HammyLet Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1082	When men say they’re scared of being used for a money or a “free meal.” Meanwhile women are expected to cook and provide actual free meals and so much more 🤦‍♀️	FDS MEMES	HammyLet	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/21 08:04 PM
190	Coming to terms with my pick-me past	LEVEL UP	HammyLet	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/20 01:19 AM
28	How to explain that he should pay?	SEEKING ADVICE	HammyLet	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 12:57 AM
1	Imagine choosing a man who burned down your house over your child	PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME	HammyLet	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/20 03:43 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
59	All those men that you've made a first move on in the past never wanted you. The redditors aren’t gonna like this one lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/22 02:50 PM
57	getting closer to true 50/50 so he can also take a pill, men wanted 50/50 so Based and man- pilled 😩🙏🏾	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/22 06:50 PM
341	I don’t even know what to say 🤦🏼‍♀️ I’d rather rip out both my ovaries and french braid them into my hair before I propose to a man	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/03/22 11:14 AM
179	This is why you should NEVER be the breadwinner! ultra huge red flag Also wanting to be treated well doesn’t make you a “girly girl” 🙄. It’s literally the bare minimum in a heterosexual relationship!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/22 11:58 AM
118	"Good Morning" small talk and other irks Wanting to sleep with a girl to find out if they’re “compatible” is such bs. First of all that’s completely on the guy’s terms, as if he’s the one deciding if she’s good enough 🤮 . Those same guys will whine if the girl says she wants to get to know him better to check compatibility before having sex 🙄. If he’s trying to push my boundaries I already know we are not sexually compatible, I don’t need to have sex to realize that 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/21 08:48 PM
36	THIS is why you don’t ask guys out 🤡 😭 Oof I’m sorry Queen. I got some DM’s from men too after commenting on this post but idk if it was hate or not I blocked them without opening the messages 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/21 11:16 AM
64	THIS is why you don’t ask guys out 🤡 😭 Men really have no respect for themselves. That’s why they’re so callous and cruel to women who like them and sleep with them. Lmao bullets dodged	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/21 09:42 AM
238	THIS is why you don’t ask guys out 🤡 😭 How embarrassing for them 💀 I used to make the first move too and it never went anywhere... which actually is the best case scenario 🙈 I thought that I had to since guys supposedly love it and think its such a “turn on” but apparently not. Also I thought no guy would ever pursue me so I had no choice. I was right about that, no guys want me but thanks to this sub I’m content that I don’t have a NVM in my life. I’d much rather be alone than with someone that isn’t into me but strings me along bec…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/21 09:32 AM
133	Vet vet vet to prevent this! My heart hurts for these women. Men really have no respect for themselves!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 03:12 PM
38	Lmao so basically I have to pay for both of us or you will LITERALLY run away, potentially get caught and sent to jail for committing a crime (theft)? ‘I got a feeling’ I would prefer to do almost anything, including cleaning my cat’s litter, rather than go on a date with you...thieving POS The absolute state....	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 12:26 PM
4	They want you to prove you’re worthy to them. If you have to prove to be worthy of commitment- he’s not worth yours. How often do you hear guys saying “bro she has a great personality she’s super nice just give her a chance”? No because women are expected to be nice and caring by default :/ Don’t men want someone who actually likes them?? And doesn’t have to be convinced or guilted into giving them a chance??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 11:53 AM
42	Men when you treat them 1% as badly as they treat women: “It’s just dark humor bro”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/21 11:07 AM
42	When men say they’re scared of being used for a money or a “free meal.” Meanwhile women are expected to cook and provide actual free meals and so much more 🤦‍♀️ lol they’re always projecting	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/21 09:57 PM
30	I accept. Love this, thank you for writing and sharing ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/20 05:09 PM
34	Because a wife should be subservient to her husband I wonder what his definition of a “jerk” is	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/20 06:40 PM
144	NO, We Don’t. 🙄 🤦🏻‍♀️ Against my better judgement I posted a similar comment under the original post!! Reddit guys are all about the “equal rights equal lefts” mindset, they resent women for wanting equality and don’t think we deserve it unless we “suffer” and prove ourselves. Women don’t have to ask men out and pay for dates if we want equality- these things will naturally happen if society progresses and makes things fair for us 🤷‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/20 11:59 AM
45	Obvi? I just got back on tinder and after FDS I digress. Hard. What the hell did he expect? 😂 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 02:07 PM
8	I am so TIRED of these ''memes'' We BoYs NeVeR gEt ComPLimENts... The last person who wasn’t a friend to tell me I was beautiful was a homeless man back in 2017...lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 04:12 PM
48	It just dawned on me that nearly every man who has gone down on me were just giving it "the ol' husband try" meaning, they were purposefully bad at it to make me give up on asking them to do it. 😂 😂 😂 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 10:23 PM
45	Dump A Porn Scote Today Fds women are literally the funniest	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 08:08 AM
155	This is just so gross! But what's worse is the number of women in the comment section saying they will do this! cue picture of a man with a six pack in silk boxers cooking an elaborate dinner Girls deserve this too!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 01:18 PM
82	Did you know that having promiscuous sex makes men’s penises smaller? Make sure to get yourself that #virgindick! Would you buy a dildo that’s secondhand even if its been washed and sanitized? Or would you rather have one that is brand new and hasn’t been used before. 🤔If you can expect that much of a piece of plastic then imagine a whole ass man 😌	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/20 06:03 PM
34	Promise ring = future faking unless y’all are literal teenagers This would fit well on the sadcringe sub too	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/08/20 06:36 AM
6	How to stay single: Scrote edition! “Must come with me on dates” ???	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 05:44 PM
27	The tea is hot today This... this is some serious truthing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 10:15 PM
27	How to propose in 2020... the bar was already so low She shows she wants you too by saying yes!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 04:27 PM
38	🥴🥴 Men really do be ✨nature’s guns✨	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/20 06:33 PM
61	Guy spends days talking about plans Sunday to go for an early run and then brunch. Saturday he stops responding to my inquiries about time and place at 1:30pm. Sunday morning expects me to jump to fulfil non-plans. Thoughts? I really like reading messages between FDS users and men, they teach me a lot about how men speak. Months ago I wouldn’t have picked up on the fake sadness.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 03:56 PM
48	Pick me begging for male approval and validation with a post about why she thinks it’s wrong to call out men for being the trash they are, with a heavy heaping of male ass-kissery Reading this took several tries and caused me physical pain	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 08:26 AM
38	I have no words lol Yikes on several bikes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 12:56 AM
19	And this woman or well actually girl not only has a child but posts pictures of her breasts. This is pathetic. Her energy is better spent advising young girls not to hookup with men who don’t care about them but the libfems aren’t ready for that conversation 🐸 ☕️.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/20 10:14 PM
9	*Woman, but Thoughts? 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 10:48 PM
34	Then again, alot of males wouldn’t tolerate their daughter being treated the way they themselves treat women This is really well put! I’ve struggled to put this into words without rambling 👏	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 10:19 PM
190	Sad cause I really wanted to marry him 😭 Why does he look like he died last week	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 10:11 PM
1	Freudian F*ckboy Wants a Plant Mommy to “nurture” him 🤢 You should have asked him about his desire to treat a woman with meals and gifts. Surely he’s not too young to understand that you gotta take care of a woman that takes care of you! 😆	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 10:10 PM
1	Freudian F*ckboy Wants a Plant Mommy to “nurture” him 🤢 TIL a man asking about houseplants is a red flag 🤢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 10:08 PM
11	May you never end up like this. He mistreats her constantly, and gaslights her into thinking she's ungrateful and it's her fault. Most men don’t deserve to have families. Absolutely horrifying	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/20 11:07 PM
36	May you never end up like this. He mistreats her constantly, and gaslights her into thinking she's ungrateful and it's her fault. I don’t even know what to say. I’m shaking with anger at the fact that women are told unless they have this they are incomplete. I feel sorry for women who don’t realize that men need us way more than we need them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/20 10:17 PM
44	I finally did it. I broke it off with him. He’s right, he won’t treat you like that ever again. Because you won’t give him the chance to. Congrats Queen!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 04:40 PM
19	Should dating be put on hold during COVID? Girl, no 🤦‍♀️. Don’t play yourself like that. Your concerns are valid and if you’re “paranoid about being single forever” then you’re setting yourself up to settle for someone who is less than what you deserve. I don’t even know you but I know you can do better than a 36 year old with no car! You’re not “driving away” someone who will add value to your life here, I can promise you that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 06:14 PM
8	LVM convinces pickme into poly, proposes to the new girl I’m screaming	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/20 05:16 PM
7	Pre-FDS me would have been chasing this loser LOL “ur really weird” Happy cake day!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/20 05:33 PM
30	New Beginning. Starting over. Story. Your place is so gorgeous!! So proud of you and the future you are building for yourself. Congrats on graduating ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 06:59 PM
20	The only thing men "bring to the table" is their audacity. You didn’t stutter	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/20 03:55 AM
1	I write a new quote on my mirror every week that I’ll have to look at multiple times a day..”you are absolutely gorgeous, and that’s the least interesting thing about you” What do you write with? ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/20 06:36 PM
1	Advice for dating religious men? Thank you for this!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 04:53 AM
5	Advice for dating religious men? I’m also Catholic and I am wary of most religious men. I really don’t want to be taken advantage of! It’s so easy to put them on a pedestal when they share your faith.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/20 07:52 PM
12	Coming to terms with my pick-me past You are 100% correct, I am extremely sensitive and a LVM in my life would have destroyed me. Thank you for the support, I hope to be like you guys in real life for the women in my life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/20 05:13 AM
5	Coming to terms with my pick-me past That’s absolutely horrifying and none of it was your fault! I’m so happy for you that you saw your own worth when no one in your life did. I can’t imagine what your life must have been like. But your life is far from over and every step you make from now on can still give you a bright future. It doesn’t sound like you’re letting anyone or anything stop you. Thanks for taking the time to tell your story, sending you lots of love ❤️ ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/20 05:11 AM
24	Coming to terms with my pick-me past 😭❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/20 01:42 AM
42	I'm ROFLing rn LMAO the accuracy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/20 07:48 AM
7	Bye then. The funniest part is that he’s looking for someone who can “think and speak properly” when he can’t do either.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/06/20 08:02 PM
6	Ladies, a guy asking you about kinks before he barely knows you and being turned on by physical violence towards you is a red flag burning in a five-alarm fire. RUN, don't walk, AWAY! This show is amazing lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/20 05:27 PM
1	19yo dating a 30yo who still lives with parents... Ew, made my skin crawl	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/20 03:46 PM