| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth rates*can’t afford them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 07:37 PM |
| – | Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth ratesIt’s already falling apart, what are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 06:55 PM |
| 13 | What do you feel like hinders you most in dating?My looks and incompatibility with mainstream interests | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 05:08 AM |
| 1 | My unpopular opinion is that both boys and girls were discriminated against in education / workplace.[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 05:52 PM |
| 1 | My unpopular opinion is that both boys and girls were discriminated against in education / workplace.Not in America | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 05:40 PM |
| – | Modern men are struggling with dating because they’re too fatLifting doesn’t get good results if you’re under 5’8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?Brb downvoting this comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 10:18 PM |
| – | Why is “MILF” a top porn category if men are only attracted to young women?Plus a MILF would be a woman who has had sex and passed her genes on, which almost always suggests she’s voluptuous/pretty/enjoyable to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 06:06 PM |
| 18 | Why aren't red pill men actually adapting anymore?Because it isn’t worth it anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 06:09 PM |
| 1 | 1in 4 people will remain single study says. Do you believe it‽Higher than that, I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 12:59 AM |
| -5 | To both men and women: Tell me your requirements for a partner5’8+ White or Asian or Mixed Wasian Pretty Small waist + thick thighs Decent rack Plump butt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 10:34 PM |
| – | Some men never have a sexual primeGod I fucking hate my shit life. Fuck boomers, fuck women, fuck men, fuck retarded zoomers, fuck everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:03 PM |
| 2 | I feel like most mens' lives are decided as early as middle schoolNot true. Height was important as early as 4th grade. My friend would brag that he would be 6 feet tall as an adult; that’s how he got his gf in 4th grade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 05:54 PM |
| -1 | Men are cooked, new study shows men are the ones with the biological clock, not women.I know a very rich guy who didn’t have his first kid until 50. Never give up! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 09:17 PM |
| -2 | Men are cooked, new study shows men are the ones with the biological clock, not women.This. Guaranteed it’s some stupid pro-older woman dogshit feminist take from some postwall woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 08:41 PM |
| -5 | Men are cooked, new study shows men are the ones with the biological clock, not women.It’s long before 38 for women. It’s every year after 30, with a steep dropoff after 35. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 08:40 PM |
| 2 | How a man interacts appears to be wayyyy more important to female arousal than how a woman interacts is to male arousal.This never gets talked about, but it’s a big reason why there’s so many “loser” autistic men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 02:24 PM |
| -6 | Would it be better for more men to drop out of society?My mom did experience some shame a long time ago raising me as a single mom. I said nowadays single moms aren’t shamed and that’s accurate. Learn to read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 09:21 PM |
| -6 | Would it be better for more men to drop out of society?Not nearly enough to prevent them from existing at all and fucking up their son’s lives by removing a strong male role model for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Would it be better for more men to drop out of society?My mother was a single mom growing up and she is in a better position than any other woman she and I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 08:38 PM |
| 31 | Would it be better for more men to drop out of society?There is no shame against women nowadays. Meanwhile, men are still shamed for being virgins, unemployed, short, fat, loners, etc. it’s no wonder they lash out against a society that has nothing for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 07:38 PM |
| – | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADB | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 04:33 PM |
| 2 | The end result in society is women practically being amazoniansGod I wish I had an Amazonian gf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | The dating frustration that gives men the most hopelessness in the modern dating era is that the lack of "levers" he can pull to attract this "equivalent" in the modern dating eraA bottom 2% guy would be Brian Peppers, not an awkward unattractive aspie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | What is the Point of No Return for Being Single? How Long Does it Take for a Person to Realize They Missed the Chance to Get a Partner in This Life?I don’t agree. Things are very tough financially for guys right now, which hurts their independence and dating prospects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:56 PM |
| 0 | Explain so many involuntarily single men at a roughly 50/50 gender ratioWell, no. Millenials are a bigger cohort than Gen X. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Gynocentrism doesn't make sense in monogamous societiesBecause the government bails them out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation?I’m 5’6 and unattractive in the face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 10:41 PM |
| -1 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?I did get signs of interest from a couple girls in college, but they were either 1. Ugly (3/10 or lower), or 2. morbidly obese and badly proportioned, so ugly body-wise. So obviously I wasn’t attracted to them and didn’t pursue anything. Life just sucks ass for some of us guys because we were given a raw deal. What’re ya gonna do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Increasing the female/male sex ratio at birth (more women born) would help fix the dating market.For the younger crowd, 65-70% of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Increasing the female/male sex ratio at birth (more women born) would help fix the dating market.A lot? Do you live in CA? Lot of gym bros here. And even THOSE guys have trouble finding women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Increasing the female/male sex ratio at birth (more women born) would help fix the dating market.Lol what? Most guys weren’t gym freaks back in the 90’s and earlier, even though now that’s the bare minimum expected for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Are you happy redpillers?Fuck no. I have no job, no friends, no girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Where are all these virgin men?It’s very hard these days for young men to date because they’ve been raised with overprotective parents and screens eating up their socialization time. So they go to college stunted man children and probably can’t catch a break there, either. Then the only option for non-alphas is finding a gf at work, and considering how hard it is for young millennials and zoomers to even get jobs these days, even that’s debatable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Where are all these virgin men?It’s way more than 30%. Probably 75%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Do you place men in 3 different categories?I figure this is most women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife?What’s a super virgin? Is that the new superhero show? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife?How short are they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 11:32 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife?Based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife?Tall, beautiful, happy to be around, not dumb, thick thighs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 05:07 PM |
| 1 | It’s a good thing that women are being more selective and choosing less men to be in relationships withNot for the long-term economy, it isn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Society did not “lie” to you about what was and wasn’t attractive to women. You are not a “victim”.No most people my age were antisocial and hateful in high school | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 04:22 PM |
| 4 | Society did not “lie” to you about what was and wasn’t attractive to women. You are not a “victim”.Autistic people have trouble distinguishing stories and fiction from reality. With the rise in autism in recent years, it logically follows that most guys would think of themselves as the main character who gets the girl, even if they’re not athletic types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 04:07 PM |
| 6 | There is No hook up cultureNot to mention the dyed hair and weird gender pronoun shit turns off any red-blooded man within a 500-mile radius. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 04:13 AM |
| 5 | Millennial males (and older) had it easier.Agreed. I’m 29 and most of my college time girls didn’t want to talk to anyone except the absolute tallest, best looking, strongest dudes. Nerds and average guys were mostly ignored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 01:30 AM |
| -1 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious.No, because the beast is the attractive, tall, bulky, sad loner that the girl can fix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.”That’s not true at all. Maybe half of kids by the time they graduate HS have girlfriends, and certainly less than that now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 05:41 PM |
| 0 | If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.”No they definitely did not. They were very studious and had no time for dating. At least this was the case back in the early 10s, maybe things are different now. They probably are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 05:11 PM |
| 1 | If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.”It’s not little Tommy’s parents fault if the kids at school don’t want to hang out with him because he’s ugky, short, and far too intelligent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 03:28 PM |
| 2 | If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.”Same. Every kid my own age and older relatives told me as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Men not going to collegeIs this satire? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Since ageing is inevitable - why are women still being pushed to marry and have children young?Genes for the women’s children go down considerably every year after 30. This is scientific, not an opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever.Well that’s ironic considering it’s women’s poor treatment of me that made me not want to deal with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 05:46 AM |
| 0 | Why does autism seem to be the only hyper-masculine trait which isn't attractive?Women need men to fit into pre-defined roles. Autistic men rarely work out, don’t fight other men, usually get picked on in school for having very specific interests, don’t enjoy talking to people, etc. They are not hypermasculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 05:16 PM |
| 0 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?That’s for boomers only. It isn’t going to be like that for millennials when we’re that age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 10:59 PM |
| 5 | Are the men here mostly on the younger side and single?29 and single, so yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 12:02 AM |
| – | Do you think the idea of the 666 is the sole reason why you, or some men struggle to get dates or sex?Yes. Easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it.That doesn’t mean you’re the lowest of the barrel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | What screams wife material to you?Tall, beautiful, smart, funny, resilient, curvy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve muchWhere are you getting these figures from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 03:28 AM |
| 1 | What is the real reason some men are able to have success with love and some aren’t?What’s your secret? Are you good looking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 09:20 PM |
| – | "Women might be pickier, but their preferences are also unique to each one of them", actually they're rather similarOlder men make up a huge swath of that percentage. Not to mention most of those guys are 5’8-5’11, which is average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 06:35 PM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?You must’ve gone to school a long time ago. Social media has ruined high school and earlier ages, it’s all based on looks now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?That all depends on your age. If you’re a young g millennial or younger it is basically impossible to get a girl to like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 06:53 PM |
| – | Women are more suitable as corporate slaves.Women can handle monotony way better than men can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 04:39 PM |
| – | As a man I honestly can't see whats unattractive about short men.That was very long ago, before social media made women doubly insecure about venturing outside the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 10:44 PM |
| 2 | What age is it weird to still live at home?How are you earning money if you’re unemployed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Is dating just depressing in the 30s or what?I know women from my recent college years. They weren’t fun to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Is dating just depressing in the 30s or what?Another tale from the pre-Social media years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 04:39 AM |
| 1 | For those who believe it’s impossible to find women who aren’t promiscuous - do you believe promiscuity is natural in women then?I’ve seen this play out my first day of college. A group of four girls were all talking to this tall stoner surfer bro guy, and laughing at everything he was saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Question for men who say women are overly shallow - If you genuinely believe that all (or essentially all) women only care about looks, why don't you focus on improving your looks?Because you can’t improve your height or your face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 10:48 PM |
| 5 | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?I’ve never had a kiss or any girlfriend. Almost 28. 5’4.5-5’5. Big head, bad proportions, skinny fat, hate working out. Ugly face. Intelligent and angry at the world and the way America is going. Tons of family issues all the time, was controlled by many family and friends from a young age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 03:24 AM |
| 15 | Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture?Hypergamous orgies for the top percentage of men, virtual girlfriends/AI Sexbots for the rest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 02:38 AM |
| 1 | If you walked into a room with 100 people of the opposite gender, all of them are single and around your age, how many of them do you think would want to go on a date with you?0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 03:25 AM |
| 4 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceBest comment here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 09:31 PM |
| 4 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceI don’t have any investments. Was that a bad attempt at a gotcha? Cut the condescension, I know what an investment firm is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 10:39 PM |
| 6 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceWomen aren’t entitled to a man’s money just because she got bored of being married to him after popping out a couple kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 09:52 PM |
| 5 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceDivorce rape is another American issue that gives women the edge in dating and marriage/kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceIt’s men’s job to have monetary and physical security, it’s a woman’s job to look beautiful. That’s it. But since women entered the workforce, the dating market has been grotesquely skewed. Now women get their choice of career and fuckbuddy. Men get jack shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 09:37 PM |
| 14 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceIt’s true. My childhood friend’s older brother was a fuckup but because he looked better than my childhood friend, he got hotter girlfriends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 09:36 PM |
| 56 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceMen are giving up and I can’t blame them. We don’t have the beautiful wife, nice home, and great career that was promised to the boomers. Instead we have runaway inflation, global warming, ridiculous job market, lack of affordable housing due to landlord’s avarice, old money buying out the remaining houses at a ridiculous up charge because they can then rent out said home for profits, an epidemic of fat, slovenly women, and a huge dating mismatch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 08:40 PM |
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