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It doesn't matter if it was 6 figures. Both parties need to step up and be extra loving.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:44 PM
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She gives her love and unpaid labor. He gives what he can to help the family. The government is to blame for financial hardship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:42 PM
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He has unconditional love from me. I am not paying an electric bill when my husband has past 8 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:39 PM
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Why would someone leave someone they adore? I am told "Love you" several times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:17 PM
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Men don't leave women they adore
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:57 PM
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This is why you get alimony and child support. You also don't pay for dates. A guy that takes money from women is weak. 18 years in and I don't pay anything. Once he tried to get me to pay an electric bill. I just let it shut off and food rot. When you married you share everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:09 AM
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Money can't buy class.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:00 PM
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Not a fantasy. Was my reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:40 PM
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Yeah they shouldn't lie about wanting wife and family when they just want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:58 PM
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No I am saying that marriage minded women thinking they might have found a potential life partner get sweet talked and misrepresented by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:41 PM
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No as a strategy to get women to open their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:05 PM
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Ok listen honey........ The people in hookup culture are living on a frequency. When the men encounter their dream lady like myself we have no interest in them. They get turned down by virtuous low body count women. The monogamous lady who is smart, kind, not ran through, level headed, considerate, unselfish, and would make a great wife...... She is not interested in his game.... Then he pines for her and she is not interested! He has to settle for gold diggers, drunks, drama queens, and crazy g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:55 AM
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Was describing what men do to obtain sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:34 AM
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They future fake... point illusions of you mothering their kids.... they compliment and do all types of manipulation tactics
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:48 AM
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Omg Men act all committed and attentive. They get what they want and disappear. Use-use is no excuse for selfish hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:29 AM
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Once you get a taste of excitement it's hard to water down for a guy that just tows the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:54 PM
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That's an accomplishment when I see that divorce rate. Terrible people were ditched.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:03 AM
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No for you. For everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:55 AM
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I actually think two souls find each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:17 AM
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Wrong.... poverty is worldwide.... Broke people get partners. They are just normally not the types you and I want. You are upset that the women find you boring and don't want you. Ask women about boring men: They work, gym, watch Netflix, hike, hang out with their family, and get two weeks vacation a year. It's run-of-the-mill. Women are bored by this dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:12 AM
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Yes pretty privilege helped me but high EQ and high IQ was more of an advantage. Men can get women at any twist and turn. I have witnessed homeless people getting lots of sex and having partners. They might scream and yell and be petty and struggle for money.... but they are partnered. One is often waiting for the other to get out of jail. So no....... People that say this are just mad the pretty girl they like doesn't like them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:53 AM
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Not sure what type of women you attract but this isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:25 AM
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I have a younger man 18 years. He is attractive to me but does dress like a scarecrow
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:05 PM
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Reminiscing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:39 PM
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I am both
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:44 AM
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Are they teens? Seems like a 39 year old never married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:37 AM
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He claims he is tired of "hoops" Wow wait until married life stress gets too hard. Insurance companies, cars breaking down, appliances need replaced, tax bills, blowout diapers, long work days, defunct governments, dying parents.... He just announced he cannot handle any mental load of life. Beta energy. Let the Mommies date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:45 AM
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Damn these whiney ass men don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:31 AM
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You are not taken advantage of if someone better than you comes around. There is ms. And mr. RIGHT and Ms. And Mr. RIGHT NOW. Learn the difference and quit whining
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:11 AM
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Men waste money because they are lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:31 AM
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Your definition of "using" is you spending $30 and a gal not sleeping with you immediately. GTFO
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:29 AM
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OMFG this is hilarious 😂 What you see as simping is the bare minimum. Enjoy your mids.... Us hotties know our worth. We are also smarter than some men and understand that men like providing. We plan to spread our legs and have men impregnate us with their sperm. We understand once this happens our dating prospects decrease by 75% because if we become a widow or single Mom less people are going to want us until we become older. Stop pontificating biology just because you are not a gals first choi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:23 AM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/thepassportbros/s/Z0l5iipamy That's my cousin with his passport honey and this got 1.3 million views on passportbro sub. YOU ARE WRONG or JEALOUS I would love a Foreign blue eyed with accent and beach house to come rescue me if I didn't already have a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:08 PM
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You talk too much. She doesn't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:50 PM
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It's not looks. It's confidence things are going to work out just fine and life will turn out in a great way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:42 PM
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Nope. Never slept with my husband until our wedding night.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:49 AM
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Your worldview is Scandinavian themed. Thankfully women of high caliber don't fall for it. So you might be factually correct.... but on a mathematical standpoint you are false. So lets say a foxy lady has been out with 7 or 8 guys in the past and done nothing with any of them. Now she has a free night in her upcoming weekend..... you made her pay her half..... so she is not going to pick you if you call her. You left a bad impression. She is going to say no she has plans and go out with one of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:38 AM
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Ok that is your worldview. If he cannot save, organize, strategize, study, or afford to date...... he needs to plan free dates like picnics. In our grandparents era there were dances to meet people at local dance halls, school gyms, town squares, or churches. Men could take women to ice cream parlors, skating, bowling, and hamburger joints and get a girlfriend or eventual wife. We need to bring that back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:26 AM
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I have been to 34 countries. The more financially destitute a place is the more average loser men get wives. The USA just needs to financial downturn and the tattoos will get removed, the nose rings leave, and the sassy jeans get put away. They will be groomed, polite, and wearing dresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:12 PM
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Smart. Their eggs are valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:05 PM
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They cannot help it. Lots of women have become nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:04 PM
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Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:03 PM
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No I am in a Cabin on a beach
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:02 PM
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I like a Sigma Male
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:58 PM
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The most responsible thing to do is not pay. Women that pay rob their man of his manliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:57 PM
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Men are so desperate for a woman they can buy dinner for they have turned to passportbros
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:33 AM
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Are you single or divorced? Real men like to provide, feed, and protect. If you cannot buy dinner.... you cannot buy diapers. Ironically your types end up paying alimony and child support because you folks are pennywise and pound foolish. Women ditch your types and her new boyfriend buys her dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:33 AM
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Lol my husband has past 8 figures. If you cannot organize your life to work five days and squeeze out $30 for a meal.... I just feel badly for her. Not paying= not a Sigma male Not paying= Beta
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:04 AM
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You don't owe anyone anything. The man pays or no second date. You can attract hobosexuals but I won't entertain that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:42 AM
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Nope. Not Dutch dating. If you cannot buy dinner you look cheap, disorganized, and arrogant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:27 AM
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I am not into transactional love. I want sex and to give sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:51 AM
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He said it's "too much work" which is exactly what he doesn't understand about female mate selection. We actually evaluate men based on if they can work for future kids and us. They studied science of attraction and women were attracted to wide large shoulders. That correlates to work and labor. He gripes it's too hard to plan dates? WTF? It takes zero effort to click a reservation somewhere at a set time. Zero effort to find a nice trail to hike or put a blanket in a car and order a charcuterie…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:11 PM
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Lazy low testosterone man wants Miss America to beg him for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:34 AM
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Fines would be inflicted on me constantly. It's just not a good system.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:51 AM
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I would be broke paying to ride the pony every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:25 AM
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They dish out sex right when you are on the cusp of doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:52 PM
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Absolutely 💯 Forced Celibacy is abuse!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:46 PM
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You fly to Tblisi Georgia. The place is a honeypot of virgins. You go from a 6-7 here in the USA to a 10 as soon as you land. They are a Christian nation and the women will adore you like the 1950s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:31 PM
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Omg yes they were smitten. Once they were rotating women in and out I lost interest. Married me a Catholic guy, low body count, tall, smart, good looking, and rich... lol 18 years later still going strong. Not perfectly but A- or B+
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:25 PM
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I thought you were a disgruntled man upset he is on a roster, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:05 PM
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If casual sex is your world paradigm there are lots of layers and nuances to hookup culture. When you go to find a virtuous wife who doesn't sleep around....... she doesn't want you and your body count. I turned down men for sex showing up driving a Lotus. You can have the loose women all you want...... Us keepers have moved on from your fuckboy college paradigm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 01:58 PM
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https://phys.org/news/2025-09-people-neural-responses-videos-friends.html This science study is looking into it. This is why certain folks gravitate towards eachother. I never had any interest in a career man. I was into whitewater rafting and sorted through that lens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:30 PM
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You believe so many lies it's hilarious! This is obviously written by a boss babe passed over. Men will fall in love with anything cute. Matt Damon married a bartender. Yes career people gravitate towards eachother for survival. One figures that them together being ambitious and building would render them better off. I have a 1% husband who doesn't make me work and guess what???? I am a 1% in other attributes like being ultra supportive. Not many women can handle a partner coming to them confess…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:49 PM
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Nope 18 years together We are headed to our 31st country next month. You can be in love and traveling and having fun cuddles. Your parents just grew apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:06 PM
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It's called a marriage. He gets a foxy lady ready for sex and cuddles. He pounded me out pretty well yesterday at the hotel. I get an excellent Dad for my kid, and someone to pay the light bill. He gets a fun person to play fantasy football with him and go on walks. When men get older their buddies are busy working and with kids. They will be very lonely if we are gone. It works out and is a good system. I am thankful and don't take him for granted. If he gets sick I will step up and take care o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:25 PM
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We don't just look at men for money. Many of us are highly sexual and like to ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:09 AM
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Normally guys that think like this are very broke and didn't prepare his life for a family. He is in trauma because his ex girlfriend dumped him and her new man has better means...... We like guys that make us laugh and make us feel safe. We like guys that are good with children and great with our parents. My husband talks to my lonely elderly Dad on the phone for hours. Of course we like a guy with a decent career that can buy us dinner! Who the heck wants some drama starvation with a lazy diso…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:38 AM
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Yes and what did that get you??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 08:11 PM
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You need a soft sweet feminine tradwife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 07:28 PM
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I don't think he is gay when they date and marry but over time the lust increases. The appetite wanders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 07:24 PM
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The men that always think this way are broke and have very little. The ones with real money don't act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:39 AM
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It was 27 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:04 PM
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In your twisted world. My exes still reach out or did for a long time. My first serious relationship called me the "Gold Standard" of women. My husband adores me. Maybe he secretly doesn't, according to you? Us ladies have seen men simp for us soooo badly we just can't fathom what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:00 AM
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They are not elitist. A person cannot meet enough people in a day that would make a great spouse. He was living three hours away. I would have never met him. My name starts with "A" and my mom did that so I would be on the top of lists. It worked well because they alphabetically listed out people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:18 AM
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Hire a matchmaker. Worked well for us. He got a busty brunette always smiling and I got a younger man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:18 AM
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I have been to Pattaya... username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:16 PM
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Those women go for the wrong traits. You have to go for the men that have no interest in dance clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:34 PM
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If he is single and lives with his folks it is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:30 AM
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There is some truth to that. The less attractive guy needs to work harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:03 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:47 PM
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I only know the female pros.... We get to feel a little baby inside of us tapping and kicking. It is a surreal experience to carry and birth life. The cons is we have to be scared of our safety. Violent men with bad intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 08:02 AM
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Ummmmm no buddy.... you just don't know how to sweet talk us ladies. My proclivity was always nerdy simps. They could be either Alpha or Beta. I actually got one that is a hybrid of both. Men don't know how to woo or charm us past a few dates. I hired a matchmaker and one man showed up with his work uniform on. My husband showed up with potted Daisys.... most of my dates brought roses. Now men don't bother. They don't bring anything. We also don't like video game boyz.... When I was young and fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 11:41 AM
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Yes she has several bodyguards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:56 PM
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She is a billionaire. She makes in a week off what he has to earn for several years. He has nothing financial to offer her except not being a spendthrift.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:51 PM
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He is a sugar baby at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:42 PM
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Investors help launch games
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:53 PM
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Ok we have and hold early Activation Blizzard stock. We want to be with the type that plays the games in this manner. 😎😎😎😎😵🤑🤑🤑
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:46 PM
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Sounds like a keeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:39 PM
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I have a very loving, sweet husband with lots of money. What women like now are men who know how to harness tech and pull out of decades of labor early. Taylor Swift likes a tall masculine man because she is stalked constantly and has had weirdos show up inside her property and her Dad's house uninvited. Each lady will have her own proclivity. Some women dig men in uniform, and you won't change her. Other ladies are suckered by musical men. Men need to get off the video game portal because no la…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:34 PM
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You might be right. I was in Prague last month. People were married for desperation maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:36 AM
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I feel like if housing and good paying jobs for men were plentiful more marriages would flourish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:59 PM
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No hookup culture causes men to not get married and have kids. There is always someone new to start a relationship with. So early stage relationships become normal. FWB, F buddies, situationships....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:56 PM
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I feel like hookup culture benefits men more than women short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:49 AM
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Men just want sex. He is not really caring that much because he doesn't have a plan to live with her. He wants to pump her and squeeze her body parts and get her to suck on him. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:58 AM
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No, it is because us ladies lay in bed thinking about former lovers. He doesn't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:04 AM
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The problem with hookup culture is it makes men less willing to settle down. It creates a childfree or IVF culture. If men can have "free" sex with a variety of partners, he is not going to rush to marry one. This creates childfree women that can't satisfy a man. This is why I found a younger man to marry with a low body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:02 AM
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No what it is.... the women have increasingly become boyish.... Nostril rings, tattoos, wearing jeans and sneakers... Hair that is rainbow colored, and some of the ladies do not bother to diet or restrict their carbs. Some cuss like sailors. Other ladies dress so scantily they are embarrassed to be seen with them. There is a myriad of reasons. Some just like exotic accents. They like the nurture that foreigners provide. Home cooked food, taking walks, and flirting....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:30 AM
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Harder for men than women. I am just a romantic lady, so I find the beauty in people and focus on that. I don't zoom in on flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:41 AM
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No I was looking for a good Dad to my offspring. Money only enhances that. My husband plays with our daughter six hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:25 PM
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My mom is a big gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:48 PM
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I have a wealthy husband and it wasn't the money. I was looking for good genetics and someone that would be a good father to our evental kids. Everyone that says women are just gold diggers are very ignorant. We are looking for someone we think will go the distance with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:57 AM
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It is the downside of the internet... I remember in 1999 or so my Dad discovered Mail order Bride flirtation websites...... Ever since then he has swapped out his wives every so often. He is 78 and following and flirting with catfish women that entice him. Once he started cleaning the house because a lady was driving out from Lake Tahoe to his home in Las Vegas to move in with him. These predators online are hilarious! For him it is not porn but the fact he even flew to Russia once to rescue a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:07 PM
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Not at all. This is feminist hogwash. Women are looking for a man to stick around and raise kids. Men want to be admired and respected. Everything else is just nuances.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:18 PM
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Absolutely not!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:53 PM
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Not always
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:09 PM
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You men rejected women like me. Sure I was gorgeous and got lots of dates. I was never dumped once in a relationship.... However I turned several of you off with my personality because I didn't have proper dating skills. The guys routinely reject adventurous women, creative, "ubstable" and self employed.... Men like school teacher nurse types with stable jobs that want to cook and watch TV with them. I was interested in business, investment, adventurous travel, whitewater rafting, flying, and au…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:36 PM
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Honey I just want sex from my husband. He can do the dishes. I am not cooking anything and he does his own laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:37 AM
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Fasting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:17 PM
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Ok, I get to speak up because I have a wealthy husband. The extra resources do gain men access to perceived better spouses, and it is not a transaction. Men complain about everything.... not just women that like higher earners.... and that is a good thing. The complaints of humans are what makes society progress. I am glad people were not satisfied with desktop computers. The men and their gripes put these awesome phones in our hands. I love jamming on my headphones. The hilarious thing about wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 12:48 PM
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Thanks for pointing this out. I never considered the farthest end of the Bell Curve. I was great looking with curves and had lots of prospects and could easily partner. I never pondered the men that nobody wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:51 AM
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That's your problem... you live in "average" land... Us that live with more intensity don't fit into your assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:44 AM
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In three hours this hottie is having her husband fly her and their kid to the French Rivera. I am sorry if you dislike hotties but we cannot help it. Men want to date us, marry us, sleep with us, cheat with us, flirt with us.... Men are men and I think it is healthy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 05:27 PM
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That is why you are on Reddit this morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:20 PM
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It becomes a cluster. It is looks+personality+comfort+humor+decision making+charm+intelligence It is a package and we get very attracted. My husband looks like a scarecrow but I am attracted to him. When someone treats you well, is reliable, smart, and a family man he becomes irresistible. I would ride my husband every night if he was in the mood. Work on your categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:41 AM
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I am well aware. I spend time there every summer for about three weeks. Each country has different nuances. The men not having luck on apps is because the women have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:27 PM
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We don't monkeybranch.... Us flowers have bees that buzz around us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:43 PM
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I gave up boss babe life for tradwife living. It only works when the guy is a wealthy nerdy simp. Some will disagree with me but submitting to a guy that can barely make the bills is not fun for anyone. I ask my man permission on a lot of stuff. He has demonstrated decade after decade of good decisions. I am wanting a beach house but he keeps taking me to different beaches. Often the brokest incompetent guy is the one wanting a housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:25 PM
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You buy too much into this. Us hotties go QUICKLY and are rarely single. If we have a boyfriend we normally have a waiting list or rafters of men that we could transition into. Almost no desirable lady is single. They get picked off quickly! You folks are pontificating about the leftovers and how to approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:07 PM
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You have so many incoherent ramblings. The problem is the culture and not the people. My husband and I hired matchmakers and met in our 20s and are living happily ever after. My cousin fled the blue haired feminists and moved overseas. He wed a 28 year old smokeshow tradwife virgin. She cooks and hand feeds him. I promise it is the culture and not the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 10:52 AM
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They are so loveable though. I am married so only get one. Women cause a lot of drama also. We are hot and heavy one moment and disinterested the next. Single moms are better than childfree. I went back and forth between Mom and Dad being single. Broken homes are great launching pads. I felt so much underwhelm by them I found a husband I thought I could go the distance with. We are 17 years together and provide a perfect home environment for our daughter. Daughter is thriving on all metrics. Onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:43 AM
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I had a 38 year old virgin hot for me. He lived too far away and I didn't want to move there. He was an exceptional date and would make an amazing husband. I hope someone figured that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:03 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:44 PM
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I call my husband poppy short for Papa. We have a kid together.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:42 PM
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He hasn't studied Christian doctrine enough. He is probably unreligious. The very first thing Jesus says is he waits at the door and knocks. He wants to come in and have a meal together. Eating food together can be bonding for some. He thinks he is going to rewrite how people get hungry a few times a day. He had a few bad dates with some gold diggers and is a traumatized philosopher. He will be with B women or mid his entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:38 PM
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The fact she kept her app on after a date with him is most telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:47 AM
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Say it louder for those silly enough to commiserate with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:42 AM
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He is the Avarice whiner and woman hater.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:41 AM
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Did you use women for their bodies??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:37 AM
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You cant say that we are looking for free dinner when our interests is a Dad for our kids and a pair bond. You are liar trying to find a sugar momma.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:07 AM
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So now you admit you are a sexual predator... you use women... People accuse others of what they do themselves. You have outed yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:54 AM
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You said we are in business. I am saying we are shopping for an insemination and pair bond partner. We will be grossed out if you act weird but you will blame money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:37 AM
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It is not like that honey. You have no clue. In a society with no cash or currency we would be going for other manly attributes. We would be looking for the guy that brings the meat out of the woods. The guy that sings the best. I bet you have no musical skills. The guy that organizes scavenger hunts with the neighbor kids. These are two examples of men that we want to sit on their faces. One had money and the other didn't. I guarantee you are not like these men so you have to pout and falsely p…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:34 AM
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You are butt hurt she found some taller guy with a better job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:57 AM
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You suffer from Avarice. There will come a day that the woman you like won't like you back. You have Scandinavian ideals and need to date there where they normalized this behavior. Those are your people. I like a manly man and was gorgeous so wouldn't waste time with you as a B level date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:49 AM
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You sound like a victim of gold digger and needy women. You seek out dependent ladies and then whine about it. The facts are independent women don't want you because of your personality or habits. My husband the apex provider is loved by me because he censors his tongue and doesn't remind me of my shortcomings. He dotes on our daughter 24 hours a day. He is actually quite cheap. He hoards money in banks and investments. He is loved because he is smart and a kind soul. I am sorry you see women as…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:39 AM
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I like a nuclear stable family. I had good men around growing up. Dad, brothers, cousins, grandpa.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:07 PM
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Reddit is a trashcan.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:38 AM
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Exactly 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:50 PM
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Maybe she knows this and is looking for an extension because her current gig is up in 13 years once the kid is 18
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:29 AM
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Well she gets 13 more years but I am concerned he could go broke or pass away. He is older.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:44 AM
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Crazy....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:24 PM
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This is 100% true. We play with her kid and our kid. She has narcissistic tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:22 PM
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Thank you. She is just a ball of crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:24 PM
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45, 42
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:49 PM
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She did trap an older man for child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:35 PM
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I don't know the laws but maybe she is mentally ill?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:22 PM
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She claims he donated sperm to lesbian couples and kids are being born. They are full on hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:12 PM
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They met on a sperm donor agency website app.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:58 AM
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They even both got genetic tests done!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:42 AM
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Just her telling me about it. My husband is grossed out hearing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:05 AM
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We see her often. Play dates with our kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:03 AM
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Why someone would want a child with no Dad or man in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:00 AM
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No this is 100% true. I am in shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:49 AM
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We have play dates with her constantly. Our kids play.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:48 AM
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Not mine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:07 PM
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No it is how they get dopamine hits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:03 PM
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We are going to disagree on too much. Nerds to me are the type that get dopamine hits from studying. Watching jeopardy instead of bar hopping. Nerds stay indoors and don't like tons of sunshine. They like statistics on baseball rather than drag racing. Nerdy guys like museums over dance clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:31 PM
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Honey my nerdy husband has got our family a very high net worth. He speaks 5 languages and use to keep 40 huge books in his trunk at all times looking up words. I was a solid 9 hottie with unlimited dates. Bad boys and F boys had no attractiveness me. I like low body counts. Serena Williams and Paris Hilton both went for nerds. They make good family men and are great with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:11 PM
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There are no leagues. That is your own brainwash stemming from some old fashion out dated caste system. We are all equal in the eyes of God. People gravitate towards certain lovers because that is what is in their neighborhoods. You sleep with people within travel distance. I have a proclivity for nerdy simps. So if I was single and prowling around the men I would be sitting on and riding would be those types. Tell me about your favorite Star Wars Episode honey!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:51 PM
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This is very true and also false. I know homeless people that have lovers constantly. The dynamics are weird. Some are overweight. One had warrants and was always skiddish. Another is a prostitute and hooks up in vans constantly. All of this drama goes on in the industrial park where I have my creative space. Your ideology is false. You just want women that are out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 06:18 AM
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We can go back and forth all day about your Sovereign Wealth Fund, about this and that.... The point is your culture is barely having any kids. Kids are the joy in life. Do you think Magnus Carlsen has his gorgeous now wife paying for her dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:10 AM
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She serves the government. That is her man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:57 AM
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Six million people pumping natural gas and/or oil. Generous social benefits. Dates where women pay half. Beastialty brothels barely getting shut down ten years ago. American women are best served when a man pays for her dates and her lifestyle after marriage. I am also biased watching my mom in California be a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:50 AM
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Women are not a waste... The attitude will keep you single or with B rated partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:41 PM
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He is not smart if he has that mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:24 PM
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Not paying for women is too Scandinavian for me. That system is not equal it is marrying the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:03 PM
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No it happened. We are rare. I have lots of eccentric behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:01 PM
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Use them for what? It got to be a hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:16 PM
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No I wouldn't F any of them until married. Tight as can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:16 PM
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Let me explain this from a perspective of a formerly gorgeous lady that could get any date anytime. I looked like Katie Holmes but with more voluptuous body... We expect you to pay for the date because we think you are smart... Smart men would know math... Let's say a gal has five guys asking her out for a 2nd date.... do you think she is going to go with the guy that makes her pay or the one that will show up with flowers on time and take her somewhere nice? Let's calculate the complete destruc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:38 PM
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The vaccines are not going to prevent that. They actually do not work. Yes women get replaced. I found a nerdy simp nobody wants. That was my best strategy to keep a man with your mentality out of my life. It is sad that we live in a society like this. Lots of women take their men for granted. Lots of men don't know how to please women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:40 AM
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Men extracting beauty years from women and leaving her alone is nothing new. It has been like this forever. Women taking men to the cleaners that work nonstop is nothing new. We have several alimony/child support renters. You cant sleep around because HPV is spread through using condoms, oral sex. It causes throat cancers and cervical cancer. I wanted to be in hookup culture when I was young but terrified of disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:30 AM
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My Dad married six times buddy. At some point look in the mirror and it is you and not the spouse. Most people on this planet are underwhelming. Mix matched sex drives, different financial goals, health problems.... there is also financial pressures
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:21 AM
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Some people are not meant to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:11 AM
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You might be tangled in dysfunctional relationships but there are plenty of good multi decade ones. The older you get the more comfort you seek. I bought a massage chair for my husband and rub him every day. We share a kid. I am losing weight. He is losing his hair. When someone is comfort loving its less about wrinkles and more about that person being apart of you. Yes it is unfortunate people let themselves go. There will always be sexy people around that posess qualities your partner doesn't.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:59 AM
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Omg my husband constantly rambles. It drains me if it is more than 30 minutes. That being said, the quiet guys are worse. Us ladies can not win!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:03 AM
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I wouldn't date video games guys. I am talking about outdoor stuff, watching sports, their cars, or what they like. For my husband it is a lot of sports. I watch games with him.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 03:42 PM
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I waited 8 years until I was married to sleep with my husband. I am very traditional and old fashion. I want to be completely owned. Not rented out and test driven. OWNED and property of my husband. Likewise I want to own him and remind him that I own his body.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 02:49 PM
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Men love low body counts.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 01:07 AM
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OK first you have to have your dating skills down. Once you know how to date then you can get scooped up. It depends where you live. What is your location?
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 12:42 AM
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It is extremely hard. It took me a very long time. The way to do it is be fit and in shape. Have long hair. Wear a dress or skirt most days with earrings. Keep or remove all tattoos and dont wear jeans. Smile at them. Go for the nerdy simps. Forget the bad boys, F boys, and ones with emotional problems. Do not sleep around or put out. The sub says you should but I didn't. Enjoy their hobbies. Whatever they like is your interest. Do not have a horse nose ring. Wear makeup. He will find you. I hir…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 12:37 AM
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No we don't buddy. I am getting on top 80% of the time. Sorry you are not with sensual women. You just do not know how to attract us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:37 PM
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Toddler time is very unromantic. Him yelling is him asking for a better daily life. He and you are both stressed out. Try to get a vision of him being less stressed and the kids in school. Get a babysitter and go on a date.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/25 12:31 PM
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Not trolling. Thinking of another divorced home and child support. If you ever feel the pain of watching your Mom drive you away from your Dad and seeing him cry and then not seeing him for another two weeks... It is those memories that shape your thinking.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/25 11:59 AM
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100% can be fixed You need to quit having an attitude that your personal comfort is supreme. Make sweet love to him. Massage him. Have a charcuterie board waiting for him when he comes in. Smile at him and tell him you are thankful to have the kids of such an awesome guy. Wear makeup and a girly dress. When he comes home come to the driveway be out there and open his door and just hold him. Be his angel.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/25 04:20 AM
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When they are not viable it means they won't latch or stay on past 10 weeks or so.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/25 07:20 AM
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OK thanks for the lecture but they have a donor bank. My fantasy was 5 or 6 viable embryos were donated around town and I would have kids all over. It didn't work out. We only got one good viable one. The testing is $2200 on each retrival. Don't assume anything.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/25 07:02 AM
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I recommend biological children first. There is something special about having your husband's baby. A surrogate is about $35,000 or so. It is worth it. We just got one kid, and she is the light of our life. Nobody cares about your past stripping. The most loving people are into that lifestyle. If it helped you get to school, so be it! Red Pill is fun, and try the charcuterie board for hubby. I also love rubbing my husband and trying to be soothing. Come join us at r/rich and r/fire
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/25 06:04 AM
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Are you sure you can't have kids? Do you have no eggs? Can you get a surrogate? I did 3 rounds of IVF.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/25 05:23 AM
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What we need are 4 day work weeks, 6 hour shifts. Yes both men and women are over worked. This is because of fractional banking. In the old days people crowd funded. Now it's a usury based system. Some women like working. Here is a story of Cooper Kupps wife working at a restaurant so her man can play football. That worked out well for this forward thinking lady. He has a Superbowl ring and millions. https://people.com/sports/who-is-anna-kupp-cooper-kupp-wife/ I worked for years even when giving…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/25 04:09 AM
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We could be, but it my case I get turned on by nerdy simps. So then their anxiety problems wear me down. I am loyal but have an active fantasy and thought life.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/25 10:21 PM
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There is a certain high that comes off from new partners. I watched my Dad be married 6 times and have girlfriends. When attraction and relationships are new they have an affectionate politeness. The person is held up in a high regard. The people censor themselves. Their presence becomes like a drug. The new person can do no wrong. Love and sex addicts are always seeking a new hit of the love drug.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/25 07:54 PM
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No I liked nerdy simps because their dopamine hits come from Jeopardy or books instead of booze or drugs and rampant sex. My hubby watches science podcasts all night instead of gaming and smoking pot. Prostitution is not illegal everywhere. That's mostly marginalized women getting STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:10 AM
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That's your weird hangup or self consciousness. I went for Nerdy Simps. Many gals go for musical broke guys. They get hysterical for a guy that can sing even if he is broke. Women go for height, humor, and communication skills. I just liked the Simps. Considering the amount of women that financially support their men you can't win this debate. You just are jealous a few girls you liked were attracted to homeowners with big trucks and you live in an apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:54 AM
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You can convince yourself of anything you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:25 AM
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The mods will probably come and ban me. I like purity culture. Men with low body counts are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:54 AM
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Don't sleep with them.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/25 11:32 PM
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This is true in some instances. In my situation, it was because I wasn't offering up any sex before marriage. They would disappear. I got an amazing guy and we live happily ever after. 17 years together. We have been to 30 countries together. The women should ditch sleeping around and be chaste. Men don't want high body counts, drinking problems, deeply indebted, tattoos, and work-a-holics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 05:03 AM
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Just one day at a time.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 05:08 PM
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OK thank you for that. Maybe just buy him some pants first?
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 04:47 PM
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https://youtu.be/sSQhSxkg9t8?si=gue3DZaUYpvuT05f This song is for you!
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 02:28 AM
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He is not beta to me. Just simps. Serena Williams and Paris Hilton both married nerdy attentive men.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/25 05:31 PM
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Nerdy simps were always my preference. This sub says everyone has a type.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/25 04:36 PM
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Why buy the cow if you get the milk for free?
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/25 09:57 AM
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This sub is not into chastity so if you are giving him free easy sex it will take a while. He won't be motivated.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/25 05:57 AM
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It was a discussion you didn't list.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:42 PM
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Women have a need to satisfy a man and men like to be desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:29 PM
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That's your opinion. You are probably good in bed and good looking for her to put up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:28 AM
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Possibly... but I understand math and accounting better than you. After taxes you barely make $25 an hour. Your school investment was at least $50,000 in lost time unless you went to BYU or community college. This means her earnings are comparable to yours. I think the real play is her conversations are not deep enough for you and you look in the mirror realizing you are under earning and under achieving. This makes you seek out an enabler type of lady that will pick up the slack where you are w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:14 AM
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OK just smile at him, have your hair and makeup on. Wear a dress.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 04:50 PM
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Oh those losers no thanks. I was thinking of my husband zoning out on jeopardy, YouTube, books, and investing.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 03:58 PM
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Watch and listen to this video over and over: https://youtu.be/tbNlMtqrYS0?si=qfibRejwSf3V8aql Ditch him and Red Pill with a guy like this.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/25 08:58 PM
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Exactly. She is stuck with a guy that barely makes minimum standard wage adjusted for inflation. Her 28 year old boyfriend makes not enough to support a family despite wasting 4 years in college. You are in your peak earning years with max strength and vitality. She is compromising, even dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:08 PM
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You have a low income for your age so you two are perfect for eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:15 AM
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I have both a a massage table and massage chair they kneel forward in like airports. You can get them cheap on Facebook or Amazon. Have the house immaculate and a charcuterie board ready for him. Have your hair, clothes, and makeup on. Put on some nice peaceful music. Smile at him and tell him you are so excited to have another one of his kids. Your day already sucks. You have a toddler and are pregnant... Tell him you want to help him get his own business. He obviously doesn't like working for …
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/25 07:06 AM
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OK I am an expert. So what you do is find someone with the same goals in action and not just bullshitting with their mouth. The guys smooth talk at your age. Look for a guy that has the same values, is also saving himself. Savers are quite attractive. Look at his relationship with his Mom. Is there tension there? If it's rocky reconsider. She doesn't have to be perfect but if he trash talks her run away. Find someone with roots in your area. Not just the new boy in town that just showed up. Look…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/25 02:14 AM
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Omg if you have to constantly fight with a guy, it's not the right relationship. Love should be a warm blanket.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/25 11:48 AM
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Once you have a kid with someone the dynamic changes. You do almost anything to keep an in tact home. You start to learn what is acceptable and what is not. I find it easier to be needy and submissive and him paying all my bills than the years as a boss babe and having rent, mortgage, utilities, and cars to maintain. He asks me where I want to go on vacation. I can tell him if I want a particular food. I purposely sought out a nerdy simp. It's easier to Red Pill with someone who appreciates your…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/25 11:21 AM
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It's the girth not the length they like. Honestly they mostly all feel the same. Damn I miss being young.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:33 PM
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You get married because when blowout shit diapers come and you are looking fat and ragged and grouchy the person stays. Men have memories of standing up in front of all the other men and promising to take care of you forever. Men love to extract the beauty years from women and leave them alone and ditched for younger flowers. If he leaves you... a nice home or check is coming. My Sister in Law didn't bother getting married and is miserable. She had three of his kids and will get no money if they…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/25 12:46 PM
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High Value Man
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/25 12:38 PM
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Go for the Nerdy simps that like to invest.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/25 11:29 AM
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Don't live with anyone that doesn't pay all of your bills. Red pill with a good provider.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/25 04:42 AM
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You get a big check if he dies. It was set up this way for moms with a several kids to feed. Generations have depended on it. It also helps elderly widows.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 09:11 AM
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Honey we have all been young and horney... It's normal and natural. Just be a sweet church wife to a guy with a similar libido.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 09:09 AM
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Welcome to Relationships... We never get it all in one person.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 09:07 AM
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Hi Sweetheart These fears have been addressed before. Firstly you get Life Insurance. Two or three million dollar policy. Then you find a good disability policy for both of you. Many of them are sketchy. They pay 60% of income and some to rehabilitate. The government also pays a feeble amount. He will be in bad shape without you. This happened to a man in Active Duty with young kids. It was a disaster. So he needs money if you pass. Thirdly you get your home paid off. Get him successful making a…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 08:25 AM
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It's had 61% upvotes but only three shares. Some of my others have done better. What part resonates with you?
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/25 03:14 AM
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Put that bonus into investments.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/25 03:12 AM
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This sub is about being extra loving to your Man. I have a younger husband. I am a red pilled lady and like being married most of the time. A lot of women think they need an older rich guy. ... You can have a younger rich guy.... You don't have to be a sugar baby. You can be a cougar. I did have an older lover when I was younger but ditched him when he said it was a tank of gas to visit his family. This displayed he was too miserly.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/25 03:10 PM
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Try to see him as tied up with child support payments unable to move anywhere you want to move to. Try to see him as an elderly father with a higher chance of giving you a child with down syndrome or autism because of his age. Try to think of my friend widowed for 30 years because of age gaps. Think about how awesome it is to be red pilled by a younger man. Men are great and he sounds good. What about go for something great?
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/25 05:17 AM
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This sub bans moralism At his age he is in the habbit of getting free easy cheap sex with just a few dinners and early dating. Some men Men do the minimum to maintain sex. If you tell men upfront you are saving yourself for your wedding night the men will disappear and the other ones that want to dote on you will appear. It's a hard lesson to learn that men are players and can sweet talk for sex. Women have a game going also. Men don't buy cows when they get free milk.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 02:40 PM
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Block his number before he impregnates you. Doting on men is wonderful but you have to get love back.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/25 02:36 PM
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My mom got indoctrinated by population control people. She said she got over it once she had her first baby. She realized it was a lie. She has very feminist beliefs and guess what? She gets to work like a mule and be on section 8. They let people earn $100,000 in her state. Scandinavian women think they have egalitarian utopia. The women there just serve the government via taxes.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/25 11:56 AM
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Omg I was in the hospital and the SUV was coming in one hour. We had been in there for three days. Our baby was crying and I didn't know what to do. I was so scared also with no experience. The nurse came in and just shoved the bottle in her mouth. She said baby is hungry. I was so embarrassed. 🤪🤪🤪 The babies just want food or diapers. They mostly sleep. Eventually they get bigger and it gets stressful to contain them. They grab everything. By this time you will have months of practice. You grow…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/25 04:57 AM
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I am sorry. It rewires their brain. They love the dopamine rush. It's like chocolate for them. I wish the government would ban all this.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/25 08:37 PM
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It's like an antidote to the typical OCD lady that wants her man doing chores all weekend. Let me explain it: A man working a decent job with a little discretionary money to invest is better off learning skills than out washing her car or mowing the yard. I would rather be with a man that knows how to analyze a good investment property, learn about commodities, know how to dollar cost average, know how to do some type of flipping, if even flipping a car.... This is more interesting than a man mo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/25 01:47 AM
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For what?
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/25 12:49 AM
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No he sounds like the bastion of men that can no longer support wives. Inflation and bad policy mixed with the Federal Reserve has left men unable to provide a stable life. They still want sex and children so you will get two full time jobs. If I were you I would not fall for this Scandinavian nonsense. Even if he has confidence he wants you to pay to bare his children and wait on him. I am down for Red Pill living, but the men need to do their part. Find the guy that tells you he plans to live …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/25 12:22 PM
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OMG Run for the hills! My husband hands me cash to make sure I have dinner money if I leave the house. He tried getting me to pay some utility bills when we were young. I just let them shut the utilities off. Now he grabs them and pays them. Let me explain why you can't and wont: Men that get their mules working hard will turn around and buy a more expensive vehicle, take riskier investments, and waste extra money. He does this because he has an enabler. My BIL use to gamble and buy $500 toys fo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/25 05:13 AM
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Indoors
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/25 05:13 AM
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Lots of people have them now. It's shocking to us older ladies. The ink leeches into the lymph nodes. Surgeons have made videos.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/25 01:47 AM
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There is someone for everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/25 01:30 AM
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Smile and look happy. Wear earrings. Do your hair. Wear a sundress 7 days a week with cute sandals. Refrain from tattoos, weird colors, nose rings, and cat costume eyeliner. Have your nails done and don't wear jeans.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/25 10:27 PM
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Well there is more than that. You find the gifts that God gave him and help pull them out. Most people only operate at a small percentage of their potential.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/25 10:15 PM
1

It's a parable.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/25 10:38 AM
1

School 8-3 m-t 8-12 F
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/25 07:33 AM
0

The one thing is time with kids. You really can't work a lot with little ones. They need attention.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/25 12:37 AM
-1

That's because they eat sugar and carbs
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/25 08:51 PM
-1

When he meets a 10 he will change his tune.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/25 08:28 AM
-2

Honey the best sex in the world is get me pregnant sex and give me a full deep load Sorry some of us ladies want peak sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:52 PM
1

Neighĥhhh 😝🤑🤪🤑🤑🫡 🥕 🥕 🥕 🥕 🥕
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/25 12:48 PM
1

Medical?
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/25 07:13 AM
5

Long lucrative careers are over rated. Men use the womans income to upgrade their lifestyles. The man that has a working wife buys himself a nicer vehicle, boat, and takes riskier investments. It will sabotage you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/25 04:01 AM
2

CANCEL YOUR TRIP You think he is the only one, but he is not. When you are this young and beautiful you can match with almost anyone. The only compromise would be him doing remote work. You would split time evenly but then when kids come you have to choose. They have school and can't split time. You broke it off for a reason. You can't be a missionary Red Cross wife. You don't need to lay down your family for him. You are not Pocahontas.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/25 02:58 PM
1

If we have a full bladder it can hurt. What are you doing on Red Pill women?
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/25 02:51 PM
1

The rare times I get some it's normally in the morning. My husband has low T and OCD so it's difficult for him to relax.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/25 02:41 PM
1

I am down for that morning or night but sadly he is too busy.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/25 02:19 PM
14

Date local Can all the drama
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/25 01:33 PM
3

I am not sure about who has kids and who doesn't but I hope she has fun. Sounds like she gets free rent from her man and uses her spare cash to travel. The yen is at a 34 year low so it's cheaper than Las Vegas or Disneyland type trips. Everyone should go.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/25 04:44 AM
3

Two things going on. He is secretly envious you have freedom and he doesn't. Then many people don't like Instagram attention seekers. It has become a serious turn off for men that don't want to date Internet blasting girls. They don't want their private life blasted. Posting your trip just makes people sad. Their lives are not as good as yours. I have been to 30 countries and jet set often. I don't post it because nobody cares. It just makes them sad they made different choices. He also might be…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/25 02:17 AM
-1

I met my man with 7 figures and got him to 8 figures... pushing for 9 figures.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/25 05:44 AM
2

Jfk Jr. was man handled by his father who bribed the Mob in Illinois to win the election for him. He liked a lady with a "checkered" past, but his Dad made him break it off with her and cling to Jackie. The poor guy was in Debilitating pain to the point of paralysis. The bullet to his head may have been an answer to his prayers to escape his ongoing physical back pain. There are two sides to every story in a breakup. Maybe she was a narcissist?
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/25 03:11 AM
1

My man has OCD so he actually washes his dishes 1 x1 and puts them away immediately. He also washes his own laundry. I am willing to do all of this. He doesn't do anything else. He does love watching our daughter and dotes on her. It's the idea to just let your man be unburdened. Everything doesn't have to be Scandinavian split down the middle.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/25 01:36 AM
3

It's not controlling if you are coy about it
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 10:08 PM
3

Nice sounds like a fantastic book. Some women need to be patient. When they are in their 20s there hasn't been enough years for compounding to kick in.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 04:03 PM
2

I think a nerdy tech engineer is the new alpha man. Serena Williams and Paris Hilton both went for tech nerds.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 03:50 PM
0

They have programs in our area that they come and clean for $150. I wasn't thinking of live in help. Our in-laws had a live in nanny and thought they had a teenager on top of toddlers. Yes each situation is different, however I think many men could thrive if they had a good situation. Some nasty men could be donkeys but I was thinking people in this sub would not be hitched to them?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 03:33 PM
2

Does he have to be a leader? A quiet simp with a good career is just as good as an ambitious self starter.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 02:41 PM
1

You pull out the gifts God gave him. Get him exercising so he has energy to fight problems. Get the carbs away so he is not carb crashed out. Implant a vision in his mind about what a happy life he could have.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 01:35 PM
1

He clips them for now.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 12:46 PM
0

My husband is Howard Hughes reincarnated. 90% match in looks and action.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 11:55 AM
-2

Doubt anyone wants a middle aged man with OCD.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 10:57 AM
-1

Confused?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 09:59 AM
-2

Give me any broke guy and I could turn him around. A guy doesn't have to be wealthy to date him. He needs to be energetic and motivated and like learning. I thought of this when a distant relative was content with her man doing house chores and didn't care about much else. He was energetic and in his prime 20s. I thought he had talent to be a home builder, electrician, or business owner. She didn't get much because she didn't have quantum thinking.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 09:55 AM
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I didn't want to say men sometimes need to be whipped into shape because it's against the sub rules. 😝😝😝🤪
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 09:52 AM
1

Sadly this is the life transition. You will do fine. Work on being in great shape with diet and exercise. God will select a spouse. Does your local church have a college ministry?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 09:51 AM
13

r/deadbedrooms It doesn't get better. All you can do is be miserable or cheat or stay stagnant. Your kid will understand when you are older. Tell him he needs to pay child support and you are bailing because sex is important in a healthy relationship. An unhealthy relationship would be one with a cheater, drinker, drug user, or sex addict... You married the wrong person but you have time to fix it. Get your body in great shape to get ready for a romantic new husband.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/25 05:42 AM
2

Blue or red dress Covering your breasts no cleavage Pearl earrings Length 1/2 to your chin below the knees No tattoos Shiney long hair Hourglass so wear a slimmer corset
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/25 05:37 AM
3

Get him on testosterone Don't nag him Mentally prepare to leave r/deadbedrooms
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/25 04:27 AM
1

I am a cougar and have a wealthy younger man. You can have it all.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/25 11:46 PM
1

We are 5-0 this weekend, betting college basketball.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/25 02:17 PM
2

Husband
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/25 01:42 AM
-12

The sub says to sleep with him but I disagree.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 02:53 PM
2

No
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 12:53 PM
1

r/prolife
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 12:11 PM
-1

If he has a square chin or a camel toe chin he is extra loving.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 12:04 PM
1

They are always like this in the beginning. This is normal behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 11:52 AM
0

I married a simp nerd at 7 figures and we did FIRE to get it to eight figures. He makes a great Dad. Send me a DM to troubleshoot. This sub has speech rules I can't keep up with.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 06:06 AM
4

They are very easy... you have to ditch the guy with the tattoos, flashy car, and fuck boy clothing. Look your best and be girly. Give them a chance. The junkier car he drives the more in investments he has.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 05:59 AM
3

Toxic people are toxic... Go for the nerdy simps and you are the one being red pill. They pine for you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 04:48 AM
2

You study the Ennegram and avoid an 8. Those are ones that are domineering and controlling. You look your very best and try to be elegant and a 9 or 10 in looks. You go for the simp nerd mommas boy that has less chances with hot women. If he treats his family well he will treat you well. Stay away from the ones with addictions. Drugs, gambling, smoking, drinking, video games, porn, food, working, or other compulsive behavior. Pay attention to small details. Do your best to be loving. Hope for th…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 09:35 AM
0

Study Ennegram book by Riso. The blue one with the bird. It explains yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 09:08 AM
2

The trick about looking good is to not talk about it to your man. Men get turned off by women talking about their weight, skin, clothes, and artificial things. Men love to talk about things they like: Recreation, business, science, history, politics, war, sports, engineering, or tech. I am hitting the gym hard also. Don't bother with the guys until you are at your goal weight. The reason is simple: If your goal weight is still chubby, than you will attract a man that likes chubby ladies. If your…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/25 08:57 AM
5

The way he connects to you is through recreation. Find out all of his hobbies and enjoy them. Try to action type dates. Instead of interviewing him find out his sports teams. Root for them when the game is on and wear that jersey. Watch the game with him. If golf is his thing, it's time to go hit balls as a date. If video games are his thing I would reconsider dating him! LOL I had roommates that gamed all night.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/25 09:28 AM
6

Omg as soon as you get home change clothing into a girly outfit. Put flowers in your hair. Watch "Chemtrails over the country club" on YouTube the music video Get a vintage Barbie collection going Study up Steak Recipes and salmon recipes Practice calling men for help when you can do it Get some perfumes going Crafts.... work on crafts Get to the gym and get a hot body Study table scaping and start your collection Do a moisture mask or go get a blowout Get nails done or put eyelashes on Listen t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/25 04:56 PM
1

True
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/25 11:21 AM
2

He wasn't a billionaire when they met. Venture Capitalists are often a little more nerdy. I have one in my family.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/25 09:45 AM
7

To attract them you have to be extremely girly. They love Barbie types. They love girls in dresses with flowers in their hair. They love women that cook and drop all their plans to be with them. They are normally hitched young.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/25 09:05 AM
3

You become chaste and don't put out. Don't wear sexy clothing on your date, just girl clothing. When he tries to put the move on you... you tell him you are wanting to just find a husband and not a hookup. You plan to be loyal to your husband by not running around town. This bonds him to you. He makes a mental note and goes silent for a little bit. If he is roaming around hooking up, he is not a catch. You like the wrong type of guy. Stray dogs hooking up are a dime a dozen. You want Raven energ…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/25 08:44 AM
5

I am partial to my experience. My nerdy guy got us to eight figures. He dotes on our daughter and we have an apex happy life. Serena Williams - married a tech nerd and he dotes on her and their daughter. Paris Hilton.... married a nerdy guy The nerdy guy spends his time studying and investing. He gets excited over reading about inventions, politics, medicine or psychology. The Alpha male gets excited about cheerleaders, depreciating cars and trucks, and is caught up in sibling competition which …
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/25 06:09 AM
5

Honey the geeky nerdy simp is going to be the best match, but since you like the Eagle Scout type here is my advice: The other type you might want is the owner of a construction company. He is smart enough to be the boss, and solves lots of problems all day. Manly problems. Another might be a farmer type. Find the types that work in more manly professions. Don't tell your man you are planning to work your whole life. He might want a tinder mother until the kid is in kindergarten. It's OK to take…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/25 02:47 AM
-1

I am with a high net worth husband. I am sad I only got one kid. When I hear of a society always promoting school for women it saddens me. The smartest lady I ever met was in San Diego with a 6 bedroom house 15 minutes from the beach paid for by taxpayers on section 8. She had eight or nine kids and enjoyed a husband working part time. The women looking down on her or shaming her lifestyle can't understand her wealth until they lose $46,000 on multiple IVF surgeries begging God for a child. No s…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 05:53 AM
-1

She is not interested in education. She wants to breed and only work for 1-2 years.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 04:08 AM
1

How many kids do you have?
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/25 08:06 AM
7

You are not past your prime.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/25 04:45 AM
-2

What is making you not want kids?
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/25 04:44 AM
-2

You are not engaged, why not?
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/25 12:55 AM
1

Men of God stand up in front of their Pastor/Clergy and her family and pledge to take her forever. It means a lot when the unpleasantness of pregnancy and blowout diapers and teething kids come.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/25 07:47 PM
3

I give him a smile and a hug as much as I can.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/25 03:26 AM
0

Do you have love in your life?
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/25 01:18 AM
1

Just don't go out with him again or be alone. Best to wait for marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 06:35 PM
0

My husband retired at 26 and dotes on my daughter 24/7 as his main focus in life. I agree with you. Our daughter is healthy, the top height in the world. We always let her sleep until her little eyes open. She absorbs every ounce of sleep available. Having her parents around makes her extra disciplined and sweet. She has no behavior problems and only had three tantrums her whole life. She is a top student and all the teachers love her. She gets a sugar-free diet and eats adult food. We don't giv…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 11:35 AM
11

I wouldn't worry about it. He might not like the job and switch to something else. He is young. Often men change careers. Just enjoy being beautiful. Take lots of pictures. I miss being young and pretty. I am overweight now. Just get use to being lonely. A lot of men like working and being providers. The trick is to be a magnet to come home to. Look good, smell good, and be comforting.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 09:31 AM
-1

What I do to cope with the people on this planet is just think of myself as a tourist. I don't live here, and these are not my people, and I am just on a business trip. When you completely detach from their bad behaviors ... they won't disappoint you as much. I am halfway gone at 45 now. My husband has OCD so I just try to be a comfort. Nothing really matters because you can't take it with you.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 01:56 AM
3

We unfortunately are not allowed to share our deepest thoughts on this sub. I will ask you if you plan to have kids or already have them? His agitation might be testosterone problems. When they have low T they get grouchy.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 01:46 AM
1

I would be for it if they matched through Ennegram. I wouldn't trust my parents for a match. I also believe there is something special when two people find each other and just want to be together. It's as if God was their matchmaker.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 01:44 AM
11

If you are in the USA and your husband has shakey insurance, I would be shopping for somewhere that has excellent insurance since you want to be pregnant. You may need IVF and don't know it. Working at Starbucks would help this. If you live near a big beautiful airport, I would work part-time for the airline with the best routes and benefits. In our area, this is Delta. With a part-time Delta job, you start qualifying for free or cheap flights. Maybe you could work the counter or a call center. …
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/25 07:20 PM
1

Honey, before I was married, I just wanted to be with my man all day and night. It feels like a warm glove. Like bliss. You fantasize about the kids you will have together and make dreamy honeymoon plans. He is busy giving you compliments and making wedding plans. You are supposed to be in the best time of your relationship. This sub has weird rules I am still studying up on. I can't say much more.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/25 11:22 AM
2

So I just read the wiki page and it says a lot about attraction and mate selection. She already selected her mate. Do you suggest she find out what types of porn he is into and try to be that girl? I was thinking her red pill strategies could be used on her next mate?
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/25 05:02 PM
-2

So her chewing him out is not Red Pill?
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/25 04:50 PM
1

Can you tell me what the appropriate advice is?
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/25 04:31 PM
14

I wouldn't submit to a boyfriend. Only to a husband
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/25 08:27 AM
-3

I would turn it around on him. Tell him because he is into porn you need a guy that is 14" long and 4" wide anyway. Tell him because he is a sick deviate that had his brain rewired it's impossible to be in a relationship with him. I would put a tracker on his phone and print it up for the judge as evidence. His lust problem could morph into child abuse against your son. Him saying things not very flattering to you is an indication of his deep dark illness. I would have been out of there long ago…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/25 07:26 AM
5

I will check it out.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/25 07:08 AM
0

The better she is at sorting and dating, the better spouse she will get.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/25 01:30 AM
1

So I became an expert at dating and sorting. I knew exactly the type I wanted to be with and flushed all the others. We didn't have burner phones back then. I would have used one exclusively if we had them.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/25 01:29 AM
10

If you think of yourself as a tourist on Earth, the people on this planet just become zoo animals. Their oddities don't bother you as much.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/25 01:13 AM
1

Yes unavailable men seem normal. So my Dad was present and active in my life, and my husband dotes on myself and my daughter.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/25 12:31 AM
1

Most people just marry someone average. I had some chaos in my childhood and wanted to rise above that with an apex spouse.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/25 10:00 PM
0

It depends on how extreme you want to be with your dating skills and what type of life you want.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/25 09:28 PM
3

Hope so. Did you find love?
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/25 09:15 PM
2

I was just enjoying the archives.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/25 11:12 AM
1

Get some makeup and lashes going. Wear black. Wear a loose fitting dress.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/25 08:41 AM
3

OK, he isn't buying your flights because he has a core belief: If it Flies, Floats, or Fu@#% to rent it. He is totally ok just having a high romance occasional weekend. You are a stress relief and a quarterly hobby. You live too far away to be taken seriously, and it gives him the freedom of not being committed. He gets the best of everything, and you get to pay to be his monthly hobby. When you need comfort on a Wednesday he is not around. Don't waste your peak beauty years on this type of nons…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/25 08:31 AM
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If he drives a car, ask someone for the gas tank trick.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/25 08:14 AM
1

If you are giving him regular sex he has no motivation. Most guys are only putting out minimal effort to maintain the status quo. He also could be struggling financially.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/25 08:11 AM
1

Not popular, but I trade forex.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/25 08:09 AM
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