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Women Lie Lol. It's science. Women know their social value goes down greatly with number of partners so they feel a need to try and cover it up. On the other hand, men actually lie by saying they've had more. A virgin incel man is more likely to tell his friends that he has had sex when he never has. Men can say they've fucked 200 virgins and women will swoon over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:44 PM
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So, basically women lied about the number of the sexual partners on a survey to throw the numbers off? You realize this is from a survey, not reality right? In reality, every time a heterosexual man has sex with a new woman, it increases the woman's n count by 1 as well as his own. The average is going to be very close to the same between men and women. Women are very emotional creatures so they are more likely to lie on surveys about being a hoe because in their mind they don't look at themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:31 PM
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People always want more money too, but many people find happiness when settling for a moderate salary. It's just a mental mismatch between what incels think they deserve and what they really deserve based on the sex/relationship economy. Incels don't even look for someone with 1 more value of greater genes. Many of them probably look for someone 5 points greater than themselves. The problem is that they focus on appearance and don't realize that other things about themselves probably lower their…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:00 PM
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Proof
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:45 PM
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The math is all off. I'm talking about average n count. So now you have 10 virgins with a n count of 1 and a Chad with a n count of 10. You didn't add in the nine virgin incels. This makes the average n count still 1 for everyone. You can't argue that men are more promiscuous than women. You could actually argue that average Joe is less promiscuous than the average Sally because Chad is stealing all of the women. The truth is that when it comes to men, the HVM are very promiscuous, but there are…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:42 PM
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Lol, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:37 PM
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No, why would that make them happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:52 AM
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Hmm, that's an interesting choice. Reproduction > security
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:45 AM
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How can they have more sexual partners unless they are gay? Every time a man fucks, he fuck a woman. So the number is going to be the same unless a single encounter is a gangbang with a count of 1 for the woman and 1 for each man involved. I believe more women want relationships, but they are no less likely to cheat than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:43 AM
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Would you rather be with a short man with a giant cock or a tall man with a small dick. Like 5'2" 8" vs 6'5" 5"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:35 AM
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What statistics? If a straight man is promiscuous, he has to have hoes to be primiscuous with him? Who is fucking Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:26 AM
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Lol. I had that shit happen a long time ago. I was really careful about analyzing pics after that. It was really awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:23 AM
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How is it settling if they are both close to the same value? I mean, the looks threshold is higher for ONSs or FWBs, but when it comes to LTR, I would argue they are lower. Men always have to put in more work. It's just part of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:20 AM
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I mean, yes this is partially true, but most men go down to like a 5 for sex if they are an 8. So that doesn't really seem like they demand some super hot chick except for LTR. There are men with much lower standards who are happy to be loved. What's wrong with the low value men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:15 AM
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So, even if it is true, you would still get banned? This sounds like nazis
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:19 AM
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What is disgusting about sex? Is it the fluids? The smell?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:14 AM
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Lol. How do you know? He could be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:12 AM
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I'll probably be around on and off until the quarantine is over because there is a lot of funny shit. EDIT: I probably won't read the side bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:11 AM
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If a man is low value, he can still find love with a low value female. Find a mom with 3 kids or a fatty. Not really that hard. You said before that changes can be hard. If he isn't willing to make changes, his fate is with a low value female or alone. Why would anyone feel bad for them? Honestly, I don't see an obese woman's struggles as being any different than a socially inept man's struggles. He could work on himself just like she could.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:10 AM
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That could be what's wrong. Do you find strip clubs gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:01 AM
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If that's what floats your boat that is cool too. I don't really see a conventional family as being "unequal."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:00 AM
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Is it an insult to say they just want to get pump and dumped by Chad over and over again?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:58 AM
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Are you super low T or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:57 AM
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The way you describe it is somewhat natural. The only problem is that it is not like an ATM machine and more like a dad giving a small allowance. In turn, the woman provides sex, cleaning, child care, potentially a part time job to help cover bills, and cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:54 AM
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What types of things would get you banned normally? I'm new because of excess time while under quarantine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:51 AM
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Can't you love women and also think that they are like children who need guidance from a man? You can't blame them for being like every other woman, they are born that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:40 AM
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Are you sure? Have you tried it? All you did was blather about how great men are. If you love men and hate women, what does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:28 AM
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Yes, I agree that they probably aren't easy fixes. They may require large changes for some people. In that case, those people need to just accept their value and go be with a woman who is bottom 20% or whatever. Do you feel bad for obese women that complain about not having a man? I feel bad for disabled people, but they are a whole separate issue. Someone should just make them a gofundme to get prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:26 AM
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American women mad that they all hoe around so much that their social value has gone down to nothing and Chad moved on to younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:56 AM
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Because they say things like that and then say they don't have any interest in changing. It's like FDS "men should bow down to me while I do nothing." I think people don't like seeing people frustrated who do nothing to fix their frustrations. Why would anyone feel bad for an average looking white guy or indian guy or whatever? There are probably people with worse problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:41 AM
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How is this remotely true? Most black men I've seen are in incredible shape, don't seem to have a bad face, act like they are some kind of a movie star, but are with a really nasty fat woman. It just seems like they live on a different plane half the time. I don't get it unless attractive women don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:37 AM
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How would they think that whenever half of the women are obese?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:33 AM
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Why would anyone on reddit care about your frustrations?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:31 AM
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I dunno, maybe the incels secretly want black men and are sexualy frustrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:30 AM
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I think the problem is he isn't getting any Chad dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:29 AM
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Are you on drugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:22 AM
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8=====>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:20 AM
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If you are a low value female, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:18 AM
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Yes, the only thing that makes bottom tier women happy is knowing that bottom tier men have it worse than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:10 AM
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Why don't you guy suck Chad's cock then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:00 AM
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LOLOLOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:55 AM
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I'm guessing a walrus. Pic so we know?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:46 AM
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Yeah, that's my point. I mean, they sometimes do like having weak men as pets friends to boost their ego. I don't really blame them. Weak men are completely useless to them and waste their time. They're actually less than useless because they may attack them one day in incel rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:44 AM
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How do men leech away your happiness? Please tell me more. This seems like a unique problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:41 AM
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Why would you want to be racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:16 AM
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Ok, then not wanting a loser is classist? Everyone has a threshold they will not go below, making them shallow. Don't joke yourself with your fake ideals. Men get called shallow because they don't want to date a cow...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:15 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:06 AM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:06 AM
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I dunno if what you said is true or not, but women hate weak men. Zero empathy for them. If they see a homeless man get hit by a car, it's the same as them seeing someone step on a bug.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:44 PM
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Everyone is shallow. Just about different things. For 99.9% of guys, they only accept a woman who meets a certain looks threshold. For women there is also a looks threshold, but much lower. Instead, they make up for the looks with only taking men of certain social/financial status, particularly for LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:38 PM
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Me too. Marriage life is great
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:27 PM
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Incel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:24 PM
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No shit Sherlock. Also, I don't think most men prefer blonde hair. Women also don't care that much about looks except for hookups. They're happier with someone uglier than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:15 PM
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I mean, I know what alimony is. I think sometimes it is taken it advantage of but it is also needed to protect women. What is so great about 25% of mothers earning more than their husbands? That shows that 75% of women choose men who earn more? Also, why are marriage rates so far down? It's because women are having a harder and harder time finding men above their own financial status partially. Despite all of this, what percentage of women support their husbands? These 25% earn more, but by how …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:06 PM
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Why did the moderator remove her comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:18 PM
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Maybe you didn't excite them enough? Choose a new partner? Maybe because you aren't Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:16 PM
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It shows sign of mental issues. What woman would take that much risk? Why did this woman act this way? Is she mentally ill? It is just a risk for a man to look at a woman like that as wife material. Chad doesn't give a fuck if you've fucked other guys because Chad is just going to pump and dump anyways. He doesn't have to live with you. EDIT: Why should a man be judged for his sexual preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:10 PM
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If a woman can cover up her n count to raise her attraction, more power to her. I feel like it's not that hard to get an idea of what a woman is like tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:01 PM
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I agree. FDS seem to be women who are very unattractive or have deep seeded issues from being pumped and dumped too many times. TRP seems to be a bunch of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:50 PM
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I'm pretty neutral to alimony. What do you mean by alimony being far less of an issue? So you would have no minimum bar on a man's professional life? 95% of women would dismiss men because they don't have a career. Men don't really care about the woman's career, they dismiss them on looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:39 PM
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Happiest and Unhappiest Demographic I don't really have any direct evidence, but this supports the claim. I'm not talking old feminism. I'm talking about modern feminism which hates masculine men, wants women to be men, and constantly tries to destroy a normal family unit. The article says that the least happy demographic is middle aged female professionals and the happiest is male managers, both near 40 years old. Is this a coincidence? Without the continual push of feminism, this most unhappy …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:35 PM
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Lol. Fact. I've never said anything about a 3 date rule, so don't count me in that. A man should push to have sex, while a woman waits until she decides if it is worth it or not. She has the most to lose by giving in. I think a woman waiting is by far the best method to filter out men. You have to make sure that they are worth it. If they don't stick around, they were probably just looking to pump and dump you anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:12 PM
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Yes, a mentally stable woman is supposed to be the one who draws the lines. Besides, would you want to be with a man who has fucked a bunch of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:06 PM
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Happiness Chart Over Time in United States Happiness is at an all time low due to the rise of feminism and the destruction of families. There is always some radical social movement played over and over in the media. People hate the police, religion, and live lives of materialism. Young people are especially lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:56 PM
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If you want to do it, go for it. You need to find old men who are extremely desperate. Act like you care about them. Lead them on as if you would meet them IRL, but obviously never do it. You'll probably get a bunch of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:47 PM
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I don't insult women who have had sex with a lot of guys, I just view them as having lower value. Every man a woman sleeps with lowers her value to the next man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:42 PM
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This is probably the most disgusting thing I've ever read on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:57 PM
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He's definitely not an incel. All the bitches would throw themselves at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:39 PM
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Because they can't give women orgasms which makes sex boring so they would rather blame the women than blame themselves. 98% of sex is for pleasure, not reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:51 PM
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I don't blame women for being "gold diggers." Just like how men look at a woman and don't want to date her because she is <6, a woman will look at a man and not want to date him because he is a loser with no job or future. There are just different types of bars. After the bar is met it moves on to personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:44 PM
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lol. I'm just imagining seeing a Stacy, reaching to touch her and feeling roll on top of roll of fat with a wretched smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:41 PM
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I feel like a guy who wants sex and can't get it within 6 months. Incels also include people who trick themselves into thinking that they "choose" to not try. They're scared pussies who think that they deserve to be approached by women because they are "special." An incel is not someone who saves themself for marriage or takes a break from dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:39 PM
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Beta Bux is like a minimum bar for women. Even for hookups a lot of times. It turns them on to know they are fucking a doctor, lawyer, governor, CEO, etc. They don't want to be fucking the guy that is about to go work a night shift at Walmart. The HVM don't even have to really give anything up to be viewed as high value. The chance of being with a man of high status is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:05 PM
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Probably not. Femcels should all fight for the good looking blind men. I don't think having VR during sex would really help that much because at some point you are going to have to look at each other unless you are blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:58 PM
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Yeah, people do emphasize race too much. I think you are wrong about black women not wanting white men. The reason they want white men is because there are more HVWM than HVBM. I don't think the actual race is the reason, it's more about money. They would probably prefer a HVBM, but it's all supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:54 PM
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Is this in relations to my <3% comment or that landwales get terrible genes? If it is to the <3%, I am thinking about a society that enforces monogamy. I'm probably off though, maybe it is more like 10% of genes are removed. Who knows? If it is to the landwales, sure, they can pass on their genes at some point. They aren't going to get the best genes, but better than their own genes. This will cause the average quality of genes to rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:44 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:39 PM
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Lol. I REALLY don't want to talk to this guy. He's a huge faggot. He's one of the few people that has no known redeeming qualities. I can normally think of good things about almost anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:38 PM
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I look in the mirror and I see the sexiest person ever That's pretty weird dude. You ramble a lot about no one understanding you. You sound like some kind of narcissist with an answer to all of the worlds problems even though you are completely incapable of communicating with women. Maybe you should just chill out and have fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:25 PM
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A poor ugly man is a huge turn-on for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:17 PM
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A wonderful journey of excitement and joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:53 PM
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I think you answered your own question with society being the enforcement model. Liberalism has caused a reversal of evolutionary progress. This forced monogamy weeds out some genes, but only the very weakest ones. Probably <3% or something of people would be incapable of finding a companion in such a society. Also, what guy with a decent set of genes is fucking landwales? Chad isn't going to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:49 PM
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Yeah, it's really hard to know the exact number of incels without formal polls. People who aren't incels probably have more non incel friends so this creates a bias of each person's social circle. The groups that I have been a part of may make fun of virgins, but they would also be more than willing to help a virgin past inceldom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:39 PM
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Probably about 50/50. Some legit do it for themselves, but they are probably in a relationship at that point. Also, after a while they just go to the gym because it feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:19 PM
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I agree with you in one way, but in another way I think they actually do want there to be sensitive side. If a man is some unemotional rock, why would he take care of her and her children? It's natural for her to want a guy who is emotionless enough to do what needs to get done, but when it comes to her and her kids, she wants a man who is able to be emotionally attached. It wouldn't benefit her at all to be with someone who completely doesn't give a fuck about anyone but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:10 PM
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It is not inevitable. Some people just want to be miserable and refuse to change. It would be wonderful if the femcels and incels merged their group together to find true love. EDIT: I know a man who is in his 50s and there is a 99% chance that he is still a virgin. He's weird as fuck so I've never asked him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:00 PM
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I would say not really. The fact is that men are less liberalized because it doesn't favor men. Mainstream media hates men. "Patriarchy is the root of every problem..." Women are somehow manipulated into believing this nonsense message because they think it helps them when it does not. It clearly doesn't benefit men though so they don't buy it. Overall men are less liberalized so closer to what men were like 100 years ago which is what women want. This is why your question doesn't really reveal …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:23 AM
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I guess I believe in traditional family where kids can be raised by the mother and it makes things fair when the woman also does the majority of house work. I think most women make better food and the men are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:04 AM
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Upvoted for good point. However the biggest issue is the limitations of actually being religious. You have to do it for life, going to church every week when you think they have a fake Bible. You can't drink and I'm sure there are other restrictions that you have to follow or the woman will implode. Not really worth it unless extremely desperate. Not the easiest aay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:59 AM
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So you would rather cook than have a wife who makes incredible food for you every day? I don't really get how your point would change anyone's mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:53 AM
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Also a good point. Can't it be hard for Mormons if they aren't Chad though since Mormons have so many wives, leaving a shortage of women? Another point is that if sister wives accurately represents Mormons, who can afford to feed all of those fatties?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:50 AM
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This is a completely valid point. I'm arguing for the guys who aren't creepy incels ordering Russian brides.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:45 AM
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Imagine they were homeschooled by some boomer. Boomers are going to tell their daughter that she is great and she don't need no man. She should go work and conquer the world by continually doing things that are against her own interest and nature. Deep down, she doesn't want to go to a shitty 9-5. She wants to stay home and raise her kids but she doesn't know how because her parents tried to make her a man. In most of the world, women know what they want to do and are very good at it. Going to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:44 AM
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He's not going to change religions for some random. Isn't the principle of sticking with your personal beliefs a value? Switching mormonism would be fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:34 AM
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Hmm, I guess I can see where you are coming from. You make it seem like these men only want these women so they can hold money or citizenship over the woman's head though. This is not reality, the truth is these women were raised without being "as" corrupted by the liberal media. Also, if you look at foreign women's intelligence, it is a lot higher. American women can't seem to do math. I don't really know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:32 AM
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why would I or anyone else want this this woman to marry them for citizenship or look at me like Chad if I'm not Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:24 AM
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Why are you assuming that this man watches gang rape porn? Maybe he likes the standard family structure. A lot of foriegn women are great cooks, don't want to abort every child, and don't want gay/trans kids. Also, who says the woman is atheist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:22 AM
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So you are saying that all other countries but the US are shitty? I wouldn't choose the same countries as missionaries get sent to. I also probably wouldn't leave the US. I would just wait for one to pop up in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:17 AM
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Because these men also have values which probably include not being Mormon. Nothing wrong with being mormon, just not their thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:13 AM
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Is it easier to take a single day flight or live in a shithole country as a missionary for 4 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:09 AM
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foreign seal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:29 AM
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Yeah, it really gets kind of crazy. It's not really their fault. They are raised to be adult children with no skills. Many parents tell them that they are a prize, to do what they want, not to pick a poor man, and not to do "woman's work" because it is now sexist if a woman is expected to cook and clean. So, I ask myself, what do they bring to the table? Many of these loons are like 6's. I really think that over time they will remove themselves from the gene pool through abortions, becoming lesb…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:27 AM
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True, American woman just live in some delusional shit world where they are owed everything, yet they are still somehow oppressed. They want to do nothing and then just get paid. I don't know of any other group that feels this way other than Bernie supporters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:54 AM
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Why would I lift?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:52 AM
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You get me. I promise they are better than Americans. Americans complain a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:51 AM
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Hmmm, you could be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:48 AM
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Oh, yeah. Very true. All women ever care about is money. The only benefit is that immigrant women work, cook, and clean. If you have to live with a parasite, why not choose one that has some kind of mutual benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:46 AM
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How so? She hasn't had 5 kids shoved through her vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:41 AM
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Nah. That's a LVF EDIT: A mom would just love you for money most likely and a father for the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:36 AM
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Ahhh, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:35 AM
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Why would you want your woman to depend on you? She should luv u 4 u :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:34 AM
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Nah, find one who has moved on because her family just wanted money from her after she moved to the states. Some people cut their family off at that point. Perfect scenario, no parents to meet, perfect wife, no stupid american feminist personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:32 AM
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Alright, I don't get why all the stupid incels hate Chad then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:30 AM
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What if her family is all dead?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:28 AM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:28 AM
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Find one who actually has moral values.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:23 AM
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I'm not saying to get a mail order bride. Find a first generation immigrant if possible. Syrian refugees probably wouldn't be a bad option for many. American women are useless. They get useless degrees, go into debt, and then want men to pay for it. They don't even clean or cook. Then they are unsatisfied with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:21 AM
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You gotta catch them early. Find ones that are from conservative countries and actually have some kind of moral values instead of heathen American women. American women suck from Gen X on. EDIT: Not suck in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:18 AM
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"Women won't cook and clean" False. Just find a foreign woman. American women are currently garbage wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:15 AM
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Yeah, to get out of the house you should probably just make more friends in general. You didn't mention you had those hobbies before. They seem normal and fine. My point about hobbies was mostly I don't know how someone would expect to connect with the average female if their hobbies consist of anime and video games. So you are saying why would they judge you? Why do you judge them? If you want to be with a cow, I'm sure any of them would take you. I haven't really seen you provide any reasons t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:37 AM
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No, but I also don't want her to do something that she REALLY doesn't want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:27 AM
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Yeah, I know they exist. I was emphasizing the fact that it is stupid for 98% of men to attempt this process.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:14 AM
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Some safe things are outdoorsy stuff, knowing good bars/restaurants around town, sports, or movies/tv shows/music. Yeah, you definitely don't want to have a bunch of feminine hobbies. I don't really think being a good cook is a negative thing although I am not a good cook. I think making a nice dinner for a date is actually a + for getting laid. I think having some simple things in common can help but isn't absolutely necessary. It's more about avoiding weird shit that women will judge you for. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:08 AM
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What do you like? If you like stuff that no women like, you could consider trying to branch out your interests. Find things you like that aren't male only type things. If you're only into anime/video games, that probably makes it pretty hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:20 PM
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lol. Went over my head
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:22 PM
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IMO as someone who was also introverted (I'm not really introverted anymore), you should just make attempts to be around more women to build social skills. Doesn't really matter if it's starting more conversations when you're in public, women you meet through OLD, or however else you find them. Your problem must be your known lack of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:20 PM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:11 PM
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Why shouldn't we do that whenever the Chinese said that the United States military planted the virus in Wuhan? It should be called the Wuhanic Plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:56 PM
1

Are you an incel? I doubt the reason you don't get laid is from looks. Not like you are Chad, but you also don't have any major flaws, probably average. 99.99% of your problems come your social ability I would guess. I also think a short haircut might help you out. Also, I think it is kinda gay to have picture for OLD like this. Use one where you are standing up. This is the kind of pic angle a LVF would use to make themselves look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:09 PM
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I don't think anyone mentioned rape. However, what if he is just a badass that women throw themselves at? He isn't that tall or good looking, but the way he carries himself makes him slay bitches. Is he still a Chad? Those types clearly exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:58 PM
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It's because they hate weak men and because the man is asking for advice he is automatically weak. However, some do like the power that comes with having weak man friends to build their ego. If they told them what they really liked, they would lose their weak sidekick and he may end up having power over her. It is all about the hatred of weak men though. Deep down, they all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:54 PM
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Yes, and I believe another thread described it as beautiful. I concur.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:46 PM
2

Oh yeah. That stuff ain't very funny and it also isn't funny that we are probably going into a depression that may last several years. Who knows who is going to lose their jobs by the end of this thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:38 PM
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What lunatic works on a chick for weeks/months? If she didn't want to be with you in the first week, what would make anyone think that she would want to be with you a month later?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:34 PM
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What you say may be partially true. I've been with a couple hot black chicks but never dated or anything. I wasn't necessarily opposed to it, they seemed like they probably wanted to just be FWB which was ok. I still think they are pretty cool and have a lot of positive traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:32 PM
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Yeah, I've loved quarantine. I still have a job, just don't do anything and got a stimulus check. Perfect time to just chill out. I've still talked to people, but it's funny reading the shit people put on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:29 PM
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Lies. You don't have 600,000 karma
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:26 PM
1

Ok. I give in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:24 PM
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Lol, same here about being on reddit. I have never spent this much time on reddit before and now that I'm quarantined, it feels like the right time to spew nonsense on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:19 PM
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Why don't you do something productive with your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:12 PM
5

Boomers are 55-75?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:10 PM
1

Yeah, I mean I don't see how being Chad is so great if it is just a super attractive looking guy. I've known guys who every girl thought were great looking but they never seemed to want to get pumped and dumped by him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:53 PM
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So a man who fucks a lot of women and always has but does so through manipulation alone is not a Chad? What if he is actually more successful than Chad? Still not Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:52 PM
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I think people should just take all of the pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:42 PM
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This is pretty dumb. A woman asking a man why he can't be trained is your dog asking why you can't be trained.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:36 PM
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Incel Content Have you been with black women? Dated or fucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:26 PM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:25 PM
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There's more than one Chad in this world. Keep your head up and another will come by to pump and dump you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:20 PM
2

While I kind of agree with you, an understanding of selfishness is required for a man to understand women. To think that a woman is altruistic to a man in any way is completely delusional when it comes to dating/sexual interactions. And why should women care about the man who is also selfishly looking out for himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:13 PM
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I don't get all of the hate for black women on this sub. What's wrong with black women as long as they aren't obese? I actually think black women are much less uppity IRL than white women. Black women don't seem to delusionally believe that they are better than average men. Please correct me if I am completely off base. This is from my limited experience with black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:08 PM
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Very true. Also, is it rape if you were really drunk and would have never slept with her without alcohol?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:03 PM
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I agree. I was more of speaking in terms about the man's sexual preference than to what the prostitute actually is. A desire to have someone who does whatever you want sexually is basically the same thing as wanting a slave. Morals may hold someone back from ever considering a slave, but the desire is basically the same IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:02 PM
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I meant the concept of having someone who will do whatever you want. If that is what you want. It is essentially a "slave."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:33 PM
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Incels are far too weak to ever confront Chad. This is hard to even think about because it would never happen. They are more likely to kill themselves or turn gay. How is it Chad's fault that women like to get pumped and dumped by Chad? I think the best option for incels or LVM is to turn to religion or pursue a job with a high % of females so that they can have the odds tilted in their favor. Advancing religion really helps them because women are no longer socially allowed to continue getting p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:31 PM
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I get your point. It does imply that you would also be happy with a robot essentially or someone who just does what you want. What's the difference? I think sex is best when mutually beneficial (the act itself not receiving money).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:21 PM
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So, basically, you are saying that you would prefer to have a sex slave and a dog? Personally, I don't really want a sex slave, but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:03 PM
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Why do you surround yourself with people who rage at your for not doing intimate things with people you aren't attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:00 PM
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That's interesting. I've actually found that hotter women have higher self-esteem and therefore seem to be more of freaks, while ugly women are always awkward. Truly some of the best are actually decent looking women who are older. They are really freaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:53 PM
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I've never bought a hooker, but I find it hard to believe that a hooker>FWB. I guess maybe if you kept buying the same hooker but it is kind of disgusting knowing that she probably fucked like five guys before coming over. EDIT: A dog gives far more satisfaction in the long run than woman could.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:50 PM
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Only if you want to go to heaven or be reincarnated as a cow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:42 PM
1

"A partner who’s uglier than you, not terribly so, and is in love you with and fucks your brains out." This one for sure. I don't really think this is reality though. From my experience, ugly women are also worse in bed. Maybe others have had different experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:40 PM
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Mostly the dog part. I'm not really sure if hookers would give any loyalty or satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:37 PM
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I think you are probably right. The % of Western feminists is probably going up though leading to frustration on both sides. I think men misunderstand women mostly because of media. They think women are "good" and empathetic. The truth is that women hate weak men more than anything else. Women don't care about a homeless guy on the street, but would see a cat and feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:34 PM
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Yeah, maybe it's just people who hook up with randos. The guilt for me comes with some women who seem really upset because they were looking for a relationship. The disgust comes from women you actually find disgusting but fucked anyways because you felt desperate at the time. I do laugh at the disgust part though. EDIT: The guilt in particular could have been completely avoided by just sticking to people you at least find moderately attractive or enjoy being around. Fucking someone who you don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:27 PM
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The Chinese government created the virus in a lab in Wuhan and released in on the world because they hate everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:06 PM
1

I used to think that islamic women all felt oppressed until I met some of them. The ones I met liked their culture and thought most American women are hoes. They wanted the laws in place that were there...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:03 PM
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They did themselves. Obviously, like me, they really wanted to bang one night so just fucked the easiest one around. They realize later that they probably had low self-esteem at the time and fucked women who they are really disgusted by. Lol. It's more of a joke than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:59 PM
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I completely disagree with this. I'm in my upper 20s and really just don't enjoy being around women are 18/19/20. I really wouldn't date one unless they have had a real job before or some kind of experience. Otherwise, talking to them is like talking to a high schooler...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:55 PM
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Yes, but if height is so important, why are there so many tall guys with fatties? And these comparatively much shorter men with much more attractive women. Personally, I think part if it has to do with intelligence as well. From my experience, women don't like stupid men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:48 PM
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My god, what was wrong with him/her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:45 PM
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Good for you. Have you always maintained standards? Do you currently maintain standards? From my experience, some of my other guy friends do feel the same way as me. The ones who set extremely low standards just to have sex for a night. Not some issue that weighs heavily on their minds, but something funny and true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:44 PM
1

Hmmm, that's a very deep thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:31 PM
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Yeah, I can't figure out how to edit a poll. I also fucked up because I should have put an option to say "your mom is a whore" and "no guilt or disgust ever"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:29 PM
2

Thanks :) I'm more of a coffee guy, but matcha could be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:28 PM
1

Yeah, sure. You can insult me, validate the way I feel, I don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:24 PM
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Interesting, no disgust either?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:15 PM
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Men bitching about women caring about height seems to be a big problem here. I've known plenty of guys who were 5'7' or 5'8" and were very successful. I'm 5'8" and I don't really feel like it has caused me too many difficulties. Sure, there have been random hoes who are like "I only date men taller than me." I feel as though sometimes they do that just to see how you will react and when they can see that you really give a shit if they would date you or not, they get annoyed. Women lie about ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:57 PM
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Is this an incel dream? I dunno why anyone would want this unless they want to be a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:09 AM
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Curvy>Slim>Tubby>Obese>Young boy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:02 AM
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I agree. People who bitch about being short are pussies (unless they are like 5' flat). A 5'7" is perfectly fine if he acts half normal. Plenty of desperate hoes would fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:58 AM
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Probably bots on pof
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:50 AM
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I'm not really familiar with MGTOW philosophy. Is it just men who decide to completely avoid women? Is it ok to be gay as an MGTOW? I'm honestly just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:29 AM
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People who would take the pill are liberals so the world may be better off?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:24 PM
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Stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:44 PM
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Then why don't you make your own female business and make billions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:41 PM
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What if you own a cat, bird, and dog? Also, I think a man who lives alone with a cat is probably the creepiest thing I could imagine. Fuck cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:07 PM
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I agree with your post about not pitying them. I actually think ugly women deserve more pitty than men. Ugly men can marry models if they are successful career wise. Women think most men are ugly like others have pointed out. I really don't feel bad for men or women if you just let yourself get obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:59 PM
1

Who is threatening violent uprising? Trumpers? Bernie boys? Biden supporters? Radical feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:50 PM
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Who is threatening a violent uprising? I'm not saying I don't agree with what you said given that there is a group of people talking about violent uprisings on the internet. I'm just pointing out that your rant makes you seem like an internet-tough-talking goddamn pussy. A bit ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:49 PM
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"The internet-tough- talking goddamn pussies are as pathetic as they are worthless you think you have what it takes to revolt why don't you start cashing some of those checks your fat fucking 🐷 mouth is writing and learn how to walk more than 10 feet before running out of breath" Are you describing yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:43 PM
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I guess I'll take your word for it that you meant all people who were abused as children although comments in this thread only mention women hating men from these experiences. Do you still hold by your implied statement that all people abused as children should continue to be treated as children although they are now adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:07 PM
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My bad, that is an error. Other comments in this thread consistently represented women who hate all men because of abuse. I have not seen any from men who hate women from childhood abuse. I take back the part about women. My comments still apply to any adult who was abused but refuses to take responsibility for their adult prejudices. I am empathetic to them, but believe their best path is to work towards normal beliefs rather than hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 04:15 PM
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You responded to this: "If your interactions with some people very consistently don't go the way most other people's interactions with people from that same group go, what's the common element to (and therefore likely cause of) that difference?" Which I assume refers to adult females with mental issues from some kind of abuse. Your response: "lol, i dare you to tell that to a vulnerable abused child. stop fucking up, kid! why are you making all these grown-ups hate you?! " You implied that women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 04:09 PM
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That is very true. Most women I know think extremist feminists are pathetic. Like what are they fighting for anymore? To ruin the chance for future generations of women to be able to stay home with their kids? If things keep going the way they are, the ability for women to be mothers is going to disappear completely due to a lack of men with the ability to support the family alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:17 PM
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Are you saying that all women have the mental capacity of children and therefore cannot take responsibility for their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:05 PM
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