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THEORYHannahjasmine444/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 01:01 AM
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He does love our baby but he is much more unprepared than he led me to believe going into this situation… either that or I’m really stupid I’ve been with him for 4 years :/
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/22 04:32 AM
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Thankyou so much It really means the world to have your encouragement and support :))
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/22 12:07 AM
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Yes Thankyou so much for your solidarity, I initially didn’t think too much becuase I was so focused on just having baby settle but now I’m really focusing on keeping bubba safe :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/22 12:04 AM
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I knew about shaken baby syndrome and assumed my husband did too, he obviously didn’t and got freaked out. Our bubba was crying all day and to be fair hubby was being good until that point, but it might have been his last straw
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/22 12:02 AM
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I didn’t before now I was feeling a little overwhelmed and just wanted the most based response possible before I got freaked out by other responses who might say to leave my husband 😓 I’ll pop it there though now I’m feeling more comfortable
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/22 12:00 AM
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Thankyou this is really valuable, and a huge deal I might have to look more into this becuase I honestly had no clue
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 10:30 PM
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Yes, that could be something to work on with him, I’ll definitely pay attention. Thankyou!
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 09:40 PM
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I am a very hard person to offend, in fact being blunt is almost preferred. I’m somewhat sheltered (by choice) from negative media and news, while I can assume what you mean by mommies wishing they could go back and the choices I need to make I’d love some clarification on this. If you don’t feel comfortable replying within the thread please message me as I’d love to tackle this situation from all sides ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 09:39 PM
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Yes, I agree we need a safety plan!
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 09:36 PM
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He’s had paranoid tendencies and wouldn’t be the type to say he has anxiety but I would say he does. Rough upbringing and all that. Not sure about the ptsd though
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 08:16 PM
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Thankyou! Yes I can handle his cries and if I’m overwhelmed just breastfeed him which always works. This is really helpful I’m not sure he even knows any stress responses like that which was silly of me to assume he did :/
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 08:08 PM
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He’s the kind of man who never cries (not even at our wedding or when bubba was born) and doesn’t talk to other people about what’s going on in his life at all! Not even me sometimes, I’m sure it’s a trauma response, he has mentioned his father never listening to him even before his father left. So that might be it, I could tell him but I don’t know if he would frown upon me
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 08:06 PM
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I will make a follow up post, but I brought it up to him last night, very calmly and clearly and he just scoffed when I brought up that he would need help, and said I was being dramatic. I didn’t push the issue but tried to explain how dangerous it was and he just said whatever… not sure where to go from here
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 08:02 PM
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Ah! You are a balm to my soul! We’ve had a couple of situations earlier on in our relationship that many women would have absolutely left the relationship, I don’t subscribe to that mindset. I’m in it for the long haul and hearing that you’re so similar warms my heart! I will take you up on that support offer! God bless you!
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 02:42 AM
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Wow! This is fantastic advice! Our baby is the first grandchild on both sides and he doesn’t have any friends (in general) who have had babies to compare it to! I think he just assumed I would be calming and having the baby all the time becuase that’s what his dad did. That’s also relieving to know with the right help it hopefully won’t take years, we do want lots of kids ☺️ I love being a mother but I can’t do it by myself
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 02:17 AM
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Ooh! I don’t know that’s an excellent point to bring up :))
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 02:12 AM
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Are we the same person? 😂 You’ve just described your relationship as extremely similar to my own, even your personality traits align with mine and I’m left feeling so encouraged by your wisdom and point of view! I worked so much on myself in the last few years to get to we’re i am and now I suppose it’s his turn to do the same. It’s also good to hear he didn’t go to therapy (sort of?) rather it’s affirming to know that he still improved so much without it! I’m not confident in my ability to help…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 02:11 AM
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Thankyou, he has improved so much since I’ve met him and still had lots to work on but I didn’t realise it was so bad until this came up. He loves our baby and me so much it’s almost like he’s struggling with two personalities when he gets frustrated. I won’t be leaving bubba around him without my supervision until he sorts out those regulation issues but who knows how long that will take? Years? Especially since we wanted lots of kids before this, I still do but I didn’t count on handling it al…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 01:51 AM
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Yes, I chatted to a parenting hotline who suggested therapy, he is just so adverse to talking to other people about issues. He doesn’t even know I speak to a therapist, he didn’t even cry at our wedding so..? I’m not sure how to broach the topic of getting therapy with him, I’m very non confrontational
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 01:47 AM
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Ah! Thankyou Thankyou! My husband is a wonderful man and he has come so far from when I had first met him, he has a lot of emotional issues to work out based around childhood trauma and I just didn’t expect this issue to come up like it has in such a physical way. I’m so encouraged to hear your story! Was there anything specific that helped you with these issues?
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 01:44 AM
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Huh, well I mostly have done everything becuase he gets easily agitated, and I didn’t want to bother him with taking the baby. And I have worked on my emotional stability so much that having a crying baby and caretaking is much easier for me. But I thought that he might finally be in a parenting headspace to take the baby without feeling like it’s a burden when baby is crying and not just happy.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 01:42 AM
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Tapping into what is traditional/ ancestral for our roles as women Having a Meek and Gentle Spirit Taking care of your outer beauty Caretaking (my husband and newborn son) Taking pride and joy in homemaking Being an emotional ‘rock’ of peace for my husband to come home to (this took a lot of work) Cooking yummy and healthy foods a general sense of selflessness that is constantly worked on -
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 09:50 AM
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Such a beautiful idea for any job or stressful situation when you want to switch to a more feminine mindset! Thankyou!
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/22 10:56 PM
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I found that food was one of the BEST things for me personally! When I didn’t eat on time or ate crappy foods it exacerbated the tiniest swings in my mood. This may not fix any issues but it goes such a long way to helping you stabilise throughout the day! Irritability and tiredness from a lack of nutrients can throw you off course, make sure those basic human needs are met first and foremost, if you don’t have your basic needs met then your body will struggle to make up for it! That being said,…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/22 10:57 PM
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If you don’t have a uniform do your best to dress as graceful and elegant as possible, show you femininity through the way you walk, talk and your mannerisms. Giving compliments about other the other women in your work environment and their feminine traits goes a long way too!
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/22 10:42 PM
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I used to be the entertainer of my group, it gets draining to hold that up when that same energy isn’t returned to you. I got so drained that I pulled myself away from my group entirely, I wish I had done it differently, but in my home life and with closer friends I still laughed and made comments but I became picky about what I laughed about and did a quick mental check with most of the jokes I wanted to make (did it contribute to the conversation? Did it genuinely bring me joy?) becuase if it …
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/22 10:25 PM
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Oh! My son and I always help pack my husbands lunch in the morning and then stand by the window to wave him off to work We have taco night where anyone in the extended family is welcomed over if they can make it We enjoy before sleep cuddles as we co-sleep and it’s so special!
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/22 03:24 AM
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