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Which is a total load of crap. Women have a dozen forms of birth control, Plan B, hold the gateway to sex requirements (condoms) and -gasp- abstinence. 800,000 elective abortions a year aren't "accidents". If you are stupid enough to get pregnant in 2023 the Roe decision isn't oppressing you, it's holding you accountable for being a complete moron.
/r/MensRights01/08/23 09:02 PM
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Borderline personality disorder poster child
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/23 06:30 PM
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They just want equality...until something becomes difficult. Then they want to be coddled.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:52 PM
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How are there any men left in the UK or Australia?
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:16 PM
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You are correct. It was part of Russia at the time...more accurately the USSR
/r/MensRights31/07/23 11:44 AM
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It’s a pattern of behavior by angry, alimony-paying ex-husbands that ex-wife Jan Killilea, an advocate for an informal group of “First Wives,” likens to a “hate group.” Well, to be fair, if I had been paying alimony to my ex for decades I'd probably hate her.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 11:13 AM
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Soviet women in WWII fought. Lyudmila Pavlichenko served as a sniper and racked up 309 kills against the Nazis. She was wounded and then went on to train other snipers. Let's step it up ladies! EDIT: For accuracy
/r/MensRights31/07/23 11:03 AM
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Now they get to be Strong and IndependentTM
/r/MensRights31/07/23 10:59 AM
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Accountability is kryptonite to women.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 10:57 AM
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Yeah. I heard a new one the other day. "Generational trauma". They're insane.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 10:56 AM
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They ARE the table! /s
/r/MensRights31/07/23 10:54 AM
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You don't. And if someone reports you for self-harm, report it as harassment. It's the one abuse that the Reddit mods consistently take very seriously.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 10:45 AM
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I wouldn't want half my dude's stuff. It's his. You think that matters? I divorced my wife because she had a secret narcotics habit I didn't know about. One suicide attempt and two failed rounds of rehab and I was done. She admitted 100% fault. We signed a mutual agreement to give her $100K to get on her feet. Everyone thought it was fair. The judge threw it out "in the interest of the greater good" and awarded her $500K. Just like that. No man should get married in today's environment under any…
/r/MensRights30/07/23 12:32 PM
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It's better that 10 criminals go free than one innocent person be in jail.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 12:25 PM
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Strong assumption there that everyone here is a man. Plenty of women on here that supports the mens rights movement as well as others. My comment was specifically targeted towards gay men. Stop moving the goalposts. So the don't say gay bill, USA's Supreme court ruling the right to refuse service to the LGBTQ+ people, Italy not allowing both gay/lesbian parents on a child's birth certificate (to say a few of many) aren't attacks on the LGB community? Propaganda. Or is including something happeni…
/r/MensRights30/07/23 12:27 AM
9

Pussy is cheaper if you rent it.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 12:21 AM
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"stolen election, qanon, white-flight, antifa-is-coming-to-get-me" What does any of that have to do with men's rights? More divisive propaganda. You're the only people who can have someone say "We want to be with you", and respond with "Go fuck yourself".
/r/MensRights29/07/23 08:30 PM
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If your beliefs are aligned to people who are actively trying to destroy you, then yes. It's dumb. You think feminists give a shit about men's rights? Do you people know what sub you're in?
/r/MensRights29/07/23 08:29 PM
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So you chimed in on something you don't even have a frame of reference for? If you're not a gay man, then you have no right to speak for gay men. "No uterus, no opinion", right? In other words, another collaborator, just a different type. You cannot support feminists and men's rights activists simultaneously. They are diametrically opposed. You have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 07:55 PM
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You and I have a shared experience. We're men. You have no commonality with feminists to speak of. Nobody is attacking the LGB community. Eventually the intersectionality of your group is going to fracture hard. And it has nothing to do with Republicans. You can consider me your enemy, I don't btw, but eventually you'll realize you're sleeping with the enemy. It isn't 2008 anymore, friend.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 06:42 PM
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Ah yes. Typical. Instead of trying to explain to someone who is openly saying he doesn't understand AND offering support, you insult him. As I said, collaborators. Feminists are not your friends. No matter how much you think you identify with them. They will throw you under the bus at the first possible opportunity if you don't act as a serf.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 06:34 PM
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Stop listening to the propaganda. I am pretty hard right, at least by today's standards. I also have plenty of gay friends. I haven't heard a right leaning person make a comment about gay individual in person in a decade and a half at least. If I dislike you, it's because you're siding with feminists, not because you're gay. The vast majority of us just don't care.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 06:00 PM
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This is the danger of identity politics. It's entirely arbitrary.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 02:24 PM
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The left, especially progressives, can't function without an "oppressor" to validate their victimhood. It's our turn. What I don't understand is how every white male hasn't become at least right of center. Even gay white males become the enemy if they step out of line even one tiny bit. Yet, there are a whole gaggle of collaborators that orbit around these women. I don't get it.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 12:34 PM
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"NO! It's different for women. We need to be emotionally involved." Fair enough. So, what's your body count then? -crickets-
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/23 10:09 PM
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Sounds to me she wanted to transfer money from the 'shared' account into her account so that he couldn't see what she's spending all of "Their" money on. Bingo
/r/MensRights28/07/23 10:52 AM
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Women most affected...
/r/MensRights27/07/23 09:14 PM
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You are aware that the idea of due process is not about establishing guilt, right?
/r/MensRights26/07/23 07:46 PM
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It's a win for due process. Something many men in the MeToo era were not afforded. And this has nothing to do with US courts. You sound like you have several axes to grind.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 06:16 PM
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They were afforded due process. Or are you suggesting that the court system failed?
/r/MensRights26/07/23 04:32 PM
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Burden of proof is on the first person to make the claim.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 11:09 AM
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Yes. TOTALLY incidental that he chose Hitler and Stalin instead of Rockefeller and Guggenheim. Totally.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 11:09 AM
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reality is pretty fucking depressing for me Clearly
/r/MensRights25/07/23 08:04 PM
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Just remember. The Hammer and Sickle represent farming and manufacturing. Physical labor. Hope you're ready.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 06:43 PM
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Wow. Actual sources. Well done. OK. I concede that point. I'm not a kid though. I retired a millionaire more than 10 years early because I wasn't worried about what billionaires are doing. That's how I can be on Reddit in the middle of the afternoon on a Tuesday. What's your excuse?
/r/MensRights25/07/23 06:41 PM
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60% of Americans pay no federal income taxes. Don't worry. One day you'll leave your parent's basement and have to earn a living too. Then you'll see.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 06:36 PM
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..you do realize being wealthy doesn't men you're a good person...right? Like putin, Hitler, stalin and many other evil evil people were personally very wealthy so idk what you mean by this especially given the fact there is no ethical billionaires. Your words. Again, screw your communism.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 06:18 PM
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Talk about irony. Not one of your points had any fact backing it up. Typical projection. Elon Musk's companies have created tens of thousands of 6-figure plus jobs that never existed before. Even the people working security at SpaceX have 6-figure compensation packages. I'm sick of hearing about worker exploitation. You bitch about wages not rising and then try to demonize a person who is CLEARLY paying his people far above market rate. Do a 10-second search for SpaceX job openings. On top of th…
/r/MensRights25/07/23 06:13 PM
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Everything you said is nothing but propaganda. Equating Musk to Stalin and Hitler. Jesus Christ... The one thing I will respond to is SpaceX. Elon Musk is the chief engineer for the company. There would be no Falcon 9 rocket or soon to be Starship without Musk. The weed smoking electric car manufacturer is a conservative. You people are insane. I get it. You hate rich people. Power to the proletariat! Morons...
/r/MensRights25/07/23 05:56 PM
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Two things. Musk has a ridiculously successful stable of companies. SpaceX has completely revolutionized the entire aerospace industry. In 10 years, it could be the most successful company in human history. He's the richest person on the planet. Saying "he's a cancer to anything he touches" is completely delusional. Also, anyone calling Musk a conservative needs to have a psyche eval. I respect Elon Musk. I'm a conservative. He absolutely is not.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 05:29 PM
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What in the world are you talking about? Let me reframe the question. Today, in a titanic situation, why would a woman's "human right" to exist trump a man's?
/r/MensRights25/07/23 02:35 PM
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There were MANY news outlets running stories about how she was a black woman. They were falling all over themselves trying to figure out which victim class had more cred, black or female. I wish we could go back to the days before the victim Olympics.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 10:27 AM
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Yes I know. They want all the rights of a man, all the privileges of a woman, and all the accountability of a child. They wanted to be treated like men. This is EXACTLY how men are treated every day. That means in a survival situation, the strong survive. But "there are no feminists in a house fire", right? How amazingly entitled.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 10:15 AM
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how would you feel that some man would use his combat training to push a woman that you love out of the life boat? He would have to get through me. But again, that's because she's family, not a woman. If he wants to kick a random woman into the North Atlantic, more power to him. Hell, I might even give her a nudge. Fuck women. They wanted to be on par with men, I am all for it. That means survival of the fittest. That they can't compete against men is their problem, not mine. I'll happily kick a…
/r/MensRights24/07/23 10:20 PM
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That's actually a great question. Yes. I would sacrifice my life for a woman in my family or a woman that I love. But that's because they are family, not women. I would also sacrifice my life for a brother, an uncle, cousin, or any other male relative. Family is different from a random stranger. As far as the general public though? Women want equality. Fine. I have no problem with that. That means I'll fight them for a seat on that lifeboat though. I have combat training. I'll bet I get it. And …
/r/MensRights24/07/23 08:58 PM
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Children yes. Women can fend for themselves.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 07:48 PM
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Probably in prison... ...or witness protection
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/23 04:01 PM
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vancouver is insanely expensive I think I see your problem.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 04:39 PM
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I could easily afford it. Good luck finding one in the West.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 04:38 PM
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It doesn't matter. He told her what his limit was. Period. Why does he need to justify it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/23 11:17 AM
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"You won't do this" is controlling. "I'm not comfortable with you doing this and if you do we can't be together" is a boundary. Most women have just never been told no before.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/23 11:15 AM
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Then they shouldn't care about Passport Bros and MGTOW. But they do.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 07:51 PM
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Because Chad isn't buying dinners, vacations, playing step-dad, and paying child support.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 07:45 PM
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If they are low value, then why do women care? Spoiler alert: They aren't.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 07:33 PM
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Yeah, that's why a 3-second search on TikTok or YouTube will turn up thousands of videos complaining about them and also why Reddit banned the community.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 06:10 PM
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Men going their own way.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 05:58 PM
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"Washington Post" Stopped reading right there.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 05:16 PM
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That's the thing. It isn't traveling. It's moving. $1,500/mo USD in Manila for a single person is living well. That's the median US social security payment. $2,500/mo USD is enough to have a family of 4 live an upper middle class lifestyle. $2,500/mo USD for a single person is living like a king. That's just one example.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 03:43 PM
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Correct. Military men have been doing it for decades but it seems to be catching on in civilian circles as well. Men in the West are just fed up.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 01:28 PM
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The best response to a man-hater is indifference. 90% of the time they are looking for attention and validation. It's why Passport Bros and MGTOW have them in such a twist. If men continue to check out they can't continue their victim party. They'll actually be -gasp- accountable for their own lives. They can't have that.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 11:09 AM
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Perfect description.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 11:04 AM
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I have a sister who is a hardcore liberal. I'm a pretty solid conservative. We love each other to death, and I would walk through fire for her. That's because we recognize that we have opposing political beliefs, but we are both respectful of each other when they come up, even though we disagree. It's never personal. Being family isn't free license to be an asshole.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 11:01 AM
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My grandparents were both raised on a farm. They both worked from dawn to dusk every single day. But despite her "submissive, traditional" role, no one ever thought that anyone but my grandmother was in charge. How feminists ever convinced women to give up that respect to be a cog in the corporate machine I will never understand.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 10:47 AM
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Managing a household includes caring for kids.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 10:31 AM
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Oh, I totally get the stigma and agree. The job is far easier from an execution perspective though.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 10:30 AM
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I've been in the corporate workforce for 35 years. For the last three years, I've been working remote AND managing a household full time. Anyone who thinks that managing a household is more difficult than working in a corporation is absolutely delusional.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 08:19 PM
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I paid $50K in income taxes last year. How much did you pay?
/r/MensRights20/07/23 06:39 PM
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Your inability to earn is not my problem.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 06:28 PM
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60% of Americans pay no income taxes. The means that the top 40% of taxpayers already pay EVERYTHING. What part of that didn't you understand?
/r/MensRights20/07/23 06:20 PM
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Oh for fuck's sake. 60% of the population pays no income taxes as it is. How about we start cutting government spending instead?
/r/MensRights20/07/23 05:12 PM
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Thanks for your kind feedback. Admittedly, it is nice knowing I can tell my boss to fuck off if it ever gets to that, but at the same time... the money just feels like a number in the computer. I'm not living a significantly more lavish or happier life then when I was a student. My friend, with an asset portfolio of $1M USD, you have more wealth than 99.22% of the human population. Your average growth on investments in a month is 10x what most of the world makes in a year. The world is literally…
/r/MensRights20/07/23 04:35 PM
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Imagine. Having someone voluntarily work 60-hour weeks for you, providing for your every need and want, while the only expectation is that you cook, clean, and care for the children. And considering that slavery and oppression. Even more, these same women refuse to date a man who would willingly stay home and do the same. So they don't even want role reversal, they want to be just as miserable as men are, and they'll call it equality. Congratulations and welcome to the consequences of your choic…
/r/MensRights20/07/23 03:39 PM
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The portion of people, especially women, who have mental health issues today is staggering. What's going on?
/r/MensRights20/07/23 03:28 PM
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First, congratulations brother! You did it right. Build your empire first, secure your future. Second, you're still playing the game though. Who cares what anyone else thinks? I'll be sitting in a seaside restaurant with friends having lunch and a glass of wine for 2 hours on a Tuesday. They'll be going through the McDonald's drive through so they can make it back to their 9-5 job within their one hour lunch. I can literally do whatever I want, whenever I want. I'm the master of my own destiny. …
/r/MensRights20/07/23 03:25 PM
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If I hadn't decided to marry and had banked all the money I blew on my relationship with my ex-wife, I would have easily retired a millionaire at 40. The reason you are working all day for your paycheck until you die is because you are trying to meet the expectations of society. Car, clothes, experiences, relationships, none of that is for you. Stop participating, bank your money for a few years, spend the second half of your life doing whatever you want. There is no advantage to men in playing …
/r/MensRights20/07/23 11:13 AM
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Stop playing the game, gentlemen.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 10:22 AM
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That's fairly weak. By the time you're 2 you've been poked, prodded, had blood taken, been vaccinated, etc. by at least half a dozen doctors. A paternity test isn't going to raise that exposure if they really want your DNA.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 10:08 AM
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I love women. As long as I'm paying them by the hour. Which is the only thing you all are good for in 2023. Let me know what your rate is, and maybe we can make a deal.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 12:29 AM
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just because they're educated, have a professional job, have ambition, and know their worth You mean a bitch? No, thanks. My professional ex-wife cost me $500K in the divorce because she couldn't resist her compulsions and the courts considered her a victim despite being Strong and IndependentTM. Prostitutes are cheaper. And my dog is a better companion than any woman I've ever met.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 12:18 AM
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I'd rather pay for it than have to deal with someone like you. Win/win.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 12:06 AM
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I'm highly educated (MBA), meet the "three 6s", I've traveled the world, have a 7-figure portfolio, and retired 15 years early. I would rather fuck a goat than someone like you. And it would likely be a better companion.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 11:59 PM
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Welcome to the party, pal.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 10:24 PM
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This is why you NEVER bring them back to the West.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 10:22 PM
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Because you didn't frame it as a bogus claim, but an assumption. You literally said: i been seeing a lot of people think that most men are in fact rapists, so i like to hear what people on here have to say about this perceived view on men.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 08:16 PM
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Your assumption is accusatory. It's incumbent upon you to provide some sort of data supporting your assertion. If I said "Are most women cheaters?", it would be my responsibility to explain why I'm asking the question, even if my argument was subjective or anecdotal.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 07:55 PM
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I'm a c** dumpster! Look at meee!
/r/MensRights18/07/23 07:16 PM
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I don't care about perception, I care about reality. Show your data.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 11:50 AM
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It's not how many that are leaving, it's who is leaving. I'm retiring over a decade early with a 7-figure net worth and am seriously considering this. The cost of living in the US is just too high and the financial risk of marrying western women is just too great. Once the government realizes that they are losing 10s of thousands of tax dollars every year for every man that leaves, something somewhere will change.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 11:47 AM
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Paternity testing should be mandatory at birth. There is no valid argument against it.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 11:33 AM
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They refuse to grasp that stable successful men are that way due to not having an interest in paying the price for the bad choices of some one else. Perfect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/23 11:24 AM
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I have been happy with my wife over half my life, just can't see it again but I definitely see why younger men would do mgtow. You have been very lucky. You statistically have better odds today of putting half your assets on a single hand of blackjack than getting married.
/r/MensRights16/07/23 08:11 PM
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Only 10 US states recognize common law marriage. Stay out of those states.
/r/MensRights16/07/23 08:09 PM
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Every man I know has been in a situation where a woman tried to baby trap them with someone else's child, either anecdotally or directly, myself included. Paternity tests should be mandatory.
/r/MensRights16/07/23 08:05 PM
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Don't get married and you'll get that 7 hours back. Of course, I'm guessing men would get about 20-30 hours a week back, but that's probably "misogyny"
/r/MensRights16/07/23 07:54 PM
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This person out here replying to every comment It's a bot.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 06:56 PM
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Please provide evidence to back up your claim, Redditor for one year who has only posted this comment, only today, and almost 20 times.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 04:33 PM
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But feminists have told me this never happens!
/r/MensRights15/07/23 02:06 PM
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Phillipines is better. They all speak English and love Americans. Thailand is about to go through a Western style political upheaval. Enjoy Thailand while you can.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/23 12:49 PM
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If only there was some way to adjust direction north or south while going east...
/r/MensRights14/07/23 11:50 AM
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Keep going East.
/r/MensRights14/07/23 10:59 AM
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My divorce cost me $500K. If I had never been married, I would have retired at 40. You have a 50% chance of suffering the same fate, and 80-90% of those are initiated by women. I assure you that not playing is absolutely winning.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 07:17 PM
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Yes. Boycott. Publicly. The only way we can make an impact is if we vote with our wallets. See also, Bud Light.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 05:50 PM
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Yup. Cancelled my gym membership when the pandemic hit. Bought weights and a treadmill for the winter months. I've already saved $1,500 and $50 a month going forward. Only thing I miss is the pool.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 05:44 PM
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And just like that... ...they're men again.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 11:28 AM
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Nope. I'm not "with you".
/r/MensRights12/07/23 12:07 PM
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"Washington Post, Opinion: " Stopped reading right there.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 11:38 AM
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You are aware of where you are, right? You are completely reading into what I'm saying and taking it very personally. I have no issues with women. I love my sister to death and would walk through fire for her. I have great respect for many women I've worked with through the years. But the relationship landscape is absolutely horrid for men and both the legal system and societal structures not only support but encourage it. That's literally why this sub exists. So that men can air their concerns …
/r/MensRights10/07/23 10:24 AM
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Quote exactly where I said that men are better than women. I'll wait.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 10:19 PM
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Funny. My divorce cost me $500K. You're right, almost to the penny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/23 10:12 PM
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Wow. Now THAT is someone who is triggered. I didn't say one negative thing about women. Are you OK honey? Or is the idea of a man happy, self-sufficient, and fulfilled without a woman some kind of personal attack? And if so, maybe you should be asking why you went straight into orbit about something that has absolutely no impact on you whatsoever. Do you have that same reaction when a woman says she's Strong and IndependentTM and "don't need no man" too? Because if not, your claim of equality is…
/r/MensRights09/07/23 07:25 PM
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I have zero interest in gender or race swapped characters.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 05:05 PM
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I'm not fighting any demons. My life is peaceful and fulfilled. I do what I want, when I want. I have more money in the bank than I will ever be able to spend. It is the diametric opposite of what life was when I was married. Outside of sex, there is nothing a woman brings to a relationship today. And if I need that, I can rent it.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 04:29 PM
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Sorry gay men. As much as women want to act as your "allies", where the rubber meets the road you are men first and foremost. Don't be surprised when you get treated like the rest of us.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 01:35 PM
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Sorry gay men. As much as women want to act as your "allies", where the rubber meets the road you are men first and foremost. Don't be surprised when you get treated like the rest of us.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 01:28 PM
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I don't hate women, I'm just indifferent to them. I'm no longer playing their game. If they don't need us, then we don't need them. Look at it this way. Men have been responsible for everything for centuries. Not having to provide, protect, and lead women anymore is a net bonus for us. We get far less responsibility, they get a LOT more. Let's see how that works out for them.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 01:25 PM
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I'm not the least bitter. Why would I buy a used Honda with 100,000 miles when I can rent a brand-new Porsche for the same effort?
/r/MensRights08/07/23 09:38 PM
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Why would a man, established and wealthy, pursue a woman older than 30? And why would he pursue any woman for anything but a transactional relationship?
/r/MensRights08/07/23 08:44 PM
1

You're absolutely right. Waitresses, bartenders, and hairdressers are also acceptable.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 08:32 PM
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She's all yours. I'm done providing my resources to women. The rest of my life will be lived in luxury. Unless she's a 10/10 and it's for an hour or two.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 08:28 PM
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That represents 24% of the population. You are focusing on a ridiculously narrow sample to prove your point. The median age of the US population is now 39 years old. If the 19-24 range has their sexual activity falling off a cliff, then certainly the majority of the male population is having a far harder time.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 08:08 PM
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It has nothing to do with being soft. It has to do with facts. 80% of women are chasing 10% of the men. In the unlikely event you capture one, your odds only marginally increase. 50% of marriages end in divorce. 90% of those are initiated by women. That means you have a 45% chance that your wife will leave you and take half of your life. For context, your odds of winning a single hand of blackjack is 51%. Would you walk into a casino and put half your assets down on a single hand of blackjack? B…
/r/MensRights08/07/23 07:15 PM
2

You had the privilege of actually being dumped? You must be a 10/10. Ghosting is the norm now.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 07:10 PM
1

I'm sorry for your loss.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 07:09 PM
0

Well said.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 07:06 PM
2

I hear you brother. If simps got their shit together the dynamic would change. Save your own ass and let them worry about theirs.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 07:01 PM
0

You can not believe that all you want. The statistics say that it's true. 1/3 of men under 24 have not had sex in the last year.. I assure you it does not get better as you age unless you're in the top tier of men. You are the exception. Celebrate that, but don't assume that your experience in any way represents the norm.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 06:46 PM
5

Why? I want one good reason why I should risk decades of peace and personal fulfillment for the 50% chance at any given point that someone will betray me and I'll end up alone anyway.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 06:05 PM
13

What in the nine hells is going on?
/r/MensRights08/07/23 04:31 PM
4

She was a virgin according to him.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 04:17 PM
2

I have 2 girlfriends and a couple FWBs, am married to none of them and don't really have any plans of ever being. The only financial entanglement of any magnitude that I have with any of these is that I co-own an apartment with one of my girlfriends that I live with. But we share costs equally, and have an actual contract about how to handle it if either one of us no longer wish to co-own it. 95% of men are incapable of this. It's like trying to prove that anyone can be a millionaire because som…
/r/MensRights08/07/23 04:14 PM
2

Then maybe society should get its shit together.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 04:08 PM
16

Unfortunately that isn't the solution. I know a guy who went to Thailand to find his bride. She was sweet, innocent, traditional, the perfect wife. He brought her back to the US. It took 12 months for her to get infected with Western feminism, divorce him, and clean him out. He almost killed himself over it.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 04:05 PM
2

Guys, please get out of the hardcore blue states. It doesn't matter what your politics are, you are the enemy there.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 03:44 PM
9

LOL. Holy shit. I thought I was the only one to run into a lunatic therapist. Kind of off-topic anecdote...My ex-wife developed a secret narcotics habit. She was sleeping 20 hours a day because she was "sick". I was working 18 hours a day, maintaining the house, making the meals, taking care of the kids and dogs, and paying all the bills. When I found out, I told her she needed to get clean and we needed to go to marriage counseling. First session, after hearing both sides, the therapist looked …
/r/MensRights08/07/23 03:35 PM
42

As I say over and over again. Do. Not. Get. Married. There is no benefit in marriage for men today. Zero.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 03:25 PM
12

I'm actually writing a book under a pseudonym. It will hopefully be published next year.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 02:25 PM
12

Thanks brother. Yeah, I'm not bitter. I'm just done. Either the majority of women are morally bankrupt or I suck at judging character. Given my position and success the latter is unlikely but certainly not impossible. Either way though, I've had enough. I agree with you that stories like this are important. Young men contemplating relationships need to at least understand what the risks are. But I do strongly recommend against marriage. My divorce cost me $500K. There is zero benefit to men in m…
/r/MensRights08/07/23 01:57 PM
1

Unless by "elite" you mean 8-figure men, then it's no better for those at the upper end either.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 01:44 PM
18

3 times. In 3 different relationships. That I know of. I'm an executive for a large company. One was with her ex-boyfriend, the drug dealer. One was with a co-worker, a contractor. The last one was with her personal trainer, my son's age. I did all the standard things. Vacations overseas, high-end dinners every weekend, spending money on gifts regularly, etc. None of them wanted for anything and it was all useless. They've been conditioned to believe there is always something better around the c…
/r/MensRights08/07/23 01:42 PM
2

Just like in the West.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 12:12 PM
20

It's not just that. They are impossible to please except in short bursts. I fall into that category of being a "high value" male. I make multiple six figures, over 6 feet, fit, etc. I typically dated the highly educated, professional types; doctors, attorneys, executives, etc. They are insufferable. They're narcissistic, inflexible, stubborn, instant gratification based, and the second they see another shiny thing over there, they're gone. And this is why body count matters. Women who go down th…
/r/MensRights08/07/23 12:12 PM
14

My heart goes out to him. The reason you're alone is important, though. If you're alone and bitter, that's not good. I choose to be alone because I'm OK with it. It's a simple cost/benefit analysis.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 12:04 PM
70

Remain single. Greatest investment I ever made You know, I didn't buy this argument. Then 6 years ago my partner of 9 years cheated on me. I had spent a decade of time and money on my relationship and all of a sudden it had all gone to waste. It was the 3rd time I'd been cheated on in a serious relationship and had to start from scratch. At least I wasn't stupid enough to marry her. I decided I'd had enough and chose to stop dating and just focus on myself. The change has been astonishing. I've …
/r/MensRights08/07/23 12:01 PM
11

Misogyny!! /s just in case.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 12:16 AM
20

This is why we should be pushing HARD for school choice.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 11:27 AM
52

They take no accountability while forcing everything onto men. This is the core of the problem. Women are responsible for nothing. Their entire attitude would change if there was equality of consequences.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 11:26 AM
11

Gives new meaning to the term "dumpster fire"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/23 12:51 AM
3

I'm pretty close to being MGTOW at this point. I don't hate women. I'm just tired of dealing with their privilege.
/r/MensRights03/07/23 12:07 PM
21

I was on track for 45 but I made the mistake of getting married and then of course divorced. Now I'm on track for 55. I effectively lost 10 years of my retirement. Do. Not. Get. Married.
/r/MensRights02/07/23 01:31 PM
9

It doesn't matter. A judge can throw it out if they think it's unfair. It's entirely at their discretion. I pulled an activist feminist judge. Although we didn't have a prenup, my ex admitted she was 100% at fault and agreed to 100k. The judge decided that wasn't "fair". Until the laws change, there is zero benefit for men in marriage and 100% of the risk. I'll never do it again.
/r/MensRights02/07/23 10:54 AM
19

My divorce cost me $500K in total. He just won my permanent loyalty.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 08:03 PM
41

Counter with "treat women like men" and see what reaction you get.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 03:12 PM
31

The "Stong and IndependentTM" trope means something specific. It typically comes from women who scream about how "Men are trash" and "I don't need no man". They self identify as queens, bad bitches, and boss bitches. They are typically narcissistic, entitled, and overbearing. And there are MANY of them out there. Like I said, men want partners, not adversaries.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 02:28 PM
43

They just don't want the money tap turned off. It's like the rising trend of women in their 30s saying "I don't want to be Strong and IndependentTM anymore! Where's my husband!" Sorry toots. That ship has sailed. Straight men aren't interested in masculine partners by and large. Welcome to the consequences of your choices.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 01:28 PM
2

Then the best you can do is not get married and live in a state without common law marriage. And of course, don't have kids unless you are absolutely, totally, 100% sure. And even then, get a paternity test.
/r/MensRights29/06/23 11:41 AM
7

Well, the US is already male-only conscription and run by crooks, so...
/r/MensRights29/06/23 10:25 AM
3

That's what I've been hearing. The Philippines seems to be the best bet at the moment. Still traditional, good mix of religions including a large Christian contingent, mostly speak English, like Americans, and very inexpensive.
/r/MensRights29/06/23 10:13 AM
3

Excellent plan. I'm almost on the last step myself.
/r/MensRights29/06/23 10:11 AM
4

Either you find the unicorn or you go overseas, not Europe.
/r/MensRights29/06/23 10:11 AM
1

You got lucky. Hang on to her. You have a better chance of winning a single hand of blackjack than having a successful marriage with a Western woman long-term.
/r/MensRights29/06/23 10:10 AM
91

Stay away from Western women if you value your sanity. And net worth.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 11:52 PM
3

My mother abandoned us when I was 15 and my sister was 10 to move in with her boyfriend. The narrative of female innocence is bullshit. I assure you women are routinely abusive.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 09:18 PM
3

If you get married there is a 45% chance your wife will divorce you, take half your money, and half your paycheck potentially forever. You have a 51% chance of winning a single hand of blackjack. Your check box is this: Would you be willing to put half your assets on a single hand of blackjack? Because the odds are better that you'll succeed.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 02:26 PM
21

I've been in business 30 years. The first cardinal rule of a business relationship is to never sign a contract where the other party financially benefits by breaking it. Do. Not. Marry.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 02:18 PM
1

Not just playgrounds. My partner and I were with our daughter in Macy's shopping for clothes for her. Mom went to the restroom. I became aware that a clerk was shadowing us, then store security, then I was approached by police. As they were questioning me and trying to separate her from me, mom came back. She was not happy. Consciously or subconsciously, most women believe that men who aren't pedos and traffickers just haven't become one yet. It's beyond ridiculous.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 11:09 AM
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Because the left has a crusader complex that is all about championing the "victim". Their policies are almost entirely about feelings and not facts. Despite all evidence to the contrary, women are still seen as victims. You'll find very few MRAs that don't believe in equality. You'll find very few feminists today that do. Feminism now is all about power and revenge.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 12:48 PM
1

Why would MRAs have any opinion on what happens in a women's prison?
/r/MensRights25/06/23 12:32 PM
1

Catholics are split down the middle.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 10:44 AM
9

It doesn't matter if she would. I'm former military and former law enforcement. I would defend anyone who is under immediate threat. I won't be a Uvalde piece of shit. And since I am always armed and highly trained, I'm perfectly capable of doing so.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 09:02 PM
10

Bingo. I was raised with the values of chivalry. I've completely abandoned them. Unless I see a woman under imminent threat of immediate death or great bodily harm, because helping then is just being a decent human being, she's on her own.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 07:43 PM
11

Correct. If they eliminated alimony entirely, divorce would disappear overnight. Marriage might too, but we're headed there anyway.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 11:54 AM
32

Yes. Women are Strong and IndependentTM until it comes to alimony. I'm totally sure she contributed $248K/mo to the marriage.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 10:29 AM
39

We have these laws because at one point women didn't work in the marketplace and divorce was rare. It was unreasonable to have either party end the marriage and then have the woman put out on the street. At the same time, divorce had to be "with cause". You couldn't just say "I want a divorce". None of those conditions have existed for 40 years but the laws never changed, so now it's a retirement plan for women.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 10:27 AM
5

Yeah, there is. She's a fucking lunatic.
/r/MensRights23/06/23 05:52 PM
21

"single momma strong" Stopped reading right there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/23 04:10 PM
24

"I come with a lil baggage" Lady, Carnival Cruise ships carry less baggage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/23 03:47 PM
5

Nope. I cannot accept that any human being is this much of a monster in modern day.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 09:36 PM
3

Good. They wanted to be Strong and IndependentTM, this is what it looks like.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 07:53 PM
1

I already answered you. You ignored it and went on a narcissistic diatribe.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 04:41 PM
1

Oh no. You're right! You go Queen!
/r/MensRights20/06/23 04:33 PM
1

This is why relationships are failing at a staggering rate. Thank you for being the sterotype.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 04:23 PM
1

Because men have been doing it for hundreds, if not thousands of years when we were the breadwinners. Because before this Strong and Independent WomanTM BS, relationships were joint ventures where both parties contributed everything so the entire family would benefit. The person making more contributes more. Men who complained otherwise were considered losers. And how many men have cared for stepchildren or taken on the families of single mothers and provided the same support? Welcome to equalit…
/r/MensRights20/06/23 03:50 PM
1

You're describing an LLC, not a relationship.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 11:38 AM
3

Would it be OK if a woman who was accused of SA said " Women should be cautions to work with men What are you talking about? Are you from Mars? There have literally been news articles written about how women should fear men in EVERY environment. It's a primary assumption of feminism today.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 11:27 AM
9

Perfectly said. I've been in large corporations as a manager for 25 years. The last 7 have been an absolute nightmare. DEI/ESG is saturated everywhere. Every single group has a day, celebration, awareness training, support group, quota, etc. Except us. In 5 years the workplace will be unrecognizable. And don't even get me started on hiring practices. I've been speed running retirement savings and paying off debt to retire early. Working always sucked, but we were focused on actual work. And if y…
/r/MensRights20/06/23 11:22 AM
2

The funny thing is that in the traditional societal model, men were in charge and women were protected and cared for. Now women want to be in charge. Anyone think they are going to protect and care for their men?
/r/MensRights19/06/23 03:34 PM
7

Imagine how bad it must have been.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 11:59 AM
4

Stockholm syndrome. They are defending their oppressors due to mental abuse.
/r/MensRights18/06/23 07:55 PM
3

Australia is lost. How did that happen?
/r/MensRights15/06/23 11:00 AM
9

Probably for the best. You're still a man in their eyes. The minute you step out of line, you'll be treated just like the rest of us.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 10:43 AM
6

Violence isn't necessary. Men simply engaging in passive resistance en masse would do the trick. Once women have to repair their own roofs, take jobs in sanitation and mining, and have to completely financially support themselves, they'll get it. Accountability is their kryptonite.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 04:28 PM
7

Why would we want to end a group where women are showing us their true nature? We already know. And the people who don't won't care.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 01:59 PM
6

Chad says what?
/r/MensRights14/06/23 01:57 PM
14

There is. It's called MGTOW. Once they come to the realization that men are no longer there for them, the attitude will change. And if it doesn't then men at least will still be in a better state.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 01:55 PM
29

Someone actually said the quiet part out loud. And in writing.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 01:53 PM
14

Yes, you have. That ackowledgement is the first step to getting help.
/r/MensRights12/06/23 02:12 PM
24

There is no toxic masculinity. Grow up.
/r/MensRights12/06/23 12:47 PM
7

I understand. You were trying to be specific. That's literally step one for us though. Most of us don't care for this identity and intersectionality. It means nothing to us. We are men. It doesn't matter if you're gay, straight, Christian, Muslim, or trans period. The minute you say that your men's issues are different from mine because <insert victimhood group here> we stop listening. I was talking about the risk of exile. Many people fear speaking publicly about men's rights issues for fear of…
/r/MensRights11/06/23 12:42 PM
20

Well, you know different trans people than I do then. I can only react based on my experience. Funny thing is, I used to be involved in artistic endeavors including the theater. As a white "cis" male, the toxicity has pretty much driven me out. God it was exhausting. It's not worth it. I don't have any animosity towards trans people, I just have no interest in dealing with the drama that I've experienced from them. Sorry.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 11:37 AM
13

That's an emotional argument, not a rational one. How is one medical procedure different from another in terms of risk assessment? Yes, drug trials and procedural trials have gone on for decades in the past because the first principle of medicine is "do no harm". And "we can't see long-term effects" is exactly the foundation of the scientific method. Many people have died waiting for treatment because it is objectively better to risk a few than to risk many. Science doesn't work that way. Want a…
/r/MensRights11/06/23 11:25 AM
6

Thank you for your kind words.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 11:18 AM
13

I wasn't attributing that to you personally. I don't know you. But many on the left have that attitude.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 11:18 AM
6

That guy being an idiot isn't something rare though. Many on the left share that attitude. Thank you for the kind words, though. However, truly being an ally with cis men today requires you to personally and publicly take risks. Anyone perceiving to do that on the left is immediately exiled. I've seen it happen. And please, you can start by not calling us "cis men". We are men. Certainly, we welcome any genuine camaraderie.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 11:15 AM
8

Thank you for responding. You were fortunate enough to transition before you experienced the worst of it. There is a reason why many men are starting to check out of this nonsense.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 11:10 AM
28

Come on. You KNOW that attitude is not uncommon.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 11:03 AM
8

At what age did you transition? Honest question. Because if it was after 25, then you should understand how men are treated in society and what's expected of us. It explains very easily why a lot of us just don't care anymore. Our empathy is reserved for ourselves as we get none from anyone else.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 11:00 AM
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I can't have empathy for a group that publicly espouses, as this person did, that you deserve the misfortune in your life. "I think you're responsible for all the evil in the world and deserve to be punished but you should also be allies to us and care about our issues." Yeah. No thanks. I am completely and proudly apathetic to someone who has never met me that thinks I'm guilty of something.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 10:56 AM
24

Actually, it's just the opposite, but thank you for making that assumption. There isn't a large enough sample size over a long enough period of time to make a definitive judgement. Just because it helps some people initially, doesn't mean it has longevity. Most of the citations in your link are less than 5 years old. It was 55 years before science realized that lobotomies were, except in extremely rare cases, disastrous. Maybe I'm wrong, but there is not nearly enough history or evidence yet. An…
/r/MensRights11/06/23 10:50 AM
8

If you leave your partner who is fighting for their life, you are the lowest POS of all.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 10:40 AM
14

Well, none of this is coming from "cis" men. We're too busy trying to survive to engage with this nonsense. You're not getting an alliance from me by stating that "white, cis men still deserve it."
/r/MensRights11/06/23 10:38 AM
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but also why be like “tough break” about it? shouldn’t we be kind to each other? i love men so much and want them to be happy too, wish the feeling was mutual :/ Tell me you're a woman without telling me you're a woman.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 10:35 AM
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Norah Vincent actually understood, though. This person, despite seeing how shitty men are treated, still thinks they deserve it.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 10:33 AM
29

They said that about lobotomies for a couple of decades too.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 10:32 AM
9

Most likely. It's very common in these feminist-led or power couple scenarios.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 10:29 AM
12

So you're saying he was asking for it? Seriously?
/r/MensRights08/06/23 01:12 PM
3

3 white, 2 black, 1 Indian
/r/MensRights07/06/23 02:17 PM
5

I hadn't heard the slavery thing before. Thanks for the chuckle.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 09:55 AM
5

Oh yes. We have a great relationship.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 09:54 AM
7

There's a wide array to choose from.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 11:02 PM
30

Welcome to relationships in the 21st century. My dog is a better companion than any woman I've ever known.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 10:32 PM
19

Sure. Maybe I suck at choosing partners for whatever reason. 0/6 is less than Vegas odds though. Even a broken clock is right twice a day. The question still remains, why would i ever care about a relationship again?
/r/MensRights06/06/23 09:28 PM
36

"Modern women want the privileges of women, the rights of men, and the accountability of children"
/r/MensRights06/06/23 08:37 PM
98

My first girlfriend tried to baby trap me with another guys baby My second girlfriend aborted our child so it wouldn't wreck her body for the guy she was cheating on me with. My first fiance was sleeping with her ex-boyfriend My drug addict ex-wife cost me $500K in the divorce. The girlfriend after that tried to falsely accuse me when I tried to break up with her crazy ass. The last girlfriend I walked in on getting railed from behind by a guy my son's age in our bed. Women now act like shitty m…
/r/MensRights06/06/23 06:19 PM
5

Let me guess... Male suicide rate highest, women most affected?
/r/MensRights06/06/23 10:38 AM
2

I agree. But in the current climate, for men, the risk is far too high.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 03:33 PM
6

I agree. By every metric a two parent household is better for children. You don't have to convince men that a two parent household is better, you have to convince women. They are the ones ending marriages.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 08:30 PM
5

I don't disagree with that. You have to pay child support anyway. Why add alimony?
/r/MensRights04/06/23 05:48 PM
8

Yeah. Unfortunately, it's not an exaggeration. As I say frequently, there's a 50% chance your marriage will end in divorce. 9:1 because the woman wants out and you get to lose half your stuff at least. You have a 51% chance of winning a single hand of blackjack. Let that sink in.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 03:28 PM
23

So feminism is not opposed to the notion of slavery then? Just who is “okay to be a slave” and who isn’t? Yeah. That's exactly what they think.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 02:09 PM
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Women will get kicked out of womens spaces for not agreeing with the "group think" attitudes The answer in one sentence. Dissent is not tolerated. I give them points for having the bravery to come here and share their thoughts.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 01:25 PM
14

I don't in either case. I would prefer for them to chase their impossible requirements forever and not put some poor guy through the marriage/divorce ringer.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 12:28 PM
9

Yes, there are some lovely women out there. Unfortunately, as a proportion of the population, that number is shrinking rapidly.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 12:26 PM
13

Marriage is statistically 900% riskier for men than women. And when they decide to leave, you're screwed. You have better odds putting half your stuff down on a single hand of blackjack. Literally.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 12:24 PM
12

How is marrying a requirement for children? A quarter of families are already single parent. And it's growing. And since 80-90% of all divorces are initiated by women, why take the financial risk?
/r/MensRights04/06/23 12:21 PM
20

This is why body count matters. A guy will find a woman attractive for reason A. He'll sleep with her, not enjoy the experience, and then be less inclined to look for that preference. It may no longer even be a preference. If it is, though, he'll date a woman who doesn't have it too. A woman will pursue a guy for requirement A. Usually something out of their league. The guy will pump and dump or ghost her. The next guy she'll pursue for requirement B, but she STILL needs requirement A. And her l…
/r/MensRights04/06/23 11:02 AM
10

A year? That's just a bad month in Chicago where 90% of victims are men.
/r/MensRights03/06/23 12:21 PM
10

If any woman says "body count doesn't matter" then they should be proud to share their number. Ask her.
/r/MensRights03/06/23 11:08 AM
12

Another single mother contributing to the statistics.
/r/MensRights01/06/23 12:37 PM
5

I remember that movie. That's a very good analogy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/23 10:13 AM
37

Translation: My CC count is in the triple digits and almost all my eggs are gone. What is the likelihood I'll find a simp to take that 25% chance of getting me pregnant, if possible, and the 51% chance of me screwing him for half his assets afterwards?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/23 08:13 PM
1

None of which were in evidence in this case. This was entirely elective.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 07:56 PM
1

I'll stand by for any evidence that a circumcision of an 11-year-old is ever necessary. I'll wait.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 07:14 PM
4

You know why.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 06:10 PM
0

What exactly are they so angry about?
/r/MensRights31/05/23 12:05 PM
6

Let's be accurate. Women are incentivized to leave marriages. And the greater the economic disparity, the greater the benefit. A woman working as a waitress married to a middle manager for a large corp for 10 years will easily walk out of that marriage set for life.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 11:56 AM
5

But he wasn't getting his tonsils removed. He was undergoing an unnecessary procedure.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 11:23 AM
8

Ummm...why do you think he was being anesthetized?
/r/MensRights30/05/23 09:44 PM
41

Men's rights is a threat to the societal order because it fights for balance. In the court system, universities, workplaces, dating pool, justice system, and with parental rights. If the MRA movement wins out, women have to give up a little power and control to finally fight on even ground. MGTOW is a disaster for society. If women have to rely on themselves in every aspect of their lives (physical, financial, parental, etc.) they know they won't be able to survive. Unless they are at the very p…
/r/MensRights30/05/23 08:06 PM
2

Fair enough. Though 900% is a strong indicator.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 02:45 PM
8

Perhaps. There are definitely conditions that are sex linked though.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 02:24 PM
33

Interesting. I hadn't thought of that possibility. There certainly could be a correlation. I wonder how the numbers change if we look at girls as a comparison.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 12:02 PM
3

I divorced my ex-wife because she hid a narcotic habit from me twice. She admitted to everyone, including the court, that she was 100% at fault. We sat down and agreed to a divorce deal that we both found fair. She would get $90K to get herself a new place and $1K a month for a year to get her on her feet and find a job. About $100K in total. Pretty reasonable. The judge (female feminist) lost it. She amended the agreement from the bench. $3K a month in support for 3 years, I took on all the deb…
/r/MensRights30/05/23 11:37 AM
115

Not the boys, their mothers. Having a mother with BPD makes their sons 9x more likely to have gender identity issues. Further supporting that it's mostly externally driven. If I'm reading that right.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 11:22 AM
16

Arrest that traitor first.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 06:37 PM
5

She does ignore the evidence she's over forty, has standards that'll only increase as her SMV drops even lower They can't lower their standards. They would have to admit that they've been wrong their entire lives and take accountability for their decisions. Good luck with that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/23 03:45 PM
3

I've been running Linux since the installation had to be compiled. I think I've worked with every distribution out there at least once. Linux Mint is now my primary desktop because it just works.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/23 03:42 PM
2

It is. Ironically, "Wargames" Great flick too.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 01:56 PM
2

Yikes. There's more red flags there than at a Chinese military parade. First question: do you live in a common law marriage jurisdiction? Because if so any separation is going to be very expensive. You will have to be prepared to fight for your daughter in any event. So if you do decide to end things. Set a timeline for yourself, say 30 days, and contact a custody attorney ASAP. Make sure you fully understand your legal situation before you say ANYTHING to her. House is in constant disarray and …
/r/MensRights28/05/23 12:23 PM
-10

This was very well written. I'm not sure I agree with some of your points, but it's nice to see the different perspective in a mature and constructive approach. Just wanted to say thank you for the input.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 11:00 AM
18

Sidenote: This is also why bodycount matters. The higher the number the greater chance of trauma, up to and including running into an alpha widow.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 10:56 AM
23

No. This is a false accusation waiting to happen.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 10:54 AM
47

She doxxed you to a creeper site before your first date? I wouldn't have been irritated. I would have thanked her for the evening and walked out. If she admitted she ran a criminal background check on you for her safety that would be a different thing entirely and, in my opinion, perfectly reasonable. I don't understand where the conflict is. Unless you want to sign up to be held responsible for all her prior bad experiences going forward. Because that's what this behavior is setting up.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 10:52 AM
7

Exactly. Don't participate. There is nothing in it for us. I wish to god I had someone beat that into my head 30 years ago. I could have retired a millionaire at 35. Men don't realize how badly society sucks them dry until it's far too late.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 10:47 AM
10

Remember: no matter how much you love her, and no matter what she says, once you lose your usefulness from an economic standpoint, she's probably gone. From any standpoint really. They have expectations from you that they will not compromise on in the smallest even if they make no sense. My last serious girlfriend was always upset because I never did anything around the house. I never did anything around the house because I was making enough money to hire out. Housekeepers, landscapers, handymen…
/r/MensRights28/05/23 10:42 AM
22

No. I'm sorry. I refuse to believe that any human being can be this delusional.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/23 10:02 PM
28

Don't you know? She IS the table. If I had a dollar...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/23 11:29 AM
14

Before I went through family court I thought the whole idea of men’s rights was dumb and didn’t understand any of it. Now I do. This is a common experience. I didn't think twice about it until my divorce. After a feminist judge gave my ex-wife, a secret drug addict, $500K "in the interest of society" I understood. It was 5x the settlement we had negotiated. And yes, although I am salty about that experience, I now see what men are talking about.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 11:23 AM
5

Stop participating. If you work in a trade, refuse to accept women customers. Don't date and definitely don't get married. Pump and dump if you absolutely have to, but for god's sake don't get her pregnant. Save your money. Build your empire. Live your life. It's a lot more pleasant without modern day relationship bullshit. It will not take very long for women to discover what the point of men is.
/r/MensRights25/05/23 09:07 PM
3

Quoting what someone else here once said: They want all the privileges of women, all the rights of men, and all the accountability of children.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 11:25 AM
8

They've been taught all their lives that they can do whatever they want. This is what happens when they're suddenly faced with the reality that their actions may have actual consequences.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 11:23 AM
5

Imagine being so brainwashed that you truly believe you are under threat 24x7. What a sad way to live.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 11:19 AM
8

Stop participating. Men cannot even achieve parity in the current system. If you insist on pursuing the fantasy relationship ideal that you've been taught, you are likely to fail. There is nothing of benefit to men in relationships today. Hire a housekeeper, cook, and occasional "girlfriend". It will be cheaper in the long run.
/r/MensRights21/05/23 08:34 PM
9

For every one of these, how many go the other way or end up in "settlements"?
/r/MensRights19/05/23 10:21 AM
236

Good. I'm sick of these perpetual victims. About time one got swatted across the nose.
/r/MensRights18/05/23 12:05 PM
13

In the darkness, a small light.
/r/MensRights17/05/23 01:20 PM
281

The system lets violent criminals out on house arrest. But a guy falsely accused of rape where even the victim is defending him gets 29 years in prison. Wonderful...
/r/MensRights17/05/23 12:40 PM
7

It's legal in 7 US states too.
/r/MensRights17/05/23 10:41 AM
50

Stop participating. Make women do all of the things necessary to support their own lives. Stop coddling them. Stop white knighting them. They want relationships to be transactional, let's make relationships transactional. Enough is enough.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 09:01 PM
1

OK. I'm partially in. I would have to see the numbers on the "all kids get income" part. We are already incentivizing generational welfare in the US through reproduction. Any solution would have to resolve that.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 06:39 PM
1

I'm not familiar with Finland's assistance programs, but if that's how they function I'm in too. Unfortunately, the existing welfare programs in the US are as far from this as they can get.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 06:31 PM
2

People who NEED help should get it. People who can help themselves should do so. Disabled, elderly, ill, children, all should have a safety net to provide for them. If you are a 25-year-old able-bodied person, go to work. If you can't find a job, then any government assistance should include a 40 hour a week work requirement. And there is no such thing as a "disadvantaged class". Nobody should be coddled.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 06:25 PM
43

For recreational use only.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/23 06:01 PM
16

They better donate before October!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/23 04:41 PM
-2

The difference is a rational approach vs an emotional one. The left does whatever "feels" right all the time, regardless of obvious long-term consequences. That's why they always use the term "my reality". The right may get it wrong, but it's usually at least based on empirical data.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 02:17 PM
13

Reddit is something like 90% hard left progressive. That makes most of the people here hardcore "feminists". Neither of those groups are capable of tolerating competing ideas.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 12:30 PM
5

Reddit is to online discussion what TikTok is to video.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 01:07 PM
31

The judge absolutely knew about it. It was the reason for the divorce. She ended up on welfare spending her divorce settlement on drugs. After 5 years, she was penniless. She had blown through a half a million dollars in 5 years with absolutely nothing to show for it. I find it difficult to consider that justice.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 09:29 PM
39

Oh, that's the awesome part. She admitted that she was 100% responsible for the divorce. We hammered out a mutual agreement that she would get $100K and out. The judge determined that our mutual agreement wasn't "in the interest of the common good" and changed it from the bench to $500K. You are accountable even if you aren't responsible. DO NOT GET MARRIED.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 09:12 PM
26

Does drug addict qualify as a career?
/r/MensRights12/05/23 09:07 PM
27

It didn't factor. He was 18 when we divorced. Fun fact, he chose to live with me.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 08:31 PM
13

I had an ex try to baby trap me in my teens. I insisted on a paternity test. Paid for it out of pocket, which was no small feat at the time. She went absolutely psychotic at the suggestion. Turns out it wasn't mine, luckily. Yes, "Protect your seed" is sound advice.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 08:28 PM
5

Welcome to the world of Strong and Independent WomynTM
/r/MensRights12/05/23 08:27 PM
4

They do. Which is why we need to end the incentivizing of women destroying families.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 08:26 PM
7

You aren't making the argument you think you are. 3% of 10% is effectively zero. Also from your link. 400,000 alimony recipients in 2010. 12,000 were men. You're saying there's some parity there?
/r/MensRights12/05/23 06:40 PM
7

That's not evidence. And you probably won't find it because national statistics on alimony aren't kept.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 06:32 PM
10

Um, no I don't. 3% is effectively zero. If you are saying that it doesn't happen, feel free to present your evidence and I'll be happy to look at it.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 06:28 PM
11

Yes. In the infinity of the universe, every single possible outcome will happen. But as a rule, that's true.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 06:27 PM
28

Why is it all YOUR stuff if BOTH of you spent years/decades building up that wealth TOGETHER? Also, your math is off. Who has the other 50% of leaving a marriage? Highly doubt non-binary people factor into your math there. Aw, someone's triggered. I'll try to put it simply. Only 3% of alimony recipients are men. That's almost statistically insignificant. The average marriage before divorce is 5 years yet both spouses are entitled to half the assets. That despite men statistically bring 70% of th…
/r/MensRights12/05/23 05:55 PM
5

Thanks. That's what I thought.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 05:23 PM
7

Why? What's the benefit?
/r/MensRights12/05/23 04:37 PM
12

Jesus. I'm 6' 2" and 210 and could afford to lose 10 pounds. Who the hell is sleeping with these women?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/23 02:40 PM
33

Women don't date down, they sure as hell won't marry down.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 02:09 PM
223

Men have a 5% chance of leaving a marriage. Women 45%. It's literally a 900% greater incidence. And they walk away with half your stuff plus support. You have better odds putting half your assets down on a single hand of blackjack (50.1%). My divorce cost me $500K. Never again, and you shouldn't either.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 01:24 PM
2

Is there any circumstance in which women don't consider themselves victims?
/r/MensRights10/05/23 12:01 PM
28

Since there is a high probability that the first Mars crew will die, I'm all for it. Women risking their lives in a new endeavor instead of men would be a novel change.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 08:43 PM
17

Someone else said this here a few days ago: "Feminists want all the privileges of women, all the rights of men, and all the accountability of a child."
/r/MensRights09/05/23 11:28 AM
5

Brilliantly said.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 11:46 AM
2

Perfectly stated.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 12:35 PM
5

What are you talking about?
/r/MensRights06/05/23 09:53 PM
116

Stop participating. Make women do the shit jobs that they expect men to do. Once feminists realize that they have to REALLY be self-sufficient things will start to change.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 06:19 PM
1

Spoiler alert: If she finds you attractive, none of her requirements matter.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 03:46 PM
12

Feminism isn't about equality. It's about power.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 03:43 PM
20

Women in Trucking: 8 Ways For Men To Be Allies Stopped reading right there. Take your entitlement elsewhere.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 03:41 PM
3

What was the implication? That you were trafficking a black teen? Yeah, I think that was the thought process. And people wonder why men are stepping back from the role of being defenders and protectors.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:33 PM
3

Oh, it was glorious.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:31 PM
54

I'm a white guy. I dated a single black mother for 10 years. When her daughter was 13, we went to Chicago and went shopping at Macy's. At some point, my girlfriend had to go to the bathroom leaving me with her daughter. We were going through the shoes section when we were approached by a worker asking if we needed help. I said no. That happened another three times. I finally looked around to see three security guards forming a perimeter around us and then was approached by two police officers as…
/r/MensRights06/05/23 12:01 AM
3

I don't like Gaetz, but no he doesn't. This deviation from civilized society needs to stop.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 04:49 PM
3

Assault is assault. Why do feminists feel that it's OK to act like children?
/r/MensRights05/05/23 04:47 PM
6

I'm in my 50s. My girlfriend is beautiful and 20 years younger. She has no baggage, a low body count, no kids by baby daddies, is not bitter, and doesn't have that ridiculous "boss bitch" mentality. She keeps me young and I keep her comfortable. We have been together for 3 years and are perfectly happy. Screw the haters.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 02:45 PM
34

Picture of what Hepatitis looks like as a person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/23 02:19 PM
22

Invested once, after 20 years, that's a $1.2M retirement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/23 02:18 PM
2

No it isn't, because that's not what it says. It says that women feel so entitled to a man's wealth that the mere idea of having to save for the future is incomprehensible to many women.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 10:28 AM
19

Even better. I was married 9 years. I could have had a housekeeper, professional chef on occasion, and a different high-end escort every week for what my divorce cost me. And still come out ahead.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 08:57 PM
46

My bank account, my choice.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 01:28 PM
88

Porn and videogames won't cost me $500K. My ex-wife sure did though.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 12:55 PM
24

Become a plumber, electrician, carpenter, or other tradesman. Refuse to take female customers or charge them a 30% premium. No need to be exposed to the shitshow that is a college campus. Win/win.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 03:40 PM
1

Yeah. By choice. After my wife took me for $500K in my divorce, I'm done. I'll be single on a tropical beach, retired a millionaire at 55. I'm totally fine with that. Renting it is cheaper anyway.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 09:51 AM
3

Privilege
/r/MensRights29/04/23 09:50 PM
1

It's only responsible to put the toilet seat down. I use bleach tabs in the tank and don't want my dog drinking the water. Otherwise, they can deal with putting the seat down.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 01:21 PM
192

So we're all for "trans women" until the government loses their meat for the grinder. Then they're men. No exceptions. Sounds about right.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 11:12 AM
7

Fair enough. "realized" should have been "admitted"
/r/MensRights28/04/23 02:53 PM
9

You're talking about two different things. In the West, women do have equal rights, and they have for decades. Being treated equally is an entirely different story. Women haven't yet realized that they are privileged, not oppressed.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 10:47 AM
2

Traditional wives do many things and I would happily take the risk for one of those. Modern wives do not. I could also have hired a professional chef and a housekeeper. And STILL came out ahead.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 10:31 PM
26

Women: We are strong and independent boss babes who don't need no man and can take care of ourselves. Also women: We are emotional beings who can't be held accountable because we are living our reality and to judge us is misogyny. They call men who kill their children "family destroyers", not having "diminished responsibility"
/r/MensRights27/04/23 10:08 PM
6

You think facts actually matter to them?
/r/MensRights27/04/23 08:59 PM
2

Contact HR. Tell them you feel like it has produced a hostile work environment.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 01:25 PM
36

When women are trying and unable to get jobs as sanitation workers, roofers, construction workers, and in oil drilling, I'll listen to their claims of discrimination.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 11:40 AM
3

And he got off easy. Probably because of high powered attorneys. I'm just a regular guy. My ex-wife was 100% responsible for our divorce. It cost me $500K in total. Do. Not. Get. Married. If you're living in a common law state, MOVE.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 10:31 AM
1

Yet the Reddit group was banned, influencers have been deplatformed, and men advocating for it have been cancelled. For not giving a shit, they seem to pounce on it at the speed of light. Interesting.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 10:12 AM
5

why get married ever again? Exactly. I'll retire early as a millionaire and single after having lost $500K in my divorce. If I choose to spend my money on a woman, it will be my choice. No one will ever mandate the distribution of my hard work ever again. Fuck the government and fuck feminists.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 04:49 PM
7

I guess single mothers and educational institutions should stop raising "manchildren" then. Oh wait. That requires accountability.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 02:44 PM
3

That doesn't answer my question.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 03:56 PM
6

I would prefer that divorce didn't incentivize women to engage in it. Or do you think that 5% of men and 45% of women are in unhappy relationships? Seriously? Nobody can be that naive.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 03:53 PM
10

When you are a parent, your duty is to your children. It has been proven overwhelmingly that children from two parent homes have DRASTICALLY improved outcomes. So yes. Suck it up, be an adult, stop being a narcissist, and live with the consequences of your decisions.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 03:44 PM
33

Oh I know. I'm happy to get the numbers up there though. Even when he deletes, my data will still be there.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 11:54 AM
52

Sorry, you don't get to make those claims without data. You are making a huge number of assumptions.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 11:33 AM
56

if you aren’t supporting your kids, you suck I agree. But again, it isn't men leaving in record numbers. Women are incentivized to leave and take the kids and even when men try to fight for their kids they lose at a 2:1 ratio. That's why they do it 900% more than men do. The overall deadbeat dad argument is an absolute myth.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 11:22 AM
80

First, 0.3% of children are in foster care. so that's an edge case. Second... If she packs up and leaves like the dad did. That's an odd way of saying that 90% of divorces are initiated by women who are then awarded custody 71.7% of the time.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 11:11 AM
48

It's the same with all cults. Dissent cannot be tolerated.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 10:47 AM
88

Question asked and answered. 25% of children in the US live in single parent households, usually mothers. And we know they are mostly pissed off man-haters. There is no one more screwed in today's society than a boy being raised by a single mother.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 10:36 AM
5

Perhaps also not have an affair in the first place. That's misogyny! /s
/r/MensRights25/04/23 10:15 AM
15

Even illegal, hiring sex workers and paying misdemeanor fines is still cheaper than a divorce. My divorce cost me $500K for a 9-year marriage. If I had gone the SW route instead of getting married, I could have hired a different high-end sex worker every week for almost a decade and still come out ahead.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 07:01 PM
22

They subconsciously want to feel the way they did with their father. Which is why single mother homes are destroying our society. More than half of women being raised today have no frame of reference as to what a strong man even looks like.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 11:37 AM
2

Almost verbatim what I was going to say. One addition, we have a need to feel like you want us. Something as simple a walking up to him when doing some chore (cutting grass, working on the car, etc.) and saying "You're so sexy when you're doing x". You'll get lots of mileage out of that.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 11:12 AM
12

They are all so deluded that they compete for the top 5% of men, swarming over them like packs of jackals tearing off what little they can before the others get the rest. This is all while feeding off simps like vampires. The whole time complaining about all of them as they project their flaws onto others. This is why MGTOW and Passport Bros terrify them. That validation is as important to them as air is to you. That's why dissent is suppressed. They absolutely require their anti-men echo chambe…
/r/MensRights24/04/23 11:00 AM
2

Wow! It's amazing how close to real life these things are!
/r/MensRights21/04/23 02:09 PM
4

They never should have been in the first place. That's like the cow simping for the butcher.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 12:12 PM
5

The fastest way to send a feminist over the edge is ask one question: "Can you name one right that men have that women don't"
/r/MensRights21/04/23 11:49 AM
9

The "I don't need no man" crowd are not a few of them. And if the majority are allowing a few to monopolize the conversation and dictate men's experience, then yes. I am fine with treating them all the same. Being ignored and not getting special treatment is how the vast majority of men live their lives. So again, welcome to equality.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 07:59 PM
1

I don't discount that. But The US can't address both threats simultaneously. If we do we risk the economic collapse that claimed the Soviet Union.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 04:48 PM
12

Absolutely zero chance. Women want to be strong and independent, they can have at it. The only time I'm intervening is if someone is under direct attack or having a medical emergency. Welcome to equality.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 03:44 PM
1

I knew one like that too. All she knew was that it was one of 6 men. She was just going to keep picking at random to maintain her government benefits until she finally figured out which one. The state of modern women.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 01:07 PM
20

Yes. As a wealthy white man I will admit to having to satiate my bottomless thirst for oppressing others daily. God professors are idiots.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 12:55 PM
38

Feminism is not about women's rights or equality. It's about power. Period.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 12:48 PM
4

Perhaps, but that's speculation. I had an ex try to do this to me as well. I insisted on a paternity test at birth, despite her shrieking objections. It was negative, she knew all along, and the father had no idea. It is very common.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 12:04 PM
2

China is our real threat. Let the EU deal with Russia for a change.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 11:59 AM
3

The article doesn't say anything to suggest that the biological father even knew. It wouldn't be the first time a woman baby trapped a man knowing he wasn't the father.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 11:44 AM
14

It's estimated that 10-20% of fathers are raising children not biologically theirs. And they have no idea.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 11:40 AM
3

We should give them another $100B...
/r/MensRights20/04/23 12:35 AM
42

Man falsely imprisoned on rape charges, women most affected.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 11:11 AM
2

"Just" Do you have any idea how difficult that is? The last woman I knew who wanted to be a SAHM was 20 years ago. And I've dated 3 doctors and worked in healthcare for 10 years. What you describe is the equivalent of a unicorn.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 03:14 PM
2

OK. Then what do we get in return in the West today?
/r/MensRights18/04/23 10:55 AM
5

Though women are still expecting you to drop $30K on an engagement ring.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 09:06 PM
48

What do women really want? All of the privileges with none of the work, responsibility, or accountability.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 04:06 PM
5

We should be forcing you to get married. Frankly, we're tired of you living your lifestyle of peace, ease, and leisure. (Ribbing you, of course)
/r/MensRights13/04/23 10:21 PM
62

Bingo. I'm 18 months from early retirement. Any woman who wants to pick up my 80 hr/wk multiple 6-figure job when I'm done is welcome to it. I'm sure she'll drop her hours to 40 and complain about the "gender pay gap" though.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 09:28 PM
52

I'm an older guy who was a White Knight when he was younger, and I have made ALL the mistakes. I have one piece of advice for you young guys: Stop participating. That's it. This game is completely rigged against you. I was nearly baby trapped by a woman who was carrying someone else's baby, narrowly dodging 18 years of child support because I paid for the DNA test and wouldn't sign the birth certificate. In the state I was in, sign the BC and you're done no appeal. My next girlfriend aborted our…
/r/MensRights13/04/23 11:00 AM
1

Unfortunately I can't speak to Canada. Any city that has a strong financials presence is going to make it very hard to compete because of the money. 80% of women are competing for the top 10% of men. If I were young and looking for a relationship, I would look to 2nd tier cities where your resources move you higher in the rankings.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 10:11 AM
178

I walked in on my fiancée getting railed from behind in our bed by someone my son's age. How I managed to walk out before committing several felonies is still a mystery to this day. "Dumped" is light punishment.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 10:43 PM
4

I genuinely want to know why are all these modern feminists so bitter and hateful Women raised in single parent homes with no positive male role model.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 12:28 PM
2

Their only belief is selfishness.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 12:05 PM
70

Never pay a woman for sexualising herself, remember that fellas FTFY
/r/MensRights12/04/23 12:04 PM
4

First rule of marrying a non-Western woman: Don't bring them back to the West. Second rule of marrying a non-Western woman: See rule #1.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 01:33 PM
1

It isn't about looking for a gold digger. Financial security is highly desirable. And I don't believe your issue is money, it's location. Toronto and New York are arguably the worst locations in North America for male competition. And you're still young, too. In 2 years, the landscape is going to start changing for you. By 40, you should be close to early retirement, women will be scrambling for your attention, and then the world is yours. I'm also in tech, senior leadership. I casually dated an…
/r/MensRights11/04/23 12:43 PM
3

In today's culture? Finding a woman for sex is effortless if you have resources. 1/3 of men haven't had sex in at least a year anyway. You may as well deliberately do what you're incidentally doing anyway. Stop getting distracted and build your wealth. Not only will you be making your future easier, but being older and having money turns you into a magnet. Then you can be selective if you still choose to tickle the dragon's tail. Worst case, rent it.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 10:19 AM
3

Do you feel you are hated by others? How do you deal with it day to day? I simply don't care. My well-being is determined by my actions, not by someone else's. If you are ridiculed, walk away. If you are confronted, stand your ground. If you are attacked, defend yourself. Act like a man.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 10:00 PM
35

No one outside of the US is going to put up with their bullshit. If they want to get pump and dumped at a higher cost, more power to them. But there is zero chance anyone in a non-western country is going to marry a "progressive" woman. Zero.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 05:58 PM
16

It's everywhere. The only reason you don't see it IRL is the lack of anonymity. I assure you that if women in your workplace or school could get away with it to your face, they would be spouting the same vitriol gleefully.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 01:00 PM
25

Stop participating. We can do without women FAR easier than women can do without men.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 11:40 PM
3

Why do you care what anyone else says about you? Fuck 'em.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 11:23 PM
27

I was mistaken. But that makes it even worse.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 01:52 PM
3

I'm way ahead of you. Bonus: It's amazing how much money you can save when you're single and not playing women's stupid little games.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 01:06 PM
59

We've known this since the Boy Scouts were forced to allow girls.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 12:46 PM
28

The only winning move is not to play.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 02:48 PM
4

That's my plan. Retire at 55, single and with a pile of money, leave the US. I've had enough.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 04:03 PM
1

Yeah. It's pretty scary.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 10:31 AM
2

No worries. Society will start to come around to this insanity eventually.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 09:35 PM
4

Not even close. I know a woman who sleeps with two or three different men every weekend. Usually unprotected. She brags about it. And about the number of abortions she's had. To date she has no live children. Welcome to the "modern woman"
/r/MensRights06/04/23 09:19 PM
2

Not even remotely. They'll just abort the consequence.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 09:11 PM
2

They sure are banging them though.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 08:52 PM
4

You are enabling them. Take a week of PTO, two if you can afford it, and be unavailable. When you come back do only your hours and responsibilities. Document everything. Or find a new job. It's a seller's market right now.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 03:10 PM
43

She talks about how the majority of women have stories of men hitting on them. They don't mind men hitting on them as long as they're rich, successful, attractive, and powerful yet still an "ally". You know, the literal 0.1% of men. This is why men are leaving the West in rapidly increasing numbers. We're tired of dealing with these harpies.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 02:53 PM
19

My grandmother was a "stay at home mom". She faced down first the Nazis, then the Soviets during WWII. She absolutely ran the household. Not only that, but she was impervious to anything. At the same time, she was caring, nurturing, and loving to her family. She was truly, simultaneously, the strongest and most caring woman I have ever known. What the hell has happened to modern women?
/r/MensRights04/04/23 10:42 AM
2

But that means actual work.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 05:58 PM
1

Walk away. Do not participate. There is zero benefit to men in relationships today.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 10:05 AM
8

My marriage lasted 9 years. She was a stay at home mom, by her choice, and developed a narcotics addiction. When I filed for divorce, she admitted it was 100% her fault. She walked out of the marriage with >$500K. I literally lost 10 years of my life in every way possible. I could have hired a housekeeper and high-end escort every week for 9 years and STILL come out ahead. DO NOT GET MARRIED.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 10:02 AM
1

The statement was, "Women want men to protect them." I didn't make that statement, I was responding to it. I'm fine with not protecting women. You're all "strong and independent". Good luck.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 09:58 AM
2

Why? A relationship is at least in part an exchange of resources intended on making each others lives easier. If I am going to risk my reputation, safety, or even life to insure that you are safe, what do I get in return? I should at least be able to mitigate my risk by saying "you shouldn't go there" or "you shouldn't do that". If you elect to do it anyway and get hurt, that's on you, not me.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 04:45 PM
22

"I don't need no man! OK. You don't have to tell me twice.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 03:24 PM
8

And in other social circles if a man cheats people might ask what wasn't his partner doing to satisfy him? In all my years, I have never heard anyone say this or any variation of it.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 10:27 AM
3

I'm sorry friend. I've been through it too. I tell every man I have this discussion with. Do. Not. Marry. There is nothing in it for you. Of all marriages, 5% end because the man wants out and then she gets paid. 45% end because the woman wants out. And then she STILL gets paid. You have better odds walking into Caesar's Palace and putting half your wealth and all your children down on a single hand of blackjack.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 10:22 AM
10

"Some people are more equal than others" - George Orwell
/r/MensRights11/03/23 03:58 PM
32

Easier targets.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 12:09 PM
3

Because they get paid in divorce. It's not any more complicated than that.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 05:11 PM
1

If you're a man you have a 55% chance that your marriage will last if you want it to. Those are essentially Blackjack odds. For women, it's 95%. You don't have to convince men that we need to learn to live together.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 09:41 PM
1

Yes! Science!
/r/MensRights07/03/23 07:13 PM
2

Why would they want men to participate in their "safe space"?
/r/MensRights07/03/23 01:23 PM
2

I've been cheated on 4 times, screwed in a divorce and had two attempts at being baby trapped with children that weren't mine. Does that mean that all women are trash? No. Does that mean there are a lot of trashy women? Yes. Do I go around insulting all women? No. But women do that a LOT. I'm at least aware enough to question my judgement when it comes to romantic relationships and take accountability for it.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 11:12 AM
1

Solution: leave Australia.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 10:32 PM
5

Name one.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 07:46 PM
4

Feminists have a natural immunity to accountability.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 05:28 PM
8

Because I also see plenty of qualified men. If the deciding attribute is gender, I will have no part of it. I won't participate.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 05:25 PM
12

I don't dislike women at all. I have worked with and hired many qualified women, all of whom I respect. They were qualified because they were qualified, not because they were women. I won't be mandated that I have to hire or elect one, though. If I am, I will actively work to never hire or elect another woman again. Or I will select one so incompetent that the mandate backfires. There are plenty of qualified men. This social engineering bullshit has to go.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 05:20 PM
9

That is not a roadblock by any definition. Quotas drive more hatred, not less.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 05:08 PM
2

You have to fight this. If you surrender to her I guarantee you will regret it. Get a man friendly attorney tomorrow.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 04:56 PM
8

Name one roadblock for women based on gender. One.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 04:49 PM
5

I was almost baby trapped for paternity twice. Both were committed relationships. I insisted on a DNA test and braved the verbal abuse and ostracization from my partner, friends, and family for even daring to ask. Neither child was mine. One of them, she gave up testing after the 5th attempt to establish paternity. You can just never know someone beyond a reasonable doubt. Trust but verify. Paternity testing should be mandatory at birth and the more she protests, the more you probably need one.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 04:47 PM
6

The two are becoming increasingly inseparable in Western countries.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 10:58 PM
9

Stop participating. Get away from women. They want to be independent, let them. If you need companionship, rent it. If you need a partner, go overseas. Doing what was traditional for centuries in a Western country today is an exercise in masochism.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 06:22 PM
60

Regular orgasms reduce the risk of prostate cancer.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 10:16 PM
0

I think there's a term for that.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 10:01 PM
-1

It is interesting. Especially since 85% of programmers are men.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 08:44 PM
28

Good luck with that. That approach is a recipe for total disaster in today's environment.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 01:58 AM
1

Don't participate. Go your own way. It's very liberating when the societal norms no longer apply to you.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 01:55 AM
2

In 2 years, I'll have enough saved to live indefinitely in the US without working. I'm considering Thailand or the Philippines to live as an expat though since, from what I've been reading, I can live like a king. How do you find a partner in those countries though?
/r/MensRights02/03/23 06:28 PM
2

I'm single because in my last 5 serious relationships, I was cheated on 4 times and the 5th was my ex-wife. I divorced her because she was hiding a narcotics addiction from me. It cost me $500K. I got a dog for a companion, and modern women are willing to give it up at the drop of a hat. Worst case, I can pay by the drink if necessary. Why bother with a relationship.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 03:35 PM
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