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Generally i like deep voices, but that's not a rule set of stone, i also liked some voices that were quite high pitched
/r/seduction09/01/22 07:32 AM
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Reasons why cologne is good: Senses are a strong thing. We give a lot of importance to sight, but the others sense are important as well: you certainly have preferences in terms of girls voices, for example, or you like more touching a soft skin than a rough one. So having a nice smell is certainly better than having no smell. As you said you rarely notice people perfumes... but a situation you generally notice perfumes in when you are really close... such during a kiss or sex. So for some women…
/r/seduction08/01/22 05:44 PM
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I don't know how much your masturbate, but i still advice you to reduce how much you jerk off and quit porn altogether. The issue with porn is that it makes your body used to go straight from a mild arousement to an orgasm in a short time and what's worst, it's that it always happens. So when you see a girl that you like, if you just get a bit aroused by her, your body goes "well buckle up, we are in for a ride!"... but it doesn't happen. And your body CRAVES that pleasure bomb. Then your body s…
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:29 AM
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It's a matter of numbers i guess? I mean, there aren't tons of gays around. If you don't flirt around a bit aggressively, you'll never know who is gay and other gays will never know you are gay.
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:35 PM
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I think the most important thing is being honest with yourself. If you are average but you are fine with it, it's going to be fine. But if you are average, force yourself to believe you are above average, but deep down you know you aren't, it's just going to create a dissonance and girls notice that stuff. It may work for the pick-up and first impression, but at second date, the third or later that dissonance is going to come out. So the most important thing is knowing yourself: learn what your …
/r/seduction15/12/21 11:01 AM
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It's a very sweet thing once you are in a long standing relationship, but it isn't when you two start dating.
/r/seduction14/12/21 07:20 PM
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Nah in your situation it's totally fine to be upset
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:29 PM
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I don't think high levels of attention are turn off by default, there are girls that like it and girls that don't. A girl that easily gets affection is going to value it less that a girl that doesn't get much, plus it also depends on how much that girl knows you and if how much she can trust the guy with that attention being genuine and not just a mask under which there is just horniness. Finally, I think the biggest turnoff is acting like your happiness depends on the girl. This puts pressure o…
/r/seduction14/12/21 11:08 AM
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I'm not the type to be forceful and try to squeeze her from behind, as I see a lot of guys doing. In my experience the "from behind" approach only works if the girl is making the move. Basically, if you see a girl is looking at you, just smile to her and after a brief time (not instantly) try to place yourself behind her, but butt-to-butt. You want to accidentally bump into her while you dance, this is gonna make her notice you. After a while, try to turn yourself around, but kind of subtly: you…
/r/seduction13/11/21 10:06 AM
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Gorgeous girls often attract people with their looks rather than their personality. Depending on their luck, this can cause them to have some pretty unpleasant experiences with guys that are great looking but basically see them as pretty walking sex dolls, or are narcissistic. So in some cases gorgeous girls end up being attracted by people that just normally and treat them like a human being.
/r/seduction13/11/21 09:20 AM
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But I guess the "vibe" isn't the same as with my team. You can't fake vibe, if you are not having fun, people will notice that. The whole point is that you should hang out with your friends to have fun with them, not just for picking up girls... so stop stressing about the results and just enjoy the evening.
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:59 PM
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While he doesn't sound like a good wingman at all, it also sounds you aren't treating him that well... and that could be a turn off for women. I mean, look at it from a woman perspective: you see two couples of men, both have a good looking guy and a bad looking one. The first couple has the two of them laughing and having fun and the other one has the two of them looking grumpy and nervously staring people around. Which one are you more inclined to approach?
/r/seduction31/10/21 11:39 AM
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"Well yeah if I'm hearing things like this, i must have a fever"
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:36 AM
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What is wrong with being wholesome? A lot of the tactics in this sub are for sounding the ground safely to find out if a girl is interested in you. If you like her looks and likes yours, being yourself is the hottest thing you can do.
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:35 AM
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A pretty innocent ice breaker is asking something along the line of "hey I think we already met somewhere, do you go to insert place you visit often" I like it because it can get you talking about places and actives you like and you can always shrug it off with "nevermind, you must have a lookalike"
/r/seduction28/10/21 11:29 AM
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They are called one-night-stands for a reason, it's easy to get attached to someone you are sleeping with, so if you make it explicit you only want sex, girls generally won't be willing to sleep with you. While for men mechanical stimulation can suffice, women generally need some emotional connection too so unless you find one of the few women that are all about the mechanical stimulation, just the fact you are telling them it's all about sex will be a turnoff for them. Very often girls that onl…
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:32 PM
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I have tried to masturbate but nothing has ever happened I'd say go get yourself checked by a GP/urologist/andrologist because that's not really normal. Both men and women need mental and physical stimulation to get aroused, but for men physically stimulation alone is often enough to keep an erection up and reach an orgasm. Don't worry though, if you get wet dreams it should mean everything is functional.
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:19 PM
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The pill can also be used for a variety of medical issues such as acne, but I would recommend using a condom anyway for STDs.
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:57 PM
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Abundance isn't "if she rejects me i can have another girl right away". It's more like just being fine with the possibility she rejects you. People, not just girls, don't like pressure. Try to think it the other way around: you meet this girl, you like her and you want to know her better. But talking to her, you start to understand: something is wrong in her life and she feels like dating you will make things right. This makes you feel responsible. Take a step backward and she'll worry about you…
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:42 PM
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Do this in person: tell her she can pay you in nature, looking overly serious and staring her right in the eyes. After her reaction, laugh and say you are joking, that the battery costed 150$ (implicitly telling her she has to pay for that with cash) and that she can just buy you a drink for the work done.
/r/seduction24/07/21 01:13 PM
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Just a reminder: life happens. You don't get to decide when you'll meet your soul mate, so it's pointless to worry.
/r/seduction31/05/21 06:35 AM
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Of course it only works if she's into you, but if you manage to give a positive vibe and she likes your look, you are set. Also, even if she says so, don't think you did something wrong. She could be in a bad mood, shy, already taken or she might just not like you, plus other million reasons.
/r/seduction09/09/20 09:37 PM
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If you got her number you can just laugh and admit the whole thing.
/r/seduction09/09/20 09:34 PM
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Hey, my phone is dead. Do you know what time is it?
/r/seduction09/09/20 09:33 PM
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This would be the UK approach and this doesn't really work. It's not a bad flu, it can kill a perfectly healthy individual or leave it with permanent respiratory damage: an olimpic swimmer, the top of the top respiration wise, got badly sick and would have died without care, just to make an example. Even if only young people get it, we are still talking about a massive amount of deaths. All of this doesn't even account that is a novel virus and we don't know what secondary effects it could have …
/r/seduction28/03/20 10:50 PM
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I didn't downvote you, i rarely downvote and i honestly wonder why they did. Have an upvote on both comments just to counter some moron downvote. More than 2 months of complete lockdown would be crazy, the economic damage would kill more than the virus (in my opinion). I think the way-to-go is to reopen most activites except things such clubs, forbid big gatherings, enforcing mask usage outside and focus on testing.
/r/seduction28/03/20 10:23 PM
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I don't know the situation in Romania but here in Italy it pretty much started a month ago so it will also finish sooner. Also, yes, the whole covid thing will probably last more than 1-2 months, but i don't think total lockdown will.
/r/seduction28/03/20 09:59 PM
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Just for a week or so Italian here... you are very optimist if you think it will last for a week or so. Depending on your nation, 1-2 months of social distancing could be waiting for you.
/r/seduction28/03/20 08:42 PM
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It was just an example, but the underlying principle is the same: socialize for the sake of knowing people and have fun, not for the sake of knowing girls and having sex. It doesn't matter if you are at a party, at a lecture or at the bus stop.
/r/seduction13/10/19 01:03 PM
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First, you should aim to socialize and not just with single girls. It's hard to directly meet people that are outside your circle, it's much easier to make deeper connections with the people that are already around you so that you can get in their circles. Second, don't aim directly for sex. Imagine seduction as a stairway: aiming directly for sex it's like trying to make a lot of steps in one big leap. If you are experienced and competent, you can run trough the steps with big leaps, but if you…
/r/seduction13/10/19 10:16 AM
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I think it depends, if you are charimastic and natural protagonist, it works. But if you are a more introvert person, you'll just come off as someone that needs to talk loud or else he won't be listened. I know you have to aim to become a charismatic person, but i think you should also avoid putting on an obvious mask, "fake it will you make it" only works if you don't look blatantly fake. Context also depends, are you having a conversation with your friends and you are trying to get the girls n…
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:25 PM
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"I don't know yet, what do you have in mind?"
/r/seduction26/09/19 10:10 AM
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I've just downloaded Tinder so didn't have an occasion to, but i honestly wouldn't DM them out of the blue. If they posted their IG it's likely they put lot of stories, so just try to pick them up like you would normally do on IG: wait for a story you can use to spark a conversation and then work along it.
/r/seduction23/09/19 01:37 PM
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I think there are three major types on content in this sub: Self-improvement: content that isn't clearly targeted at seduction, but rather at making people understand that if they want to attract girls, they need to work on themselves and become a better person at life. Rookie mistakes: general concepts that are given for granted by lot of people or can be learned from basic experience. Reading them up is better than nothing and can possibly save a date. "Game" techniques: this is the kind of co…
/r/seduction23/09/19 01:31 PM
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As a 23 years old man with no romantic experience and quite confused ideas on life in general, my idea is that you shouldn't search more in a girl than you are able to give. If you want a woman that knows what she is doing, has clear ideas and knows herself well, you must check all those boxes too, because you won't be able to make a relationship work otherwise. So her age and OP age matter a lot. If they are in the early 20s, i'd say this isn't a dealbreaker, most people at that age lack experi…
/r/seduction23/09/19 01:09 PM
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I think the most important part of all of this is how you asked the drink. It made you stand out and she approached you because of that. You have to try to be like this all the times, joke and talk with barmen and everyone you interact with. Not only you get more comfortable talking with strangers and making clever lines on the spot, but you also attract non-negative attention on yourself and allow for stuff like this to happen.
/r/seduction23/09/19 10:01 AM
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I'd say it depends a lot on how their relationship is. I have a friend that is very faithful and would have never cheated her boyfriend during the first 3 years, but during the 4th year their relationship started to slowly die, he was still 100% in love, but on her side the flame was fading. She still cared for him - he was her first love and all - so she didn't want to break up cause she feared to hurt him and she is a bit anxious and insecure. Even breaking up can require experience. After a f…
/r/seduction23/09/19 09:42 AM
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Aim to set up a date within 10 texts if it's a short intervals conversation, less if it's a one message every few hours thing. Try to use her pic or bio instead of generic canned lines. If they say no, just answer "ok" or cut it short, basically, don't make it a big deal. Text her again after 2-3 days (even with a single "hey X, whats up?"), start with some limited small talk, then try to have a fun and playful conversation, the objective is to get her on a good vibe, then you can try to ask her…
/r/seduction19/09/19 04:00 PM
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It looks you are a natural seductor, being so direct works only if there is already attraction.
/r/seduction10/09/19 07:59 PM
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Yeah I'm just trying to say in a confident and cool way because it's obvious to be a bit nervous about it. A couple of answers I thought now: I'm not ashamed to say I was terrible with girls. But since we are here, i suppose things are changing. What's that face? It just means I'm a wildcard, I could be an undiscovered talent of love making or a total failure, it's up to you to discover it! Look at the bright side: even if you are terrible in bed, you will still blow my mind. Tell me, aren't you…
/r/seduction10/09/19 02:56 PM
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The issue is that I guess lot of girls would assume I'm just trying to hide my lack of experience and I don't want to look ashamed of it.
/r/seduction10/09/19 02:40 PM
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No, but I like your curves. I don't like when girls have corners and edges that sting me in bed.
/r/seduction10/09/19 01:18 PM
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Make yourself busy. You won't think about her if you NEED to think about something else. Being a busy and active person will also make you grow and improve your value. Stay away from your phone. Literally put it in another room, use a setting that silences messages but not calls so that you can still be contacted for emergencies and go check messages only every few hours, let's say when you go to pee. If you need to have your phone nearby cause you need to check on Facebook, Instagram, Reddit, g…
/r/seduction10/09/19 10:39 AM
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If it's under 10 cm it's an issue, you can still have great sex by building up sexual tension before and making sure she climaxes with finger and mouth before. You'll only have problems with girls that can only come from penetration, but they are rare, you can always solve this with toys. 10 to 15 is great if she has a high drive since she can take it for longer and for more times before it becomes uncomfortable, also good for rough sex as you can go harder on her. Either go for high endurance b…
/r/seduction10/09/19 10:24 AM
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The point isn't looking more attractive, the point is looking fun and giving her good vibes.
/r/seduction07/09/19 05:12 PM
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I live 5 minutes from the country so i guess i could take her in a isolated place where we can stay in the car, but it gets uncomfortable we can just hop off, throw a blanket and keep going in the fields. Also, i'm short so i guess i have an advantage for cars.
/r/seduction07/09/19 04:42 PM
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It works for things that don't generally receive compliments, let's say her voice or her legs. It can also work for things she has to actively work for such as very long hair, a stylish outfit or peculiar make-up, simply because she will feel proud of her WORK, not of herself.
/r/seduction07/09/19 01:22 PM
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Few questions about things that could be different since i'm younger than you (23) and italian: It's not common here and at my age to go into a venue alone, unless it's for having lunch or less commonly, dinner. What's the 2nd best way to ask girls out? Can you give me some examples of physical dates? Everyone i know pretty much goes to have a drink in a date. Is a walk a physical date? My first date is generally pub + walk in a park. Dinner at my place isn't possible, i live with my parents, it…
/r/seduction06/09/19 03:28 PM
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You are getting downvoted but toning down masturbation - expecially if it happens while watching porn - can improve things for certain people. Porn makes your subconcious used to think you fuck girls, girls you just met. When you see a new girl, you might think "she is the one" but the animal part of your brain simply things "fuck her", if you were a confident, natural seductor, this would actually help you, but since you aren't, you just get needy. So yeah, i don't know if you masturbate a lot,…
/r/seduction03/09/19 07:49 AM
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If she says "maybe" or "we'll see", tell her something such as "make up your mind girl, i've got plans to make!" or "i expect a busy week, book your reservation now" if you want to be more playful. This shows you potentially have better things to do than going out with her. If she says no and doesn't follow up, answer "ok" and don't write her for a few days, then change topic and try to arrange a date another time. Sometimes she'll follow up with "no, but i'm free on this day", you then answer "…
/r/seduction02/09/19 05:42 PM
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Well, what you said is showing 0% interest, which as i said doesn't work. You obviously need to take action, expecially since many girls expect the boy to make the moves. Asking the number, asking her out and so on are all necessary steps obviously. What matters is the vibe your give her: Be confident. It means you expect whatever you are doing to work, which implies it generally works, which implies that just like you asked her number, you can ask another girl, it means you have abundance. Be r…
/r/seduction02/09/19 05:01 PM
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She will be making problems and excuses You can do it too. Even if you aren't, act like you are very busy and you are doing her a favour by finding the time to see her. to keep me as one of a dozen of her backup options. Act like you also have backup options. This is trickier, you need to find a balance between making her feel special and acting like she is just one of the many options you have, you need to find things to say and do that let her with the doubt. Doubt is what matters. If she is 1…
/r/seduction02/09/19 03:37 PM
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I don't agree, at least not all the times. I constantly listen to music when walking or traveling alone, but i would be up to talking with random strangers. I'm male sure, but that goes for women too, sometimes people wear headphones just to listen to music.
/r/seduction02/09/19 09:27 AM
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I honestly don't agree with the "if i have headphones on, i don't want to talk with people". Some people might do it for such reason, but generally people lister to music as a pastime, would you say someone reading a book or browsing on his phone doesn't want to talk to people? Some girls aren't cool with cold approaches. That's it, don't overthink it. Everyone is different, i have a close friend that told me she is never attracted by anyone she doesn't know, she basically needs to become friend…
/r/seduction02/09/19 09:21 AM
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There is a reason if jokes such as "Good grades, social life, sleep: pick 2" exist. There are times where you have a lighter load and have time for social life, you can sacrifice sleep from time to time, you should not sacrifice good grades however. You can try to group together study and social life though by studying with other people though, go where people gather to study or find some people and ask them if they want to study (or even just repeat) together. You can then talk to them at lunch…
/r/seduction30/08/19 10:42 AM
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I can GUARANTEE that somewhere, there’s a woman who has noticed you. You should have good body language even at home alone when literally nobody can possibly watch you. If you only "turn on" body language when in a social setting, you have to conciously turn it on, get out of focus a bit and you'll revert back to normal body language. If you do it constantly, it will become unconcious.
/r/seduction30/08/19 10:37 AM
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DON'T ORGANISE A DATE WHERE THERE'S A TABLE BETWEEN YOU I don't get much this part, according to movies and TV America is full of places where this is possible, but here in Italy they are very rare. Even if a place has a bar, people rarely sit there unless they want to chat with the bartender of have a quick drink and leave. It's much more usual to sit at a table, so sitting at the adjacent side is the most i can do. There is a place where they have a sort of sofa at the bar but there is just on…
/r/seduction29/08/19 05:07 PM
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Also, if you take a selfie with other people, it somewhat suggest you are the fun guy that takes pics and acts among your friends, which is desirable.
/r/seduction24/08/19 03:47 PM
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People like to flirt, even if they don't want to take it further. It's validating to know "i have a SO, but this person likes me". Some things might also be unintentional, not all girls are concious about their body language and stuff, or maybe they realize it too late.
/r/seduction20/08/19 02:11 PM
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Porn can have a negative effect for various reasons, but it doesn't have to. There are countless very successful seductors that watch porn, this said, if you don't have success and watch porn, you might want to try to stop, simply because it could work. Men are wired to reproduce. There is lot of talk about women being wired to search for a confident and dominant male, do you think man is any different? If you masturbate and watch porn, your brain is tricked into thinking you have sex. Likely da…
/r/seduction10/08/19 10:14 AM
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I would like to add more about "stop feeding junk to you brain", it's only a biochemical thing, it's also more abstract. If you are on reddit, you are probably subscribed to subs like funny, gifs, memes, whatever. All of them are just brain junk. You don't only need physical relax, but also mental relax. If you study or have a job that engages your brain, then you get home and spend your free time on reddit and videogames, you are constantly exerting your brain, giving it no time to truly rest, …
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:05 AM
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I like to think every woman has a sort of "speed limit". If you go too slow, they'll be bored. If you go right at it, they'll be interested, but you want to go just a bit faster, so they are thrilled. Don't go too fast though, or they'll want to get down the ride.
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:40 PM
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Dog. Girls will only see your cat if they enter in your house, but having a dog will force you to go out, walk in parks and can often give you means to get to chat with girls, sometimes a dog can cold open for you. Dogs are also a bigger responsibility, day-to-day, all a cat needs is food and a clean litter. Dogs will get crazy if they are lonely for too much, you need to take them out and train them a bit.
/r/seduction15/03/19 08:41 PM
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If she says sorry and then stops, it means she was accidentally doing it. If she says sorry and then continues, it means she is now intentionally doing it.
/r/seduction17/01/19 08:49 AM
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Constantly checking your phone - or on PC - for media and threads with stuff such Facebook, Instagram, expecially Reddit. It lowers your attention span and makes you thrive informations, inputs and stimulations, making you more anxious, reducing your ability to truly relax and using part of your mental faculties, all the times. I can tell you more on this if you are interested. Gaming. Gaming is very stimulating, requires high vigilance and fast reflexes, constant learning and adaptation to some…
/r/seduction09/01/19 08:09 PM
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The issue is when you don't know what to do at all. Like you literally don't know what to say, what to do or how to behave... so you end up overthinking because of this.
/r/seduction09/01/19 07:57 PM
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I'd say confidence it's the arousing thing, it's just that arrogant people are generally confident too.
/r/seduction05/01/19 10:26 AM
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Probably it hurts cause you instincively think "what i did wrong". You have to realize that first, some girls will reject you no matter what you do, second, you can learn from rejection. The first two girls had a boyfriend, people here tell you to not care about boyfriends cause they still may be seduced, that's true, but it's like saying that a second league team can win against a first league one: it's possible, it's worth trying, but it's damn hard, cause some girls are just loyal. It's still…
/r/seduction16/12/18 02:11 PM
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Personally i'd say a quick hi, smile and walk by without stopping. This basically shows you don't care about what she did, you aren't showing hate by ignoring her, you aren't fearing her by avoiding her, but you aren't searching for her attention either cause after all, she ignored you, all of this while still being polite.
/r/seduction30/11/18 04:15 PM
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You aren't forced to send texts. You can limit texts to the strict necessary, aka organization. Obviously, you shouldn't ignore her, if she starts texting you first, you should answer. But if you are still unconfortable with answering, you can limit texting by taking longer to answer. Even if you can answer, don't do it and pretend you are busy, answer her after a while. If you send a text every few hours, you'll give the impression of being a busy man with an interesting life and you'll be less…
/r/seduction27/11/17 02:56 PM
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If you really want to compliment something physical, aim for something that she actually has influence on. Perfect examples are hair: any girl with beatiful long hair goes trough hours of care, a girl with nice legs will probably go trough diets and hours of workout to obtain them. So if you compliment them in the right way and complex they will feel pleased.
/r/seduction18/07/17 06:52 AM
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Car isn't much comfortable but is easy and always available. Just find a spot with no one around, the car will move up and down so it is very noticeable just by seeing it.
/r/seduction16/07/17 04:55 PM
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