Halfwaytoanarchy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
822	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year	Lifestyle	Halfwaytoanarchy	/r/seduction	09/06/25 05:46 AM
1	How to inspire humor	Outer Game	Halfwaytoanarchy	/r/seduction	27/01/25 01:08 AM

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2	Working on your self esteem will take you a LOOOOOOOONG way compared to any tips and tricks here. Fr. I’m literally just on a spiritual journey towards deepening integrity and unconditional self-love; and I can’t believe the amount of opportunities I have on a weekly basis. I don’t even need to try anymore. I haven’t even been putting energy into my social life and I still have to reject advances every couple of weeks. For context, I used to be a loser who wanted nothing more than to get laid. I dedicated six months of my life to it in a fucking hostel and failed. Looks have barely changed. …	/r/seduction	12/07/26 06:20 AM
1	Best way to not put women on a pedestal? Get to know them, get to know yourself	/r/seduction	07/12/25 08:42 AM
1	Never tell her you’ll cancel prior commitments to have sex with her Or just don’t move plans	/r/seduction	30/10/25 07:18 PM
1	Does loving yourself help with finding better quality women? Like attracts like	/r/seduction	04/08/25 06:35 PM
7	How to talk to a girl to see you as a potential partner, not as another guy-friend? I don’t get friend zoned. I get rejected. I set the terms of the relationship. If I want to be friends, we’re friends. If I’m romantically interested, then I want this person to be a sexual partner. If we’re not moving towards having sex, then there is no more a relationship there than there is with the man in front of me in line at Burger King. Granted there is intimacy in the courtship process, I’m willing to let that go in order to avoid being just a shoulder to cry on for a person (although …	/r/seduction	08/07/25 07:03 AM
1	Sex used to feel like a reward — now it feels like emotional debt So glad someone’s saying this. We really shouldn’t be glorifying body count as an end in this community.	/r/seduction	30/06/25 03:24 AM
0	Here is how to respond to tests such us: "Shound't you have a bigger apartment at your age?" I think the frame that that’s a test is itself fundamentally a defensive frame. When in doubt assume the best intentions. She’s not “shit testing”, she’s teasing. So a confident person wouldn’t have a problem just responding as such. Playfulness is natural. Also, trying to force this “I’m untouchable” persona is itself highly unnatural and inauthentic. If you are a little insecure that’s fine as well and deeply human/relatable as we all struggle with accepting at some level. Pretending you don’t…	/r/seduction	23/06/25 11:54 PM
1	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year Give up as in give up your attachment to getting laid and having intimacy	/r/seduction	19/06/25 11:02 AM
1	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year Meditation, also maybe care so much for so long that you can’t help but give up.	/r/seduction	19/06/25 03:36 AM
2	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year Try harder. Ask more. Be obnoxious. Be the guy at the dinner table nobody wants there. And when they all decide you’re not invited anymore, try again with new people. Get rejected over and over and over. You will learn how to communicate. You will find we all have the power to relate to each other. You will grow attuned to different kinds of people’s humor. You’ll get a sense of what kinds of people you enjoy being around most. You will begin to repurpose the aspects of who you are that you prev…	/r/seduction	16/06/25 11:30 PM
1	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year All I said was detach from outcomes, exercise, socially immerse yourself, and accept yourself as you are. That doesn’t mean you stop flirting, stop working on all the intricacies of seduction, it just means you let go of being emotionally dependent on whether or not it happens. Follow the advice. It will work. And if getting laid is important to you, keep working on it. This is a prerequisite to having healthy relationships. Be content with life as it is, be content with yourself as you are, giv…	/r/seduction	16/06/25 11:26 PM
1	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year if you want advice please ask more targeted questions. I don’t have an opinion	/r/seduction	16/06/25 02:53 AM
-2	How to drastically improve your personality and social skills if you're under 30 Ahahaha nice man nice	/r/seduction	13/06/25 03:07 PM
3	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year Ya and that one, as I said, was when I did visit my home town. Colombian girl in the home town. CA	/r/seduction	12/06/25 01:07 PM
6	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year I lied to myself about who I am and how I feel. Under no circumstances can you lie to yourself. I think we all have a piece of ourselves that knows the truth and knows when we’re lying. Shut the fuck up and listen to it when you can. Her mistakes: I can’t say that on her behalf, but I just won’t be with somebody that judgmental moving forward. I’m a psycho. I have insane thoughts. If I’m gonna be exclusive with anybody or even take a romantic relationship seriously it’s going to be with somebody…	/r/seduction	12/06/25 01:02 PM
2	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year There was a desperate component to the decision. I didn’t move across the world TO live in a hostel and get laid, I moved across the world because I was desperate to follow my dreams after giving so much of my life to another persons dreams. I was desperate for a fresh start, to be independent, to earn back my confidence by leaving my comfort zone and thriving; to do all of that on my own without the help of family or friends. I was desperate to find out who I could become. Once I moved into the…	/r/seduction	12/06/25 12:54 PM
0	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year It begins with you believing you’re good enough for it my friend. I’m sure many lovely ladies would be lucky to have you.	/r/seduction	10/06/25 09:38 AM
2	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year Yes, however since a hostel has a younger crowd, I imagine it would be more difficult. If you found a hostel with an older audience (average mid 30s) I reckon the setup of rotating through social situations would exist for you. Not sure if that exists.	/r/seduction	09/06/25 11:15 PM
3	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year Correct! But I want it to be clear I didn’t just “go outside and socialize” I made socialization my number 1 priority. I quit my job online to work as a waiter and I moved into a shared living space with almost 100 rotating people. You don’t need to be so extreme, but I highly encourage using your lifestyle as a tool. This is what I had to do to take myself from a complete loner to a person who could confidently manage relationships and even view myself as fundamentally equal to any other person…	/r/seduction	09/06/25 11:13 PM
3	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year You got this. Push yourself outside of your comfort zone. Not just in socializing but in general. Kinda like the advice “talk to everyone”, get addicted to pushing yourself outside of your comfort, it will pour into your social life making you more active and bold	/r/seduction	09/06/25 02:23 PM
6	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year I think it doesn’t matter each of us needs to know why we outsource validation. Each person has their own history and subconscious limiting beliefs that cripple their confidence. So touch that place in your mind where you are afraid and ashamed to be you, get to understand it, then you’ll be ready to work with it.	/r/seduction	09/06/25 01:59 PM
26	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year To add to this, I did quit my job as a coder to become a waiter at a fine dining restaurant. Slight pay cut, major difference in mental wellness.	/r/seduction	09/06/25 01:56 PM
7	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year Well that was at the end of 6 months. Will share how things continued to exponentially improve and, more importantly, why they improved for the second half of the year when I feel inspired	/r/seduction	09/06/25 01:36 PM
2	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year Got any specific questions?	/r/seduction	09/06/25 12:53 PM
18	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year Like I said I was dealing with a lot of shame at the time. I hated myself and honestly I hated myself specifically for being a sexual person there was an insane amount of moralization and repression around the topic. So it helped me accept that about myself simply by realizing that I get to choose which beliefs I ascribe to, at least in my self talk. It also helped me become more aware of when I was seeking external validation and how to recenter myself so that I was more in control of my own se…	/r/seduction	09/06/25 12:51 PM
16	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year It was cognitive behavioral. Very simple, very effective. We have a lot of freedom in the stories we tell ourselves about who we are. The self talk is big. Committing to the self talk in the first place is itself a statement of self empowerment.	/r/seduction	09/06/25 12:39 PM
5	Would you hit up a hookup from a long time ago? How you feel about that person and what you want relative to the specific situation you’re in matters way more than whatever general advice a stranger on the internet could give you	/r/seduction	09/06/25 04:33 AM
1	Every hot girl you didn’t approach still crosses your mind Please send it over	/r/seduction	23/05/25 06:16 PM
3	Text/online game is an amazing tool to get you laid I’d love to read those articles my friend	/r/seduction	23/05/25 04:22 AM
2	Men who have dated/hooked up with older women, how was it and how can I go about connecting with some? Currently laying in bed with a woman 7 years older than me. I just acted like myself in a social setting, took a liking to them and let them know, didn’t let age bother me, and ultimately did exactly what I would do with anyone else. I was offered a private room by a woman almost 20 years older than me a few weeks ago. Same thing. Just be yourself. I think maturity is self acceptance anyways so the better you can be yourself the less age will feel to play a difference	/r/seduction	08/05/25 02:00 AM
6	Do women get turned off if you tell them you really like them? Depends on the kind of women you’re attracting. For me, I entered the game six weeks ago and have slept with three women, like 10 times in total (all of whom I’ve met in this time). I’m prioritizing authentic connection. Obviously I’m going to tell these girls I really like them. Why would I play a game with them? Radical honesty has been the underlying principle.	/r/seduction	03/01/25 06:49 PM
2	Being straight up ignored Brother….it could be much worse. Just trust the process, it’ll probably happen less over time as you do what you know you need to do, but you can never expect it to stop.	/r/seduction	15/10/24 03:35 AM
1	I think I have peaked but I feel empty… Maybe you put too many eggs in this basket and this is your deep psyche telling you that you have much more potential than being that boi	/r/seduction	17/09/24 02:34 PM