HandsomeTomatoes22 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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48	Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed? Spot on!! It’s very simple, people want what others have or desire. You ever wanted to be friends with others b/c they were popular? You probably knew absolutely nothing about them or shared no interests. Social media has this power. OP, work on understanding and creating attraction. You’ll look at life totally different when you understand attraction.	/r/seduction	03/07/22 10:34 PM
1	How to get laid ? It sure sounds like you need to improve your social skills. I would take small steps. Thing I would do if I was you in no particular order. Learn to hold a conversation. It’s invaluable not with just women but if you want to do well for yourself in life. Make and maintain eye contact with people during conversations. Allow others to speak and you listen. Reaffirm the things you’ve heard with follow up questions. Become well groomed. Wear clothes that fit you and the lifestyle you want to live. B…	/r/seduction	26/06/22 08:11 PM
3	Confidence, assertiveness - so hot! I could be wrong here but this doesn’t seem like the recipe for creating attraction. Is confidence enough to create attraction? He seemed a bit needy, no? OP, might be leaving out other details. Was this man attractive, nice dress attire, in-shape, etc. Please fill us in on the rest.	/r/seduction	10/06/22 08:11 PM
2	How do I unlearn game? This was pretty a good write up. Continue to improve yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally and you will attract the right people in your life. This goes beyond women, it’s about attracting the people and the life you want. That is called true game. Remember pickup lines and methods only mask true game. Similar to exam taking and memorizing the answers. I’ll get you by, but you will fail the course in the end.	/r/seduction	07/06/22 12:48 AM
1	Sex feels so unobtainable and I hate it You have alot of things going for you but you’re not there yet. You’re in good shape but do you have a style about you? Do you wear clothes that accentuate you being in good shape? Find someone that you like in terms of style and clothes and emulate them! You have good social skills but do you know how to attract women? Doesn’t sound like it. Big difference between being social and attracting the opposite sex. Read, observe (from others) and implement attraction laws. Lastly and most importantly…	/r/seduction	29/05/22 04:55 PM
2	Competing with a married man Yep, time to move. You two became friend during your weakest moment. It really means she is in your life to be a friend and help you rather than you attracted her. She is also old enough to know what she wants. And it sounds like she’s okay with being the other woman and a home wrecker. Plenty of good women out there my man. Remember work on being your best self and you will attract the right woman.	/r/seduction	29/05/22 04:28 PM
0	All you need is a social circle of average looking men. There are downfalls to social circles. Most likely a large number of people in circles have hooked up with one another. Approval from others in circles is also a bad damaging way to live life. Gossip and backbiting is very prevalent in social circles. There is a hierarchy within social circles.	/r/seduction	29/05/22 03:37 PM
2	All you need is a social circle of average looking men. Social circles matter! A man with a large social circle indicates value to women. Women want a man that has high value. It’s not the end and be all, but it can go a long ways in attracting women.	/r/seduction	29/05/22 03:18 PM
26	"I'm not that kind of guy" I agree with the premise of OP statement, but it really depends at what stage the woman is at with her life. A single lady in her late teens to late twenties OP statement is absolutely true. They’re looking more for alpha status males. A single mom in her thirties and fourties would make me disagree with OP’s statement. Do you still need to lead and be dominant in the interactions? Absolutely! However, she is looking for comfort and security at that stage in her life. Your outlook becomes more b…	/r/seduction	29/05/22 02:22 PM
2	Competing with a married man Couple things here. Sounds like you have developed a friendship with her. A typical mistake for most guys. Jake has developed attraction from her and it sounds like he isn’t too readily available to her. Jake’s tantrums can be construed two ways. One he can’t control his frame thus being easily angered. A woman typically loses respect for a man that can’t control frame. It’s a woman’s job to be emotional and throw tantrums which is part of their dna. The other is she views those tantrum as bound…	/r/seduction	29/05/22 01:05 PM
3	Competing with a married man OP, it sounds like you know what to do! As mentioned from others this is a chance to become a better man for yourself. Work on your physical, mental, and emotional fitness. Become the best version of yourself!! Take cues from Jake and his game. What is he doing right and what is he doing wrong? Sounds like he looks and dresses the part. He also seems like a charismatic storyteller. His only flaw seems to be too readily available to talk to Laura? Or is that you? One thing I’m interested in knowi…	/r/seduction	29/05/22 04:17 AM
2	"Don't be desperate" fallacy When someone says work on yourself or be the best version of yourself. It doesn’t mean you can’t approach or ask women out. If you are truly improving yourself (physique, mental, physical, wardrobe, etc.) to be what you want to be, you will be putting yourself in situations or places that are attracted to those improved features. Get it? For example if I love rock climbing. And I needed gear, I would go to shops that sell rock climbing gear. Who knows, I might meet a cute girl that’s also into i…	/r/seduction	22/05/22 07:40 PM
2	Becoming more attractive You want to know the most attractive quality in a person? Being comfortable in your own skin. How do you accomplish that? By being relentless in self improvement for yourself. Physique, speech, thoughts, lifestyle.	/r/seduction	22/05/22 04:54 PM
1	Should I keep faking my personality or go back to my old self At your age work on continuous self improvement. I’m an old man (40) and still learning everyday.	/r/seduction	21/05/22 03:55 PM
1	What are signs that you are a hot, good-looking guy but don’t realise it? Creating abundance indirectly will attract people. The only way to do that is too create a confident fulfilling fun filled life for yourself.	/r/seduction	08/05/22 03:39 PM
2	I'm a SHORT ASIAN GUY who won at the seduction game. Two tips on meeting new prospects and getting them HOOKED. It’s about how you make them feel. Talking doesn’t need to happen to elicit feelings. In fact it’s best if it doesn’t. OP, strategies also will help elicit feelings.	/r/seduction	05/05/22 01:56 PM