really that much data related to how lack of casual sex directly leads to depression. This is just based on my experiences and how common men complain about this issue, of which most seem to have at least some level of depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 06:54 PM
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I'm just expressing my opinion. If people want to reply with their panties in a bunch, that's on them. Could care less, just looking to get more insight on this issue that's all. But yes thank you for being positive out of the many who would rather bash than be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 06:44 PM
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Haters gonna hate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 06:41 PM
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Well, I did have a history of depression (it was pretty bad, but over the years I've gotten a lot better). But it's not like I'd come up to a woman all depressed n shit, I actually spit game. Other than that, literally nothing else. EDIT: I forgot to mention that I used to be quite religious as well. EDIT 2: I don't know if this applies, but I do think I try too hard sometimes. That might be something else, tho not exactly sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 03:42 AM
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No man... I legitimately look like a model and have a body of a pro wrestler (I'm somewhat buff). I spent the last 5 years trying to make myself as attractive as possible, it did pay off in some ways but I'm still not getting the results I want. And you're sure it's cause I'm not Korean? Racism still is a thing in this country.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 03:36 AM
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Yea, I would've thought the same had the results matched that expectation. Unfortunately, not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 03:33 AM
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Korean
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 03:31 AM
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Sure... so in the past I've joined a group in NYC that focused on dating and what men can do to make themselves more attractive. It's a 6-7 week program where we discuss fashion, personality traits, and styles that make men more attractive and also includes going out to bars and public places to chat up attractive women. Through this group (and other groups) I've met friends that I would go out with for fun. With these groups and friends, going to bars, clubs, the like, and over the course of 3 …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 03:27 AM
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tnx :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 03:12 AM
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Ok... so now we have people saying that the dating market isn't so bad. BUT, maybe I forgot to mention something relevant... the fact that I'm Asian. Yep. Had to do it, I pulled the race card, but let me explain. I'm quite attractive in terms of physical looks (I legitimately look like a model and have the body of a football player). Not only that, I have a solid career, make good money, and pretty much take care of myself. And yet, me (and other friends of mine) struggle with dating despite the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 03:11 AM
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Where do you live? Here in the NJ/NYC area it seems quite insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:50 AM
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Where do you live and how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:45 AM
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2 I'll give you since I'm not fully versed in that subject, 3 I'm still on the fence about since there IS a rise in mental illness (subjective well-being is generally hard to quantify and thus not really something I would consider solid as compared to a diagnosis from a doctor), but 4 I would still argue against. How many guy friends do you even have? I've been in the army, in college, worked as a school teacher, worked at church, community services, I've even been in prison, and 70% of all men …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:44 AM
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Well, I've come to that conclusion obviously through life experiences. It's not like I pulled this out of my ass and wanted to say it just cause. Not sure where you live, but here in NJ/NYC area, people can be somewhat... depraved? It's like literally nothing else matters to them but what they want. I've constantly seen men AND women get shit on by the person they chase and it just seems to be a constant shitstorm of "fuck everyone else" and people start acting the fool. Literally had a girl div…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:35 AM
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Few and far in between I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:32 AM
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Yes women have worked, but it wasn't comparable to the labors of men in the past. There sure weren't any female lawyers/doctors back in the day were there? The feminist movement was about equal rights (ie. voting, the job market, etc). What I'm focusing on is the sexual market, the past and present. Actually false. In fact, both men and women have higher suicide rates today as compared that to the past. Not only that, mental illness has been on the rise and continues to increase as time goes by.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:29 AM
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Ok... so who's enjoying the dating scene then besides alpha men? Cause I sure as hell don't see any man nor woman who's happy in their current relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:22 AM
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So then what do you suggest for today? Cause obviously the vast majority of people HATE the dating game and it's a rampant issue in this country. I'm not saying we should use forced control. I'm saying we, as a nation, should push for family values and loyalty in hopes of creating a fairer, less frustrating dating market. This society puts WAY too much emphasis on "easy sex" and "fuck everyone else ima keep taking this dick" and it just leads to a whole host of preventable issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:14 AM
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*Books
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:06 AM
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Yes that definitely did happen in the past, but at the very least it forced other families to work out differences. Today, we instead get "tally hoe bitches I'm out" from many females today. Yes, pros and cons... but I think the family structure was better in the past than today. Families lasted longer, children generally had 2 parents, and people didn't have identity issues like we do today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:05 AM
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Well, if you don't want to read the relevant studies that I have provided, then that's your problem not mine. Can't handle the heat? Get out the kitchen :P
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:02 AM
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> Life was miserable and little things made people happy, now life is happy and little things make people miserable. This
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 01:58 AM
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Not talking in terms of economics (though I'm aware that it does have an impact on dating and sexuality) but was more focused on how a family stood together. Yes, in the past there were ALOT more shit to deal with as compared to today, but it doesn't detract from the fact that women stayed loyal to their men and endured hardships along with them. Today there is hardly any loyalty on either side. A relationship must have a certain amount of trust and loyalty; of which was more abundant in the pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 01:54 AM
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It's funny... the internet people act all tough but in real life are actually quite timid. Guess people have to compensate in their own way huh? And what about the other 2 studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 01:52 AM
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Right, that's why I had in parentheses that there were still some issues. Yes there were issues like domestic violence and the like but that doesn't mean a traditional house hold family is bad, all we literally had to do is prevent abuse and that would've been good enough. And yea, the status quo wasn't happy simply because most wanted to chase after an unattainable fantasy (which again has led to the shit in today's society). My point still stands... in fact you haven't even provided a counter …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 01:49 AM
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They do. Have you read the studies? And what's with the shit attitude, chill out son it's just reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 01:45 AM
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Umm... they sure did happen. And, so what? Still doesn't detract from my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 01:43 AM
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Ugh... if you really need studies I'll go ahead and link them. If anything else, this is actually common knowledge. Here are some studies: Diener, E., & Biswas-Diener, R. (2008). Happiness: Unlocking the mysteries of psychological wealth. Malden, MA: Blackwell Publishing. Stevenson, B., & Wolfers, J. (2009). The paradox of declining female happiness. American Economic Journal, 1(2), 190-225 Skodol, A.E. (2010). The resilient personality. In J.W. Reich, A.J. Zautra, & J.S. Hall (Eds.), Handbook o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 01:42 AM
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Heh, you'd be very surprised. No high SMV male what's to settle down? Guys like Warren Buffet and tons of famous American actors have settled down despite having extremely high SMV's. Sure, any high quality male will definitely have a period in his life where he'll sleep around, but eventually it gets boring and men usually end up wanting a life long partner anyways. And she definitely has a choice, she just has to work towards her best self. If you've seen the women on RPW, they're obviously ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 06:42 PM
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Ok... that's fine. Shitty men and women are everywhere... if she wants a high quality man focus on getting a high quality man and ignore what you don't like. I've been taken advantage of by many women in the past (time wasters, dinner dashers, lying cheating sluts) but that doesn't stop me from working on myself in pursuit of higher quality females. Dont focus on what you dont want... focus on what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 06:27 PM
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How does that not make sense? I'm not saying to settle, in fact I'm saying the opposite. All you literally have to do is work on increasing your own SMV in order to attract higher quality mates. Goes for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 06:21 PM
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True, but complaining about men IS optional. It'd be better if OP simply accepted men as they are and not focus on the negative side of masculinity.. In fact her energies would be much better spent if she focused on increasing her own SMV rather than complaining about not being able to lock down an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 03:51 PM
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If you're so concerned with being replaced, why not just get with a nice guy? There are literally millions of men out there who are willing (if not desperate) to settle down with an average woman. The only complaint I can see is you not being able to lock down an alpha, which really shouldn't be a complaint given the big discrepancy in SMV. The men you are describing so happen to be the top 10 percent of all men in terms of SMV, which is only a small portion of all men. Why not take a look at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 09:19 PM
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Honestly, that's the way it should be. It seems like everyone wins in this situation... unfortunately not really the case for our society at large.
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