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"Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent." ~Nietzsche
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 05:10 PM
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she's just being what it is in her nature to be. ... which is "shitty". Shitty by nature still means shitty. Typical cliche women do fucking suck. A lot. Literally and figuratively.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 05:04 PM
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As for myself, one year I dressed as a "mammogram machine". It was the cheapest costume ever - Just a silver painted cardboard box that I placed on my head with two big holes labeled "insert boobs here". I had three pairs of tits in my face before the end of the night. This was pre-RP, so I had no idea what I was doing and did not correctly approach or seal any deals. Advice on how I could have capitalized?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:26 PM
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Contrary to the other repliers, I've been told that the girls that attend these functions are especially thirsty. The beta neckbeards won't seal the deal, and the girls won't feel comfortable hanging with them for an extended period of time anyway. If you know what you're doing, I think it's a good idea. If you've been working out and have a six pack, this is a great opportunity to show it off - will pretty much put it on easy mode.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 03:17 PM
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Respect is something I have yet to find any reason to give any woman I've ever met, aside from my mother. But that's a different conversation. I've become MGTOW now.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:48 PM
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I like that top comment: political correctness and MSNBC's multi-culturalism almost killed you. Situational awareness, fellas. Be careful out there.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 01:19 PM
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What's the right way to respond to "Hey man, she has a boyfriend."? Let's assume the white knights will press the issue if you choose to completely ignore the statement. I think I would ask her "Do you have a boyfriend?" If yes, "k, see ya" and walk away; if no, proceed as usual. Thoughts?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 04:59 PM
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/u/cmichael21, take this advice in addition to asking yourself if these actions would jeopardize your job. If it doesn't matter, fuck it (or them, literally speaking). A smart RP person puts his own best interests in front. Personal health > money > sex
/r/askTRP04/09/14 08:49 PM
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It's like autism for females... "Feminism".
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 03:52 PM
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I think you've only gotten to that point with girls whom you have framed appropriately. You dont put up with anything else. Sometimes guys like me (who are open to potential LTRs) get a girl who doesnt quite fall into your particular frame to this point. We see the flags that they aren't a 100% chance for fucking, but we get them there anyway because something else might come of it. Dont get me wrong. I'm not putting you down at all. I'm just saying I think you're only looking for sex and nothin…
/r/askTRP30/08/14 09:38 PM
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This is honestly the best reply here.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 06:04 PM
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I dunno man. All girls are screwy in the head, some more than others. Sometimes they can randomly put up an impenetrable (heh) wall even after the clothes are off and everything is going fine. I'd rather be blue balled (and next her) than be remotely accused of rape. I have too much to lose, so if you're suggesting those "I got her naked but then no fucks what gives?" posts push harder, I disagree with that advice. I see where you're coming from, but you know, just like everyone else here, that …
/r/askTRP29/08/14 05:50 PM
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Yeah, do not fix people. If you try to fix people, you're gunna have a bad time.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 03:24 PM
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I couldn't even stick around to finish reading the top reply. Made me too angry. God I hate that sub. Fuckin' entitlement.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 03:18 PM
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Ah.. Got it. Was late at night. Definitely understand what that means now.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 11:33 AM
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She wasn't ovulating. I was able to get her naked and see that she wasn't. Not to go into explicit detail, but she absolutely gave me a hard no to sex (or anything that involved her pleasuring me). I fingered her for a while, and she refused to even touch me. No reciprocation at all. I eventually gave up. She wasn't playing hard to get - She literally just only cared about herself and made it clear that I wasn't gunna get anything. I gave up before I got her to an O (realizing I wasn't gunna get…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 05:08 AM
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I've never been in a position where I needed to outright lie like that until yesterday with her. I told her I had fake plans to help my mother and grandmother with something. Then I fakely scrolled through texts that my brother sent me and "confirmed" that I needed to be there for them within the next hour. Felt kind of shitty to do that, but it needed to be done. I had to get that crazy cunt out of my house without her breaking anything. I even followed her out shortly after to ensure my car wa…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 04:49 AM
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The entitlement was strong with this one (because she's just been through so much). I hypothesize that entitlement has a direct correlation to partner count.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:07 AM
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There was a post a while back explaining - the less experienced ones are way more willing to learn to please you the way you want to be pleased. The more experienced will just do what they want to do and not really care if you're into it or not.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 05:13 PM
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Am I the only person who doesn't feel bad after jerkin it? I think this post is more directed at the weak-willed, or people with "addictive personalities". Wouldn't it be plausible to say: If you have a higher level of self-control, it doesn't matter how much you jack off, drink, or do drugs. A person as such would have none of the problems OP has associated with masturbation.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:45 PM
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I tell (not ask) them to marry me in an obviously joking manner. Dont wanna say the exact phrase so they can't google it and link me here.
/r/TRPOffTopic12/08/14 11:43 PM
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kek +1
/r/TRPOffTopic10/08/14 06:38 PM
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I don't think I'd get the voice in the back of my head, because I've come to realize they are all the damn same no matter what way you look at it. They'll still shit test and annoy you just as much. After learning what I've now learned (and suffered all the shit I was put through in my beta days), I have a hard time seeing any woman as anything other than a walking fleshlight.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 07:15 PM
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Go to TRP front page. Click on "Field Report" icon at the top. Sort by "Top". ????. Profit.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 05:52 PM
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She could be dumb as a brick for all I care if she is a nice positive person. I seem to only attract the smarter ones, though. So I am not speaking from experience.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 04:16 PM
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One in four said "yes". Everyone else said "not until she asks". The "yes" reasoning is sound - to prevent having to deal with crazy later on. But so is the "no" reasoning - because it doesn't really need to be defined until the question comes up. The feminist would argue that any and all relationships should automatically be assumed as exclusive immediately, which makes no fucking sense at all. I'm on the fence here about doing this with a 2 month long plate. I wish there were more responses...…
/r/askTRP08/08/14 02:54 PM
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My not-so-much friend swears that females are the best wingmen. But, in my personal experience, they end up not doing a god damned thing to help you. They've ended up standing around doing nothing. Their mere presence is a good thing if it's more than just the two of you in your group, as it might make targets feel more comfortable.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 02:22 PM
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I noticed that when the PUAs talk, I had to turn down my volume. But when the incels spoke, I needed to turn my volume up.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 01:51 PM
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There's also literally a single line you can add to your profile that tripled my views for weeks, for example, before I removed it. And that line was...?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 07:35 PM
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Someone showed me that imgur album a while back. I was in tears laughing. They were just so serious about how offensive TRP is, too. It boggles my fucking mind that entire subreddits exist for the sole purpose of trolling other subreddits. I can't wrap my mind around how no-life neckbeardy of a thing that is. I prefer not to look at those subreddits because r/askhamsters, r/sex, r/fatpeoplestories, and r/omc provide enough humor to satiate me.
/r/TRPOffTopic01/08/14 04:49 PM
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A woman cannot change her nature anymore than a squirrel or a dog. Yeah, but I still hate squirrels and dogs. I told my ex the other day (after she called me asking to be friends), "I hate women. Why would I ever want to be just friends with one?" I up vote this post for the valid point, but I don't think I'll ever actually enjoy a woman's presence in any way aside from a sexual manner. I hate putting up the act. A&A and all that. Doesn't mean I won't do it, but just for the record it is indeed …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:52 PM
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Yeah, you're right. Really, you should check out White/Rob Zombie, as his music gets pretty sexual. It's also hard not to move to it - very energizing. Chicks will dig Godsmack, and their first two albums suffice my metal needs.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 04:40 AM
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Lol, I hear ya. Yeah, I'm a pretty negative guy when not spitting game. I really admire chaotic metal guitar, being an aspiring guitarist (as a hobby, not profession) myself.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 04:30 AM
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I listen to brutal death metal with some regular metal mixed in. White Zombie (Astro Creep album ftw) and all of Pantera are great if a chick is within earshot. If not, I like Dying Fetus, Nile, and I just got into Goregasm. Fuck the pussy emo bullshit where they sing in their normal voice from time to time. I like to hear satan in the form of music. Goregasm is particularly relevant to TRP, as one of their album covers features a dude with his "oh face" doing a girl doggy style while slicing he…
/r/askTRP29/07/14 04:07 AM
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Yes! You new fuckers should shut up and listen. I didn't fucking post a damn thing until I had lurked for three months. You cannot possibly think you'd contribute meaningful points as a newbie. Shut the fuck up and fucking listen.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 07:33 PM
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Taking the whimsical approach with a plate/gf is better. If they've known you for longer than a few weeks, I guarantee they've stashed away perfect insults that they know are going to infuriate you. They are fucking experts at emotional abuse. If emotional abuse was treated just like physical abuse in a court of law, there'd be more women in jail than men. The business approach is logical. "Logic" is not in their vocabulary. AWALT: conniving cunts. Even if she melted down and you didn't, do you …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 01:41 AM
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Great post, but I'm not sure about the bum part. If you make eye contact (where I'm from) they'll have gotten the attention they seek and try to extort money out of you. Even with the "the fuck you lookin at" attitude, they'll start talking to you like "I come in peace". This actually happened to me. I said, "well I dont come in peace, so fuck off". He did fuck off, but the point is I dont even want that interaction to take place.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 08:00 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ. This. If I want my words written in stone, I send a meticulously worded email. I absolutely refuse to have "serious talks" with women hamsters. This way, they have less room to put words in your mouth or tell you that your attitude changed the meaning of what you said. I don't negotiate with terrorists. And that's what females are - terrorists of emotion.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 07:38 PM
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If you are hanging with him in a situation where there's a girl you're interested in present, let him know. "Hey man, I'm going after this chick. Give me hand, bro, if you see an opportunity." For the record, I suggest you don't hang with him in public.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 07:24 PM
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I have a friend like that. I don't go out in public with him any more. We usually stay in, catch up, shoot pool, play video games, etc.. if we are hanging out. You don't really have any other options. He ain't gunna change his ways for you, and you're tired of this situation constantly coming up. If you go out in public, go with other friends or by yourself.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:34 PM
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The non-college girls in my somewhat limited experience are better in bed. I prefer the college ones because they are less likely to be tied up with work or have their car break down or something stupid happen to them preventing your cock from going inside them. The less intelligence, the more real life bullshit to get in the way. The more intelligence, the more made up hamster bullshit to put up with. At least we as RPers can handle hamsters. Nothing can solve the issue of her unavailability to…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 07:26 PM
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How many different weekends have you seen her, and are you still continuing to see her? I'm asking because my initial reaction to this conversation is that it seemed like a one time pump n dump. I'm just saying I feel like if I outright denied a girl all communication she'd next me. I gotta show some (fake) emotion (usually through emoticons) to keep them around. Christ, you didn't even use emoticons. How the fuck are you not using emoticons when talking to a 20-something? That's their language.…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 07:42 PM
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I couldn't help but smirk at your comment, as it is a logical thing to assume. But, you see, this sub teaches us that women are different than men. "Honor" is very much NOT in their vocabulary, as many many posts have plainly pointed out. The only thing you can do is take necessary precautions, notice the indicators that something like this is coming if/when they appear, and be prepared to proactively respond. Your statements hold true if you've conditioned her properly, but I'm a realist. And t…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 06:13 PM
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No. I think the majority of people here would say OP faltered. His SMV went down by becoming too beta and didn't maintain frame (or even have frame to begin with). It was his job to next her when she started the red flags. It was his job to keep her in check. It was his job to keep his SMV high. Granted she did not sound like LTR material - That was another mistake made by OP.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 01:21 PM
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It's not overprotection. Your woman will do what she wants. In LTRs, it's your job to influence her to not want to get into compromising situations. If you've been working out (thus, looking good) and are stoic when you need to be (i.e. putting her in line in such a way that she wants to be put in line by you), she won't want to hang with other dudes. In other words, you must keep you SMV higher than everyone else's. And if she does anyway, it's a fucking red flag, and she shouldn't be a candida…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 01:07 PM
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Your woman will do what she wants. In LTRs, it's your job to influence her to not want to get into compromising situations. If you've been working out (thus, looking good) and are stoic when you need to be (i.e. putting her in line in such a way that she wants to be put in line by you), she won't want to hang with other dudes. In other words, you must keep you SMV higher than everyone else's. And if she does anyway, it's a fucking red flag, and she shouldn't be a candidate for a LTR.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 01:03 PM
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The point of the discussion isn't "what she was supposed to do." We know what she's gunna do. She's just like all other women. HE should have broken up with HER when it came to light that she wanted to be seen naked by other men. She stayed with him merely to "avoid loneliness". How is that not manipulative? In this sub, we know she would do that. The point of the matter is that OP did not handle his girl like he should have. This also confirms AWALT. The honorable thing for her to do, which we …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 12:47 PM
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Ask the OP of the thread. He joined TRP after this post blew up.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 11:56 AM
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Yeah, man. Time to get ripped. Hit that gym, read some of this subreddit, and be the alpha you deserve to be.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 02:33 AM
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Seems like a believable story to me. Either way, this is something that can definitely happen often in real life. The lesson is still there and valid.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 07:01 PM
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Report back with results. I wonder if "gw game" will become a thing.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 04:59 PM
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Oh shit! Haha, I purposely tried not to mention your username. In my post at least :S
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 04:45 PM
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I said this to a few others: He probably showed her his sweaty six pack after working out. That seems to turn girls very quickly. Just reinforces that you need to focus on yourself and look good.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 04:44 PM
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Also, please check out /r/redpillwomen. They'd be helpful as well.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 04:42 PM
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I don't exactly consider myself a RP expert, but my answer to your question is this: TRP is based around teaching us men how to increase our SMV (Sexual Market Value). If your girlfriend doesn't want to be with you any more, your SMV has obviously dropped in some way or another (maybe even through outside forces). Read the sidebar if you haven't. It's a lot to read, but it will answer your questions better than I can.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 04:38 PM
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OP was more "stupid" than "confident". AWALT: All Women Are Like That. You must learn the common behaviors of women from this sub to truly understand their nature. If OP even had a clue as to how women worked, he would have seen the red flag when she wanted to post on GW.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 04:22 PM
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The guy who made the comment in my post has been removed by the OMC mods. Go figure. He even had the third top comment. Can't believe those mods. And also, all moammargaret's replies were deleted (as they opposed her view), but that asinine post you pointed out is all that remains.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 04:15 PM
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Yeah... That's never a good idea. Send him a PM if you really wanna help him. Keep in mind most people like him hate the shit out of us and will never change. I think it's pointless. I know you want to help your fellow man, but things like this need to be found on their own.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 04:12 PM
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What I said to the other guy: He probably just showed her pics of his sweaty 6 pack after working out. That seems to turn any girl. Just reinforces that you need to focus on yourself and look good.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 04:00 PM
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He probably just showed her pics of his sweaty 6 pack after working out. That seems to turn any girl. Just reinforces that you need to focus on yourself and look good.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 03:58 PM
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It will lead to what happened to that OP, so that's a hard no. Most of the guys that watch will want to get with her, too. I wouldn't dangle my possessions in front of strangers.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 03:52 PM
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Amen, brother. And, so my reply isn't too short, AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 03:39 PM
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No way. It had like 30 upvotes... Unbelievable if true. User's name was Daell.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 03:26 PM
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Yeah. Dumb fuck, indeed. It also reminds me of how men let themselves go (get fat) after being in a relationship for so long because she loves me for me. This may very well be the reason she was seeking other attention.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 02:23 PM
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So, say, hypothetically, there were no other women around to talk/flirt with. Say they were all occupied by all the other dudes, meaning OP was completely left alone. What's the proper response? Just chillax? Leave? Somehow interrupt them through sexual remarks? Obviously OP's response was not the right one, but I don't know what is. edit: I'd have probably left, slapping her ass on the way out, saying "have fun!"
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 07:15 PM
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I've always left and went home after she fell asleep if we did not do it. Of the two times this happened, both times we hung out the following night and did it. So there's my sample. Leave with the excuse that you want to sleep in your own bed.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 07:02 PM
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Everywhere, as long as you're not creepy about it. Say something random to random girls at random places. If they seem to maybe want to keep talking to you, then continue talking and eventually ask her number. You got nothing to lose. edit: Hint - They're more likely to be receptive if you look good. Smell good and wear well-fitted clothes all the time. Work out. Every. Fucking. Day.
/r/askTRP14/07/14 05:48 PM
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I fucked a girl earlier this year who was I was orbiting long ago. After about three sessions I realized she was batshit fucking insane, so I nexted. She tried to transform me into a beta orbiter one night. Tried to get me to buy her drinks, told me she wanted to dance and then ignored me on the floor. I left her there and that was that. No time for that bullshit. edit: probably not as redpill of an answer as id have liked to have given. I was just getting into this stuff. I'd like to tell you I…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 11:47 PM
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