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DebateHammerofQuay/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:15 PM
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Are you drug and alcohol free? But the pandemic definitely increased the rate of shacking up with someone and staying inside. Baldur’s Gate 3 doesn’t help. But on a serious note, do you talk to strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:39 PM
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Do you establish places and times when you ask them to hang out?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:54 PM
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Which is why it’s important to realize your worth….I assume you identify as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:40 AM
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Just? I guess I shouldn’t have said, “now?” I just meant after all of the dating I have someone. Sorry, we’ve been together going on four years now. And, “a fatty?” Jesus man…. I’m not selling anything lol. Here to help. And I mean, I can’t do the work for ppl but even fighters have outside help.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:17 PM
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You’re fine 👋🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:25 PM
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No way; don’t comets alone disprove that? Or human consumption of the Earth’s structure? We don’t NEED to make certain things but we choose to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:00 PM
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5’11”, maybe 5’10.5”? Shorter guys think I’m 6. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:59 PM
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No way. Cast a wide net, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:58 PM
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You speak in manmade laws and wear cultural focal devices. That, “I am king,” perspective is a human’s fabrication that can be twisted from positive reinforcement in a community to literal genocide. You don’t have to think that way or live by that if you don’t want to. It’s not as hardcoded as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:42 PM
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Huh, interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:34 PM
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Being 5’8” doesn’t add the obstacles you think it does. Neither does balding. You’re simply attractive to different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:32 PM
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How’s that? I’m an old soul tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:26 PM
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You don’t need a gym to get fit though bro. Get a 50 lbs kettle bell and more importantly, eat grilled meat. I’d recommend getting to a place where you can aak a woman out on the street after you catch her looking at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:26 PM
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Yeah…Eminem’s movie…. If you did it before, you can certainly do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:40 PM
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But it’s not every woman….there’s no they…. I agree that a lot of women are hung up on height, but a lot aren’t. I have brown skin; a lot of ppl don’t like that. You know? You’re comparing yourself to outliers, which is good. Use it as motivation to get better. You ever watch 8 mile?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:36 PM
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I mean, when it does happen, it’s not because a guy is taller or shorter. Imo, a lot of women look for packages, not just specific traits….tall and lanky guys struggled…taller guys than me struggle…...I hooked up with girls who dated much taller and bigger men….it’s about the complete package.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:30 PM
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But the tall men get cheated on and left for shorter men all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:26 PM
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Oh my b I totally misread your comment. Well, I’m glad you think you’re good!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:02 PM
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I hate to say it, but one of my favorite wrestlers had their four inch erect penis exposed…..no one worth your time will care….
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:01 PM
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I kind of think the same way. Do you think you do what’s necessary to attract women that want to explore sexually? Grooming, weight, muscle, muscle tone, legs, etc.? Somewhat revealing clothing, shorter shorts, like thigh length?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:30 PM
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Well if you’re dead set on what will happen, why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:28 PM
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Nope, I don’t use Twitter, but I do know that no matter how many times someone tweets a political or relationship view, there is often always ample room for compromise. It’s like some politicians who swear to God that they’ll serve the public but they serve themselves instead. I have certainly been on the receiving end of several relationships based on physical appearance. And I love outspoken, unabashed women, but someone who dresses well for every situation and wears makeup while posting pictu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:27 PM
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This is real life? You can dm me and write as much as you want. Take your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:19 PM
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Discord has massive success rates. But like, I don’t meet ppl at concerts and festivals, I invite ppl to those things and I offer to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:08 PM
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Well Im here What is your belief system?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:56 PM
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Like, are you willing to travel? Are you willing to sacrifice your time to listen, or to think of thoughtful questions? Are you willing to challenge your cultural, religious or personal experiences or beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:50 PM
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Are you willing to compromise on things in life? How open are you to new experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:39 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:34 PM
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Well what’s your goal? You want sex and a relationship with different ppl or one person?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:34 PM
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So what can’t you compromise on?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:31 PM
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Ok, well then let’s focus on step 1. Where to meet ppl….I asked out receptionists, I ask out men I talk to for more than five mins if they want to smoke and chill or go to a concert or festival (platonically), I go far distances to visit ppl I meet online….idk, meeting ppl and establishing a distant, texting or online based relationship should be pretty easy these days. Like, I see most of my ppl I chill with a few times a year, BUT, I call them, listen to their problems and have genuine interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:30 PM
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Well, there are avenues of success for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:22 PM
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What? No. There’s no they. Some women are “they”, but it’s not all and if it is, that’s what you want? You want someone that objectifies, yet doesn’t like being objectified? That would piss me off if I was tall. My best friend is 6’5” and attracts EXTREMELY superficial ppl that screw him over. His only longtime gf cheated on him with a shorter guy who made slightly more money. A woman and I had a six month affair; she cheated on her bf, who was 6’6” and had a humongous penis. I know this because…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:21 PM
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How? I could’ve gotten lost in translation. When I get hit with analogies I can lose my place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:10 PM
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No, you can ask for food and have a much higher success rate than asking for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:50 PM
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Well, not necessarily for them, but for yourself. How do you know whether or not you like something without trying it? For example, I never, ever, ever thought I’d like Magic the Gathering, but idk I just tried it. Love it. I didn’t think I’d like sushi, but I love it. I never thought I’d like wearing v-necks, but I actually look good in them. I never thought I’d actually be in a long relationship with someone of asian descent but here I am. Idk, as I mentioned in another comment, I’m experiment…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:34 PM
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I’m sure there’s a stylistic issue….for me, certain styles of glasses COMPLETELY alter my appearance. My afro hair is also more or less appealing to certain audiences and when I shave my head, that attracts different women too. When I grow my beard? Same thing. Different women are attracted to different things so try to diversify. If you wear wolf t shirts and want to date a booty, onlyfans girl, that may not work out. But if you date women that wear anime shirts, you’ll find someone. Edit: it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:26 PM
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I’ll have to see your face and have a thorough discussion about your behaviors. I’ve literally heard the same girl say, “ewwwwwwwww,” to me, 10 years later call me beautiful and give me a hug. Nothing is stagnant for humans except when you’re on the inevitable path of death.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:11 PM
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Who cares what women desire? What do you desire? That’s the more important question. You should be comparing yourself to other men and facing the brutal truths about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:04 PM
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Help me help you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:20 PM
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But that’s not an applicable analogy because I’m not the Elon Musk of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:51 AM
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But like, you can say anything to equate to that. I see what you’re saying but it doesn’t prove or disprove anything, and I think ppl like to use analogies as proof but an analogy isn’t proof it’s an explanation, right? Your analogy requires a fact pattern that’s related to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:39 AM
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Yeah and of course I’m going to provide actual numbers for context….I’m not a better person because I’ve dated a lot, lol. I just go about it a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:29 AM
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I’m not looking down on anyone….just trying to help…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:27 AM
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It’s more of a, “I’m not better than anyone, you can do what I do,” post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:27 AM
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You ever read Moby Dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:25 AM
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I agree with everything except the last paragraph. Not saying you’re wrong, per se, but that scale goes lower and higher depending on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:24 AM
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What does your ideal woman look and act like?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:18 AM
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Not a woman! Man living in the nation’s capital and grew up in the state’s surrounding it. I like how you view the stats!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:18 AM
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I don’t disagree with any of this…If I had to guess an exact number? I’ve made advances on 240 women. I used to hang out with players, and for men, you’re a hunter so you have to be out in the field, talking to as many women as possible. It’s hard, which is why players cheat to get more resources (in this case, women, who I find can be most valuable resource on the planet), because they are literally players in a game.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:16 AM
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That is true is this your situation? My lady has only been in the states for 10 years….
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:06 AM
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Why do so few women motivate you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:06 AM
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These kinds of analogies have comparable end results, but are completely different situations, therefore, utterly useless, no offense. If you’re starving, you need to take yourself to a shelter. They have hundreds of pounds of sausages and crackers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:43 AM
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No I agree with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:42 AM
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But I’ve asked hundreds of girls for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:29 AM
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Bro I can’t believe ppl still live in Logan….
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:34 AM
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I agree with that sentiment about the further north you go….and when someone is dark, the chance they could be Latin or African is much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:15 AM
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Who cares what’s easier for women? You’re not a woman….it’s not your concern. Put that energy into you and you’ll have a girl. I shook a guy’s fucked up hand a few years ago and his wife is beautiful and he makes like slightly above six figures. He’s got a fucked up hand with a crazy limp.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:53 AM
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But my best friend is from Parkersburg….amazing football there….at least when I was younger
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:50 AM
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I might’ve just had a unique experience but I definitely fought a lot over my appearance that’s for sure….I thought most kids like me experienced the same thing….guess not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:49 AM
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Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:46 AM
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Well, you may be black and big. I was really skinny, called gay a lot and was evidently mixed, so ppl tried me a lot more, imo. I’m from the Eastern Panhandle and went to college Southern WV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:44 AM
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Well, they’re the receivers. They’re playing on an entirely different side of the field than men. We shouldn’t compare ourselves to women and what they experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:42 AM
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See….and I appreciate your response and find your argument valid, but this kind of proves my point with the overthinking, imo. Like, if you just genuinely feel that way, that’s great. But numbers are numbers and I don’t think they equate to a person’s character, and I think standardizing dating in such a way makes it more stressful than need be. We all have our own unique optimizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:40 AM
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I’m sorry?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:37 AM
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But women are average too? We’re all average ppl that become exceptional at specific things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:25 AM
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It’s in our favor
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:14 AM
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We? This isn’t a team sport. It’s about what you do. If you follow what other men do, you’ll get their results.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:13 AM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:12 AM
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But there are more women than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:57 PM
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I’m sorry you feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:57 PM
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That’s reddit bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:56 PM
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Is 10 the magic number for satisfaction? You compared fiction novels to real life in a very subjective way. You’re not really offering solutions but a singular perspective of the right way. Where did you read that less partners equals higher satisfaction? Suppressed catholic priests of European descent would like a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:56 PM
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I agree, but that’s why you keep swinging the axe. You always increase your odds the more you play. Not a good strategy for gambling but it is for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:54 PM
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There’s always an omission…that’s the crazy part about life….there’s always a unique solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:11 PM
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How was it easier? Plus, you don’t want it to be THAT easy…you don’t want a wife due to economic despair.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:09 PM
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But this is real life, not fiction. By less partners, what do you mean? I haven’t had sex with 50-60 ppl lol!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:03 PM
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If she dips on you because of that, that’s great! It sucks you may have paid for a meal but dating is a gamble sometimes! You can move on faster when they excuse themselves from the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:55 PM
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I think we have it better. Wayyyy better. Life is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:53 PM
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Cope from…what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:50 PM
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Feminism gives women more options. If you give women more options, you give them more perspectives and exposure, so they will naturally like more things than they did before, including men. Rat race? Just become a self that YOU love. I know I’ll sound like a broken record but you want to be a man that you admire. Working out and getting buff is an absolutely incredible feeling; it’s a goal that you can actually see with your own eyes and you live inside of it and it takes nothing away from you e…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:49 PM
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I empathize. I don’t feel it as much because I’ve read enough books to realize that the hero always fails, time and time again. They’re laughed at and ostracized time and time again. But while the hero is out in the world trying to be better, everyone in the background laughing and ostracizing is simply a follower, living a path that others are living because they’re afraid of challenges. They copy others so ppl will like them. It’s cowardice at an evolutionary level. Embarrassment is a complete…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:45 PM
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I can see that perspective, but I also think it may come from a place of undeserved arrogance. But elaborate, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:29 PM
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I just want to hear it in your words. I’ve been rejected literally hundreds of times. I’m still standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:25 PM
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Well of course you get to know someone; you don’t hop into bed after you shake hands. But it starts with attraction and you make the best of the situation until it becomes undesirable for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:25 PM
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If you want to dm me more about your situation, like sharing your photos, I’m sure we could find a plethora of solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:14 PM
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How do I prove such a thing? My Dad is short. He’s 5’7”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:10 PM
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Feminism is a good thing, just want to throw that out there. Feminism gets the average bloke laid. I think a man taking charge of his life mitigates most of those things. That’s why I don’t think women have advantages over men. It takes a few years of dedication to become a desirable man. For women, oh yeah a lot of options, but you’re not really in control, you know? You’re basing your dates on what HE is going to do; you’re waiting for something to come to you. That sucks, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:08 PM
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Just as long as you’re happy! Even as someone whose idea of a good time is video games, companionship is a vital part of my human experience. I think about interacting with people all the time, like, nearly every second.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:56 PM
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Why would I lie? It’s a pure fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:55 PM
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Be honest…. How strict are your preferences? I have a broad range of appreciations and try to see ppl as a whole rather an part by part. For example: I don’t exclude race and culture. I find it incredibly limiting and stupid. Romeo and Juliet type stuff; a pure love destroyed by, “culture.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:51 PM
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How many failures? Why is it embarrassing? What do you think happens when you get rejected? You think they take your picture and put you on a weirdo forum?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:44 PM
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I will say, thinness does seem to be the currency these days, but a lot of big girls, while maybe 180 lbs+, are actually supposed to be that big and look a lot sexier naked than you think. I get fat being unattractive when a woman isn’t supposed to be fat, but some girls are just big but it looks really good on them. I LOVE tall, big girls. They’re a little more rounded but it absolutely sets off my breed play triggers….dumping your load into a thoroughbred….making super children….
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:43 PM
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But they don’t though. You shouldn’t even be comparing yourself to women, imo. Their biological makeup alone makes them too different to compare in terms of body count and “success.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:39 PM
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Tell me about the bad. What exactly happened and why do you think it happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:38 PM
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I bet if you and I had a full-fledged conversation or meetup, and you let your guard down and were willing to empathize with my experience, we could find common ground for you to build on and change your fortunes for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:37 PM
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But that’s not true. We didn’t get this far just to all of a sudden get unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:33 PM
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I think a lot of ppl are in somewhat contrived relationships. It’s why interracial marriage in the US was barred for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:28 PM
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You definitely have to compromise, but you should still follow your heart! Just introspect and tweak your compromises little by little until you’re at your desired level of satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:09 PM
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I just see a lot of unhappiness regarding dating and I see a lot of ppl in what I consider to be contrived relationships. Contrived due to a lot of assumptions based on physical and fashion characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:57 PM
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Are you introverted? Sometimes I have to do things to psyche myself up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:52 PM
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Why does rejection hurt? I’ve definitely been rejected more times than you and much harsher, guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:47 PM
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They’re all talented at something, I’ll say, but nothing that’s panty dropping lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:47 PM
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You asking ppl out in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:45 PM
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I don’t think that’s true at all. I saw that study and when you put ppl in a position where they are interviewed on what’s attractive, they’re not going to have the same views when they’re dressed down, alone in their home, and wearing pajamas. Women drinking together at a bar will agree on what’s attractive but catch them alone and vulnerable and what they find attractive will be more genuine of an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:43 PM
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I don’t think they do! A lot of women allow themselves to be steered into thinking certain community archetypes of men are attractive. This leads to dissatisfaction because it’s not what they’re naturally attracted to; not all the time. Where I’m from, WV, most men are white, obese, get tattoos, do cocaine, and grow straight-haired beards. Because it’s so prevalent and easy to attain, but also specific to a certain group of ppl, they push this as attractive to increase their dating chances. Any …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:40 PM
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Noooo there are men below my height KILLING it. That’s not the thing reddit thinks it is a lot of tall girls want to fuck shorter guys my first kiss was with a girl four inches taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:29 PM
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I hear you! That’s why I dated so much; to find that! I think you should keep going at some point because it always works out when you keep swinging the proverbial axe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:24 PM
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What made them mediocre?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:19 PM
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5’11” slightly above avg like my Mom
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:13 PM
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And run when you see danger. Your heart and pubic regions don’t respond to danger well but your eyes and brain do. A lot of ppl go full-heart and try to fix people or find their mom and dad and replace that relationship due to familiarity coping. Just have fun but not at the expense of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:10 PM
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Very true if this is your disposition, I suppose. Has this always been the case or did you turn into this person? Some ppl adopt this mindset out of fear of taking losses. Not saying you did, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:08 PM
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We’re ALL attractive but we have to work at it! Lifting, healthy diet, cardio, reading, poetry, fully understanding your native language, pop culture, art….gotta try to be as well rounded as you can and UPLIFT others!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:06 PM
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No, I just liked to date and find a person to settle down with, and of course I’m proud that I can attract people, who wouldn’t be? You mention culture; I think a lot of western, European influenced cultures are partially formed from prejudices, and assumed comfort, and it ruins the ability to have fun and leads to rampant drug use and depression. For example, I grew up in WV in an upper middle class neighborhood, and a lot of girls interested in me cut it off because they thought I was too rich…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:05 PM
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But like, the analytical route clearly doesn’t work based on the divorce rates. They’ve been getting better but I surmise that’s due to economic uncertainty; not being able to leave due to debts and money. There could be a cultural difference here, though. I’m from a kind of, for lack of a better term, “loose,” culture, where life is seen as not the biggest deal. I’ve been told certain ppl like me and I attract others based on my openness because I’m free-spirited. I’m also experimental and prou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:56 PM
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Probably a cultural barrier, maybe. I’m not fully of white european, or American, culture and descent, so I don’t see ppl as something I need to profit off of, which is why I take more risks. Have had a lot of life success though 🤷🏾‍♀️. Works for me. I think it’d work for others too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:56 PM
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Understood!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:47 PM
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I mean, you should be able to feel disengagement. I have felt that MANY times, and when you do? Onto the next one. A girl/woman that’s into you makes it abundantly clear. In a more passive way of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:45 PM
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I get that so as a guy you gotta just keep going and never give in! It’ll eventually stick; that is the advantage of the bold and hardworking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:42 PM
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This is a really great post and I am guilty of this. I’m a fit guy that gets a lot of forward attention from women 180 lbs. plus. I am very, very grateful for this attention, so much so that I have been in many relationships with bigger women because they happened to he so forward, funny, positive, and their faces were pretty. But I assumed a lot of things would come to fruition. I assumed they’d go on walks with me, eat better, lose weight; become, “my ideal,” as you’ve said. Women who are my i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:25 PM
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I agree. Porn is not the hindrance ppl think it is. I watch porn because of the specific actions being done, not because the women look perfect. That’s a coping tactic. It’s why a lot of women conveniently don’t care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:16 AM
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