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SEEKING ADVICEHanna-love/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:02 AM
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youtube automatically deletes searches for terms like sexy, booty, etc. Try it out and marvel at bro youtube. Doesn't delete watched videos tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:22 AM
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Yep, treat them like former coworkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:48 AM
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Hunter gatherers would also smash babies of rivals against trees. History ain't pretty but that's humanity for you. The whole "biology" argument is stupid in my opinion. It implies that we, as a species or respective gender, are incapable of rising above our baser instincts, which in my opinion is really an excuse for poor behavior (and those who CANNOT rise above, well, they should be avoided). We don't smash babies against trees and I can choose to not have children at all. Most men just use t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:00 PM
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Harem isn't the right word, although they're on the right track. In typical hunter-gatherer societies, women would have a "husband", or main provider, and have other children with the best hunter/provider in the village, so he would support his child and the rest of her children. That simply increased the odds of her offsprings survival. So while not really having a harem, the best provider would get multiple mates, although... He did have to provide for them and that's where our society falls s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:07 AM
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Change the lock on your phone, let him see that you changed it, then sit back and watch him flip out. ​ *Edit. Oh yeah, then dump him afterwards because that is shady as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:05 AM
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Ugh, burn it to symbolize burning a bridge then. Don't do favors for people that they wouldn't do for you. This'll probably just give him an ego boost thinking you're trying to find a way to talk to him eyeroll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:32 AM
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Umm.. it's not romantic interest. It's hopeful sex interest. He may not be actively planning for it, but passively hoping it'll happen. Hippies/easy dudes like this just... keep all their options open all the time. Most of them won't be offended if you rebuff them, but they'll kinda be like, "Well, I'm here if you do want to!" Regarding your future working together, always remember, men don't really think about things. How is it possible he's still interested, you ask? Because sex. I'm fairly ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:29 AM
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Okay, I've spent a LOT of time around hippies and backpacking and this is what I can tell you. You'll be in a vulnerable position and will need his support. 2 weeks is WAY too long for a beginner with only 3 other people. 2 weeks would be fine if it were a large, experienced group... but you'll be completely reliant on them, and how good are their skills? When you're out backpacking, even in a group, you get very close to the other people. He's most likely hoping that you'll catch feelings (whic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:39 AM
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If it had sentimental value, wouldn't he have.... asked for it back? I think you can donate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:29 AM
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From what I understand, looking at pictures of women makes them feel like a man and validates their maleness in a sense. Yes, it's an incredibly hollow form of fulfillment. I think there's also a degree of satisfaction from seeing an attractive woman display herself "for you," even though it's you know, not real in the slightest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:08 AM
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Lol, this is it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:40 PM
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OUT OUT OUT. This is BAD news. What you've seen is probably the tip of the iceberg. Guys like this don't see anything wrong with what they're doing and will never respect your feelings. He has already lied to you to assuage you temporarily and blamed you for being upset at something he said he wouldn't do (??? men logic). OUT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:31 PM
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He wanted to talk about sex, because he wanted to have sex. Guys NEVER talk about sex unless they are interested. EVER. If that's the kind of shit you want to deal with, go ahead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 12:54 AM
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LOOOLLL he meant that he wants someone to be at his beck and call, and uses "balance" to describe that. He means he wants the scales of "BaLaNcE" tipped in his direction. Take a martial arts class, or go on a backpacking group. Men I've met in those two arenas usually have a degree of consideration and discipline. I've met plenty of old farts trolling college campuses to find a young girl. They AIN'T SHIT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 12:51 AM
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Just remember, most of them don't really think. So you can go along with the assumption that that kind of self awareness isn't even happening to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 04:46 AM
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It can stay there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:52 PM
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Lol, if you read the instructions and do it fast, it's not that bad! And if you do it consistently the shock lessens quite a lot. For me, it's worth it to not have to shave anymore 😂. Edit: I only do the bikini area, would not do the more tender parts fuck no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 10:25 PM
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Funny how those guys will say they don't celebrate, won't give presents or even kind thoughts, but handily accept gifts/food. 🤪 What's up with that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:42 PM
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His next post: "Every girl I bring over leaves immediately!" Why are women so entitled?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:53 AM
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Lol, I peeped the MGTOW thread. One guys comment was, "I never clean my house but it's the most zen place in the world." BARF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:23 PM
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"I told him - I don’t take sloppy seconds and good luck finding a decent woman who wants to be with a man like him." LOOOLLL FUCK YEAH GIRL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 10:53 PM
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If I decided to write back to this, I would say something like, "lol, pass" or "lol, no thanks," maybe even a "fake news." And if he sent another one like, "buUut wWhhYyy" or "I don't unnndeerrsttaaand," I would then block/delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 09:25 AM
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So don't listen to dumbass redpillers that base mating success on height or other people that care so much about it. This is the kind of thing will become a problem for you if you make it a problem. There's no uncontrollable physical aspect that makes someone a 'good' or 'bad' person, though it would be mighty convenient if there was!
/r/askFDS12/03/20 07:53 AM
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After shaving every day since my first pube appeared, I am sick of it and quit bothering about 7 years ago. I do only what is comfortable for me. No one I've dated since has ever taken issue. I tell them that that's the way it is. I shave my legs for special occasions (weddings, interviews, when I feel like it), armpits too. For down there, I have dark coloring and fur must keep european peasant woman warm during long winter lol, so I wax the sides (bikini) myself with hot wax about every 1-2 mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:10 AM
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He "considers" himself a "young 40," yo wtf does that mean? Like he's 60 but considers himself to be 43? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:08 AM
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KINKSHAMING IS MY KINK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:42 PM
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Oh, rugby! I played a bit in college and loved it! The rules are very simple, you can easily get a solid sense in like 10 mins of reading. Things to know about rugby teams, there's usually lots of beer after practices/games (so it's really nice he's taking you to dinner after). I was on an all-female team, so there were lots of lesbians, and only knew one male player. Rugby festivals are NASTY (like fucking in porto-potties, drunk idiots), so maybe see if he goes to any of those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:23 AM
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Their equals? A woman who doesn't empathize with them, who gives up control of their life so someone else can take the reins and then bitches about being told what to do or asked too many questions, who finds it too difficult to do their own laundry, who doesn't put any effort into her appearance or making their partner happy, who complains she's not treated well enough while putting in zero effort, who never does anything for anyone else unless it benefits her in some way. Yeah, an equal relati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 01:55 AM
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Lol, friendzoning is so rough like, I can't believe you like my personality and enjoy spending time with me :( Why can't you just see me as a walking slab of meat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:26 AM
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Nietzsche, he wrote all that gob about nihilism to show how you SHOULDN'T perceive the world X'D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:42 AM
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The thing is, this guy can't even imagine not having sex for a while because she wants a SAFE RELATIONSHIP LOL WHAT ARE WOMEN EVEN THINKING???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:21 AM
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I think besides them just being naturally boring, listing things that everyone likes casts a wider net. It's drag net fishing, not single line fishing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 08:27 PM
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Ask for personal references. If they get uncomfortable, weird, or mad, there's your answer. If they have no problem with you asking, understand why, and are able to provide 2-3 references, excellent sign. If you decide to call these references, asking a simple yes-or-no "Would you live with them again?" will suffice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:32 AM
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The 'evil glare' is something I've experienced walking around a city. I used to live in the Pacific NW and would get it from other women all the time, it's weird and happened about 60% of the time, exclusively from younger women. I moved to the SW and people STARE here, but more often than not don't care at all and mind their business . It's not a judgmental stare like in the NW, they're just looking at you. ​ It's a real thing, I think it's fairly regional. The NW in general is more passive agg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:14 AM
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Christ though, my dad wooed my mom like crazy and almost went broke, only to turn into a shit immediately after getting married. I'm talking, like the very next day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 02:25 AM
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An ex boyfriend proposed to me with a washer he found on the ground and I just laughed. It was genuinely funny, he said, "I may not have a ring, I could give you an onion ring." I didn't marry him because he was the stupidest person I've ever met and I don't have time for that, but he meant well and I hope he's in love with an equally stupid gal X,D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 02:22 AM
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Unfortunately in my last state (not sure about here, need to research it), lease breaks without paying out the ass have few and specific requirements. I think the best I could hope for is talking with the landlord, and getting it in writing that I'm *technically* off the lease and not responsible for further things. Thank you, " Develop a plan of escape, and keep it private until you can’t " is the best advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:16 AM
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I don't want to go that far. I don't know about here, but clean lease breaks are usually legal and possible when a partner is being physically abused with proof. I am not being physically abused (it was formerly emotional/verbal abuse, but it's mostly resolved now and I have no proof of that anyways). I would absolutely encourage any woman who is being abused to gather as much evidence as possible. It can really help in situations like this. Thank you! I do think I'd likely end up losing more mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:13 AM
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Thank you :) Good on you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:10 AM
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Thank you, that's a solid perspective and sounds peaceful and diplomatic. I was thinking I'd say the reason for leaving is to take care of my dying grandma, which isn't untrue at all. She's got a leaky heart valve which has a high mortality rate for seniors, and my mom can't help much due her own physical ailments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:09 AM
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Well, I mean, when your idea of cooking is hot pockets for breakfast, PB&J for lunch, and hot dog mac for dinner, it really doesn't take that long! Females be crazy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:22 AM
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This is such a low standard but insanely hard to find, not treating me like I'm crazy and doing damage control if I'm sad, mad, or have a concern. LVM will lose their shit the moment you're even slightly upset about something they did, because they feel responsible and it scares them because they don't want to put in any effort. HVM will recognize that you being mad at them doesn't actually gouge their ego, and it's an opportunity to talk, get to know each other better, and fix a problem. They k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:12 AM
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I'll reply to other posts tomorrow when alone, I am truly grateful for all your help and support, just had to say omg of course!!! I actually brought it up because I don't want to leave him behind for 2 weeks, I'd miss him too much. He's mine and it's funny but he's treated me better than a lot of men lol (gives me an honest to god kiss after I give him wet food [yes, it does stink], brings me gifts [dead mice artfully arranged], is always gentle with claws/bites, comes when I call him, shows gr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:32 AM
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Thank you. I really appreciate your input. I'll chat with my landlord and see what we can do. I think debt forgiveness is not the best for me financially, but the most diplomatic option. "You can find a man who doesn't ever abuse you, seriously." Ya know?! I used to take pride in the fact that I could take A LOT of abuse, like take a beating and keep on eating kind of thing, but what kind of interplanetary pickme insanity is that? I changed my mind about a year ago and have been seriously workin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:19 AM
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Thank you. May I ask what you think about the ~2k he owes me? Ask for it back (it would likely be paid back very slowly, if at all), or let it go and say it can count as rent for the months I won't be there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:04 AM
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Thank you. Gotta figure out how to cover my ass with the lease and get all my crap to the coast. I don't want to leave him with one piece of me, he's had more than his share. What do you think about the ~2k he owes me? Should I ask to paid via app while I'm gone or just settle with him keeping it (as goodwill for skipping out)? He and friend have potential for nastiness and I thought letting him have it might ensure some safety for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:54 AM
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Don't let people borrow money you can't afford to lose Don't date old men Work on your resume and interviewing skills Sound advice that I will be following from now on. I don't think I'll be lending anyone not related to me money ever again. I did not protect myself well. Thank you for your input.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:46 AM
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Dubious and fair point. Part of the reason for wanting to stick out the lease is also to protect myself in case I can't get my name off it. All our names are on the lease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:40 AM
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A big one: Nothing is ever their fault. They find a way to blame anything and everyone but themselves. E.g. they got fired because their boss is a jackass, they got a bad grade because the class sucks and the professor is stupid. Don't expect them to ever think they were in the wrong, see your point of view, and especially apologize. Easily apparent things: They don't really dress their age, or dress inappropriately for the situation, or a general sloppy appearance (hygiene comes with this too) …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:22 AM
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Ooooh good one, My Neighbor Totoro too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:49 PM
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Matilda, The Secret of Roan Inish (Irish movie, great watch for adults too), possibly Little Women (1994), possibly the Secret Garden (In Which lousy people become good people). They were all movies I watched as a child and enjoyed. I also really liked the Count of Monte Cristo, Watership Down, and The Red Violin as a child lol (not exactly kid friendly but sometimes that's good, I'd say watch them first to see if you think they're appropriate).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:48 PM
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Maybe time to cut computer privileges and go volunteer at a women's shelter?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:20 PM
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You're not being paranoid, they want to jack off to your pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:16 AM
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I recommend trying to formulate your feelings where you are responsible for them. Like instead of "he made me feel," try " I feel ugly because x, y , z." Just do this with yourself, in your head to practice. It feels good to take ownership of your thoughts and actions. YOU run your life, YOU own your feelings, and YOU are responsible for taking care of yourself and your headspace. Later down the line during arguments, I demand that others also do this XD I did not make you feel sad, you feel sad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 03:32 AM
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