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Handsomebob103/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 01:23 AM
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Handsomebob103/r/askTRP17/03/17 04:45 AM
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Handsomebob103/r/askMRP06/07/19 04:02 PM
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Handsomebob103/r/askTRP01/05/17 03:55 AM
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Friend time.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 03:17 AM
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Right on I thought I was on ask mrp my bad
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 03:15 AM
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When it comes to the gym it’s no big deal for instance just now I finished up with dinner got my stuff and said I’m heading out love You and she said have a great workout. it’s always about going out with friends. I’m attractive I get hit on a lot and I love to conversate so I know it’s insecurity from her. I’m just trying to find out if I need to do something other than just going as I’m trying to have a fair relationship and take into account someone’s feelings.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 03:15 AM
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Would say this or rotate to “wow your everything I never thought I wanted in a woman “
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:24 PM
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This happens to the best of us. Ask any friend and they will tell you it’s happened. If it hasn’t they are lying to you. It’s common. And when I’ve done blow I can’t get hard for the life of me. Don’t trip. I’ve been with hot girls that I couldn’t get hard from cause the connection just wasn’t there either. So don’t sit on it and think on it. Your body works fine it was just overloaded with chemicals. Your fine. Stay up player.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:05 PM
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Eject. Don’t waste a one of your precious seconds on this planet on someone who doesn’t respect you.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:59 PM
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A lion kills because it’s insticts tell it to. A woman beats you down into your beta self because her instincts tell her to. It’s for survival of the species. It’s not her fault it’s not that she’s aware of herself. She has hormones coursing thru her body just like you do and the same reason you want to fuck that girl that you don’t know for reasons you can’t explain. It’s Nature. It’s natural selection. Understand that and you can take away the anger and understand the game. Then use mans great…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:56 PM
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Don’t fall for her tricks. Every “innocent girl” is actually the oppiste. Those are the worst kind because they manipulate you into thinking they are something their not. A true innocent girl (if that even exists) but one who has morals and may be red pilled would of been wifed by her age. When they are 27+, single, purchase things for you and appear to be the perfect woman. Run. Run for the fukn hills.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:52 PM
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How? That is the question of this thread. - your thinking too much into it. Take for instance your topic you mentioned. She wants to fix Kenya Yeah Kenya is bad war blah blah. Me- oh so you wana travel there or what? Her - yes I want to save the country by doing xyz Me- don’t lie to me I’ve seen the National Geographic channel. The Men barely are clothed. I’m on to you with a cheesy smile. Her -omg your disgusting. What your doing - Creating conversation joking with her engaging her emotions and…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 08:46 AM
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You identified one of your main problems in your first paragraph. Your waiting for cues. Your waiting on her to have her tell you she is interested. You are the man. You are the hunter. You are the leader. You make it known that you are interested. You do this thru body language. Deep eye contact when talking to her. You lead the conversation. And you always slowly lead the conversation from friendly to sexual. It sounds like your being the ear to listen to women blab. Find a woman. Talk to her.…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 08:03 AM
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Wouldn’t even call her a feminist. She sounds like a normal girl in 2018. They all spew that shit. You did perfect by just ignoring it completely.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 02:34 PM
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She’s about to board the cc at her age. She will ride many Alphas and have lots of betas. Friend zone her and use her for access to cc riders or smash her yourself and then friend zone her for maximum access to cc riders.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 02:20 PM
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Seems like like a huge battle plan when it would be much easier to get a number and game them solo in a place where u can actually make conversation. Not only that but pregame and then going to The club will end with most of those girls being trashed drunk or exhausted. From what I've witnessed in Vegas if you have a bottle at a club and a hotel room there with alcohol and drugs in your room after. Your good to go. Other than that it's a waste of time/ money to run club game. That's My experienc…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 03:31 PM
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You did well with everything except you made it blatantly obvious that You wanted to fuck. Some girls are dtf some aren't. you need to have a reason to come back to your place so there is some plausible deniability. Sex needs to "just happen" that way she can hamster herself into thinking she isn't "like other girls". She hasn't hit you back up most likely cause she thinks your a hit and quiter looking for a ons off tinder. Give it a little bit then plan something else fun. Don't make it about s…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 03:18 PM
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You like the drama. That's ok tho. Some of us do. This is pretty common you handled it well. Younare lucky to that the dude wasn't confrontational. This chick could of drug you into an altercation that you don't need to be involved with. He also prolly wasn't lying that they fuked the other day so I wouldn't be surprised if she fuks him again. Sounds like a chick who will swing back and forth to Her beta bf. I would use her for sex and that's all.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 08:56 PM
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She told u she couldn’t meet up all week then u hit her up on Tuesday to hang. If you would of left her alone she’d be hanging with you instead of at her gfs house.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 05:10 PM
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Your trying too hard to be aloof. Give her a soft next. Spend the weekend with friends or out getting new leads. If she wants to come see you she will. Plus that movies and food on a Friday night sounds fukin boring. Be more fun.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 05:08 PM
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I only tell a girl she looks good after we are fucking regularly and she actually wants to know if I, still attracted to her.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 05:01 PM
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“Yeah I feel like I wanna run you over with my truck” smile then smack ass and kiss or smack ass and run away like your playing chase with her. If you were 9 on the playground and little Susie asked you this what would you do? You’d throw sand in her face and laugh at her. Awake your inner child.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 04:59 PM
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I would count it as an L and move on. If she’s getting a uti every time u have sex your guys body chemestry is off. And I’ll tell u this. Unless she’s 70 she doesn’t need lube If she’s got raw sexual desire for you. Since she apparently doesn’t and is hesitant. Just move along and find someone who gets wet at the thought of sex with you. You will be much more satisfied. And mentally free from worrying about this bs.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 04:53 PM
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It takes time. To be honest my ex (bitch but long ltr) and one other cool ass chick pop in my head every now and again. It’s normal. You had good times and that left a mark. Life is about experiences. Be thankful for the time u had together. Enjoy the memories. Then focus on the now and the future. Make new memories with someone new and exciting and you won’t be thinking about her much Anymore.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 04:47 PM
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My goal is always quality. I focous on that more than numbers. I haven't fucked 100 Girls. But I've fucked all hot ones. That word gets around and then you get social proof from that. And that cultivates new leads with other top Tier women. I make sure people know that I'm fuking them. Without having to say it outright. Plus if you Fuk them good they tell their friends. They always do. And then you become the big game hunter with the skills to lay good pipe.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 05:31 PM
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Just go out and have fun. Catch up. If the vibes are good you should be able to banter a bit. Tease her. And if she smiles and hits your or stuff like that your going in the right direction. You'll see right away if she's digging you. Or if she's using you as an emotional tampon if she just dumps shit about her ex on you all day.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 08:56 PM
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Her interest isn't high enough. And she's a time / validation whore. Usually they just want someone to validate them by agreeing to hang out but they never actually plan on it. I have a few of these on my ig/Snapchat that will respond to my snap or ig story with heart eyes. Or saying "we should go there sometime". They just want me to agree it to but they don't plan on going because they have already flaked once before. Just ignore her and move on. Don't waste your time on women that aren't a "F…
/r/askTRP21/12/17 08:49 PM
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This is the best advice.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 08:33 PM
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" Ah I can't this weekend I'm Busy but we should grab drinks soon!" Then never do it. Just never be available but not because your mad and butt hurt. Every so often if a shelved plate hits me up to hang I'll say yeah I'm gona be here (insert place) this weekend. Come say hi if u want! That makes them Come to you. Then when they come I treat them like a friend.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 03:34 PM
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He's whipped plus close to death if I'm reading this correctly. Also It seems like your true intention is getting her out of the picture so that you get all the goodies when he passes. You feel it's "owed" to you since he left you when your young. News flash no one owes you shit. Enjoy your father for the remaining time you have him in your life. You all sound fuked.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 03:29 PM
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I wold use those theme pics. But instead of like holding the kayak in a obvious pose you should be smiling and looking at the camera or have your friend take a pic of you in it "doing" it. Other than that it's good. You just want some pics where your eyes and smile showcase a bit. I also have had good luck by putting in my about me that I'm emotionally broken and a poor choice to bring home to the parents and only Love my dogs. ALSO if you are serious about using tinder to get girls pay the 8 bu…
/r/askTRP21/12/17 03:22 PM
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Treat her like your little sister and don't complement her.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 12:16 AM
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Soft next. Don't become an orbiter. She obviously wanted a more serious relationship and you didn't seem to want one or else you would of hung out more than an occasional Fuk every couple weeks. These things happen. Wish her well and create some distance. Don't be angry. Once they break up She'll be back. Put the plate up in the shelf for a bit. You can use it later.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 11:05 PM
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Compliance test. Tell her that there's something cool or some shit that makes your bar better. If she doesn't comply next her. If her car was wrecked and she couldn't drive and needed to walk somehwere I would consider. But she gave No reason for the change except for just seeing if you will comply and how desperate you are.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 09:43 PM
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THe fact that you have hit on more than one girl and been rejected is proof in itself that there are an abundance of women in this world. This should reinforce the "abundance mentality". Leave your ego at the door. Just because someone said no doesn't mean your ugly or whatever. Your just not her type. Keep talking to girls until you find one that is your type and your her type.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 09:40 PM
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Get them addicted to your dick. Then withdraw attention. Like a roller coaster ride. As metntioned before you will Have a hard time getting girls to chase you right off the bat. Your SMV decides if they will chase you. In my home town it's well known that I've fuked all the hottest girls. And I made above average on the income scale, nice new truck and lots of fun toys. Girls from There chase me. I recently moved to a new city where my income is in the middle and I have very few friends. I've go…
/r/askTRP20/12/17 03:51 PM
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Weather I break up or the girl breaks up with me I never get upset and always tell them we can be friends. Do I take them out and blow money. No. But if they invite me out I'll go do whabtever with them. There is a lot to gain from friendships of past women you have been with. If you break up with them they will always want you. And you can use that DHV to get her friends. Also if she leaves you and you don't talk shit about her and just say whatever it's cool. You can usually bang her friends b…
/r/askTRP20/12/17 03:36 PM
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I've been in situations like this before. The most important thing is get better wing men. As for the situation described: When your boys are being pussies and not winging you, you have to engage all three girls at once. This is my go to and it works. At this point your not gona Fuk. Because if you are able to isolate the hottest one her friends will be jealous they aren't getting the same attention and will want to leave. So it's best to game all three and give the most attractive one the least…
/r/askTRP20/12/17 03:26 PM
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My game might not be tight enough but in my experience I've gotten much more LMR from girls that are outside of my immediate and extended social circle and don't know me. It's usually a makeout the first time we hang and sex on the 2nd or 3rd. Also for whatvever reason girls always slot me in the boyfriend material category. I can only keep them as plates for a couple months max before they get pissed I don't commit and go get a bf almost instantly. I never get mad and sometimes they boomerang b…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 04:21 AM
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This is true, however currently I can't locate a girl under 25 who isn't in a LTR already or riding the carousel. I've found a couple fresh out of LTR's that are 22-23 but they either go back to the ex or cash in their ticket to the carousel and begin the ride. Im 28 and it is def a peculiar age bracket I find myself in. But ALL the girls I've dated 25 and up are single for a reason which is usually their a single mom or psycho. Lately I've been considering poaching a woman from a relationship. …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 03:21 AM
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Instagram can actually be a powerful tool to aqquire new women especially out of your area. I live about an hour away from the beach for instance and have met up With girls from there by first talking to them on ig. sure it's a validation pump for them. But it is what it is. Things are the way they are and it isn't gona change so use it to your advantage. Here are my ig rules that have netted me some women Have more followers than you follow You need at least 500 followers Get at least 80 likes …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 02:51 PM
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Your right here. Still trying to get a handle on the mystery part. I'm used to being open and in contact with a woman since that's how my ltr was. I need to un learn that
/r/askTRP17/03/17 07:27 PM
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This is one thing I don't have an issue with. Not e bragging here but I have a nice dick and have Been told my numerous girls after my ltr that I am big and by a couple that I'm the biggest they have ever had. I always thought I was just decent size. Size doesn't mean everything tho it is more important to what it's attached too.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 07:25 PM
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Your right in the first part. I am always available and always staying in contact. I am a decent texter so we can banter and I think that constantly doing all that plus hanging out a lot makes the mystery go away and then they just get bored and move along. Separate from that It's also a fear of mine after the failed ltr and then girls coming and going for me to get a reputation of girls leaving me. Then others will wonder what's wrong and why they leave. Maybe that's just me but I feel like tha…
/r/askTRP17/03/17 07:23 PM
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This is so fuking true. My rooommate is a bartender at a resturnant. Dates a girl who works there and has the rest of the 19-25 year old girls snapping him nudes begging him to cheat with them on his girl due to Social proof. I work a govt job. Make good money have all the fun toys. Can't meet girls like this anywhere. They are outside my circle so no social proof. Another guy I know works at a gym. Dates one of the hot girls that works there and fuks the others because why. Social proof. I actu…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 04:55 PM
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Oh come on now she's just out "Finding herself" and "seeing what she likes". Once she hits the wall and locks down a BP guy she will lay in bed with distain for him while daydreaming about the night chad railed her and she snapped her ankle leaving his apartment. My favorite line from girls like this as they are sucking me off after the first time meeting them is "Im never like this" "im not a whore" oh ya no your not keep sucking. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 10:12 AM
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struggling with this as well like exactly what your saying. The advice I've gotten here has helped me land very attractive early 20s women and then we start having sex and betabob rears its head. "this Is the best you can get lock it down" and then they run for the hills. Literally you have to disconnect sex from your ego. For me when I get a girl hotter than my ex of a 9 year relationship I want people to see that im doing better now. Ive "upgraded" and that's the wrong mindset cause that's my …
/r/askTRP09/03/17 09:33 AM
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Was in a 9 year relationship as well that ended last may. I know your feel although we didn't have kids. I got my exs prime years 16-26. and now I have fucked 7 chicks since we broke up. The most recent is 22 and way hotter than my ex. So its possible so stop thinking negatively. (trying not to get ONEits for that one btw cause she is pulling the slow fade after fuking me like a porn star for a week) On your comment for the "need" for sex. If you go out wreaking of desperation you won't get laid…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 09:16 AM
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As far as someone I can actually LTR or consider marriage that is close to me in age. At least that's how it is where I live. The single girls my age or just a little younger are single moms, party girls or bat shit crazy and no one wants to date them. Which now that I know what I know I wont get married. But I wont LTR a 19 year old. Why invest time in someone that's gona leave once she turn 21 to ride the CC. Shes just a FB.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 03:42 AM
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I know where your coming from. I was in a 9.5 year relationship with my high school sweetheart. We were engaged to be married this past October. She went to a bachelorette party a few months before and came home with the ring off. She is easily a irl 8.5. After that I find out that she was fuking around with the guitarist from a very popular music group. So anyways I went thru a very very dark stage in life and found the redpill. Me being 28 I started to panic seeing everyone in a serious LTR or…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 12:51 AM
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