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HammerMeat/r/seduction29/12/13 05:03 AM
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HammerMeat/r/seduction07/11/16 12:34 PM
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I'm going to say "Btw I'd still like to go to X as friends" and let her do the rest of the effort.
/r/seduction10/11/16 09:52 AM
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I would follow this advice if this was a girl that I had had serious feelings for, but that's not the case here. Like I said, I found her pretty interesting during the one evening we spent together, but it's not like that's enough to fall for someone. The purpose of asking her out was in order to get to know her better. Put another way, if she had the exact same personality but I didn't find her physically attractive also, I still would have wanted to hang out again - but as friends. So given th…
/r/seduction10/11/16 07:44 AM
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The dating lesson thing was a call-back to her saying she had just got out of a relationship so hadn't dated for 5 years. My joke being that she could practice with me (which I thought relieved the pressure a bit). It also seems as if you were, but weren't arousing her well enough. This is important, especially if she is so doubtful about everything because of her LTR. This is probably accurate. I'm actually brilliant in bed, but I don't know how to signal this to women. I'm pretty confident wit…
/r/seduction09/11/16 10:53 PM
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Not sure if you wanted an update, but here's how it went, man: Me: "Actually I really do want to see [thing we'd talked about seeing together]. Would you like your first lesson on dating this weekend?" Her: "Hi HammerMeat. I think I sent you the wrong signals the other night.. I really enjoyed spending time with you, but if I'm honest I want us to just be friends! I'm really sorry if I gave you the feeling that I wanted to start dating as well, but the fact is that I am not really looking for a …
/r/seduction09/11/16 10:13 PM
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Not sure if you wanted an update, but here's how it went, man: Me: "Actually I really do want to see [thing we'd talked about seeing together]. Would you like your first lesson on dating this weekend?" Her: "Hi HammerMeat. I think I sent you the wrong signals the other night.. I really enjoyed spending time with you, but if I'm honest I want us to just be friends! I'm really sorry if I gave you the feeling that I wanted to start dating as well, but the fact is that I am not really looking for a …
/r/seduction09/11/16 10:13 PM
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Not sure if you wanted an update, but here's the text chain: Me: "Actually I really do want to see [thing we'd talked about seeing together]. Would you like your first lesson on dating this weekend?" Her: "Hi HammerMeat. I think I sent you the wrong signals the other night.. I really enjoyed spending time with you, but if I'm honest I want us to just be friends! I'm really sorry if I gave you the feeling that I wanted to start dating as well, but the fact is that I am not really looking for a re…
/r/seduction09/11/16 10:12 PM
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I'm definitely doing something, just figuring out the specifics. I likely won't see her incidentally in-person for a couple of weeks, so I'm figuring out what to text/call her with. I think the directness of "HammerMeat here. Again, I want to get to know you better. Let me know when you want to go do X this weekend." isn't quite appropriate because I was very clear about my intentions last time. I think proceeding from here with assumed attraction, giving her one shot to accept, and then draggin…
/r/seduction08/11/16 12:30 PM
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Good stuff, man. Taking it all on board. Don't engage in a "covert contract" i.e. play the guise of a friend when you really want a romantic relationship with her. Definitely not doing this. I've only spent one evening with her, so my interest is more in her as a person at this stage. I wouldn't call it a crush. So if it's a No to exploring the possibility of romance then I'll be just as satisfied with friendship (if she turns out to be as cool as she seemed ). Then be friends because you like w…
/r/seduction08/11/16 12:14 PM
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Attraction is not negotiable I really like this and will remind myself of it. She already knows whether she's attracted or not. So my attitude will be to give her an opportunity to show it, and if it's clearly lacking I'll pare it right back to just a friendship (and make her introduce me to her friends!). Do you think that given her expressed uncertainty, putting the ball solely in her court is a little too passive? If she is attracted but scared, then making her call me could just push her in …
/r/seduction08/11/16 11:29 AM
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Interesting stuff, I appreciate the perspective, especially on being the pseudo relationship guy.
/r/seduction07/11/16 07:28 PM
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Cheers for this, pretty good advice I reckon. I think going after her but having a hard limit on the amount of effort is the right attitude. I do think she'd be a great romantic partner so I will pursue that, but won't be too bothered if it ends up as a friendship. Why no casual though? If she doesn't want anything serious I'd totally be down for that.
/r/seduction07/11/16 06:08 PM
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Eh, my text game sucks man, and we're not currently texting anyway. I'm not sure striking up some lighthearted small talk is going to help me swing the next in-person. Plus I cbf texting.
/r/seduction07/11/16 04:42 PM
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That's a pretty negative way to look at it, man. She seemed genuine regarding the recent break-up, I don't see it as being mind-games or indecisiveness. In fact, even if she is uninterested, it was still quite a kind way to reject me. I'm perfectly happy to spend my scarce time on pursuing the kind of people I want in my life, and from what I know so far, she's definitely that. Any thoughts? Are you not interested in friendship with women at all?
/r/seduction07/11/16 04:36 PM
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Yeah? You interpret her response as a polite rejection? Given the mindset I've outlined above, what'd be your advice on how to proceed?
/r/seduction07/11/16 02:51 PM
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Thanks for the reply mate. To get more specific, you'd suggest some texts which tease the 'just out of LTR' thing and set up the date? Something like "Let's go to X together on Saturday, if your delicate heart can handle it" (possibly seems a little insensitive) or "Ok, your first lesson on dating will be at X on Saturday.?
/r/seduction07/11/16 01:50 PM
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Post some conversations and I'll do the same?
/r/seduction29/12/13 09:19 AM
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I'm talking a girl out next week. Problem is she lives with her parents and she knows my (female) flatmate (and will probably not want my flatmate funding out straight away) . How should I handle these logistics?
/r/seduction28/12/13 11:12 AM
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I was at a party the other day and I talked about dicks the whole time
/r/seduction23/08/13 02:10 AM
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Ian I've really been enjoying watching your progress. It's awesome how little fucks you give. Seconded regarding the interview. Perhaps you should follow an individual topic further, e.g. you could have bantered more about how ridiculous the Asian party was etc. Just fuck around with fun topics. You need to be a bit more assertive. I know kino can make you feel like a creep, but you definitely need to run it a little more. Just playful pushes etc as a good starting point. And push for her digits…
/r/seduction23/08/13 01:30 AM
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"We have sex for the first time... Well, one of us does."
/r/seduction08/08/13 11:10 PM
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Yeah, hardly anyone has to pretend to like hockey.
/r/seduction13/06/13 11:48 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ovn0w/life_hackspro_tipsbro_tips/
/r/seduction24/04/13 05:29 AM
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When someone tells me their name I usually just say "I'm gonna call you ____" and come up with a nickname. Everyone loves nicknames.
/r/seduction19/04/13 01:11 AM
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Does anyone else feel like something's not quite right with Tyler? I don't know what it is, something just seems off.
/r/seduction18/03/13 12:51 AM
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Wow
/r/seduction13/03/13 04:16 AM
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For some reason this just turns me on more
/r/seduction07/03/13 12:11 AM
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"It's your fault I didn't get her number - you owe me one fuck" ^ Don't say this
/r/seduction28/02/13 12:12 AM
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"let's get out of here"
/r/seduction24/02/13 02:36 AM
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Stop hitting on me
/r/seduction19/02/13 04:55 AM
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Hey OP, hope you see this. Please post back with updates as to how the advice in this thread helped you.
/r/seduction19/02/13 03:30 AM
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This guy fucking gets it. Cute/shy/coy/playful/teasing are the biggest turn-ons outside the bedroom if you play it right. Then once things move more sexual, show me how dirty and depraved you are
/r/seduction19/02/13 03:29 AM
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It sounds to me like she's more in the relationship space, so maybe check that before getting yourself into something
/r/seduction05/02/13 08:17 AM
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It's trash, but it's funny trash and easy to watch.
/r/seduction24/01/13 06:27 AM
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Keys to the VIP?
/r/seduction24/01/13 03:48 AM
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