Handsomerocker88 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	“Mental Load” Oh man, I feel you there as well. Being told your point of view, or thoughts on a matter is being “defensive” is a red flag for manipulation, in my opinion. My wife was super quick to judge me and label me whenever I would express myself (wants, needs, boundaries) and call me being insecure, defensive and emotionally immature. I used to say to my wife, “I’m allowed to have feelings, you know? Are you telling me I’m not allowed to have an opinion and emotions and express them safely with you? Esp…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/26 11:23 PM
7	“Mental Load” Dude, the sending of Jimmy on relationships part I can relate with 100% My wife would send me those videos constantly and without context too and tell me “THIS is what you should be doing”, yet the video would be completely one-sided, geared for her and how she wants me to act. It was super annoying. Now she doesn’t send me anything because she’s “given up.” And was “tired of doing all of the work and CARRYING THE MENTAL LOAD”, regardless if I was the one who initiated and paid for couples thera…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/26 10:03 PM