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Very true, it would be hard to leave someone you love. Ive never loved anyone so maybe that's why it's hard for me to understand. But if I imagine having gotten closer to a person I cared about and then seeing their behavior change in a negative direction, it would be hard to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:53 AM
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Thanks. I see a lot of people talking about being in a relationship with the "wrong person" I mean, can't you just leave them? Unless you're financially dependent on them, and/or married with children, why not just leave? I guess some people just aren't vetting enough, or are just so desperate to not be alone they settled for less than they deserve. I think there is definitely an argument to be made that a toxic relationship in some circumstances is better than no relationship whatsoever. I hope…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:37 AM
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I'm glad you had good friends, and that therapy helped you, I was hoping for a thought experiment where you consider where your life would be if you were alone through all of that. So that means nobody to talk to, no partner, no good friends. Still in therapy, since that's something you can pay for. Would it have been manageable without the help of any of those people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:05 AM
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How would you have faired against your anxiety/depression/deeply ingrained feelings of self-loading and Inadequacy if you were alone throughout the entire ordeal? Nothing but you, yourself, the therapist, and the wall. Do you think you would've managed just as fine? Or do you think it would've been unmanageable? I have a hypothesis where I think people often times (myself included) tend to vastly underestimate the roles other people play in our success in life. A successful man will say he worke…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:45 AM
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Yup, I hope you understand I'm not advocating for idiocy, just pointing out that it's there and isn't going to go away
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:28 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:10 PM
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For online behavior to indicate real life behavior, then we are speaking in absolutes. That's what indicates means. You're saying that online behavior is evidence for how they will act in real life. It's definitely not 0%, but even if it was 95% I'm still giving you the funny blinking man gif for saying that 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:54 PM
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I was being sarcastic lol, forgot this is reddit so I need to do a /s, I thought the bro gave it away
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:43 PM
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The amount of people saying that the way you act online cannot be different from the way you act in real life is mind boggling to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:05 AM
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No bro it's because they can smell your desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:50 AM
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And then some woman would like "what do you mean..."ok bye?"... you're supposed.to chase me! 😅 And the men will come in and say "well if I just accept the first "no" from everyone then I'll NEVER get a yes...sometimes you need to finesse a little bit to work a "no" into a "yes"..." The world would definitely be a better place if everyone just stopped playing mind games but humans just can't help themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:46 AM
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Do you think the people at Walmart are leveling up? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:59 AM
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No problem, I just misinterpreted that what you were saying was an absolute. If youre cooking your pork to a temperature above 145°F then you've got nothing to worry about. You're not thinking you can still get food poisoning from properly cooked pork, so we're in agreement 🤝, hope your migraine gets better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:16 AM
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There is a difference between being smart, and believing that there is a predator inside of every man that could come out at any moment. I might have just misinterpreted what you said if you're just being smart about it. If so, then my bad. Nothing wrong with vetting people, but surely you must understand that most people aren't evil, and most people don't want to hurt you, or take advantage of you? At least that's what I think based on knowing myself, and my life. Yes, I've been hurt by a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:18 AM
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I respect the honesty, but i think you're wrong. I think better of you than that. If you had a child I guarantee you wouldn't be calling them and it. The second they were born you realize how they're now your entire world and that you'd do anything for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:14 AM
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"his spawn" is YOUR child. Your son/daughter. I just want to point out that you wouldn't be "stuck raising his spawn" you'd be raising your own children. Sorry, but that just didn't sit well with me and I wanted to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:02 AM
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What about men who think "all women are potential cheaters, golddiggers, liars, etc. Do you think that kind of absolute thinking is healthy? How would you feel if a man you liked treated you like a potential divorce, and assumed that he needs to keep his distance because if he gets too close you might just steal his heart and then 50% of his net worth? I don't think that kind of paranoia is healthy. The vast majority of men aren't and won't be perpetrators. Obviously be smart, the woman who gets…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:57 AM
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Id say probably at least 12 or 17...no......erm.....14? Yeah 14
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:50 AM
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Did you read what I said? Why are you ignoring my entire comment to try and tell me that I'm not doing therapy correctly. My therapy is going great otherwise I wouldn't be dumping hundreds of dollars into it every month. Stop trying to psychoanalysis me based on things I haven't said, read what I said, respond to what I said, don't try and read between the lines because I am literally just text on a screen. You cannot understand anything more than what I've written so please don't extrapolate me…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:17 PM
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It's so annoying hearing that from someone who doesn't understand what I'm even saying. I am not basing my self esteem solely on "success with women". I am basing my self esteem on my experiences with the human race as a whole. And to sit there and tell me I'm a child that thinks that my problems will magically go away if I find companionship in my life is insulting. But surely you're smart enough to understand that until that happens I have nowhere to even start? You cannot give yourself what o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:42 PM
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I don't know if we're on the same page on the topic of scarcity, but assuming we are it sucks not being able to get any love or support. Of course pretending to be someone you aren't sucks to, but which is worse? Fake hugs and smiles still release the happy chemicals. Lying your way into someone pants, while reprehensible still feels better than being rejected for the 50th time, doesn't it? I wouldn't know, I've always tried to be true to myself my entire life, and the only time I've ever gotten…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:08 AM
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I wrote a really long paragraph perfectly stating my thoughts and feelings, but my phone lagged and and it's gone now. 🙂 It was just a long rant about how unfair it is that the people who struggle the most are the ones who receive the least amount of help (hence the struggling more). To give a guess of a TLDR, I personally struggle with self esteem and bitterness, I don't let it define who I am, and I am actively in therapy. But it's stupid if anybody things those feelings will go away just beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:00 AM
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How does someone do that though? It's easy to say "Work on your self esteem" but if a person's self esteem is low it's low for a reason. If someone is bitter they're bitter for a reason. Telling somebody to "work on that" doesn't do anything to address the initial problem to begin with, and it also assumes that they're in the wrong for having the self esteem issues or bitterness to begin with, and I don't think thats fair to blame someone for their own mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:23 AM
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You don't seem to understand what ugly means. Let's say I am a beautiful person inside. I am a man, i go to therapy. I care for others more than I should. I am very expressive, and compassionate,and very authentic. I have been working harder than most people ever will have to just to try and find some sense of normalcy. I think we can agree that person is beautiful on the inside. That won't change the fact that they're born with a birth defect. That won't change the fact that they will be judged…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:14 AM
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You may not have, but I did, and you said that what I said was absolutely wrong. What's wrong about it? And why is that wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:59 PM
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I'm confused, your first and last paragraph contradict each other. You said you were bullied but It didn't affect you, but then say in the last paragraph that it did affect you? How would you be feeling right now if you never met your husband? What if when you were growing up being bullied you never had anyone in your life to reaffirm your belief that the bullies are wrong? What about when you witnessed the bullies actually find success in life? That what it's like for men. My bullies got laid, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:55 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:45 PM
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What should men do when they're "best selves" are disapproved by everyone? Should those men just live their lives alone? From a perspective of having unlimited options it's really easy to say "kick the bad ones aside", but what happens when you're faced with a scarcity? It's inherently needed for a person to be healthy to feel loved and accepted, but not everyone is just able to get that purely by being themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:43 PM
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But wouldn't women just rather find guys that don't have inner struggles, or trauma to unpack? My personal experience has told me that the second you try and show vulnerability you will be hurt. Because vulnerability is ugly, and inconvenient for others. The fact that you struggled in life makes you inherently less valuable than those who don't in the eyes of the beholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:37 PM
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Women want men that have already gone through hell and back, and won the race. They don't want to go through hell with them. So men just need to stop caring about women and manage through life alone until they "find themselves" and "find joy" in their loneliness. Because only then when a man is comfortable with being unloved, and at piece with romantic isolation is he then worthy of being loved. But on the same coin, isn't it strange how woman always seem to love the same men? And that those sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:34 PM
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"if you think you're ugly you're rejecting yourself before anyone else ever could" People don't just wake up one day and think "you know what, IM UGLY" The only reason anyone would ever think that is because they've been told and shown time and time again that they arent as good as the others. They are TOLD they are ugly and are rejected because of it. Nobody decides to reject themselves first and therefore then get rejected by others, I don't know what fairy tale pipe you're smoking but I want …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:14 PM
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Can you explain what you mean by "working on your mental health"? And please don't just say "go to therapy" because that doesn't actually say anything Plus why does everyone always have to be chasing this "better version" of themselves? Nothing is ever enough for people.. Always be improving. Always get better. No matter how hard you work or how much you do you will never be good enough because you're always chasing this unobtainable "best self".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:03 PM
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I wrote a long funny and witty comment, went to hit post and my crappy phone decided for some reason that it instead wanted to refresh the page and erase my magnum opus. I'll take the L this time. Damn you capitalism for giving me a crappy.phone that i refuse to upgrade for no particular reason other than laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:07 AM
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Did I say I want the government to have everyone's DNA? I just thought it was cute that you think that whatever it is your afraid of "government" doing with DNA isn't already happening anyway. Though you must be one of the lucky ones that hasn't ever had any form of bodily fluid or DNA taken or tested or anything like that. (What will stop them from using that in other circumstances?)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:25 AM
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Hah. Look at this dude. Thinks the government doesnt have that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:04 AM
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Y'all got me wildin' fr
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 02:56 PM
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😐
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 02:49 PM
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Who is "they"?
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 02:24 PM
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