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Don't be so generic and boring. Yawn! I want to fall asleep reading this and I promise you she has 93 other guys who send her the same boring text message this week too. Invite her out for something small like a cup of coffee during the week when you actually are free or invite her to a group thing where it will be fun and not 1 on 1. This way if she can't you are doing your thing anyway. Quit worrying so much and just do it. Biggest mistake you make is not asking! Who cares if she turns you dow…
/r/seduction04/03/13 10:55 PM
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Yea, it would be a difficult way to imagine the "how we met" story but like I said there is always going to be exceptions.
/r/seduction25/02/13 07:55 PM
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Yes my bad! I want to clear it up like a single parent house hold. Like I said its a personal preference and I know there are situations where not all of these apply.
/r/seduction25/02/13 06:09 PM
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PM me this as well please.
/r/seduction25/02/13 05:52 PM
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For me it's as follows: 1)Family Issues(daddy issue/divorced household) 2)Single Child 3)Moving too quickly(kids,long term,) I'm not saying that I haven't met some amazing girls who may have had some of those issues in there life but I'm just implying that a lot of the time it has come down to me feeling that its just not going to work because of something relating to those 3.
/r/seduction25/02/13 05:51 PM
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Don't worry if she is busy or not and invite her on the days you are free to do things. "Me and my friends are doing this on "day" it's going to be a blast and you are welcome to join." This way you already have plans and if she goes thats nice if not who cares. Or you can invite her on a thing that you want to do with her on a day you are open. If she says shes busy and doesn't offer another day than who cares...try at a later time but don't only talk to her to set up days to hangout. Small tal…
/r/seduction25/02/13 05:44 PM
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"You're cute." -says 99% of the male population to her that probably talks to her. Girls who are done up invest time in making themselves look good. Be creative and compliment her boots, watch, necklace, earrings, ect! Compliment her for her taste in music, movies, ect. Let a girl compliment you all day on your looks but don't go out and simply tell every girl you think is cute that she is cute! They hear it more often than any other compliment. She wore that watch for a reason, that necklace is…
/r/seduction01/02/13 10:11 PM
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This is good advice and it's exactly the same approach I have always used. Keep it exciting and they have less of a reason to flake on you.
/r/seduction01/02/13 10:05 PM
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"I think it would be more proper to say acquaintances missy(any playful nickname). I just met you and it takes some time to become friends." I would use this to be honest. For any girl I meet that tells me she just wants to be "friends" I just basically tell them I just met them and I can't consider them a friend yet because they may be crazy or some other sarcastic remark. Don't even buy into the "just friends" thing.
/r/seduction31/01/13 04:20 PM
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I would never say you are pretty girl but im not into smokers...shes just going to think you are rude. You could simply say you have been busy or something. It's far better to keep connections open with people even if you don't view them as someone you would want to be with.
/r/seduction30/01/13 09:12 PM
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....you are assuming she wants you just by giving you her number but no you are not obligated to text her.
/r/seduction30/01/13 09:02 PM
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One does not simply turn a woman down for smoking.
/r/seduction30/01/13 08:54 PM
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I don't think getting out of there is the perfect advice. If I was in a situation similar I would flirt with her and give her great attention but I would go and talk to other women around her in the same flirtatious manner. Make it be known that you are flirting with her BUT than show her you are really friendly with others too. If she is testing you than she will try to get your attention even more. I know it's easier said then done but if you let it effect you she will notice this and be turne…
/r/seduction30/01/13 06:01 PM
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She is...you are something to fall back upon in case something doesn't work out for her. If she liked you she would be with you...the end. Respect yourself and cut it off. If it hasn't happened after this long nothing will change. She's know what's been on the table for so long now and hasn't looked your way at all. She doesn't deserve a second chance at it and when you make that clear you will be happier.
/r/seduction30/01/13 05:47 PM
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If she is into you and really wants to go out with you she will make it happen. Yes, sometimes she may actually be busy and will offer to reschedule which works out perfect if you are free that day. "Thursday at 7:34 I'll be enjoying myself a delicious cup of coffee at ____. I'd be open to inviting you." This can work through phone or text and with my personality it's suits me well. It doesn't have to be out for coffee...it can be anything. Either way it's a friendly invite and it's at a time I'…
/r/seduction30/01/13 05:40 PM
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If she respected you she would have made it clear that she doesn't want anything but a friendship from you but leaving it open-ended it always makes you wonder "what-if." The second you make it clear to yourself that you are too good for her than you will be much happier.
/r/seduction30/01/13 05:19 PM
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To put it short and sweet you must move on! I was in a similar situation for about the same length of time a while back and the best thing I ever did was give up. Short story: We had a thing for each other but we were always in relationships and we both said we like each other while in relationships but nothing ever came of it. For years we stayed friends and similar things kept coming up but nothing ever came from it. A lot of talking about how terrible her BF was but never gave me a chance(sti…
/r/seduction30/01/13 04:45 PM
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